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| 1 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?I would consider myself a femcel. As a straight woman attracted to straight men I've come to understand that most of not all would cheat if given the opportunity. Physical attraction determines who gets love not personality. I could be a girl he could like because of my personality but because I don't fit conventional beauty standards I will forever be a place holder until that girl comes and gives him a chance. If I was attractive in a conventional sense I could experience real love from a man … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 06:07 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?I used to identify as a femcel. Still kinda do but when I was younger I heavily thought this. My logic was that as a fat loser and unconventional attractive women no guy would ever truly like me because of my face. I thought all guys want are skinny pretty girls who looked like models whether they dressed conservatively or dressed more revealing. I thought even if I went to school, got a good job with nice pay a guy will still cheat on me. I thought that even if I was the perfect trad wife who g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 02:55 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand why the debate for dating and dating preferences are neededLol yes it is. You can look like a model but if your intentions are just to have sex first try then yeah most sane women are put off by that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?You literally can dude. No law is stopping you. If the type of girls you want makes fun of you for wearing a wig then reevaluate what kind of woman you want. This isn't rocket science | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 05:49 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man.This is such cringe. Most adult women find most adult men attractive. I've seen so many attractive men who definitely don't look like brad pitt or will smith attractive. What's with this sub weird instance that all women are these shallow creatures that only want movie star, crimson chin, underweight , freakishly tall men? Maybe on TV or social media sure but the average 9-5 gal is most definitely crushing on co workers who look just as good as she does. If she is crazy and into more social medi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 05:46 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.I don't think that's the majority of men. I do agree that there are differences with up bringing with boys and girls I don't think men are born with entitlement. Most sane adult men understand what entitlements are and you never hear about their bad behavior. They grow out of it or recognize how women are humans with complex traits just like them. Most men understand that women have just as capable as they are if not more in certain industries. Sane adult men understand that stereotype are mainl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 04:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.No they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 02:42 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Exactly. If that 10 girl slept with him or gave himself attention he would get bored till the next 10 comes in. Men that complain about looks and dating are not representing all men. They are just representing the desperate types who you know will cheat on you when a prettier girl gives them a chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.I never said I represent all women I don't even represent all women in my own family. You were the one saying all men and all women. You were the one saying women look for this and men act like this. I said desperate men who bitch about dating are annoying. That's not all men. Alright champ you keep those links. They were definitely useful 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.I don't say that about all men. I know that there are well adjusted sane men out there. The men in my family are like that and I make sure to surround my self with men like that. They are my friends and co workers I choose to hang out with. They are classmates I keep in touch with. They are the men I ask out on dates or find attractive. They definitely exist. What I said is that the desperate men that come on here to bitch and moan/groan about dating are annoying and cowardly. Not all men are li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 05:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Social research that totally captures an array of backgrounds right? That involves different races, neurotypes, culture, countries, sexualities, ages, genders, socioeconomic status and education? Or was it just focusing on college students in north America or some western county who were fresh from high school/ or the beginning years of college? Get real dude. Link them if you want. I understand nuance and I understand that yes data and scientific research is important life is not that black and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 05:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.I'm projecting? Says they guy looking at tinder data and thinks this represents the entire male/female psyche. Life is not black and white it's grey. Placing yourself in this mental cage will get you know where. I'm not a man but I'm also not desperate and need my ego stroked. I don't represent all women I just represent sane adults who are well adjusted. You don't even have real sources just random percentages with no context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 05:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Saying a bunch of percentages and "research" is t evidence. Saying a bunch of percentages you found on an infographic on 4chan or your favorite alpha male podcaster isn't evidence. Siting research that gets data from dating apps only popular in a corner of America isn't evidence. You already had that bias on women so your algorithm gave you "evidence" to prove it. My evidence is going outside and talking to people from different backgrounds who don't doom scroll tinder data. Gay relationships de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 05:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Wrong again sorry Some girl agreeing to fuck you does not make you attractive it makes you easy. Men/ women who search for casual sex and have no barrier of energy are impulsive and easy. Your college or American college is not representations of every single adult male. You cannot make broad assumptions about every single man based your culture. Desperate people are annoying. Desperate men do not represent all men. Desperate men do not make up the majority of men. Having sex alot doesn't mean y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 05:08 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.I used them as an example because it's women appropriating men but they are not the average gay relationships because again it's fiction or a woman's view on gay relationships. Gay people do not have heterosexual dynamics because they literally can't. If it's two men or two women who pays on the first date? Lesbians who get no pussy don't bitch like straight men who get no pussy. There are definitely unattractive women that are in relationships and the sad part is they are in relationships with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Wrong again. Looks get you attention sure but you will not form meaningful relationships if this you your out look. Men who complain about dating thinks that's all their missing because that's all they look for. They don't form meaningful relationships they just judge themselves on how hot their partners are with each other. When the get bored or God forbid the girl gains like 10 pounds it's back to bitching. Why? Because