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You're missing the point im not insulting anyone or being mean i'm trying to help people improve their lives. Actually interesting discussion because you're doing the same thing quite a lot of women were moaning at men for doing when they finally gave out specific practical advice, being defensive and whataboutism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:18 AM
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lol I didn’t mean say it in person I just think we should say it on here anonymously to people that we don’t even know if are fat so they won’t take offence. most people could probably drastically improve their appearance if they lost 20lbs and that doesn’t even mean they are fat to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:28 PM
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Losing weight improves facial structure. I think it not said enough to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:10 PM
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Hmm agree to disagree on that. I don't personally need any help at all. I think people just get annoyed at unhelpful or erroneous advice. For instance most men could do with losing weight I think it makes a huge difference to peoples faces. But I never see women give out advice like this because it would reveal how shallow us humans are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:17 PM
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Fair point😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:37 PM
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This is cart before horse blue pill logic. It assumes all the people on here are negative depressed assholes that's why they cant get women, when they all claim they're negative and depressed because they cant get women. There may be a bit of both and for some one answer is more true than the other, but personnally as someone who was kind of socially awkward and shy at school and a depressed teenager once I realised women liked the way I look it changed who I was. I'm pretty sure I'de be an assh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:03 PM
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This is another cliched trope that keeps coming out in this type of discussion. It seems an odd point to get hung up on though as men arent asking for something that's 100% effective a lot would settle for something that's 5% effective. Edit: I thought it was familiar I think its actually a standard logical fallacy. "I can't attract any women, what advice can you give me?" "Theres no advice I can give you that will attract every woman." https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/black-or-white
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:47 AM
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You don't seem like a typical woman to be honest so I'm not saying this explanation is about you. But isn't the RP assertion that some women don't even know what they find attractive but they think they do. Men might might do this too so Im not claiming its just women. It's known that as humans we have a huge cappacity for cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:07 AM
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Yeah comedians are famous for being funny and talented in that area, so a lot of them are average looking. Its not a conspiracy that movie writers are trying to sell the western world a narrative. This actually goes for female comedy actors too its just there is less of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:07 AM
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Yeah I think its way more nuanced than commentor is describing. When i was single I was probably around an 8 out of 10, I had tonnes of success but barely any of it was from them approaching me. They did make it quite easy for me because their body language was so clear they were interested but it was still a situation where nothign would of happened if I didn't approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:57 AM
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You sentence blows my mind. Men and women are simply too different, there is no point having this discussion. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:47 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:14 PM
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No it isn't this has been done already. It was inspired by teenage stabbings of young girls but there's no incel link. I think the makers were painfully naive and them including the manosphere part was probably a 30 second conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:49 PM
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I did and they said its nothing to do with manosphere content its just online bullying and arguments escalating into violence. The incel link red herring is a diservice to parents because it makes it seem like websites and reddit are more dangerous for kids than snapchat and tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:41 PM
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I guess you have a point that because this sub is about dating its the female victim violence is more relevant. This sub has a lot about how a lot of men are emotional victims of the dating game, I accept thats not as bad as being a physical victim but I'd say its more common. Also its not a contest there's no medals for who has it worst, men are just asking for it to be acknowledged. Us men acknowledge female victim violence every day, multiple times as day as your last sentence perfectly remin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:47 PM
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You're free to act how you want and treat risk as per your past experience. But dont act like men should be happy about it maybe keep those views to yourself. Personally I've not met a lot of women who are paranoid about men and assume they're all bad, my wife doesnt hate men that was on of the things that made her personality attractive as she didnt bring loads of trauma or baggage to the relationship. So I guess what im trying to say is, if you try to get over your trauma you might have a bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:15 PM
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The show implies that there is a societal problem with incels murdering women a group who were dealt a terrible hand in life already. Yeah no idea why they would be triggered by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:43 AM
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This has already started, in all schools. People downplaying the impact of this fictional show are simply wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:34 AM
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Genuine question does that make it better? Is it because it's somehow the mens fault who are the victims because men collectively have to atone for the sins of all men, that seems accepted logic here from women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:32 AM
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It's his post and the comment he's replying to started it the non empathy. She even admitted she wasn't qualified to comment and completely ignored it but just said 'empathise with women more'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:21 AM
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Describing mens concerns about not wanting to be assumed to be a murderer or rapist as 'ego' is kind of crazy. If only we could assume all Muslims are terrorists or all poor people are criminals, but those darn egos don't allow it!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:17 AM
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Im not talking about the actors im talking about fictional characters, they're not written as putting in effort they're written as DGAF because that's what is cool. I dunno who you're thinking of but if your view of men comes from this sub then thats not a representative sample of the population. Regarding effort and fashion it sounds like homer simpson or some similar unrealistic stereotype. In my country men have put in effort since the 70s. Men of my generation put in tonnes of effort primari…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 10:04 AM
