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Why is that? Rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:40 AM
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Snekky, I am upvoting everything you say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:37 AM
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You can support anyone you want. But people who are in love are internally motivated to support their loved one. I would not buy a house with a roommate but I will pool my vast wealth with the husband I love to buy a house with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:35 AM
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Simply that if they marry people who they desire and love somewhat, it’ll be easier to maintain that and build upon that over time given than other things in the relationship will be more stable So let me get this straight. Lukewarm sorta love instead of being in love the way most would describe it, correct? What incentive does the wife have to be passionate or want sex? She will see it as a duty and put out while staring at the ceiling and planning her outfit for tomorrow. Is this the dream? Is…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:31 AM
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But if people took your advice and married with no love for their partner, would there be fewer dead bedrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:18 AM
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I promise I know I am in love. There is no other benefit to being in a relationship for me since I am no gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:02 AM
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But the only benefit is his love for me, so....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:56 AM
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Is it time to say that women who believe in romantic love have unrealistic expectations? Tell that to my much-loved boyfriend who loves me to death and wants to marry me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:53 AM
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What if that was an expectation going into the marriage? Is this an arranged marriage? Are you in India? Most people in the western world want love marriages and who can blame them. If you explain to your intended that you are only doing this as a duty and you don't have emotional connection to her, see if she says yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:49 AM
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So women are more likely to be blue pilled and talk about true love bullshit. So as a man you would be fine with your wife or girlfriend seeing you as an acquaintance and not being in love with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:34 AM
21

This makes relationships shallower and more difficult to maintain Shallower than being with someone who does not love me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:32 AM
21

Again, most people do not want platonic roommate marriages. If you learned that your spouse was apathetic toward you or just loved you as a somewhat friend, would you think that was victory?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:31 AM
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Correct. If I found out my boyfriend did not love me, I would leave him instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:26 AM
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What keeps relationships going isn’t love But most people want to be in love-based relationships, yes? If you found out your wife was only staying with you because she can't drive a car, would you be happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:21 AM
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In all honesty, I am a flawed hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:18 AM
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If you wish to do this, go right ahead. I prefer to fall in love and be with someone who loves me back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:14 AM
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Rural Mississippi is flatter than a pancake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:08 PM
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My boyfriend is brown and from a foreign country and has an accent to prove it. No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:48 PM
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You are speaking my language! I have been rejected for small tits and it's absolutely a thing. Some men like big knockers, and they find those women. I am thin and small chested. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:17 PM
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I’m sure he’s a lucky guy for having a caring wife/girlfriend. Yeah, but I feel like I am dating a rock star. So who is the lucky one?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:34 PM
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For the record, I agree with her. My SO is the hottest man I have ever met and he's short. I never cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:15 PM
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Would you reject her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:11 PM
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negative connotation with fatness as a whole, since sloth and gluttony are two the seven deadly sins. So what if she is stick thin because of bulimia? Still sloth and gluttony, but with puke? Be honest, she looks hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:09 PM
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And for the Irish chick who’ll see this, please don’t bother using your husband as your empirical proof. Who is this??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:05 PM
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I prefer brutal honesty Only when you are the one being brutal?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:04 PM
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Catch a bipolar girl in her manic phase, after drinking one good scotch, Before she drives off a cliff while chasing snowflakes??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:48 PM
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worrying about how to manipulate someone while not being manipulated Thank you, this made me laugh :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:47 PM
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height is truly unfair, So? It's unfair I do not like gingers. I don't want a ginger. Poor gingers cannot help it, find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:08 PM
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By whom? Did you lose a job over this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:04 PM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:47 PM
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Am I emotionally abusing you right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:37 PM
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All women are emotionally abusive. I just don't why I bother. We get comments like this now. If Crimson is commenting this in good faith and honestly believes this, what is the point of debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:14 PM
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I don’t see how it could be otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:50 PM
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Maybe she caught Chad and threw him back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:11 PM
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She passed away I am so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:11 PM
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I lived in America and it was common where I lived. We all watched videos on VHS in 1982. It was that or BetaMax, which did not catch on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:55 PM
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Good point. Almost all the women here are taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:49 PM
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as VHS didn't really take off until the late 80s when VCRs dropped in pricing. No trust me, early 80s. We all had VCRs by 1982.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:49 PM
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Meet at a Starbucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:44 PM
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HAHHAHA!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:30 PM
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I have seen these pairings in real life but the men did not broadcast their abuse to others. They were embarrassed. Still I have no stats on how common this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:40 PM
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Oh c'mon, you can destroy a potato so many ways trying to bake it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:23 AM
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Tuna salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:23 AM
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Never happened. We all had different types.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:58 AM
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I'd certainly be interested in hearing from people who do enjoy it. I enjoy certain things that involve wiping. I like to spray and shine. I enjoy scrubbing otherwise shiny kitchen appliances. Frankly, getting porcelain spotless squeaky clean is cool to observe. And I get cardio while at it. Lots of chores are enjoyable and I love the before and after effect. But I do not work full time. When I did, and commuted to the office and back, it sucked. I was exhausted and tired out and hated doing cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:55 AM
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We all know who provides significantly more to relationships, and it's men. So you gonna hop on Grindr?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:48 AM
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Women aren’t complaining about how difficult it is to share chores with a shadowy monk. this is great :D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:44 AM
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DO you think we are blank slates?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:36 AM
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Are they equally good? yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:04 PM
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People are not tabula rasa. Little boys like to play with blocks and then start smashing and crashing the things they built with blocks, while yelling and throwing things and pretending to be Godzilla. I taught elementary school and let me tell you, boys and girls are just not the same. Neither one is bad, but getting little boys to sit still and pay attention is HARD. So I know that is natural to their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:48 PM
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Good taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:57 PM
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Like how sexualized Y.T. is, even though the character is 15 years old. I...just now remembered this. Yuck. Y.T. had sex with the macho man too, oh lord ...and then her vaginal device stabbed him. As I now type this I cannot believe I ever liked that book.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:53 AM
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I really liked Snow Crash but I also really got into Stephen King and now that I'm older, it seems less deep. Snow Crash was groundbreaking for the accurate predictions of internet culture more than anything else. Neal Stephenson is not my favorite writer, his characters seemed mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:39 AM
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I agree with all this. Good comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:37 AM
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I remember reading this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:05 AM
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It's weird, I know. He thinks Breaking Bad is made for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:04 AM
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Breaking Bad and Better Call Saul are my favorite TV shows, so I can answer this. I never once imagine myself as Walter or Saul. I imagine living in Albuquerque and I feel horrible for the characters and Jessie and his girlfriend and I relish the little details and the epic writing and the feel of 20 years ago. I love every bit of it. At no point did I think it's a Man's Show as it is made for everyone. Do you read Anna Karenina and imagine yourself as Anna?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:01 AM
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it's my duty to ensure I'll live as long as her, and be in shape throughout. UH....how are you planning to die at the same time? This is ....scary....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:46 AM
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Her dad will shoot you in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:14 AM
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I once or twice had a guy try this on me. Brag about all the money he makes but refuse to pay for anything. What are they hoping will happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:49 PM
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feeble women what you actually do bring to the table. Everytime this question is brought up, it is met with indignation and contempt, never with any real answers. Go read the 500,000 other posts. Lots of real answers mixed in with the exasperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:48 PM
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Haven't we seen this post 500,000 times already? If you get no benefits from women, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:35 PM
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Agreed. All the misogynists I knew IRL were just surly assholes who hated everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:31 AM
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I am vastly more centered, rational and self restrained than every woman I have ever been with. Sounds like you have a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:26 AM
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My gf used live a few hours away from me, and when she'd take the train home sunday night/monday morning, she used to cry on the train. Worst feeling I know this one well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:24 AM
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Do you ever worry that someone will find your morning pages and read your inner thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:32 AM
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Get a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:27 AM
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They were paying prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:08 AM
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I am pretty spectacular
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:50 AM
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Regardless, you're still hypergamous. Based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:50 PM
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I am the opposite of everything you just typed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:22 PM
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Wine counts as grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:07 PM
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Yeah, if they hold out for super skinny women (like I used to be) they will miss out on most everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:05 PM
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Swam and swam.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:02 PM
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Having a severely autistic child is not as easy as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:58 PM
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Wrong wrong wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:31 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:29 PM
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Limerence is something I know well. When I had a crush on a guy in high school, he broke my heart and it took years to recover. Same thing happened when I had a crush later on and we didn't even date. Destroyed me inside. Finally I met the love of my life and the emotions were so powerful and painful, I knew I could not screw this one up so here we are 7 years later and he is snoring right next to me. Other men simply do not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:28 PM
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Buddy, it's genetic. Why would I want to pass on my autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:23 PM
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I would end up on YouTube looking at videos of people dying doing those sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:34 AM
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If it were someone I loved it would worry me endlessly. I would cry from fear of him dying every time. If I did not give a shit about this person, whatever you wanna do just do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:20 PM
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He is skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:14 PM
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I felt like I was a teacher having to explain things to him Half of my relationships have been like this. I explain a lot of things to my boyfriends. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:56 PM
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I know a lot of beautiful and intelligent people who make very little money. Musicians artist and poets to name some. You just hang out in different circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:54 PM
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Especially since in that situation he would more likely be smarter and richer.... The "pretty one", is rarely smarter than "the successful one". Not in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:08 PM
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This is why talks about "hypergamy" are nonsense. Is he uglier than me? Probably. Is he dumber than me? Of course. But he makes more money right? Hell yeah he does. So which one of us is dating up?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:26 PM
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Don't we all have skin in the game? Roads, health insurance, inheritance rights, all that is dependent on which political party is forcing things through.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:53 PM
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I am the same as you, but most people here are atheist and they will never get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:43 PM
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You can do everything right and still fail, so 'stop being paranoid' is the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:33 PM
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I like it fine with choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:29 PM
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Even if you screen for the best you can still be screwed Even if I eat healthy and never smoke I can still get cancer. Why fret over maybe? Live life with your eyes open.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:46 PM
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I chose to wait and I am SO glad I did. Best decision I ever made, because now I am with the man I actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:54 PM
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Plenty of divorced men in the thirties and forties.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:52 PM
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Do you expect her to cook for you or are you ok with tuna sandwiches?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:51 PM
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If you are raised by a raging alcoholic mother, you may subconsciously recreate that dynamic by being wildly attracted to party girls with fiery personalities. You look back in ten years and realize that what you thought was basic hotness and physical attraction was really your mental programming meshing perfectly with her issues. In other words, chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:32 PM
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Sometimes I wonder if some people have any internal dialogue besides “what’s for dinner?” I also wonder what reality looks like in someone else's head. Do they just not care?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:28 PM
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One good thing I liked about living in the Deep South was being able to set off my own fireworks. Huge rockets, super dangerous, but everyone there did this every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:12 PM
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he just had no banter, he just mainly just laughed at my jokes and stared at me. I can totally picture this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:41 PM
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The implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:03 PM
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This is not how I think, and I suspect other women do not see men as stats either. A man who is attractive and flirts with me is a stand out. He makes me feel good and I like him back. I don't care if he cooks or how much money he makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:59 PM
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I really wanted to go to Homecoming when I was 16 years old and I needed a date. So I went with this guy I did not find attractive. Oh well, I guess you could see this as a gain maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:51 PM
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You've cracked the code.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:45 PM
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This is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:30 PM
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I dated a guy in my twenties who could not even hold a job due to his chronic lateness. He would get so caught up with friends and fun on the weekends that he would forget the massive project he had to turn in on Monday. Then get fired. Repeat. He showed up to fun events two hours late anyhow, and when I asked him why he never had an answer. This was a guy who skipped two grades in school and was technically gifted, but his life was so disorganized he could not adult. At all. At some point after…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:58 PM
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This is an underrated comment. People with ADHD are sometimes so difficult and unmanaged that their loved ones are driven to despair trying to keep things from imploding. I am so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:52 PM
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This sums it all up nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:40 PM
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Barf, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:58 PM
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I can relate to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:39 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:21 PM
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Same. Strong bossy women love men who worship them. So many examples I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:33 PM
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In general, men hate being caregivers. Caregiving is a lot of patience and most men are not patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:26 PM
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Good lord, where do you guys live??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:50 PM
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Idk, the floor is yours. choose any topic you want. start wherever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:56 PM
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obviously I don't know the guy and you might still be implying that he's just as boring, lazy, or immature as the other guy No, my dad is elderly. He deserves to kick back.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:50 PM
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Instead we just have 30 comments about how men (as a generalised group) are all lazy horny feckless grunting slobs who can barely manage to present better than a 15 year old. OK, fine. Here is my dad's day: Get up at 5 am, coffee and internet time. Feeds the cats. Gym? Gun range? I dunno, sometimes Walmart. Giant salad for lunch. More internet. Disappears again. Returns and takes a walk around the neighborhood. Talks on phone. Eats dinner that someone else cooked. Watches a LOT of TV. A lot. Lau…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:32 PM
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I am an artist and friends with many artists. Male artists draw differently and have distinct advantages in seeing perspective correctly and drawing things accurate to 3D, such as cars and buildings. Female artists such as myself struggle to visualize things in the round and make mistakes in this area. But we kick ass in color theory and coloring in general, so much that male artists sometimes never color anything, or when forced to will make awful clashing color choices. Biology. You can learn …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:27 PM
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Hey, don't bash my favorite coworker! But seriously, this is just one guy I knew and it was funny. He was quite honest and he is 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:01 PM
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LOL, lighten up man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:11 PM
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Men aren’t really interested in “love” at all, just respect and adoration from others, i.e. it’s all one sided and being given to them by others without reciprocation. I was going to upvote you but no, this part is wrong. Men are very interested in love and being loved, but they show love differently than women do. My dad literally NEVER says "I love you" or shows affection. It's normal for certain cultures to be stoic. Women want to hug and kiss and shower their men with compliments and smiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:56 PM
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Seems like you just wanted an excuse to fire at RP men you have met online, not men you would actually meet irl. Here is what my male coworker told me: Wake up, masturbate. Energy drink, yell at mom or mom yells at him. Take an hour long shit while scrolling Internet memes. Drive to Job Place. Joke with coworkers while doing Job Thing. Cuss a lot. Eat massive sandwich for lunch. More internet scrolling and sharing memes with coworkers. More sex jokes. Get mad at boss. Drive home. Call girlfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:53 PM
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I love this. Keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:49 PM
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I had zero problem doing in my thirties, even in my forties. I never did AFBB and no one was a Plan B or anything. I just date people I like. Strangely, there was no strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:36 PM
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I actually like this idea
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:45 PM
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By whom? Who is pushing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:46 PM
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Emperor of France
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:38 PM
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Who do you hang out with that never gets angry at work or on the freeways? I am 51 and I have seen a lot of men and women burst into rage on the highways. It's common in my part of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:39 PM
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Valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:15 PM
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But secondly, why do you assume SAHW = slavery? Thats why I refer to so many of you as dramatic. You literally have convinced yourselves that SAHWs are forced to surrender their basic human rights. When did I say that? Quote me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:03 PM
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Yet now she’s forced to go out and get a job whether she wants to or not. How exactly is that fair? No, she is not forced. I see jobless people all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:02 PM
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Oh and another one- road rage. Men are more likely than women to get super pissed and rage at other drivers to the point of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:41 PM
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I have had male coworkers who threw things, yelled, screamed and cussed, punched walls, you name it. This was in restaurants, offices, retail, all sorts of workplaces. Men are just as emotional as women, but it's more often rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:33 PM
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You never had a male boss who screamed and slammed his fist into objects when things did not go his way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:06 PM
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Dinner has to be on the table by 6 pm every night. She cannot swan off to Montana for a trip, she cannot go backpacking for a week, she has to BE. HOME.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:20 PM
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For people who do not like being stuck at home, what is the upside?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:19 PM
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Bizarre. I thought all these guys here had single moms and no dads, so what gives?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:16 PM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:47 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:47 PM
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r/choosingbeggars
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:45 PM
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We've been saying this for years, but people have to learn it for themselves by sitting in restaurants. Kids today are completely undisciplined.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:44 PM
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Swam a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:41 PM
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My grandma wanted to set me up with someone. It turns out he had a wife. LOL sorry but this is genuinely funny. Was grandma clueless?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:33 PM
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Meanwhile those women know they would flip out if the inverse was happening and a woman was doing all that for her husband/bf. Um, no? I do this for my boyfriend when he sleeps over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:04 PM
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It sounds awful. My parents were traditional and dad made decisions that mom just accepted, we all did, but no one was being fooled. To me this sounds mean and hurtful to make dad into a dupe, but also contradicts the idea that he is wiser and a true leader. In other words, yikes. So I am glad you reject the bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:40 PM
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Both my sisters claim they believe wives should submit, but they're both really in egalitarian relationships. My grandmother was the queen of her household, bossed my grandfather around all damn day, yet claimed to be a submissive wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:34 PM
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it creates a weird sometimes a weird dynamic where the father is ostracized and the whole household is acting cunningly to have him take the decision the majority wants. Does the father know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:33 PM
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They need to know that you have their back against a domineering MIL. Absolutely. MILs can be nightmares and OP needs to care less about his mom's opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:23 PM
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I have the luxury of living by the beach in one of the most beautiful parts of SoCal How are you enjoying this 82 degree December we are having??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:13 PM
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Then I want to write, make music, hang out with my bros, fish, bow hunt, and go monk mode for the rest of my life. IDGAF about anything else. I know a man who is Middle Aged, married with kids, who wants nothing more in life than to live in a cabin in the woods and fish all day. I get it. But you understand this says a lot more about you than it does about society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:12 PM
1

