| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 21 | "Women Are Warning Creators About The TikTok Silhouette Challenge"I had to report content similar to this when I was scrolling on my fyp page. Someone made around 11 videos and they had over 30K followers for the same videos. In which they had a TikTok star and removed a bit of their clothing without removing the tattoo that was on her body. He then selected all her clothes - in order to remove (but didn’t) He got reported and luckily they took it down and removed his account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:28 PM |
| 26 | You ladies need to watch this movie! So chilling, so triggering, so relatable and so so so well done but also heartbreaking!! This is why FDS is important! They also shaded libfem with the whole men wanting a good girl and anal. 100/10 must watch!I had to skip the ending because I just didn’t want to watch it. The overall ending was great although it would have been better if she followed her stream of becoming a doctor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:15 AM |
| 48 | This is what porn and pedo culture does...I just tried it too, not one image of little girls. Everything sexualised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:00 AM |
| 2 | His comment may be satirical but it doesn’t sit down well at all!Thank you for explaining this, I didn’t know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:59 PM |
| 54 | His comment may be satirical but it doesn’t sit down well at all!Exactly that’s what I was thinking then everyone in the comments was laughing and saying it’s “satirical” except it isn’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 03:57 PM |
| 91 | Why girl, why?!You should have sent her the screenshots because you might not know he may be doing it with other women and it’s not fair on her because they aren’t “in a relationship”, if he does this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:42 AM |
| 23 | We are high maintenance because we maintenance ourselves not menShe does it in a few days, I haven’t watched them all :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:11 AM |
| 9 | The child actor in the pictures is 12 year old now, she was around 7-8 when the movie was released. But look at the thousands of men "excited" At her being a beautiful pre-teen because she's a female..... There are a lot more pedophiles than we can guess. Gross gross gross.I can’t believe she has grown up so much from that movie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 08:53 PM |
| 26 | It’s a trapFactssss 100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:01 PM |
| 1 | What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of?I like memes and screenshots of recognising LVM behaviour. It just helps to identify LV traits. Umm, I do like quotes uplifting ones. I’m not a fan of woman engaging in long conversations with LVM. Just block them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Period. 👸🏾👸🏼👸🏽👸🏿👸🏻Makes more sense - thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 08:05 PM |
| -1 | Period. 👸🏾👸🏼👸🏽👸🏿👸🏻As much as I agree with this. I did comment on FDS about this and got told that it’s better if men approach you because it shows they are interested? They both contradict 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Pickmeshas, assemble! (Seriously, they love their psychotic jail lvms.)Was it that J Brozanda guy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:37 PM |
| 11 | And this, my wonderful Queens, is why we don’t do house dates.You shouldn’t even be at his house for a second date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:05 PM |
| 5 | Just watched American Murder: The Family Next DoorI just watched the documentary. He literally seemed like a psychopath. He lacked so much emotion, even when his mother was on the stand. He wasn’t crying or balling his eyes out. During the interrogation, he seemed so laid back. He kills his pregnant wife and two children because she wanted full custody. Only to message Nichol and plan a future with her. He could have planned a future with Nichol by divorcing his wife and letting her be alive with their children. What kind of monster is he? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:40 AM |
| 13 | Just saw this on IG and this is so sad. I still can't belive it how horrible some men are.I honestly would call the police or slap them. I’m so tired that they think are entitled all the bloody time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:04 PM |
| 66 | “To be honest, I just want to f*ck this girl to prove to myself I can, and move on with my life. I’m determined to make this happen” - Ugly scrote wants help manipulating a “9/10” woman 🙄It’s gross how he treats her like something that needs to be owned rather than a person. He talks only about her physical appearance and sex and that’s just it. Nothing nice. He doesn’t talk about her personality, manners or what he likes personality wise. It’s gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 11:50 PM |
| 16 | Nahh, she went on a second date with this guy 🤢I was thinking this too but I couldn’t tell if she was being serious or not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:43 AM |
| 3 | I literally got downvoted and told not to kinkshame because i said i never had rape fantasies. (:(:This happened to me too, I got labelled for kink shaming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:13 AM |
| 1 | This has to stop. The bar is SO low for men!He will love you for 9 months and not care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:09 AM |