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In UK a sex pest is like a rapist or someone who commits non consensual touching so its completely different to a man who just really, really wants to have sex with his wife\LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:46 AM
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Your first sentence is correct but your second sentence completly ignores your own statement. Men are more interested in sex because they just ARE. Theres no entitlement they just really want it. It's like saying a crystal meth addict feels entiteled to meth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:42 AM
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Im not sure if you're a man or a woman but. 'Effort is hot' is one of those things women say that means nothing like 'I want a sensetive man' or 'I dont care if he has a dad bod'. Effort might be hot but its certainly not cool does Jack Reacher make a lot of effort with his appearance? Even James Bond isn't shown getting dressed or trying to look good they make it seem effortless. If effort was cool rock stars would wear suits, instead they wear scruffy clothes and have no shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:38 AM
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As someone who always felt socially awkward, life isnt fair and people are illiberal hypocrites what can you do? Personally I think that in 2025 the people who claim to be the most liberal are the most illiberal so its not a revelation or something triggering. The types who espouse "you are free to believe anything you like as long as I dont disagree with it" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:30 AM
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Yeah I agree with this I've never been tested for anything but I feel like I've been masking my whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:06 AM
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Also there is tonnes of research about how ASD is completely different in men than women and masking is a completly experience so womens comments on their experiences are of limited value.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:04 AM
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For me that would be covered by: showing you're nto a weirdo People who dress like a slop are weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:26 AM
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This post is silly. You can't pretend that being ok with a porn star and not wanting a slut are 2 morally equivalent things that come down to personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:28 AM
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This whole sub is full of weird cliches that arent my life experience at all. Back when I was single I had sex with a lot of women on the first date. I was completely unaware of pills or anything at the time but I didnt once think any of the women were sluts I also didnt think any of them did it often because the constantly told me during. I assumed (maybe it was my ego) that they wanted to have sex with me not have sex with any man available, I also dont know if I would of cared if I did think …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:17 AM
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This is not something I’ve ever heard talked about before it’s also not something I’ve seen happen in real life at all. I actually don’t know many people who are divorced in general but I know and know of, lots of older couples who are still together with various health conditions on either spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:02 AM
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You got this completly backwards having sex with a sex worker is 1000 times more coercive and and pressuring because she's litterally doing it just because it's her job! Having sex with a woman that is consenting because she diesires you is litterally the opposite. I can't speak to the idea that men feel like a woman should have sex with a man because he pays for the date etc as i've never been someone who thinks that way and I dotn know any other men who would expect that either. This is why al…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:48 PM
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Is anyone else here actually married to woman who has had multiple babies? They definitely do get damaged (hormonally and physically not including cosmetically) but I would never condone leaving for that reason that would be absolute A-hole behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:17 AM
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I dunno if a lot of this comes down to perspective and definition of caring about what you wear. I live in the London, probably the most fashionable city on earth, men caring about what they wear was normalised in the 70s some of the comments on here sound like they live in some middle of nowhere town in the US where people are mostly obese and think it’s feminine to care about what your wear 55 yrs later. Most men in my city dress well so doing the same is just meeting baseline as I’ve said ear…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:45 PM
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I should of said most men can’t you need a body that 99% of men don’t have to even try and then the upside is completely different to for women doing it because women don’t think about sex anything like as much as men. Also I don’t think you read or understand what I wrote I never said I don’t care or think about fashion. I think about it all the time but all it does is makes you meet a baseline of attractiveness at which point your other attributes come into play. It’s more about not putting wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:13 AM
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This sounds like my 8 yr old bragging. Are you sure you even look that good because it sounds like you put way too much emphasis on fashion choices? Women can use clothing to sexualise themselves, men can’t, even if they could women aren’t interested in that. So all clothing does is either show you’re not a weirdo with no self awareness, or get some more attention for you if you’re already good looking and it’s something eye catching. Dressing well isn’t going to make an ugly person attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:35 PM
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I think even this is too generous to the other side. Vast majority of opinions I see on reddit in some of the dating subs don't go anywhere near criticising women all they do is acknowledge reality and state its not working for them. They make no judgement on the morality of womens decision making. Yet those people still get lots of criticism and people throw about the i word the moment anyone acknowledges that some superficial attributes are more desirable than anothers in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:36 PM
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Reddit logic: A murderer once claimed to be a nice guy before killing someone hence if you claim to be a nice guy you are in fact a murderer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:50 AM
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This is the fallacy of pretending men are always nice guys or assholes and cant switch between the categories. When I was dating I was deinitely both and I'd say the results were mixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:46 AM
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“There are no medals awarded in the Struggle Olympics.” lol this comment made me laugh in 2025. I don’t agree with trying to talk up victim hood either but to pretend it isn’t happening and used as currency in modern times is nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:31 AM
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This is kind of an aside but I find it funny that women separate men into bad and good. It’s like “he is bad and always will be”. People make mistakes but most people, around 99% are well intentioned you may have clashed and he came across as manipulative due to some issues in the relationship but it’s too one sided to just say that was because some men are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:19 AM
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I don’t think it’s the same at all, the poor character women are basically high maintenance crazies who the rest of society treats as victims men aren’t attracted by this behaviour they generally only get stung once by those types of women while the same women perpetually attract different violent ment for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:47 PM
