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| 90 | The latest WHO report about the prevalence of sexual assaults perpetrated against women sparked a conversation in regards to what would the actual numbers be if we counted the unreported cases. So ladies of FDS please vote on this poll so we can see the sats within this community for comparison | TRIGGER WARNING | FastCardiologist6128 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:43 AM |
| 15 | Watch pickme take a tiktok completely out of context to advocate for men who are against kinky sex and are afraid of false allegations | PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME | FastCardiologist6128 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Why some men want to hurt us? | RANT | FastCardiologist6128 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 01:23 PM |
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| 4 | For guys who’ve used red pill tactics on innocent/inexperienced girls – do you feel guilt now?Good for you for growing out of it, but I want to assure you that I don't think you have traumatized anyone or hurt people badly. There's some respill minded guys out there who have literally caused deep damage to other people's mental health and caused some girls to become depressed and to become afraid of dating men | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/25 01:01 PM |
| 5 | For guys who’ve used red pill tactics on innocent/inexperienced girls – do you feel guilt now?The victim mentality is what makes people think they're "nice guys". | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/25 07:49 AM |
| 0 | I ruined my life by being horrible to women. Where do I go from here?Op can I pm you? I have some questions | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/24 07:20 AM |
| -7 | I ruined my life by being horrible to women. Where do I go from here?Why did you black out parts of the post, I can't even see what you did | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/24 06:50 AM |
| 6 | My personality type will never be popular with women, and I have hard time coping with thatMaybe he feels comfortable being who he is but wishes he had the confidence to be like the people he envies and doesn't feel like he has the self esteem necessary to be like that, Idk | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/24 08:13 PM |
| 7 | My personality type will never be popular with women, and I have hard time coping with thatHe said he really likes who he is. He doesn't want to be a social butterfly but wishes he didn't have to be one to be appreciated. But op doesn't know that some girls like nerdy quiet guys. Especially nerdy quiet girls | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/24 07:37 PM |
| 9 | Why The Red Pill Is NOT For Asian MenDark triad hateful people tend to be both sexist and racist. Redpill groups are full of mean people who lack pro social attitudes | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/24 07:03 PM |
| 35 | Genuinely curious, what’s obsession with women and sex?Sometimes I feel like men want sex more for the egoboost and validation than for the act itself | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/24 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled?Why are the women getting a good deal? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled?You can trust my ability to rate. I am telling you genuine 9s. I was shocked as well when I realized they were sleeping with them. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/24 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled?No they don't fuck ugly women those that I know. They genuinely sleep with 9s and 10s, I have seen it with my eyes. They do not have women approaching them tho | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/24 01:32 PM |
| 23 | I’m trauma bonded to a red pill guy who pressed charges against meFind a therapist specialized in abusive relationships and trauma, explain everything to them and in case of legal problems they will back you up | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/24 05:13 PM |
| 15 | Watching how dating works for my friends has been black pilling meThe last paragraph is straight facts, I needed that too today | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/24 10:35 PM |
| 20 | Lowkey wish I was a womanWhat you don't realize is that if you're dependant on another person for money, that person can do anything: cheat, ignore you, treat you badly and you'll have to stfu or else you'll end up on the street. That's why women want to work | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/24 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Going to sex workers.Are you trolling? The disgust aspect? The fact that it's not really normal sex because it's not wanted and there is no attraction? Prostitutes have sky high rates of ptsd for a reason. Also women are not like men, we have a lower disgust threshold. And female prostitutes get slapped, they get hurt internally, they are treated with disrespect, violence, aggression, sadism | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/24 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Going to sex workers.Truth is you wouldn't like doing that for a living and in many moments you would feel violated | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/24 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Going to sex workers.Well if you would do it why don't you go be a prostitute? | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/24 08:36 AM |
| 0 | Going to sex workers.They are forced by poverty, drug addiction or fear of ending up on homeless. So even if a man is not physically forcing anything, the conditions of the prostitute are the gun pointed to her head. And sleeping with someone you are repulsed by can be traumatizing even for a man. Also without talking about the fact that many clients treat prostitutes horribly and are not careful to not hurt them | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/24 11:54 PM |
| 11 | Going to sex workers.You don't know the situation of the independent ones. Maybe they have a sick child or a sick relative and they need to pay for healthcare. Women don't get into prostitution because they like to have sex and if they do it's very very rare Not even men would want to be paid to go down on unattractive or old women, what makes you think that prostitutes actually want to sleep with men they are not attracted to in the slightest and who they often feel repulsion for? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/24 01:56 PM |
| 5 | Going to sex workers.Women don't want a guy who has been with sex workers because it's exploitation. Sex workers don't wanna sleep with you, you don't really have their consent | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/24 12:16 PM |
