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Lol he didn't say to use those lines. He just gave examples of light heartedness. It really doesn't matter what you say at that moment, if she's into you, she's into you. If she's not, she's not.
/r/seduction10/09/25 04:00 PM
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Not sure at all why you were downvoted. These are fine. I usually just invite them to smoke or after party somewhere if I'm not sure, if I don't care about outcome, if she says I'm going home, I'd probaly say "ooo, I wanna go to your home too" and gauge her reaction etc
/r/seduction10/09/25 12:53 PM
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Uh no, excuse me. They call me coon or uncle tom..not ignorant. Get it right
/r/seduction06/09/25 07:39 PM
6

Ouch...this guy doesn't understand per capita. Or how to Google US crime rates from the Department of justice. I would feel bad, but you calling people rasict and stupid unironically is too perfect. Take a look in the mirror lol
/r/seduction06/09/25 03:33 PM
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Nooo, it couldn't be that! It must be because the color of his skin. It's almost laughable how these types can't stop making it about skin color.
/r/seduction06/09/25 02:01 PM
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Lol...yea and white people commit crimes too...but we both know there's a group of people who do more crimes thsn whites. And same for illegal migration. We know there's a group of people who illegally cross more than whites. You can pretend it's all equal theres no difference except the color of skin. Pretend America is rasict all you want lol Btw I'm not white so I wonder how you'll attack me since you can't call me rasict hah
/r/seduction06/09/25 01:41 PM
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It always gotta be about the color of their skin huh? Lol
/r/seduction06/09/25 12:59 PM
6

Bars hasn't been a thing since 2019? Being a regular is day dreaming? Whatever flips your skirt, guy 2. A more realistic option? Buddy, you gave a different option
/r/seduction06/09/25 06:16 AM
4

Not really. More Like your local bar, sports bar where you know the other local regulars, the bar tender knows your drink etc Unless you're talking bout those bar restaraunt type steakhouses. If not then no cause you'll be tucked away in a booth, not knowing or seeing anybody
/r/seduction06/09/25 02:46 AM
15

Wherever I'm a regular at. Gotta show her my social proof lol
/r/seduction06/09/25 01:40 AM
1

No, it's so much energy going out like that at 37
/r/seduction05/09/25 12:46 PM
8

100% I heard something that took me a while to understand but helped me understand why I was so successful with women early on despite not being great looking. "My self esteem is so low, it's high" What that means to me was that my self esteem was low. So I didn't think I could get the girl. so I never tried and didn't act any different around them. By not acting like the rest of the chaser guys, and just being my unbothered self, it came off as confidence. Like someone with high self esteem of …
/r/seduction05/09/25 02:17 AM
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You're probaly dripping with outcome dependency. Don't be emo about it, talking about hope blah blah You can want it BAD, super bad. That's good. Determination is needed. But Hide it you mofo lol. Otherwise you come off thirsty/needy/maidenless Be cool. Be chill. You need to just get good talking to women. So talk to as many as you can. That means, talk to them without trying to pickup or get something out of them. That means, old ladies, the bag girl at super market, girls you find ugly, hot gi…
/r/seduction04/09/25 10:30 PM
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I was peak mid 20s. I was going out tp bar clubs like 5 days a week. Now? Eff that. So much energy. I'm 37 now lol
/r/seduction04/09/25 09:07 PM
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Ah, you did have something nice planned..ah okay. Not my style. Dating is expensive and it's a numbers game. Like I said I don't date women until she's my girlfriend. That said, if you went from something nice, and she flaked, she'll flake agsin entirely if you just invite her back to house. Which high chance if yall haven't met or sex isnt already on table. Which hey, shoot the shot. however. I can tell you do want more cause if it's just sex I'd have already move on OR not be affected by the f…
/r/seduction04/09/25 07:15 PM
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Have yall exchanged sexual pictures? Like enough where you can just invite her to house? Like I only invite girls cold to my house when its obvious sex is open. Not really girls I've never met once OR without key attraction markers. If not, then I'd invite her to a bar with friends, or something low stakes. And you word it like it's whatever tp you. Hey, im going out with some friend to so and so, you can come with. I'll buy you sugary girly drinks. That way if she flakes you're still doing your…
/r/seduction04/09/25 06:09 PM
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First of all, whats your goal? To smash or relationship. If smash, don't even acknowledge the flake negatively. Make a joke out of it but beware, if she doesn't think your game is up to snuff it'll come off like your not joking/salty. Which lets face it, probaly is to her since she flaked Keep frame, unbothered/you just got another girl to take her place on that flaked date, kind of thing. No big deal, you got other options type vibe. Which means don't be salty or a bitch, keep it funny, flirty.…
/r/seduction04/09/25 05:42 PM
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Okay so effed up already if she already hit you with the doesn't want relationship. It means she's picked up on your incongruency. I e you SAID you want to be friends but she can tell you like her. Also, youre missing KEY context by using the word friend. It works when you're already pre selected. When she can see women like you and she KNOWS you have options. And you still have to flirt. covertly/not overly sexual with her. Otherwise she just assumes you're a fuckboy and just wanna be friends w…
/r/seduction01/09/25 02:10 PM
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Womp womp. IG on the bio is one of my big dating profile redflags. The reasons are subtle and nuanced and too detailed for the amount of words I want to text atm. But then again, im more of an in person/meet out vs online dating too
/r/seduction31/08/25 06:09 PM
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How are your knees old man. Sage advice
/r/seduction29/08/25 01:21 PM
1