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This is laughable, trying to say ncels problems is that they’re sour they can’t be sadistic towards women they’re sleeping with. Men in general are very goal orientated most true ncels have tried everything to get laid including being nice but they still can’t get any attention at all from women, they’re obviously jealous. That’s an understatement that’s like saying a homeless meth addict is jealous of a billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:06 AM
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This whole sub is a constant regurgitation of ncell problems with Andrew Tate\sexist red pill tropes as the rebuttal. Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:12 AM
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lol stick you head in the sand and pretend it isn’t happening. Seems like solid advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:06 AM
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That’s not what I meant, those people aren’t chads but they have desirable traits. Whether chads are actual people or not is irrelevant every man has some characteristics that are off putting some less than others, that’s all there is to it. Bit like with money most people don’t have enough for it to be impressive but some have an absurd amount. But no one has super powers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:10 PM
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What on earth? You totally dont get the moevement if you think its something you should bring up with women. Also I dont think the world view is that different from the general understanding it just acknowledges the reason for things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:43 PM
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I don't think the rules work in the same way for celebrities the dating pool is too small for them to try and date on the same level all the time. They weren't all more rich and famous than him though anyway, and also none of those relationships worked and he's now with a non celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:42 PM
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He's a 6'3 and famous for being a comedian thats going to do it. He's rich enough, you dont need to be a billionaire to date a billionaire celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:06 PM
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Seeing Chad as an actual person is dumb and hurts the pill frame work because people constantly think they are debunking it all when they say "I know some dude who is short and fat with a hot wife" or "I dont care that my husband is ugly" blah blah blah. Chad being rich tall good looking and confident is an idea that all men shouldto aspire to if they want to be attractive but if there are certain insurmountable biological limitations it just means a man should concentrate on the others, you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:53 PM
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I think you're being too binary about it, I wouldn't say its as specific as all the things OP said but an example might be like if you have a neutral interaction with a person in a shop or restaurant and you make a joke that's actually funny then from there you start to get to know them more. The other thing is that it's kind of like acting as if the person is attracted to you whether they are or not, if they don't dislike the way you look then it might sway things like the woman on this thread …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:02 PM
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All these posts mash different elements together some guys get a lot of girls some get a few and some get non you cant mix and match issues. Guys that get no girls at all aren't the ones expecting women to fall at their feet and have sex with them 'just' for being nice or anything ever at all ever, they're litteralyl expecting nothing they're HOPING for just a tiny bit of attention. Guys that get some girls sure they can sometimes be assholes and sometimes not. Also on a side point my wife has f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:41 PM
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Im not sure any of these comments or the post contradicts anything RP says, most men probably aren't in a bad situation but those who have below average looks, barely any social group, and weak social skills are going to be struggling. Having endless optimism and sticking their heads in the sand as a method to combat depression doesn't seem very realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:25 AM
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Oh come on have you people ever been in an actual relationship that worked? The reason the description is vague is not because they have low standards its because its complicated to express what your compatibility is, a lot of the time people dont even know what is good for them its not always someone identical to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:58 AM
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You're both wrong the purpose of meeting through social circle isnt so that you both work in finance or have the same income (LMFAO what a boring way to judge compatibility). It's because a womans primary concern is always safety and unless you're super hot there will always be tonnes of guard up with a cold approach so that makes it a million times more difficult for her to agree to go out with you. Also on your last paragraph its not about being easy but considering efficiency and peoples self…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:41 AM
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Exactly, women would clean all day if they could and not because they want to but (sometimes) something in their brain is forcing them to. My wife once said to me if you want me to find you the sexiest thing ever dont worry about taking me on amazing trips or buying me expensive jewellery just do the washing and I'll reward you in bed. I mainly work from home so as an experiment for a few days I spent so many hours doing chores around the house that I'd be fired if I did that all the time, as I …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:21 PM
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I think you're misunderstanding the ask, no one is asking women to find men they aren't attracted to attractive thats an obvious contradiction.They also aren't really expecting anything to change or not anytime soon anyway. ITs just that talking things through probably makes people feel better. When people talk about this subject all they're doing is highlighting the phenomenon of women being built up over the past 30 years "you deserve better", "you're worth it" , "you go girl" plus body positi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:38 AM
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BP Chads can sometimes come across as evil because it doesn't benefit them acknowledge any problems or hardships faced by others. Bit like how billionaires are less likely to acknowledge problems with capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:37 AM
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And the second to last sentence but Trump... Lib circle jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:28 AM
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Apart from reddit of course! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:19 AM
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Not sure you understood his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:36 AM
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What's your point? Men are not mad about romance novels or hallmark movies but that doesn't mean they don't spend their whole lives trying to look and be like the male characters. Most women don't like watching porn but a lot of them still try to look like porn stars and dress very sexily.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:34 AM