She's appalled by the behavior and lack of morals in American women. It's shocking to her Is she muslim?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:10 PM
2

Yeah, that would be weird. If I had a boyfriend your age when I was 21 my dad would have killed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:08 PM
6

You are partially a result of your parents Genetics plus upbringing. That is almost the entirety of who you are. If someone is a fuck up, it's absolutely the parents who made them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:06 PM
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Notice how our genitalia evloved. You're either the penetrator or the penetratée. Um....who's gonna tell him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:00 PM
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but I've personally witnessed DINK couples make a federal case about who loads the goddamn dishwasher...or how it's loaded. My parents do this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:49 PM
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How does one sleep on their stomach and still breathe?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:46 PM
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Ice ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:45 PM
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Is the chorus any good?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:45 PM
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Classified ads in an Indian newspaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:41 PM
2

This is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:50 PM
3

This involves getting to know the guy first and having a strong sense of self and independence. I know a lot of divorced women. I dodged that path myself. Sometimes the writing is on the wall, sometimes they turn evil after marriage...but so many men and women get hurt because their spouse is a massive disappointment and not what they thought. One guy married in his twenties and had kids and now, as a middle aged man, divorced because her mental illness reached psychosis phase of delusion. He ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:48 PM
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I stand by my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:40 PM
3

I don't give a shit about "status" but if you think you can change another person or expect great things with no proof, you will either break their heart when you dump them later or they will wreck your life. The number of super smart guys I knew in college who turned into unemployed middle aged men or mentally insane living on disability, or in jail. What if I had married one of those brainy guys back then? I would be divorced and probably with messed up kids. That is a huge gamble, especially …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:37 PM
10

Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:31 PM
5

All relationships are As Is. To expect your partner to change for the better will end in tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:28 PM
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Women find grocery shopping as fun as men find playing video games? OMG just the other day I hit level 11 at Albertsons and this pile of gold coins fell on me from the sky and my infinite backpack just sucked them up or something! There was a whoosh of light when this happened but no one looked or cared, and then I suddenly felt stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:04 PM
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There was a father on tiktok So no one you know. Just Internet click bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:49 PM
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Not in my case. Everyone at Thanksgiving remarked on how much thinner I looked. Yeah, 10 pounds thinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:46 PM
10

Wait, what if I got an alpha bucks? Did I win?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:37 PM
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I recommend food poisoning. Worked for me last month.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:36 PM
22

So we are expected to fulfill our contract, but she doesn't. Shit, I forgot that marriage comes with a chore contract. Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:35 PM
21

just like women aren't really band maids. Hey, I only followed Depeche Mode's tour bus around for a couple years, geez.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:34 PM
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What exactly is your complaint here? That women will not do everything you want all the damn time? "sex on demand" is a lot to ask of any human being and should be seen as a massive red flag that you believe that is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:23 PM
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It's a lie if you tell a man sub 7 that it's a lack of spark/connection So when you are not attracted to a girl, you inform her directly that she is sub 7?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:26 AM
9

He's never having kids, come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:10 AM
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Does she have to cook and clean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:19 PM
8

I'd rather live in my car.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:04 PM
3

Hard agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:10 PM
2

Yup, spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:34 PM
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This is what I observed too. The relationships where the woman was abusive were HORRIBLE to observe, as the man cowered and groveled or just hid from his wife. Literally slept in his car. In all cases, he was a virgin or just unwanted when they met and she gobbled him up. Quickly. Vegas wedding. Then abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:34 PM
4

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:58 PM
5

Uh...weird leap. Remember that every person who woke up drunk this morning fell asleep drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:50 PM
5

. Personally, I think both sexes would be happier in the long term if we avoided each other entirely. Speak for yourself! I love my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:37 PM
2

Yes, because they will expect her to be much more sexual and lusty than a suppressed Christian girl will likely ever be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:04 PM
14

Yup. We were taught that if we were good little prudes who only dated within the faith, we would get happy rewarding lives. Big lie. Also the Bible never says that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:27 PM
5

Girls like me who were raised in strict Christian fundamentalism have a strong likelihood of being afraid of sex and seeing themselves as sinful and their bodies as shameful. They have lo n counts and cannot enjoy sex after marriage. Husband is pissed. Not everyone, but it's a common trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:25 PM
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Lots of divorces coming. The after market is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:21 PM
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This is exactly it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:46 PM
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No these women always dated simps, that was their type. Red pill likes to discount women who prefer submissive men but I know plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:47 PM
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Most don't date men who cater to them, so clearly is not a priority. Oh trust me, I know women who love and marry simps. They genuinely do not think of him as "beta" or whatever, they love him as he dotes all over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:54 PM
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LOL this is very male way of thinking. Do I love him? Is he attractive? Does he love me? That is what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:57 PM
6

What did you want people to say? "You are perfect As Is and no one is good enough for your majesty?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:15 PM
4