| 17 | I feel like the guys that exhibit the qualities that people talk about as bad and unattractive to women are the guys women want to be around the mostI think that people when they like someone they lie to themselves about who they really are and they idealize the person. I think it's human nature and everyone tends to do that. Just like men when they find a girl who is exactly their type and they ignore all red flags about her or they stay with her even if she is toxic. Or oftentimes those women who go with misoginists have internalized misoginy too and don't respect themselves. Kind of like the women who hang around andrew tate. Not every wo… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/24 12:31 PM |
| 24 | I feel like the guys that exhibit the qualities that people talk about as bad and unattractive to women are the guys women want to be around the mostThey all pretend to not be misoginists when around women, someone with a charachter like that is also going to be fake and manipulative. Also you are a woman's type, without even being that attractive, even just charisma and intelligence can make her interested, because ugly misoginists can still get women as long as they are funny and interesting. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/24 12:25 PM |
| 26 | I feel like the guys that exhibit the qualities that people talk about as bad and unattractive to women are the guys women want to be around the mostThey can have sex but they can not keep relationships because they are the type of men that women get tired of and divorce due to them being insufferable and selfish. But for short term things if they are hot, confident and smooth, that will be enough. Also they are good at pretending to not be misoginistic when around women | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/24 10:53 AM |
| 13 | Red pillers are going InsanePsychedelic drugs fried his brain. The people around him are using him for clout instead of stopping him | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/24 08:32 PM |
| 29 | Contradiction I’ve noticedIn short they are just hypocrytes, aka the people that the Bible warns against 2 timothy 3 For people will love only themselves and their money. They will be boastful and proud, scoffing at God, disobedient to their parents, and ungrateful. They will consider nothing sacred. 3 They will be unloving and unforgiving; they will slander others and have no self-control. They will be cruel and hate what is good. 4 They will betray their friends, be reckless, be puffed up with pride, and love pleasure … | /r/ExRedPill | 22/05/24 12:41 AM |
| 3 | How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women?That's true | /r/ExRedPill | 14/05/24 01:41 AM |
| 7 | How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women?This for some reason reminded me of Jon Zherka who always talked about hating OF girls and then he fell in love with a girl who is (his words) the opposite of what he wants in a woman. I think that this is a human thing. Maybe a certain person won't be chosen for something serious but humans feel attraction based on mostly looks | /r/ExRedPill | 14/05/24 01:22 AM |
| 11 | I feel bad for not being attracted to my girlfriend and I don't really understand what I'm doing wrongYou are being selfish. If you want companionship you can get friends. What is the point of being in a relationship where you don't even want to have intercourse. The guy from the "nevergiveup" youtube channel was able to get two relationships and he just got married with an attractive girl. Are you less attractive than him? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/24 06:16 PM |
| 9 | I feel bad for not being attracted to my girlfriend and I don't really understand what I'm doing wrongYou have no other option but to break up. Even unattractive people are very attracted to each other in relationships, even people with disabilities. You can't be with a person you don't desire to have sex with. This woman deserves someone who is actually going to be attracted to her and you deserve someone you actually want to sleep with multiple times a day. This is not normal | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/24 04:52 PM |
| 7 | When can I say it is 100% my looksIf you're ugly it's gonna be a numbers game for you and you're gonna have to relax your standards. There is one for you, but you have to find her within your range | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/24 02:53 PM |
| 14 | Honestly, I'm beginning to lose sympathy for my female friends when they get mistreated by attractive menThis happens with both genders. Also your friends are getting manipulated by men who are approaching them first. Your friends are not going around chasing after men out of their league, they are getting hit on and then manipulated. And nobody decides who they are attracted to. If they would be able to physically be attracted to an ugly guy with a good personality, they would probably be with one right now. It's not their fault they can't be attracted to them and have no desire for them. Just lik… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/24 02:08 PM |
| 16 | Struggling with an ex and leaving red pill philosophy behindWhat would redpill change? A person either loves you or they don't, nobody can control the feelings of others or often their own feelings. Let it unfold, you'll be ok, we can't choose who loves us | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/24 05:17 PM |
| 35 | Reading r/nothowgirlswork , and r/twoxchromosomes subreddit makes me feel like shit and angry and I don’t know why.Remember that the anger that those women express comes 100% from a place of hurt, not of contempt towards men. They were not born man haters. They just grew up and lived in a misoginistic world and became bitter because of it. I have been hurt too, but I know there are good men out there and I know that people can change id they want to. You can message me if you need to talk | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/24 06:02 AM |
| 47 | Reading r/nothowgirlswork , and r/twoxchromosomes subreddit makes me feel like shit and angry and I don’t know why.Lol I'm a hardcore radical feminist but I love you bro, I have made my mistakes in the past too, everyone makes mistakes, we live and we learn. At the end of the day feminists are against the patriarchy, not men and the patriarchy hurts men too by making them believe that their worth is in their material assets and many other things. I think the real enemy is not men or women but evil and individualism and we need to work together against that. We are all people with our hardships and dreams reg… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/24 05:59 AM |
| 63 | Reading r/nothowgirlswork , and r/twoxchromosomes subreddit makes me feel like shit and angry and I don’t know why.You are trying to get better. As long as you are a good person, empathic and understanding, no good woman will ever shame you or look down on you. Start identifying yourself as a good man and not "one of those guys" that they complain about. Become better and reject who you were in the past, so you won't feel like the things they say apply to you | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/24 05:40 AM |