| 80 | Nahh, she went on a second date with this guy 🤢It’s worst in the comments. 99% is about “what did you use to clean these shoes? “What products did you use?” Only two people talked about him using her and she was like “no, he is very lovely” bruh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:49 AM |
| 25 | Nahh, she went on a second date with this guy 🤢Tell me about it, I was shocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:44 AM |
| 31 | Nahh, she went on a second date with this guy 🤢Everyone in the comments was asking what does she use to clean his shoes? Rather than why would you wash his shoes? He apparently went to a pub with his friends and the next day went on a date wearing that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:44 AM |
| 2 | MOD UPDATE: No more LVM ex-boyfriend collages. They are all pretty much the same and we don't want LVM stank all over our subreddit. Effective immediately, any collages about substandard men will be removed.Can all the collages shift to r/femalelevelupstrategy It makes more sense for these collages to be there than here where dating advice is given Although they are great to look at, women and their goals. It’s almost spamming this subreddit - u/myousername | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:37 PM |
| 8 | Nope. He is not going to be my projectThis is cringe to read, I’m no ones mother | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:29 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, stop devaluing yourselves and shying away from proper dinner dates! A nice restaurant is not intimidating, a dinner date is not too much pressure, and if you really feel you don't want to eat a meal with someone, you shouldn't be accepting a date with him in the first place!So if a guy asks for a coffee date and a woman says no. Then the guy offers a dinner date, should she take it? Since previously he didn’t make an effort and now wants to? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:54 PM |
| 4 | I love how I can’t speak about how women feel uncomfortable, only for men to say it’s our fault.You know what I hate the most about this, is the fact that I expressed my opinion. Then I had men downvoting my comments and other men’s comments where they supported my views. They were so mean, trying to say men they have it worse because they go to war and commit suicide when I said women get raped and beaten. It can be seen as equal but women suffer way more. I got called a spoiled brat and entitled just for calling out how “visual creatures” is all nonsense. They try to justify it as “biolo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 2 | I love how I can’t speak about how women feel uncomfortable, only for men to say it’s our fault.I got down voted for this comment, where I said women can dress modestly and still get unwanted attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:23 PM |
| 11 | I love how I can’t speak about how women feel uncomfortable, only for men to say it’s our fault.Same, like thank you for telling me I should look like garbage. I can’t even dress up nicely for myself, it has to be for them, doesn’t it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Same here, I was trying to make a comment and couldn’t. I tried linking a link but couldn’t do it via the app. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:56 PM |
| 7 | Does this excuse grown men staring at young teenage girls too?It got nearly 12k upvotes and then was removed as a low effort post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Does this excuse grown men staring at young teenage girls too?There is everything wrong with it though. You wouldn’t see girls doing it the way men do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:07 AM |
| 6 | Feeling guilty when men (people) are nice and treat me decent?I feel sad when men are nice because a majority of them are not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:35 AM |
| 3 | This is a girl I went to high school with..That is yuck 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:25 PM |
| 4 | If this isn’t how my boyfriend reacts, I don’t want itThis is so adorable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:33 PM |
| 9 | Just rewatched “Dexter”, and realized that a literal serial killer is more datable than 95% of men on OLDYou have a point Dexter never did anything bad and always valued and protected his family | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:49 PM |
| 41 | She didn’t lie.Lmao 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:27 AM |
| 3 | For any fans of Gone Girl - Doctor Foster is a great drama series on Netflix/BBC with same vibeI wouldn’t recommend Doctor Foster. The main character, the doctor herself does get abused and tries to uncover her husbands lie. Except she comes across as really needy and indecisive and she is all set for revenge and trying to ruin Kate/Katie’s relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:24 AM |
| 17 | and feel attacked when you ask for anything moreThey don’t even give the “bare minimum”, they give the barest of the bare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 09:00 PM |
| 5 | I May Destroy YouIt was really sad when he locked her out and pulled a gun on her when she needed his support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:51 PM |
| 16 | LVM and shavingIt’s kind of weird because if you leave it unshaved the hair starts to irritate you and when you do shave it irritates you/grows faster than anything. If a guy doesn’t mind then that’s totally good, but it’s up to you, not the guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 12:25 AM |
| 8 | This makes me sick to my stomach. I hope she broke up with him and got a better boyfriend.That’s so horrible, frankly disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:58 PM |
