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DiscussionFarConstruction4877/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:49 PM
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so?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:37 AM
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If stable relationships are boring and you lose attraction to a stable person that says more about you than anything else. Dread makes me want to leave instantly. This whole thing reads incredibly terrible to me, its like saying oh i kidnapped someone and now they are submissive to me and does whatever i want its a working system! Is it? How long will this work for? If you are okay with manipulating those closest to you to their detriment for your own gain, you need to at least recognize that wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:33 AM
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Those are not mutually exclusive. You can do what’s right for you without harming anyone else. Ppl that grow up entitled and self centered will be naturally eliminated via natural selection unless they change their ways, u just have to recognize them early and avoid them. Doing what’s right is how you will treat others, doing what’s right for you is how you will treat yourself. Treat others well and demand the same treatment back.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:04 AM
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One should always act in accordance to their own interests
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:09 AM
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Everyone looks out for their own interests. Women look out for their own interests first. Some women think that it’s advantageous for them if such observations are not made, as they feel like it gives them more options/leverage. Men so the same thing too regarding height and looks lol. There is no logical approach to an inherently slippery slope moral issue. There is no point to debate about any moral argument as it’s all relative and ultimately gives way to/is a result of personal gain in prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:47 AM
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Casual sex is available to anyone who has 100 bucks. Yeah, so that’s about as much value as you should place on such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:40 AM
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He should have filed for divorce a long time ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:06 PM
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Being alone tend to result in loneliness. Now it doesnt mean that you will feel lonely, but it definitely contributes to feeling lonely. Its like saying under sleeping every day doesnt necessarily result in any illness, but it definitely contributes to the chances of you falling ill. These are are not equivalent does not mean that they are not correlated. Some ppl can get away with 4 hrs of sleep a night and always be healthy and refreshed, it doesnt make ppl who cant problematic either. To deny…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:20 PM
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I would argue that most men dont even really want a loose commitment light culture long term. I dont think the average person wants that, at least i dont know ANY single person who would want that irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:10 PM
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Why is having endless hookups and treating women like shit a gratifying thing as a man? Do you think most ppl enjoy being assholes? I cant possibly imagine it being a sustainable or enjoyable long term arrangement. Its pointless in its entirety. Plus what ur saying is just being a good manipulator, u can do that in any era.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:03 PM
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Question is what is there to gain from someone who "needs" you but doesnt "want" you? Seems very one sided where you are providing resources without much in return. Being needed but not wanted this leads to a wife abandoning her husband once he loses his income, monkey branching, and a variety of other cold hearted behavior that is generally considered undesirable. You are voluntarily offering to be used as a tool, so it is only natural to discard the tool once its purpose has diminished. A pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:57 PM
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Absolute majority of ppl, if not nearly every single person on some level from some angle is sad, insecure, and pathetic, welcome to the world lol. It just shows itself in difference ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:37 PM
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Cuz I’m ur husband u see me as one because I appear desirable to you. I don’t see myself as a chad because I see the short comings ur blind to. Proves the point that what a chad is is largely subjective and just a mold society has put out there, not some actual assessment of someone’s personhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:14 AM
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Not really. Success is defined by the person. Chad is describing a very stereotypical idealized form of success that is not even possible for most ppl. Many ppl out there perfecting a craft that isn’t financially profitable or attractive, but it gives them purpose and I call that success too. It’s about fulfilling one’s own purpose, not about trying to fit into a societal fictional image.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:37 AM
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Well it’s neither silly nor funny, what the wife did here is irreversible. The first reaction is always honest. I don’t think it is normal or acceptable if u have even a tinge of social ability.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 06:52 PM
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I think op is righteously angry for her for laughing at his dick. This is not an ok response for ANY adult to have and he is right to feel insecure over it. How is he suppose to interpret this? You don’t get it because you are not a man.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 05:57 PM
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Most online opinions are troll or dramatized for effect. This is literally all online content outside of purely educational content. I don’t believe in ANYTHING on places like Reddit outside of purely educational content. It’s mostly very poorly thought out and terribly biased. Got nothing to do with women. This platform is 80% trolls, I could be trolling you right now you would never know. And online is so big u never get to see the full picture. You see the controversial shit the algorithm wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:03 PM