they don't actually want to be in a relationship they want status they see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 04:44 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.I know about how not to be desperate and think my misery means I'm some kind of underdog. I understand focusing on getting lucrative accomplishments counts more in demonstrating I have good qualities than just looking good. Use your gender as an excuse for you not putting in real effort in forming meaningful relationships just know adult men who are sane and aren't pussy hungry don't think like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 08:53 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Women definitely celebrate lots of male features. Ever read fanfiction? You know what whimper audios are? Povs? Most of the most popular fiction in erotica that women read literally involve men in romantic relationships. You know what BL is? What about yaoi? Fifty shades of grey? What about 360? I could go on and on. Women definitely find lot of things attractive about men. The difference is the women who don't get laid that much don't bitch to the heavens how it's so unfair men don't give them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 08:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Desperate men that bitch and moan about dating are not every man's experience. Maybe the men around you in your community or family but you are not the standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 08:07 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.I am an adult woman with nuance and understand that the world is much more complicated than what reddit has to offer. Using data from mainly North America and Western culture to explain relationships between men and women is dumb. Those subreddit reduce women to body parts and I know you think that's a compliment but trust it's not. Wether you believe that or not is up to you. Media, especially Western media is not reality it's fiction and it's entertainment. If your parents taught you basic cri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 08:05 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 03:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Lol ok if I had a cock and balls while telling you how many women I've slept with saying this you would be agreeing with me. My "femininity" and your "masculinity" means nothing in this context. I don't bitch and moan if guys don't come up every time I go outside. I don't bitch and moan if guys don't buy me drinks. I don't bitch and moan if guys don't ask me out or take initiative in dating me. I don't bitch and moan if I have to pay for dinner or if I don't get flowers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 01:04 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.A bunch of women agreeing to sleep with you isn't a success and you probably only get girls who are settling for you because that are inexperience or don't have anything better to do. You are a place holder in the grand scheme of things and a topic for the group chat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 01:03 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.This is not rocket science. This is not theoretical physics. In fact this is not even a science at all this is common sense. My gender and appearance has nothing to do with this. Desperate people who bitch and think they understand life because they are miserable are annoying. There is no secret understanding of these concepts. You are desperate and want things on demand and are complaining because everything you want isn't handed to you or you have work. Women do not have things easier than men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 11:16 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Lol what do you think? Would you change your opinion of me if I was guy? Would you call me a cuck? A simp? A white knight? Would you say I'm only saying this to get laid because you cant fathom the idea of an adult man that thinks like me without trying to get his dick wet? That I'm only catering towards women's feeling to fulfill my "biological predisposition to breed" like a fucking animal? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 10:38 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Lol should I be 90 pounds? Maybe I 120? I was an athlete what athlete do you know isn't packing some muscle. Regardless, make assumptions about my w appearance all you want my point still stands. Men who think like this are shallow and will forever be miserable whether hooking up, married, dating or single. I've been rejected by men a lot. I asked out every guy I ever liked. I initiated. Call me a man or masculine dominant or what ever pseudo- psychology word you alpha male boyfriend podcasters … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 10:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Sure I'm sure it's relevant data that takes into account cultural, geographic, age and racial variations as well. It's not just data that centers around north America or western culture in college or high school. It's not just data form dating apps like tinder because that represents a majority of all men and women from across racial, age and culture. I'm sure your data is very convincing and it's totally not an infographic form 4chan or the mensrights sub reddit 🤣. Get real dude people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Lol and neither do you. Keep being desperate and giving you body away to any random girl. Stay in that mental cage for all I care but know you do not represent all men just men in your family or community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:03 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Yeah that's why men still go after women with multiple baby daddies. Whores comes in both genders | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 07:36 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Again live in this mental cage if you want. Most men lose or actively try to lose their virginity at a young age and brag about it. Spending your 20s chasing tail makes you a whore whether it's only 1 body or 50 bodies. Virgin dudes you complain about dating in the context of just try to get laid are whores. If a girl was trying to get laid as a virgin and chasing every guy she comes across to try to sleep with her she is a whore. Use that same logic. I'm sure the women in your community can sni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 07:35 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.They are not remarkable. There are plenty of crack heads/homeless girls and girls with bad credit that will happily sleep with you. If you want a girl who has standards and has accomplishments under her belt while being attractive to you are you really surprised she will say no if you regularly sleep around? Same thing if I want to sleep with Henry Cavill I better have some money because he knows I only like him for his body and he doesn't know me at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 07:27 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Lol men in those cages love patriarchy. They like the idea of the "glow up" and make a bunch of money every cheerleader that rejected them in high school will like up to get their dick wet and have their kids. They see those alpha male podcaster and want to be like them because their mothers have not metaphorically stopped sucking them off since they age of 5. Their fathers are just like them because they taught them how to think like them. If these dudes have a Haram of OF girls and influencer … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 07:23 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.This is not how the real world works. If this is how you think the world works then be happy in your own misery. Any sane adult