| 3 | This was on an askmen thread about former players explaining why they finally decided to settle down. Guys... we are not responsible for “filling your void”. Fill it on your own first and stop making us do your emotional labor. Using women for sex as a way to fill it is not appropriate“I knew really early on that she was my lobster” 😂 Cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:04 AM |
| 101 | Maybe means no. Men will move mountains if you're important to them. Don't settle.I was literally going to post this but my app is buggy. It shows how he is willing to travel rather than some men who won’t even go to the corner shop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:46 PM |
| 19 | Wife finds a strangers hairs on shower wall multiple times, husband pretends he doesn't know where they came from. Predictably, half the comments side with the husband, saying that the hairs are obviously from the air vents/street/a stranger secretly living in their attic. Full post in comments.I read this one too, I wish she would describe the hair strand because if it isn’t hers then at least she would know that some girl is over at her place because she did mention that it’s when she is out of her house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 09:52 PM |
| 42 | I don’t know where they even get this idea from - no one makes fun of Men’s Mental HealthExactly, it’s probably their own friends or even family members. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 06:34 PM |
| 11 | Dont ever settle for guys that aren’t proud to show you off🤦🏽♀️She’s so pretty and he goes around posting his friends and other girls. Like wth? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Men don’t see beyond their own pleasureIs this a bbc documentary? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 12:31 AM |
| 5 | I’m a bi woman, and a pickme just violated meMaybe you should report her account? Just in case she tries it again. It’s not fair that she states herself as lesbian and then goes “oh no I am not a lesbian”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 12:47 AM |
| 42 | This guy I barely know bought me a birthday gift/ is wayyy too into meI think he may be too clingy, even with the idea of both of you. You may want to be firm and set it straight with him. If he doesn’t listen, then ignore or block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 12:40 AM |
| 9 | I'm too petty to receive dick pics.Please say you sent those images to his relatives and friends lmao 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 12:28 AM |
| 5 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.This needs to be pinned at the top. How are these subs even getting banned? Is there no way mods can challenge this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:34 AM |
| 86 | It's hard to feel sorry for Khloe when she's the biggest pickme out thereI was going to post this but seriously it’s not like he has changed. How are you constantly going back to a guy who cheated on you and doesn’t you give an ounce of respect? Plus she wanted him as a sperm donation for another child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 05:50 PM |
| 30 | I’m sorry they feel this way but it’s not like women don’t acknowledge men, we obviously know they are humans. But they do need to be called out for their crappy behaviour because women can’t always tolerate their crap attitude.I don’t even know of any girl who won’t respect a man because he cries or has a mental health issue. Any girl would appreciate a guy. The problem is that men seem to uphold societal rules and then have a go at women. No one is telling them to but you literally can’t have a go at women when they have been conditioned to look after men like a mother. If it bothers you so much that a women or girl is shaming you for not being manly enough then dump her. Not even to be mean or anything but a majorit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 10:07 PM |
| 26 | It never gets better does it? Fetish after fetishNext thing it would be sex with the fridge 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 01:33 AM |
| 3 | When you send a LVM manchild to the grocery store...Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 07:30 PM |
| 16 | Louder for the people in the back please!!Sometimes I feel as if boys can be mature if they were taught from an early age that they should be more responsible. Society lets it slip and makes females carry their weight. If from a young age they were taught about sexism, how to treat girls properly and clean and cook. Then it could make a difference. Girls are taught this from a young age by society and parents. But few teach this to boys which is why they get away with it! I also hate the fact that many girls are extremely mature and the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 01:07 AM |
| 19 | “Boys will be boys” my A$$Exactly! I am so glad she called out his behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 12:06 AM |
| 15 | “Boys will be boys” my A$$I don’t know 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 11:21 PM |
| 26 | “Boys will be boys” my A$$But did he really mean the apology? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 11:11 PM |
| 23 | I had to post this with a message on SC! In the end, they got divorced. It was an unstable relationship from the beginning!I don’t know, I just wouldn’t recommend it. She talks about her life for 25 minutes and gives only 5 minutes of actual advice. I seriously wouldn’t recommend because she displayed serious pickme behaviours! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 12:48 AM |
