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| 0 | If a girl is looking 👀 at you across the room... What should you do?🤔Tbh I'd be hesitant to actually use it. It's very risky because she could Not understand that you're joking Understand that you're joking but not appreciate you making fun of women being made uncomfortable by people staring at them | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 10:03 PM |
| 37 | If a girl is looking 👀 at you across the room... What should you do?🤔Walk up to her and ask her to stop staring because it's making you uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Men in their 40s and 50s, do you still not pay for the first/first few date(s)?No, more abundant than when he was a young adult | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 06:02 PM |
| 26 | Girl asked for MY Instagram - Is that a good sign?On the contrary I'd say it's easier for her to ask for your Instagram. She can play it off like she's just being friendly, whereas if she asks for your number it might feel like she's being too forward. | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 10:31 PM |
| 0 | Most Guys Learn This Too LateEveryone knows AI detectors don't work. If you don't want everyone to think your posts are AI, maybe write in a way that doesn't sound so much like a piece of marketing material. Like having every sentence be a new paragraph. And the "Here's why:". It's such an overused and generic format that it can't not look like AI. | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 07:39 AM |
| 12 | “I don’t sleep with guys on the first date” *proceeds to sleep with me on the first date*Whenever anyone specifically denies something, it usually means they think everyone else believes that thing. Seen it lots of times with war too. An announcement that "the front line is totally stable, there's no way the other side is breaking through soon" usually means that the front line is very much at risk and a breakthrough is imminent. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 10:59 PM |
| 14 | Why I Refuse to Choose Between Casual Sex and MonogamyMore ai generated bullshit. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Those who have been banned from tinder (match group) did you ever get unbanned?How do you know that? | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 06:07 AM |
| 4 | Those who have been banned from tinder (match group) did you ever get unbanned?Why can't you make a new account with a new phone number and different photos? | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Help me seduce my male friend into becoming my cuddle buddy (or maybe more?)Where are the mixed signals? The list of things you gave are only positive signals. If a guy does all that stuff with you and he's single, he'd almost certainly be okay with cuddling a bit, and then once he's in bed with you he also almost certainly wouldn't say no to some making out, touching and more | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 08:54 AM |
| 0 | Help me seduce my male friend into becoming my cuddle buddy (or maybe more?)Wdym? I'm a guy, it's not bad. | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 08:51 AM |
| 1 | The game reviewYou gave up due to alcoholics anonymous? | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 10:28 AM |
| 2 | 29 year virgin ED on first tryIt's just anxiety. I had the same thing before when I was anxious about having sex with someone new. In my personal experience it just went away as I got comfortable with them. Since it seems a bit harder (no pun intended) for you, do this instead: Practice getting comfortable in stages. Start putting on a condom by yourself and just masturbate. Be patient if it doesn't work straight away. Keep trying until you get it to work. Once you're comfortable with that, try putting it on during foreplay.… | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 12:58 PM |
| 2 | I match with apparently every Ukrainian/Russian girl in the North East, is it because my profile gives sucker energy?OP specially mentioned Jews. Without talking about Isreal. So calling him out as racist still stands. Jews are a religious group, not a race. There are black Jews, white Jews, Middle Eastern Jews. On the other points, you're right that often people use nationality as a substitute to hide the fact that they're being racist | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 10:19 AM |
| 1 | I match with apparently every Ukrainian/Russian girl in the North East, is it because my profile gives sucker energy?it's racist to make blanket negative assumptions about people based on where they're from. I don't think it is actually. Racism would be making assumptions based on their race. Someone could have African ethnicity but have grown up in the UK and be culturally British. Expecting certain things from them because of the country they were born in and grew up in is not racism - it's not even connected to their race. An example - it wouldn't be racist to assume this person might enjoy a cup of tea. Of… | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Girl sitting alone outside restaurantWhy would you advise this as if you've used it then and had it work? Movies are completely unrealistic. | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Some girls are just really shy don’t take it the wrong wayThis isn't a useful lesson for guys though. If they took this lesson, they'd try to chat up someone else, know that they aren't interested at all because of their lack of positive responses, and keep pursuing regardless because "she's just shy, she actually likes me really" until he gets banned from the gym. The only one who needs to take a lesson from this is you. This entire post wasn't even helpful and is probably harmful because you're gonna get some guys who might now inadvertently harass a… | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 08:24 AM |
| 0 | If I am 2/10 currently, will getting in good shape atleast make me 6/10?Purely appearance wise, 2/10 would mean you not only have a terrible looking body, but also a terrible looking face too, so no, getting your body in shape would still leave you with a disgusting face. In reality I think you're exaggerating and you're not actually a 2/10 now. | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 09:01 AM |
