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| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 11, 2026OYS#27 08/11/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 182lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, Rational Male Year 1 Reading: MAP Physical: SQ 185lbs (1x8), Incline Bench Press 135lbs (1x6), DL 185lbs (1x10) My Mission: To do the best version of myself and do service. Lifting: I changed my workout program to PPL. The other program I was doing I noticed it was too advanced and also with my knee injury, I am unable to do heavy lifts. Changed my workout to incorporate PPL based… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/08/26 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2026Are you being selfish and jerk? You are not mean to her. You are just holding frame and not reacting to her. No, that is why I put it quotations. My NG persona would think I am being a jerk and selfish but I am not. Would a woman be attracted to someone who reacts to her emotions or someone around whom she can feel her emotions and he will keep her grounded? Have gotten way better results by remaining grounded and letting her feel out her emotions. Honestly it's way more peaceful and fulfilling … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/26 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 04, 2026OYS#26 08/04/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 182lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, Rational Male Year 1 Reading: MAP Physical: SQ 185lbs (1x8), Incline Bench Press 145lbs (1x8), DL 185lbs (1x10) My Mission: Have my ego on check. Let go of my fears. Be a man of my own frame and principles. Be there for the young generation coming up. Have fun in the process. The mission above has not yet changed. But I do feel I am headed somewhere and will change. Lifting: Since… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/08/26 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 21, 2026Not sure I am understanding this part. Big picture what I can take is I am not 100% control of all my thoughts or emotions. There is no specific path. It is simply be conscious of what you are doing and move ahead. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/08/26 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 28, 2026Dread, shitty comfort test. I can see how this was a shitty comfort test. That's the stupidest thing I have heard in my life. You don't have to decide anything. You can keep her in limbo as long as you want. Women like that shit. They like a little dread. Just don't be overt about it and communicate it to her. I understand where you are coming from for this, but in this specific situation I will have to disagree. There is indeed dread, she is definitely more than aware I don't have oneitis. In t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/08/26 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 21, 2026So I did this exercise, really interesting what occurred. First time: lasted 10 minutes. Immediately when I sat down my mind was not focused at all and still focused on random thoughts I had going about during my day. I felt a bit frustrated and not grounded in the moment. I simply could not BE there. Then I mentally told myself I need to let go and truly be there. So that's what I did. I noticed all my thoughts and emotions started coming up but I was still looking at the wall. It felt like a t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/26 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 28, 2026OYS#25 07/28/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 182lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, Rational Male Year 1 Reading: MAP Physical: SQ 185lbs (1x8), Incline Bench Press 1145lbs (1x8), DL 185lbs (1x10) My Mission: Have my ego on check. Let go of my fears. Be a man of my own frame and principles. Be there for the young generation coming up. Have fun in the process. I have a feeling my mission might change soon. Goals stay same, but mission change. Lifting: sleep has im… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/07/26 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 21, 2026Bro is putting up a half-ton on bench hot damn. Lol just noticed this. The rest of your message has me intrigued. Is it that essentially whatever we decide to do is not really our own at the end of the day? The only way to truly be aligned is to keep asking yourself why you do something but essentially that questioning can go endless? For example, let's say I sit down facing the wall for an entire day. I get hungry and thirsty. I want to standup. I ask myself why. Well because I need to eat and … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/07/26 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 21, 2026Well said I agree. Will keep this in mind. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/07/26 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 21, 2026I can lift heavier it's just since the plan just started, it starts of low. What would be your input on which plan fits best? I've started doing more sports so I like the fact it still focuses on heavy sets on compound lifts but higher reps on isolation. I run it for now 3 days a week, sports 2-3 times a week, and calisthenics 2 days a week (usually same days as sports). | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/07/26 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 21, 2026OYS#24 07/21/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 182lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, Rational Male Year 1 Reading: need to pick the next book. Will go with MAP. Physical: SQ 185lbs (1x8), Incline Bench Press 1145lbs (1x8), DL 185lbs (1x10) My Mission: Have my ego on check. Let go of my fears. Be a man of my own frame and principles. Be there for the young generation coming up. Have fun in the process. I want to revisit this part. I have been thinking of my mission… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/26 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 09, 2026OYS#23 06/09/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP Reading: Rational Male Year 1 Physical: SQ 225lbs (1x5), Incline Bench Press 175lbs (1x5), Row 135lbs (1x8), OHP 135lbs (1x4), DL 215lbs (1x5) My Mission: Have my ego on check. Let go of my fears. Live by my own frame and principles. Be there for the young generation coming up. Have fun in the process. Lifting: I changed my workout program to the 5/3/1 program. Started today. I was… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/06/26 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 12, 2026Usually it's fear that the 'real' you won't be accepted. Yes this is it. Fear of rejection/judgement. And I'm not talking just about women. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/05/26 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 12, 2026Isn’t that why you need that narrative and guilt to be true, and attend those circle jerk meetings so you can feel good about feeling bad. This gave me good insight. I am going to revisit those parts of NMMNG. In regards to the meetings, yes and no. Again, I see some value in it and it is not about sitting and yapping/venting about my feelings. I believe Dr. Glover himself also recommended 12 step groups. I disagree with u/Teh1whoSees about effort though, as you are too content to suck and do wh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/05/26 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 12, 2026This sounds like a woman wrote it. Stop letting life happen to you. I do need to take back ownership. I see how this post was more whining. Anyways, it was needed to have a wake-up call. What would happen if you just went and did what you wanted, manly shit not involving women, for the next 6 months? You don't even need to divorce. Logistics + whatever free value she wants to give for 6 months. Because... I've already started on this. Already doing hobbies I enjoy and dedicating more time to mys… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/05/26 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 12, 2026Thanks for taking the time to writing this out and sharing a piece of your story. I think you hit the nail in the head and I agree with not trusting myself. I am afraid of taking risks and trusting my own sexual desires. I need to go through that and hit a couple of "roadblocks" to come out the other side and see I am perfectly fine. I do see some value in the 12 step program. I do not believe I have a "disease" or whatever, but I see certain value in the program and uniquely go for that value. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/05/26 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 12, 2026You are not a real man if you never face regret for your decisions and then build an incredible life for yourself anyways. I like this Here is what you gonna do, don't break up with your gf but don't live together anymore. Basically a demotion. Last week I decided on a strict timeframe for the relationship. Keep working on myself in this time but once close to that edge, analyze again if I want to be in it and if it's a right fit. Go on there from there. Yes, if I were to go back in time it woul… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/05/26 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 12, 2026Was not expecting this amount of feedback. I will be honest, hit my ego, but I will read it once again with an open mind. Self-conscious about flair in a subreddit. Look at you. Even more reason to leave it exactly how it is. One way or another you are right. Still giving too much of a shit what others think. Hows that working out for you? Spot on. I put the PS comment simply to throw it out there, randomly. But more than anything, reading these comments hit the ego and thats most important. Are… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/05/26 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 12, 2026OYS#22 05/12/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP Reading: Rational Male Year 1 Physical: SQ 225lbs (1x5), Incline Bench Press 175lbs (1x5), Row 135lbs (1x8), OHP 135lbs (1x4), DL 215lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego, create my own frame, and live by it. Stick true to my principles. Be there for the young generation coming up. Have fun in the process. Lifting: Lifting has been good. I still seem to plateau on my squat, incline ben… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/05/26 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 05, 2026What do you mean by I am missing consistency? I'm aware of taking care of the current relationships one has and providing quality service but I believe that is not my issue here. I believe my issue is not executing faster (out of fear). For example, the new potential client I had last week I went ahead and setup the call and items rapidly. I knew I should have onboarded him on the spot during the call but I did not want to overwhelm him. Instead I emailed him the agreement and invoice after the … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/05/26 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 05, 2026OYS#21 05/05/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP Reading: Rational Male Year 1 Physical: SQ 225lbs (1x5), Incline Bench Press 175lbs (1x5), Row 135lbs (1x8), OHP 135lbs (1x4), DL 205lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego, create my own frame, and live by it. Stick true to my principles. Be there for the young generation coming up. Have fun in the process. Lifting: Today I was bitching to myself that I was not making the progress I wou… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/05/26 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 28, 2026OYS#20 04/28/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP Reading: Rational Male Year 1 Physical: SQ 225lbs (1x5), Incline Bench Press 165lbs (1x5), Row 135lbs (1x8), OHP 135lbs (1x4), DL 195lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego, create my own frame, and live by it. Stick true to my principles. Be there for the young generation coming up. Have fun in the process. Lifting: Lifting has been good and consistent. I read somewhere recently that pl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/04/26 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 21, 2026Seems the comment was removed. Can you explain further so I understand? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/26 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 07, 2026That is truly one of the main things I want. I want to grow and share this life journey with someone. I want a woman that has same goals as me and we can build something together. I want a woman that supports me in what I do. Now added things I did not think about before: I want a woman that will be a good mother to my kids. I want a relationship with good sexual desire. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/26 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 21, 2026OYS#19 04/21/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP Reading: Rational Male Year 1 Physical: SQ 225lbs (1x5), Incline Bench Press 165lbs (1x5), Row 135lbs (1x8), OHP 135lbs (1x4), DL 185lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego, create my own frame, and live by it. Stick true to my principles. Be there for the young generation coming up. Have fun in the process. Lifting: I've noticed I have hit a plateau on my squats. I would like to increas… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/04/26 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 07, 2026To grow alongside with someone. Ironically for many years we were "growing" in the wrong direction. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/04/26 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 07, 2026If you were shooting by yourself with no one to judge you, would you honestly have felt the same? I would to a certain level yes. I'm a big critic to myself and perfectionist. Why didn’t you just ask for tips from these more experienced shooters? Ego. After a while, I did let myself be open-minded to advice they wanted to give but internally I was still off. You also did a boring dinner date because you were afraid of doing something you found fun and having her reject it or judge you This hit h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/04/26 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 07, 2026If you're referring to more passion for life and unique personality, yes I would agree. What parts of my post gave that off so I can be aware of it? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/04/26 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2026Yeah and where is that? What did you say? I simply said I am taking it a day at a time and I would let her know. This isn’t driven from the roots of strength in owning who you are with acceptance of consequences related those actions. Instead it is based in fear. You are right, I am not owning who I am and that's important. Thank you for that. Owning who I am, regardless of my surroundings, I would be ok with myself. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/04/26 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2026What concrete actions can you take to eliminate or at-least shrink these fears? For fear of being alone, simply do more things I genuinely like with others or by myself. When I do this, I feel joy for myself and a certain confidence in me that regardless of anything I can turn to those activities/things I enjoy. For fear of rejection, simply put myself out there more and be sociable. Express myself genuinely without holding back. Do you believe there is a version of you that could walk around kn… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/04/26 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 07, 2026OYS#18 04/07/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP Reading: Rational Male Year 1 Physical: SQ 225lbs (1x5), Incline Bench Press 155lbs (1x5), Row 125lbs (1x8), OHP 135lbs (1x4), DL 185lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego and build my own frame to be a strong oak. Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Have fun in the process. Lifting: Weightlifting has been good. Sticking to the program I have now. I skipped two days. Need to… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/26 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2026A lot. - The power has been shifting back and forth. When I live my life and don't have my head all in the LTR, I feel the power. But when she starts expressing her wants for deeper commitment and I lose myself in that, the power shifts back. - The LTR has become stagnant and boring because I have become predictable. Have left almost absolute zero imagination for her. The same mundane routine. The same mundane texts. - I had thought the most alpha thing to do in LTR was be the provider. Little d… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/26 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2026We have same mindset on how we want to raise kids. We have same financial goals. We want similar lifestyles. When I'm living my life, she doesn't get on my nerves. We want the same relationship dynamic in the long-term. That's why I'm in it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/26 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2026You’re still afraid to embrace your sexuality without fear How can you tell off this post? What things made this clear? I do feel my sexual shame has decreased thanks to the feedback her on MRP, but what parts are still giving off that I haven't fully embraced my sexuality? I was thinking about this comment. Ignore it. The deeper questions… does your gf know you’re in SAA? She does. I've received a good amount of negative feedback on it and I understand why. I still decide to go as I like the 12… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/26 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2026I was going to say I don't think I want her to solve any problem of mine but then I thought, the problem I am trying to make her solve for me is if I still want her in my life long-term or not. I don't know what actionable steps to take in regards to that except keep on my MAP and living my life. As I get more congruent with my better self I'll get the answer. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/26 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2026Thanks for the reminder. Living by my personal principles is part of my mission and in essence has given me more peace of mind and freedom. If internally I know I don't want her anymore, I'll break it off. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/26 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2026You are right, I don't have the balls to walk away. At least not now. But by the interactions we've had and my gut instinct says she won't pull the plug. If it comes to it, I will have to grow some balls and do it. The whole conversation was about how she can see how indecisive you are. Yes you're right. The one thing I'm decisive on as of today is I don't want to pull the plug yet and I want to take it one day at a time, yet she wants deeper commitment. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/26 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2026Look how much mental effort you're taking to make her case for her. Can you help me understand this? Do you mean I am putting my head too much in it and taking over her anxiety? Let me ask you this: The guilt / lack of integrity you feel...is it guilt toward yourself? Or guilt on her behalf? I was going to say both but if I dig deep it's guilt from her and others (my parents and her friends asking where this relationship is heading). This past week for example I lived my life on my terms and did… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/26 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2026Thanks for the wake-up that I am focusing to much on her. But I truly want to understand the meaning behind this. Is the message you're trying to send to keep focusing on what I want for my life and my actions, and detach from any anxiety of hers? As in, if I'm fine being in the relationship and enjoying my life day to day then so be it. But if she wants something else or deeper commitment and decides to leave because I did not do that, then so be it as well. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/26 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2026If you DEERed then it didn't come out naturally. You just get defensive. That's just losing control over yourself. Not showing vulnerability required to let things come out naturally. True. Word vomit is just that, word vomit. How would she know what you want when you yourself don't know what you want. True, but it is also true she hit the nail in the head of me being in limbo. Regardless of her words. Yeah, you want to run away from discomfort but there is still a soul in you to guide you. List… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/04/26 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 17, 2026This is a great reply and something I've been thinking. Got me curious - how can i make sure I am congruent in action and fully accepting of myself and reality? I always think, when will I finally accept myself and truly enjoy what life has to give. Could it be by possibly taking inventory of my life and actions every so often to make sure I'm aligned with my true real self? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/04/26 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2026OYS#17 03/31/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP Reading: Rational Male Year 1 Physical: SQ 225lbs (1x5), Incline Bench Press 155lbs (1x5), Row 115lbs (1x8), OHP 135lbs (1x4), DL 185lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego and build my own frame to be a strong oak. Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Have fun in the process. Lifting: Updated my stats above to track my strongest lift so far. I updated my workout program to ha… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/04/26 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 17, 2026Always surprises me how you all always hit the nail in the head by just reading a post. Thanks for pointing this out. Yes in fact I've been taking things too seriously and living a mundane life recently. Lots of work lately but I can take ownership of bringing some lightness to my life. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/03/26 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 17, 2026Not yet. I finished reading MMSLP. I was thinking of reading MAP next since maybe I'm too much in my head about relationships. Would you still recommend rational male year 1 over MAP? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/03/26 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 17, 2026The special thing about her is that she's aligned with my long-term career goals, same life values, and the way to raise a family/household. She's proven to be supportive of what I want in life. Thats what I was looking for when I first met. Yet over the time that has passed recently, her intense and outspoken personality has turned me off a bit. This is where I'm at. I'm still figuring out if to leave or continue. Working on MAP in meantime. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/03/26 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 17, 2026OYS#16 03/17/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG Reading: MMSLP Physical: SQ 185lbs (3x8), Incline Bench Press 135lbs (3x8), Row 155lbs (5x5), OHP 135lbs (5x5), DL 175lbs (3x8) My Mission: Kill my ego and build my own frame to be a strong oak. Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Have fun in the process. Lifting: Completed my savage race. Had great amount of fun. Busted up my hands a bit so taking it slow as I'm back to weigh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/03/26 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 24, 2026100% makes sense | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/03/26 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 24, 2026Thanks for the feedback. Yes I guess in the past I have been vulnerable but not in my frame (either in the moment or afterwards). That's why in the moment I listed out above, I attempted to let it out natural but also get my composure back naturally. Will keep this in mind in case it happens again (vulnerability is ok as long as keeping frame). | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/03/26 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 10, 2026Thanks for reminder. Seems to be a constant struggle of mine. Gaming her at times feels kind of forced but will apply it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/03/26 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 03, 2026OYS#15 03/03/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG Reading: MMSLP Physical: SQ 185lbs (3x8), Incline Bench Press 135lbs (3x8), Row 155lbs (5x5), OHP 135lbs (5x5), DL 175lbs (3x8) My Mission: Kill my ego and build my own frame to be a strong oak. Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Have fun in the process. Lifting: Good week following my program. Ran multiple days. My savage race is this weekend. I got sick so I am attempting t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/26 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 24, 2026You're fixing you, not the relationship - why do you give a shit? It doesn't matter if she's leaking this week or not, if she's choosing to be a bitch I'm not around. I was attempting to reflect on Athol Kay's message from the book. This level of intimacy is not a gift to give willy nilly, most women will shred you for this, or use it in a future shit test. My wife certainly did, the worst shit test I ever got was two days after my grandfather died, ABOUT HOW I WAS HANDLING IT. But you gave her … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/26 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 24, 2026Thanks for the wake up call. You are right. I focused too much on that area and her instead of my actions and my mission. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/26 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 24, 2026Yeah women are dime a dozen. If you can't be vulnerable with her in the fear that she will lose attraction, then what's the point of her? Can you share your experience here? My experiences with this level of vulnerability and women have been completely different. In past relationships and in current one, when I have had vulnerable moments such as the one above, they will understand but I will feel the disrespect later on. They never do it on purpose but I do sense some loss of attraction/respect… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/26 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 24, 2026OYS#15 02/24/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG Reading: MMSLP Physical: SQ 185lbs (3x8), Incline Bench Press 135lbs (3x8), Row 155lbs (5x5), OHP 135lbs (5x5), DL 175lbs (3x8) My Mission: Kill my ego and build my own frame to be a strong oak. Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Have fun in the process. Lifting: Was not consistent in gym last week, missed two days. I updated my lifts above with the new workout plan I'm doing… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/26 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 17, 2026Thanks. That date really felt good. Felt I roamed the night with some balls and my real authentic self. Did not feel that in a while. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/26 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 17, 2026I'm curious here... Do you actually enjoy being around your GF/LTR? Do you get any value from this relationship? I do get value out of it, that's why I'm still with her. In regards to enjoying being around her, when she's acting right yes. Otherwise, I go do my own thing. I ask as 14 OYS posts in, you seem to constantly be thinking about every interaction you have with her before interacting with her. You are very much in your head and still have a scoreboard that you are ticking off for everyth… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/26 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 10, 2026Thanks. Not sure there's much value in the responses but it is a wake up call at least, if that's the message trying to be sent out. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/26 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 17, 2026Because FWIW, when I moved in with my girlfriend (who was my fiancé within 6 months, and later wife) I was so fucking happy. I was over the moon. There wasn't uncertainty about where the relationship was heading. We were excited to start building, together. We fucked more, and consistently, than we ever had while dating. It was fucking great. I'm on a somewhat similar situation as OP. Except we have been together for 4yrs and lived together for about 3.5yrs. It's been a while and I have set myse… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/02/26 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 17, 2026OYS#14 02/17/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG Reading: MMSLP Physical: SQ 235lbs (5x5), Incline Bench Press 175lbs (5x5), Row 155lbs (5x5), OHP 135lbs (5x5), DL 215lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego and build my own frame to be a strong oak. Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Have fun in the process. Lifting: I switched up my workout plan this week since my savage race is getting closer. Switched it to 3 days conditioning… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/02/26 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 10, 2026Not sure if you meant to reply but seems it did not fully post. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/02/26 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 10, 2026To build a muscular frame that will build attraction, your squat and deadlift should both start with at LEAST a 3 and not a 2 (a 4 is even better), and your upper body lifts should be 30-40% higher for your bodyweight. You should also target 12% BF at your height and weight to show that off. Is that weight for all 5 sets or one set? I was doing 5x5 top back off sets so those lift numbers are for my first set. BF definitely needs to reduce. At the moment I am eating just slightly below maintenanc… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/02/26 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 03, 2026This stuck, thanks for this. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/02/26 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 03, 2026You opened my eyes to what a crap cycle. In one way also lying to myself and not owning up. By having that sexual shame, I can admit I have even lost the feeling of horniness at times and jerking off has been just to do it. But I understand you now. Own my needs, own my faults, and take action. If I need sex I can initiate with my girl and if after many try's there are rejections, then I need to satisfy the need somehow. Or I have not been improving myself that builds attraction (lying to myself… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/02/26 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 10, 2026OYS#13 02/10/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG Reading: MMSLP Physical: SQ 235lbs (5x5), Incline Bench Press 175lbs (5x5), Row 155lbs (5x5), OHP 135lbs (5x5), DL 215lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego and build my own frame to be a strong oak. Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Have fun in the process. Lifting: As I'm approaching the date to my savage race, I am now focusing more on conditioning workouts and increase the re… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/02/26 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 03, 2026Thanks for taking the time to provide all this input. Let me make sure I understood this correctly. So are you saying to lose the shame about porn and masturbating being so bad and if at times that's the only way to satisfy my need, then to do so? But to be aware that if I am not getting the sex I want, and I am jerking, then use that as a signal to better myself. That over time as I better myself, I will see things slowly fall in place better and the need to use porn and masturbation to satisfy… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/02/26 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 03, 2026I do agree with your point on discipline. There was once a time I had no porn for three months. During the time I went full head on my fitness, finances, and relationship. By being disciplined on this, the need for porn wasn't even there. OP why don't you just stop fighting and keep watching porn and masturbate? It doesn't sound that bad. Takes me away from facing reality. If I'm bored or stressed, I could easily watch porn instead of doing something else with my life. If I want sex but afraid o… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/02/26 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 03, 2026lol not going to go into my whole back story, in summary, a very bad habit of mine for a long time. I understand the opinion against the meetings I attend, but either way it has brought value to me regardless of the porn/masturbation. The 12 steps help in killing my ego, my spirituality, and overall self-development. I value those things. Appreciate the call out on the porn and masturbation part though. There is no excuse. A bad habit and pushes me away from facing reality. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/02/26 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 03, 2026OYS#12 02/03/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG Reading: MMSLP Physical: SQ 235lbs (5x5), Incline Bench Press 175lbs (5x5), Row 155lbs (5x5), OHP 135lbs (5x5), DL 215lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego and build my own frame to be a strong oak. Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Have fun in the process. Lifting: Very proud I added weight to my bench press and squat and able to do them successfully. I might be pushing my body… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/02/26 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 27, 2026Since horns mentioned it might be helpful to trade notes. When I first started using STFU it helped to not be unattractive and not lose "points" but would just leave it there. I wanted more forward direction. I attempted WISNIFG tactics but in my relationship they only worked through light stuff (the tactics worked better at work or other interactions). When I applied WISNIFG to heavy shit tests, I felt retarded and she would keep shit testing me. That's when I said fuck it I've had enough and d… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/26 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 27, 2026Glad to hear you are making progress. At the beginning it was very rough. Felt like a hurricane mixed with earthquakes. All the changes I wanted to make for myself or us, she would contest them all and it was a shitstorm. Not sure when precisely it occurred but I decided regardless if she leaves me, I needed to change, going to do this for me, and that's when things started slowly shifting. It's the only way. Needs to be consistent though and always leveling up. If I slack, shit will come. If I … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/26 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 27, 2026Let me know if I understood this correctly. So in order for her to let go and laugh, and have fun in this playground, she needs to feel safe first. That safety will come through shit testing me and me not taking shit. Through taking leadership. Through following through on my actions. Through protecting her. Through taking care of my own shit. And I have the control to create this safety. Basically this strength is the foundation and I have the ability to build that, before us creating this play… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/26 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 27, 2026Didn't actually expect this response. This is great insight horns. Fed my ego a bit as well. She is definitely learning to be more submissive. Yesterday I saw she listens to a podcast saying on how to make a man fall in love with you (MRP material but for woman). My mindset was not sure if these behavioral changes are because she wants to do it for herself or she is actually slowly shifting more to me, but either way I'll take the benefits and continue what I'm doing. Yes you're right, my new st… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/26 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 20, 2026Great input. But keep in mind, your baseline is probably to view your dick and balls as a curse. Your woman wants them, bad. Even if she doesn’t say it overtly. I could be wrong, but you may need to embrace your aggressive side more. This part stuck out to me. There definitely is a part of me that has some sexual shame. During sex I am generally aggressive and I let it out, but my shame definitely stops me from initiating more. Since Nice Guys have been conditioned by their families and society … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/26 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 27, 2026OYS#11 01/27/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG Reading: MMSLP Physical: SQ 225lbs (5x5), Incline Bench Press 165lbs (5x5), Row 155lbs (5x5), OHP 135lbs (5x5), DL 215lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego and build my own frame to be a strong oak. Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Have fun in the process. Lifting: Took the advice from last week and made my back off sets in the 8-10 rep range. Felt it better. I also reduced the… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/26 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 20, 2026I definitely did give up here. I wanted some spontaneity for the night and I felt I had to take charge in leading to that so I tried. Last week was a tough week for me so having to lead to the spontaneous sex instead of simply receiving it, felt like an extra responsibility. Yes either way, I could have dealt with this better and that is on me. The car sex was a hard no, but the sex at home was open. I ruined the sex at home since I let my butthurt feelings and stress of the day ruin my sexual d… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/01/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 20, 2026Explore work closer to failure. Start with a heavy set of 5 but do back off work in the 8-12 range that is challenging or close to failure. This is an interesting point. I will most likely try this out. My savage race is almost one month so I don't want to overcomplicate either. Most likely I'll alter a little bit as you mentioned and once race is done, I'll see if any other plan fits better. This sounds like a soft no. Did you try pushing through? I did push and she countered with doing it at h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/01/26 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 20, 2026OYS#10 01/20/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG Reading: MMSLP Physical: SQ 225lbs (5x5), Incline Bench Press 165lbs (5x5), Row 155lbs (5x5), OHP 135lbs (5x5), DL 215lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego and build my own frame to be a strong oak. Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Have fun in the process. Lifting: I'm starting to notice somewhat of a plateau in my lifts. I bought a belt, especially for squat and deadlift, and … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/26 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 13, 2026If there is doubt, there is no doubt Is this saying, if there is doubt then there is your answer? You have my approval to next her, then install tinder, spin some plates, get some chicks to ch0ke and eat your ass then you can blame me later. Thanks for the insight. I believe this is possible, especially since I'm young. Something inside me says not to next at the moment. When I wanted a relationship I told myself I was actually going to try for real this time. Now that I'm leveling myself up, I … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/26 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 13, 2026Thanks for the input. Good input especially "wasting HER time" vs thinking about me. I have not read TRP sidebar. I'll look into TRP sidebar and get more insight on what you are mentioning. I went directly into MRP and read most of the MRP side bar. A few days ago I finished WISNIFG and now I'm reading MMSLP. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/26 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 06, 2026How come you felt uncomfortable with the cop’s presence and demeanor? Was it more about him, your girlfriend, or yourself? Do you think there was an onus upon you to speak up? Was this an opportunity for you to test your own limits of confidence, or did you frame your girl as a non adult who couldn’t handle her own problems? I believe this was about myself, him, and a test of my confidence for myself. There was another time that a family member of hers expressed something loud and I did not like… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/01/26 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 13, 2026Did not initiate. The guilt and anxiety of whether to continue this relationship has made me lose some desire to initiate. We did have foreplay yesterday though. Lost desire when she expressed wanting sex in certain conditions instead of being adventurous how we used to be. Simply told her I lost the mood. Today I initiated and we had sex. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/26 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 13, 2026OYS#9 01/13/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG Reading: WISNIFG Physical: SQ 225lbs (5x5), Incline Bench Press 165lbs (5x5), Row 145lbs (5x5), OHP 125lbs (5x5), DL 205lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego and build my own frame to be a strong oak. Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Have fun in the process. Lifting: Signed up for a savage race with a friend. I did not miss a day of workout last week. I've also started implementing cardi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/26 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 06, 2026OYS#8 01/06/2026 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 4 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG Reading: WISNIFG Physical: SQ 225lbs (5x5), Incline Bench Press 165lbs (5x5), Row 135lbs (5x5), OHP 125lbs (5x5), DL 205lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego and build my own frame to be a strong oak. Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Have fun in the process. Lifting: I need to pick up OHP and Rows. Last week I was out of town and skipped those days. I'm proud though of the weight I'm lif… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/01/26 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 30, 2025OYS#7 12/30/2025 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 3.5 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG Reading: WISNIFG Physical: SQ 215lbs (5x5), Incline Bench Press 155lbs (5x5), Row 135lbs (5x5), OHP 125lbs (5x5), DL 195lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego and build my own frame to be a strong oak. Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Have fun in the process. Lifting: Picked up the strength in weightlifting slowly. Only missed one day in gym. I remained consistent in adding days to cali… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/12/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 23, 2025Thanks for the feedback. On my end it doesn't feel I'm afraid to piss her off or rejection. It's more so lack of sexual desire towards her but I'll take your feedback in consideration and initiate when the urge comes up. I did not put up the flair, I saw it there naturally. Not sure if the mods put it. I really don't care of a flair. I attempted to take down but did not see an option. If you know how I can take it down, let me know. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/12/25 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 23, 2025I'm not in the program for only to have sex or simply stop masturbating. When I first started that was the goal, but now I noticed other things more valuable (facing fears, resentments, letting go of shame, connection with God). I understand some have different opinions but there are valuable things in it for me. Maybe in the future I'll change my view or maybe not, but for now it's good. I did not initiate. I've been losing the urge to even initiate. It feels like I got used to her or not see h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/12/25 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 23, 2025Thanks for the feedback. I believe I was being serious in that moment which is natural, but the above is a good response. I'll take it into consideration. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/12/25 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 23, 2025OYS #6 12/23/2025 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 3.5 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG Reading: WISNIFG Physical: SQ 205lbs (5x5), Incline Bench Press 145lbs (5x5), Row 135lbs (5x5), OHP 125lbs (5x5), DL 195lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego and build my own frame to be a strong oak. Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Have fun in the process. Lifting: Been on point this week. Only did not go one day. I've also added hypertrophy/super-set days in additional to the three… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/12/25 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 16, 2025Thank you for taking the time to explain this. Yes I've read that a relationship in 20s is not recommend. Will need experience and it's the time for fuck ups. Also read that suggested to not move in with gf. Again, I am where I am. When I was single I wanted someone to grow with. I got that but getting into MRP, I saw all the errors I made. At the moment I'm simply taking it one day at time. Sidebar, reading, STFU, and lift. The conflict inside of me is if I should let her go. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/25 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 16, 2025Can you share on what you think I don't know? Would like to be aware and learn. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/12/25 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 16, 2025I'm still not understanding. Can you explain how you see it as weak and wrong? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/12/25 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 16, 2025I understand, I see what you're getting at. The way I see it is that there's something obssesive and unfortunately by myself I haven't been able to get out of it. So I am "powerless" because I can't do it alone. I have a Higher Power, meetings to speak up, work the steps, make amends, read, people in my group to call me out on my BS, create better habits. Putting all this into action. I see it the same as marriages struggling and the husband has been trying many things and it hasn't been working… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/12/25 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 16, 2025Well yes, there is history on sexual shame and shame in general. That's why I speak up in SAA and it's been alleviating. I read the post. There are parts I did not fully understand. I might be wrong, but from what I understand the summary is that having this name "sex addict" is a phrase that women/society created to say men's natural sexuality is bad. That there is no sex addiction, it's simply men being men. Let me know if I'm wrong. For me SAA, there are parts I agree and I disagree. I disagr… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/12/25 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 16, 2025Yes, before MRP I joined so I can receive help. Regardless of the unhealthy sexual acts, it's been good to me. I don't understand, what is it about SAA you find wrong? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/12/25 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 16, 2025OYS #5 12/16/2025 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 3.5 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG Reading: WISNIFG Physical: SQ 195lbs (5x5), Incline Bench Press 125lbs (5x5), Row 125lbs (5x5), OHP 125lbs (5x5), DL 195lbs (1x5) My Mission: Kill my ego and build my own frame to be a strong oak. Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Have fun in the process. Lifting: Slowly increasing weight after 1 month vacation. On cruise this weekend, focused on calisthenics, flexibility, and comp… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/12/25 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 09, 2025When I was done with my morning routine, I was about to leave to the gym and noticed she was in the sofa all angry and sad. I simply said I'll be back, going to the gym. When I came back from the gym, she was in a corner of the room, crying and all upset. Unfortunately, I tried only listening to her and STFU but I did DEER. I felt if I did not address her questions/concerns she would decide to leave me (oneitis and fear). At the start I took it at face value that she was just trying to gain back… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/12/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 09, 2025Good call out. I have but I've been slow and inconsistent. I picked it up now more. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/12/25 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 09, 2025When I was done with my morning routine, I was about to leave to the gym and noticed she was in the sofa all angry and sad. I simply said I'll be back, going to the gym. When I came back from the gym, she was in a corner of the room, crying and all upset. Unfortunately, I tried only listening to her and STFU but I did DEER. I felt if I did not address her questions/concerns she would decide to leave me (oneitis and fear). At the start I took it at face value that she was just trying to gain back… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/25 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 09, 2025OYS #4 12/9/2025 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 3.5 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG Reading: WISNIFG Physical: SQ 195lbs (5x5), Incline Bench Press 125lbs (5x5), Row 125lbs (5x5), OHP 125lbs (5x5), DL 195lbs (1x5). My lifts have decreased since out on vacation and getting sick. Looking forward to picking it back up. My Mission: Live an authentic life & live by my principles. Make an impact to this world. Live a healthy life (physical & mental). Kill my ego and build/hold my own … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/25 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 14, 2025Agree I need to STFU more. The issue is when she keeps insisting for a response at times and won't let it go until I agree with her points. That's when I fall into wtf do I do. Actually....writing this I already see my deep lack of frame. I'll STFU, listen, and acknowledge. In regards to SAA, I do believe I have an excessive porn and masturbation issue but I don't think I have a "disease." I believe it's mainly due to my ineffective coping mechanisms and lack of mission. There was once 3 months … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/10/25 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 14, 2025You are right, thanks. Others have pointed this out as well. I'll STFU about this and let the results show for themselves. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/25 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 14, 2025I'm aware of this. Thanks for point it out. This week was actually way better for business. Relationship - simply practicing STFU. I'm struggling with the anger and resentment. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/25 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 14, 2025Thanks for calling me out on this. You are right. I am not following 100% through on my actions. Less words more action. One question though, in that intense discussion we had with her ranting a ton and basically giving me an ultimatum, how would I go about it in that specific moment? I definitely fell in her emotions but how should I go about it then? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/25 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 14, 2025You’re not owning your shit. You’re skirting responsibility and making it her problem. I understand what you're saying, in that specific intense situation how would I own my shit though? Apologize for my end, acknowledge, STFU, and fog? No birthday sex? How is that covert contract going? I noticed the expectation immediately. Nonetheless, it has not being going well. My anger and resentment is blocking me from even initiating and decreasing the desire on both our ends. Sometimes it seems easier … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/10/25 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 14, 2025Thanks for the feedback. Can you explain a bit more on how my ego played a part on the "if she cannot accept that..."