| 29 | I had to post this with a message on SC! In the end, they got divorced. It was an unstable relationship from the beginning!I’m 19 myself and could believe she allowed herself to be subjected to this kind of behaviour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:56 PM |
| 111 | You don’t get a trophy for doing the bare minimumHonestly though, this is what a man should be like. No ifs or buts. If they don’t cheat or don’t cook and they suddenly do, it doesn’t make them special. It’s basic sense! I feel as if a majority of guys are like this and think they are special just because they don’t cheat or etc. People don’t applaud women for not cheating or treating men equally, but it’s okay for men? No, it’s common sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 08:25 PM |
| 47 | He made a lot of points even for hetero girls 😂 “who would want to be attracted to walking trash!”Sometimes I wish I was a lesbian at times | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 12:27 AM |
| 6 | Advice on marriageWhat are Bounders and Tailor’s Dummies? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 04:17 PM |
| 7 | Gf stays in shape, bakes for him, and has sex whenever he wants and he still insults her...and she wonders if she should stay!!u/throwRA2937392un | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Men don't do anything they don't want to do and it can disappear from one day to the next. Keep your standards high, see how his actions match his words, if he is making time for you, if he is reaching out to you, and if he's consistent in your life. Weed out the LVM wearing a HVM mask!That meme is so true though, when we cry me are trash they cry back calling us trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 02:23 PM |
| 7 | 🤡That was actually me at one point lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:31 PM |
| 50 | This is why you must have separate accounts even if you think he's a HVM. You can never be too sure.Wow he thinks he is entitled?!? Like no! He wouldn’t share his inheritance with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 12:42 AM |
| 6 | A man tweeting that getting rape is something women should take pride in because it means men are risking their lives in jail to sleep with us. This is utterly disgusting.Please say he got deleted and banned | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 10:39 PM |
| 26 | I would just leave the sheets and himExactly, I thought he didn’t go to sex education or something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:05 PM |
| 4 | #BoysLockerRoom: The Troubling Conversation Between Delhi Teens Allegedly Talking About 'Rape'Neha Kakkar sexualises songs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 03:30 PM |
| 12 | #BoysLockerRoom: The Troubling Conversation Between Delhi Teens Allegedly Talking About 'Rape'Apparently they swap images on Reddit too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 02:31 PM |
| 7 | Husband stalked wife until she married him, but she had no idea... this gave me the CREEPSI don’t know why she doesn’t feel betrayed or shocked? If I heard something like this I would be devastated! She wanted a relationship so badly that she is STILL seeing Dave through those rose tinted glasses. I’m so baffled! She needs a divorce and custody. Let Dave mourn over his heartbreak. This is disgusting. He would create accounts and break her self-esteem only so she could chose him. Also why is it that nearly every relationship advice post is getting locked? It’s happening so frequent. A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:02 PM |
| 5 | This makes me so angry that if you aren’t ready to move on then don’t get into a relationship. If you can’t commit/make people aware you are in a relationship.It’s so messed up. I can’t believe how she is letting her BF treat her like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 12:13 AM |
| 27 | This makes me so angry that if you aren’t ready to move on then don’t get into a relationship. If you can’t commit/make people aware you are in a relationship.The problem is that 3 weeks ago she posted saying how her BF is face timing his ex and told her (OP) to “shhhh” and would not tell his ex about her. So horrible. Edit: he cheated on his ex with OP and claims that him and OP were together for “14 years”. So that makes it okay for him to keep her a secret?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 11:05 PM |
| 38 | Retired PornStar Lisa Ann says the demand for extreme hardcore porn is pushing veterans out of the industry. Pornographers now rely on drugging young amateur women and forcing them into things during filming by surprise that they did not agree to, because experienced porn stars won't do it.Disgusting, people should just quit working for the industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 02:09 PM |
| 2 | How to escape the Pickme MentalityVery helpful, I was going to a post related to this. Thanks for the advice it really helped! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay for a man to be selfish with the others, while being a HVM with his girlfriend?I ask myself this question sometimes. Based on my own experience, this isn’t a good sign. I used to like someone who would always be nice to his female friends, his Gf, and his GF’s friends. But when it came to me it was the opposite. I always said, that if I have a BF and he treated me like a queen but can’t do that to other girls (give them respect, help them) then I wouldn’t be happy. If I see him being mean or unkind to another female then I would tell him off. I would also apologise to them… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 12:43 AM |