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Yessir this is it. My wife buys me cinnamorol plushies. Pretty awesome. On a serious note most ppl want to be “chased” and desired rather than the one doing all the hard work. It’s human nature. Less work for more return. In a good relationship should be a mutual effort, no one should chase anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:39 AM
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Hugging is physical intimacy. Far more important to me than sex. Playing with hair, touching, holding hands. Etc. Sex is cool but have u ever just cuddle for an hour? Heals the soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:36 AM
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You forgot kinks. Kink compatibility is important. Sub dom top bottom is a start.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:35 AM
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Well you are wrong lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:05 PM
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I’m much more handsome than asmongold
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:11 PM
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Being passive and avoidant isn’t a crime. Silent is not consent, an absence of no isn’t a yes. The side that of which wishes to propose the change needs to make it clear, as each person is only responsible for their own end of the bargain. If a stranger say here have my 100$ bill, I have no obligation to concern myself with what your motivations are, I am just gonna say sure. It’s not up for me to pry, you are neither family nor friend. Hook up are transactional too. It’s no difference, except t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:25 AM
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I disagree, that’s bullshit. If you have sex with a hooker every week does that make you bf gf? No. You are her client, and maybe friend, and until both sides move to change that status that’s all you are. There are no hidden rules or ethics. You are what you mutually agreed on. It is obvious that she wanted something more and had been pushing it towards that since the unprotected sex part, and is angry that her plans were foiled. The mutually agreed on contract was just sex, it didn’t include a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:06 AM
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Only works if your her type and attractive btw
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:49 PM
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Oh you do, if the ppl you interact with still think that half the population is bad by default and believe in the all men are trash narrative you are most likely in an edgy highschool girls chat lol. That’s how immature that is. That’s something my gf would say when she was 16. I haven’t even met real feminists who believe in that. I’m certain there are ppl who do believe that, but that’s not healthy or mature. That’s hateful. Ppl say it’s “pattern recognition”, but swap that narrative to any ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:32 PM
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I think the whole good men as an exception bad men as the rule thing is fucking nuts. Iv unironically never heard it irl before. No real need to comment on that that’s sexism. That is some online incel level comment that isn’t representative of almost anyone irl. Each sex is socialized with their own sex first generally. Each sex has their own tendencies, as a result, is more comfortable with the same sex than the opposite sex. Why do many men only have men friends and vise versa? It’s not abnor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:09 PM
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Companionship? Like, friends? Do you need your friends for anything particular? No. Can you live without no friends? Sure. Maybe if you get along really well with a friend you might want to share your life with them. Maybe if you also want to bone them you get into a relationship. It’s strange to ask if half of the population offers anything to you. Society at large raised you and have your the resources to live a comfortable life, and half of them are men. If you have a father, a brother, husba…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:12 AM
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I gave up on dating because I found a wife lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:03 AM
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What someone finds attractive is very subjective. General attractiveness is fairly standard, skin, symmetry, physique, facial features, height, etc. The rest is mannerisms, which really is different person to person. Some dudes think playing bad boy works, I know for a fact it will not work on u/Ok_Shower_2611 lol. Yes displaying confidence and dominance is necessary for every person, but acting macho is no longer as popular as before. Being meek and being reserved are two different things. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:31 AM
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Thought u weren’t a sex haver huuuh 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:00 AM
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Yeah well, two wolves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:35 PM
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My view haven’t changed when I was a virgin up till 22, to now pretty much whenever I want in this relationship. So idk, it’s really not that big of a deal. Have other things in ur life. And I suppose it’s more of a cultural thing. Asian cultures don’t view hyper sexuality as a good thing. Personally, I am really not a fan of hookups at all. Can’t imagine getting naked in front with someone who I don’t completely trust and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:21 AM
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Want a selfie? Ur not projecting, not everyone thinks the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:31 AM
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You are fucking nuts lol. Clearly you are in the minority of men here. Not everyone is nuts. Think about it. It took me 23 years and counting to build my career, 15 minutes to get a hooker, 3 months to get into a relationship, which is easier? Which requires more effort? Which is of more value?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:18 AM