Yes it is. There is no such thing as platonic friends of the opposite sex. Wrong. Just factually wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:00 PM
3

So women are all lying again?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:11 PM
4

Cue a bunch of women saying they would never run this test on their partner. And? What does that tell you about us?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:01 PM
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Most tests come back that you are in fact the father. In the cases where that is not true, you no longer want to keep this a secret anyway. Blow up the damn marriage, who cares at that point. But if you want to stay together, take the test in secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:00 PM
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What your favorite group?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:56 PM
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Okay. Just stop obsessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:56 PM
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I have seen Muse twice in concert, used to own all their CDs. Also on the list: Dead Can Dance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:54 PM
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Fucked up advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:52 PM
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Oh well. I did not know my macros when I was throwing up and running to the toilet and could not keep anything down for a week. Weirdly I still lost a bunch of weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:50 PM
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Alternative rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:48 PM
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Test in secret, if you want. Men can get paternity tests in secret, go for it. I would not need to test my boyfriend for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:44 PM
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men burn through 200k (10%) more calories a day 200,000 more calories a DAY????
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:00 PM
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That does suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:33 PM
1

Were you a part of that red vs blue assassin game or whatever it was by any chance? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:16 PM
3

Have been here 6 years as well. Now I am mentally guessing your previous user names :D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:59 PM
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What a fun game! Let's all approach strange men!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:34 PM
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What about it sounds fake? People in public places do weird stuff, it's not unknown.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:09 PM
3

So when I go out with friends and pick up the tab my friends should what...? Give me their firstborn?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:51 PM
6

How will any of that help you get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:48 PM
1

If you think the West culturally enforces monogamy you don't actually understand what societies that do that look like. Are you pining for Saudi Arabia?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:40 PM
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Men aren't protected by civilization they're incentivized to participate. Police ignore men? You call 911 and they ask your gender and then don't show up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:09 PM
0

"distribution of sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:07 PM
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Fewer men are on psychiatric drugs because they would rather drink themselves to death to deal with their trauma. It's easy to hide alcoholism while dating, and women walk right into these relationships thinking he is fine. Everything explodes. Finances wrecked. Car wrecked. But thank goodness he is not on Paxil, amirite??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:03 PM
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Desirable men aren’t all the same for different women. This is the truth. What I find desirable and what you want are different men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:10 PM
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In fact as a woman gets older, her threshold for looks decreases because she begins to prioritize the betabuxx Nope. Nope. Uh uh. I am 51 and I never wanted a beta buxx and I picked my guy based on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:48 PM
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What do you want her personally to do about it? Hunt down an incel and throw herself at him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:32 PM
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Monster!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:06 PM
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I would pick that one throwaway account, which is indistinguishable from all the others, yet made profound comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:04 PM
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It’s much less socially acceptable for men to experiment with other men, even in liberal areas. This. If men were not ashamed at all of their bisexuality, you would see more reports of it. I have know WAY more gay and bisexual men than women by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:53 PM
1

Always assume you are buying As-Is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:30 PM
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Exactly. Why should people pretend that fairies and leprechauns exist either? Astrology is made. up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:26 PM
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This is the correct answer. If they got what they wanted, they would not yell about preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:24 PM
2

Turn to objective peer reviewed scientific studies annd empirical data in large sample sizes instead of subjective opinions of biased humans. And then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:40 PM
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Trust me. I am older now and I have seen plenty of Protestant, catholic, and mormon girls get married in their twenties and divorced in their thirties. Men too. A good number of these saved it for their spouse. Lotta good that did them. I myself am religious and I can tell you all the pitfalls of this system.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:08 AM
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They often get divorced in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:05 AM
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Exactly my point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:09 PM
5

But why would women bother doing something they do not like? If they do not want to have all that sex, ROI on a baby is pretty bad, why have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:12 PM
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feminism and western culture encourage promiscuity They also encourage other things such as healthy diet and exercise but look how that turned out. So society "encouraging" people only works if they already want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:05 PM
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Or not. I know some prudes, most go to church. If you are not part of a conservative church you likely never see these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:03 PM
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If you look at who is promiscuous and who is not, generally the more religious conservatives have lower N counts than secular women. This is pretty telling. Outside of religion, what incentive is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:55 PM
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Ms drgree Where did she go? Is she gone forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:07 PM
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Who can say? That is why you date- to find a good partner. If you don't try, you can't succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:33 PM
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Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:08 PM
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Swimming.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:03 PM
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I think it's just better to stay single until you feel like you're good and stable enough. That might work for some people but I really enjoy dating and I am glad I dated since age 15. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:02 PM
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It gets thrown around by everyone. Like "narcissist" and "love languages" and "daddy issues" it is overused and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:01 PM
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Let's see, today I am wearing makeup, a bra, and tight jeans. Hmmmm...looks like the Jezebel meter ranks me a 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:12 PM
2

Gaslighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:05 PM
2

I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:14 PM
2

A few years ago lots of guys were bragging here about getting rich off of crypto Yeah, and this one woman on Facebook too. Now it's silent on the crypto front.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:07 PM
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This is one problem I will never have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:29 AM
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but if you don't do any of the shit I mentioned and don't make other people's lives worse irl then who cares what they say online? Imagine you are Jewish and your friends are all nice to know, but you found their Reddit account and it was all antisemitic slurs and jokes about Jews. In a mean way. Would you reevaluate your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:38 PM
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Exactly, my SO is 9 years older but no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:29 PM
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but people like to make them out to be disgusting horrible people purely for what they say online. Because in vino veritas. What you say online is your true feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:26 PM
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He is just fucking some random women on rotation. And she thinks they are in a relationship. That is what avoidant means, right? No. I have dated avoidant men who were sexless nerds. They were simply busy doing other stuff, not other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:24 PM
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I have been wearing makeup since 13 and now at age 51 my skin looks fine. Way too youthful even.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:57 PM
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Everyone on Reddit is making bank. No one is less than 600K, haven't you noticed? Meanwhile I am trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:56 PM
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What if you meet in college and no one has money yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:30 PM
2

if a woman doesn't go house-to-house lurking inside someone's basement before making her bad choice, she will never chose correctly. honestly snort laughed at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:34 PM
1

the average man does not and simply takes what he can get. So why does he just accept defeat? Why not refuse and go MGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:32 PM
2

Dead bedroom here we come!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:06 PM
5

But then she is a single mom with a baby daddy. You guys hate those people with a blind rage, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:05 PM
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Men on average put up with much more, and women tend to on average give up much quicker. Have you dated men? How do you know if men are easier or harder than women to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:00 PM
5

I think men just need to avoid marriage. It’s a losing deal. So all children should be raised by single mons? I thought you guys hate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:57 PM
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Exactly. But when you gender flip this, men claim that there is NO WAY for a guy to see through manipulation and deceit and women are just tricksy and false.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:12 PM
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If a woman sits there and ignores a man for 10 years while running the carousel, and then begrudgingly settles for him This never ever happens, trust me. She dates guys and marries one of them. No settling begrudgingly for anyone. Why would she?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:29 AM
3

So you want people to cheat on their spouses as payback for what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:12 AM
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snap, section 8 etc. these programs are for women and children only. SNAP and Section 8 are for anyone regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:09 AM
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world oldest profession And? Are you a prostitute? No? Neither am i.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:24 PM
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All women are prostitutes. Please inform your family of this over Christmas dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:47 PM
1

Women are masters at EQ and shifting the narrative, far better than men are. "My ex girlfriend was crazy. And the other ex was crazy too. And that other gal, she was nuts."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:42 PM
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A gay man is the ideal roommate for a single woman. He is clean and respectful and will not creep on her, plus a man in the house gives her protection from other men. Women roommates vary, as some can be a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:33 PM
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Most people fall in love involuntarily with no plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:59 PM
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a lot of them are dateless for a reason beyond being just shy. THIS. I really believed he was just shy and unlucky and if I showed him love and acceptance he would be great. WRONG. Holy shit was I wrong. Likely the most hateful person I have ever met.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:19 PM
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This often ends up as women continuing to give abusers chance after chance while fleeing from a good man after he gets frustrated one time. The most abuse I ever suffered was from a chinless nerd. I gave nerds many, many chances. Some were sweet and some had a chip on the shoulder and took it out on me. No Chad has ever abused me. Let me tell you- I was dumb. I honestly believed I was doing the right thing by dating nerd men. Truly believed Christian men from church would be morally superior to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:16 PM
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So how many lonely virgin men have you dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:05 PM
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Oh trust me, I tried that twice. One turned out to be super mentally ill and mean as fuck, the other ended up being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:59 PM
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She is a breath of fresh air on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:17 PM
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Men can "withhold" sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:15 PM
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But I gave my hot sexy youth to lonely nerds. All those guys got to parade me around like arm candy in my most gorgeous years. Then in my forties I met the love of my life. A Chad. Don't these two things completely contradict Red Pill dogma? That women are shallow and slutty in their youth and then grudgingly give themselves to betas when they are older? I did the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:18 AM
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Why? I disproved AFBB.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:09 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:02 AM
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I did the exact opposite of AFBB and locked down a Chad when middle aged, after decades of dating nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:41 AM
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it makes sense for the state to distribute also sex as it distributes wealth. And this is why no one takes you guys seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:54 PM
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The irony is that it’s probably way easier to take a guy who is not physically attractive looking, but otherwise a great person (in terms of personality and values) and to try to make him attractive via plastic surgery, dietary changes, exercise, etc. "I can fix him."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:43 PM
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Yea, imagine the fun times you would have with a red pill guy! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:42 PM
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I worked retail and Karens are not the average woman at all. They are bitches. Most women are people pleasers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:03 PM
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I respect this rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:39 AM
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Let me know when men are willing to be used as human dildos with seldom to zero sexual gratification and maybe women will attend the negotiating table. Spot on, as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:01 PM
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If we had a 4 day work week But not a 4 40 work week. I did that one summer and it sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:55 PM
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You can gender flip this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:49 PM
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Women here routinely comment that they only find 10% of men or so attractive. True, but it's not the same 10% of men. We have different types.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:46 PM
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Do you live in Los Angeles or another fit attractive city?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:45 PM
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I met the love of my life at age 44. Checkmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:24 PM
1

This is the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:57 PM
5

But if it’s a guy you can give a small nudge to like hey work out 6 times a week Have you ever tried this? It does not work. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:38 PM
6

Well this is depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:17 PM
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No one I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:57 PM
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Like, I wanna look into quakerism This is where I am at. I gave up on normal protestant churches after decades of insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:34 PM
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It's confusing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:09 PM
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I don’t understand it because it sounds like they’re suggesting that women should just commit to men they’re not attracted to, which doesn’t seem like a sustainable solution. I actually tried this in my twenties and it was a fail. NEVER date a guy you do not find yummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:07 PM
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Trad cons do not care about individual happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:16 PM
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But how do we know he was deceived? Maybe the mom told him "Look, you'll do." and he was delighted because NO ONE wanted him until that point. Who can say?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:09 PM
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Oh I WILL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:08 PM
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I was bragging about how I can't keep my hands off my boyfriend and someone here told me "stop Chad chasing" and it really made my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:03 PM
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I am surprised it lasted as long as it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:54 PM
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A woman's value is tied to her youth, fertility, purity and loyalty. A woman presenting herself to you later in life fulfills none of these. Please be sure to tell women this on the first date so they can leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:42 PM
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No, OP only observe her mom and her mom's friends in the post. Not people at Walmart or people at church or couples on a luxury cruise or couples in divorce court.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:40 PM
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Oh please.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:36 PM
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Yes please.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:35 PM
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Gun range.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:34 PM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:34 PM
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GROSS! I had a boss like that and I am horrified just reading this account.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:33 PM
5