? Maybe there is something there I am not being self-aware about. I wanted to know if she had reached her limit or was willing to accept I have flaws like any other and willing to go through this journey. In that specific moment, I simply wanted to cut to the chase if she wanted to be with me or not and move on. SAA. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/25 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 14, 2025OYS #3 10/14/2025 Stats: 27yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 3.5 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG Reading: WISNIFG Physical: SQ 225lbs (5x5), Incline Bench Press 155lbs (5x5), Row 155lbs (5x5), OHP 145lbs (5x5), DL 205lbs (1x5) My Mission: Live an authentic life. Make an impact to this world by building/owning several businesses. Live a healthy life (physical & mental). Lifting: Struggled last week with consistency. Even through the struggle, had good weight lifting. Proud of the progress I … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/25 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 30, 2025Good use of STFU and a good thing to notice. You did those things in the past because you wanted to right? If not, look at the potential for covert contracts. Move forward don’t play the scorekeeping game. Two years or so ago no, I did those things out of people pleasing. Recently, yes I have done it because I have genuinely wanted to. Good insight on the scorekeeping game. I definitely still linger on the past and hold on to it. It's been difficult to let go. The whole shoe thing, Is it a boun… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/10/25 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 30, 2025Relationship: Pretty nonchalant week. Was so focused on my business did not have much time to focus on her. Definitely there are times I wish she could be more soft, feminine, and submissive, but either way, trying my best to focus on myself. This weekend when we were with my family, I noticed after two hours of all us being together, she isolated herself completely and was watching a movie on her phone. I gave her some time but after a while, went up and told her I would appreciate if she would… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/25 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 30, 2025OYS #3 09/30/2025 Stats: 26yrs, 5'10", 185lbs, live with gf, together 3.5 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG x 2 Reading: WISNIFG Physical: SQ 205lbs (5x5), Incline Bench Press 155lbs (5x5), Row 155lbs (5x5), OHP 125lbs (5x5), DL 185lbs (1x5). These lifts are the first set for the SL 5x5 Top/Back Off program. My Mission: Be the best version of myself in all areas of my life. (Most likely will be updating my mission, for now focusing on bettering myself). Why am I here: Drunk captain. I want to keep my … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/25 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 23, 2025No ask. "Let's open this later when we can both enjoy the moment together." Captain, not piss boy. Great input. Lead, no asking. Way to broad. Focus on building a better you for now. That includes no more DEERing. Definitely broad. What I am really needing is a purpose/mission. Will be focusing on myself and changing/adapting along the way. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/25 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 23, 2025Wow. This was the wake-up call I needed. Thank you. I'll keep MAP in mind after WISNIFG.. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/25 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 23, 2025Took it away for simplicity purposes. Appreciate that input. I definitely did not address it correctly. Will keep that post in mind. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 23, 2025Put down way of the superior man. Read WISNIFG. Removed way of the superior man. I read this before MRP. Noticed this caused confusion. I updated post. Then it wasn’t a boundary so just STFU if your not ready or wanting to act. Appreciate you calling this out. I agree, STFU if I am not ready to act on the boundary. What do you think you’re communicating here? What is a shitty comfort test? By repeating those words to her with gentle strength and nothing else, I was attempting in providing her co… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/25 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 23, 2025Thanks for the feedback. You are right that I have done and still do things for external validation. I may need to question the things I do every so often to make sure I am not doing them for external validation. I do like opening gifts but I wanted to share the joyful moment with her. In regards to sex, of course I find sex fun but I don't find it fun if I see she does not desire me (or even want it). That's why I am working on myself to be a desirable man and feel worthy of fun enjoyable sex. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/25 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 23, 2025Thanks for the guidance. Character Traits: stoic, strength, courage, authentic Income: in my practice, making 2.5x (net) what I was making in my most recent corporate role Style: be well dressed and consistently groomed/clean even if at home. The style I currently have I already like. Fitness: lifting heavy at the gym and having a strong look. Great cardio and competing at fitness events such as Spartan races. Energy Level: waking up and excited to conquer the day. Joyful yet grounded. Go to sle… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/25 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 23, 2025OYS #2 09/23/2025 Stats: 26yrs, 5'10", 185lbs, live with gf, together 3.5 years, no kids. Read: NMMNG x 2 Reading: WISNIFG Physical: SQ 200lbs (5x5), Incline Bench Press 150lbs (5x5), Row 150lbs (5x5), OHP 120lbs (5x5), DL 185lbs (1x5). These lifts are the first set for the SL 5x5 Top/Back Off program. My Mission: Be the best version of myself in all areas of my life. Why am I here: Same story as my first post last week. Drunk captain. I want to keep my eyes open to reality and lead my life with… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/09/25 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 16, 2025Thank you for the feedback. Makes sense that I am not responsible to bring out the best in others. I would like part of my mission to be to lead others that are seeking help but being a good leader is already incorporated within "all areas of my life". Definitely understand how TWOTSM is part of advanced reading. I read it before MRP. I'll focus on the current tools. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/09/25 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 16, 2025OYS #1 09/16/2025 Stats: 26yrs, 5'10", 184lbs, live with gf, together 3.5 years, no kids. Reading: NMMNG x 2, Way of The Superior Man x 2, reading WISNIFG. Physical: SQ 180lbs (5x5), Incline Bench Press 140lbs (5x5), Row 140lbs (5x5), OHP 120lbs (5x5), DL 185lbs (1x5) My Mission: Be the best version of myself in all areas of my life and bring out the best version in the people around me. Why am I here: I have been lurking through MRP for quite a while now. Wanted to deny the wisdom here as it wa… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/25 04:14 PM |
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