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I’m a man, it fucking bewilders me how much value ppl put on sex. Only know one guy irl that puts significant effort into hookups and sex as well and most of our circle and his department thinks he is kinda creepy. Most normal ppl are, well, normal. Sex is like a hobby, nice to have but not something to center ur life around. More or less sex doesn’t determine your worth as a man. It doesn’t mean jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:14 AM
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It’s so weird that ppl place so much of their self worth on what other ppl thinks of them, over their own security and happiness even. What good is women when ur trapped in a life of misery? There are thousands of ppl in that position who would give it all up to live a stable, mild life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:14 AM
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You gotta be fucking insane. Have u been inside a prison? Ur willing to sell ur soul to the devil for 🐱? Throw away all stability in ur life, all future, your own morality and dignity for 🐱? For a couple minutes of pleasure? At that rate just do drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:10 AM
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It’s insane ur considering option A. You left 5 fucking kids behind. Ppl like that don’t deserve kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:08 AM
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They are fucking insane and have no idea what a life of crime is like lol. Selling ur soul, stability, everything for 🐱 is completely fucking nuts. Going to prison over 🐱 is fucking nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:07 AM
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It’s consistent income, stable job, respectable occupation, and not harsh physical labour. It’s kinda boring but most work are kind boring, at least u make money. I would love to have an accounting job now that AI is slowly replacing us programmers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:06 AM
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Dude I don’t even know. It’s not that big of a deal. Having constant sex and not having honestly made very little difference to me. Sometimes I read these internet posts and am just completely bewildered.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:05 AM
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Just read the title. Mild mannered virgin. Not compromising my personal integrity for 🐱. Option one makes you a terrible person. Scum. Don’t deserve to have kids. Option 2 seems like a pretty normal and decent life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:02 AM
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True. Balanced relationships last the longest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:32 AM
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Depends on the woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:33 AM
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The world is what you make of it lol. I don’t feel that way at all. I was happy before I had sex, and I didn’t get any until pretty late by today’s standards. Never tried, had relationships but never went there. Nothing really changed after getting a gf and having sex. It was fun, like winning a video game fun or going to the range fun. That’s all. You surround with ppl that make their lives about sec then it’s natural that you would feel that way too. Party ppl aren’t the majority or norm in so…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:44 AM
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Yeah and these relationships aren’t the most healthy. Never seen a healthy relationship where one side contributes significantly more than the other side. In relationships where the guy “dates down” it’s often that the woman still provides something of equal value in return. Whether it is in emotional intelligence, physical appearance, or the ability to stroke his ego or whatever, she is still providing something and he is gaining something in return for his material wealth. Date ppl with ur own…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:40 PM
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Fr. Also never an an issue to make her cum first if u do fore play properly, maybe a bit of head before. Naturally depends on the person so ur mileage may differ but so far so good for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:37 PM
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I do date up. I love dating up. I think most men that aren’t insecure and needs the ego boost from having a partner look up to them constantly would love to have a partner that can give them more. Just that why would a “superior” partner settle for less? Most often looks, and good looking men aren’t very common haha. Still tho I think matching ur status is the best. A balanced relationship is the most healthy ones, if one side always feel like giving more than the other or settling in some regar…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:57 PM
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That’s pretty long imo, statistical average. Never had a complaint. I’m happy with it. If u want to last longer just take breaks in between. Then it’s whatever length u want it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:05 PM
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I am gonna raise the motion that most ppls lives do not revolve around sex and don’t think about it daily even. I only know one guy whose primary hobby is to have as many hook ups as possible and he is kind of weird. There is SO much more to life than sex. What does sex even do for u? Feel good for 5 minutes? What about personal actualization, accomplishment, long term goals and aspirations, and so many other areas of happiness that isn’t hit by the primary urge for sex. All through out highscho…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:55 PM
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Wdym given away for free? Don’t date hoes lol Also That’s only true if u believe that relationship’s goal is sex, which isn’t true. As long as it’s not given away during the relationship it doesn’t really matter what happens before, it has no bearing on what happens now. If a stock was performing really poorly before but is doing really good now, will it influence ur decision to invest if you believe that it will continue to do well and make you money? No. If a stock was really cheap before (giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:31 PM