So what are you suggesting that poor man should have done instead? Been a forever bachelor virgin with no family to love? Did he have ANY other offers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:12 PM
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Would a woman do the same sacrifice for me if she were single? I’d think in most cases no. I am proof to the contrary. My boyfriend is divorced with kids, I am childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:09 PM
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Wrong on all counts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:45 PM
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They don't. Women treat men they are attracted to much better, and part of that includes giving them a much longer leash. This is true of all humans, not just one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:26 AM
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It’s sad to read some of this. I really hope some of them are just being edge lords and don't mean the horrid things they type here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:06 AM
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Too many people confuse lust with love. Men are capable of lusting over someone, but they are not capable of truly loving someone. Men only desire women as a form of utility, so that they can fulfill their constant need for instant gratification. The absence of utility leads to the absence of desire. Thus, it is conditional, and usually temporary as a result. See how easy to was to gender flip this nonsense? Still not factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:23 AM
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No its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:56 PM
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Or it is insignificant in which case why are you withholding such a small insignificant thing that your beloved wants so much? To be married to the chip on his shoulder instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:06 PM
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So the actual relationship and real expressions of love on a day to day basis are meaningless in the grand scheme if you don’t get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:39 PM
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Especially for introverted women or women with small social circles, who don't go out partying, OLD is a good way to find suitable men. This is how I met my love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:12 PM
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If your partner finds out about it, he’s definitely going to tamper with it if he’s the type of person you do need to escape from. Yup, tracking device.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:49 PM
14

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:38 PM
3

The "problems" with men's behavior stop being problems when you remove women from the equation. Which is why male prisons are like Disneyland's happy place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:54 AM
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The problem is that women expect men to keep giving and working for society even if there is no sexual and loving reward for them. Don't you go to work to...pay your bills? Buy a house? Eat?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:34 AM
1

So? Hot is still hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:17 AM
2

Good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:48 AM
1

Upvote!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:47 AM
5

I did this when I was 24, and now I realize what a huge mistake it was to date a 34 year old man. Many women learn the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:19 PM
1

I am dating a Chad Indian.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:01 PM
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I have been in big age gaps both up and down. No one cared when I dated a guy 10 years up, it was a non issue. But when I was 40 and dating a 30 year old man, people had words and were shocked. Do you know why? I look incredibly young for my age, so when I said my boyfriend was 10 years younger, they thought I was dating a teenager. Literally. Once I explained my actual age and his as well, no one cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:30 PM
5

A lot of people here are racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:26 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:07 PM
3

who's not to say he chased top 20% of girls before getting rejected by them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:09 PM
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who aren't at a healthy (19-21) BMI. This is why we cannot take you guys seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:51 PM
5

Now if we have our giant golden retriever in bed with us Why do people do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:29 PM
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Attraction cannot be negotiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:54 PM
1

Not one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:12 AM
3

the issues i’m referring to are the common cited ones that men say here hypergamy, 80/20, af/bb, and all those other things. So fairy dust and leprechauns? Just made up nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:50 PM
0

So you would like an arranged marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:18 AM
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It would be the same, with all the short term dating and long term dating leading to the same conclusion later on. Assortive mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:11 AM
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but I'm confident theres a reason that multiple cultures and throughout history that idea was established. Yes, to shame and stigmatize single hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:10 AM
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The guys here really believe they are tabula rasa.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:09 AM
10

Finally we get to hear about men on the carousel!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:07 AM
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By the time a woman hits 30 she is full of trauma from the poor choices she made in her 20s. Like taking that job she hated?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:56 AM
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So by your logic a woman can just walk up to you personally, point at your chest and declare "This one will do." and you will pliantly go home with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:55 AM
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So men are passive recepticles of female will?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:44 AM
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This makes no sense. People are single for a number of reasons. Why assume the women are the only bad ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:33 AM
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So a single man in his 30s is a blameless victim but his single female counterpart is a wanton tart with a bad attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:20 AM
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Historically dating has fallen in the past, especially after huge inventions such as agriculture. Of course eventually humans adapted, though. "Dating" is a 20th century invention. You guys, you really need to read books.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:51 AM
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Feeling like they didn't have divorce as a viable option, would psychologically cause these people to be happier in marriage Oh how I wish you could discuss this with my late grandmother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:45 AM
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Do you live like man and wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:38 AM
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The scenario I was addressing was a man who does not wish to work and thus plays video games all day. Your scenario is not that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:28 AM
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what if he said working was too hard or tiring and he just wanted to play video games during the day ? Am I dating a twelve year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:38 AM
1

Same answer. But I am also not struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:37 AM
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I have been on and off BC and it made no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:38 PM
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Yup, this is me too. If I do not know this guy, I offer to split the bill so that he cannot claim I owe him. Actually I always offer to pay with my boyfriend anyway. He sometimes lets me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:23 AM
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This is very well put.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:03 PM
4

Have you dated men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:56 PM
3

I know plenty of chads with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:59 PM
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Great. But most men will see her as an easy lay they can discard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:55 PM
1

They both had careers, this is the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:27 PM
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Sounds hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:23 PM
3

Are you going to leave everything to your boyfriend or girlfriend in your will?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:22 PM
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I am older and I have seen what happens to those couples when someone dies. The survivor gets screwed hard with no inheritance because he left it all to his kids and not her. Also no pension left for her. She gets to be old and alone with no place to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:21 PM
3

The law would beg to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:17 PM
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He brings instructions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:13 PM
2