| 2 | How to detach yourself from male validation?Tagged you in a post which covers validation in another post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 01:14 AM |
| 63 | Alternate title: Dear PickmeishaTo be honest everyone makes that mistake in their life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Low self esteem is dangerous, as evidenced in Tiger KingWhat’s this tv shows name? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 02:35 PM |
| 1 | I feel so sorry for this woman. Her husband cheats in front of her with a girl he used to love and now she turns up after being missing for 10 years trying to weave herself in their relationshipI feel as if the whole post is a lie now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 12:40 AM |
| 64 | At least she sees his true coloursI told her to dump him because he could have just left the medicine on her porch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 02:03 AM |
| 5 | So tempting but so not worth the aggroIt’s funny how they always talk about women liking bad guys and how they should go for “nice guys”. Like nice guys aren’t always “nice”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 01:03 AM |
| 12 | 🚩REMINDER: NEVER PAY ANY ATTENTION TO MALES WHO HAVE EVER PAID FOR SEX/WENT TO A STRIP CLUB🚩This guy is gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 06:27 PM |
| 3 | I feel so sorry for this woman. Her husband cheats in front of her with a girl he used to love and now she turns up after being missing for 10 years trying to weave herself in their relationshipI think it dates back to last year when she was found. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 03:19 AM |
| 10 | I feel so sorry for this woman. Her husband cheats in front of her with a girl he used to love and now she turns up after being missing for 10 years trying to weave herself in their relationshipTo be honest though, if he was grieving then he shouldn’t have dated. He should have healed first and decided what he wanted. The reason he was in therapy and got better was because of his wife. He chose to date OP and marry her and have a child. He wasn’t forced to make choices. But this one is just sad. It shows how he never really moved on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:15 PM |
| 4 | I feel so sorry for this woman. Her husband cheats in front of her with a girl he used to love and now she turns up after being missing for 10 years trying to weave herself in their relationshipMy heart hurts to even think what it would be like for all of them. Sarah does need therapy and she can’t rely on someone’s husband all the time. I just hope he stays with his wife because 10 years does change someone. He is prioritising Sarah over his own wife and baby. It’s a terrible situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 10:55 PM |
| 12 | I feel so sorry for this woman. Her husband cheats in front of her with a girl he used to love and now she turns up after being missing for 10 years trying to weave herself in their relationshipSarah kissed him. But either way they both did it and he didn’t say no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 06:43 PM |
| 5 | I feel so sorry for this woman. Her husband cheats in front of her with a girl he used to love and now she turns up after being missing for 10 years trying to weave herself in their relationshipThis is debatable though. Yes I agree it sucks for Sarah but she has no right to turn Jacob and the wife’s marriage up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 06:41 PM |
| 16 | I feel so sorry for this woman. Her husband cheats in front of her with a girl he used to love and now she turns up after being missing for 10 years trying to weave herself in their relationshipIt sucks because he cheated on her and she is purposefully doing this to the wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 06:36 PM |
| 38 | I feel so sorry for this woman. Her husband cheats in front of her with a girl he used to love and now she turns up after being missing for 10 years trying to weave herself in their relationshipIt’s not her fault at all! But even though I don’t want to say this, she has to either leave him for her own health because if he did love her then he wouldn’t have cheated. Or he has to leave Sarah. My heart actually goes out for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 06:25 PM |
| 70 | I feel so sorry for this woman. Her husband cheats in front of her with a girl he used to love and now she turns up after being missing for 10 years trying to weave herself in their relationshipOriginal text: My husband's ex-girlfriend was kidnapped and disappeared 10 years ago. Now she's back and wants a relationship with him again. He's says he's "not sure", and he's still in love with her. Some of this story can be easily found on news articles so I need to be vague. sorry. This is the background that I've been told: when my husband (let's call him Jacob) was a freshman in college he met "Sarah" one of his classmates. They fell deeply in love and dated for four years. She was appare… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 06:18 PM |
| 3 | This is actually quite sad. her husband has a fur kink addictionThank you 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 11:56 AM |
| 9 | This is actually quite sad. her husband has a fur kink addictionFull post link, https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ffkvd1/my_husband_has_sex_with_stuffed_animals_and_i/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 01:29 AM |
| 23 | It’s quite disrespectful in my opinionIn this case it’s one mistake against hundreds of situations where he has been nice I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:37 AM |