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If ur girl judges you for living at home with ur parents in today’s financial landscape she’s not the one. Dating apps yes. Confidence yes, but that can be worked on. Why does the man have financial responsibilities? That’s only true if you are looking for a stay at home partner. Vet the women ur looking for, for me, her career is very important and we are 5050. You only have that responsibility if you let ppl put it on you. If you married someone who is gonna leech off of you that on you, it sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:03 AM
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Same except my dad made all of us miserable and we couldn’t leave until I left for college. So, to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:59 AM
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How about to befriend her, then bang her, and then both of you invest in the relationship and both are free to choose what to do so no one is trapped? Seems pretty good to me. Like why is it one or the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:55 AM
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🗣️🗣️🗣️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:38 PM
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Ok define good. What is the definition of good here? On whose authority can we determine a universal metric of objective goodness?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:27 PM
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My gf prefers to be the stronger and more dominant partner both in general (much more equal) and in bed (much less equal), there are lots of dominant women like that. Are they rarer and a challenge to find as a guy? Yeah, but they are out there. I don’t think women overwhelmingly dislike femdom. It’s a fetish, and what happens in bed doesn’t carry over outside of bed. Iv met dominant women that loved to be submissive and submissive women that loves to dom in bed. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:44 AM
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Hey! Stop! Common sense isn’t allowed on this sub!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:08 PM
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I think they u have no idea what kind of ppl u and then will be in 20 years , so it’s always a gamble. If I take a look at me now vs 10 years ago vs 5 years ago I’m almost completely un recognizable in many aspects. But I do agree with u, don’t get married unless ur sure, just that I don’t think anyone can really be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:13 AM
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🗣️🗣️🗣️ Goated
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:51 AM
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U are with who u allowed urself to be with. If u don’t like being used, break up. Most of my serious relationships were with genuinely caring women. My current gf totally supports me emotionally and financially. I guarantee it’s not a “all women” thing. So go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:44 AM
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I don’t think it’s weird, every relationship is fundamentally transactional, just that the transaction isn’t very clear. Like I provide my mom the satisfaction of having a successful and kind son and her security for the future, and in exchange she provides me with food and shelter as a child and support as an adult. I provide her with my care and affection and she does the same for me. If I cared less for her than she did for me then she would eventually stop loving me as much. If I didn’t prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:54 AM
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Yeah, but it’s about the amount of sex appeal. It may be acceptable but I wouldn’t think that it would be ur strong suit if she doesn’t show much sexual interest to begin with. However this is only limited to if ur both looking to date (before commitment) and hooking up at the same time. It’s reasonable to avoid making it look like a hook up when going for long term and thus delaying sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:49 AM
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I am just genuinely curious, there is no ill will, albeit I will be a little bit blunt: Hmm, that’s fair but doesn’t logically make sense to me. Is it based on your intention at the time, like when you specifically were looking for hook ups at a certain point of ur life and then looking for a long term relationship at another point of ur life? Or is it person based? So if someone ur looking to date is also very attractive would you not be willing to have sex with them just because you are attemp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:44 AM
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Simple explanation is, if ur hot enough to be hookup materiel then you would have gotten the hookup, then if ur husband material then you would have became her bf afterwards, if you weren’t, then you would just be a hook up. If ur hook up is also very attractive personality wise, then would you give it up just because he was originally a hook up? No, that’s ridiculous. If ur only husband material and not hook up material, then naturally ur lacking in sex appeal. There’s no shame in that, ppl are…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:51 AM
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Sooo. Same treatment, maybe worse treatment, except u have to wait longer, and put in more effort? Why then? So if I order the same thing from 2 shops the same distance to my house, one takes a week to arrive, one takes a month to arrive, which ship values their customer experience more? Simple explanation is, if ur hot enough to be hookup materiel then you would have gotten the hookup, then if ur husband material then you would have became her bf afterwards, if you weren’t, then you would just …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:49 AM
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Yeah well if I’m the type to not pay I don’t want to date those women anyways. Not really a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:06 AM
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Holy shit the comments what a shit show. Makes me wonder if any of these ppl ever spoken to a real person at all. Relationships exists on a supply demand transactional basis fundamentally. How much something matters depends on how much one values something. Some men may value being a virgin some may see it as a bad thing. To say that given some one partners characteristic one should act a specific way is INSANE and not going to work. It’s entirely case by case. If ur partner doesnt have a positi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:49 AM
