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When I said “quality” I meant the quality of the person, not the sex itself.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 11:38 PM
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I want to point out that just because women may get more opportunities for sex doesn’t mean we want them. Most guys who approach us for sex tend to be either creeps or weirdos who keep insisting on sex. Finding a man who doesn’t want just sex can be just as difficult as finding a woman who does want sex. Quantity hardly means quality for us women. We’re kind of in the same boat in terms of the dating pool.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 05:26 AM
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Hi, I am so sorry that you’re going through this. I know everyone is saying to leave ASAP but I recognize that it is difficult to just walk out and leave with two kids. I will pray for you. Is there anyone you can take the kids to while you find a job that you can work during the day? I know daycare is expensive but maybe relatives? Ask him to stay with his friend and request that he pay x amount in support while you get on your feet. Also, there are plenty of work from home jobs you can find! M…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 05:37 AM
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I second this! It’s normal to compare yourself to others but being GENUINELY HAPPY is the BIGGEST FLEX. You can have all the money in the world, the highest status position, and still be miserable inside while the person who has less is living the best life ever. Once you are TRULY happy, you will realize there is not need to compete. And true happiness (as cliche as it sounds) comes from the inside. Perhaps OP is seeking status to fulfill a deeper rooted insecurity within himself. And that is O…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/23 03:53 AM
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Because majority of times men ask for the sake of proving something to themselves. I understand in the rare case of saving yourself for marriage so you expect your partner too as well, but these men fuck around with a bunch of women but expect you to save yourself.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 05:31 AM
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Girl, even if he accomplishes all those dreams of his, he will still be unhappy. Men like that don’t change unless they change internally. No external accomplishments can ever change the fact that he is manipulative, misogynistic, and much more. A real accomplishment is a man who can be considered a gentleman, who is kind, caring and virtuous. If he thinks that money and 18 yr old teenage women are his all time prime accomplishment, let him be. There is no saving him
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 12:15 AM
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What defines an alpha male? As a woman, I like a man who is confident in himself, who is decisive, and overall kind, genuine, loyal etc. Women find different attributes in men attractive. Some women like men who are more introverted vs other women like men who are more outgoing. There’s no right or wrong answer, just a matter of preference. Overall, I think the most attractive trait amongst men and women alike is someone who stays true and loves his/her self. When someone radiates so much self l…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 10:41 PM
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Hey, you’re completely valid for feeling the way that you feel. But remember that the feelings of worthlessness and uneasiness are not your feelings, and those feelings do not define you. Your roommate sounds incredibly manipulative and psychotic to some degree, not gonna lie. This type of treatment isn’t okay, and I’d seriously consider moving out ASAP if I were you, before things get worse. You cannot change him. He will think the way he thinks, and if it wasn’t you, he’s be harassing another …
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 10:36 PM
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Find yourself again. Fall in love with yourself again. Realize what part of you fell for RP in the first place and then heal that part of you.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 10:31 PM
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Lol it’s insanely hypocritical. My ex would always say that women “shouldn’t put out too easily” but at the same time if a woman does “put out”, then he “might as well take advantage of the opportunity”. His words, not mine. They treat women like we don’t have sexual urges or any desires to explore our sexuality with more than one person. The whole “women can get sex easily, men can’t” argument to why the double standard exists is so dumb to me tbh. Let people be people. As long as you’re in a s…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 08:09 PM
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I’m a woman and I don’t care whether the guy I’m pursuing is liked by other women or not. All I care is if I like him, and I don’t deem “being liked by other women” as one of my “criteria” for whether he’s a good man in my eyes.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 05:09 PM