| 3 | I would caution people here against saying that men here are unable to get laid or dates because they're misogynisticNo not necessarily. You can really like yourself as a person and think highly of yourself while still being kind to everyone and not thinking you are superior to anyone | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/24 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled?Maybe you're right maybe I should have worded that differently. Don't know how you got all that from a comment tho | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled?I never told him he is evil, I told him that becoming evil won't solve anything. I don't think some people are inherently evil, I think there are evil behaviors and evil choices. Also guilt is good. It keeps you from hurting others, it is a mechanism of self regulation. Evil definitely exists and thinking that there is no good and evil is an antisocial thought because it goes against the unwritten rules of civilized societies. Back in the day committing evil things would have meant being expelle… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/24 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled?Good ans evil doesn't exist yeah right lol | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/24 05:37 PM |
| 34 | I would caution people here against saying that men here are unable to get laid or dates because they're misogynisticIt's not that women overlook misoginy, it's that the average woman is very naive to how misoginistic men her age can be. So a lot of girls just assume that the guys they like are not misoginists, because they don't want them to be. But they can change their mind on a guy once they see his true colors, no matter how much she likes him. Also I think that confidence matters a lot and usually arrogant misoginistic men have lots of it. You could build their same skills and confidence within you, minu… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/24 04:09 AM |
| 3 | The "Liberal Andrew Tate"There are some youtubers like that, one of them is noel deyzel, another is dry creek wrangler school, then there's a frew others whose names I can't remember | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/24 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Why is confidence so much more important than other good traits like humor, kindness,etc. when it comes to dating?It works with them too if they are in love of course. It's just when someone is hot and cold and you get addicted to the intermittent reinforcement | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/24 10:18 PM |
| 0 | Why is confidence so much more important than other good traits like humor, kindness,etc. when it comes to dating?I despise them with all my soul, I genuinely don't understand what was wrong with the comment. I have only been attracted to 3 people in my life | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/24 10:14 PM |
| -3 | Why is confidence so much more important than other good traits like humor, kindness,etc. when it comes to dating?I was speaking from my experience as a girl... What you mean | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/24 09:43 PM |
| -11 | Why is confidence so much more important than other good traits like humor, kindness,etc. when it comes to dating?Also I think it is way easier to feel sexual attraction towards confident people and most women are attracted to very few men, so when a woman feels attraction to someone, it's a rare occurrence and they check for personality as a second thought. But often by the time they figure out the guy has a bad personality, they are already infatuated and addicted/chemically bonded | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/24 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Why is confidence so much more important than other good traits like humor, kindness,etc. when it comes to dating?In my opinion it has to do with attraction and perceived value of the other person. Even men often prefer a mid woman who is popular and confident to an insecure pretty girl who doesn't dress well and is seen as a loser. The human psyche is weird and gets tricked easily, it's the same with marketing: people would rather buy a low quality product who has a lot of hype around it and good marketing than a high quality product that is boring and doesn't appear special. People don't only need to be a… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/24 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Is Gerbert Johnson good or bad?No he is not toxic, I have been watching his videos since the start. He has empathy for women | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/24 07:01 PM |
| 0 | I have a very difficult time believing that the reason so many men struggle is because of their personality.? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/24 02:54 AM |
| 7 | I have a very difficult time believing that the reason so many men struggle is because of their personality.Exactly but it's not only about being a good person, it's about charisma and social skills too. And it's like that for everyone, men and women | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/24 08:44 PM |
| -10 | I have a very difficult time believing that the reason so many men struggle is because of their personality.You are right to feel gaslighted. Because the vast majority of people don't choose others solely based on a good personality. Even if they like to pretend that they do because they want to virtue signal | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/24 07:37 PM |
| 13 | I have a very difficult time believing that the reason so many men struggle is because of their personality.The thing is that douchebags might even have many options but they would rarely be able to make a healthy relationship last if they have a bad personality. Men who are both hot and kind with a good personality can have success for both short term and long term relationships. Men who are unattractive but kind will have success with long term relationships And men who are unattractive and with a bad personality won't have success in short term or long term relationships | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/24 07:11 PM |
| -32 | I have a very difficult time believing that the reason so many men struggle is because of their personality.You should read evolution of desire by david buss. There is actually research explaining how most men and women act. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/24 07:07 PM |
| 34 | I have a very difficult time believing that the reason so many men struggle is because of their personality.What you don't understand is that they are hot and charismatic and they have social capital. If a man is not hot and doesn't have social capital, he can't have a bad personality if he wants a woman, because without a good personality he would have literally nothing to offer. Imagine if a woman went around saying that she needs to be a bitch because bitches get all the men. It's not that mean girls get all the men. Hot girls get many men wether they have a good personality or a bad personality be… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/24 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Who is the worst red pill YouTuber in your opinion? If you can list top five or even the top 10. If you want you can also explain why.Yea he's unethical, can't stand him, he seems evil | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/24 09:42 PM |