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I know for sure. Went through his phone lol for a different reason and found so many instagram dms lol, then I was shocked when he showed me hinge, and from his roommate too. Bro must suck being this dudes roommate. Also apparently his got quite the reputation for this stuff at school lol a lot of ppl thinks he is creepy. He used to offer match making service himself lmao. He tried to hook us up with girls, I wasn’t interested but my buddy got along with one. This is couple of years ago tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:50 AM
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Serious matches? Maybe 1-2 a month. My buddy who is a mid 5-6 short skinny Asian dude is getting like 10+ hookups per month tho on hinge searching short term. Idk how he just says go for business students from the local university lol. He is a long time player in the game tho. But serious matches is around 2-3 for him even after spending so much time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:49 PM
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This is real asf 🗣️🗣️🗣️ really not that complicated of a concept
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:07 PM
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Well my gf perused me. And still do while we are in the relationship lol. So no, ur wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:03 AM
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Op means that attraction to you, not whether you are attracted to her or not. If no women u are attracted to are interested then lower ur standards and eventually u will find women that are attracted to you. And even then u can’t then ur shit out of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:00 AM
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genuinely intrigued, what would be considered a warm approach? A friend? Similar hobbies? From a group activity? I met my gf from streaming valorant of all things, she found my austism to be endearing somehow. But thats mostly a luck based situation lmao. I feel like men and women often inherently have different hobbies and interested for the most part, yes, some may overlap, but its not super common. Especially in todays society where many ppl are online and isolated with fewer friends in gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:51 AM
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Is there mass misery and destitution across the country? Yes…….. Why do u think all this race war, gender war, RP, incel, etc bullshit exist? Suicide rates are high, youth depression rates are high. Isn’t this the reason we are even having this discussion? Ppl complain all the time about not giving living wages. Here in Canada homelessness is rapidly increasing. Hell there is a worker’s protest on the street next to my block right now… Besides, how is this even remotely relevant to the topic? Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:38 AM
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I won’t go into detail, but Vancouver/Seattle (my university + workplace during my co op program and after), 2 room apartment with my gf counting utilities and other housing related expenses, comes to around 42k in rent annually. Food + regular groceries + gas (everyday commodities) around 35k ish, including any repairs or any daily life related services. Entertainment + leisure (no travelling but literally everything else) around 8k. Other bullshit miscellaneous, around 4-5k depending. Alright …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:41 AM
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It’s not incorrect. I full heartedly believe in it and from every angle from my perspective I do not believe a mere 100-200k ish income is enough to support a whole household. Perhaps your goals are very low or you live in a different setting. I don’t think I am at all ignorant of the cost of living and I think every person should have a significant amount of money stashed up whether in terms of secure long term investments or in any other form in case of an emergency. You care entitled to your …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:10 AM
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Thank you for the reply, some good points overall but I personally think a lot of what you said exists only theoretically, basically fairly tale. I used to buy into the submissive gf thing, not from RP, just out of natural preference; have dated a couple of girls, none of the dom/sub relationships lasted very long. It makes sense because if u flip the genders and think about it: if submissive girl was a guy, you would call him a loser and it would never work out. I think this is the biggest red …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:02 PM
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Well good luck with that, not the life I want
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:34 PM
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I really don’t think so. To live? Prob. To live well? To enjoy life? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:55 AM
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Oh yeah def. U always want agreeable/reasonable partners when possible. Many women use independence and feminism as justification for being pricks, but that’s just pricks being pricks; it doesn’t take away the fact that we should strive for capable and independent partners who respects themselves and us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:48 PM
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I don’t think society made a woman bitching all the time acceptable; I think selfish people is trying to mask it as a societal norm but i don’t think most ppl buy it. I think plenty of men complain about whiny wives etc and I for one do not engage with any girl that gossips or complains excessively.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:22 PM
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I appreciate influencers coming out against extreme leftism, communism, radical progressivism and modern feminism etc, and shining more light on the importance of hard work, endurance of hardships etc, but this originally decent premise has completely changed to service their marketing model to create more and more controversies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:57 PM