| 99 | It’s quite disrespectful in my opinionOne person mentioned to dump him and she said no because he “apologised”. Plus, he is her “best friend” and etc. That comment got downvoted for when a user mentioned leaving him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:17 AM |
| 217 | It’s quite disrespectful in my opinionIt just degrades her to be honest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:15 AM |
| 47 | It’s quite disrespectful in my opinionShe’s indenial | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:04 AM |
| 115 | It’s quite disrespectful in my opinionHe wouldn’t like it and have a go at her. It’s shocking because the comments support her and the comments saying it is “disrespectful” and that she “should dump him” are downvoted to the bottom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:02 AM |
| 45 | It’s quite disrespectful in my opinionShe’s completely in denial in the comments and to top it off she’s protecting him because he “apologised” and brought her “flowers”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:01 AM |
| 1 | A weird thing about feelingsYour amazing for posting this. Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 03:10 AM |
| 11 | The treatment of this girl is intolerable - is she a butthole for not attending her bf's wedding, yall?I know, I outed him as YTA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 02:23 PM |
| 27 | The treatment of this girl is intolerable - is she a butthole for not attending her bf's wedding, yall?You should have read the one where this brother refused to invite his brothers GF because her family wouldn’t accept his brother as her BF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 02:07 PM |
| 11 | The more and I more I adopt key FDS strategies the more I am able to see how the systemic acceptance of male depravity continues to permeate our relationships when we let them. Another one-sided AITA post for your viewing pleasureShe should, but I guess because she has a lot of debts to pay off she wouldn’t be able to provide much whereas he can. They both seem so incompatible and she sounds a bit immature to be honest, by disregarding his behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:11 AM |
| 8 | The more and I more I adopt key FDS strategies the more I am able to see how the systemic acceptance of male depravity continues to permeate our relationships when we let them. Another one-sided AITA post for your viewing pleasureShe is enabling his behaviour which is gross to be honest. She knows she needs sleep and tells him and he doesn’t do anything. She works all day and can’t sleep and her own guy can’t even understand this. Now he starts to sulk for no reason just because she doesn’t listen to her. She should just leave him, he can’t tell the kids off. He can’t even respect her space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:49 AM |
| 48 | The more and I more I adopt key FDS strategies the more I am able to see how the systemic acceptance of male depravity continues to permeate our relationships when we let them. Another one-sided AITA post for your viewing pleasure“He is 20+ years older than me so I’m dealing with a generational gap of WHAT is appropriate father duties.” Quoted from original thread I would like to point out that many comments highlighted him “gaslighting” her. They both come across as incompatible to be honest. She decided to get off reddit because people were “villianizing” her husband. She points out how she has to stay at home and can’t go on vacation because she feels “guilty” about leaving the kids whereas “he doesn’t feel guilty”. A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:46 AM |
| 5 | Classic example of how a LVM traps a woman into falling for him. She's highly insecure about herself while she's in a relationship with him and yet she stays because he makes her feel validated and "seen."Try finding her on Twitter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 02:04 PM |
| 0 | Okay JonathanFound this in r/choosingbeggars | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Angel shotI think the OP should actually mention this because it’s wrong to throw him around for the abuse he went through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:38 AM |
| 5 | Angel shotIf you read the original post, you would have read the part about how his date kept talking about the snuff industry. He was abused by his ex where she would force him to watch these things! If he felt uncomfortable and left then he had a right to leave. If she was bringing past trauma up then he can leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Angel shotIt wasn’t like that. He was abused by his ex GF and his tinder date kept making him uncomfortable by talking about the snuff industry. His ex would abuse him and his date kept talking about her interests in snuff. So he felt uncomfortable and felt creeped out. I think that because he got abused and his date wouldn’t stir away from the topic it made him very uncomfortable. He ordered an Angel Shot for this shot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Angel shotI read this post yesterday, the original one. He mentioned how she looked like her profile picture, except he was abused by his ex GF something about the snuff industry and not letting him go out and abusing him. So his tinder date kept stirring the convo to her liking snuff industry stuff. So he felt uncomfortable and was getting PTSD or something. So he ordered an Angel Shot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:11 AM |
| 5 | Be in love with yourself 💮I second this quote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Take NO SHIT from men. (Explanation in comments)Exactly, we hold their cards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 07:52 PM |