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This is kind of a side point but it's so weird how much women talk about men only wanting hookups in this sub. I've slept with a lot of women when I was single probably around 100 and I found it easy to get dates (pre-apps) even I was litterally never looking for a hookup or purposely using a woman for casual sex. I was always going in to the date open to a connection. So my point is the kind of guys that would be looking for hookups would have waaaay more options than even me you're talking abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:23 AM
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The US is a late-stage capitalist state, which for many men today feels like a dystopia. You wage slave your life away, saddled with debt, for very little reward. On a surface level, the quality of life is high. However, what you have to "pay in" to achieve it is an extraordinary amount of labour, not to say your soul. And while the winners win big, the losers lose hard. Im sorry to insult you but this is analysis on the levels of r/im14andthisisdeep how could anyone call the current state of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:24 AM
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The main argument from people on here seems to be that the patriarchy exists so that men can do less chores. I mean it's hardly a magic trick as all the women still moan at the men anyway. Personally I'd rather have a happy wife than one who is constantly miserable and hates me just so I don't have to do any washing or cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:47 AM
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You've done well to understand men in your first paragraph however what you miss is that not having sex does to men all the things you describe in your second paragraph the having sex in that situation does to women. It's a silly discussion really and just a grievance olympics. The way its being discussed on here make me think that a lot of the contributions especially this comment and OP don't have much real world experience. It's much more common in a long term relationship and after having ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 07:47 AM
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Yeah so why start with the premise before of NO women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:44 PM
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What a lot of RP gets wrong is that its not all looks based. Those ugly people with ugly partners probably have a really solid social circle with both men and women in it, they may have no looks advantage over some ugly dude with no friends but they're miles ahead in dating advantage. Doesnt make it any less brutal for the ones struggling. Even though in theory its easier to gain a friendship group if you dont already have one, than it is to improve attractiveness, it's pretty difficult in the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:59 PM
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Both sexes do that, women do things that appeal to men but other women label them slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:47 PM
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is this a Topgun reference?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:35 PM
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Yeah it's insane. Oh yeah THOSE women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:32 PM
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You havent disproved the 80/20 rule at all all you've said is that not all 'chads' look like meme level giga chad. I mean litterally anyone with a brain who has ever spoken to a real woman knows that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:03 PM
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If a man has a job is a relationship more likely to work or less likely to work or equal? Surely we can all agree it makes him more attractive as a partner that's just a fact. But switching it round to suggest that means a man thinks having a job entitles him to a relationship and sex is completly reductive and disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:10 AM
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All relationships are transactional we can choose to ignore it but that doesnt mean its not the case. You've concentrated on silly shallow and often made up transactional elements that dont exist. How about if a couple is only together because being around their partner and talking to them makes the other person feel good and vice versa is that still not a transactional relationship? Classic goomba fallacy, some men are selfish old fashioned assholes but the ones moaning about being single a com…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:42 AM
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This is an interesting point however it is incorrect as the effect of mens actions is macro one man changing behaviour wouldnt make a difference to that one man. However Im not neccessarily admitting it is the same type of women claiming OP's claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:45 PM
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I'm not sure I agree with the wider point but I think theres an argument that men can use different tools to attract women such as money, power, status, looks and even intelligence. Where as women can't use different tools to the same extent. Men aren't attracted to money, status or intelligence as long as it meets a baseline.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:41 PM
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Yeh ridiculously long post to say "ah but have you really tried everything? And am I detecting a small amount of bitterness and resentment there, well thats obviously where you're goign wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:18 PM
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I couldn't agree more, weird part for me is that all the people in comments seem so certain they know what it means to objectify but they've all just described lust or physical attraction. Just because you're physically attracted to someone doesnt mean that you ignore or somehow insult their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:32 PM
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I think its both. A womans version of initiating is eye contact, it's really not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:19 AM
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Yes then changed my mind. It makes the guy immediately like the woman more than he would otherwise but whether thats genuine or if there is anything wrong with that is up for debate. Plenty of things women do make a man more attracted to them than otherwise. You could probably make the same statement about women dressing sexy or wearing makeup but theres definitely been no feedback loop about it creating shallow connections and hence women stopping doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:05 AM
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Hmm I’m torn now. I don’t recall an instance where there was any using.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:53 PM
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When I read that back it sounded like 'if a woman ever approached me I would...' but just for clarification what I meant was 'when women ever approached me it made me...'. Just wanted to confirm I had actually been approached by women multiple times!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:19 AM
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Wait is this post about bad sex or pump and dump?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:21 PM
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I agree I think this is one of the wildest debates I've seen on this sub and thats saying something. Surely if anything not using an umbrella is toxic masculinity, as its perpetuating the idea that men should be unrealistically tough and stoic?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:58 PM
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Yeah like how would anyone even know what others think of them apart from close friends. Like is some bystander shouting slut across the room because they see some random woman make an approach???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:13 AM
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Wow good take I've never considered this but I think its true. I never had a problem with approaching women, but if a woman ever approached me it would make me so horny for them to the point I couldn't see straight, so I think it works as a filtering process.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:08 AM
