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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:08 PM
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Nearly every Christian married couple my family was friends with growing up is divorced or separated now Extremely common at my parents church.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:07 PM
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Men who are promiscuous will also be self-serving and higher status. Men who visit whorehouses are high status?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:15 PM
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I am so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:37 PM
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Why is that? Rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:40 AM
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Are they married?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:38 AM
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Snekky, I am upvoting everything you say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:37 AM
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You can support anyone you want. But people who are in love are internally motivated to support their loved one. I would not buy a house with a roommate but I will pool my vast wealth with the husband I love to buy a house with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:35 AM
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Simply that if they marry people who they desire and love somewhat, it’ll be easier to maintain that and build upon that over time given than other things in the relationship will be more stable So let me get this straight. Lukewarm sorta love instead of being in love the way most would describe it, correct? What incentive does the wife have to be passionate or want sex? She will see it as a duty and put out while staring at the ceiling and planning her outfit for tomorrow. Is this the dream? Is…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:31 AM
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But if people took your advice and married with no love for their partner, would there be fewer dead bedrooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:18 AM
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I promise I know I am in love. There is no other benefit to being in a relationship for me since I am no gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:02 AM
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But the only benefit is his love for me, so....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:56 AM
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Is it time to say that women who believe in romantic love have unrealistic expectations? Tell that to my much-loved boyfriend who loves me to death and wants to marry me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:53 AM
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What if that was an expectation going into the marriage? Is this an arranged marriage? Are you in India? Most people in the western world want love marriages and who can blame them. If you explain to your intended that you are only doing this as a duty and you don't have emotional connection to her, see if she says yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:49 AM
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So women are more likely to be blue pilled and talk about true love bullshit. So as a man you would be fine with your wife or girlfriend seeing you as an acquaintance and not being in love with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:34 AM
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This makes relationships shallower and more difficult to maintain Shallower than being with someone who does not love me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:32 AM
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Again, most people do not want platonic roommate marriages. If you learned that your spouse was apathetic toward you or just loved you as a somewhat friend, would you think that was victory?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:31 AM
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Correct. If I found out my boyfriend did not love me, I would leave him instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:26 AM
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What keeps relationships going isn’t love But most people want to be in love-based relationships, yes? If you found out your wife was only staying with you because she can't drive a car, would you be happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:21 AM
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In all honesty, I am a flawed hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:18 AM
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If you wish to do this, go right ahead. I prefer to fall in love and be with someone who loves me back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:14 AM
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Your kind What exactly is my kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:09 PM
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Rural Mississippi is flatter than a pancake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:08 PM
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My boyfriend is brown and from a foreign country and has an accent to prove it. No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:48 PM
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No it does NOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:45 PM
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For example, we are watching a movie and she says "Ouu that celeb is hot" I would want to leave the relationship right there and then UH, that's a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:11 PM
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That's because they were too logical to get caught, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:04 PM
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That's awesome for her! She should be so glad you paid for her latte.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:03 PM
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Lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:58 PM
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I am having a moment- just learned that Kingdom of Loathing still exists and has new games out. WHAT.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:58 PM
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, men are more logical, less emotional Oh right, I forgot. All those chill men in world history and in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:57 PM
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Women aren't owed loyalty - men are. Be sure to tell your next date about this revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:56 PM
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Doyon enjoy being manipulated?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:19 PM
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You are speaking my language! I have been rejected for small tits and it's absolutely a thing. Some men like big knockers, and they find those women. I am thin and small chested. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:17 PM
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I’m sure he’s a lucky guy for having a caring wife/girlfriend. Yeah, but I feel like I am dating a rock star. So who is the lucky one?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:34 PM
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For the record, I agree with her. My SO is the hottest man I have ever met and he's short. I never cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:15 PM
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Would you reject her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:11 PM
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negative connotation with fatness as a whole, since sloth and gluttony are two the seven deadly sins. So what if she is stick thin because of bulimia? Still sloth and gluttony, but with puke? Be honest, she looks hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:09 PM
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And for the Irish chick who’ll see this, please don’t bother using your husband as your empirical proof. Who is this??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:05 PM
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I prefer brutal honesty Only when you are the one being brutal?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:04 PM
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Catch a bipolar girl in her manic phase, after drinking one good scotch, Before she drives off a cliff while chasing snowflakes??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:48 PM
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worrying about how to manipulate someone while not being manipulated Thank you, this made me laugh :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:47 PM
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height is truly unfair, So? It's unfair I do not like gingers. I don't want a ginger. Poor gingers cannot help it, find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:08 PM
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By whom? Did you lose a job over this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:04 PM
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Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:47 PM
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So how does your wife feel about all this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:56 PM
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You're just being rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:22 AM
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So sick of everyone coping that modernity must be better. As a history buff, I know for a fact that certain things are better now. Sure we have room to improve, but I am glad we live in the age of miracles. Would you rather get cholera? Not everything old and traditional is best, and loveless marriages are just sad. Would you marry someone knowing they were apathetic toward you? Of course not. You only have one life, why make yourself suffer needlessly? Who benefits from you being bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:49 PM
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One of my hobbies is studying history. I assure you that many people were not delighted in their marriages and there was plenty of cheating all around. Does that sound awesome to anyone? But hey, society!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:12 PM
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Not trying to be insulting, but would you want to partner up with someone for the rest of your life if you only see them as a roommate? A pal? Ignore those base chemicals and breed with your roommate for the good of Society?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:08 PM
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I dunno dude, falling in love seems pretty real to those of us who do it. I can see no other reason to pair up with a man. Biology wants us to couple up, it provides brain chemicals so that you cannot stand the thought of losing this guy, boom. Paired. Why else would I bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:55 PM
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That's a 20th century perversion Limerence is older than history. 20th century did not invent falling in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:47 PM
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Because I stayed away from dating due to the fear of heartbreak Get over this fear. Everyone has heartbreak.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:57 PM
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If the post apocalpyse happened and all other people vanished from the earth, I would stop earring make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:50 PM
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Am I emotionally abusing you right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:37 PM
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Mom and dad will ask her why her boyfriend is not with everyone gathered around for the holidays and she will reply that he's with his wife and kids. Fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:21 PM
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Pure delusion. Yet these same men are the super jealous possessive types.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:20 PM
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How can you stand it??
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:15 PM
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Why would anyone sleep on hot weird foam?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:15 PM
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All women are emotionally abusive. I just don't why I bother. We get comments like this now. If Crimson is commenting this in good faith and honestly believes this, what is the point of debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:14 PM
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I don’t see how it could be otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:50 PM
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Maybe she caught Chad and threw him back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:11 PM
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She passed away I am so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:11 PM
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I lived in America and it was common where I lived. We all watched videos on VHS in 1982. It was that or BetaMax, which did not catch on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:55 PM
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Good point. Almost all the women here are taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:49 PM
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as VHS didn't really take off until the late 80s when VCRs dropped in pricing. No trust me, early 80s. We all had VCRs by 1982.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:49 PM
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Meet at a Starbucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:44 PM
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HAHHAHA!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:30 PM
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I have seen these pairings in real life but the men did not broadcast their abuse to others. They were embarrassed. Still I have no stats on how common this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:40 PM
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My second favorite TV series. I own the DVDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:59 PM
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Oh c'mon, you can destroy a potato so many ways trying to bake it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:23 AM
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Tuna salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:23 AM
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Never happened. We all had different types.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:58 AM
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I'd certainly be interested in hearing from people who do enjoy it. I enjoy certain things that involve wiping. I like to spray and shine. I enjoy scrubbing otherwise shiny kitchen appliances. Frankly, getting porcelain spotless squeaky clean is cool to observe. And I get cardio while at it. Lots of chores are enjoyable and I love the before and after effect. But I do not work full time. When I did, and commuted to the office and back, it sucked. I was exhausted and tired out and hated doing cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:55 AM
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We all know who provides significantly more to relationships, and it's men. So you gonna hop on Grindr?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:48 AM
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Women aren’t complaining about how difficult it is to share chores with a shadowy monk. this is great :D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:44 AM
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DO you think we are blank slates?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:36 AM
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Would you like it if your partner did this to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:55 PM
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Because people who secretly hate you will mistreat you. Or destroy your reputation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:45 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:44 PM
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I am confused how this proves red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:34 PM
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Great.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:53 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:13 PM
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This is a good take and I would like to hear more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:12 PM
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Are they equally good? yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:04 PM
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I was a teenager in the 80s when Prince and Michael J Fox were the sex symbols. Height is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:04 PM
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Hey, we've all been there. My best friend hated men for YEARS after her divorce and then she got over it. She is married again, this time to a good man. It's OK to be angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:50 PM
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People are not tabula rasa. Little boys like to play with blocks and then start smashing and crashing the things they built with blocks, while yelling and throwing things and pretending to be Godzilla. I taught elementary school and let me tell you, boys and girls are just not the same. Neither one is bad, but getting little boys to sit still and pay attention is HARD. So I know that is natural to their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:48 PM
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Uh, what? You are making a lot of assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:41 PM
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yeah, that one surprised me too. I don't care about height but I guess I'm a special unicorn?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:39 PM
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I mean this in the nicest possible way, but this sub is hurting your mental health and I think you should talk to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:38 PM
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Reading red pill content has explained certain men I know. Back in 2008 it was confusing and hurtful the things he said, but now I see there is a whole subset of men who say the exact same things. Back in 2008 I tried reasoning with him to no avail. Now I would not bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:30 PM
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I'm glad I didn't find red pill shit when I was younger, it would have made me much much more wary of men. Yep. If I had read any of this when I was younger I would have been terrified of being used or secretly hated. Most men are nothing like the guys on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:27 PM
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Why are you blaming her?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:25 PM
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I wish we talked more about this sort of thing. The guys here act like The Sisterhood is all in cahoots, but IRL women are just humans and some are assholes. One of the worst, most toxic people I ever met is female. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:01 PM
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Good taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:57 PM
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Like how sexualized Y.T. is, even though the character is 15 years old. I...just now remembered this. Yuck. Y.T. had sex with the macho man too, oh lord ...and then her vaginal device stabbed him. As I now type this I cannot believe I ever liked that book.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:53 AM
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I really liked Snow Crash but I also really got into Stephen King and now that I'm older, it seems less deep. Snow Crash was groundbreaking for the accurate predictions of internet culture more than anything else. Neal Stephenson is not my favorite writer, his characters seemed mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:39 AM
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I agree with all this. Good comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:37 AM
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I remember reading this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:05 AM
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It's weird, I know. He thinks Breaking Bad is made for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:04 AM
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Breaking Bad and Better Call Saul are my favorite TV shows, so I can answer this. I never once imagine myself as Walter or Saul. I imagine living in Albuquerque and I feel horrible for the characters and Jessie and his girlfriend and I relish the little details and the epic writing and the feel of 20 years ago. I love every bit of it. At no point did I think it's a Man's Show as it is made for everyone. Do you read Anna Karenina and imagine yourself as Anna?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:01 AM
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it's my duty to ensure I'll live as long as her, and be in shape throughout. UH....how are you planning to die at the same time? This is ....scary....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:46 AM
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Her dad will shoot you in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:14 AM
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If you want a woman to approach you, you might be disappointed wherever you go. Traveling to Sweden is not going to fix your Aspergers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:31 PM
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Fist day back at work I would call out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:01 PM
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I once or twice had a guy try this on me. Brag about all the money he makes but refuse to pay for anything. What are they hoping will happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:49 PM
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feeble women what you actually do bring to the table. Everytime this question is brought up, it is met with indignation and contempt, never with any real answers. Go read the 500,000 other posts. Lots of real answers mixed in with the exasperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:48 PM
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Are your friends hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:43 PM
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Haven't we seen this post 500,000 times already? If you get no benefits from women, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:35 PM
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Agreed. All the misogynists I knew IRL were just surly assholes who hated everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:31 AM
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I am vastly more centered, rational and self restrained than every woman I have ever been with. Sounds like you have a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:26 AM
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My gf used live a few hours away from me, and when she'd take the train home sunday night/monday morning, she used to cry on the train. Worst feeling I know this one well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:24 AM
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Do you ever worry that someone will find your morning pages and read your inner thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:32 AM
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Get a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:27 AM
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They were paying prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:08 AM
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I am pretty spectacular
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:50 AM
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Regardless, you're still hypergamous. Based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:50 PM
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I am the opposite of everything you just typed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:22 PM
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Wine counts as grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:07 PM
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Yeah, if they hold out for super skinny women (like I used to be) they will miss out on most everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:05 PM
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Swam and swam.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:02 PM
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Having a severely autistic child is not as easy as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:58 PM
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Wrong wrong wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:31 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:29 PM
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Limerence is something I know well. When I had a crush on a guy in high school, he broke my heart and it took years to recover. Same thing happened when I had a crush later on and we didn't even date. Destroyed me inside. Finally I met the love of my life and the emotions were so powerful and painful, I knew I could not screw this one up so here we are 7 years later and he is snoring right next to me. Other men simply do not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:28 PM
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Buddy, it's genetic. Why would I want to pass on my autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:23 PM
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Nerd men are sometimes nice, but just as many are toxic and mean due to some weird insecurity or whatever issues I cannot fix. The only physical abuse I have ever received was from an electrical engineer with no chin. He was one of the meanest people I have ever met, and I honestly believe he only dated me to show off to his buddies. I dumped him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:37 AM
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I would end up on YouTube looking at videos of people dying doing those sports.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:34 AM
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I used to date only high IQ men and that did not work out so well. They saw me as the pretty girl to show off to their nerd friends and did not like my actual personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:32 PM
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If it were someone I loved it would worry me endlessly. I would cry from fear of him dying every time. If I did not give a shit about this person, whatever you wanna do just do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:20 PM
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He is skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:14 PM
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I am so thankful to know stats about intelligence but it makes me feel incredibly lonely and sad. In my best moods I ignore it and pretend everyone is smart and it then surprises me when I have to explain things. Sad again. Lonely in my thoughts. If I were to demand my romantic partners all be smarter than me I would so f***ing alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:12 PM
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The reverse of course happens with women; they are raised to be more dependent, or interdependent, and to some degree to not exhibit masculine traits. Because we raise women to be more dependent, we take greater general interest in them. Not in my experience. My dad raised all us girls like sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:05 PM
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I felt like I was a teacher having to explain things to him Half of my relationships have been like this. I explain a lot of things to my boyfriends. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:56 PM
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I know a lot of beautiful and intelligent people who make very little money. Musicians artist and poets to name some. You just hang out in different circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:54 PM
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Especially since in that situation he would more likely be smarter and richer.... The "pretty one", is rarely smarter than "the successful one". Not in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:08 PM
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This is why talks about "hypergamy" are nonsense. Is he uglier than me? Probably. Is he dumber than me? Of course. But he makes more money right? Hell yeah he does. So which one of us is dating up?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:26 PM
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Don't we all have skin in the game? Roads, health insurance, inheritance rights, all that is dependent on which political party is forcing things through.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:53 PM
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I am the same as you, but most people here are atheist and they will never get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:43 PM
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You can do everything right and still fail, so 'stop being paranoid' is the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:33 PM
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Wasn't me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:25 PM
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and even she gets to live the life of a supermodel. Most women won’t but most women can absolutely live life on easy mode if they know what they are doing Do you want to be a user or a prostitute? Neither do most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:23 PM
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I like it fine with choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:29 PM
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Exactly. What benefit is there to dating a man you don't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:27 PM
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but most women are with above average men, so what I said was 100% right; and plenty of women have had trains ran on them and have been with Chads in soft harems at some point in their lfie. In fact, most women have. Do you live on Planet XY? How can anyone make these statements about women? You describe a tiny minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:24 PM
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As a man in your thirties you dating teenagers? Why did their dads allow this? When you went to pick them up, who answered the door?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:02 PM
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Not if he's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:49 PM
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When you're 30 dating teens requires a lot of skill, patience, and knowledge about women. Um, you know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:48 PM
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I am so happy that she is free now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:46 PM
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Even if you screen for the best you can still be screwed Even if I eat healthy and never smoke I can still get cancer. Why fret over maybe? Live life with your eyes open.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:46 PM
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I chose to wait and I am SO glad I did. Best decision I ever made, because now I am with the man I actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:54 PM
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Plenty of divorced men in the thirties and forties.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:52 PM
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Do you expect her to cook for you or are you ok with tuna sandwiches?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:51 PM
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If you are raised by a raging alcoholic mother, you may subconsciously recreate that dynamic by being wildly attracted to party girls with fiery personalities. You look back in ten years and realize that what you thought was basic hotness and physical attraction was really your mental programming meshing perfectly with her issues. In other words, chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:32 PM
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Sometimes I wonder if some people have any internal dialogue besides “what’s for dinner?” I also wonder what reality looks like in someone else's head. Do they just not care?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:28 PM
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One good thing I liked about living in the Deep South was being able to set off my own fireworks. Huge rockets, super dangerous, but everyone there did this every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:12 PM
7

