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GeneralFar-Independent4740/r/MensRights03/04/26 06:40 PM
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I think having to rely on makeup is a punishment in itself. No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 10:57 AM
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I disagree.
/r/MensRights27/07/26 08:43 PM
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I think if weighted properly, so the amount they can get is proportional to the time spent together and the amount of work sacrificed to raise the chidlren, then it would be fair. But that must be damn near impossible to calculate.
/r/MensRights26/07/26 04:48 PM
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Fair point. My statement should only apply to people who support that double standard. If you're happy to benefit from prejudice against straight men, then you should be equally happy to shoulder the responsibilities that usually fall almost entirely on them.
/r/MensRights26/07/26 05:53 AM
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I can't imagine there being a good reason to cane boys but not girls.
/r/MensRights25/07/26 06:35 PM
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How about next time there's a war, a violent crime, or a fire, men should take a step back and let women, people of colour, and the queer community step up and deal with it.
/r/MensRights25/07/26 05:07 PM
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Good work. Next, we need a better way to calculate FtM and FtF violence, because at the moment, almost all day to day violence perpetrated by women isn’t recorded in the statistics.
/r/MensRights24/07/26 08:41 PM
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The rape example people often cite is the FBI changing its definition in 2012. It expanded beyond vaginal penetration, so male victims who were penetrated (e.g. male-on-male rape) were included. That was largely a by-product of broadening the definition to include other forms of penetration. So it wasn't them directly campagning on men's behalf. And, it's worth mentioning, it still requires the victim to be penetrated. Men forced or coerced into penetrating a woman are still not counted as rape …
/r/MensRights24/07/26 07:52 PM
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One of the biggest trend reversals is that feminism is slowly becoming a dirty word. Many institutions and parts of the media still act as though the movement enjoys universal support, but more people are starting to push back. A growing number now don't identify as a feminist, because they see a very vocal subset of feminists use activism as a cover for anti-male prejudice. As feminism's stranglehold over government and media loosens, I think men's issues will gradually start receiving the same…
/r/MensRights24/07/26 06:26 PM
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Go to HR. The only way society changes is when normal people like you and me start applying the same standards.
/r/MensRights24/07/26 03:21 PM
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We definitely need to give new instruction to the police. They really should be trained to deal with female on male abuse and false accusations. And that shouldn't be lower down on the priority list than other crimes. This is a top down policy that needs to be changed at government level first, before we start seeing any real change.
/r/MensRights24/07/26 05:53 AM
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Sorry dude, yeah I would not want to fight in that war either. I would rather go to prison that kill innocent people for a bloodthirsty tyrant.
/r/MensRights23/07/26 06:52 PM
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I completely agree. More and more men - and women - are becoming sick of the constant demonisation of anything associated with men or masculinity. A backlash is definitely on the horizon.
/r/MensRights23/07/26 06:20 PM
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I have great respect for the people who serve in the armed forces. Abolishing the military wouldn’t abolish war; it would simply leave peaceful people at the mercy of those willing to use violence against them. Who would have stopped Nazi Germany if most people had shared your beliefs? The reality is that there will always be dangerous people in this world who are willing to fight, invade and dominate others. We would be naive to assume that humanity's propensity for violence will simply disappe…
/r/MensRights23/07/26 06:09 PM
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A feminists typical response to defending misandry is "only men rape." Error no. That's not true.
/r/MensRights23/07/26 06:14 AM
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I should probably do the same.
/r/MensRights21/07/26 02:07 PM
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Welcome dude. Not many safe spaces on reddit. I've just been on this post, just look at all the upvotes for people saying misandry either doesn't really exist or is understandable. https://www.reddit.com/r/HonestHotTakes/comments/1v1sxor/men_know_what_causes_misandry_they_just_wont/
/r/MensRights21/07/26 02:01 PM
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Girl should go to prison. Don't care she was a minor at the time. 2 years behind bars, same as her innocent father. Those judges should also be sacked.
/r/MensRights18/07/26 09:25 PM
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I'm for conscription. There are plenty of ways women could help in a war effort. Being pro conscription for men and anti conscription for women is sexist.