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People underestimate how much body fat affects face. If you’re average looking it can be sink or swim. Especially when you’re 35+ you can either see your jaw or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:01 PM
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Im not in US, but in UK if the woman works as well and the custody is shared 50/50 then the man doesn't pay anything. I get what you're saying but after divorce you're both poorer than before her as well, if shes a single parent then that is a pretty rough deal too as the main thing my wife appreciates when it comes to the kids is an extra pair of hands not money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:53 PM
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If women are the ones birthing and breastfeeding children and being the social hub of their families that is WORK. And it is work that extends beyond the children's first year because being present for half school days, and taking roles and jobs that allow you to prioritize your children when they are young will impact your career and earning potential. I earn more than my wife but I work from home while she has a well paid job too but its completly inflexible, so im always the default parent. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:29 PM
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This should be in a relationship thread. No one is forcing you to do any of those things if you dont want to. There's been a real trend of women moaning at all the men in this sube for sexism caused by their own partner!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:25 PM
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Haha so ture. That last phrase really made me lol. Where are these men on the sub developing this view of women? They act like all women are these super confident cold hearted sex addicts who demand men have huge penises! When you actually meet real women, most of them are kind of goofy, nice, friendly and quite innocent even oleder women. Litterally the opposite of what their world seems to think!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:12 PM
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I think you're setting the bar too high for what you make out is the exepectation of therapy. It's not about fixing peoples problems as we know it cant do that. But It's good for people to talk through things, probably women more than men and its good to pay someone to listen rather than bore your partner with that crap. It's nothing more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:20 AM
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A few things here. You make it sound binary between virgins and non virgins I'd say its more realistic to put into categories of women who've had casual sex and those that have only had sex in relationships. 2. We all know in general men are the greatest losers of divorce. People keep saying this on this sub but I still dont beleive it, its either even or if anything women come off much worse. For multiple reasons such as ageing is more likely to have reduced mate value of the woman than the man…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:24 AM
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Oh come on, he obviously means humble besides that post, It's not rocket science. Discussing things you wouldnt normally discuss is litterally the purpose of reddit being annonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:47 AM
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You can only really say that for the first few years of a relationship if not months. After that it may still be a way of bonding but probably less so than many other activities like going to a restaurant without distractions or rock climbing together or even having a good conversation in bed. If anything sex in a long term relationship becomes more shallow because it doesnt say anything about the seriousness or commitment of the relationship anymore you have other things like kids, joint financ…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:58 AM
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If that's true they must be low sex drive or afraid of the real world and so making excuses, some might be but I dont think its most. It's hard to comment on it without seeing exactly what people look like who are saying such things. I think Im around a 9 on a good day (or I was when I was single) but I find any woman who I can see has made an effort attractive. Maybe where I've gone wrong is that I assume other men think like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:00 PM
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Don't think you understood his comment, he has no problem with those women at all. It's OP who is moaning at his past self for being too picky he has the problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:09 PM
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Isn't the point of RP that all people are shallow and that's not a bad thing its just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:04 PM
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Black-or-white fallacy. Just because people are nicer to those they are attracted to than they would otherwise be, doesnt mean that if someone is nice to someone it means they want to sleep with them. Or that you need to be extremely unpleasant to everyone you dont want to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:02 PM
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I mean theres lots of black pilled incels who have never had a kiss or held hands with a girl I dont think their issue is they won't settle for an overweight woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:32 AM
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Calm down it was just an observation I didnt say it was anyones fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:29 AM
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Lots probably do join then you won't hear about them as they'll join the cognitive dissonance clan who claim RP beleifs are untrue, its actually a much healthier way to be, probably the reason humans evolved to have CG in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:45 AM
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It's an interesting point I'm not sure I agree that women are eithe of those things but I'd say that being conformist isn't a sign of low inteligence and being manipulative isnt a sign of high intelligence. I mean look at society in general are people who conform less intelligent and successful than those who do weird crazy stuff? And are people who are high on the narcissism, machiavellianism, and psychopathy spectrum the most intelligent people?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:47 AM
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This isn't really a pill debate, the reasons men cheat is kind of outside the sphere of pills and has been going on for forever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:30 AM
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Most common reason for a man to cheat is because hes not getting much sex at home.
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:06 PM
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I can't really picture what you mean as most people are uncomfortable changing their whole personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:56 AM
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That makes it sound manipulative and creepy maybe it is for some bad men but its more like showing the best side of yourself.
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:56 AM
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I dunno I think it’s pretty nuanced. A really attractive woman with a men’s haircut and stubble and a man’s body would do well with women. Looking like that uber chad meme with Thanos jawline isn’t really what most women go for. Some women do but it’s like the masculinity is secondary, attractiveness in a way that crosses the sexes is priority no.1
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:51 PM
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How many kids do you have, how old are you? Try raising a kid before you discuss all these details that you are so sure of even though you havent lived.