he just had no banter, he just mainly just laughed at my jokes and stared at me. I can totally picture this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:41 PM
1

The implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:03 PM
7

This is not how I think, and I suspect other women do not see men as stats either. A man who is attractive and flirts with me is a stand out. He makes me feel good and I like him back. I don't care if he cooks or how much money he makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:59 PM
1

I really wanted to go to Homecoming when I was 16 years old and I needed a date. So I went with this guy I did not find attractive. Oh well, I guess you could see this as a gain maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:51 PM
2

You've cracked the code.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:45 PM
1

Why would you want someone that vain?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:13 PM
1

So what did I miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:47 PM
1

This is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:30 PM
1

Welcome back!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:19 PM
1

Once you experience a break up, you are never going to love somebody else again fully. Nope. I love my boyfriend more than any guy I ever dated before, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:12 AM
5

I dated a guy in my twenties who could not even hold a job due to his chronic lateness. He would get so caught up with friends and fun on the weekends that he would forget the massive project he had to turn in on Monday. Then get fired. Repeat. He showed up to fun events two hours late anyhow, and when I asked him why he never had an answer. This was a guy who skipped two grades in school and was technically gifted, but his life was so disorganized he could not adult. At all. At some point after…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:58 PM
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This is an underrated comment. People with ADHD are sometimes so difficult and unmanaged that their loved ones are driven to despair trying to keep things from imploding. I am so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:52 PM
1

You are on fire today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:45 PM
1

This sums it all up nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:40 PM
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Barf, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:58 PM
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I can relate to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:39 PM
1

You could gender flip this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:56 PM
-1

So?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:21 PM
2

No idea, maybe try a different dating site?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:52 PM
3

Same. Strong bossy women love men who worship them. So many examples I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:33 PM
3

In general, men hate being caregivers. Caregiving is a lot of patience and most men are not patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:26 PM
2

Naw, we still freeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:34 AM
1

Good lord, where do you guys live??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:50 PM
3

In my case I really love my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:49 PM
1

To be fair, red pill men have described the day of an average woman in much the same satirical tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:43 PM
2

One way to get cardio.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:36 PM
8

Why not? You guys claim we bag on men, don't give men compliments, don't love our men, and so here we prove otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:32 PM
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Bot that is why OP should have asked for actual RL examples and not jokes. OP said we could answer any which way we wanted, so some of us made it funny. I still provided RL examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:24 PM
3

Idk, the floor is yours. choose any topic you want. start wherever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:56 PM
2

obviously I don't know the guy and you might still be implying that he's just as boring, lazy, or immature as the other guy No, my dad is elderly. He deserves to kick back.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:50 PM
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Instead we just have 30 comments about how men (as a generalised group) are all lazy horny feckless grunting slobs who can barely manage to present better than a 15 year old. OK, fine. Here is my dad's day: Get up at 5 am, coffee and internet time. Feeds the cats. Gym? Gun range? I dunno, sometimes Walmart. Giant salad for lunch. More internet. Disappears again. Returns and takes a walk around the neighborhood. Talks on phone. Eats dinner that someone else cooked. Watches a LOT of TV. A lot. Lau…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:32 PM
4

I am an artist and friends with many artists. Male artists draw differently and have distinct advantages in seeing perspective correctly and drawing things accurate to 3D, such as cars and buildings. Female artists such as myself struggle to visualize things in the round and make mistakes in this area. But we kick ass in color theory and coloring in general, so much that male artists sometimes never color anything, or when forced to will make awful clashing color choices. Biology. You can learn …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:27 PM
1

Hey, don't bash my favorite coworker! But seriously, this is just one guy I knew and it was funny. He was quite honest and he is 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:01 PM
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LOL, lighten up man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:11 PM
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Men aren’t really interested in “love” at all, just respect and adoration from others, i.e. it’s all one sided and being given to them by others without reciprocation. I was going to upvote you but no, this part is wrong. Men are very interested in love and being loved, but they show love differently than women do. My dad literally NEVER says "I love you" or shows affection. It's normal for certain cultures to be stoic. Women want to hug and kiss and shower their men with compliments and smiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:56 PM
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Seems like you just wanted an excuse to fire at RP men you have met online, not men you would actually meet irl. Here is what my male coworker told me: Wake up, masturbate. Energy drink, yell at mom or mom yells at him. Take an hour long shit while scrolling Internet memes. Drive to Job Place. Joke with coworkers while doing Job Thing. Cuss a lot. Eat massive sandwich for lunch. More internet scrolling and sharing memes with coworkers. More sex jokes. Get mad at boss. Drive home. Call girlfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:53 PM
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I love this. Keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:49 PM
9

I had zero problem doing in my thirties, even in my forties. I never did AFBB and no one was a Plan B or anything. I just date people I like. Strangely, there was no strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:36 PM
4

I actually like this idea
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:45 PM
4

By whom? Who is pushing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:46 PM
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Emperor of France
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:38 PM
3

Who do you hang out with that never gets angry at work or on the freeways? I am 51 and I have seen a lot of men and women burst into rage on the highways. It's common in my part of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:39 PM
3

Valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:15 PM
6

But secondly, why do you assume SAHW = slavery? Thats why I refer to so many of you as dramatic. You literally have convinced yourselves that SAHWs are forced to surrender their basic human rights. When did I say that? Quote me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:03 PM
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Yet now she’s forced to go out and get a job whether she wants to or not. How exactly is that fair? No, she is not forced. I see jobless people all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:02 PM
5

Oh and another one- road rage. Men are more likely than women to get super pissed and rage at other drivers to the point of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:41 PM
6

I have had male coworkers who threw things, yelled, screamed and cussed, punched walls, you name it. This was in restaurants, offices, retail, all sorts of workplaces. Men are just as emotional as women, but it's more often rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:33 PM
3

You never had a male boss who screamed and slammed his fist into objects when things did not go his way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:06 PM
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Dinner has to be on the table by 6 pm every night. She cannot swan off to Montana for a trip, she cannot go backpacking for a week, she has to BE. HOME.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:20 PM
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For people who do not like being stuck at home, what is the upside?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:19 PM
8

Bizarre. I thought all these guys here had single moms and no dads, so what gives?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:16 PM
1

Thank you for typing all this, it made me genuinely sad to read it but now I have insight into this dynamic. I would hate this so much if I had to manipulate people and could not openly advocated for myself. Now I understand why men think women are manipulative and lie...this patriarchal set up forces them to. Just depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:09 PM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:47 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:47 PM
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r/choosingbeggars
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:45 PM
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We've been saying this for years, but people have to learn it for themselves by sitting in restaurants. Kids today are completely undisciplined.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:44 PM
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Swam a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:41 PM
1

My grandma wanted to set me up with someone. It turns out he had a wife. LOL sorry but this is genuinely funny. Was grandma clueless?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:33 PM
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Meanwhile those women know they would flip out if the inverse was happening and a woman was doing all that for her husband/bf. Um, no? I do this for my boyfriend when he sleeps over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:04 PM
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It sounds awful. My parents were traditional and dad made decisions that mom just accepted, we all did, but no one was being fooled. To me this sounds mean and hurtful to make dad into a dupe, but also contradicts the idea that he is wiser and a true leader. In other words, yikes. So I am glad you reject the bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:40 PM
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Both my sisters claim they believe wives should submit, but they're both really in egalitarian relationships. My grandmother was the queen of her household, bossed my grandfather around all damn day, yet claimed to be a submissive wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:34 PM
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it creates a weird sometimes a weird dynamic where the father is ostracized and the whole household is acting cunningly to have him take the decision the majority wants. Does the father know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:33 PM
1

They need to know that you have their back against a domineering MIL. Absolutely. MILs can be nightmares and OP needs to care less about his mom's opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:23 PM
1

I have the luxury of living by the beach in one of the most beautiful parts of SoCal How are you enjoying this 82 degree December we are having??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:13 PM
2

Then I want to write, make music, hang out with my bros, fish, bow hunt, and go monk mode for the rest of my life. IDGAF about anything else. I know a man who is Middle Aged, married with kids, who wants nothing more in life than to live in a cabin in the woods and fish all day. I get it. But you understand this says a lot more about you than it does about society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:12 PM
1

She's appalled by the behavior and lack of morals in American women. It's shocking to her Is she muslim?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:10 PM
2

Yeah, that would be weird. If I had a boyfriend your age when I was 21 my dad would have killed him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:08 PM
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You are partially a result of your parents Genetics plus upbringing. That is almost the entirety of who you are. If someone is a fuck up, it's absolutely the parents who made them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:06 PM
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Notice how our genitalia evloved. You're either the penetrator or the penetratée. Um....who's gonna tell him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:00 PM
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but I've personally witnessed DINK couples make a federal case about who loads the goddamn dishwasher...or how it's loaded. My parents do this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:49 PM
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How does one sleep on their stomach and still breathe?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:46 PM
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Ice ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:45 PM
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Is the chorus any good?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:45 PM
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Classified ads in an Indian newspaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:41 PM
2