| 3 | I don't want to but I'm about to drop this girl, and it kind of sucks.Ok fair, so given this behaviour, does it seem reasonable to you? Or does she no longer seem like relationship material? If you think her behaviour is within the bounds of normal, then you're essentially saying the problem is just in your head and it's your anxiety. If you think her behaviour is not acceptable, then you should drop her. | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 07:05 PM |
| 11 | I don't want to but I'm about to drop this girl, and it kind of sucks.Pretty funny how you're talking about how you're keeping frame but you're obsessing over her not texting back much more than "haha that's good smiley face". You didn't even ask her anything. What more do you expect her to say? And yes it is obsessing. Look at your long Reddit post about it. If you were keeping frame you'd just forget about it and get on with your life until the next time you see her. | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Women in open marriage wants to have sex with meHow is that sexist? It's just being realistic, and I'd say the exact same thing about a guy - if he's willing to sleep with a woman on a first date then it's likely he's done the same with lots of other women, and she should make sure he's wearing a condom. I'm not shaming her for it, it's okay to have sex with lots of people if you want to. | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 08:24 AM |
| 6 | What is the frequency/vibe of sex addicted women?It's really not worth it at all. I had a fwb thing with a girl, not sure what exactly she had, but her emotions were dialled up way too far. Sometimes she was suicidal and sometimes she seemed happy and content. Sometimes she was begging me to meet her for sex and other times she would just say she's feeling too shit and hardly even text back. She was almost paranoid in not trusting me even though I never gave her a reason to doubt me. She caused me so much hassle and stress that I had to cut co… | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Women in open marriage wants to have sex with meYou're right, but you should make extra sure you most definitely wear them if you're sleeping with someone who is likely to be very promiscuous | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 07:34 AM |
| 206 | Women in open marriage wants to have sex with megive me suggestions on how careful and practical do I deal with it What suggestion do you want? She wants sex, you want sex, she's offering it. Just say yes, and make absolutely sure you wear a condom - if she's willing to sleep with you that easily then she's probably done the same with lots of other guys too. | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 08:41 PM |
| 1 | When a girl asks what are you looking for?When a girl ask me what am I looking for almost all of them want a relationship, and if I tell them I want something casual I feel they would just stop talking to me That's fine then, right? You're looking for different things. You could blatantly lie to them and pretend you're looking for a relationship, and yes you'd probably get some sex out of it, but would you feel good about yourself knowing that you led her on and lied to her, just to get some pussy? | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Tinder hookup failThis "soap brother" product you speak of... Sounds interesting. Is it a guy who turns up when you shower to soap you up? | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 12:29 AM |
| 0 | Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happensMan this is annoying to read. You don't need to put every single sentence in a new paragraph. Paragraphs are supposed to separate ideas or topics. If you're continuing with the same idea then keep it in the same paragraph. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 01:26 PM |
| 0 | How does one respond to a girl saying “I am feeling horny” in text?Just curious why do you think this is the right answer? | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 12:04 PM |
| 5 | Ethics of the Game?Forcing yourself to stand up straight and not slouch even though you normally slouch and aren't very confident? Fine. This is not even lying or deception. This is just normal behaviour. Everyone tries to be their best self when they're around people they want to impress, whether it's a date or a job interviewer. Putting effort in to being your best self is not deception. | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 09:42 PM |
| 20 | How to set up your dating profile if you're just looking for hookups?Yeah you're right, if you're only looking for hookups then use shirtless pics. You have to actually look attractive in them though. If you look like a fat middle aged guy, you won't get matches. | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 05:49 PM |
| 13 | How to escalate with awkward nerdy manIs he inexperienced? He might be nervous because he's not sure what he should be doing. Maybe it'd be good to just be very clear and ask him if you can go back to his place at the end of the date | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 12:24 PM |
| 6 | I invited a woman back to my apartment and I did not escalateDifferent methods work for different guys, and different women like things done different ways. Your method could work for you and his for him. I agree, but the person I'm replying to said that OP screwed up by not escalating early. I'm disputing that point specifically. It's just wrong. Escalate when you want. In this situation she was obviously expecting him to escalate at some point and he didn't, so she left disappointed and probably horny. Either that or she left early because something was… | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 07:28 PM |
| 26 | To all the experienced guys here: Does casual sex increase happiness?It's exhilarating in the moment, and it makes me feel good about myself for a short while, because if I can get that girl it must mean I'm handsome, attractive etc. It's an ego boost. It doesn't lead to long term happiness. | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 04:18 PM |