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:45 AM
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How what doesnt? You're right I have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:47 PM
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Lol when men do it its worse because of reasons. Sums up this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:19 PM
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Yeah because the last one is fake and means you dont really have a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:50 PM
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Bingo. Athough I agree with OP that the language men use about women isn't disrespectful its just they think differently to women. However It's clear that women dont like it and it makes them uncomfortable and I agree with you that maybe its not a good thing for society that women see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:40 PM
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Its amazing the jump to this language 'dehumanizing' men litterally only want to have sex with female humans it's the most humanizing thing possible!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:35 PM
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Im not saying this isnt a problem but its weird that its taken online discourse to put it out in the open for it to put off women. Men have always tried everything they can to get women it's nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:33 PM
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I think we have to agree to disagree. Personally I think you can celebrate and revel in the idea of idea of having sex for the first time with a new partner and at the same time like her as a person and be excited about long term prospects, even think you might want to marry her one day. Concentrating on one good aspect of something doesnt mean that you dont care about the other things and I dotn see why it would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:19 PM
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I think you have a ridiculously high threshold for proving anything then. Im not even sure what seeing women as objects even means at this point. And what does it mean to see someone as a human? Men dont think like that, I like my freinds because I like to be around them and I love my wife and like her company because I like her and the things she has to say. That's it. The idea a man would get married just so he can have sex with a women regularly (because married peopled famously have so much …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:57 PM
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This argument is exhausting, personally I believe most people are good. Some men are assholes sure maybe even a lot... But you're point seems to be its intrinsic to mens nature, if that's the issue what is even worth debating, if that's what you believe its like arguing lions are assholes for not being vegetarian. Fine stay away from men forever, and give up on them. At least the other points are political and can be voted for but how men are in relationships isn't something you can protest agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:20 PM
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Ok I'm sorry to hear this story. My mother and father had a happy marriage while I was a child and are still happy together now while I'm an adult and no longer live with them. All men are not like your father, most are not in fact but, I'm sorry if you do come across men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:18 AM
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I dont know if its because this site is so US centric but im always shocked at how its like everyone is stuck in the 1960s. Where I live in London it feels like most relationships I know are very equal. Can I ask what it is about their relationship that makes you feel that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:48 AM
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Not sure how you've got that from what I said. I'm saying the fact men enter into relationships with women proves that they recognise them as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:37 AM
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Agree to disagree. Men would not bother with relationships at all if that were true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:26 AM
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I think mens brains can compartmentalise the physical appearance and the personality of a woman as 2 seperate elements but admiring one does not insult the other in mens minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:10 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:39 PM
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You kind of answered your own debate then. I think you'd be surprised at how many heterosexual women would rather have sex with a female client for money than a male one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:48 AM
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One is worse than the other but im not sure they're different. I get that most womens brains dont work like this but I think 99% of straight men could answer the question below. How many days stacking shelves in a supermarket would they rather do than have sex with a man? OR simply put how much money would you have to be paid to have sex with a man. It would obviosuly be an amount that no one would probably be willing to pay like $500K+ but most men would be able to give a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:24 AM
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But we're talking about women who choose to do sex work, women being forced to do it is obviously disgusting imoral illegal etc. Surely it is not intimate for the women who choose to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:17 AM
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If they're not any kind of slave and they want the money more than they dont want to have sex with the man then isn't it like any decision in life? Like I've done some disgusting jobs before for zero money like when my sewer got blocked I really didnt want to clear it but I really didnt want to have blocked pipes that meant I couldnt use any of the bathrooms in my house at all, so I did it. I didnt want to get up at 5am when my kids was crying, but I had no choice etc.
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:55 PM
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This it the purple pill debate, he's litterally lost in the game of getting a woman. He may of achieved success in other areas of life but thats not really relevent to this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:44 PM
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All your post shows is that deficiencies in mate value in some areas (sociability) can be made up for in areas (looks) in terms of female attention. This is not really controversial is it? If he was at least slightly friendly he'd have more success with women than he does have so it's a clear negative.
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:52 AM
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I think you’re all falling into the same trap of assuming it’s women just doing it all the time. Rather than most women have done it from time to time. I’ve had quite a few one night stands when I was younger and I do remember a theme of them constantly saying they don’t do that kind of thing a lot etc. before I saw that with my own eyes I always found it weird that they showed girls saying that so much in movies. Maybe they were lying to me and they did it all the time, but I’m not sure what wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:47 PM
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And what’s the most common request on dating apps? “adventures”
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:15 PM
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Being sexually repulsive doesn’t mean you’re inherently a bad person. This is litterally what TRP believe but are constantly being argued against by blue pills. If you belive the above you ARE Red Pill, it's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:26 PM
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Welcome to The Red Pill. This isnt a controversial point around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:16 PM
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Oooft. A doctor isn't better status than a nurse Come now. Maybe they shouldn't be, but who you trying to kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:32 AM
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It's almost as if defning a whole person as boring is subjective.