Especially her parents. They will pity her if she is a forever girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:13 PM
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Of course it’s flattering but she risks being seen as nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:47 PM
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Bad idea unless you are long term friends already. Strange men will assume you are easy or desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:51 PM
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If you're not religious, there are still legal benefits to both parties in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:46 PM
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This likely the case. Men who do not date men have no idea how sneaky male abusers can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:37 PM
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Good list.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:28 PM
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He might find that strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:14 PM
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Damn straight!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:48 PM
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I can’t keep my hands off my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:41 PM
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Just want to say I like your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:36 PM
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My point: you can see other people as non-sexual entities and it'd be fine. No one has to be horny for anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:36 PM
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The problem with your logic is that you are saying for women, men they're not attracted to are not seen as men. You said it. Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:30 PM
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Are you attracted to your parents? Siblings? Of course not. Just because you do not find someone attractive does not mean you despise them or see them as less than human. I see men as men, you see women as women. Why does everyone have to be panting after everyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:26 PM
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Women are attracted to men Men are attracted to women. Bisexuals are common. If all you care about is people drooling after you, why not run with the wolves?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:22 PM
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As a man you will always be competing in the sexual marketplace. You can't just dress up in the equivalent of a sexy witch costume and shake your ass and know that the dozens of men around you are affirming your sexual appeal by virtue of their presence. As a man you have to fight tooth and nail to garner any sexual appeal at all Gay night club. Please try this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:18 PM
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So you're telling me you want to be shot in the head??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:56 PM
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The internet has filled your mind with garbage. Stop worrying about non-problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:40 PM
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but it still comes from the same source of women being inherently treated better. When a boy is born, they fire guns into the sky and throw a giant party. Everyone is happy! When a girl is born, they act like someone died. No one celebrates. Malala speaks of this in her biography, about being a girl in that part of the world. Before she was shot in the head. You should read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:57 PM
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Nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:54 PM
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it is because girls are treated better and boys/men need to learn to be aggressive to function in society. So how do you explain Muslim countries where boys are treated like royalty and girls are second class?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:38 PM
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Please seek help I got a 3 day ban for saying this to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:36 PM
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You will meet lots of middle aged men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:33 PM
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Adultery was a huge pastime for those marriages. So were brothels for men in the old times. People act on emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:56 PM
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Please get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:23 PM
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No. I dated a virgin and he was really sweet. His issues were not PPD issues, they were real childhood trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:22 PM
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TIL I am a super special unicorn hero or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:45 AM
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women are becoming de-domesticated in the realest sense like feral and allowed to operate at base animalism. Yes, I roam around in my backyard pen and drink from the hamster bottle until slop time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:43 AM
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I'm not going to buy a house if I think the damn thing is going to collapse on me in my sleep. Perfectly put.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:12 AM
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I really wish IUD's were more popular. Ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:11 AM
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You can't pull the wool over my eyes, I lived in south Texas. Balding fat men had wives and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:47 AM
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Do you have this same empathy for autistic women? Not being snarky, genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:45 AM
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Most women have had casual sex Factually wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:37 AM
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Ad hominems are rampant in this sub and mods do nothing about it. On both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:34 AM
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As a fellow Kurt Vonnegut fan, I like your user name.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:38 PM
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That was exactly my thought as well, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:29 PM
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This is strangely insightful but sad nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:57 PM
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I must know a lot of unicorns then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:03 PM
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Yes, celibacy works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:07 PM
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But imagine their point of view. Unwanted pregnancy. Now what? There is no way for her to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:59 PM
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Where did I say this? I am mostly pro life myself. But the vast majority of women want the choice over their bodies and sex means risking pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:55 PM
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I do not care about height and my guy is shorter than I am, but I always assumed women want tall men because big dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:54 PM
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What about women’s rights should we be on the same page about? Reproductive rights? Yes. Imagine this is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:51 PM
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Gimp Girl was our diversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:48 PM
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They chop off people's heads for having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:39 AM
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Have you been to the happy paradise known as Saudi Arabia?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:22 AM
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it's in women's bet Interest to also be stewards of society and do their part By fucking some guy they don't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:18 AM
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And most women in their 30s are fat and have kids What happened to population collapse?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:15 AM
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Would you want to have a child with the village idiot?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:51 AM
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How is my flair not clear and appropriate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:28 PM
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This is mostly an American problem. Friends from Asia tell me it's vastly different there, with deep emotional closeness between men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:28 PM
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Nasty people should and deserve to be alone Completely agree. Why make more victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:18 PM
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This. My boyfriend couldn't care less if we ever leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:35 PM
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None of these guys are ever having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:50 AM
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It only has to happen once Getting murdered can only happen to you once as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:48 AM
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He could even google the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:42 AM
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It was a creepy society and I am glad I do not live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:39 AM
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You are living proof against their nihilism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:56 PM
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These guys here want you to fail, you do realize that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:33 PM
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OMG! there they are now!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:38 PM
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This is all in your head, not reality. No proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:34 PM
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I don't see any of this happening is the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:01 PM
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That you're willing to defend something deeply immoral so that you have the option to get away with it. This sounds insane. If an innocent person is being accused of something immoral, they have the right to feel offended and even leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:46 PM
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They're really out here exposing themselves Exposing what exactly? That we will not tolerate accusations?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:29 PM
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If I have never cheated on my husband, never slept with another man than him, there is zero chance that my children aren't his, right? Dudes here think women get pregnant through pollination.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:21 PM
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Church.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:03 PM
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Do people in your generation still wear watches??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:03 PM
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100% baseless. It's not real, it's all in their heads. It's the product of paranoia and neuroticism. Oh thank goodness! I will be sure to inform my stalker that he is not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:38 PM
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Do you go up to homeless men and give them head pats?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:38 PM
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I was a bitch to my boyfriends until about 19 and then I changed. My prime years were spent dating nerds. That was a mistake and now that I raised my standards I am much happier. Oops I got older, what a shame for society eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:08 PM
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I want to award this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:14 PM
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You're the one complaining, not "society"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:12 PM
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and most women who never had kids are going to be miserable when they get old and are alone. So? How does that affect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:00 PM
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So go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:53 PM
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Just as an aside, you seem like one of the more intelligent guys here on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:49 PM
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The only transaction in my relationship is emotional. No one is using anyone for anything else. As for giving and receiving, I call it even because GOOD LORD am I a pick me simp for this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:45 PM
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No kidding. I was pretty cruel to boyfriends when in my "prime" and I am WAY sweeter now. Not due to lack of options, I am smokin' hot. Due to growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:27 PM
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All the upvotes!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:21 PM
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strange consequence of this exchange for needing a man to wanting a man is that it made relationships more transactional across the board. I would argue the opposite, that relationships are no longer based on needing money and instead are based on love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:07 PM
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I live in Nevada Unless it's Lake Tahoe, yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:55 PM
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Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:12 PM
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I know what I experienced my whole life, that's all. Same here! Omigosh!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:32 PM
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Avoid the most taxes you can, let society rot if it rejects you. Uh...how do I avoid paying taxes and not get audited??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:25 PM
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the lower SMP person gets insecure more often and assumes the higher SMP partner is going to leave, or that they aren't good enough, or that the higher SMP partner isn't really into them. This is exhausting to deal with for the higher SMP partner Exactly my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:51 PM
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Thank you!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:07 AM
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80_20 has gone 51_50
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:05 AM
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So who's fault is your failure?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:04 AM
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Right back atcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:02 AM
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I've been proven to be right since I first started arguing on reddit in 2012. You won the Internet in 2012?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:32 PM
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You really need to get off the internet. I'm serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:24 PM
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Love is a thing a man can feel for a woman. Women love things that men provide them. So when we claim to love a man with all our heart we are just lying again?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:23 PM
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Look at OP's post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:18 PM
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Why don't you guys engage in conversations instead of vague one liners? Because I comment for fun. Surely you have seen humor on Reddit before?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:08 PM
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Men cannot post their nudes on NSFW-Reddit and have women saying they want to drink his bath water Post your nudes on gay forums. Instant validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:14 PM
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Females judge 80% of men as unattractive Men and females, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:31 PM
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Correct. Men here think all relationships start on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:07 PM
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There still has to be some pushback Why? Anyone who has a bad experience will learn from it. Duh. You saying "Hey now Sweaty, don't get all bitter on me now!" does nothing. And most women are not bitter, they just learn important lessons from their horror stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:30 PM
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I knew a few single women in the hot twenties age bracket and they were living like nuns. Only one or two of my coworkers were promiscuous but most women that age were either fretting over their boyfriends' happiness or spending their time with platonic friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:46 PM
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If you dated men you would know this isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:28 PM
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I was pretty horrified when he told me. No one should be treated unfairly, but especially not someone as good and kind as he is. My point is that these countries are Ultra Patriarchal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:13 PM
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No, you are wrong about Muslim countries. They think single men are sexual predators, full stop. My good Buddy lived there for years as a single man and they treated him this way even though he is celibate. He was kicked out of his apartment for the crime of being unmarried. He never bothered any women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:06 PM
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All stats show that early marriage is a recipe for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:55 PM
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You know which countries treat single men as predators just for existing? Arab Muslim countries. Make single men shop at different times of the day than women, make them eat on the other side of the restaurant away from women, make them live in separate apartment complexes even. Countries like Kuwait, Qatar, Saudi Arabia etc. are far from feminist yet they treat single men like rapists. How do you explain that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:54 PM
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making it work when young is best. Why do you think this is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:48 PM
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Most of the couples I know who met in high school or college are now divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:40 PM
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And you know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:39 PM
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He said in interracial dating, it's always up to the man to be the one accommodating the racial/cultural differences between them. Like if you're a white guy dating a minority, it's up to you to learn the language and the culture. And if you're a minority dating a white woman, it's up to you to feel 'familiar' and act white. I don't think most women really acknowledge that guys do a lot of things to accommodate women's preferences. I am a white Stacy in an LTR with an Indian Chad. You better bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:28 PM
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Form a line, ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:23 PM
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Go on a nice cruise. Look around at all the rich old Boomers. Ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:20 PM
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When I was 16 I literally went out with a guy just to get into parties or school dances. I was not attracted to him. And yes, he was tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:42 PM
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You need to get away from the subreddits that make you think this way. Short men succeed all the damn time, even with hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:30 PM
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He is jealous and insecure. Maybe red pilled. Either way, they is nothing you can do and she will reap the sad consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:18 PM
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Everything about you will be scrutinised. Voice, looks, background, history, attitude, sex life,clothes you name it. This goes for everyone. Hell, this goes for a job interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:14 AM
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If the Little Mermaid had stayed in her lane, she would be still alive to brush her hair with forks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:51 PM
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Once upon a time there was an emperor who had loads of resources. Everyone knew him as a High Value Male and he had that made into a crest with inaccurately drawn lions. A tailor came to town and saw what a simp the emperor actually was, because the tailor was all about disbelieving the mainstream narrative. He offered his services to the emperor and promised to make him suit of fine clothing consisting only of crypto currency. The emperor knew crypto was expensive so this sounded like a good wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:45 PM
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Deep in the sea lived a totally cute mermaid who had literally everything going for her. When other mermaids called her a "princess" they were not ribbing on her privilege, she was set for life. Mermen and other merpeople may or may not have been cute, but this Little Mermaid was already crushing on humans despite this being a genetic dead end. Merfolk repeatedly explained genetics to her but she was set on this cross-species kink of hers. One day the Little Mermaid saw Chad drowning and not met…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:31 PM
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Once upon a time there was a fox who strolled around the countryside looking for rabbits to eat. For no comprehensible reason he also wanted to eat the grapes hanging off the vines in the local vineyard. This makes sense. He jumped and jumped and was unable to snag the tempting and ripe grapes and after several attempts that burned off his precious caloric reserve, he gave up. He was about to mumble some famous line about how the grapes were probably sour, but then he saw a dead squirrel smashed…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:17 PM
3

What a guy. Do you think these girls were better people after his bullshit or they were angry and hurt and told everyone he was a dick? It just perpetuates more misery on the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:55 PM
2

Men don't see other men as hostiles or their opponents, like women do You have never been in a bar fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:54 PM
2

Found him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:53 PM
3

Men do not see themselves as all being on the same team. They compete against other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:05 PM
2

Don't blame us for calling you out for your lies I see. When someone disagrees with you, they are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:04 PM
5

men don't really see the world this way, we see the world as all of us playing on the same team. Are you being sarcastic?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:03 PM
7

That is pretty much a guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:58 PM
3

What was he saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:56 PM
7

Ummmm...when we are honest here we are accused of lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:55 PM
1

My friends and family members have the exact opposite taste in men. I like dark ethnic types with big noses. They like muppet faces. No one is trying to poach anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:43 PM
32

"Even if it's not named explicitly, like you could ask guys if they are red pilled, and they wouldn't admit it" So ...they may have never heard of red pill at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:20 PM
1

My man likes to spoil and be spoiled. I would say it's pretty even, we both treat eachother to nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:10 PM
1

That guy just copy pastes the same thing over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:14 PM
2

A woman who is a 6 and treats you like you have value is worth an army of 9s and 10s who treat you like an object to use. I am glad to hear a man say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:10 PM
10

Plenty of women thought Bryan Kohberger was a creep. He acted inappropriately and was disciplined for it well before the murders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:18 PM
3

it makes us feel like we are doomed to be kept around waiting until we find a girl that is done playing around and is now willing to go for someone less attractive and sexually fun.. Whoosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:39 AM
5

They literally invited you to a sleepover and you refused.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:10 AM
2

I tried that when I was 18 and it did not work out, so I never did it again. Never date someone you do not find sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:15 AM
3

This is...brilliant...you summed it up, close the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:34 AM
6

they go out and be the whore, but as soon as they're interested in a guy they turn into chaste madonna and act surprised when he (who hasn't done this) has a problem with variable sexual morals Link to one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:22 AM
3

What kind of people are taking cabs late at night? Concert goers. No train runs after 10 here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:19 AM
7

Wet sloppy French kissing is pretty obvious evidence of attraction. You don't have to put out to prove you find him hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:15 AM
3

reading dead bedrooms and counting the number of men who are furious their virgin wives won’t take it up the ass while simultaneously calling other women whores, bitches, and sluts. You have no idea how right you are. Men who bragged about marrying a Christian virgin girl and now bitch about no sex. No BJs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:11 AM
4

Again, why would she bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:08 AM
2

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:11 AM
2

She needs to date other demographics then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:07 AM
23

Why would anyone want to be in a relationship with someone they find ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:05 AM
3

Obviously yes, I hold onto my boyfriend with all ten fingers and all ten toes because I am in love. But past relationships? I ended 99% of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:03 AM
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Link to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:57 PM
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Billy does all that shit for the hot girl and not the average I cannot upvote this enough. Regular guys will treat women like whatever, some are nice some are assholes. But a hot 10/10 comes along? Whole other story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:55 PM
3

It's women who dump Chad too. Women are the ones ending most relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:50 PM
13

Maybe try empathy for experiences that are different from yours? Right back atcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:48 PM
9

They will invent scenarios that never happened because "women lie" or something. She could be innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:47 PM
9

Yeah, I am also chiming in as a chick. I never did this AFBB crap that OP is claiming.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:44 PM
9

"I had sex with some guys on the first night. And yes, I did various sexual acts with them that I now have sworn off, but now that I’m dating this sweet new guy who seems like “relationship material”, I want to take it slow and don’t want to really be doing that crazy sexual stuff anymore.” Literally no one says this. The closest equivalent is the religious convert who feels ashamed of past fornications and wishes to clean up his or her act for God.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:33 PM
1

A recent study found this is true, and you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:30 PM
10

I will be working until noon on the day of my funeral.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:27 PM
4

I don’t believe we will be alive to see the mayhem but I think in the 20-30 years we will see things get worse Yes, but the worsening of the world will be more Climate Change than fewer babies. We are already seeing the effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:26 PM
10

Truth. They do not actually care about "society" they care about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:24 PM
3

I think that because I see that in people around me. There's your problem. Birds of a feather.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:21 PM
1

Have you not seen Ex Machina? Robots are gonna stab you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:37 PM
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Falling in love is not a choice, it's a reaction to someone and it's based on looks and personality. Nothing to be done about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:22 PM
11

Have you ever been in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:15 PM
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So if I can't love someone for their looks or their personality, what is left? Their mafia connections? Their car?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:07 PM
5

Merely pointing out the level of Choosing Beggars.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:34 AM
4

I've been getting tons of female attention now and a ton of complaints about my looks and body. Typo is hilarious, FYI
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:40 PM
7

Exactly how I read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:38 PM
22

Yeah, these guys rated A list celebrities as average.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:36 PM
9