| 4 | Who is the worst red pill YouTuber in your opinion? If you can list top five or even the top 10. If you want you can also explain why.She sucks for sure but I think there are people who are way more damaging than her. She is not even taken seriously by most. It's funny that this is the most upvoted answer, it seems like ex redpills can stop believing in redpill ideas but they can't stop hating women lol | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/24 11:03 AM |
| 19 | Who is the worst red pill YouTuber in your opinion? If you can list top five or even the top 10. If you want you can also explain why.Hamza (Promotes abusive attitudes in relationships and is abusive according to his exes) The tates (They are sociopathic pimps besides having 100s of other problems) Orion from psychacks (Extremely creepy vibes, bad advice that most certified therapists would disagree with, promotes a mentality that gets people to see their partner as an adversary not a trusted friend) J waller (Narcissistic and immature asf, can't win arguments, contraddicts himself, is a hypocrite and you can tell he is insecu… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/24 12:42 AM |
| 10 | How to stop weird and paranoid feelings about women? (No superficial advice, please)Yea there is even research demonstrating it if you google it. That's why to me the demonization of women as these evil beings and the redpill as a whole is just a bunch of lies. Then of course many women are horrible people too and you need to vet them well, but on average according to research men tend to be meaner and with lower empathy. I wish you the best my bro | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/24 09:04 PM |
| 7 | How to stop weird and paranoid feelings about women? (No superficial advice, please)Women on average are less likely to treat men they don't like in a mean way. Men are way more mean towards people based on their looks and you can see that even just from being online. You will rarely see women insulting a guy for his looks on social media unless he has done bad things and is a bad person. Unattractive women can get treated horribly by men. While unattractive men can still be the funny nerdy guy that as a girl you will befriend if he is kind. I strongly suggest you watch the tik… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/24 07:51 PM |
| 11 | How to stop weird and paranoid feelings about women? (No superficial advice, please)If you are a good person on the inside and you have empathy for women and respect them, you can admire and appreciate their beauty in a respectful manner. Maybe that feeling comes from having been rejected in the past. Getting female friends that appreciate you for your sense of humor and your personality might help overcome that feeling | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/24 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Did you have unrealistic or idealistic standards about women before you became a redpiller?Idk if assertive is the right term tho, you just needed to pursue girls and ask them out | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/24 02:58 PM |
| 1 | The biggest red pill contradiction about women’s happinessWhat's that? Just common sense? lol | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/24 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Did you have unrealistic or idealistic standards about women before you became a redpiller?People develop interest for charismatic and interesting individuals but they stay for the niceness. Being nice alone has never gotten anyone anything, dating still has to do with attraction. Just like being nice and boring won't get you any friends automatically. And that goes for both men and women. If you are a nice girl and that's all there is to you, few people will care | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/24 01:34 PM |
| 9 | Are women less romantic than men?High standards for looks maybe but not for charachter | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/24 11:21 AM |
| 12 | Are women less romantic than men?Women also do a lot in relationships but it's not paying for things do it's not really easy to identify and quantify. Women take care of men emotionally, they take care of them and spoil them without having to buy things | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/24 11:13 AM |
| 19 | Are women less romantic than men?Many women divorce their husbands because they both work full time but the woman is expected to do most of the house work and child care. They feel like they are being used and they lose feelings | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/24 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?Ok I have found another one of those healthy bdsm people. I can tell that you are not problematic, but I feel like so many doms out there if not most of them are actually abusers who say that they do it because the other person likes it. I have had a guy push aggressive things on me without asking and it genuinely traumatized me, but he had experiences with girls who enjoyed it so he acted like I was making a big deal out of the situation. He bit me hard and pulled my hair without my consent and… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?Yea and what's worrying is that these people are pushed to have a lot of casual sex but at the same time they are made to think that promiscuous women are the most horrible beings on earth. So imagine them sleeping with tens of girls and traumatizing every single one of them. Good thing most of of them are too socially awkward to actually become players because otherwise they would destroy society. Their girlfriends tho will have to deal with them | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?Yea I think that abusers in the last 2 decades have started to get into bdsm in order to indulge in their desire to hurt others without consequences and without having to feel like they are bad people. Bdsm now for many is just a way of expressing their toxic masculinity through violence against a sexual partner. Also porn has desensitized people to seeing women being treated like objects through hair pulling, slapping and degrading positions and acts. And it never shows the woman reciprocating … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?Oh you probably enjoy the adrenaline that pain gives you. You are one of those who actually follows original bdsm ideas before they were influenced by porn and misoginy. Interesting, I would definitely say that masochism is not something most people have as a trait tho, so consent and asking first is everything | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?Do you think you would ever have developed a desire for rough things if you would have never had access to porn? Also why do you think you like it, does it make you feel more wanted? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 06:52 AM |