/r/MensRights15/07/26 04:15 AM
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This has played out countless times. A simple way to test whether someone is applying a consistent standard is to repeat their argument with the genders reversed. If they suddenly reach a different conclusion, you've identified their double standard. At that point, they'll often start repeating buzzwords like "systemic oppression" or "patriarchy" to argue that the situations are fundamentally different. Call out their double standards regardless. And you know when they can't answer and resort to…
/r/MensRights12/07/26 06:41 PM
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Rape victims shouldn't automatically be prioritised over innocent men accused of crimes they didn't commit. The justice system should treat both with equal seriousness. If a man is convicted of rape, he should go to prison. If a woman is proven to have deliberately made a false rape allegation, they should go to prison. At the moment, many rapists escape prison. But if we are talking injustice, almost all false accusers escape prison. The law needs to change.
/r/MensRights11/07/26 05:06 PM
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Keyboard courage. Complete mindless idiots.
/r/MensRights05/07/26 03:22 PM
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First of all, 'believe all women' needs to be removed from legislation and law enforcement - we need to go back to innocent until proven guitly. Secondly, automatic 50/50% custody has to be the norm. How anyone can argue that isn't fair doesn't know the meaning of the word.
/r/MensRights05/07/26 04:36 AM
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It just shows the state of the world we live in. It doesn't matter if its a comedy book or fiction. Reverse the gender and change the crime - grape, assault or, keep it as it is, murder - and there would certainly be public outrage. Society has never been so unashamedly anti-male.
/r/MensRights04/07/26 09:38 PM
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That's outrageous. If it were across the board, I'd still find it a bit harsh but specifically one gender? How the hell does the government get away with that?
/r/MensRights02/07/26 07:29 PM
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Did you tell HR she swore a lot too? And if they ask you about making her feel uncomfortable, ask for the evidence. Record interactions where possible. Keep doors open so she can't make any false allegations. Keep doing what you are doing - only talk work with her and nothing else.
/r/MensRights01/07/26 04:22 PM
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Dude, she missed a period 5 weeks after you broke up. You might not be the father. Get a paternity test before making any major decisions. Have you even asked her if the baby is yours?
/r/MensRights30/06/26 04:58 AM
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Ask ChatGPT to list predominantly male issues: suicide, workplace fatalities, incarceration, homelessness, paternity fraud, false accusations, harsher criminal sentencing, falling behind in education, dangerous jobs, military conscription, family court outcomes, lower life expectancy, and lower rates of seeking mental health support. Then ask whether it's accurate to dismiss these as less significant than women's issues.
/r/MensRights29/06/26 10:54 AM
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I think the media amplifies the loudest, most batshit-crazy voices. Plenty genuinely believe most men are dangerous - just look at the whole man vs. bear thing. Then you get slogans like, "Misogyny kills, misandry hurts feelings," which pretty much sums up what the meme suggests - Many feminists treat men's problems as less important than women's.
/r/MensRights29/06/26 10:52 AM
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"I know you are, but what am I?" Classic.
/r/MensRights28/06/26 07:33 PM
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That's true for recorded crime, not general aggression. Women hit men a lot, statistically at almost the same rate as men, but it's never reported, taken seriously, or recorded, so it won't show up properly in official stats. Jordan Peterson talks a lot about this: men may edge women on overall aggression, but the gap isn't as huge as people think. The real difference is the strength gap. Male violence causes more serious harm, so the outcomes are worse for women in those situations than men.
/r/MensRights28/06/26 05:25 PM
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I agree with all of those statements. They're logically sound, and self-contained. Was that so hard? Give yourself a pat on the back, grab a brew, and celebrate clearing the incredibly low bar of making logically coherent statements.
/r/MensRights28/06/26 05:13 PM
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Do you think that every single woman who enters a male dominated space - like the lady who enjoys basketball - is "innately narcissistic"? I don't. Perhaps a few. Perhaps many. But all? Nope. Qualify your subject pronouns. That's a you issue.