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Very well said. I wholeheartedly agree with the stated that we’re all equally valuable and that we can all find a partner who sees that value in us. RP loves to put people in a box and we all must abide by the qualities of that box or else we’re doomed for life. This mentality completely takes away from the uniqueness of human beings and the beauty of being different from one another. When you ask couples who have been married for 25 yrs+, almost none of them mention any of the qualities adheren…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 01:12 AM
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Yes, exactly this. This is what a true high value person is.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 01:01 AM
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Hey girl, just letting you know I’m in the same boat as you. Was never familiar with red pill until my ex started mentioning it and all of my self worth as a woman shortly diminished after. It’s ironic how RP bases all their bs off of biology, when they forget every human psychologically behaves completely different based off their childhoods, beliefs, pasts etc. It’s insane to me RP tries to squeeze all men and women into one singular box when everyone is DIFFERENT. You just have to find the pe…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 07:09 AM
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Hey… I am a woman and I feel for you. The reason why I originally discovered “red pill” was because my ex was all over watching all the red pill channels online, citing RP bs. As a woman, it hurts me to see that RP, a community that’s supposedly supposed to help men, is doing literally the exact opposite. But, going back to what you said. Men should 100% show their emotions. Women aren’t interested in men who are emotionless and just hold things in. Women love to see vulnerability in men as it c…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 07:03 AM
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Idk why a lot of guys assume just because women get a lot of attention it’s always quality attention. Quantity ≠ quality. A lot of guys who hit on you when you’re out only want to sleep with you and couldn’t care less about you. Not much to be jealous about tbh
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 06:56 AM
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Regarding body count, the points that you made where you feel like she was treated like trash and therefore she has a high body count, you can’t simply make that assumption. If she’s slept with multiple men, how do you not know that those guy did in fact treat her right but something happened in their relationship? Also, men treating a woman like shit is a mans fault. Not her’s. Your friends that treat women like shit should be held accountable and those women should walk away. Another point - f…
/r/ExRedPill27/03/23 09:46 PM
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But my question is : if biology designed it that way, why is it that women tend to NOT prefer their men sleeping with multiple women while men do prefer it, biologically speaking? Why does biology in this sense contradict the woman’s desire vs the man’s desire?
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 02:12 AM
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What I meant was if it was purely BIOLOGICAL, there would be a common relationship between the two desires. How do women not prefer their men to sleep with multiple women while men prefer it? Biology doesn’t work like that. The relationship would typically be symbiotic if it truly came from biology.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 02:01 AM
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Going to work and giving sex cannot compare. Let’s take traditional roles for example. The husband goes to work and provides financially while the wife stays at home and provides the cooking/cleaning/taking care of the kids. Both couples do that for the sake of the family. Those two roles are comparable. But demanding a wife give you sex as her “womanly duty” despite her probably not wanting to give it you is not her obligation. And in most situations, sexless marriages happen over time. Years o…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 07:50 AM
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Thank you for your comment. Exactly what I was thinking as well, especially your last paragraph. People complain about sexless marriages but fail to get down to the ROOT of the issue. Any guy who says a woman “owes” him sex because he brings home the money is completely missing the point of the intimacy of sex and why it exists beyond just reproduction.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 07:42 AM
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But your comment still doesn’t explain WHY the partners aren’t having sex in first place. Why is it the woman’s fault if perhaps she doesn’t want to have sex because she’s not turned on by her husband? Maybe it’s the husbands fault their life is sexless. I’m not saying that is the case but what I’m trying to point out is there are reasons BEYOND it being the woman’s fault that sexless marriages exist. “A wife incurs expenses and responsibilities on her husband” that’s my point. Sex shouldn’t be …
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 06:29 AM
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I get that in the point of the woman withholding sex from a marriage as a selfish act would be unfair. A partner withholding anything for their personal benefit is bad. But what about if the marriage went sexless for other reasons besides that? Sexual chemistry wasn’t there. The woman isn’t getting pleased by her man either in the bedroom or outside and therefore losing sexual attraction?