This is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:50 PM
3

This involves getting to know the guy first and having a strong sense of self and independence. I know a lot of divorced women. I dodged that path myself. Sometimes the writing is on the wall, sometimes they turn evil after marriage...but so many men and women get hurt because their spouse is a massive disappointment and not what they thought. One guy married in his twenties and had kids and now, as a middle aged man, divorced because her mental illness reached psychosis phase of delusion. He ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:48 PM
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I stand by my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:40 PM
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I don't give a shit about "status" but if you think you can change another person or expect great things with no proof, you will either break their heart when you dump them later or they will wreck your life. The number of super smart guys I knew in college who turned into unemployed middle aged men or mentally insane living on disability, or in jail. What if I had married one of those brainy guys back then? I would be divorced and probably with messed up kids. That is a huge gamble, especially …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:37 PM
10

Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:31 PM
5

All relationships are As Is. To expect your partner to change for the better will end in tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:28 PM
8

But what about all the emotional baggage you hate? What about all those chores to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:12 PM
13

I also have to deal with the emotional baggage afterwards. From whom exactly? You are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:10 PM
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Women find grocery shopping as fun as men find playing video games? OMG just the other day I hit level 11 at Albertsons and this pile of gold coins fell on me from the sky and my infinite backpack just sucked them up or something! There was a whoosh of light when this happened but no one looked or cared, and then I suddenly felt stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:04 PM
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There was a father on tiktok So no one you know. Just Internet click bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:49 PM
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Not in my case. Everyone at Thanksgiving remarked on how much thinner I looked. Yeah, 10 pounds thinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:46 PM
10

Wait, what if I got an alpha bucks? Did I win?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:37 PM
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I recommend food poisoning. Worked for me last month.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:36 PM
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So we are expected to fulfill our contract, but she doesn't. Shit, I forgot that marriage comes with a chore contract. Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:35 PM
21

just like women aren't really band maids. Hey, I only followed Depeche Mode's tour bus around for a couple years, geez.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:34 PM
1

Saw a guy that was about 5'5 with a girlfriend/wife that was about 5'7. Oh hey, no need to call me out like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:28 PM
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What exactly is your complaint here? That women will not do everything you want all the damn time? "sex on demand" is a lot to ask of any human being and should be seen as a massive red flag that you believe that is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:23 PM
3

Your mistake was staying at an airbnb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:06 PM
1

He's yummy and drives a hot car. Delicious gorgeous man. Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:50 AM
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He's a Chad. Why would you think otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:49 AM
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I think all 7s and above should be avoided on dating apps. Well shit, my boyfriend is a 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:31 AM
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It's a lie if you tell a man sub 7 that it's a lack of spark/connection So when you are not attracted to a girl, you inform her directly that she is sub 7?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:26 AM
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and to take it a step further even if he saw all women who were lying it wouldn’t mean shit he would dehumanize most of you consider you lying sluts and cheat and spin plates aka yet another problem child in the dating pool created by “women” Once again, all problems in the universe are Women's Fault. That's a wrap, folks!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:17 AM
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He's never having kids, come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:10 AM
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Does she have to cook and clean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:19 PM
1

I would suspect a wife at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:18 PM
8

I'd rather live in my car.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:04 PM
3

Hard agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:10 PM
2

Yup, spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:34 PM
8

This is what I observed too. The relationships where the woman was abusive were HORRIBLE to observe, as the man cowered and groveled or just hid from his wife. Literally slept in his car. In all cases, he was a virgin or just unwanted when they met and she gobbled him up. Quickly. Vegas wedding. Then abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:34 PM
4

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:58 PM
5

Uh...weird leap. Remember that every person who woke up drunk this morning fell asleep drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:50 PM
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. Personally, I think both sexes would be happier in the long term if we avoided each other entirely. Speak for yourself! I love my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:37 PM
2

Yes, because they will expect her to be much more sexual and lusty than a suppressed Christian girl will likely ever be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:04 PM
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Yup. We were taught that if we were good little prudes who only dated within the faith, we would get happy rewarding lives. Big lie. Also the Bible never says that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:27 PM
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Girls like me who were raised in strict Christian fundamentalism have a strong likelihood of being afraid of sex and seeing themselves as sinful and their bodies as shameful. They have lo n counts and cannot enjoy sex after marriage. Husband is pissed. Not everyone, but it's a common trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:25 PM
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Lots of divorces coming. The after market is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:21 PM
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This is exactly it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:46 PM
1

What do you mean by big picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:14 AM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:52 PM
1

Would you like it if someone did this to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:49 PM
1

Girl, same. The air is so dry right now
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:48 PM
2

What is she saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:48 PM
1

No these women always dated simps, that was their type. Red pill likes to discount women who prefer submissive men but I know plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:47 PM
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Most don't date men who cater to them, so clearly is not a priority. Oh trust me, I know women who love and marry simps. They genuinely do not think of him as "beta" or whatever, they love him as he dotes all over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:54 PM
1

I did until I met my BF in my forties. Crushes are natural, but he cured me of it since I was crushing so hard on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:24 PM
2

An aquarium.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:40 PM
1

I did this for years. If you have a strong back and a strong stomach, go for it. If you hate adult diapers, pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:27 PM
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LOL this is very male way of thinking. Do I love him? Is he attractive? Does he love me? That is what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:57 PM
4

This is very high school behavior. Adults do not trash talk their partners genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:32 PM
6

What did you want people to say? "You are perfect As Is and no one is good enough for your majesty?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:15 PM
2

I agree with you, it's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:11 AM
1

no, all negative emotions and feelings the human body gives us has some purpose. Mostly true. If you feel sad about being alone, that feeling motivates you to make friends. Or it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:02 PM
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Yes it is. There is no such thing as platonic friends of the opposite sex. Wrong. Just factually wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:00 PM
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if you see their answers and feel the pent up anger through their shaming language, you'll realise that they are the ones who actually need therapy. How is their anger pent up? Is yours pent up or do you let it fly? Maybe people are just posting here out of boredom at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:08 PM
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if you see their answers and feel the pent up anger through their shaming language, you'll realise that they are the ones who actually need therapy. How is their anger pent up? Is yours pent up or do you let it fly? Maybe people are just posting here out of boredom at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:08 PM
3

So women are all lying again?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:11 PM
4

Cue a bunch of women saying they would never run this test on their partner. And? What does that tell you about us?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:01 PM
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Most tests come back that you are in fact the father. In the cases where that is not true, you no longer want to keep this a secret anyway. Blow up the damn marriage, who cares at that point. But if you want to stay together, take the test in secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:00 PM
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What your favorite group?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:56 PM
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Okay. Just stop obsessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:56 PM
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I have seen Muse twice in concert, used to own all their CDs. Also on the list: Dead Can Dance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:54 PM
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Fucked up advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:52 PM
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Oh well. I did not know my macros when I was throwing up and running to the toilet and could not keep anything down for a week. Weirdly I still lost a bunch of weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:50 PM
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Alternative rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:48 PM
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Test in secret, if you want. Men can get paternity tests in secret, go for it. I would not need to test my boyfriend for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:44 PM
2

I wonder why they have trouble dating. I guess they scowl a lot. When a pretty girl comes along, they seethe? Then she backs away and he confirms his disdain of her "hypergamy"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:04 PM
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men burn through 200k (10%) more calories a day 200,000 more calories a DAY????
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:00 PM
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That does suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:33 PM
1

Were you a part of that red vs blue assassin game or whatever it was by any chance? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:16 PM
3

Have been here 6 years as well. Now I am mentally guessing your previous user names :D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:59 PM
1

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:24 PM
2

Yes to all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:22 PM
1

A male chimp surrounded by female chimps becomes more attractive to other female chimps. That is not how chimps mate. It's poly. It's incest. It's everything goes gay or straight and all the time with anyone except mothers with sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:12 AM
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What a fun game! Let's all approach strange men!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:34 PM
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What about it sounds fake? People in public places do weird stuff, it's not unknown.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:09 PM
3

So when I go out with friends and pick up the tab my friends should what...? Give me their firstborn?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:51 PM
6

How will any of that help you get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:48 PM
1

If you think the West culturally enforces monogamy you don't actually understand what societies that do that look like. Are you pining for Saudi Arabia?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:40 PM
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Men aren't protected by civilization they're incentivized to participate. Police ignore men? You call 911 and they ask your gender and then don't show up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:09 PM
0

"distribution of sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:07 PM
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Fewer men are on psychiatric drugs because they would rather drink themselves to death to deal with their trauma. It's easy to hide alcoholism while dating, and women walk right into these relationships thinking he is fine. Everything explodes. Finances wrecked. Car wrecked. But thank goodness he is not on Paxil, amirite??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:03 PM
5

And? Is it better to stay in misery?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:57 AM
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Desirable men aren’t all the same for different women. This is the truth. What I find desirable and what you want are different men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:10 PM
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In fact as a woman gets older, her threshold for looks decreases because she begins to prioritize the betabuxx Nope. Nope. Uh uh. I am 51 and I never wanted a beta buxx and I picked my guy based on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:48 PM
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What do you want her personally to do about it? Hunt down an incel and throw herself at him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:32 PM
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Monster!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:06 PM
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I would pick that one throwaway account, which is indistinguishable from all the others, yet made profound comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:04 PM
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It’s much less socially acceptable for men to experiment with other men, even in liberal areas. This. If men were not ashamed at all of their bisexuality, you would see more reports of it. I have know WAY more gay and bisexual men than women by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:53 PM
1

Always assume you are buying As-Is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:30 PM
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Exactly. Why should people pretend that fairies and leprechauns exist either? Astrology is made. up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:26 PM
1

Well you can’t be wasted at work, so where would I mention drinking? Little league games?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:09 PM
1

someone you've known for a long time and has blown you off suddenly decides to come around and show interest many years later. Happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:32 PM
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This is the correct answer. If they got what they wanted, they would not yell about preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:24 PM
1

Why oh why did someone downvote Grape Nuts?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:23 PM
1

So you stand there with a solo cup full of Sprite? Is it fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:22 PM
1

I did this once and I regret it. Set up a male friend with my younger sister. Awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:21 PM
1

So are you always sober at parties and raves?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:19 PM
2

Turn to objective peer reviewed scientific studies annd empirical data in large sample sizes instead of subjective opinions of biased humans. And then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:40 PM
1

Just saying, people from the Levant are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:32 PM
1

Lebanon?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:31 PM
1

Grape nuts every morning. No sugar.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:27 PM
1

Trust me. I am older now and I have seen plenty of Protestant, catholic, and mormon girls get married in their twenties and divorced in their thirties. Men too. A good number of these saved it for their spouse. Lotta good that did them. I myself am religious and I can tell you all the pitfalls of this system.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:08 AM
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They often get divorced in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:05 AM
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Exactly my point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:09 PM
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But why would women bother doing something they do not like? If they do not want to have all that sex, ROI on a baby is pretty bad, why have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:12 PM
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feminism and western culture encourage promiscuity They also encourage other things such as healthy diet and exercise but look how that turned out. So society "encouraging" people only works if they already want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:05 PM
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Or not. I know some prudes, most go to church. If you are not part of a conservative church you likely never see these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:03 PM
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If you look at who is promiscuous and who is not, generally the more religious conservatives have lower N counts than secular women. This is pretty telling. Outside of religion, what incentive is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:55 PM
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Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:46 PM
1

Ms drgree Where did she go? Is she gone forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:07 PM
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Who can say? That is why you date- to find a good partner. If you don't try, you can't succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:33 PM
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Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:08 PM
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Swimming.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:03 PM
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I think it's just better to stay single until you feel like you're good and stable enough. That might work for some people but I really enjoy dating and I am glad I dated since age 15. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:02 PM
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It gets thrown around by everyone. Like "narcissist" and "love languages" and "daddy issues" it is overused and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:01 PM
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Let's see, today I am wearing makeup, a bra, and tight jeans. Hmmmm...looks like the Jezebel meter ranks me a 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:12 PM
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Gaslighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:05 PM
5

Oh lord, that post. He really believe he was entitled to revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:36 PM
2

I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:14 PM
2

A few years ago lots of guys were bragging here about getting rich off of crypto Yeah, and this one woman on Facebook too. Now it's silent on the crypto front.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:07 PM
1

Exactly. I am super religious and that is why I am low N. Why else would I be?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:33 AM
2

Desert rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:31 AM
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This is one problem I will never have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:29 AM
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but if you don't do any of the shit I mentioned and don't make other people's lives worse irl then who cares what they say online? Imagine you are Jewish and your friends are all nice to know, but you found their Reddit account and it was all antisemitic slurs and jokes about Jews. In a mean way. Would you reevaluate your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:38 PM
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Exactly, my SO is 9 years older but no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:29 PM
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but people like to make them out to be disgusting horrible people purely for what they say online. Because in vino veritas. What you say online is your true feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:26 PM
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He is just fucking some random women on rotation. And she thinks they are in a relationship. That is what avoidant means, right? No. I have dated avoidant men who were sexless nerds. They were simply busy doing other stuff, not other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:24 PM
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I have been wearing makeup since 13 and now at age 51 my skin looks fine. Way too youthful even.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:57 PM
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Everyone on Reddit is making bank. No one is less than 600K, haven't you noticed? Meanwhile I am trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:56 PM
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What if you meet in college and no one has money yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:30 PM
2