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Lmao. The advice they give are purposely as vague as possible to be as unfalsifiable as possible; the ones that gives more details advice are always shit that doesn’t work for them. They didn’t get rich off of investment or crypto or hustling it drop shipping, they got rich ripping off of you! That’s the reason they are doing this to begin with! How can ppl still buy into this shit just because what they say is true. Yeah “working hard/working on yourself” is true, u like to hear it, but I’m sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:54 PM
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Iv seen plenty on YouTube shorts. I’m sureplenty of fresh and fit guests says this. There’s a black guy in a suit. I just searched it up and there’s a clip from a channel call top gentleman that shows a podcast clip or interview. A shit load of street interviewers. There are a lot. The trad wife/house wife/submissive gf is a huge trend propped up by redpill. Hell, even tate implies it heavily although I don’t recall when he directly said it under a non sexual context as in a sexual context top/b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:49 PM
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Exactly. There is always gonna be a top and bottom in a relationship, that’s just how it is 2 ppl can’t always both call the shots, but it needs to be relatively fair and based on a common agreement that either partner has the same rights, just that for practicality sake in some areas one partner may be more knowledgeable therefore commands more in that particular area.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:33 PM
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Fr. All these podcasts, all these influencers are selling you a product they made, which is gender wars. They perpetuate this product, they advertise it by elevating the conflict, and then they profit from views and merch. I won’t give a shit normally, that’s just how marketing is, but this is actually extremely harmful to our society’s cohesion at large at this state and is causing actual damage to our generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:31 PM
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I’m not saying that. I’m just stating my political position as to show that I’m not blue pill or a liberal yet even I can see how this submissive gf trend is unhealthy and stupid. My post had nothing to do with capitalism being RP
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:28 PM
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How is it not RP? This submissive gf idea is everywhere in RP circles. “A man guides their woman”, “a woman must be led”, “you know best so you have to control your woman”, this is super commmon…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:27 PM
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I hope to see things your way some day. I am colder and don’t get blinded as much so there is selective bias but I agree that things would be better if what you said is true. Maybe it’s a more you attract what you are kinda thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:25 PM
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“The dominant partner puts their partner’s needs before his own” is what my father did. It didn’t work because he thought he put my needs first, which he did, he saved my life when the doctors gave up, he sacrificed his career, friends, family etc to move to a less polluted country with better healthcare, he always stood up for me, he even cooked and cleaned for the family with immense effort when my mother was depressed for years on end. But it didn’t foster a healthy relationship between us. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:23 PM
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Yeah and then it turns abusive when this demand can no longer be met lol. Ppl are downvoting this but they will see when they get an actually submissive partner. No one is submissive by nature, most ultra submissive girls are abused victims or complete NEETs; for the first u don’t want to continue this abuse, for the second u don’t want dead weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:17 PM
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Thank you. I think it paints a horrible image of actually sane traditional/capitalist man. This submissive gf thing, like a lot of RP believes, is a straw man to hide the fact that RP is just an extreme fear of the increasingly insane far left. But this doesn’t justify or help with anything, for a matter of fact it’s just making more ppl insane. The middle ground is no longer good enough, we have to have race war, gender war, when class war is actually a war that’s worth having. How many times d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:14 PM
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I suppose. Still even as a traditional, hardworking, conservative man I can’t understand how an one sided relationship can ever be lastingly healthy. The side that dominates will only grow more dominating as they settle into the role and the side that is submissive will eventually break under the pressure. It’s fucking emotional abuse for most ppl. That aside, I fucking HATE now RP “influencers” peddle the same vague dogshit that doesn’t work in a stale system that locks u into the social class …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:08 PM
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It’s the same. I see it clear in my parents, my parents friends dynamics. When you are young and in love it’s less obvious, but after 10 years u strip the lust and blind affection off and u can see what the underlying factors of maintaining a relationship is. It’s not a t obvious when you are dating, but it is heavily present in the mating selection process too. In any dynamic the power levels are scaled and calculated. You want to be with someone on the same or higher level as you. Without stre…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:55 PM
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I would disagree. Yeah OP’s cases are too extreme but in almost all relationships (romantic and non romantic), no one wants to be with a downer. While it’s alright to be weak at times, weakness overall makes you appear as unreliable (for both men and women imo) to your partner. This is why u don’t show anger or sadness at work no matter how terrible it gets as you would appear unreliable to both your colleagues and your potential investors (customers, boss etc). Everyone want someone that will h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:11 PM
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