/r/ExRedPill08/03/23 05:23 AM
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I’m sorry you don’t see someone’s flaws as even perfection.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 03:47 AM
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Perfect is subjective. Who you may view as perfect others may not view. I mean as in PERFECT FOR YOU.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 03:43 AM
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I agree with you. A lot of men are out here become a better version of themselves for the sake of women, not actually because they want to better themselves. If money makes you happy, cool. If working out brings you joy, that’s fantastic. But all of these qualities doesn’t mean you have to do it because “all alpha males do it and you’re “beta” if you don’t and you can’t get women if you don’t” type of bs. The best types of relationships are those that have surpassed the surface level thinking of…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 07:02 AM
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What is funny is that my ex kept begging me to answer whether my ex before him had a bigger d*** than he did. After countless of screaming matches later, I finally told him my ex was in fact bigger. That was the end for him. He said he could never be with me knowing this kind of information. He too discussed body counts, watched Fresh and Fit, Andrew Tate, talked about how women should always been “feminine.” I was raised by my dad and my mom was never in the picture. He used it against me sayin…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 04:21 AM
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Exactly!! In this day and age, if enough people say the sky is orange enough people will believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:29 PM
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If you don’t want to believe that the best possible outcome could in fact happen to you, that is OKAY. Me, on the other hand, I will sit back work on myself knowing the best will come to me in return. Life is much easier that way. That’s not to dismiss that things will happen along the way (good or bad). Once again, I respect your opinion. Everyone on Reddit shares their view points. If you don’t agree with mine, I’m not hurt by it. I don’t expect everyone to agree with me. I made this post beca…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 09:10 PM
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You not believing in soul mates is totally okay. I’m not here to change your opinion. I value the opinions of other people. Just like with religion or anything else. I made the post off of my view point. I would rather walk around knowing that if I work on myself, I can attract the person who loves me for me as opposed to forcing things in the dating scene with this view point of “hey it may come. It may not” Most people are optimists in general. When you go to college, you graduate anticipating…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 09:06 PM
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I only brought God into it to base it off of where I stand. You could stand somewhere completely different. That is up to you. But by you saying, “you could get hit by a bus tomorrow” is so irrelevant to the discussion to be honest. Anything could happen at any time. Any reasonable person could interpret my post for what it is instead of taking these “absolutes” or absurdities that you just made. That’s like making a post about how to get the job you want and people commenting saying “hey you co…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 09:00 PM
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I completely see where you’re coming from. My point with the post was focus on yourself and let the rest come to you. I’m a firm believer of God and his willingness to provide everything we ask for, granted we do the inner work ourselves. I perhaps should have clarified that before I commented all the rest. But yes - I still firmly believe to focus on yourself. The right person will come. God provides that. If you are not a believer of God, or believe any other faith - by all means follow the ph…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 09:42 PM
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It doesn’t take away from my post whatsoever. My message is not to argue statistical probability or the chances of you finding your better person. It’s that people will love you for YOU not because of some red pill bs. Sorry if that’s all you gathered from the post instead of it’s actual meaning.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 08:03 PM
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Lol. Sure. Statistics can be used for everything. Do you walk into work everyday analyzing the statistical probability of you getting fired today or not? Or the statistical probability of your closest relationships not working out for you? If so, that must get really exhausting. Just as exhausting as this conversation is getting to become.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 06:45 PM
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No, I’m not a mathematician. Are you? My point is - if you want to guide every relationship by some statistic you read online, do it. There’s also the people who seek to just enjoy life, become the best version of themselves that they can be, and they know good things will come out of that too. My post is intended for the latter.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 06:16 PM
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I assume you have friends around you, maybe a couple people you consider your really closest friends. Did you use statistics to attract them too? You can do whatever in your life. It is your life. If you want to measure every relationship you’re in by some statistics, you can. I stand by my point nonetheless.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 05:17 PM
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I’m sorry but what a pessimistic way to live. Do you really want to live your entire life guided by some statistics?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 04:44 PM
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Yes 100% agreed. When I said perfect, people are interpreting that to mean that a person will be incredibly picky in their choosing. You can discover three core attributes in a person and still see them as perfect, as you continue developing yourself as well. In fact, in most cases, as you truly develop as a person, your ability to spot authentic/inauthentic will highly increase and naturally you will gravitate towards actual good standing people. Hopefully this makes senses haha
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 04:31 PM
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As I said in the above comment, there are no certainties in this world. That’s be absurd to assume. My point with the post is not that. It is that if you are actively seeking a mate, instead of focusing on some superficial qualities, focus on becoming the best version of you on a non superficial level and that will take you way more far in dating than the red pill will ever.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 04:25 PM