/r/MensRights28/06/26 02:19 PM
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I get that dude, and I totally agree with what you are saying. They can't tolerate the idea that other people could be having fun without it being all about themselves. I know its pedantic but when you say they, it reads like you mean women in general, rather than the women trying to force their way into male-only spaces. I just hate generalisations. So many feminists do it and when they dump on all men and make no distinction, I just stop listening to anything they say. Because half the time, i…
/r/MensRights28/06/26 01:05 PM
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Yeah, this is just the tip of the iceberg. I'd wager that the vast majority of female-on-male abuse goes unreported. As the article mentions: shame, having nowhere to go, the strength gap, fear of being arrested instead, and knowing the woman is more likely to be believed if false accusations are made against him. All make it far less likely that a male victim will seek help or that he'll see justice. Also, why did she only get a 15-year minimum life sentence? Is that normal? It seems pretty sho…
/r/MensRights28/06/26 09:07 AM
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Dude, don't fall into the same trap as the feminists who stereotype all men. Plenty of women are down-to-earth, more logical than emotional, get along with guys, and enjoy guy stuff. Not everything has some hidden agenda.
/r/MensRights28/06/26 06:38 AM
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Because most people - men and women - are actually decent in real life. Media just amplifies the loudest idiots and brings out the worst in everyone.
/r/MensRights27/06/26 07:22 PM
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Women can be just as violent as men. But because of the strength gap, the shame and social stigma male victims of domestic violence often feel, public and police apathy - they obviously have more dangerous things to deal with - and other factors, abuse against men is often ignored and significantly underreported. Think of all the times you've seen a woman slap a man. Did you ever see a single woman reprimanded for it? Ever? Quite the opposite. It's often followed by laughter from onlookers. Ther…
/r/MensRights27/06/26 07:37 AM
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Fantasy and adventure / Sci-fi for me.
/r/MensRights27/06/26 06:47 AM
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Studies have repeatedly shown that women perpetrate physical abuse as much as men do. However, because of social stigma and the physicality gap, women get away with it mostly unpunished. Let's apply the law consistently please.
/r/MensRights21/06/26 06:18 AM
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Awesome.
/r/MensRights16/06/26 03:56 AM
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I didn't mention toxic masculinity. I don't know why everyone is arguing with me. I think what they are doing is incredibly harmful. I was just saying we should focus on the positive. And yes, not masculinity defined by feminists. Masculinity defined by men in the trades, men in essential services, men doing the hard dangerous thankless work, good men, deep thinkers etc... That should be taught to boys at school. Not some feminist nonsense.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 08:27 PM
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I know. That's exactly my point. Female-on-male violence is massively underreported.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 05:29 PM
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I'm not.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 03:05 PM
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That was a typo. I don't think boys should be brainwashed into thinking they are the problem. I think that's fucked up. I think boys (and girls) being shown what positive masculinity and femininity look like is a better way to do things.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 11:16 AM
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I don't understand why people are downvoting. I totally agree.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 11:13 AM
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I think it's good we're moving towards positive masculinity, instead of men rape so men toxic, brainwwash boys into believing they are the problem.. "Almost one in three women have been subjected to intimate partner violence, non-partner sexual violence, or both at least once in their life." I always wonder what the real statistics for men experiencing the same abuse would be? Female on male crime is never reported.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 03:53 AM
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Quite the opposite.
/r/MensRights15/06/26 03:46 AM
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No. Got stuck over there during Covid and having my daughter. Best 8 years of my life. I'm British.
/r/MensRights11/06/26 03:42 AM
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Feminists often argue, "Men are dangerous, look at the stats." My response is that female-on-male abuse and violence is probably massively underreported and often not taken seriously. Men and women are both equally capable of lying, cheating, stealing, or being violent, with the same capacity for good and bad.
/r/MensRights10/06/26 07:42 PM
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Japan. Most men and women are conservative. My wife is more conservative than me 😄
/r/MensRights10/06/26 07:12 PM
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File a police report for following you back to your house. That's stalking / harassment.
/r/MensRights09/06/26 05:11 AM
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I think more and more people are starting to wake up to the double standards. It will take time to filter through to the institutions that govern us, but the tides are turning.