The best take.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:03 AM
2

You can always find someone else. Hang in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:03 AM
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I laughed, this is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:54 AM
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if a woman doesn't go house-to-house lurking inside someone's basement before making her bad choice, she will never chose correctly. honestly snort laughed at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:34 PM
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the average man does not and simply takes what he can get. So why does he just accept defeat? Why not refuse and go MGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:32 PM
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You are also confirming that marriage provides far more for women than men. Buddy, I have gay friends who married and divorced. The SAH partner got alimony and the high paid spouse paid up, it has nothing to do with gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:31 PM
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First off, if I got married With no legal marriage my parents would hit the roof. Rightfully so. Second, a divorced woman with kids had those kids in wedlock so they are not "single moms" and the ex is not a baby daddy. She gets more financial benefits from the divorce than she would from a hook up, which is needed to stay at home and raise kids properly. I am more trad than most here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:11 PM
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Dead bedroom here we come!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:06 PM
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But then she is a single mom with a baby daddy. You guys hate those people with a blind rage, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:05 PM
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Men on average put up with much more, and women tend to on average give up much quicker. Have you dated men? How do you know if men are easier or harder than women to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:00 PM
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I think men just need to avoid marriage. It’s a losing deal. So all children should be raised by single mons? I thought you guys hate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:57 PM
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Sure, I go 50/50 with all my boyfriends. Always have. But if I got married and had kids I would expect to quit may job and stay home and raise the damn kids. Someone gotta pay for that, right? Lucky for everyone I never married or had kids. Full egalitarian woo hoo! But this is my choice and a childfree women, and most men want to breed. They better pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:56 PM
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Exactly. But when you gender flip this, men claim that there is NO WAY for a guy to see through manipulation and deceit and women are just tricksy and false.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:12 PM
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If a woman sits there and ignores a man for 10 years while running the carousel, and then begrudgingly settles for him This never ever happens, trust me. She dates guys and marries one of them. No settling begrudgingly for anyone. Why would she?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:29 AM
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So you want people to cheat on their spouses as payback for what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:12 AM
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snap, section 8 etc. these programs are for women and children only. SNAP and Section 8 are for anyone regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:09 AM
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If you’re doing it to make her jealous that’s mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:05 PM
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Don't flirt with other girls in front of your girlfriend to make her jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:44 PM
1

Jesus said we should treat other people the way we want to be treated. The Golden Rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:39 PM
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Do unto others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:31 PM
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world oldest profession And? Are you a prostitute? No? Neither am i.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:24 PM
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Would you like it if your girl flirted with other men in front of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:19 PM
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All women are prostitutes. Please inform your family of this over Christmas dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:47 PM
1

Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:42 PM
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Upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:41 PM
1

if you did the bare minimum to be healthy (19-21 BMI) OK, but Healthy BMI goes up to 24
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:39 PM
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Is she religious? That was my reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:38 PM
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Women are masters at EQ and shifting the narrative, far better than men are. "My ex girlfriend was crazy. And the other ex was crazy too. And that other gal, she was nuts."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:42 PM
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A gay man is the ideal roommate for a single woman. He is clean and respectful and will not creep on her, plus a man in the house gives her protection from other men. Women roommates vary, as some can be a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:33 PM
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Most people fall in love involuntarily with no plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:59 PM
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a lot of them are dateless for a reason beyond being just shy. THIS. I really believed he was just shy and unlucky and if I showed him love and acceptance he would be great. WRONG. Holy shit was I wrong. Likely the most hateful person I have ever met.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:19 PM
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This often ends up as women continuing to give abusers chance after chance while fleeing from a good man after he gets frustrated one time. The most abuse I ever suffered was from a chinless nerd. I gave nerds many, many chances. Some were sweet and some had a chip on the shoulder and took it out on me. No Chad has ever abused me. Let me tell you- I was dumb. I honestly believed I was doing the right thing by dating nerd men. Truly believed Christian men from church would be morally superior to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:16 PM
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So how many lonely virgin men have you dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:05 PM
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Oh trust me, I tried that twice. One turned out to be super mentally ill and mean as fuck, the other ended up being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:59 PM
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She is a breath of fresh air on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:17 PM
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Men can "withhold" sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:15 PM
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But I gave my hot sexy youth to lonely nerds. All those guys got to parade me around like arm candy in my most gorgeous years. Then in my forties I met the love of my life. A Chad. Don't these two things completely contradict Red Pill dogma? That women are shallow and slutty in their youth and then grudgingly give themselves to betas when they are older? I did the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:18 AM
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Why? I disproved AFBB.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:09 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:02 AM
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Couldn't you gender flip this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:57 AM
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I did the exact opposite of AFBB and locked down a Chad when middle aged, after decades of dating nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:41 AM
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if they already want it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:00 AM
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it makes sense for the state to distribute also sex as it distributes wealth. And this is why no one takes you guys seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:54 PM
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The irony is that it’s probably way easier to take a guy who is not physically attractive looking, but otherwise a great person (in terms of personality and values) and to try to make him attractive via plastic surgery, dietary changes, exercise, etc. "I can fix him."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:43 PM
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Yea, imagine the fun times you would have with a red pill guy! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:42 PM
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I worked retail and Karens are not the average woman at all. They are bitches. Most women are people pleasers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:03 PM
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I respect this rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:39 AM
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She could be on the spectrum and just talking without weighing consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:22 PM
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You might have something there. When I am forced to be someone I am not (say, at my job) I get blue. When I was in a relationship where I had to pretend, I was miserable. When I had to suck up all my emotions and mask my true self, I suffered. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:17 PM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:02 PM
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Because they treat their daughters like scapegoats. I know a few of the scapegoat daughters whose mom were Boy Moms and oh man, did they get the shit end of the stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:01 PM
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So what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:59 PM
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The average redditor finds it unphatomable for a 21 year old virgin man to want a virgin girlfriend, on top of finding it impossible for a woman to be a virgin beyond the age of, like, 13. You guys. Just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:55 PM
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All relationships are at least somewhat transactional, If giving and receiving love and emotional validation is a transaction, then who cares? When users here say "transactional" we all know they mean "one person is being used" and it's not for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:52 PM
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A lot of it is the internet warping their minds with dumb expectations. Trust me, in the 90s no one cared about N count or virginity or anything. Guys only cared how pretty a girl was. Online communities have stirred up weird ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:46 PM
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I googled it and you are right, half the states allow teachers to beat students. What do you know. But why be a dick about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:36 PM
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we were not allowed Not that "I chose" not to beat students. We would be fired if we even screamed at them. Alas, my predecessor was fired for this very reason and that is how I got the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:33 PM
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some of you are looking for virgins Yes, and they will either find them or they won't. I was a virgin very late in life so it can happen....but only in religious communities and they pretty much hate religion here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:31 PM
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I was a teacher in a private school and we were not allowed to do anything but talk to the students.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:29 PM
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No, he said the beating was by teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:28 PM
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It is illegal for teachers to beat students in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:21 PM
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What country are you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:18 PM
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Kissless at 21 is either ugly or asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:17 PM
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. Also boys are beaten more severely and more often than girls, the most polite boy was probably beaten way more than the worst girl in school. By whom? Other boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:16 PM
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Let me know when men are willing to be used as human dildos with seldom to zero sexual gratification and maybe women will attend the negotiating table. Spot on, as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:01 PM
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If we had a 4 day work week But not a 4 40 work week. I did that one summer and it sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:55 PM
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You can gender flip this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:49 PM
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Women here routinely comment that they only find 10% of men or so attractive. True, but it's not the same 10% of men. We have different types.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:46 PM
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Do you live in Los Angeles or another fit attractive city?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:45 PM
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You too can prostitute yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:33 PM
1

Depends how trad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:30 PM
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Furry convention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:26 PM
1

Most people I know heat up frozen entrees for dinner. This is not what I consider cooking, but alas. Time saving is crucial for two career couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:21 PM
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I met the love of my life at age 44. Checkmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:24 PM
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This is the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:57 PM
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But if it’s a guy you can give a small nudge to like hey work out 6 times a week Have you ever tried this? It does not work. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:38 PM
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Well this is depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:17 PM
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No one I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:57 PM
1

This is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:37 PM
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Like, I wanna look into quakerism This is where I am at. I gave up on normal protestant churches after decades of insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:34 PM
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It begs the question, if women put in as much effort to choose a man with good character as she does her appearance (hair, nails, makeup, outfits, diet), what would the dating landscape look like? It would look exactly the same. Dating is vetting. She dates a man until he shows he is a POS and she dumps him. Rinse and repeat until she meets the right guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:22 PM
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Lebanon
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:52 PM
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It's confusing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:09 PM
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I don’t understand it because it sounds like they’re suggesting that women should just commit to men they’re not attracted to, which doesn’t seem like a sustainable solution. I actually tried this in my twenties and it was a fail. NEVER date a guy you do not find yummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:07 PM
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Trad cons do not care about individual happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:16 PM
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But how do we know he was deceived? Maybe the mom told him "Look, you'll do." and he was delighted because NO ONE wanted him until that point. Who can say?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:09 PM
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Oh I WILL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:08 PM
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I was bragging about how I can't keep my hands off my boyfriend and someone here told me "stop Chad chasing" and it really made my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:03 PM
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I am surprised it lasted as long as it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:54 PM
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A woman's value is tied to her youth, fertility, purity and loyalty. A woman presenting herself to you later in life fulfills none of these. Please be sure to tell women this on the first date so they can leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:42 PM
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No, OP only observe her mom and her mom's friends in the post. Not people at Walmart or people at church or couples on a luxury cruise or couples in divorce court.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:40 PM
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Oh please.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:36 PM
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Yes please.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:35 PM
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Gun range.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:34 PM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:34 PM
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GROSS! I had a boss like that and I am horrified just reading this account.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:33 PM
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So what are you suggesting that poor man should have done instead? Been a forever bachelor virgin with no family to love? Did he have ANY other offers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:12 PM
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Would a woman do the same sacrifice for me if she were single? I’d think in most cases no. I am proof to the contrary. My boyfriend is divorced with kids, I am childless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:09 PM
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Wrong on all counts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:45 PM
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Men & women both still want relationships up until 50. Then suddenly, men start rejecting women more for relationships (hence there's more single women after that age). No, this is due to male mortality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:36 AM
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the wall is simply the point at which a women realizes that her age has become a liability, which for some women might be 30, while for others it might be 45. So no different than men, you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:31 AM
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They don't. Women treat men they are attracted to much better, and part of that includes giving them a much longer leash. This is true of all humans, not just one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:26 AM
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It’s sad to read some of this. I really hope some of them are just being edge lords and don't mean the horrid things they type here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:06 AM
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Too many people confuse lust with love. Men are capable of lusting over someone, but they are not capable of truly loving someone. Men only desire women as a form of utility, so that they can fulfill their constant need for instant gratification. The absence of utility leads to the absence of desire. Thus, it is conditional, and usually temporary as a result. See how easy to was to gender flip this nonsense? Still not factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:23 AM
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No its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:56 PM
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Only Chads can afford to be in relationships with awesome women. Oh good to know. I got a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:13 PM
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Or it is insignificant in which case why are you withholding such a small insignificant thing that your beloved wants so much? To be married to the chip on his shoulder instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:06 PM
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So the actual relationship and real expressions of love on a day to day basis are meaningless in the grand scheme if you don’t get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:39 PM
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I don't know why people get upset when women here say we don't like red pill men. Red pill men don't approach me or are coming to me for relationships so it's not like I'm rejecting them. My standards literally don't matter to red pill men because they have no interest in me in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:33 PM
2

10 year reunion seemed too early for me, and I missed my 20 year because I was in another state. Now I have 0 interest in going because I can see everyone on Facebook. Huge number of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:17 PM
2

No Because I have Facebook and I already know what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:13 PM
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Especially for introverted women or women with small social circles, who don't go out partying, OLD is a good way to find suitable men. This is how I met my love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:12 PM
8

If your partner finds out about it, he’s definitely going to tamper with it if he’s the type of person you do need to escape from. Yup, tracking device.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:49 PM
2

How do you know it wasn't some other kind of arrangement? Why is the marriage of her mom and dad proof they were hot for each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:08 PM
1

So how do you know her dad is a chad? Why isn't he just a regular guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:05 PM
3

You guys just keep changing definitions of Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:54 PM
14

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:38 PM
3

The "problems" with men's behavior stop being problems when you remove women from the equation. Which is why male prisons are like Disneyland's happy place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:54 AM
1

Women still need men to protect them. From ebola? No, from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:51 AM
1

The problem is that women expect men to keep giving and working for society even if there is no sexual and loving reward for them. Don't you go to work to...pay your bills? Buy a house? Eat?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:34 AM
1