| 5 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?Men like you who oppose this depravity remind me that some of you are loveable and not all men are unempathetic arrogant npcs who hate women. Thank you for restoring my faith in men | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 06:34 AM |
| 3 | Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go?Why would you want to deal with a man who enjoys hitting women tho? Doesn't it bother you that he is not repulsed by it? As a girl I never liked it, it makes me intensely enraged when someone tries to overpower me or diminish me. I do like to be manhandled but lovingly and not in a bossy way. I think bdsm is not compatible with feminism | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/24 06:05 AM |
| 6 | Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled?And you fuck up your life and reputation in the process and you hurt people who don't deserve it, which would make you a shit human besides being a loser. What does a man gain if he gains the world but loses his soul... | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/24 06:30 PM |
| 5 | Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled?Yes women sleep with dudes who are attractive in their eyes. Women don't find only the top 20% of men attractive. Women find 20% of men attractive and that percentage contains different men for any woman, they are not all attracted to the same 20%, you know what I mean?. Also many women sleep with mid men because they're afraid they would catch feelings if they slept with someone more attractive. Or women sometimes want to feel like they have the upper hand and they are levels above the guy they… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/02/24 02:59 PM |
| 15 | Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled?The feelings of guilt personally would mess my brain up. Hurting others would hurt me. I think maybe you have problems with feeling empathy and that can cause many bad problems in relationships. Have you ever done a dark triad/dark tetrad test online? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/24 05:45 AM |
| 12 | I need help having empathy for womenThey meant that maybe you have problems with empathy in general, not only towards women. But you can always develop it | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/24 05:42 AM |
| 22 | Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled?I think you misunderstood. It makes me feel good to be a specific kind of person, that's not what gives me a happy life. Treating people like shit would not make me happy about myself. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/24 05:37 AM |
| 8 | Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled?I can attest to this. Many attractive men are not promiscuous while many mid men are. To be a player you literally just need to be mid | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/24 03:18 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled?Bro I know some men who have slept casually with many girls and they have been heartbroken like 3 times and cheated on because they had bad luck and found toxic girls. Yes they had sex with random girls, but I can tell you they are not happy. I see them posting depressed redpill quotes on their instagram stories. One of them posted an olivia rodrigo song 🤣 another posted a tiktok that said that men love unconditionally while women love conditionally (not true btw). Like fuckboys are not all that… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/24 03:13 AM |
| 17 | Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled?Promiscuous women don't even go with the most attractive men many times, I can assure you of that. I worked as a promoter in night clubs and I have personally seen some of the least attractive players in human society. If you saw them you would think that they get no girls. Spoiler they still do, because they hit on everything that moves and they are relentless and they have clout and are popular and confident. And many promiscuous women have way lower standards than you would think. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/24 03:03 AM |
| 7 | Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled?I'll help you out, here's what you need to do: look for successful ugly/unattractive men who have sky high confidence and are successful. One of them is James Fallon the psychopath who is a researcher. Then there are: lewis capaldi, ed sheeran, ethan slater who is now with ariana grande, benny blanco who is with selena gomez, nav (rapper), dj khaleed, david dobrick (not attractive at all to me, migh be to others), casey neistat, gary vee, emrata ex boyfriend (who cheated on her with other models… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/24 02:54 AM |
| 36 | Why is it that anti-incel subs make me feel even more black pilled?Becoming evil won't make you like the people you envy. You won't achieve any power through evil. What you mean "causing us to no longer see a reason to be a good person anymore". Bro you are not supposed to be a good person to gain something back from the world. You are supposed to be a good person because you have morals and that is who you are happy to be. If someone needs reasons and external motivation to be a good person, then they were never a good person to begin with. There are plenty of… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/24 02:30 AM |
| 2 | When you subscribed to the red pill, did you hate women, or were you merely skeptical of them and their motives? [Gynoskepsis vs. misogyny: an important distinction in analysing red pill and manosphere men]Remember that the women who lose respect if their man is showing emotions, also lose respect for their female friends for showing emotions. And those women also have a hard time consoling children and being affectionate in general. And they are that way because they were not allowed to show emotions themselves growing up and they developed a mindset of being disgusted by anything that in their mind is "weak". They are not good people, they usually are the kind of women who brag about being mean.… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/23 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Are most women really attracted to dominant "alpha males"?We like men who are both strong and altruistic and empathic and who protect the weak. We are attracted to positive masculinity. Someone who is powerful and has the respect of others but who is also compassionate, understanding, helpful and humble | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/23 09:39 PM |