/r/MensRights07/06/26 08:28 PM
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Perhaps use the same language she uses. If she tells you "We got it under control", when she butts in tell her "We got it under control." That should be obvious enough. And if she doesn't back off, than feel free to reciprocate the same persistence when she is asking you to stop. Basically, hold up a mirror.
/r/MensRights06/06/26 06:44 PM
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Most of these people are online. I've only ever met a few of these women in real life. I'd say most people are nice, men and women. But yeah, I don't feel the two should be mutually exclusive but the recurring theme from mentioning men's rights is sexism against men = hurt feelings. Sexism against women = death. They argue using words like patriarchy and systematic which makes (in their eyes) their arguments difinitively correct.
/r/MensRights06/06/26 06:10 AM
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You asked how to reconcile the two. It's not possible. I grew up a femenist. Whenever I mentioned mens rights, that's what happened. So I am no longer a feminist.
/r/MensRights06/06/26 05:21 AM
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Try posting this in a feminist forum, you'll see the two are incompatible. They will ridicule belittle and mock. Seriously, give it a go.
/r/MensRights06/06/26 05:16 AM
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A few things here. First, the elite are a tiny group. Most men and women aren't part of that club, so saying "men benefit from the system" is not true. Second, we've had plenty of women in positions of power in recent history, and they've shown they're just as capable of warmongering and making ruthless decisions as men. I do think we live in a patriarchy, but not in the way feminists usually describe it. Men don't give birth, so we're generally pushed towards work, provision, protection and enf…
/r/MensRights05/06/26 04:39 PM
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So many white Americans have lost touch with their cultural and ancestral roots in order to maintain the American image of whiteness. This is a pretty jaded view, in my opinion. America has an incredible culture. European American's have brought their culture, Black Americans have their own traditions, Irish Americans, Italian Americans, and countless other communities have contributed to what America is today. American culture has given the world a huge amount, from music and film to tech and s…
/r/MensRights04/06/26 05:11 PM
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The fact is that there have been literal legislative campaigns and consequences against many racial minorities, religious minorities, and queer people. Today, discrimination is illegal regardless of race, religion, or sexuality. Are there still assholes out there? Of course. There always will be. But that's not the same thing as institutional discrimination. If you're claiming certain groups are still being systematically discriminated against, I'd be interested to hear exactly what laws or poli…
/r/MensRights04/06/26 05:01 PM
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A lot of people, and especially the media, seem to see everything through this weird hierarchy of victimhood. Minorities at the top, then LGBT people, then women, and right at the bottom are straight white men, who are basically treated as if their problems don't matter because they're seen as the oppressors. The more "oppressed" you're perceived to be, the more weight your opinions seem to carry. Being queer or different in some way can even give you a bit of social status in certain circles. I…
/r/MensRights04/06/26 06:24 AM
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It's considered cool, riské and they get to holla "I don't need no man!" But the commenter above is right. Most women experiment but are jsut a bit bisexually curious, not really gay.
/r/MensRights03/06/26 04:43 PM
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I see extreme feminists and misogynists as much of the same, sitting on opposite ends of the spectrum. Both are full of anger, constantly defending societal double standards, and hating on an entire deomgraphic of people.
/r/MensRights21/05/26 03:46 AM
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Spreading the word will help. In a world where women openly 'choose the bear', we really need more women to stand up and speak out for boys or men. Try posting in feminist forums, though be prepared to be attacked, ridiculed and "boohooed". If anyone listens and understands, that will be one more person that treats boys and men with respect and dignity.
/r/MensRights19/05/26 03:42 AM
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If female on male & female on female violence was taken seriously, prisons would look very different.
/r/MensRights18/05/26 11:57 AM
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Yeah, that's not right. Even if women don't have to fight, those are cruel double standards.
/r/MensRights17/05/26 07:20 PM
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Yeah, door dash girl is going to prison.
/r/MensRights14/05/26 12:41 PM
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Get some audio recordings of their conversations, then go to HR. If nothing is done about, go to HR's higher ups.
/r/MensRights14/05/26 06:09 AM
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Police don't throw women in jail for slapping or assaulting men. If they did, prisons would look very different.
/r/MensRights14/05/26 03:47 AM
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omg
/r/MensRights13/05/26 08:06 PM
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Good HR should be neutral. But yeah, I wouldn't feel great about doing that either.