Link to this science.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:33 PM
1

Yes. I am a caregiver for the elderly and I absolutely protected a few male clients from abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:47 PM
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It's like they never saw a Sci Fi movie. Spoiler: they are all horror films.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:43 PM
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Give me a break, the sexiest man I have ever met is short. He is also very successful
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:47 PM
3

Mocked in real life by people in front of me or behind my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:01 AM
4

Precisely, women get teased and mocked for their bodies all damn day. I have small breasts and I was regularly reminded of this by people in high school and college. I was not a "real woman" to them, but guess what? I stopped caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:16 PM
5

You are factually wrong. Please read a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:22 PM
5

Read a book about the old days. Whore houses everywhere. No lack of customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:06 PM
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How are they getting less sex? Their forefathers would fuck maybe one woman at most. The modern fuckboys have probably slept with 20 before they even graduate college. Brothels were in every town and everyone knew it. Before the sexual revolution, men racked up N counts with hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:58 PM
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while her fertile furrow is being ploughed by someone with more prison time served, more tattoos, more addictions, and more STIs. Where the hell do you live, Skid Row??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:37 PM
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and a consequence free life... but also a level protection from criticism and consequence Please tell me where I can obtain this consequence free life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:34 PM
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Same, the title threw me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:30 PM
4

This reflects my experience too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:03 PM
3

No, insecure women date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:01 PM
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I guess I have easy going friends. My best friend got divorced in her thirties and remarried an average guy in her forties. She did not seem high maintenance and was not looking for a Chad. I also had no problems finding love in my forties, and I got a Chad. Life is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:09 PM
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Eh, I would try to make it work but if I could no longer afford his lifestyle I would ask if he wants to adjust this. I cannot imagine being kicked out by a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:58 PM
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So no examples from your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:19 PM
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Female romantic love towards men just isn’t how men define love and isn’t very strong UH, what? Do you have examples of this from your own life?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:58 PM
2

once the rush of being married wears off you see what you really signed up for and realize if you want to bolt time is ticking Yeah this is why I never married. If I am not in love, what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:42 PM
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When she is mad at you, then she doesn’t feel all those things, but if you are hot to her then she will still be innately physically attracted Nope, women will change their minds if the guy is a prick. His shitty personality will wipe out any attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:39 PM
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Her man is an awkward nerd who hates crowds but doesn’t want her going out to parties alone. And he spends the whole time calling, watching her, and trying to get her to leave early. Oh dude, I would be suffocated in this relationship. Which would end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:38 PM
2

Should someone with diabetes not take insulin and just tough it out? Is that a Win because they are not taking medication?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:12 PM
6

And they get their advice from women’s magazines In the modern era? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:02 PM
2

When I was a hot 24 year old fresh out of college, I briefly dated a guy from church who was 34. It did not last, as I lost attraction pretty quickly and he figured that out. So he would neg me nonstop and make fun of me and believe me, this was the wrong tactic and I dumped him. He was crushed and it took him a long time to get over me. If you are OK with being heartbroken, go ahead and get dumped by a 24 year old smoke show.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:09 PM
2

Background check will not reveal if he has a girlfriend or whatever boyfriend. Only legal status and addresses he lived or worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:55 AM
5

I'm talking solely from male perspective; I have no idea if women feel the same about it. I feel the same way about my own space. I loved having my own apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:57 PM
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I also want to know what special treatment we get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:51 PM
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My dad does this all the time. What exactly is the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:40 AM
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I have no idea what dating is like for men, but it was easier in my 20s because everyone was single and in college. Like a buffet of cute people, no one was married yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:54 PM
1

I have done this, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:25 PM
4

Protect your emotions from what? You cannot live in a bubble, someone you love with eventually die. Life is not safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:02 PM
2

She could be on the spectrum and take things at face value
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:40 PM
2

"Even if her grandma was a whore," Dude, this cracked me up :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:13 PM
15

I have known men IRL who were choosing beggars and wanted big titty goth girls who were also submissive and hot and thin. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:11 PM
1

Log off for a bit, okay? OKely dokely!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:49 PM
1

This was just a rambling mess of opinions. None of it supported by proof. When someone disagrees with you, it's not because they are man-hating feminists or in denial, it could very well be that you are simply wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:43 PM
1

Such as...?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:26 PM
1

What uncomfortable reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:51 PM
2

How is it shit testing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:13 PM
9

She can't wear that dress, is she asking for attention? She can't hang out with those friends, they are annoying. She can't get enough to eat- is she trying to get fat? And that tone- better watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:09 PM
5

I am ok with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:03 PM
2

The only "average" people I've seen who seriously struggle to date are people who fall into the completely delusional category. I have witnessed this first hand. Lonely men who want a big titty goth girl who is also conservative and does not believe in western medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:14 PM
3

Well, I guess women are in a lot of sexless relationships. And they are fine with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:06 PM
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Brazilian jiu-jitsu instructor (suspicious amount of time doing sex positions on men) honest LOL here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:00 PM
16

Clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:00 PM
3

I remember things being stressful and I struggled with poverty for a couple years, but I had tons of friends and went on all sorts of adventures to different cities. As for dating though- not great. You mostly had to meet people at work, at church, or through hobbies...and the pickings were not impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:15 PM
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Thus, the vast majority of men can expect to be able to pair up with a girl who is, for most men, somewhat lower in SMV rank than him. But not excessively lower. Is this what people do? Cute guys pair up with plain janes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:15 PM
10

keeping infrastructure working so women can do their spreadsheet jobs. I work in healthcare. Most of my coworkers are women. So glad that you never ever need medical help, Mr. Jeweler.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:56 PM
1

For example in my last relationship, my ex gained weight, he was 7 years old and he aged, he did not look the way he did when we met I really, really hope this is a typo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:27 PM
1

I have never once seen this happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:37 PM
23

I am 51 and I never settled either. Why would anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:34 PM
1

TIL I am dating Chadpreet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:32 PM
1

Constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:36 PM
1

If you hung out with conservative religious people it would be clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:33 PM
1

I paraphrased what you said in a reasonable way, and you didn't like it. Do you enjoy when other people put words in your mouth to straw man your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:03 PM
1

Women are more religious than men, religious women want marriage so they can have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:59 PM
4

Dismissively saying there's someone for everyone is incredibly callous and does nothing to address the actual problems faced by physically unattractive men. Except I never said there is someone for everyone. Quote me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:51 PM
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We women all have different types we find hot. Some gals like blonde men with button noses, but I find that yucky. I like dark ethnic men with big noses, but my friends think that is gross. See how it works?I only find a small percentage of men to be sexy, my pals find a separate percentage to be yummy, it all works out. We are not going for the same dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:10 PM
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What's wrong with having high standards? I met the love of my life at age 44. If I had aimed for the drain as you seem to think is fitting, I would never have met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:50 PM
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Yup, this is what I observed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:37 PM
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What's up with guys who do this? It's not a gendered issue. People who look desperate or needy are annoying. When you start to act normal you are more appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:54 PM
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Good comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:52 PM
2

This tracks with my experience. No one cares if you're divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:39 AM
1

I would say Church usually does not discriminate them It's not done out of meanness or snobbery, it's just that all the moms invite other moms to hang out with the kids. The kids play together, why would they invite a childless woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:53 PM
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What she told me is that women look down on her. Not men. She said that women view her as a lesser woman because she never had kids. This is especially true in church circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:18 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:50 PM
1

I’ve been told I’m not a real women because I have smaller breasts. Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:13 PM
2

As the product of a single mother household I legitimately think it should've illegal, How would you enforce this law? Throw the kids in an orphanage and the mom in jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:15 PM
1

Just admit you lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:10 PM
1

plenty of sex. My mother included. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:07 PM
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No safety net though. If you suddenly have to go to the hospital, you have to pay up front. No money? No surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:04 PM
5

I was a hottie with small boobs and I got teased mercilessly for not having a C cup. People are cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:01 PM
1

I got the same thing about being too skinny and having small boobs. Picky picky. And these guys were not lookers either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:58 PM
5

For glaring???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:51 PM
6

LOL resting bitch face is not going to get him fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:48 PM
1

It's not fair that a small percentage of hot women get to affect men's views on all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:42 PM
2

I never married. No one needs to rush it, date for several years and learn if you truly like the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:41 PM
2

Some people simply do not like each other. You can try every which way to hammer them into place and it won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:35 PM
3

Great. If you want women to leave you alone, just glare at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:11 PM
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"Hey OP check out this cute picture I took!" "OMG will you STOP with the flirting already?!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:00 PM
3

So you want women to completely ignore you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:27 PM
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Plus now he has to live in India or the Philippines and that is gonna suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:01 PM
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Have you noticed that everyone on Reddit is making seven figures?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:59 PM
2

But it's so...illogical...and from these people who claim to accept reality and hard truths. Why are they so willing to blame everyone else, society, women, Disney, who cares who else but never ever take accountability for their cruel opinions and vile speech?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:03 AM
1

I agree with you 100% and I am shocked by all the brown-nosing comments claiming "just world fallacy" when they are the ones who chase people away with their misanthropy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:46 AM
1

So would it be OK to teach them about gay relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:30 PM
5

I do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:44 PM
14

Teenagers are not going to make wise decisions about dating and love, it would do no good to lecture them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:46 PM
9

It's simply a matter of women being forced to settle. Any proof of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:39 PM
3

Puh-lease. You know exactly what I meant- people are in love and ATTRACTED to each other and then things go awry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:49 PM
10

I have never witnessed it in RL. People start out in love and maybe things break down later, but they marry with good intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:10 PM
1

No, creepy is a description of behavior. It has nothing to do with looks or personal taste. A man could look like Ryan Gosling but if he stands around at the playground staring at kids and mumbling to himself that is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:33 PM
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someone choosing to be alone affects no one but themselves For every woman who chooses to be alone, there is one less man in a relationship. This should not affect our decision either way, but this is why the guys here are pissed at us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:32 PM
3

I live in a wealthy neighborhood with a huge pool. The people I see at the pool (I swim every single day) are all ages and all types. Here is what I noticed: East Asians are almost never fat. They rarely look jacked, but only one of them is overweight. They also walk a lot. South Asians are either skinny fat or fat, with few exceptions after college years. Again I know a couple Indians who are in shape in later life but most are not. There is only one black person at the pool, so cannot make gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:08 PM
1

What age group?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:17 PM
15

Nerd fandoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:17 PM
1

You regularly bring this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:54 PM
3

I am sorry for your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:28 PM
4

I know a couple MGTOWs in RL and that is red pill. One is a happy but lonely guy who does not hate women at all. Genuinely nice. The other is a hate-filled extremist who only dates men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:37 PM
2

No we were pretty equal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:35 PM
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"i wanted to make this post because i was reminded of a comment by a girl here sometime ago where she said that the guy cried so much she had a pack of tissues in her car and house specifically for caring for him , and she said she was still very attracted to him...then he got better and she was going through some difficulties and when she cried he peaced out of the relationship." That was me under my previous account. I bought the tissues for my car so he could cry all he needed and I thought n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:35 AM
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Jodi Arias?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:41 AM
1

