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4	The fate of a married man in the bedroom I’ve never had children, but still the dead bedroom happens every 4-5 years. But I agree kids exasperate it. The workload, lack of sleep and I think it triggers an anxiety in women. Anxiety and worry and busy mind is the opposite of sexy for a woman.	/r/MensRights	20/12/24 07:14 AM
1	The fate of a married man in the bedroom It’s not do better just roll a couple of internal dice full of variables that shifts it up. Most people do the same moves, routine, patterns. When a woman doesn’t want sex, and she is approached in the same old way her mind skips to the end and knows how this will pan out for her. And not often satisfactory, and the trade off of extra sleep, needing to shower how tired she is starts playing on her mind. If her mind cannot predict a single thing, it’s more exciting. The mind quietens. Speaking fr…	/r/MensRights	20/12/24 07:08 AM
2	The fate of a married man in the bedroom Libido WITH a man. So a woman’s libido when in a relationship with a man. Hetero women	/r/MensRights	20/12/24 07:02 AM
4	The fate of a married man in the bedroom I met a female neuroscientist who, like me, questioned why we lose sexual attraction to our long term partners. Her interesting theory was that libido for women with a man lasts the same time it takes to nurse and raise a baby to safety (4-5 years). That we also experience repulsion and reject when we’ve been repeatedly mating without an offspring… hormones say this is an unsuccessful mate. It’s pretty primal. And makes sense to me in how I’ve felt in monogamous long child free relationships	/r/MensRights	19/12/24 09:44 PM
0	The fate of a married man in the bedroom It’s bizarre to me that a problem as old as humanity hasn’t yet been resolved. Women’s libidos are variable and cyclical and then monogamy causes it to disappear entirely after 4-5 years. It then becomes negotiated, manipulated or coerced not mutual. Women try to analyse it all and find the closest issue they can see… “if I wasn’t so stressed, or there wasn’t so much housework I’d want it”. But the truth is, we just lose it and it’s sad, the love of our lives suddenly becomes as sexy as a relati…	/r/MensRights	19/12/24 09:30 PM

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