Huh?
/r/seduction27/08/25 12:25 PM
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Lol That's over with. Men don't approach like they used to. Men will most likely stop and talk with you by virtue you are a girl talking to them. So initiate and Men will go from there most times.
/r/seduction26/08/25 11:45 PM
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Idk You messing with fire. Theres a fine balance hitting on girls while they're at work. In my experience, the girls who actually want you to hit on them make it known. Theyre enthusiastic talking with you, ask you questions etc. So you don't approach, per se. More like you say hello, how are you today as you walk by her. Make observational humor on whatever she's working on at the time gain traction through lil social norms like that, over days or weeks, until she gets to the point where she is…
/r/seduction24/08/25 02:28 PM
2

I dont know about crush but I'd say yea, typically other women will like you too
/r/seduction21/08/25 10:17 PM
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Like most men, it depends how hot she is. Well literally die for her if she's hot enough to us
/r/seduction21/08/25 06:58 PM
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Maaan, I avoid long text conversations. It sucks up all the intresting things you can bring up in person. And most girls(people in general) ARENT intresting. But everyone has something they are intrested in. So Be curious about a subject they know and anything can be intresting
/r/seduction18/08/25 08:28 PM
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Absolutely. Be in shape, that keeps you looking young.
/r/seduction17/08/25 07:25 PM
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If it happened once or twice I'd say some girls are weird/play hard to get after sex. But a few instances means it's you. Your sex game has some holes most likely. Or you're completely dropping ball post sex, but if sex was good it excuses a lot of things. You not eating pussy? Also you might be too forward, directly sexual, making it seem like that's all you want
/r/seduction16/08/25 11:08 PM
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If you're being out outcome dependant, then yes. But if you're hoping for specific outcome with women instead of focusing on being fun and humorous and seeing where it goes, then you're approaching women wrong in the first place.
/r/seduction15/08/25 06:09 AM
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Idk, whatever city that dont have any women
/r/seduction14/08/25 05:50 AM
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Yes But the thing is If you're a friendly guy, not even flirting, you're just being social, people perceive that as flirting. So I've had girls say "I see you flirting with every girl" even though I'm not really. as long as I stay friendly, and fun and avoid any fuck boy type vibes, it's works FOR you, not against you
/r/seduction13/08/25 04:45 PM
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Highschool This girl I was crushing on made things seem one way only to change up and get with the senior. I vowed to never compete for a girl again and if they can't see I'm better, I'll find the one who will
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:21 PM
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Yea, Japanese girls like clean cut white guys And Asians in general if we're being real. But If you got yen, no matter who you are, there's plenty of ways to get sex. I.e actually paying for sex, massage, soapy lands, buy me drinkie bars lol
/r/seduction09/08/25 08:24 PM
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Well. Are you white? Easier chance for sure. If not? Well. Good luck lol I lived there for 2 years. If you want sex, there's plenty to go around if you got the yen lol
/r/seduction09/08/25 05:35 PM
5