True words.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:39 PM
3

Yep. I look back on all the guys I dated, and the worst ones were the insecure nerds. By a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:36 PM
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There is a subset of nerdy guys who are bitter and resentful and take it out on women. The only time I was physically abused by a boyfriend was the chinless engineering student who played DnD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:22 PM
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I was raised in a churchy conservative environment so I was fed lies about how looks are shallow and you should ignore attraction, and it doesn't matter if he's a ditch digger as long as he has good character.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:39 PM
1

So have I.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:24 PM
2

Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:50 PM
1

In ancient Greece this was solved by men going to prostitutes Um, not exactly...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:40 PM
3

Why would a man want to date a woman who Easy- just don't date that chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:11 PM
2

Yeah, and what are the odds of her coming after you later in life anyway? This is some weird fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:09 PM
1

If you are religious, you get to live together, have sex, and have children when married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:51 PM
3

It’s why 83% of birds are observed to be monogamous. For the breeding season, yes. Then they break up. Few species like eagles mate for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:13 AM
3

What about hypergamy? You guys all believe in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:45 AM
1

She could be lying about her entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:41 AM
1

without finding at least one woman throwing a tantrum nowadays... Every time you visit the mall???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:12 PM
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Elliot had worse problems than autism. I read his entire manifesto and the guy was a megalomaniac.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:06 PM
1

Where can someone get free boob surgery? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:53 PM
1

It's been estimated that approximately 1.6 % of adults in the United States struggle with BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:16 PM
1

than those women throwing tantrums in malls because they wanna buy something above what they can afford.. What decade do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:35 AM
1

Seconding this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:31 AM
2

Love languages were made up by a Christian self-help book. Total crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:46 PM
1

I could go on and on about this subject. See, there are Boob Men who had no interest in me at all because of my chest size. That's their choice, but I also keep an eye on Facebook to see where they end up. I also knew more than one guy with extreme right-wing views who felt no need to hide their horrible opinions...all of them ended up alone. You can be picky if you want, but the term "choosing beggars" applies to these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:00 PM
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It was a long time ago, he was 30 and a virgin with no dating history but was good looking and a guitarist. He had weird far-right ideas and did not trust science or medicine so that probably scared people off, as it was pretty unusual in 1997. I had a crush on him and wanted to be his girlfriend (and bear in mind I looked like a model) and he turned me down because my boobs were too small and I was not goth or submissive and I believed women should be able to vote. He was nice about it but it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:45 PM
1

why can’t I, a 23 year old in shape be able to find someone who’s also in decent shape and around the same age as me? My only options shouldn’t be older and overweight women. Have you tried dating men? I hear they are easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:15 PM
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I can’t say I’ve met many men who have told me ‘no way would I date her, I’m holding out for my model who will surely appear any day now!!’ I have. They want a big titty goth girl who looks like me but with C cups.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:12 PM
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You can help men by having responsibility and doing your damn job. You spent decades claiming you want equality, but now that you have tons of rights, freedoms, and privileges, you’re trying to abandon men and boys entirely because helping us to not kill ourselves would infringe on your precious happiness. ...what?? I am doing my damn job. I literally owe no one anything. I am with my boyfriend because I love him, and he loves me. What is this screed about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:11 PM
0

Why get surgery? Just be yourself and go find that foreign bride.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:52 PM
5

But I thought you guys wanted to be loved and desired for yourselves and not your provisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:41 PM
3

I know a guy who got his wife from Hong Kong. They met through a Christian matchmaking service and got married. She lives here, they seem happy on Facebook. When I say this guy is unattractive I am being kind...he was never going to get a girl in America. Seeing that they are still together after all these years, good on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:40 PM
3

So get going then. What's stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:37 PM
2

You talk about "big dicks" in every other comment. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:35 PM
3

Isn't that a beta bux?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:31 PM
5

::snort laugh::
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:28 PM
3

So no, none of that supports your conclusion that women who are attracted to their husbands were formerly chaste or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:00 PM
4

How would you know?? Honest question- did you ask your mom and sisters and friends this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:49 PM
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Or maybe they just see the opposite trends?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:40 PM
5

Where did you get that conclusion??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:30 PM
18

is there anything or any activity you believe is more masculine Pee standing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:27 PM
7

Like imagine waiting for sex and paying for dates When was the last time you did those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:26 PM
12

So hence the gaslighting. Could we please stop misusing this term? Someone disagrees with you does not mean they are "gaslighting" you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:25 PM
23

I prefer to do things for myself. I even feed myself. Is that too masculine or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:23 PM
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Buddy, I am ultra- feminine and everyone IRL knows it. But I have to woman up and deal with spiders and lightbulbs and broken toilets and all the rest of adult life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:19 PM
4

But factually, promiscuous women ARE a tiny minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:11 PM
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So she can't fix a burned out lightbulb and she screams when she sees a spider. Sexy. Enjoy dating a child, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:10 PM
4

This is a good point. Chimps and bonobos are very promiscuous and have no shame about incest or homosexuality and everyone is free game. The only off-limits sexual pairing is mother-son. And the mating of alphas is all well and good but the chimps mate with everyone else too. Just all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:45 PM
4

Eh, I see a lot of looksmatched couples and rarely a huge disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:49 AM
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We 'met' on a dating site, I talked to him on the phone a few weeks and then shyly agreed to meet at a pub. His phone personality had me swooning already but I wanted to see him in person. As soon as he walked in the door of that pub, I was over the moon. It was like a date with a rock star.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:32 PM
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Yes. I only find my boyfriend attractive. Everyone else is an NPC.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:55 PM
1

I learned that women are NOT LIKE me, in fact can't survive what I routinely put up with. I can handle a level of isolation and social deprivation that women aren't well suited to, Are you sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:21 PM
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Anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:45 PM
2

So stop it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:54 PM
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Women don't do these things. My boyfriend would disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:56 PM
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I knew a guy who claimed he only did anal with casual partners So, was he top or bottom?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 11:55 PM
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I believe the draft should be illegal as it violates the value of individual freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:42 PM
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Oh hey, you saw me in church today?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:41 PM
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What do you mean “if”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:33 PM
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Perfect summation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:31 PM
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I pick up the tab.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:30 PM
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Weirdly enough, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:36 PM
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Best comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:41 PM
1

Online dating brought me the love of my life and we are still together, so it's not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:24 AM
1

If I was in a position to date ever again, sure. I have nothing to hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:22 AM
3

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:02 AM
2

I mean, you are right but not because of Alpha Beta nonsense. Most people will be better off in LTRs and monogamy and marriage. Th alternative is the weird uncle who lives alone and collects cans.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:50 AM
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Can you even imagine the tax increases? There would be riots n the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:15 AM
2

I think these guys are really young.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 12:08 AM
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Also, who does anyone "deserve" in this context? Weird thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:05 PM
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I think eventually when the dollar crashes and Islam takes over the West we will see a rise in polygamy, where single moms have to marry into some guy's house or some shiet. Because that's how nature intended it. Pure insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:40 PM
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Ironically it is PPD men, not the women, who write daily posts about how they should be allowed to have harems. The women aren’t advocating to be allowed to have multiple partners. Yup. I have been on this sub for six years and lots of red pill men believe they deserve to cheat. Because "men and women are different" is a blanket excuse for vile behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:38 PM
2

I have done this myself in fact. Argued with a guy who said he did not need a girlfriend. Of course I was attracted to him. Embarrassing but a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:49 PM
2

Agreed, they were hitting on OP and he misread it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:57 PM
3

Where is your proof of anything buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:54 PM
1

You just made all that up about people over 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:33 PM
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We all liked Star Wars and Star Trek and DnD and fantasy books. We are girls and went to high school in the 80s. When LOTR came out we all saw it. When the Renaissance Faire came to town we joined guilds. It goes on ad on. You just hung out with a different crowd. Sorry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:17 PM
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There were always women into nerd culture, it was well before the 80s. The difference is Stacies getting into it instead of the Beckies you guys dismiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:25 PM
1

Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:04 PM
1

Is it a gay bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:09 PM
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People fall in love. Women are people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:34 PM
7

Me neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:34 PM
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Pretty rare in western countries for people to marry someone they do not want to fuck. Most likely they fell in love, got hitched, had kids, and then fell out of love just like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:21 PM
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Oh please. The sexiest man I ever met is from India.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:51 PM
2

I could park anywhere, even at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:04 PM
1

Agreed, but that might be what Uselession was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:12 AM
2

BJs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:03 AM
3

What studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:13 PM
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men need to approach dating with humility and accept that if they are having a bunch of problems with women then maybe they are flawed instead of it just being them picking flawed gals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:04 AM
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This is all bad advice, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:58 PM
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Fursuit party.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:49 PM
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I would rather live in my car than with a beta bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:46 PM
2

I’m saying being attractive and successful won’t make up for the fact you’re a bitch to a real man. Why does this hypothetical person have to be a bitch? Why can't you believe she is nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 11:05 PM
1

Yes, I would give a 5'1" guy a chance. Before you ask. Short king energy is real. I like your style.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:13 AM
1

Yikes, I am glad I never read that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:52 PM
2

Some problems can’t be solved. THANK YOU. If you have a bitchy mom or your boss smells horrible, exactly what is there to be solved?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:55 PM
1

I would feel awkward and try to avoid eye contact afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:54 PM
1

I looooove chest hair on a man. Running my fingers through all that glory....mmmmm yeah....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:57 PM
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No, Peacesquad. The world actually revolves around you and your innermost thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:33 PM
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Weird, I am a modern woman and I am dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:28 PM
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It's pretty uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:27 PM
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Source on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:25 PM
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I do not view the men in my life as things to be used. Most people don't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:20 PM
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Expendable commodity. That’s how women view men. It’s all a game or something that can pass the time until a better option comes along. That’s the cold harsh truth. No it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:51 AM
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All women have the same preferences, they all have a hoe phase where they fuck models, they all have privilege Uh, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:58 PM
5

I fail to see the sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:26 AM
1

I have a very creative mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:03 AM
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It's narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:31 PM
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He wants a hot girl to show off to other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:06 PM
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LOL yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:25 PM
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He can awake up the next day and decide to end it no matter how good of a partner you've been See, you can gender flip this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:24 PM
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Maybe she is doing this because you constantly bring it up and she has to reassure you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:46 PM
5

A young one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:59 PM
1

Unbelievably cute. Cannot resist him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:47 PM
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TIL I am a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:56 PM
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the likelyhood of them finding such women are almost zero. Be it in brazil or in the anglosphere. There are no moral objections to men doing it. Just empirical ones. There are almost no chance a guy will find a woman they would wanna marry (unless they are extremely desperate sexually) Why would you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:02 AM
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Dating with the purpose of marrying can easily force people in the future husband/wife category when they have no business being there. I have seen this so many times. I went to a Christian college and lots of people rushed into marriage because otherwise they could not have sex. Huge divorce rate afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:01 AM
2

Cum stained t shirts???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:38 PM
3

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:35 PM
1

lol got him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:28 PM
2

It's nice to have Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:21 PM
2

People should not use one another, that is true. But usury is not the word you want here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:05 PM
5

So you want women to be apathetic about dating and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:04 PM
2

Usury? Charging too much interest on a loan?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:47 PM
4

They might wonder if he likes girls or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:36 PM
9

Do you think anyone likes Zumba?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:35 PM
3

I don't think women fiercely love. It's more that they really want to bang you I have fiercely loved, more than once in fact. Women are human.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:34 PM
1