| 3 | If women want their male partners to be more vulnerable, why is it that there are so many stories of men who opened up and were ridiculed/dumped/cheated on soon after?I am a girl and I have had female friends treat me differently after seeing me cry lol, there are many women who weren't allowed to cry when they were little and they internalized that crying equals being weak. So they will have contempt for every person they see crying, thinking they must be weak. And some men do this too and they take advantage of women they deem weak Just don't go with emotionally stunted people or people who lack empathy and morals and you will be good | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/23 12:48 AM |
| 11 | Why would women want to be monogamous?Women are not interested in sleeping around as much as men. We only want one guy and we will choose the best one according to our subjective parameters. I am trying to understand what isn't clear to you specifically | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Idolization of Dark Triad Personality TypesIt's like selling your soul to the devil in hopes that girls will pay more attention to you. You will only attract equally messed up people doing so | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/22 12:29 PM |
| 72 | Jimmy Kimmel segment where men struggle to answer the most basic questions about their girlfriends. Ladies, never settle for someone who doesn't take an active interest in your life.Useless humans | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:09 PM |
| 8 | Apparently even ancient Rabbis didn’t have time for thirsty dudes and their nonsense"he says he needs it or he'll die" -Ashniko | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 06:13 PM |
| 26 | Ever notice after a lifetime of loyal pampering, Pickmes are still abandoned by their sons in old age?It's what happens when you raise brats. This is why we have to deal with abusers and rapists, bc of pickme moms and disgusting lv dads | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:47 AM |
| 139 | A personal realization: why losers leave during cancer.The rate is 20%, I guess we could safely assume that 1 in 5 men marries bc he wants a sex-maid-birther and not bc he wants a best friend and life companion. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:41 AM |
| 66 | A personal realization: why losers leave during cancer.They be out there marrying women who they only see as objects and slaves and thinking they're good people with morals. Lot of dudes are going to hell just for the way they treat women, I'm sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:37 AM |
| 10 | A man will insist it’s “not all men” until he has a daughter. Suddenly it’s ALL men he wants to protect her from. Which is it, scrotes?Interesting, can you elaborate more on how men are more prone to slipping inti narcissistic behaviors towards women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:28 AM |
| 13 | The lowest of the low, that I've never thought possibleVery well said sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:23 AM |
| 9 | 2 days ago our haters said we would never get Gail Dines on the Podcast and we all laughed because the episode was already recorded and scheduled to be released today. Haters gonna hate while FDS just keeps winning! 📈🚀🧗♀️The revolution is coming, we are legion, fear us, expect us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:20 AM |
| 1 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.Lilith is there a way we can have all your post history on a file or something? Those posts were probably very precious for the whole community. We want them ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:14 AM |
| 14 | Why do we always have to prove we don't hate men?When they're accusing us of hating men, they're projecting the fact that they hate women. Like when a cheater accuses6you of cheating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:13 PM |
| 17 | I'm out of words. I was skeptical about "They won't even like you yet they will stay with you for s#x", but this has over thousand upvotes and no one judged him for this.In a world with wars, illnesses, natural disasters, death, mental illness, to them nothing matters more than sex. Zero morals whatsoever, who tf raised these people, the devil himself? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:06 PM |
| 83 | I'm out of words. I was skeptical about "They won't even like you yet they will stay with you for s#x", but this has over thousand upvotes and no one judged him for this.They don't even realize the damage they do, nobody holds them accountable for using women and it's something that hopefully one day will be deemed unacceptable and will be included as a form of abuse towards women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 03:56 PM |
| 7 | TW: Hot take, liberal feminism and the glorification of "Sex work" will signficiantly increase the number of woman mental health issues/suicides in the next 5-10 years.Also girls remember to kee your social media pics not too explicit bc even that will be used against you and against your reputation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 03:00 AM |
| 5 | I regret giving back my diamond engagement ring after the divorceI think the idea was from when men went to war and lost their lives, so their wife could find another man to support her during those 3 months | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 02:47 AM |
| 5 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeAnd remember that a HVM can help you move up with your carreer and pay for your expenses while you put in the work and change the trajectory of your life as well but for the better. Be smart ladies, the ones who survive are the ones who are strategic in their choices. Always be very careful, especially since your quality of life, happiness and mental health depends on your choice of a man. Back when we were hunters and gatherers, the women who didn't chose their men right wouldn't survive or the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 02:36 AM |
| 1 | And that’s the 🍵👀Then they wanna come at women when they actually follow through with what our hypersexualized culture pressures them to do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 09:16 PM |
| 2 | If a guy has a high "body count" he is probably a rapist.Is it malta? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 08:07 PM |
| 9 | If a guy has a high "body count" he is probably a rapist.Men who have more sex are also more obsessed with porn (therefore their addiction is to a point where they have to watch extremely violent things to feel something) Also sociosexuality is a personality trait correlated with the dark triad. So he will be more narcissistic, machiavellian and psychopathic. Stay away from men with high bodycounts, they don't see women as people. Bc a man who sees women as people desires relationships more and finds them more fulfilling. Men who enjoy casual sex enjo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 08:05 PM |
| 6 | Men are more responsive to women's facial expressions than our actual words.A dude wouldn't listen to me if I told him no while laughing or smiling, only if I told him with a worried or distressed face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:52 PM |
| 24 | If I see one more beautiful woman with an ugly man, I'm going to screamYes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 11:43 PM |