Too eager bro. Let shit marinate
/r/seduction09/08/25 02:38 AM
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Oh lol, well then respect your mom. Abundance mindset. There will be more girls you can meet that won't cause friction with your mother
/r/seduction07/08/25 02:52 PM
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Women actively avoid eye contact with men they're not intrested in. That's why it's a HUGE sign if she's staring at you, and especially if she doesn't look away when you look back. That's a situation where you have to approach. I'd probaly open her with something humble/funny Hey I saw you looking and I needed to know if it's cause I have something in my teeth? smile Are you type to let me know? , so many people wouldn't, okay pinky promise you'd tell me, etc... idk thst was just off top of head…
/r/seduction07/08/25 01:38 PM
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You dont have many women as friends do you?
/r/seduction06/08/25 06:31 PM
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Lol You got a lot to learn about women.
/r/seduction06/08/25 06:29 PM
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This is basic, but your first dates should be places you're known. So you get social proof you're not a creep and actually have friends. Either you're a regular at the local restaraunt/bar, or venue where you play. Cause you do play out right? Or atleast GO to local open mics or jams where the regulars know you? Right? Probaly not if you're asking. So have a social circle. Invite girl to hang with you in your social circle. I basically don't even date women until she's actually my girlfriend. We…
/r/seduction06/08/25 05:47 PM
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The women who will devote themselves to you like that believe you're the one. The type where you'd have arguments about spending time apart with your friends, cause she wants to be around you all the time. Which I much prefer that, over arguing because you don't spend enough time together. But yea, Never betray that trust and treat her like how she treats you. I got greedy. And complacent. I felt her love for me was so strong we'd be together forever. So I was inadvertently feeding into her inse…
/r/seduction05/08/25 04:04 PM
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I fucked it up
/r/seduction05/08/25 03:06 PM
1

Negging is just the modern term for playground teasing. If you tease in a funny way, success. If you tease in a not funny way, fail. Negging/teasing the right way is critical since the base rule is to treat girls, the same way you'd treat your guy friends. I.e youre jokey, comfortable, familiar
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:04 PM
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No bro..
/r/seduction05/08/25 01:36 PM
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One time like 8 dates. She was...maybe still, the love of my life. Never found a girl to love me like that since. Perfect storm of first true adult love at 27
/r/seduction05/08/25 01:35 PM
1

Well parties is way easier than clubs You have to have them both engaged the whole time. so your conversation needs to be with both of them until one of two things happen. You've made a great impression and they're both laughing and enjoying your commentary, so the one you opened sticks around you or Youve made that same great impression so you can reopen a conversation with her a lil later. In clubs that's trickier, but in parties that's preferred as you can't move too fast If you're not fun or…
/r/seduction05/08/25 12:42 AM
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Body language is king in club game. One of my old tricks/basic club game was to NEVER LEAN IN. You can't hear her talking? Point to your ear and mouth the words "I can't hear you" She'll lean in to you. There's probaly a lot of lil things like that you're not doing. Cause if you can get the dance, that's 50% of the hard stuff out of the way already. Girls see when you're dancing with other girls. And will approach you if you're doing it right. I.e not dancing overtly sexual but dancing like you'…
/r/seduction03/08/25 01:49 PM
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You'll get the fuckboy stereotype by just your natural personality if you're doing it right. Meaning, people will see you're a charismatic dude who is seen with different women. If you stay humble and have a "I'm not a player, I just crush a lot" authenticity to you, you'll get a lot of women who'll say I thought you were a fuckboy but you're so different Also, Yes, being known for a highbody count can work for you often, but it will work against you when you're looking for a serious relationshi…
/r/seduction29/07/25 12:26 AM
3

