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The women do tend to leave quicker. We kind of live in an age of abundance (because of the sacrifices of the men before us), where the world is not fertile ground for the types of life-long relationships previous generations had. We’re in this weird time where the institutions that might have protected a woman from being destitute after making a TOUGH decision to leave their legitimately “abusive” husband (as opposed to today where literally every post you see on the divorce sub is about a “narc…
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 09:33 PM
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The leaving the changing table thing might not play but if you have her on camera hitting your daughter, that’s gonna be a problem for her.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/22 12:39 AM
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These things are so situation dependent, it’s hard to give blanket advice. How complex is your financial situation? How amicable is your divorce? Kids? All need to be taken into account and I’ll tell you from experience that the first time you tell your story to someone is the authentic version of it. It’s where you get it all out. If your situation is complex or contentious - don’t use that initial story here. Use it on someone who can truly help you or point you in the right direction. Find a …
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/22 10:55 PM
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What parts resonated most with you?
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 06:11 PM
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I hear you bro. As long as THAT’S the reasoning I don’t see a problem with it personally. I just know too many men who expect to be emotionally rewarded for being kind. Myself included.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 05:01 PM
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If there’s some hope of reconciliation I would consider that a winning arrangement compared to complete separation/divorce. If your “ex” is dating - if there’s literally a blowup every time you talk - if there’s no hope of reconciliation- I would say separation is preferable in those cases. Barring those specific circumstances, I’m an advocate of staying together for the kids and working through the issues in the relationship if they’re open to it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 04:26 PM
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I’d ask you to consider not doing this. By co-signing the lease, you’re not helping bring your family back. You’re facilitating her leaving. You’re participating in it. I couldn’t stomach knowing that she was banging some dude in a home I helped her get into. I helped my ex too much during the moving process and I got nothing for it. Every man wants to think they’ll be rewarded by Karma or just get some satisfaction of knowing they tried. Ironically the people with the best outcomes (best chance…
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 04:21 PM
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Correct. Don’t sign that dude.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 04:08 PM
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I worked at Morgan Stanley for a bit, and DO NOT take my word for it - but I’m fairly sure it’s based on the date of final settlement. If not the date of actual transfer.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 04:01 PM
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Don’t sign that, king.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 03:39 PM
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Your kids are going to resent the FUCK out of her.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 03:39 PM
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It’s gross and it probably comes from them being single for so long that most of the people in their “roster” just want to fuck when they want and then continue on with their lives lol. I dipped my toes in that world and said “I’m good.” Can’t see anything positive long term from just banging people with no emotional connection
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 03:38 PM
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I’m sorry man. No one deserves that.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 07:08 AM
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I was looking for something a little more intimate in my final moments than a heavyset Haitian nurse mumbling to me - but I’m an optimist.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 01:32 AM
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Yup. Been there. I had a month and a half starting in August after I had an epiphany that I was never getting my family back where I just started banging every hot girl that I could. Slept with 5 girls in a month and a half. Never cheated or fucked up in my relationship for 10 years, but once I felt it was really over I had a phase where I said “fuck it”. Then about a month ago I had a date with a woman, I took her to dinner. We ended up fucking in her car. I came home and the first girl I hooke…
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 12:33 AM
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In 90% of situations I totally agree with you, but if my ex ever had the introspection to ask “are we doing the right thing?” Uh… No. No we’re not lol. There’s strength in acceptance and moving on - no doubt. But there’s a difference between strength and self immolation.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 12:20 AM
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It’s some sick shit man, I’ll tell you. I don’t like to get too in the weeds with it, because it’s impotent rage and we have to be strong - focus on what we can actually change - but a lot of this has to do with Title IX and the fact that corporations are given preferential treatment by major lending institutions/funds for hiring women in leadership roles and for higher earning positions. They then, through hypergamy, believe that they’re entitled to a better life and don’t “need” their men. In …
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 12:10 AM
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And if you need any further proof of the kind of damage this does to children and their development, go to the StepParents subreddit. Look at how they talk about their step kids. Imagine your child being treated/thought of like that for 50% of their lives. And these are the ones the biological parent MARRIED. Let’s not talk about the countless number of people that have to be met, the smaller number dated, and the fraction of those introduced to your child before you find “the one” during the li…
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/22 11:58 PM
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I wish you the best, Gorbachev.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/22 11:45 PM
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Did you leave or did she? It’s hard on kids. There’s no way to really soften that reality. On these Reddit divorce forums, they seem to really almost RELISH in breaking up a home. But the reality is that a child is much happier with both their mother and father in the home. You’ll get confirmation bias from people on Reddit telling you otherwise - but if there’s a chance of reconciling for your children, I’d explore it. The pain isn’t just the initial shock and hurt of their parents breaking up.…
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/22 11:43 PM
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Have you not had sex since the breakup?
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/22 11:32 PM
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Man this really touched me. My ex and I split in February of this year. She told me she no longer loved me in December of last year. We have two young daughters. I tried to tell her that family is all we really have. She seemed to be proud to leave me because she makes more money than me, she feels like she wants to move on to a “new chapter” in her life. I tried everything to make her see what really matters at the end of everything. I tried to get her to go to marriage counseling. She wouldn’t…
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/22 11:26 PM
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