/r/MensRights13/05/26 07:34 PM
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Harassment dude. You should push back a little. Or perhaps even talk to HR.
/r/MensRights13/05/26 06:59 PM
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All people should be treated fairly under the law. Don't mind if you are for or against, but hate double standards.
/r/MensRights11/05/26 05:47 PM
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Not a big fan.
/r/MensRights11/05/26 05:24 PM
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Female on male and female on female violence is seriously underreported. You say it doesn't kill, but there are countless situations how a woman can completely ruin a man's life, from being emotionally or physically abusive, false allegations, paternity fraud, even rape. But ask yourself, which one of those crimes I mentioned will be counted as a crime or show up in any statistics? None. In some countries, by law, men can't actually be raped because by definition, only someone with a penus can. …
/r/MensRights01/05/26 11:07 AM
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Misandry seems to me more likea socially accepted form of demeaning and belittling men without repercussion. Women post criticisms of their husbands on tictac, call men trash, choose the bear, bully and hit men without legal repurcussion, and deny men have any societal problems, etc... and call men out for exactly the same behaviours they exhibit. It feels like playground bullying tactics. And with a few flash words, like insecure, toxic, controlling, fragile ego, weaponsied incompetence - can g…
/r/MensRights01/05/26 09:45 AM
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That's pretty dangerous for your kid dude, you might want to start discussing this with a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 08:33 PM
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Even if she did want to reconcile, would you want to knowing what she is capable of? Time to close the door on that chapter of your life and move forward. Best of luck dude.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 08:31 PM
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Boys are physical creatures. They need to move, run, bounce, wrestle, etc... and we don't let em. School works for people who are able to sit for prolonged periods of time, which typically girls are much more inclined to do willingly.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 06:05 PM
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Tell the principal. I'm a teacher, that's gross misconduct. Tell them you want to know what the consequences are for that teacher and if they don't act, you can contact your local authority and make an official complaint.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 04:22 PM
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Yep, been on that forum. Not all, but there are a bunch of angry, manhating crazies.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 07:36 PM
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When the economies of the world start failing because of population decline, so will the safety and security bubble women take for granted.
/r/MensRights25/04/26 09:59 AM
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The pendulum has started swinging back. Still a way to go though.
/r/MensRights22/04/26 08:29 PM
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I think social media is heavily biased toward women. These forums often feels like the school playground, and if someone playing the victim says some buzz words like misogynist and toxic, others pile on the support to effectively bully their opponent into submission. I posted a similar thing on a feminist group. Not one person acknowledged that women had a problem. They all mocked it and the gist of what they were saying was either 'boohoo' or the men deserve it. Reddit then gave me a lifetime b…
/r/MensRights22/04/26 03:55 AM
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Extreme views and hatred toward the opposite gender are now more prevalent in women than they are in men. Here's a New Statesman podcast discussing it. http://youtube.com/watch?v=dQRKL4BxrEM
/r/MensRights18/04/26 01:17 AM
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Yeah, we need to stop demonising manhood and start promoting positive masculinity. Let's start having conversations of all the good things men do for society and how to be part of that. Kids have literally nothing to jump on to.
/r/MensRights04/04/26 06:30 PM
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I think more people - both men and women - are pushing back on mainstream feminism that ignores women’s poor behavior. It’s not mainstream yet, but it's gaining traction. Certainly on youtube. I really hope we get to the point where: 1) Child custody is automatically 50 / 50 with no child support. 2) Mandatory Paternity testing at birth. 3) Women who physically assault men get the same prison term a man would. 4) Paternity fraud is punished to the same extent as any other fraud. 5) False allegat…
/r/MensRights04/04/26 05:34 PM
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Yeah, I agree. The whole “believe all women” thing have pushed some into pretty extreme ideological thinking - like the “man vs. bear” stuff. Wild.
/r/MensRights04/04/26 05:16 PM
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No, places like in Hollywood and in companies where there was probably known s abuse. Like Harvey Weinteen being the top dog but everyone had to 'go through' to get a job.
/r/MensRights04/04/26 09:26 AM
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