man or woman with standards and the work ethic/ accomplishments to match them will get their ideal partner regardless of looks or body count. Men and women like accomplishments and those podcasters/pick up artists/ influencer are not representations of the real world they are entertainers. Any sane intelligent adult can see that and would take their advice seriously. Fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 07:09 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.If you are sleeping every thing that says yes those could include pedos and murders Being a whore isn't a bad thing in both men and women it's just neutral. There is nothing remarkable about a person sleeping around. Being a man doesn't mean letting any consenting adult women get your dick wet it. Sleep around at your own expense and stop speaking for all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 07:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Lol dudes like you are tell on themselves every time they open their mouths. If a crack head or pedophile man that looked like Brad pitt or Henry Cavill or that stupid giga Chad guy was hitting on a girl or wants to sleep with her most sane women if not all sane adult women will say no period I can't say the same about guys who complain about dating I'd that person looked like Megan Fox. Your standards of just having low body count and looking like a Megan Fox will keep you miserable and still k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 06:46 PM |
| – | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.I'm not going to coddle a group of people who are in a mental cage of their own making. If you live in a first world country and your only issues is that in college/highschool girls weren't taking time out of their day to throat you cock whenever you feel like it that's on you. If your parents failed you that much that you have this much entitlement over other people's time that's on you. Having sex on demand and moving on to the next girl when you get bored doesn't make you man. Never had and i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 06:35 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Lmao well good on you for being honest with yourself as a whore. Maybe you are genetically like that because your mother was a pushover to your dad and your mother didn't beat that entitlement out of you at an early age but sane adult men who aren't whores or think being a whore makes them a man says otherwise. Thank you for being honest and saying you don't want a relationship you just wanna get your dick wet on demand by every OF girls and Megan Fox influencer. No sane woman who isn't mentally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 06:28 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Wrong again lol If she looked like hulk Hogan with a pussy would you sleep with her? If she was a crack head with bad credit but looked like Megan Fox would you still say yes? If a girl said I would like to date you but not sleep with you until you agree to marry her is she still rejecting you?? Men like in op post think agreeing to have sex is what it means to be selected. If you have no standards and just like cuz she is pretty then I got new for you. What do you call someone who that lets eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 06:17 PM |
| 13 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Lol trust me they don't. What do most of these men call a girl who gives it up after one date? Easy and what happens if someone records them in that position and posts it online? Do these men defend the girl and say how she was duped and basically assaulted or do they say she should have known better and not go after those "chads". As if men who complain about dating won't do the exact same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 06:06 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Wrong again. These men prioritize body count and looks. If a girl looked like Megan Fox and was a virgin dudes like you would jump at the chance to have sex with her. Not get to know, not to date not learn anything about her just bang her until you are bored. I've seen neck bread bronies in relationships. I seen fat furry men in relationships, I've seen the Chris Chan types in relationships. All with women. Did they look like Brad Pitt. No. However if you saw those women you would say they are u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 06:00 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Nope I used to play water polo in highschool and was a varsity swimmer. I'm 140 and 5'3. Make all the assumptions about my appearance all you want men who complain about dating are shallow and promiscuous. They don't want love or commitment they want fuck women like how they see their favorite porn stars and OF girls get fucked. They think sex workers represent all women and these kinds of men think they are owed something because they aren't in jail or they have not put a bullet in their head o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 05:44 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.Wrong. There are definitely types of girls that will give them a chance they just find those girls unattractive. If a girl meets all their other standards but not the looks one they will still sleep with her even if they are in a relationship but they will still bitch about dating. I have no sympathy for men like this because they are cowards who thinks they speak for everyone because some blonde cheerleader didn't give them attention in high school. Even if these men become conventionally attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Jobs that are dealbreakers (for me )...what about you?Male video game streamers. I've only seen things work out once for someone in that career and that was PewDiePie. The rest are ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Has the pendulum swung to far?No woman is sitting on their but and eating Cheetos and playing videogames all day while being in a relationship. We come down on men because their are dudes that do that and still have women in their lives taking care of everything else while they eat Cheetos and game for 8 hours straight. Society will never applaud a woman who does that while her partner works and cleans after her. Society criticizes women for being a sahm, going to college, being a single mom, not having kids, having too much… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 04:23 PM |
| 27 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.The reality is that most of those guys who complain are socialized to be promiscuous. They always complain that women don't want to "love" them but in reality if the girls they were interested in slept with them after one date they would get bored and find another girl. They don't want to date they want to sleep around with any girl they find attractive. They want to do this till they get tired enough to settle down with a girl that is a pushover enough for them to live in their delusions about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 04:14 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Guys’ dating woes online could be summarized as “I’m mad that Im not hot enough to get an abundance of pussy and validation”.The issue is that men who complain about dating woes don't actually want to date. They want to be able to have many sexual partners on demand whenever they feel like it. They don't want commitment lasting relationships they just want to "date" a girl till she eventually sleeps with him and then move on to a girl he finds more attractive. These kinds of men do not have standards and it's evident when they only site a woman's looks and body count while saying they speak for all men. The women they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 04:05 PM |
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