| 11 | Saw this a while back in another sub and thought it would be at home here..Evil doesn't have to be overt and intentional, it can manifest as a consequence of somebody's selfishness and lack of care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 11:35 PM |
| 8 | How do you deal with the cognitive dissonance?Be as pure as a dove and as wise as a snake 🕊️🐍😉😘😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 11:37 PM |
| 10 | And this is why you demand more for yourself and set clear boundaries and expectationsYou have to remember that pickmes get brainwashed into competing with other women and into beeing exactly what she is. It's still not completely her fault, remember that the enemy here is patriarchy not brainwashed pickmes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 09:09 AM |
| 18 | Ready to commit and then they bail (AKA THE REASON TO DATE MULTIPLE MEN AT ONCE AND PROPERLY VET)Very insightful although I personally wouldn't date multiple men at once bc that makes me feel like I need a man at all costs and like I absolutely need to find a boyfriend. I don't and that is why I don't get attached even if I'm dating one man at a time, bc I feel good by myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:18 AM |
| 27 | How to detach from men you have crushes onSis just go on combined birth control pills, that shot will make you asexual and lose all your crushes. That shit worked for me, it only took a month | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Violence against women is pandemic. In 2020, 163 million Google searches for 'how to hit a woman so no one knows'. Meanwhile, we masked, vaxxed, and stayed at home for 84 million confirmed covid cases. Treat men like they are diseased and depraved until proven otherwise.People started living like that only after the first industrial revolution | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:12 PM |
| 110 | Don’t call him a HVM too soon. Someone who says/does the right things can also be a wolf in sheep’s skin. TW: sexual assaultThe title of hvm should be hard to gain and very easy to lose. One wrong thing and it shows that every other good thing was a lie. Bc you never truly know somebody until you know how bad they can get. This is why we judge people on the worst things they are capable of doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:26 PM |
| 6 | Yes ladies. It's OUR fault.They've been brainwashed, don't be too hard on them, we aren't getting out of this by having no empathy for each other | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 12:03 AM |
| 11 | Yes ladies. It's OUR fault.Fuck sexual liberalism honestly, it's just the patriarchy acting all quirky and woke but it's still the patriarchy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 11:36 PM |
| 10 | Yes ladies. It's OUR fault.They gaslighted us into thinking we need their validation. When they actually need ours bc we can live perfectly happy by ourselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 11:26 PM |
| 43 | Nothing but factsAlso yeah, a lot of men think that just bc we are the gatekeepers of sex and we have that kind of power and we can get privileges with our looks then we live life on easy mode... I want to cry just thinking about the fact that a lot of them seriously think like this. God help us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 11:10 PM |
| 66 | Nothing but factsBEEING USED FOR YOUR BODY IS WORSE THAN BEEING USED FOR YOUR MONEY. LESSGOOOO TELL EM TELL EM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 11:07 PM |
| 13 | What are your dealbreakers in terms of looks?That's crazy i really like men with thiccc hands and fingers and I don't like it when his hands are too slim, preferences really do vary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 10:42 PM |
| 253 | Watch The Way Men Treat Women They're Not Attracted ToI consider myself a decently pretty girl, but I grew into my looks and started liking myself only around 17-18 I was a late bloomer and didn't have hips or boobs until 16 years old. So I was always the ugly friend for quite a bit and was able to experience the shift of attitude in men. And it fucking disgusts me. Bc I'm still the same person. Back then I did nothing in order to get treated with disrespect or ignored and now I'm not doing anything to deserve to be trated nicely. I feel like I hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 10:19 PM |
| 5 | Getting turned off by menIt's a good thing. Beeing less attracted to men means that we won't let our hornyness impair our judgement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 07:13 PM |
| 30 | I said what I said.One day people will have enough of this shit and we will hopefully change things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 01:08 PM |
| 9 | My "sex" story with an LVMGlad you got away after only one year, some people remain stuck for way longer. Wish you to heal in the best way possible girly ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 11:34 AM |
| 9 | On the idea that being intimidating to men is a lie women tell to justify their failure to bag a manIntimidating to them means: they have no leverage over you and they don't have anything they can dangle over your head to bribe sex out of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 08:45 AM |
| 21 | Stop normalizing pedophilic beauty standardsThank you, we need more protective grown women like you. I'm 19 and countless times when an older man would act inappropriate towards me, the older women I would talk to would react with jealousy and criticism towards me instead of protecting me and calling out the men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 12:25 PM |
| 5 | FDS PODCAST FIRST 30 DAYS RESULTS: we literally DOUBLED our goal of hitting 15k downloads in the first month. 🥳🎊🥂 Such a strong start, and a sign of a promising future! Special thanks to all you ladies who listened and shared!!! 💗💜💗💜💗💜💗💜Letsss goooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Just scrotes being scrotes 🤷♀️Girly be careful using your real self for your profile pic, you never know with these scrotes it's dangerous out here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Andrea Dworkin had it exactly right (quote from "Woman Hating")At 19 I can honestly say, I feel the same way. I love you all girls, thanks for beeing part of this safe space, I love seeing that I'm not alone in this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 06:39 PM |
| 24 | FDS isn’t about finding HVM. It’s about decentering men from our lives and centering ourselves instead.This should be like the preface to the handbook. Very well said girly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 09:34 PM |
| 264 | Not even surprisedThey are 10 times more likely actually. I just read the study: men get left in 2% of cases and women in 20% I guess we could say that 1 in 5 men isn't capable of unconditional love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 11:36 AM |