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:00 AM
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Fine the example is insulting, but that has nothing to do with the question being asked. I’m not sure why people would keep bringing that up as OP has mentioned many times that wasn’t the issue. Are we saying all analogies are insulting as that would be an actual relevant point. I disagree but its a view. However it doesn’t look like anyone is making that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:40 AM
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Ok so you agree with me thanks. Im not saying you should be scrutinized just that the comment I was originally replying to was weird because it acted like its the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:25 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:23 PM
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This thread is seriously making me consider giving up reddit. If a disscussion like this can go so wide of the mark, what is the point of debating an actually complex issue like politics?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:41 PM
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whats my criticism? Not seen that phrase since pre covid
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:36 PM
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Do you know what litterally means?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:34 PM
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He wasn't putting her down thats the whole point. Let me give you an example Why did you read this line as thats what happened? Thats you litterally doing what hes describing willfully misunderstanding and seeing an insult instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:32 PM
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I never thought this thread would be so triggering for so many I thought people would mostly deny it. Instead theyre defending your gf and attacking you in some ficitonal argument that never happened LMAO My prediction would be that people with technical brains who prefer stem like analogies and those who prefer the arts less so. Disclaimer obviously there are exceptions etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:26 PM
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Lol he didn't even use that metaphor on his girl. We get it, some people struggle with analogies - OP proven correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:21 PM
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Lol no I promise thats not whats going on here. These replies are litterally the push back I wish I'd gotten in the past but hadn't for like 100 plus comments. All the child free people depresses me so im not trying to exagerate it, not consciously anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 01:07 PM
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This is why children aren't allowed to grade their own homework. LMFAO I love this line
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:58 AM
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This notion that older women are less attractive is baseless. Ask most women, and they will tell you that older women are more attractive because we know ourselves and what we want. So women tell men what they find attractive in other women, surely even BP can see the flaw in this?? Knowing what you want is not particularly attractive in either sex, im not saying thats right or a good thing but it just is what it is. It's kind of logical as there's a sort of desperation to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:55 AM
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Nope. What I'm saying is that there is a huge overepresentation of childfree couples on reddit and I've never once seen any of them 'scrutinised'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:16 AM
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No one is going to prison because they tried to kiss a girl but misread the signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:34 AM
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The rest of the whole of Reddit is full of people mentioning at any opportunity that they dont want children and congratulating eachother for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:29 AM
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Best comment - shame its all the way down here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 09:09 AM
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OMG this is painful why are you doing this? She's explained multiple times why are you being so obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:39 AM
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People who successfully maximise their looks status and money to try and get women (as well as other reasons) is probably 90% of men. The ones who are successful aren't going to be on reddit as its not a particualtly interesting conversation for most. I only found this sub a week ago. Doesnt mean the methodology is a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:28 AM
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Exactly. I’m always shocked by how certain random people on Reddit are about how hard it is to have kids. I didn’t really know tonnes about it before hand and it’s not that crazy. People act like you need navy seal levels of dedication to not hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 08:15 PM
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Yeah there was this study came out that 80 yr olds in nursing homes have tonnes of casual unprotected sex and those places really had out of control STD's. The reason older people date less is because most people are in relationships by then and because its harder to meet people but I dont think its over by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:30 PM
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I mean this is litterally obvious are those groups even arguing against it? I think the only part you didnt cover is that there is something libberating for them to be able to declare that they're no longer going to try as some of them keep trying out of convention, only to face constant rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:10 PM
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Lol I never struggled with dating and have been happily married for 11 years. Most of my friends are happily married too and not one of them could tell you what emotional intelligence is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:13 AM
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I can't get a woman "go read a wikipedia article" LMFAO Something can exist in a scientifically defined way in real life but still be used as a buzz word in reddit you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 08:55 AM
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From when homosapiens first evolved around 300,000 years ago to the 1900s women used to work just as hard as men raising 8+ children, cooking, doing the washing which took all day, etc. Then reliable contraception and the washing machine came along and we have this anomalous period of the 50s to the 90s where there were a lot of housewives with not much to do and people think life has been like that forever, but it hasnt and it bred discontent and depression for those women. So now we're at the …
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It's all cognitive dissonance people employ to protect themselves. Blue pills thinks that red pills could get women to like them if only they behaved how blue pill men behave (as it stops them from needing to feel any sympathy). Red Pills (or the ones who blame women) think that its womens fault that they dont like them. Neither statement is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 02:06 PM
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Thats like saying its weird how so many billionaires think capitalism works but so many poor people think it doesnt work. Blue pill dont want to recognise the part luck has played on their place in society. RP's are bitter its not the same thing as hating women.