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If there was some misunderstanding with the whole “you are certain to find that perfect person” then that is my fault. Obviously there are no certainties in this world., but this post is not to debate some mathematical probability. It is just simply to highlight that a good standing person will be attracted to another good standing person. If you are seeking those characteristics in someone, you should become those characteristics as well instead of what the red pill highlights. And this post as…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 04:13 PM
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I 100% agree. There’s pessimism everywhere and the reason why I made this post was because I noticed a lot of people (especially young men) commenting on how sad and desperate they feel about needing to measure up to society’s current standards. It’s funny how the red pill promotes an exit out of the “matrix style of living” when, in my opinion, the red pill puts you even more in the rat race type of mentality. I do appreciate your input. It’s always nice to hear a different perspective on thing…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 09:07 AM
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I agree and disagree with your comment. Most people in society do enjoy a level of materialism. I mean we all like nice things. We judge people based on jobs, socio-economic status but that’s not the point I made with this post. My point is is that your character SHOULD ALWAYS supersede things like your job, what’s in your bank account etc. You watch those interviews of couples of who have been married more than 25+ years and is the reason for the success in their marriage? Nothing superficial A…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 08:44 AM
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But they will. I’m not saying “perfect” by society’s definition but perfect in your own eyes. Whatever perfect means to you.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 06:16 AM
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“The only thing they are consistent about is being unreliable and inconsistent” that was probably the best sentence I have ever read. Everything you said summed it up so nicely. The part about them losing their temper and using rage as intimidation, I felt that deeply because my ex bf did the same thing towards the end of the relationship. He realized it was most useful to him to get his point across by yelling in my face instead of actually discussing issues as grown adults. The irony of the wh…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 09:29 PM
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We probably lived the same life because I experienced almost to a T the same things you experienced with your RP bf. Mine constantly preached about body count for women and seemed to divide women into two categories : hoes and wifey material. It was so degrading. He said I was too masculine of a woman because I was raised by my dad and worked a lot. Meanwhile, throughout our entire relationship I paid for 98% of everything including our bills. Mind you, i was the one with a stable job. He told m…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 07:44 PM
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He turns women into “drooling minions by being rude and demeaning to them” and that’s a flex for him??? If you have to be rude and demeaning to get women, then that’s a problem in itself. Being an asshole is going to get in his only so far. And he will learn his lesson quickly, believe me. If I were you, look up to people who actually stand for something, are a person of character i.e. they’re nice, respectful, and confident instead of this guy.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/22 03:33 AM
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Why do you automatically assume that every guy who doesn’t fit this ideology is a beta male?
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 11:48 PM
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Thank you!! Why can’t this message be preached all over? I’ve been saying the exact same thing when it comes to TRP. So much focus on “statistics”, weird phrases like the lock analogy, and NO focus on the communication, respect for one another, the compromises, etc etc.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 01:02 AM
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That is true. You make a very good point. The reason why I said they cannot be changed is because most narcissists don’t see a problem with their behavior and therefore don’t get help for it. Some do though! Props for getting your partner to see a specialist. It takes a lot of courage and a lot of patience!
/r/ExRedPill08/08/22 11:08 PM
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Definitely a narcissist! Typical behavior. They cannot be changed, despite how much love you may feel for them. My best advice is walk away now and don’t look back. I’m sorry to hear you are going through this though. It’s so emotionally draining to be with a narcissist and it can literally strip you of yourself. Please take care of yourself and put you first AT ALL TIMES.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/22 08:48 PM
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I see your point. That’s why I said, if the boyfriend is willing to work on fixing his ideology, then the girlfriend could stick it out. If he sees no problem in the way he thinks, she should leave him. The thing about the TRP is it’s not a “honey can you do the dishes because I always do them” type of problem. This ideology literally could dictate the ENTIRE dynamic of your relationship. That’s why women leave when men think this way. And for some men, TRP is such a deeply embedded ideology wit…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 03:08 PM
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I see where you’re coming from, I think. To my understanding, you’re saying some men consume red pill with no bad intentions in mind, while some people use it for their own agenda. Again, whether or not the intention is bad, it’s up to your partner to decide how she feels about it. If the guy can explain to the girl that he didn’t have the intention to hurt her by believing in TRP, then the girl should be open to hearing him out. But TRP is a very toxic agenda in the first place, so if the boyfr…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 03:03 PM
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I mean, yes, sure. Everyone has unintentional negative biases of some sort when they enter into relationships. That doesn’t excuse the fact that if your partner feels some type of way towards those biases, you should aim to remedy the situation. If you continue on with your biases, then why should your gf stay?