So? Hot is still hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:17 AM
2

Good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:48 AM
6

women stop being attracted to butterflies and start being attracted to stability in their 30s because the situation demands it. Nope. I am 51 and I can tell you this never happens. I am with my boyfriend because he is wildly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:53 AM
1

Upvote!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:47 AM
1

a LAN party.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:24 PM
1

Are you feeling empathy right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:20 PM
5

I did this when I was 24, and now I realize what a huge mistake it was to date a 34 year old man. Many women learn the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:19 PM
2

Does a Frenchman living in 1800 know anything about the struggles of a slave in faraway Jamaica? Does the woman who cooks lunch for school kids know anything about the lives of indentured servants in Dubai? Do you know anything about my life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:17 PM
1

I am dating a Chad Indian.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:01 PM
1

Most women live lifes where the only setbacks they face are health related, family passing away or chad cheating. Oh wow, good to know! I will definitely act accordingly now that you told me this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:34 PM
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I have been in big age gaps both up and down. No one cared when I dated a guy 10 years up, it was a non issue. But when I was 40 and dating a 30 year old man, people had words and were shocked. Do you know why? I look incredibly young for my age, so when I said my boyfriend was 10 years younger, they thought I was dating a teenager. Literally. Once I explained my actual age and his as well, no one cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:30 PM
5

A lot of people here are racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:26 PM
3

I'm mainly talking about from the man's perspective. Ofc it makes sense for women though. How does that make sense? I know a gay couple who got divorced and the SAHP dude got alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:20 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:07 PM
2

If I suspected that someone I loved was pulling a fraud but I had no proof, I would seek proof before accusing them. Get the test without her knowing. Once you see it's your kid, no need for further suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:40 PM
1

I was raised in a hardcore Christian church and sex outside marriage is a big fat sin. That is why I am Low N. Why should any other girl who was raised secular keep her body count down?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:39 PM
1

Are you religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:35 PM
1

men who face the consequences of asking for a paternity test? They just wanted certainty, and now they find themselves broken up with, but appearantly they should be told to take responsibility? He should have just gotten the test on the kid without telling her. No need to accuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:35 PM
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As a religious zealot, I am always baffled why secular people care about n count. If you don't think it's a sin, why does it bother you? Why should a girl NOT sleep around?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:25 PM
1

Even if they didn't consciously want to do this, their emotional response towards the accusation contributes to this situation so why aren't they responsible for this? When my cat died I cried hard and ugly for longer than I care to admit. It really gutted me. If someone had told me that I was being immature or unreasonable it would have made no difference. If I was told to take responsibility for my reaction, I would just hide in the bathroom to cry. people are human.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:23 PM
4

The benefits of being a man only materialise through the mindset changes and character development that living such a life forces on you. This only happens after years. Peeing standing up takes years???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:13 PM
0

No man with any money or wealth (family) or high income employment/ business revenue... should ever help another person. Ever. His money is all HIS and that is the point of life. At some juncture, he should make a will so that no one gets anything at all, and his vast hoard goes to a charity like PETA. That way he wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:03 PM
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who's not to say he chased top 20% of girls before getting rejected by them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:09 PM
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who aren't at a healthy (19-21) BMI. This is why we cannot take you guys seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:51 PM
5

Now if we have our giant golden retriever in bed with us Why do people do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:29 PM
1

Advanced placement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:00 PM
39

Attraction cannot be negotiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:54 PM
1

Not one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:12 AM
2

This is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:48 PM
1

How can you know
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:47 PM
1

So we can honk and whistle at the correct people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:46 PM
1

You need to be more careful in preventing basic logical mistakes like this. Buddy. YOU were the one asking me to lay out the reasons red pill is wrong. YOU, not me. I am simply on my way to work this morning and guess what, I don't care. You can head on over to Blue Pill and read the detox kit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:17 PM
1

So if I were saying "Behold the Truth! Come join my church and earn all sorts of rewards in this life and the next!" the burden of proof is on ME not YOU to make claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:13 PM
1

The burden of proof is on Red Pill, not on me. Asking me to point out what aspects of Scientology I find false would take just as long.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:07 PM
1

I don't see red pill to be true, i don't find science that shows red pill is true. I have been arguing this point for 6 years and I hope they listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:02 PM
3

the issues i’m referring to are the common cited ones that men say here hypergamy, 80/20, af/bb, and all those other things. So fairy dust and leprechauns? Just made up nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:50 PM
0

So you would like an arranged marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:18 AM
2

My boyfriend would not take well to this experiment, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:12 AM
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It would be the same, with all the short term dating and long term dating leading to the same conclusion later on. Assortive mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:11 AM
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but I'm confident theres a reason that multiple cultures and throughout history that idea was established. Yes, to shame and stigmatize single hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:10 AM
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The guys here really believe they are tabula rasa.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:09 AM
10

Finally we get to hear about men on the carousel!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:07 AM
3

So Patty from the accounting department can just strut up to a man's desk, plunk down her purse on his workload, state authoritatively "You are coming home with me." and Bill will just helplessly comply?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:05 AM
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By the time a woman hits 30 she is full of trauma from the poor choices she made in her 20s. Like taking that job she hated?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:56 AM
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So by your logic a woman can just walk up to you personally, point at your chest and declare "This one will do." and you will pliantly go home with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:55 AM
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So men are passive recepticles of female will?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:44 AM
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This makes no sense. People are single for a number of reasons. Why assume the women are the only bad ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:33 AM
2

Where did she go??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:30 AM
1

Someone wise once told me "All women are crazy, but all men are assholes." So is it crazy to leave an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:29 AM
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So a single man in his 30s is a blameless victim but his single female counterpart is a wanton tart with a bad attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:20 AM
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Historically dating has fallen in the past, especially after huge inventions such as agriculture. Of course eventually humans adapted, though. "Dating" is a 20th century invention. You guys, you really need to read books.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:51 AM
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Feeling like they didn't have divorce as a viable option, would psychologically cause these people to be happier in marriage Oh how I wish you could discuss this with my late grandmother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:45 AM
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He did a lot of drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:52 PM
1

Whatever happened to Mercedes Benzo AMG? He used to post here all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:18 PM
1

That has never been my experience. Also, why would you dump someone for being responsible with their reproductive choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:49 PM
3

Do you live like man and wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:38 AM
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Shorter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:31 AM
5

It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:29 AM
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The scenario I was addressing was a man who does not wish to work and thus plays video games all day. Your scenario is not that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:28 AM
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what if he said working was too hard or tiring and he just wanted to play video games during the day ? Am I dating a twelve year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:38 AM
1

Same answer. But I am also not struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:37 AM
1

Hawt and sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:02 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:01 PM
3

Dude, you live in Brazil.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:01 PM
2

I have been on and off BC and it made no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:38 PM
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Yup, this is me too. If I do not know this guy, I offer to split the bill so that he cannot claim I owe him. Actually I always offer to pay with my boyfriend anyway. He sometimes lets me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:23 AM
4

This is very well put.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:03 PM
4

Have you dated men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:56 PM
3

I know plenty of chads with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:59 PM
10

Great. But most men will see her as an easy lay they can discard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:55 PM
1

They both had careers, this is the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:27 PM
5

Sounds hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:23 PM
3

Are you going to leave everything to your boyfriend or girlfriend in your will?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:22 PM
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I am older and I have seen what happens to those couples when someone dies. The survivor gets screwed hard with no inheritance because he left it all to his kids and not her. Also no pension left for her. She gets to be old and alone with no place to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:21 PM
3

The law would beg to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:17 PM
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He brings instructions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:13 PM
2

Especially her parents. They will pity her if she is a forever girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:13 PM
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Of course it’s flattering but she risks being seen as nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:47 PM
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Bad idea unless you are long term friends already. Strange men will assume you are easy or desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:51 PM
2

So she can have a Hapsburg lantern jaw and one eye and no nose and it's fine as long as she is thin?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:50 PM
3

If you're not religious, there are still legal benefits to both parties in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:46 PM
1

How pretty is she?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:42 PM
1

This likely the case. Men who do not date men have no idea how sneaky male abusers can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:37 PM
1

Good list.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:28 PM
1

He might find that strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:14 PM
1

Damn straight!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:48 PM
1

I can’t keep my hands off my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:41 PM
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Just want to say I like your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:36 PM
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My point: you can see other people as non-sexual entities and it'd be fine. No one has to be horny for anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:36 PM
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The problem with your logic is that you are saying for women, men they're not attracted to are not seen as men. You said it. Not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:30 PM
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Are you attracted to your parents? Siblings? Of course not. Just because you do not find someone attractive does not mean you despise them or see them as less than human. I see men as men, you see women as women. Why does everyone have to be panting after everyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:26 PM
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Women are attracted to men Men are attracted to women. Bisexuals are common. If all you care about is people drooling after you, why not run with the wolves?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:22 PM
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As a man you will always be competing in the sexual marketplace. You can't just dress up in the equivalent of a sexy witch costume and shake your ass and know that the dozens of men around you are affirming your sexual appeal by virtue of their presence. As a man you have to fight tooth and nail to garner any sexual appeal at all Gay night club. Please try this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:18 PM
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So you're telling me you want to be shot in the head??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:56 PM
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The internet has filled your mind with garbage. Stop worrying about non-problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:40 PM
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but it still comes from the same source of women being inherently treated better. When a boy is born, they fire guns into the sky and throw a giant party. Everyone is happy! When a girl is born, they act like someone died. No one celebrates. Malala speaks of this in her biography, about being a girl in that part of the world. Before she was shot in the head. You should read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:57 PM
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Nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:54 PM
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it is because girls are treated better and boys/men need to learn to be aggressive to function in society. So how do you explain Muslim countries where boys are treated like royalty and girls are second class?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:38 PM
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Please seek help I got a 3 day ban for saying this to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:36 PM
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You will meet lots of middle aged men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:33 PM
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Adultery was a huge pastime for those marriages. So were brothels for men in the old times. People act on emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:56 PM
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So why did you ask whether I had the same empathy for women? Genuine question. If you didn't mean to invalidate what I was saying and make it about women, what was your intention? Again, I am bluntly honest because I am on the spectrum and I don't lie. So when I ask questions it's just a WISYWIG query for information. Why read into it? This is text, so not easy to read sarcasm and I get that- but why assume the worst? I asked you because you made some good points and I wish to better understand …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:02 PM
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I was not shaming you or anyone. Autism runs in my family and I am hoping my nephew will get a girlfriend despite it. Again you do not know anything about me, but you assume the worst. My hope is that good guys like my nephew will be happy in this world, and his best chance of that would be with a gal who gets him. But then your comments made we worry about that. Who would want to be someone's emotional punching bag?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:39 PM
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Please get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:23 PM
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No. I dated a virgin and he was really sweet. His issues were not PPD issues, they were real childhood trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:22 PM
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You really need to examine your tone, your words, how angry and vengeful you sound. Everyone who is not You is an evil sociopath? Everyone who is not You is selfish and uncaring? You don't even know me or what I do for a living but you scream that I lack empathy? How does that even make sense? Use logic- I asked if you had empathy for autistic women and you blew up in anger. So no empathy. I then replied logically that if that is how you see things, it is better for people like me to avoid peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:13 PM
1

Dude, do you hear yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:06 PM
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Based on your reply, I as an Autistic woman am glad I do not date autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:54 PM
4

TIL I am a super special unicorn hero or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:45 AM
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women are becoming de-domesticated in the realest sense like feral and allowed to operate at base animalism. Yes, I roam around in my backyard pen and drink from the hamster bottle until slop time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:43 AM
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I'm not going to buy a house if I think the damn thing is going to collapse on me in my sleep. Perfectly put.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:12 AM
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I really wish IUD's were more popular. Ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:11 AM
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You can't pull the wool over my eyes, I lived in south Texas. Balding fat men had wives and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:47 AM
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Do you have this same empathy for autistic women? Not being snarky, genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:45 AM
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Most women have had casual sex Factually wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:37 AM
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Ad hominems are rampant in this sub and mods do nothing about it. On both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:34 AM
1

Why would you expect women to understand the male perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:51 PM
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As a fellow Kurt Vonnegut fan, I like your user name.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:38 PM
1

I don't know anyone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:36 PM
1

That was exactly my thought as well, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:29 PM
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Female dating experience: gets first crush, gets rejected has a glow up gets first boyfriend no one has a car, so they make out in the park or behind the school being two immature teenagers, they don't last grows up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:25 PM
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This is strangely insightful but sad nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:57 PM
1

I wish these guys were joking. They really see us as the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:10 PM
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I must know a lot of unicorns then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:03 PM
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Yes, celibacy works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:07 PM
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But imagine their point of view. Unwanted pregnancy. Now what? There is no way for her to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:59 PM
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Where did I say this? I am mostly pro life myself. But the vast majority of women want the choice over their bodies and sex means risking pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:55 PM
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I do not care about height and my guy is shorter than I am, but I always assumed women want tall men because big dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:54 PM
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What about women’s rights should we be on the same page about? Reproductive rights? Yes. Imagine this is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:51 PM
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Gimp Girl was our diversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:48 PM
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Patriarchy is not rule by men, it's rule by fathers. Single men are treated like the scum of the earth in these Muslim countries. By men, in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:42 AM
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They chop off people's heads for having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:39 AM
1

Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:22 AM
10

Have you been to the happy paradise known as Saudi Arabia?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:22 AM
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So I guess people ARE still having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:18 AM
4

it's in women's bet Interest to also be stewards of society and do their part By fucking some guy they don't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:18 AM
10

And most women in their 30s are fat and have kids What happened to population collapse?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:15 AM
5

Would you want to have a child with the village idiot?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:51 AM
2

How is my flair not clear and appropriate?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:28 PM
4

This is mostly an American problem. Friends from Asia tell me it's vastly different there, with deep emotional closeness between men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:28 PM
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I wonder how relevant are woman at the work environment after all. Dude, what.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:13 PM
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Nasty people should and deserve to be alone Completely agree. Why make more victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:18 PM
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This. My boyfriend couldn't care less if we ever leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:35 PM
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None of these guys are ever having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:50 AM
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It only has to happen once Getting murdered can only happen to you once as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:48 AM
2

He could even google the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:42 AM
1

It was a creepy society and I am glad I do not live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:39 AM
1

You are living proof against their nihilism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:56 PM
2

These guys here want you to fail, you do realize that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:33 PM
1

Israel also drafts women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:23 PM
3

OMG! there they are now!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:38 PM
2

This is all in your head, not reality. No proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:34 PM
1

I don't see any of this happening is the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:01 PM
1

I’ll try not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:33 PM
1

Oh well, gotta live with uncertainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:13 PM
1

Years of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:08 PM
1

Vetting takes place BEFORE you commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:05 PM
1

Um, what happened to you guys having all the honor and integrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:04 PM
1

You're position is too black and white, and life just isn't that way. I thought you were taking the moral high ground. Whoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:02 PM
1

Women do NOT have the same sense of integrity and honor a man has. They just don't. Oh I forgot, men never cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:48 PM
6

That you're willing to defend something deeply immoral so that you have the option to get away with it. This sounds insane. If an innocent person is being accused of something immoral, they have the right to feel offended and even leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:46 PM
5

They're really out here exposing themselves Exposing what exactly? That we will not tolerate accusations?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:29 PM
21

If I have never cheated on my husband, never slept with another man than him, there is zero chance that my children aren't his, right? Dudes here think women get pregnant through pollination.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:21 PM
1

Barely Moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:22 PM
1

Which are you doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:20 PM
1

Church.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:03 PM
1

Do people in your generation still wear watches??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:03 PM
7

100% baseless. It's not real, it's all in their heads. It's the product of paranoia and neuroticism. Oh thank goodness! I will be sure to inform my stalker that he is not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:38 PM
-1

Do you go up to homeless men and give them head pats?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:38 PM
1

I am 51 years old. According to red pill I should be a bitter cat lady with yucky options. Instead I met the love of my life and we are together and happy for seven years and I am kicking myself that I did not meet him sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:22 PM
4

I was a bitch to my boyfriends until about 19 and then I changed. My prime years were spent dating nerds. That was a mistake and now that I raised my standards I am much happier. Oops I got older, what a shame for society eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:08 PM
9

I want to award this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:14 PM
4

You're the one complaining, not "society"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:12 PM
4

and most women who never had kids are going to be miserable when they get old and are alone. So? How does that affect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:00 PM
2

So go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:53 PM
1

Just as an aside, you seem like one of the more intelligent guys here on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:49 PM
2

The only transaction in my relationship is emotional. No one is using anyone for anything else. As for giving and receiving, I call it even because GOOD LORD am I a pick me simp for this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:45 PM
7

No kidding. I was pretty cruel to boyfriends when in my "prime" and I am WAY sweeter now. Not due to lack of options, I am smokin' hot. Due to growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:27 PM
1

All the upvotes!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:21 PM
6

strange consequence of this exchange for needing a man to wanting a man is that it made relationships more transactional across the board. I would argue the opposite, that relationships are no longer based on needing money and instead are based on love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:07 PM
1

Red pill tries to deny this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:00 PM
1

I live in Nevada Unless it's Lake Tahoe, yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:55 PM
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Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:12 PM
2

I know what I experienced my whole life, that's all. Same here! Omigosh!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:32 PM
2

Avoid the most taxes you can, let society rot if it rejects you. Uh...how do I avoid paying taxes and not get audited??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:25 PM
1

There are maybe 8 women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:01 PM
1

Read what I wrote. Read what you wrote. How is it possible that "most" women you know are mean whores and simultaneously those women are on PPD unless you know almost no one IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:26 PM
2

the lower SMP person gets insecure more often and assumes the higher SMP partner is going to leave, or that they aren't good enough, or that the higher SMP partner isn't really into them. This is exhausting to deal with for the higher SMP partner Exactly my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:51 PM
1

Extremely good looking Not in my opinion. His face is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:35 PM
1

Which would imply that he knows no women IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:11 PM
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Thank you!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:07 AM
1

80_20 has gone 51_50
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:05 AM
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So who's fault is your failure?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:04 AM
8

Right back atcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:02 AM
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OMG guys! We found the King of the Internet right here on PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:39 PM
11

I've been proven to be right since I first started arguing on reddit in 2012. You won the Internet in 2012?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:32 PM
1

You really need to get off the internet. I'm serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:24 PM
3

Love is a thing a man can feel for a woman. Women love things that men provide them. So when we claim to love a man with all our heart we are just lying again?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:23 PM
8

Look at OP's post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:18 PM
-1

Why don't you guys engage in conversations instead of vague one liners? Because I comment for fun. Surely you have seen humor on Reddit before?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:08 PM
5

Men cannot post their nudes on NSFW-Reddit and have women saying they want to drink his bath water Post your nudes on gay forums. Instant validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:14 PM
1

A lot of dudes in Red Pill seem to think antidepressants mean she deserves to be depressed because she is a shitty person. But if a guy is depressed we should be empathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:32 PM
7

Females judge 80% of men as unattractive Men and females, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:31 PM
4

Correct. Men here think all relationships start on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:07 PM
8

There still has to be some pushback Why? Anyone who has a bad experience will learn from it. Duh. You saying "Hey now Sweaty, don't get all bitter on me now!" does nothing. And most women are not bitter, they just learn important lessons from their horror stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:30 PM
1

I would be surprised if any woman debunked his points Are you new to the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:39 PM
1

I saw the eclipse!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:36 PM
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I knew a few single women in the hot twenties age bracket and they were living like nuns. Only one or two of my coworkers were promiscuous but most women that age were either fretting over their boyfriends' happiness or spending their time with platonic friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:46 PM
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If you dated men you would know this isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:28 PM
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I was pretty horrified when he told me. No one should be treated unfairly, but especially not someone as good and kind as he is. My point is that these countries are Ultra Patriarchal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:13 PM
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No, you are wrong about Muslim countries. They think single men are sexual predators, full stop. My good Buddy lived there for years as a single man and they treated him this way even though he is celibate. He was kicked out of his apartment for the crime of being unmarried. He never bothered any women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:06 PM
5

All stats show that early marriage is a recipe for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:55 PM
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You know which countries treat single men as predators just for existing? Arab Muslim countries. Make single men shop at different times of the day than women, make them eat on the other side of the restaurant away from women, make them live in separate apartment complexes even. Countries like Kuwait, Qatar, Saudi Arabia etc. are far from feminist yet they treat single men like rapists. How do you explain that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:54 PM
1

making it work when young is best. Why do you think this is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:48 PM
6

Most of the couples I know who met in high school or college are now divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:40 PM
1

And you know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:39 PM
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He said in interracial dating, it's always up to the man to be the one accommodating the racial/cultural differences between them. Like if you're a white guy dating a minority, it's up to you to learn the language and the culture. And if you're a minority dating a white woman, it's up to you to feel 'familiar' and act white. I don't think most women really acknowledge that guys do a lot of things to accommodate women's preferences. I am a white Stacy in an LTR with an Indian Chad. You better bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:28 PM
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Form a line, ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:23 PM
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Go on a nice cruise. Look around at all the rich old Boomers. Ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:20 PM
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When I was 16 I literally went out with a guy just to get into parties or school dances. I was not attracted to him. And yes, he was tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:42 PM
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You need to get away from the subreddits that make you think this way. Short men succeed all the damn time, even with hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:30 PM
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He is jealous and insecure. Maybe red pilled. Either way, they is nothing you can do and she will reap the sad consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:18 PM
14

I mean, are we really falling for what she says? She could be a lesbian. Who actually knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:03 AM
1

I rearranged my diet and eliminated SO many foods. People sometimes give me shit for saying I cannot eat something, but trust me- you don't want me eating ranch dressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:37 AM
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She's play-acting online to get men's money. Look at older videos where she is dressed like a tomboy and saying completely different things. All a grift.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:11 AM
7

So this is just your girlfriend we are discussing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:52 AM
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Everything about you will be scrutinised. Voice, looks, background, history, attitude, sex life,clothes you name it. This goes for everyone. Hell, this goes for a job interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:14 AM
1

Have you calmed down? Yes, I stole your Xanax supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:12 AM
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If the Little Mermaid had stayed in her lane, she would be still alive to brush her hair with forks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:51 PM
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Once upon a time there was an emperor who had loads of resources. Everyone knew him as a High Value Male and he had that made into a crest with inaccurately drawn lions. A tailor came to town and saw what a simp the emperor actually was, because the tailor was all about disbelieving the mainstream narrative. He offered his services to the emperor and promised to make him suit of fine clothing consisting only of crypto currency. The emperor knew crypto was expensive so this sounded like a good wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:45 PM
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Deep in the sea lived a totally cute mermaid who had literally everything going for her. When other mermaids called her a "princess" they were not ribbing on her privilege, she was set for life. Mermen and other merpeople may or may not have been cute, but this Little Mermaid was already crushing on humans despite this being a genetic dead end. Merfolk repeatedly explained genetics to her but she was set on this cross-species kink of hers. One day the Little Mermaid saw Chad drowning and not met…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:31 PM
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Once upon a time there was a fox who strolled around the countryside looking for rabbits to eat. For no comprehensible reason he also wanted to eat the grapes hanging off the vines in the local vineyard. This makes sense. He jumped and jumped and was unable to snag the tempting and ripe grapes and after several attempts that burned off his precious caloric reserve, he gave up. He was about to mumble some famous line about how the grapes were probably sour, but then he saw a dead squirrel smashed…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:17 PM
3

What a guy. Do you think these girls were better people after his bullshit or they were angry and hurt and told everyone he was a dick? It just perpetuates more misery on the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:55 PM
2

Men don't see other men as hostiles or their opponents, like women do You have never been in a bar fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:54 PM
2

Found him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:53 PM
3

Men do not see themselves as all being on the same team. They compete against other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:05 PM
2

Don't blame us for calling you out for your lies I see. When someone disagrees with you, they are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:04 PM
5

men don't really see the world this way, we see the world as all of us playing on the same team. Are you being sarcastic?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:03 PM
7

That is pretty much a guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:58 PM
3

What was he saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:56 PM
7

Ummmm...when we are honest here we are accused of lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:55 PM
1

My friends and family members have the exact opposite taste in men. I like dark ethnic types with big noses. They like muppet faces. No one is trying to poach anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:43 PM
2

Low self esteem does a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:42 AM
3

He was a sex offender who kept getting arrested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:15 PM
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"Even if it's not named explicitly, like you could ask guys if they are red pilled, and they wouldn't admit it" So ...they may have never heard of red pill at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:20 PM
1

My man likes to spoil and be spoiled. I would say it's pretty even, we both treat eachother to nice things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:10 PM
1

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:55 PM
1

Upper middle class
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:51 PM
1

He is a 10 in looks, like model-tier. But I would say he is 2 inches shorter than my 5'7"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:50 PM
1

Hence why I gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:25 PM
1

Isn't that how people get eyelash mites?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:16 PM
1

He is gorgeous, I brag and brag about him all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:16 PM
1

That guy just copy pastes the same thing over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:14 PM
2

A woman who is a 6 and treats you like you have value is worth an army of 9s and 10s who treat you like an object to use. I am glad to hear a man say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:10 PM
1

My Chad boyfriend is shorter than I am. He is far from dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:08 PM
1

Same. I tried for years to help my incel friends and it never worked, now I know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:07 PM
1

My boyfriend told me flat out to stop buying him things, so now at Christmas I write him a check.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:05 PM
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My best friend was in a bad marriage and her husband would beg for sex, keeping her up all night until she gave in at 4 am to shut him up. She had to get some sleep before work, after all. She hated it. They are now divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:04 PM
1

Can you cook him a gourmet meal or is that too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:59 PM
1

Does he need an expensive watch?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:32 PM
1

Get his car detailed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:28 PM
10

Plenty of women thought Bryan Kohberger was a creep. He acted inappropriately and was disciplined for it well before the murders.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:18 PM
1

