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Yes. Let me quickly give you some examples Saying that her mother and brother are going somewhere and she has to come to my house. This has happened with several things like going places she knows the little one wants to go. Literally we are going here and you are going to dads hahaha -(im literally quoting what my daughter said) Saying to her that if she cries to ask me to call her mum and mum will pick her up when its my weekend. And more general stuff like that in an attempt to get her to say…
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 02:38 AM
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/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 01:09 AM
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If this is what you believe then you need to be extra vigilant. Depending on his age. If she is what you think she is then you are in for a battle. She will try and turn your son against you and it will be with one intention. To hurt you. My son and i were really close. Father and son. I haven't spoken to my son for 14 months and trying to prove alienation is hard. Look at how your son treats you. It will be subtle but the signs at least for me were that he started to disrespect me and started p…
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 09:48 AM
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Concentrate on your child but be very careful. Look up parental alienation signs and get as much information you can. When she can't control your decision she may not necessarily she will but she may go after your reputation and worse of all, turn your child against you with the sole intention of hurting you. And believe me, this hurts far more than any man she is with or been with or anything else she does. After 3 yrs it sounds like she can't find anyone else and you are plan b. Either Way you…
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 11:11 PM
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If you get back together she may not respect you and since she has done it before and you took her back what's stopping her from leaving again If you don't then ryou run the risk of her putting your child against you. Personally i wouldn't. There is no need to be rude about it. Simply and kindly explaining your position, but you still run the same risk. How do i know. Because i am talking from experience. People don't leave the people they love, they leave the people they were using. Good luck
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 12:56 PM
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Instead of couples therapy seek therapy for yourself to help you move on. Why would you even consider taking her back anyway? Happened to me where she left for someone else. Hurts, we understand. The other comments are spot on. There are many possibilities but seems like she is taking you for a fool. Do you like or want to be plan b? If you take her back after this what's to say she wont do it again as you have already taken her back once. It's time my friend. Time to enjoy whatever is left of y…
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 01:39 PM
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Going through this as well. I just tell my children that they a free to tell me anything and if anything happens to tell me To treat him with respect I don't think there is anything else we can do
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/23 10:56 AM
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As the first commenter said they all sided with her. This was hard at first but after sometime i realized it was a blessing. Get ready to see who your true friends are. Stay strong, stay composed. Your main concern are the children. All the best
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 10:13 AM
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Personally I'd stay out of it I have enough problems and I really like my peace and quiet. Rock the boat if you want but ask yourself what you have to gain and what potential problems you may have coming your way and whether or not it's worth it
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/23 06:29 PM
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I too wouldn't reconcile either. I'm sorry. I know it's hard because I have been there. She will not respect you. She will probably do it again as you have proved that she can do what she wants and you will be there. Question is does she want you back because the other didn't want her? Is it necessary to sleep with someone else to see how much she loves you? I mean no offense to her in any way shape or form and I may be completely off but, this is usually the case and I have seen it first hand. …
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/23 09:55 AM
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I commented before and I will do it again Listen if you drag your kids into this she will take you to court or some other crazy stuff just to get back at you You have to be really careful how you play this
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 02:51 AM
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Yep happened to me too. It was frustrating at first but as time went on in my case she went from one bed to another and we live in a small town so word spread fast. She isn't as innocent as she made out to be
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 02:37 AM
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Sorry but I disagree We have to look at the children's best interest and even though she messed up, children don't belong in this. Her actions will have conseguences. She split up the family. Yeah got it. Took her husband to hell and back. Yeah got it. Do I agree no. At the end of the day. The kids need both parents divorced or not and driving a wedge between either parent is unacceptable.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 02:27 AM
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This is nonsense. Had the same issue. We agreed not to tell our son and then my son told me what I had supposedly done. Looks like it's the same rubbish with you only mine was 11 at the time. You are going to get blamed anyway it really doesn't matter what you say. In your position I would tell her to stop otherwise I would tell them even though I wouldn't They don't need any of this extra pressure. They are already seeing their parents divorce and that's hard enough If I was you. I would tell h…
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 02:22 AM
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Not my experience as I am not interested in that nonsense but I regards to your comment. They have the whole world to pick from and you know what happens when there are too many choices...
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 02:12 AM
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Sound advice buddy. I too wish her the best. But have you noticed that they don't wish us the best? Or Am special? I think mine is waiting to go to the cemetery to make sure I am really there!!
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 02:10 AM
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Haha. Yeah I get that. Why don't you go on dates, get a girlfriend etc Jokingly I look at them and ask why they want me to be unhappy. Obviously I'm kidding. I have nothing against women. The truth is I'm exactly like you. I wouldn't have time for her and I am done with sacrificing my time for someone who doesn't appreciate it I only sacrifice my time for my family and children and a very few select friends
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 02:06 AM
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Been through it too and completely agree. Well said my man. Op read the comments. Wish her all the best and getting on with it.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/23 09:17 AM
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No, no and hell no. My man come on get it together. Look, we get it. Its hard, she did this and that and now you feel like you don't know where to turn. I've been there and in some aspects still in there and many men before us and many men after us. It's the nature of the game. Call it a test if you will. Learn your lessons and believe me there are many. I understand how hard this is but you have to put into perspective. If you made mistakes, so what, you made mistakes. LEARN FROM THEM. If she m…
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 09:22 AM
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Completely agree. But if she is like that then it was a matter of time Besides. No man can steal your woman. Only your problem I do the same. If she has a boyfriend or is married I'm not even entertaining the thought of her. If she cheats to be with me, she will cheat to leave me
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/23 11:53 AM
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Going through the same nonsense Do what you can for your daughter and take it one step at a time Document everything Courts with proof are difficult to deny
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/23 09:40 AM
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Yep this is it in a nutshell We men have to understand this. Took me a while but I got there. Absolutely correct in those traits missing from females. They have other traits we don't. I'm not against women but some of the things they do leave me dumbfounded. It is what it is. You aren't going to get upset because a dog barks or because bees sting. It's their nature and women also have their nature. Women are very hive minded. If she has the wrong friends then the relationship is basically over a…
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 07:35 PM
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Completely agree It's about time that men realize that the majority of women don't actually give a crap about us Wake up guys
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 09:16 AM
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If what you say is true. It is financial abuse. But not on your part. There is also emotional abuse present, but again, not on your part. I think you know what to do.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/23 09:39 AM
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To be honest and no offense meant to anyone. Why would any man get married in today's day and age
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/23 10:59 AM
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No. But she will think you are still interested
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/23 09:38 AM
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What a coincidence or was it. Oh yeah. Its pure hell. I was the same. It really helps put things into perspective and the calmness that it brings is surreal. Never forget. Our children need us.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/23 08:00 PM
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It's hard. Been through it. It was easy once I found out the truth. Affair. Other men. Since I am not a plan b for anyone. Once o found that out it was like a breath of fresh air Now she is attacking me via children. Trying to turn them against Reason why I told you this is because it could happen to you to. Which is something you should keep in mind Watch how your kids attitude changes. If the kids start disrespecting you. Start to be apathetic towards you it's a warning sign The dichotomy of c…
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/23 07:25 PM
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