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:19 PM
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As a grown up I've never really been sure about the idea of 'settling' when talking about relationships because it makes too many assumptions that aren't proven. For a start it assumes that we have some idea about what kind of person will make us happy and that we're 100% right about it. I dont know why anyone would assume this would be the case. For me it's about 'love' or 'not love' if settling is 'not love' then fine but for men or in my experience anyway it starts with attraction where it's …
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As usual, women think the main narrative is saying they hate women when its actually men saying they hate themselves! Que: tacking to an argument of 'stop self pitying and improve yourself' and so it goes...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:56 PM
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That's obvious is anyone genuinely expecting it to? Women can't complain their way to making men more faithful, sober and tidy, hasn't stopped them trying though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:52 PM
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It's called testosterone! Some men have less than others but most men have tonnes more hormones than women. I think most of the people in comments dont live in a busy city. I dont know how you could argue yes if you see multiple beautiful women every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:41 AM
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All these points are meaningless in isolation. A job isn't a dealbreaker on its own but what kind of person doesnt have a job or any motivation to get a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:30 AM
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Lol im sure many men are guilty of that but those are not incels. Always makes me laugh how women underestimate mens sex drive by about 100x.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:24 AM
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Relationships really are f**ked now. What does 80% of your ideal traits even me?? You either like the person or you dont and the only way to find that out is meet them and click with them. Not complete some checklist and then say well this person meets the criteria so in that case I must really like them! It's a yes or no there is no percentage involved you either vibe or you don't. Past experiences of real partners lower expectations and this helps people fall in love more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:09 AM
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This is just a weird nonsense post, taking a million words to say that women shouldnt have sex too early in a relationship because it will make a man lose respect for them. This dynamic has been going on for hundreds of years. I thought people were always complaining about the manosphere wanting virgins and now its that they want hoes. Make up your minds people!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:04 AM
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When a rock star dresses in womens clothes its a flex, like a billionaire wearing shorts and sandals to a business meeting. It doesnt mean that a normal guy will look good wearing shorts to a job interview or a regular guy trying to get female attention should dress like a woman.
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:13 PM
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But you're concentrating on the wrong part. I dont know what your romantic journey is but I think its assumed for the sake of the question that its the traditional 'Im looking for the person that I will have the best chance of a relationship with'. The premise of the question is that assuming 'THAT PERSON' is a 1 in 40 chance of meeting, not about getting hung up on OP's description. Fair enough about the odds but it's just a thought experiment of would women reverse roles if led to a higher cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:50 PM
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Yes the comment your replying to is totally dumb. The whole concept of an incel is defined around consent it's litterally saying no one WANTS to have sex with them so the result is they having no sex. It's not that they're not allowed to rape or some sh*t, that's such a weird place for peoples minds to go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:10 PM
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I think you misinterepreted the post just so you could disagree with it. They mean ideal person warts an all your imperfectly perfect person surely that didnt need to be explained?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:33 PM
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I think Most would just automatically be in denial about being unnatractive and happily take the ego boost from the women instead 'Yeah theyre right dating is great for me, I'm so attractive' (regularly gets zero matches) So basically they're just lying without thinking or as its known... cognitive dissonance. Except, that doesn't come naturally to all of us which is why ASD men are so over represented in this sub!
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:05 AM
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So men control the world and suppress women because we're all lazy and want to get out of doing the washing and other chores got it. obviously u dont go out much I didn't bother to pick you up on it in the previous response as was giving you the benfit of the doubt. But why are you feeling the need to keep going ad hominem you've never met me, what worth are these insults?
/r/MensRights26/03/25 04:18 PM
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Rather than dispute that men control women and that I 'control' my wife which is so laughable. Give me one real world practical benefit of why I would ever want to control her?
/r/MensRights26/03/25 03:24 PM
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The feminism argument seems to flip flop between 'getting rid of the patriarchy is good for men' ...since really most men are not powerful only a tiny percentage of billionaires and... 'what are you men complaining about we live in a patriarchy?' You've done it yourself, which is it?
/r/MensRights26/03/25 11:44 AM
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Thanks. The murderer had their identity hidden from press but managed to find some details. https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2022/05/24/ava-white-14-year-old-boy-found-guilty-murdering-school-girl/ Throughout the trial, the court heard the troubled circumstances that the young defendant had grown up in, including smoking cannabis, being diagnosed with ADHD and having “communication skills [that] are perhaps not as developed as other 14-year-olds”. He appeared in court via video link from the “sp…
/r/MensRights24/03/25 03:23 PM
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We burn dead bodies or bury them in solitary confinement. Someone jacking off my corpse is the least of my worries.
/r/MensRights24/03/25 02:17 PM
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TBF the show is taking a lot of flack because its possibly been misinterpreted. It's a good piece of entertainment regardless of any message people have taken from it.
/r/MensRights24/03/25 09:02 AM
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bingo
/r/MensRights24/03/25 09:00 AM
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What is the true story? I thought it was just a made up case written by white lib middle aged men who hate themselves nearly as much as the white working class.
/r/MensRights24/03/25 08:59 AM
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Ridiculous point. Do some people not realise the show is fiction then?
/r/MensRights23/03/25 02:34 PM
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It made me laugh that it even mentions the 80\20 thing, surely thats like one of the mildest bits of evo psych out there and they're even going to attack that? Like what IS ok to acknowledge? That more women are attracted to some men than others or is that not even allowed? I really enjoyed the show as a piece of entertainement or television but beyond that I didnt like the message a lot of people are taking from it. They seem to think the dad is somehow at fault or at least partly, hes probably…
/r/MensRights21/03/25 02:56 PM
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Weird story. He didnt have any involvement in the childrens lives at all, If this was mandated in courts there must of been a fairly big reason and if it was through choice he must be an unusual person. Dont think I can relate to this situation from any angle.
/r/MensRights21/03/25 02:28 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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