| 23 | I invited a woman back to my apartment and I did not escalateI don't think you're correct. If she's interested in you then you don't need to escalate early on at all. I usually tend to escalate late and it works fine. In fact, recently I went on a date where I was showing a girl around my city and I didn't really flirt with her at all. On the way back, I asked her if I could go back with her. She was a bit surprised and said she didn't think I liked her in that way, but nevertheless she still agreed and we went back to her hotel room together and hooked u… | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Is a Vasectomy worth it?It's better for you anyway. If she's unsure enough then she'd likely change her mind in a few years then you'd be faced with either breaking up or having kids. | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 05:37 PM |
| 3 | I built a game that help you pass her sh*t testsThis is good fun, thanks for sharing this | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 05:53 AM |
| 29 | How long were you able to keep a FWB?Distant cousin they only see at Christmas, maybe | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 05:16 AM |
| 11 | What do you do straight after a one night stand not at your place?*Walk of glory, playing I Just Had Sex on your phone at full volume all the way home. | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 09:09 AM |
| 116 | Realisation that girls actually want me to approach them most of the time.There's no secret trick to overcoming anxiety apart from drugs like alcohol and other anti anxiety drugs. I wouldn't recommend using those as a crutch though. Do it the proper way. The hard way - by facing your anxieties head on. Force yourself to go and chat to her. You will probably come off as nervous at first, and maybe say something dumb, and that's okay. You'll get better with practice. | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 12:38 AM |
| 15 | Realisation that girls actually want me to approach them most of the time.You don't need to buy her stuff. I think it's better not to, because it can make her feel awkward like she owes you something. | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 12:36 AM |
| 2 | How to attract beautiful girls as a short guy?It seems the beautiful short girls still go for tall guys from what I've seen. | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 08:06 PM |
| 29 | Men who have been in many relationships, would you say most women have anger issues?No, in my experience most women aren't like that. You need to vet your girls better. | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 11:58 AM |
| 19 | Asked a girl out, this is her replyWhy even reply? Fuck em at that point lmao, zero point in expending energy into someone else who doesn’t care about you in the slightest. Why do you think she doesn't care in the slightest? I would say it sounds like she cares a decent amount. She gave him a reply that lets him get out without hurting his feelings. That's actually pretty nice of her. Nevertheless she's probably not interested so OP should just say ok and move on. Tbh she was pretty nice so it's good to be nice in return and let … | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 07:16 PM |
| 20 | The father of my Cold Approach followed meHe wants you to fix his car too | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 02:29 AM |
| 55 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?You seem pretty mature, but let's imagine a 19 year old woman who is very attractive and very full of herself. It might be easy for her to get offended and wonder why these guys even think they should approach her. | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 11:44 PM |
| 4 | Get laidfuck condoms Well, kind of... | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Got rejected after the first date for the first time. Now I'm confusedYeah I'd find it very weird. I actually had a girl do that once and it was quite awkward and made her seem very clingy | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 11:45 PM |
| 6 | Went on two dates but got hit with the "Didn't feel the connection i was hoping for." afterwards.She just didn't like you that much. You felt like the dates went well, but it'd be pretty hard to tell what she thought, right? Unless her reaction to you was blindingly obvious and she had zero manners, you wouldn't be able to tell. She'd be playing the role of a girl on a date regardless. That's what most people do. You go on a date, and you know there's a certain way you behave. If she doesn't like you, she's not going to call you an ugly pig and walk out on you. She's going to at the very mi… | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 10:45 PM |
| -1 | The economics of dating as a man: when you should be paying for the girlHow can I quit something I never start with? Your other comment said you saw it on tiktok though: Yeah I’ve seen multiple women making vids on tiktok on how women should insist that men gotta pay for everything, even including uber. And even breaking down the cost of their clothes, makeup, etc. | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 10:40 PM |
| 10 | What’s your best openers in person and on textBut my name is James too. What can I say if I don't say James? Do I have to make up a new name now? | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 09:58 PM |
| 1 | M18 how to get laid in europeNo idea. I don't do that | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 01:21 PM |
| 1 | M18 how to get laid in europeMate the only way you're getting laid is if you go to Amsterdam and visit the red light district | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 01:19 PM |
| 7 | How to stop paying for women, without losing conversion?Just don't pay then? What's the big deal. If you don't wanna pay, don't pay. Some women will reject you over it, some won't. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Can I turn this situation around? Got into an argument w some girl I still kinda wantshe just grinds my gears a bit Good, so forget about her and move on | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Can I turn this situation around? Got into an argument w some girl I still kinda wantYou should forget about her and find some other girl. Like seriously bro, how desperate do you have to be to go for the kind of girl who stalks you on burner accounts and tries to ruin your group's reputation. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 08:42 PM |