Both are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:33 PM
1

Penguins do not mate for life, only for the breeding season.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:30 PM
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No, it's pretty much normal for people to have failed relationships when young. Getting hung up on an ex can happen to men or women, but most people get over it soon enough. Nothing to do with alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:12 PM
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That's what we try to tell the guys here but they never listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:49 AM
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Oh my boyfriend is 100% a Chad. I am not denying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:37 PM
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So men lack agency?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:36 PM
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He is a deadbeat if he refuses to pay child support. He never needs to talk with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:35 PM
1

I am very much in love with my partner. Until reading Reddit, I assumed most people were like me in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:28 PM
3

In the real world, no one presents adults with different options of what to do with their life. Yeah they do. You have the choice to work a job or live in a tiny house or go to prison or live on a boat or become a druggie or be a male prostitute or anything you like. Everyone has choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:01 PM
2

Try explaining that to your dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:04 AM
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A lot of women from religious communities find this out once married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:36 PM
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So do what you want anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:01 AM
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Bailey Sarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:58 AM
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We are supposed to break our backs off while our "future wives" are getting their backs blown off by another dude. So pick better women. That's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:58 AM
1

Whoops, wrong dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:50 AM
1

To point out that most people are already loving and kind people in RL who care for loved ones of both genders. Your problem is too much internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:40 PM
5

This is an amazing comment, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:23 PM
0

t's just a matter of actually caring, being willing to listen, and prioritizing both men and women, not just women. Oh sorry, I was too busy being empathetic and listening to men IRL and prioritizing them. Who are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:10 PM
2

Great. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:47 PM
3

try to figure out and fix where that bitterness and resentment came from in the first place. How should we go about this task?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:54 PM
3

If he's sane. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:56 PM
3

Yes, but that is not the main issue. Artists tend to be a) poor and b) mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:39 PM
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Creatives are easier to date, Eh, not really. I am an artist and I would never date another artist ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:18 PM
2

Best comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 04:03 PM
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Men don't stay loyal while employed either. I think you meant "deployed"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:43 PM
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You might have to compromise. What if you meet a gorgeous gal who makes minimum wage?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:47 PM
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C'mon, why would they marry someone they hate? Most women would rather be single than do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:44 PM
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Everyone trashed Anna Nicole Smith for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:02 PM
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There is no scientific merit to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:58 PM
1

Wait, aren't you married already?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:04 PM
2

It applies to both genders. Why would I want people to know I am rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:02 PM
2

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:14 PM
1

Plenty of women date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:00 PM
2

Do you want a gold digger or true love? Never mention money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:54 PM
1

So should the government pay for the kids instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:40 PM
3

You would be genuinely surprised at the percentage of people who were molested as children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:38 PM
1

watching MRAs vs organized feminism is like watching an elementary school basketball team play the Harlem Globetrotters. I can see why.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:02 AM
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51, woman, very LTR My impression of this subreddit over the years is that young and inexperienced people gather here to sound wise, then bitter cynics chime in to "confirm" their misanthropy and everyone goes home sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:52 PM
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Logic and rational thinking does not mean lack of emotion. You can be highly emotional and simultaneously solve quadratic equations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:48 PM
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Younger women are often more focused on looks, with lower standards for behaviour. As women age their standards for looks reduce and their standards for how they are treated rise. I have never observed this. I picked my boyfriend based on looks and I am middle aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:42 PM
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Emotions are necessary, so is logic. False dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:26 PM
7

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:25 PM
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Like all humans, my emotions are important to normal life functioning. If I were severely depressed I would not function. Therefore, emotions are important 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:25 PM
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Furry conventions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:19 PM
1

We have been together through good times and bad, for 7 years now. I never dipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:34 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:34 PM
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Utah is fucking beautiful. Where???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:47 AM
2

One assumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:13 PM
1

It's from the American Psycho skin routine scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:08 PM
3

A woman’s love is based on what value and security and status a man can give her and for how long Weird, since my boyfriend does not give me money or status yet he is the love of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:59 PM
1

Love is real. You need to accept that and learn to love or your life will be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:47 PM
4

But her comments about how women should expect presents from men because "that's how the creator made it" was super sexist and offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:39 PM
2

Are you claiming that men and women do love each in the exact same way? You're wrong. Why would gender make a difference in how you love?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:58 PM
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what you describe as 'toxic thinking' to her was a consequence of experiences where reality painfully ripped the band-aid off (perhaps several times) and she was forced to become keenly aware that these stipulations and conditions do exist See how easy this was to gender flip? See why it's wrong to become bitter about an entire gender just because life is gritty? Everyone on planet earth has been let down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:17 PM
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You need to undo that toxic thinking. It is holding you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:32 PM
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I am starting to wonder if anyone on PPD believes in love. Like, why else would I be with someone? I love him. Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:03 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:21 AM
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I never notice any change on or off the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:18 AM
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In churches this is a huge push. They want all engaged couples to do a year or something so that the newlyweds are off to a great start, but from what I hear it was mostly basics like having kids and finances and sex (since you are not allowed to have sex yet) and all the stuff normal people figure out by living together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:15 AM
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Sure, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:12 AM
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If a man truly loves you, he will want to be with you and make you happy. If he makes excuses, that's a no. If he is wishy washy, that's a no. Never try to change him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:09 AM
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This is especially true if you're female and grew up in church. 100% true. I am still unlearning religious scrupulosity and all the neuroses that attend this upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:02 AM
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most black pillers want to be women, and they want women to want that. I actually agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:12 PM
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Yes. My best friend kept berating me for being shallow and going for looks and so I dated a guy for a year that I did not find attractive. Of course I ended it and he was heartbroken, so this was terrible advice. Don't date people you do not like, it's mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:04 PM
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I think you figured out the puzzle. The guys here all believe they are the Right Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:50 PM
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Trust me, I was single for a brief time in my forties and I met the love of my life. He of course is divorced. There are millions of divorced people once you hit middle age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:02 PM
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There are so, so many divorcees and they are available for dating from the mid thirties onward. No shortage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:55 PM
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Seriously? Have you met any divorced people?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:44 PM
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Where did you hear that? I read the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:41 PM
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If women stopped choosing and couples were assigned randomly by some lottery, there would be less conjugal violence on women. There would be less of everything. If I got assigned a man by lottery, I would move far away from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:09 PM
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Do you imagine there is less domestic violence in arranged marriages where the parents picked the spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:08 PM
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These days we don't need men financially but most of us are choosing to be with a man because we love them. Spot on. I love my boyfriend, I do not need his bank account.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:05 PM
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How does this follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:59 PM
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You can have whatever standards you want. "I want a ballerina astronaut physicist who also won the Nobel prize." It's only a problem if you cannot obtain this chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:01 AM
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You are overthinking it. Being a tenant to your boyfriend makes things weird because tenants have certain rights and landlords are obligated to follow them. A tenant needs 24 hr notice if the landlord wants to come into their space, a tenant cannot be evicted without 30 day notice, etc. Also the landlord is not allowed into their bedroom or bathroom without the above notice and you can see how this being a romantic relationship is just so many levels of weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:27 PM
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See why this is so weird? No one should bother with this mess of boyfriend being their landlord. It violates boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:27 PM
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He is sharing her bed too? If she got an actual roommate/tenant setup where she has her own suite and never had to share her bedroom or bathroom, has her own life and treats him like an actual landlord- would you be OK with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:10 PM
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No one can know if his conversion was real. He lied so many times about his personal life, how can we know anything anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:05 PM
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80% of Women only want to date 20% of men. This has been disproven time and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:38 PM
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The good men are really not there because they are taken off the market very quickly. Until the secondary market for divorcees in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:36 PM
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Couldn't we gender flip the statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:44 PM
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So you want people to use other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:04 PM
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So an attractive guy gets laid? How is this TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:50 PM
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I am sorry to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:49 PM
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My high value boyfriend hates cats. I had two cats, he tolerated them because he loves me. That is what grown ups do. Knowing that he hates cats so much I will not get another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:44 PM
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but then saw pictures of my dead fiance and kinda understood. How did she die?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:21 PM
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Do you think they should complain about their husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:28 PM
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Exactly, they could post this same ad on Grindr
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:51 PM
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but I'm trying to imagine how much falling in love would happen in a "pure" scenario with no societal pressure, no beneficial insurance policies or tax laws, no need for breadwinners or homemakers. ::raises hand:: I fell in love with none of those benefits and no ulterior motive. It's real. Love is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:51 PM
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Don't you realize that the idea of romantic love is not older than a few hundred years? False. Humans have been falling in love ever since they could. Dopamine and oxytocin are not new to our brains, and people have been writing about falling in love even back in the Old Testament. The idea that "romantic love" was invented recently is silly, based on what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:54 PM
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Last I checked, you are not from the states but here it varies by state which ones recognize common law marriages and none of them are automatic. You have to declare yourselves married and live together seven years and then maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:46 PM
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He wants mothers to be homeless after divorce, therefore marriage = bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:28 PM
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All good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:24 PM
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Yes but that other commenter was making it seem like women all settle and men have no agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:56 PM
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As a woman, I do not want to settle either. It's not a gender issue, it's a matter of holding out for the person who rocks your world. Glad I did just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:23 PM
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No one should listen to that guy. How is he qualified?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:48 PM
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Do you have a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:41 PM
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Makes perfect sense. People stay indoors a lot now, far less partying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:27 PM
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Or they do it because they believe in the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:16 PM
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Hot girls have no reason to hate men and tend to be pleasant. Hot girls get hit on more, by all types. Hot girls are harassed more, stalked more, you get the idea. As a hottie myself I have complained about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:08 PM
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Q4W
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:04 PM
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In my experience the hot girls complain most about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:02 PM
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No, this happened more than once.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:11 PM
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Do not believe in pre-selection. I have fallen head over heels for men that my friends thought were massive dorks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:28 PM
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"It's definitely you."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:26 PM
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"It's not you, it's me."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:17 PM
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they seem to embody what most guys are looking for in a woman. Neediness?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:30 AM
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But what choice is there? I could spend my life getting better at socializing or I could just wallow in my autism and never have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:29 PM
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You and I have a lot in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:11 PM
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When you're right, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:23 PM
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This was it. Women are stuck in bad marriages, they win money, they now can leave. Yup. We can conclude that only lack of money kept them from leaving before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:12 PM
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Correct. Small dogs also live longer than big dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:00 PM
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I am upvoting you today. This feels weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:59 PM
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Sciatica is sometimes caused by tension. I was stressed out in life and it caused my piriformis muscle to tighten up and squeeze the sciatic nerve. I could not stop this tension until I changed up my entire life and then whoosh, it went away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:39 PM
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Yeah, I saw this and thought of the incels here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:35 PM
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Yup, and it's gone now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:33 PM
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Facts. Married men sometimes hide wedding rings and pretend to be bachelors, and these are not Chads either. So websites that out them are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:59 PM
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Incorrect. Many of us prefer men the same height so we do not break our necks looking up when we kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:42 PM
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Agreed all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:41 PM
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Not that important. I fell madly in love twice with guys that everyone else told me were too dorky or too short or too ethnic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 06:35 PM
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Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:30 AM
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96% of women would never date a man shorter than them. Their loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:29 AM
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