Red Pill is simply wrong. Ugly men can seduce and score with women. Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:43 PM
1

No but did disprove the whole 80/20 Chad nonsense. Ugly guys can slay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:42 PM
1

DING DING DING
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:39 PM
1

Which raises the issue that what women can be seduced, quite easily, by really substandard men. Yes, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:38 PM
1

One man's trash is another man's treasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:37 PM
1

Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:51 PM
1

I did what exactly? Date an unattractive guy when I was 18? Yes. Then I broke up with him. Teenagers do dumb things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:47 PM
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it makes us feel like we are doomed to be kept around waiting until we find a girl that is done playing around and is now willing to go for someone less attractive and sexually fun.. Whoosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:39 AM
5

They literally invited you to a sleepover and you refused.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:10 AM
1

Sounds like you are all in favor of prudishness. No shame, that's how I was raised and I lived that way too. It leads to massive neuroticism and sex negative attitudes but if that's your thing, fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:48 AM
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I tried that when I was 18 and it did not work out, so I never did it again. Never date someone you do not find sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:15 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:13 AM
1

Most Millenial and Gen x are already getting deadbesroomed by their promiscuous wives Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:12 AM
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Women who were raised with similar values should be warned they may serve as a sexual punching bag for decades because of the dichotomy between prudishness and sexuality. Once again, you have no idea how right you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:10 AM
3

This is...brilliant...you summed it up, close the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:34 AM
6

they go out and be the whore, but as soon as they're interested in a guy they turn into chaste madonna and act surprised when he (who hasn't done this) has a problem with variable sexual morals Link to one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:22 AM
3

What kind of people are taking cabs late at night? Concert goers. No train runs after 10 here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:19 AM
1

onsider where he might be coming from, just as you'd want him to consider where you're coming from. You don't have to justify anything you don't want to do, but at least have a little care for him as a person and understand what he might be feeling. You assume she doesn't do this already??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:17 AM
7

Wet sloppy French kissing is pretty obvious evidence of attraction. You don't have to put out to prove you find him hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:15 AM
3

reading dead bedrooms and counting the number of men who are furious their virgin wives won’t take it up the ass while simultaneously calling other women whores, bitches, and sluts. You have no idea how right you are. Men who bragged about marrying a Christian virgin girl and now bitch about no sex. No BJs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:11 AM
4

Again, why would she bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:08 AM
1

My coworkers are all early twenties. The dudes are either married or in LTRs. Mostly looks matched. A couple single guys who never try. Almost no divorces until you get to the older crowd and then BOOM huge failure rate. Lots of people find love again. If it's not working, they do not stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:30 AM
1

I am 51 and I have seen a LOT of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:12 AM
2

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:11 AM
1

why aren’t women arguing with each other about this and only addressing me? Because we all have different experiences and some chicks are more prudish.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:09 AM
2

She needs to date other demographics then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:07 AM
23

Why would anyone want to be in a relationship with someone they find ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:05 AM
3

Obviously yes, I hold onto my boyfriend with all ten fingers and all ten toes because I am in love. But past relationships? I ended 99% of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:03 AM
9

Link to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:57 PM
12

Billy does all that shit for the hot girl and not the average I cannot upvote this enough. Regular guys will treat women like whatever, some are nice some are assholes. But a hot 10/10 comes along? Whole other story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:55 PM
3

It's women who dump Chad too. Women are the ones ending most relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:50 PM
13

Maybe try empathy for experiences that are different from yours? Right back atcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:48 PM
9

They will invent scenarios that never happened because "women lie" or something. She could be innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:47 PM
9

Yeah, I am also chiming in as a chick. I never did this AFBB crap that OP is claiming.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:44 PM
9

"I had sex with some guys on the first night. And yes, I did various sexual acts with them that I now have sworn off, but now that I’m dating this sweet new guy who seems like “relationship material”, I want to take it slow and don’t want to really be doing that crazy sexual stuff anymore.” Literally no one says this. The closest equivalent is the religious convert who feels ashamed of past fornications and wishes to clean up his or her act for God.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:33 PM
1

I too am surrounded by normal people in normal circumstances. Almost everyone is married or divorced, a few are in LTRs like mine. The forever single people are clearly not trying to get anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:29 PM
1

A recent study found this is true, and you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:30 PM
10

I will be working until noon on the day of my funeral.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:27 PM
4

I don’t believe we will be alive to see the mayhem but I think in the 20-30 years we will see things get worse Yes, but the worsening of the world will be more Climate Change than fewer babies. We are already seeing the effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:26 PM
10

Truth. They do not actually care about "society" they care about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:24 PM
3

I think that because I see that in people around me. There's your problem. Birds of a feather.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:21 PM
1

Have you not seen Ex Machina? Robots are gonna stab you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:37 PM
15

Falling in love is not a choice, it's a reaction to someone and it's based on looks and personality. Nothing to be done about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:22 PM
11

Have you ever been in love?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:15 PM
47

So if I can't love someone for their looks or their personality, what is left? Their mafia connections? Their car?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:07 PM
5

Merely pointing out the level of Choosing Beggars.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:34 AM
4

I've been getting tons of female attention now and a ton of complaints about my looks and body. Typo is hilarious, FYI
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:40 PM
7

Exactly how I read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:38 PM
22

Yeah, these guys rated A list celebrities as average.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:36 PM
9

Link to this science.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:33 PM
1

What happened to Poppy Blu?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:45 PM
1

Yes. I am a caregiver for the elderly and I absolutely protected a few male clients from abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:47 PM
3

It's like they never saw a Sci Fi movie. Spoiler: they are all horror films.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:43 PM
1

Spice is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:49 PM
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Give me a break, the sexiest man I have ever met is short. He is also very successful
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:47 PM
3

Mocked in real life by people in front of me or behind my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:01 AM
4

Precisely, women get teased and mocked for their bodies all damn day. I have small breasts and I was regularly reminded of this by people in high school and college. I was not a "real woman" to them, but guess what? I stopped caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:16 PM
5

You are factually wrong. Please read a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:22 PM
5

Read a book about the old days. Whore houses everywhere. No lack of customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:06 PM
7

How are they getting less sex? Their forefathers would fuck maybe one woman at most. The modern fuckboys have probably slept with 20 before they even graduate college. Brothels were in every town and everyone knew it. Before the sexual revolution, men racked up N counts with hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:58 PM
5

while her fertile furrow is being ploughed by someone with more prison time served, more tattoos, more addictions, and more STIs. Where the hell do you live, Skid Row??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:37 PM
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and a consequence free life... but also a level protection from criticism and consequence Please tell me where I can obtain this consequence free life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:34 PM
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Same, the title threw me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:30 PM
1

Lord, I know this one well. I even joined a bible study to make woman friends, I am that desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:40 PM
1

Babytalk is ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:39 PM
1

So when I state my preferences I am sucking up? Why would I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:30 PM
4

This reflects my experience too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:03 PM
3

No, insecure women date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:01 PM
1

I guess I have easy going friends. My best friend got divorced in her thirties and remarried an average guy in her forties. She did not seem high maintenance and was not looking for a Chad. I also had no problems finding love in my forties, and I got a Chad. Life is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:09 PM
1

Eh, I would try to make it work but if I could no longer afford his lifestyle I would ask if he wants to adjust this. I cannot imagine being kicked out by a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:58 PM
1

What happened to Gimp Girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:03 PM
0

Q4M
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:57 PM
7

Most men are taking care of their entire family and can’t even get a hot meal or their wife to stop gaining 50 pounds every few years. That is abhorrent. Most men? Really? And most wives gain 50 pounds every few years? You do realize how awful this sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:07 PM
1

He is 5'6" and a 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:45 PM
8

I constantly wonder how these women can be snuffed out UHHH.....snuffed out??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:41 PM
1

I am looking pretty good after I took up swimming every day. Hell yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:29 PM
1

I see you have met my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:27 PM
1

The men on Reddit refer to their wives with equal deprecation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:24 PM
-2

So no examples from your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:19 PM
0

Female romantic love towards men just isn’t how men define love and isn’t very strong UH, what? Do you have examples of this from your own life?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:58 PM
2

once the rush of being married wears off you see what you really signed up for and realize if you want to bolt time is ticking Yeah this is why I never married. If I am not in love, what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:42 PM
5

When she is mad at you, then she doesn’t feel all those things, but if you are hot to her then she will still be innately physically attracted Nope, women will change their minds if the guy is a prick. His shitty personality will wipe out any attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:39 PM
1

Her man is an awkward nerd who hates crowds but doesn’t want her going out to parties alone. And he spends the whole time calling, watching her, and trying to get her to leave early. Oh dude, I would be suffocated in this relationship. Which would end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:38 PM
1

So magic the illness away? If something is incurable like Type 1 Diabetes we are supposed to what....pretend not to have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:30 AM
2

Should someone with diabetes not take insulin and just tough it out? Is that a Win because they are not taking medication?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:12 PM
6

And they get their advice from women’s magazines In the modern era? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:02 PM
2

When I was a hot 24 year old fresh out of college, I briefly dated a guy from church who was 34. It did not last, as I lost attraction pretty quickly and he figured that out. So he would neg me nonstop and make fun of me and believe me, this was the wrong tactic and I dumped him. He was crushed and it took him a long time to get over me. If you are OK with being heartbroken, go ahead and get dumped by a 24 year old smoke show.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:09 PM
2

Background check will not reveal if he has a girlfriend or whatever boyfriend. Only legal status and addresses he lived or worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:55 AM
5

I'm talking solely from male perspective; I have no idea if women feel the same about it. I feel the same way about my own space. I loved having my own apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:57 PM
7

I also want to know what special treatment we get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:51 PM
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My dad does this all the time. What exactly is the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:40 AM
1

All my life. Men constantly shoot for the prettiest women, regardless of their own looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:40 AM
1

Do you have any friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:58 PM
1

I have no idea what dating is like for men, but it was easier in my 20s because everyone was single and in college. Like a buffet of cute people, no one was married yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:54 PM
1

I have done this, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:25 PM
4

Protect your emotions from what? You cannot live in a bubble, someone you love with eventually die. Life is not safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:02 PM
2

She could be on the spectrum and take things at face value
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:40 PM
2

"Even if her grandma was a whore," Dude, this cracked me up :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:13 PM
15

I have known men IRL who were choosing beggars and wanted big titty goth girls who were also submissive and hot and thin. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:11 PM
1

Log off for a bit, okay? OKely dokely!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:49 PM
1

This was just a rambling mess of opinions. None of it supported by proof. When someone disagrees with you, it's not because they are man-hating feminists or in denial, it could very well be that you are simply wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:43 PM
1

Such as...?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:26 PM
1

What uncomfortable reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:51 PM
2

How is it shit testing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:13 PM
9

She can't wear that dress, is she asking for attention? She can't hang out with those friends, they are annoying. She can't get enough to eat- is she trying to get fat? And that tone- better watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:09 PM
5

I am ok with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:03 PM
1

We are a weird bunch in my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:40 PM
1

Actually not a bad percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:15 PM
2

The only "average" people I've seen who seriously struggle to date are people who fall into the completely delusional category. I have witnessed this first hand. Lonely men who want a big titty goth girl who is also conservative and does not believe in western medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:14 PM
3

Well, I guess women are in a lot of sexless relationships. And they are fine with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:06 PM
26

Brazilian jiu-jitsu instructor (suspicious amount of time doing sex positions on men) honest LOL here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:00 PM
16

Clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:00 PM
1

How do you know this? My parents have been married 55 years. They get along ok, not miserable. Not bliss. Lots of couples just live like roommates and that is fine. Sometimes we expect too much out of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:59 PM
1

Upvote!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:57 PM
1

So would you date an ugly girl to give her a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:53 PM
1

So the other half live in bliss?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:49 PM
1

Perfect comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:48 AM
3

I remember things being stressful and I struggled with poverty for a couple years, but I had tons of friends and went on all sorts of adventures to different cities. As for dating though- not great. You mostly had to meet people at work, at church, or through hobbies...and the pickings were not impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:15 PM
3

Thus, the vast majority of men can expect to be able to pair up with a girl who is, for most men, somewhat lower in SMV rank than him. But not excessively lower. Is this what people do? Cute guys pair up with plain janes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:15 PM
10

keeping infrastructure working so women can do their spreadsheet jobs. I work in healthcare. Most of my coworkers are women. So glad that you never ever need medical help, Mr. Jeweler.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:56 PM
1

Or shooting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:17 PM
1

Go to church.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:09 PM
1

For example in my last relationship, my ex gained weight, he was 7 years old and he aged, he did not look the way he did when we met I really, really hope this is a typo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:27 PM
1

I have never once seen this happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:37 PM
23

I am 51 and I never settled either. Why would anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:34 PM
1

TIL I am dating Chadpreet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:32 PM
1

Constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:36 PM
1

If you hung out with conservative religious people it would be clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:33 PM
1

I paraphrased what you said in a reasonable way, and you didn't like it. Do you enjoy when other people put words in your mouth to straw man your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:03 PM
1