In my experience I got way less replies vs just having a funny profile. Besides they only care about how attractive you are on dating apps these days
/r/seduction11/07/25 04:51 PM
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there's definitely a balance needed. Generally you want to follow the rule "as much as she wants to see you" I've had girls obsessed with me who want to be over and spend the night with me every day. But you do have to make sure that doesn't happen too much. because whatever you allow in the relationship is a huuuge struggle to walk back/change up. But I'd always rather argue for time apart then arguing to see each other more. on the flip, I've also had other girls I'd see once or a couple times…
/r/seduction27/06/25 11:26 PM
1

yea and if you have no hands you can't play guitar. so? for the men who are desirable/have worked on becoming desirable, it's no myth lol You'll get there
/r/seduction27/06/25 07:42 PM
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women gatekeep sex with men men gatekeep long term commitment/marriage women sell the dream to prospective men that they might get sex from her. men sell the dream to prospective women that they might get a relationship from us. balanced. As all things should be
/r/seduction27/06/25 07:09 PM
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I mean how much are you harmlessly touching. high fives, grabbing her hand to walk through crowd to bar, tap her elbow with your elbow when you make a cheeky joke. one Arm around the shoulder for a quick hug etc Shiii, I used to play thumb wars too if you're slowly getting her comfortable with your touch the kiss comes easy.
/r/seduction27/06/25 01:18 PM
3

if your dick long enough you can feel it for confirmation. I always felt it heh
/r/seduction25/06/25 05:18 AM
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the best advice is to use it as a compliment jumping off point. "I'm glad she has good friends that care about her" I've had her friends, older brothers and even orbitors say stuff to me and that's how I usually respond.
/r/seduction08/06/25 02:18 PM
2

negging, the word is outdated, but the concept is eternal. poking fun/making jokes/cheekiness will never be outdated
/r/seduction23/05/25 02:29 PM
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definitely not. Girls are subconsciously on high alert for neediness/clingyness after first time you had sex. it would work in very very specific context in a few situations but not just simply because you had sex
/r/seduction16/05/25 11:05 PM
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you didn't move fast enough. you probaly friend zoned yourself by not hitting on her/taking the lead. Then not saying hi, probaly made her think you don't like her at all OR if you're too chatty in text but shy in real life gives liar/inconsistent vibes
/r/seduction07/05/25 03:06 PM
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lol uh no. we don't care how confident you are, matter fact, confident women are ones who hit on men, so some men even prefer it. we're intimidated by how hot you are.
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:03 PM
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the girls who are okay being side chicks are really promiscuous anyways. They consider YOU the side piece lol
/r/seduction03/05/25 11:07 PM
3

bars and hang in the smoke pit.
/r/seduction03/05/25 12:00 AM
1

clear choice is a 6, is this even a question heh
/r/seduction25/04/25 04:49 AM
1

lol I literally never ask or care to ask. I never talk about my past relationships unless asked, nor do I ask her about hers. Just focus on making her feel things when around you. On the flipside this Is part of how you'll become the guy women will cheat on you with. If you don't know, you don't know
/r/seduction12/04/25 05:20 PM
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how close are they? Does she disapprove of anything this friend does or is she always defending her? I would slow play it, be cool, act like it don't bother you because you want to keep her being open and honest with you. Act accordingly if and when it escalates
/r/seduction23/03/25 05:27 AM
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you're young. When you're ready and tired of meaningless pussy, you'll be repulsed by them in your older age. The risk of std and or pregnancy with such a girl at 30+ is a fear that keeps you on the path lol
/r/seduction17/03/25 03:20 AM
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that's their journey. The story, the movie where they are the main character in their head. Without that, the relationship falls apart in some cases lol. Some pimp from another time once said "sometimes you gotta create a lil chaos you can control or else shell create the chaos" So let her believe she can change you, give her something to strive for lol
/r/seduction06/03/25 06:10 AM
2

lol dating apps are the pits bro, it's known
/r/seduction02/03/25 04:46 PM
2

that's your first mistake. You go sexual as early as possible so your intentions are clear
/r/seduction28/02/25 08:58 PM
3

probaly communicated neediness and it turned her off man. You came off super needy to me...you took her out thursday, and she texted you the next day friday and you send a HUGE red flag text of "why have you not talked to me all day" neediness. If this is how you are now, she could probaly only imagine the clinginess. So either A, stop. or B, find someone who will appreciate the clinginess and all day texting.
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:42 AM
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