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 02:22 PM
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It doesn’t matter what the cause is. If following TRP causes you to be “toxic” or somewhat negative towards your partner, the girlfriend should leave. Example ; if my ex hurt me and I’m still healing from the hurt and therefore mistreating my current partner, why should he stay? If I am willing to work on the things that are bothering him, that’s more of a reason to stay. But if I continue being toxic towards him, he has every reason to leave. If leaving your significant other reinforces the ide…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 02:17 PM
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It depends. If your significant other refuses to see the downfalls in their beliefs, it is 100% okay for a woman to leave the relationship, immediately if possible. If the guy chooses to listen to why his ideology is flawed and he actively works on improving himself, then there is a chance. But even that thinking requires a lot of patience on the woman’s part. The sad truth is is that a lot of men who fall into the TRP ideology abide by such a strict way of thinking that it would be hard to conv…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 10:57 AM
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Women and men don’t need each other to survive like we did in the past. We still absolutely need in each in general. I agree
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 08:07 PM
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Thank you! I’m 24 F and most of the guys I have dated never have asked that question. It was only around high school that the question about body count ever came up. Adults recognize that you have a past, that you didn’t sit around and just wait for your husband/wife to come by, and still respected yourself all while having fun. As you get older, things like that don’t matter. Jealously is rare if your partner makes you feel loved, respected and appreciated! Therefore the need to question someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:56 PM
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I 100% agree with you. TRP focuses on survivalist instincts as if we’re back in time. They focus on how we are more like animals than we are not, and to some extent that is true but completely false as well. Us human beings have the capacity of human consciousness, the ability to emphasize with other beings, to connect emotionally with others. These are things that most animals are not capable of to such a high degree. With that being said, because we can analyze situations/people on an emotiona…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 08:18 AM
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Amen! Since when are women defined as “good” and “bad” only because men say so? Instead of judging women by some outrageous standards, how about we start judging people by their level of emotional intelligence and their capacity to enter into a healthy relationship? Where are the standards for that?? It’s ironic because the same men who expect the world from women wouldn’t do shit for them. They can’t be a gentlemen let alone raise a family the way they claim to. Thank you for your input! You br…
/r/ExRedPill31/07/22 09:17 AM
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I loved your response! It made me laugh. Thank you for all the wise input. I’m a “traditional” woman myself, not by TRP standards, but by the way I was raised at home and even I was shocked when I started hearing all that came out of my boyfriends mouth. It’s funny because he states all of these things, how women lose their value over time, it’s not bad for men with money to sleep with other women but then claims that he doesn’t would never be like those men. A lot of young men are getting reele…
/r/ExRedPill31/07/22 09:11 AM
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I have a lot of people around me who constantly remind me that this kind of behavior isn’t normal. Especially when he first started mentioning his RP philosophies I immediately felt extremely off. Naturally because he mentioned it so many times I started believing it myself as well and I started feeling really worthless, like I wasn’t good enough because I didn’t fit the role of what the RP wants in an ideal woman. But thankfully I have a lot of people to remind me that a real man shouldn’t act …
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 09:40 PM
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I actually have seen him get angry before. He always says that he feels I’m playing him or that I’m trying to manipulate him. He feels like I’m always against him no matter what, like I have some ulterior motive for being together. I’m glad you mentioned that…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 09:22 PM
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There are far more women like that than you can imagine - loyal, doesn’t sleep around etc etc. I think TRP forum makes it sound like they don’t exist but we do. Many good standing women are also very repulsed by TRP and some of its followers.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 03:23 PM
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I’m sorry to hear that about your relationship in the past. It sucks because you do give yourself to someone, meanwhile they take complete advantage of it. I wouldn’t use the relationship you had with your ex as a signal of an experience you will have int the future if you commit yourself to someone. That woman was probably emotionally immature and that is why she did what she did. The right woman will love you when you respect her and she will do the same in return. I believe it’s all about fin…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 02:46 PM
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I do see your point, as there are a lot of women that take advantage of their privileges as a woman (like the American courts example you used) or use men for money. But what I will say is - those are just bad women. Just like there are many other bad people in this world. I can’t speak for all, but at least from what I have noticed, a lot of TRP men come with those notion that all women (or most women) are like the ones you speak of. We are not. If you aim to build the communication, respect, l…
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 02:31 PM
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See, exactly! Some of what TRP says makes sense and I see it happening today, no doubt. But it is sad to say that the message has become so convoluted and has become a men vs women type of thing as opposed to how can both genders use their strengths and weaknesses to work together to become successful in the end.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 01:54 PM
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Happy for you that you got out of it! Relationships aren’t a one size fits all, like TRP makes it out to be. Each relationship is individual with its own needs. Glad to hear you are in a loving, good standing relationship!
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 01:51 PM
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I am going through the exact same issue. Met the guy I am dating, everything was going amazing until he slowly introduced me to the Fresh & Fit podcast and all the concepts behind it. He states that men with high value can mess around with multiple women while women can’t. And he claims he doesn’t do that himself, he just doesn’t see anything wrong with the ideology. Other things as well - claims that women should get their ultimate happiness from their children while men succeed in their career…
/r/ExRedPill17/07/22 10:41 PM
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