Women are more religious than men, religious women want marriage so they can have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:59 PM
4

Dismissively saying there's someone for everyone is incredibly callous and does nothing to address the actual problems faced by physically unattractive men. Except I never said there is someone for everyone. Quote me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:51 PM
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We women all have different types we find hot. Some gals like blonde men with button noses, but I find that yucky. I like dark ethnic men with big noses, but my friends think that is gross. See how it works?I only find a small percentage of men to be sexy, my pals find a separate percentage to be yummy, it all works out. We are not going for the same dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:10 PM
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What's wrong with having high standards? I met the love of my life at age 44. If I had aimed for the drain as you seem to think is fitting, I would never have met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:50 PM
-1

Yup, this is what I observed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:37 PM
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What's up with guys who do this? It's not a gendered issue. People who look desperate or needy are annoying. When you start to act normal you are more appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:54 PM
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Good comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:52 PM
2

This tracks with my experience. No one cares if you're divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:39 AM
1

I would say Church usually does not discriminate them It's not done out of meanness or snobbery, it's just that all the moms invite other moms to hang out with the kids. The kids play together, why would they invite a childless woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:53 PM
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What she told me is that women look down on her. Not men. She said that women view her as a lesser woman because she never had kids. This is especially true in church circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:18 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:50 PM
1

I have been on and off BC my adult life due to health problems. My partner is still sexy to me, regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:48 PM
1

I’ve been told I’m not a real women because I have smaller breasts. Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:13 PM
1

Holy shit you really do not know what asexual reproduction is. Google exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:07 PM
1

This is reality and you can't change it. You using logical fallacies is a reality now. Sex does not drive everything is life. Asexual reproduction is a thing that far predates sex. Lots of species reproduce asexually. Plus your claim was not that sex is a main driving force, but that it drives EVERYTHING in life. Your overreaching belief is flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:50 PM
1

So what? You have failed to prove that sex drives everything in life. I am heading to the grocery store, but weirdly- not to have sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:34 PM
1

“Sex drives all things in life.” Um, no. There are other drives in life. Have you met asexuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:29 PM
1

Never change, Peacesquad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:17 PM
2

As the product of a single mother household I legitimately think it should've illegal, How would you enforce this law? Throw the kids in an orphanage and the mom in jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:15 PM
1

Just admit you lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:10 PM
1

plenty of sex. My mother included. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:07 PM
1

Did you read all that on a website?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:06 PM
1

Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:05 PM
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No safety net though. If you suddenly have to go to the hospital, you have to pay up front. No money? No surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:04 PM
5

I was a hottie with small boobs and I got teased mercilessly for not having a C cup. People are cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:01 PM
1

I got the same thing about being too skinny and having small boobs. Picky picky. And these guys were not lookers either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:58 PM
5

For glaring???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:51 PM
6

LOL resting bitch face is not going to get him fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:48 PM
1

It's not fair that a small percentage of hot women get to affect men's views on all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:42 PM
2

I never married. No one needs to rush it, date for several years and learn if you truly like the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:41 PM
2

Some people simply do not like each other. You can try every which way to hammer them into place and it won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:35 PM
1

Revisit the proposal when the alimony ends? Lifetime alimony. My sister got the same deal after her divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:20 PM
1

She turned down his proposal. What is he supposed to do, wait another 50 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:16 PM
1

She is about to get dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:14 PM
3

Great. If you want women to leave you alone, just glare at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:11 PM
1

But follow the logic all the way down- she can never have another serious boyfriend or get married or live together or anything for fear of losing alimony. That is like a prison built by her ex and she lives in a gilded cage. What an empty life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:09 PM
-2

"Hey OP check out this cute picture I took!" "OMG will you STOP with the flirting already?!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:00 PM
3

So you want women to completely ignore you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:27 PM
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Plus now he has to live in India or the Philippines and that is gonna suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:01 PM
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Have you noticed that everyone on Reddit is making seven figures?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:59 PM
2

But it's so...illogical...and from these people who claim to accept reality and hard truths. Why are they so willing to blame everyone else, society, women, Disney, who cares who else but never ever take accountability for their cruel opinions and vile speech?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:03 AM
1

I agree with you 100% and I am shocked by all the brown-nosing comments claiming "just world fallacy" when they are the ones who chase people away with their misanthropy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:46 AM
1

So would it be OK to teach them about gay relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:30 PM
5

I do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:44 PM
14

Teenagers are not going to make wise decisions about dating and love, it would do no good to lecture them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:46 PM
1

My sweet summer child...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:10 AM
9

It's simply a matter of women being forced to settle. Any proof of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:39 PM
3

Puh-lease. You know exactly what I meant- people are in love and ATTRACTED to each other and then things go awry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:49 PM
10

I have never witnessed it in RL. People start out in love and maybe things break down later, but they marry with good intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:10 PM
1

No, creepy is a description of behavior. It has nothing to do with looks or personal taste. A man could look like Ryan Gosling but if he stands around at the playground staring at kids and mumbling to himself that is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:33 PM
1

The thing is, if they actually believed their own hype about Chad and hypergamy and cock carousels, what would that say about human nature and the way we are designed? If this red pill crap were actually true, why would they care? The logical response would be to accept that all women are huge sluts and just...not mind. Accept that no one loves anyone else and vibe with it. Instead they claim to believe this nihilism and yet still complain and beg women to lower our standards. But ...how is that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:32 PM
5

someone choosing to be alone affects no one but themselves For every woman who chooses to be alone, there is one less man in a relationship. This should not affect our decision either way, but this is why the guys here are pissed at us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:32 PM
3

I live in a wealthy neighborhood with a huge pool. The people I see at the pool (I swim every single day) are all ages and all types. Here is what I noticed: East Asians are almost never fat. They rarely look jacked, but only one of them is overweight. They also walk a lot. South Asians are either skinny fat or fat, with few exceptions after college years. Again I know a couple Indians who are in shape in later life but most are not. There is only one black person at the pool, so cannot make gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 04:08 PM
1

What age group?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:17 PM
15

Nerd fandoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:17 PM
1

You regularly bring this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:54 PM
1

Why is the cut off so young? I got the man of my dreams at age 44.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:09 AM
1

There are red pill dudes who literally believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:08 AM
1

This is so sad...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:46 PM
1

How long has it been since she passed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:31 PM
3

I am sorry for your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:28 PM
1

Under what name?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:27 PM
1

Yeah, you used to debate Atlas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:51 PM
2

Exactly. You are mostly born with your personalty traits, society does not turn a leopard into a goldfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:45 PM
4

I know a couple MGTOWs in RL and that is red pill. One is a happy but lonely guy who does not hate women at all. Genuinely nice. The other is a hate-filled extremist who only dates men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:37 PM
2

No we were pretty equal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:35 PM
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"i wanted to make this post because i was reminded of a comment by a girl here sometime ago where she said that the guy cried so much she had a pack of tissues in her car and house specifically for caring for him , and she said she was still very attracted to him...then he got better and she was going through some difficulties and when she cried he peaced out of the relationship." That was me under my previous account. I bought the tissues for my car so he could cry all he needed and I thought n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:35 AM
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Jodi Arias?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:41 AM
1

All the male models and most of the chads I know are short.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:41 PM
1

True words.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:39 PM
3

Yep. I look back on all the guys I dated, and the worst ones were the insecure nerds. By a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:36 PM
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There is a subset of nerdy guys who are bitter and resentful and take it out on women. The only time I was physically abused by a boyfriend was the chinless engineering student who played DnD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:22 PM
1

This has not been my experience at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:49 PM
1

My boyfriend grew up in Kuwait. He taught me things in the kitchen that I should have figured out long ago. You may be onto something here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:55 PM
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I was raised in a churchy conservative environment so I was fed lies about how looks are shallow and you should ignore attraction, and it doesn't matter if he's a ditch digger as long as he has good character.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:39 PM
1

Upvote!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:36 PM
1

Did you bring a casserole?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:27 PM
1

Men bring ice. Or chips.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:16 PM
1

He is from Brazil. He his describing people he knows. It never sounds like people I know. I conclude people are different in Brazil.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:16 PM
1

Yeah, you can want whatever you want. I want a pony.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:08 PM
1

At a potluck, women bring better food.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:07 PM
1

Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:05 PM
1

I learn so much about Brazil.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:05 PM
1

Cute face? This is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:04 PM
1

So have I.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:24 PM
1

Blood types are proof of recent evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:10 PM
1

how is he more compatible with a 30 something woman who has dated for over 15 years, tired of playing game and just wants to settle down over a 19 year old virgin woman who just wants to explore and have fun? Neither. He should find a fellow nerd girl who is awkward and virginal and lonely at the same age as him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:57 PM
2

Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:50 PM
1

In ancient Greece this was solved by men going to prostitutes Um, not exactly...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:40 PM
3

Why would a man want to date a woman who Easy- just don't date that chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:11 PM
2

Yeah, and what are the odds of her coming after you later in life anyway? This is some weird fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:09 PM
1

If you are religious, you get to live together, have sex, and have children when married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:51 PM
1

Is it the Tampa office?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:53 PM
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They also tend to inject fillers in their faces. Correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:50 PM
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It’s why 83% of birds are observed to be monogamous. For the breeding season, yes. Then they break up. Few species like eagles mate for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:13 AM
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What about hypergamy? You guys all believe in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:45 AM
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She could be lying about her entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:41 AM
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the TRP guys are mostly gen Xers with muscles and guts No, most of the older guys left.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:29 PM
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Get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:07 PM
1

Do they smoke cigarettes?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:00 PM
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without finding at least one woman throwing a tantrum nowadays... Every time you visit the mall???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:12 PM
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Elliot had worse problems than autism. I read his entire manifesto and the guy was a megalomaniac.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:06 PM
1

Accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:54 PM
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Upvote!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:40 PM
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I could live on a vegetarian diet for a long ass time, but vegan? No chance. Milk and cheese are life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:35 PM
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I beg of you please try and drink tea the correct way at least once in your life. You mean the Indian way?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:32 PM
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"No dairy" is a dealbreaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:31 PM
1

Where can someone get free boob surgery? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:53 PM
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If you're truly over someone, you don't think about them at all anymore. It might not be love, it could be a grudge. But I agree that zen-like apathy is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:34 PM
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It's been estimated that approximately 1.6 % of adults in the United States struggle with BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:16 PM
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than those women throwing tantrums in malls because they wanna buy something above what they can afford.. What decade do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:35 AM
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Seconding this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:31 AM
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We met online.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:04 AM
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Love languages were made up by a Christian self-help book. Total crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:46 PM
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Still, you didn't answer it. How do you bring him "happiness"? Imagine you meet someone who makes every day of your life happier and you smile whenever you remember their name. You cannot wait to call them on the phone or drive over and visit, and you replay the memories in your head for months and laugh at the inside jokes when no one is around. Just the idea of this person is fan-freakin-tastic but being with them is next level. There is literally no downside. The thought of harm or death to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:36 PM
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And what do you offer a man exactly? More happiness than he knows what to do with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:29 PM
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I could go on and on about this subject. See, there are Boob Men who had no interest in me at all because of my chest size. That's their choice, but I also keep an eye on Facebook to see where they end up. I also knew more than one guy with extreme right-wing views who felt no need to hide their horrible opinions...all of them ended up alone. You can be picky if you want, but the term "choosing beggars" applies to these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:00 PM
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It was a long time ago, he was 30 and a virgin with no dating history but was good looking and a guitarist. He had weird far-right ideas and did not trust science or medicine so that probably scared people off, as it was pretty unusual in 1997. I had a crush on him and wanted to be his girlfriend (and bear in mind I looked like a model) and he turned me down because my boobs were too small and I was not goth or submissive and I believed women should be able to vote. He was nice about it but it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:45 PM
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why can’t I, a 23 year old in shape be able to find someone who’s also in decent shape and around the same age as me? My only options shouldn’t be older and overweight women. Have you tried dating men? I hear they are easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:15 PM
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I can’t say I’ve met many men who have told me ‘no way would I date her, I’m holding out for my model who will surely appear any day now!!’ I have. They want a big titty goth girl who looks like me but with C cups.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:12 PM
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You can help men by having responsibility and doing your damn job. You spent decades claiming you want equality, but now that you have tons of rights, freedoms, and privileges, you’re trying to abandon men and boys entirely because helping us to not kill ourselves would infringe on your precious happiness. ...what?? I am doing my damn job. I literally owe no one anything. I am with my boyfriend because I love him, and he loves me. What is this screed about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:11 PM
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Why get surgery? Just be yourself and go find that foreign bride.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:52 PM
1

I swim every other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:50 PM
1

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:50 PM
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But I thought you guys wanted to be loved and desired for yourselves and not your provisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:41 PM
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I know a guy who got his wife from Hong Kong. They met through a Christian matchmaking service and got married. She lives here, they seem happy on Facebook. When I say this guy is unattractive I am being kind...he was never going to get a girl in America. Seeing that they are still together after all these years, good on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:40 PM
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So get going then. What's stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:37 PM
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