| 11 | Dumped my HVM that turned into a LVM via email today. And blocked him. His response....predictably LVM. hahaha.I don’t think OP knew his boss monitors emails otherwise she could have texted him and called him, but he probably was wasting her time and energy so much that she was done with him. He would have tried and justified himself through a phone call and in person and taken more energy out of her. As for texting, he probably wouldn’t have bothered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 07:33 PM |
| 20 | FDS approved 😉Yep, some guys just don’t recognise it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:59 PM |
| 6 | I've noticed that I go after physical validation from "attractive" men as a way to try and compensate for past rejection. The novel.I have the same problem except it’s more to do with wanting validation to keep me happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 01:25 AM |
| 4 | Why a lot of white men REALLY hate it when white women date ethnicI have to second this! I’m not white but I know that when I go outside I get a lot of MOC looking at me. Especially because I am tan skinned, I hate it when boys the same ethnicity as me look at me like they own me. I find it really disgusting. I also feel as if white men find it easier to chose WOC. My friend from two years ago is also tan skinned and her ex was white. So when they broke up she said how hard it is to get a white guy because they go for attractive white women. I mostly have a pr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:59 PM |
| 43 | Imagine being in a relationship with this guy 💩I read this post, I remember reading one earlier where this 17 year old BF wouldn’t be nice to his GF because she was on her period. The original OP for that post also mentioned how he doesn’t go near her when she is on her period too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:44 PM |
| 5 | He did something thoughtful for me.That’s so cute | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 07:02 PM |
| 3 | A man can wear suits, have a decent career, have enough money and still be LVM!Exactly, respect is more valued when you can receive it and return it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 05:06 PM |
| 2 | I really want to ask this man if he has a job because how do you have so much time to tweet about this BULLSHIT!!??!I am proud to be an Aquarius, excluding toxicity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 12:12 AM |
| 54 | For every woman who thinks she "doesn't deserve" a high value man.I needed this post today :) thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 09:09 PM |
| 2 | DollyIt’s a quote from a book, she just talks about how she lets herself be used by someone that doesn’t care for her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 02:05 AM |
| 34 | My biggest regret is having "boyfriends" in my 20s. Don't do it.I honestly don’t know what to say lol. I am 18 and the stuff I had to hear, i would be like why? Their was this guy who had a GF and he loved her, then why are you flirting with other girls? This other guy would constantly give attention to this girl who later on became his GF. They break up for like a week and he is already talking to my other friend about how he wants her to come over to his house! Then this other guy, it wasn’t even 48 hours that his Gf broke up with him. He asks my friend fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 07:51 PM |
| 51 | My biggest regret is having "boyfriends" in my 20s. Don't do it.I have to agree with this. Many people my age are like this. I read how relationships are romanticised in movies and that’s why we want it. I think most youngsters especially at my age (18) don’t understand this post at all. They get crushes and want a relationship because it’s lovey dovey. I am like this 101% like this. Even my teachers would agree saying how boys want sex and how they aren’t good at this age. I never understood what was meant by this until I went to a mixed school. I had guys … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 07:31 PM |
| 1 | What do you all think of the content in the female dating strategy sub?I’m late on this, but being on that forum and a female. I have to disagree with some of their rules. They have a rule where a woman shouldn’t have to pay for her dates and that the man should always pay. I disagree as I always believe in splitting the bill as I am no-ones responsibility. Some of the content they post are relatable and good as it helps users with their situation, a more knock me in reality. However, they come across as entitled and how they should be treated as queens. I can unde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 08:35 PM |
| 13 | Take your time.Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 05:12 PM |
| 3 | I don’t know who needs to hear this, but: if you let him disrespect you once, the disrespect will never stop101% true, they will continue to disrespect you and when you tell them not to, they don’t listen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 04:26 PM |
| 37 | This sub didn't make me hate men. Men did.“They may be "good" to their friends and family (even their female friends and family) but that does not mean he is good to the women he wants to take from. I'm sure this normal, average man was a great son and a good friend. But he's still fucking awful to women he doesn't care about. Behind every "good man" is a string of women he used and discarded when they didn't benefit him.” This!! ☝️ I can’t tell you how this one is so relatable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 04:11 PM |
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