| 16 | Can you actually find FWB hookups on reddit?Yes, if you're a woman | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Modern Dating Basics: What Every Beginner Needs to Know in 5 Minutes🤝 | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Modern Dating Basics: What Every Beginner Needs to Know in 5 MinutesInconsistency will create someone to loose feelings Lose feelings not loose. Loose means the opposite of tight | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 07:40 PM |
| 6 | how does severely autistic pick up chicks at the clubGuys that don't know how to talk get laid all the time, they are the ones that know when and how to shut the fuck up (in positive context) Do you really think someone who is very autistic is going to have the social skills or awareness to pick up someone in this way? | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 11:45 PM |
| 2 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?To me, if they have subpar hygiene, they’re probably below average looking already. Yeah that's a given. I feel like you've gone the wrong way with what I've said. Having basic hygiene is like the standard for being even dateable. That's like a 1. 5 is an average looking person. So someone who is clean, in not that good shape but also not obese, or maybe they're too skinny. Either way they don't have a very good body. Face wise, they're very normal looking. Certainly nothing you'd do a double ta… | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 12:53 AM |
| 16 | What would you rate (out of 10) the ugliest girl you ever slept with?Lol that's a completely messed up scale. 5 should be average looking. | /r/seduction | 06/12/24 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Nervous for a date helpIt's okay to be anxious. You're still young. You have lots of opportunities to screw things up and improve over time. Just go out, do your best, and take the lessons you can from things you do wrong. Assuming she's also your age, she probably won't be judging you that much for things you mess up because she either doesn't know any better or she also screws things up too. Tldr don't worry, you're not expected to be perfect | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Books/ podcasts dedicated to texting? Women being so flakeyI've had this issue before as well. Had what felt like a great date. She was asking a ton of questions, seemed very enthusiastic, and even took me back to hers to hook up. Then by text she barely replied. In the end I found out she wasn't into me. Was very disappointed. So fucking confusing. Wish girls could be a bit more congruent. If you don't like me that much, act like it. Guess she just wanted to get me into bed and never see me again. | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 11:01 PM |
| 6 | Should I make her slightly jealous or will it backfire?It's been around 2 weeks since we last went out, and I tried inviting her for a fun date but she had quite a few excuses, which was surprising. Ever since she gave those excuses she hasn't texted back, leaving me on "read". She's losing interest. If you chase her even more, she'll lose interest even more because you'll seem clingy. I invited her to a concert and I was thinking of going and posting the concert on instagram. Would that make her slightly jealous as in 'she'd wonder with whom I was … | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Approach a girlWhat number did she give you? The office phone number? | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 05:34 PM |
| 2 | The "I Accidentally Dropped An Item" Test?It's a way to initiate an interaction. They drop something. You pick it up and give it to them. They thank you and maybe start a conversation. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 03:49 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys deal with feeling missed out at dating in highschool, if u have?Obviously you shouldn't do gym as your only interest. But gym is extremely helpful in being more attractive to the opposite sex. Ideally you should have a well rounded life, with hobbies you do regularly, including a form of exercise that keeps you in good shape. | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 12:36 PM |
| 5 | I was in 7 year long relationship and learned being single is underratedDon’t even need to read, wrong You obviously didn't read it because you missed the entire point. Imagine being so arrogant and stupid that you skip the entire post, assume what it's about and then write a long ass comment like this. | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 09:43 AM |
| 21 | Approaching in -20°C? How Winter Dating Transformed My LifeGotta be honest I got zero value out of this post. No useful information at all. I thought you were going to give some tips on day game in cold conditions or something. This post seems more like it was just made to boast about the fact you continued dating when it was cold outside. So uhhh well done for that... 🙄 | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 09:09 PM |
| 124 | I’m becoming a sex monster?!It's called sex addiction. You can get medical treatment for it. No, I am not joking around. | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Showing interest in a workplace?Like the title states, how do you show interest in a workplace? You don't Besides intensive eyesight..? Please come over to HR. You have a meeting about sexual harassment. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet 30-35 year old women ?How can you market yourself like that? Print a t-shirt saying "I'm a bull, ask for more info"? | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 10:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you find hookups?He's just following rules 1 and 2 | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 09:10 AM |
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