| 141 | How to find out if a man watches porn: it’s easier than you thinkthis is one of the best comments I've ever read on here. Yes, fds is not about gaining power over them and putting them in their place, it's about not wasting our energies and spending our time with the people who truly deserve us while ignoring everybody else | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 11:30 PM |
| 10 | I briefly dated an Italian guy and I would like to hear from you if what he shared is true or he was being subjective.Northern italian here. Here it's normal for people to love in their parents house up until they're in their 30s but it's like that for everyone, both men and women and somebody living with their parents is not an indicator of beeing low value, in fact my male friend who is the most hv and respectful person I know is 24 year old and still living with his parents while he finishes his studies. The people who move out usually do so to attend a university that's in another region or in another city.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 09:28 PM |
| 15 | There's so much to unpack from just once sentence.Somebody save her please she's literally distributing free sex to the scrotes in hopes of some validation from them. She needs our help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 09:03 PM |
| 37 | Ethan Klein: when men like this are considered good husbandsYes it was there's more than one video about it and the fact that he felt the need to tell that story I think is one of the most disrespectful things ever. And the crazy thing is that he married hila bc his mom pleaded him to bc she knew he wasn't going to get a better option bc he sucks. And he proposed to his wife with a ring that his mom gave him to convince him to propose | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 08:47 PM |
| 7 | How does a woman go from cheerful and carefree to overworked and boring? So hard to understand. Such a mystery. /sHe manages to be useless and entitled at the same time. A textbook manchild | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 07:19 PM |
| 46 | How can I know if a guy who is chasing me does not see me as a consolation prize?This is handbook worthy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Men that will not complay with the easiest of request to accommodate youIt's all about arrogance and disrespect and immaturity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 11:49 PM |
| 26 | Feeling a lot of regret and sadness about how little self-respect I used to haveGirl it's not your fault, you were brainwashed into acting like that. Most of us were In regards to dealing with the grief, the thing that will help the most is preventing other girls to go throught what you went through and stop the cycle of abuse. You can't change the past but you can heal from it by giving it a purpose. That purpose is helping other girls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 09:34 PM |
| 33 | The misunderstanding Men have with FDSHonestly tho I've read whole books on evolutionary psychology (most important one is "the evolution of desire") and very rarely men were fucking around, most human societies are based on the monogamous family unit and have been since forever, because that ensures the highest chances of survival of the offspring. Also most men were prone to be monogamous bc that ensured they would be the fathers of their offspring and ensured they would give their resources to the product of their genes and not s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:34 AM |
| 6 | He just ended things because I was making him wait for sex-only guys who don't respect you as a human being will resent you or think less of you for having boudaries- hard thruths 💗💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 09:42 PM |
| 72 | How to Maintain Boundaries During Relationships with Men (EW YUCK)On the last point: you can't be a good negotiator unless you're ready to walk away from the deal. Ladies the sea is full of fishes be ready to drop off that fish back into the sea as soon as he disrespects you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 08:39 PM |
| 46 | If he says Not All Men, he is exactly That Kind of Man.What they mean is: "All men are animalistic visual creatures who only see women as sex objects and are manipulative nimphomaniacs and it's expected that any guy that is nice to you and talks to you only wants sex from you, if you expect a dude to have actual empathy and feelings of care and concern for others, your standards are too high you'll end up alone. But not all men are killers and rapists, those are bad illegal things to do and we aren't all criminals, we are only twisted, entitled, arr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 07:56 PM |
| 135 | The misunderstanding Men have with FDSFds is women getting back in touch with their biological instincts that tell them to be selective men and not to trust any of them. The sexual liberation turned them into spoiled brats who got used to having free sex availabile to them at any time. And we're beginning to take that away from them, we're beginning to regain our power as the natural gatekeepers of sex and they hate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 07:45 PM |
| 40 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceIt's hard to save convinced pickmes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 12:18 PM |
| 5 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceMen constantly project on us and play the victims. Wich it what abusers do to take the attention off of them. We know we are right tho so we won't let them gaslight us, we are powerful and they're afraid of that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 12:16 PM |
| 134 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceAnd they dare to say our subreddit is useless. Here we are opening eyes and getting women out of bad relationships left and right day after day. You just have to filter posts through the fds success story flair | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 12:01 PM |
| 8 | The latest WHO report about the prevalence of sexual assaults perpetrated against women sparked a conversation in regards to what would the actual numbers be if we counted the unreported cases. So ladies of FDS please vote on this poll so we can see the sats within this community for comparisonYou're definitely not alone in this girly, so sorry you went through that, nobody ever should. But glad you figured it out. I would suggest to talk about it as much as you can with a trusted person or a therapist so you don't internalize any of it. I wish you to heal completely for this in the best way possibile💙 You deserve protection, concern, love and care from men. You didn't deserve to be disregarded and hurt like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 11:23 AM |
| 25 | The latest WHO report about the prevalence of sexual assaults perpetrated against women sparked a conversation in regards to what would the actual numbers be if we counted the unreported cases. So ladies of FDS please vote on this poll so we can see the sats within this community for comparisonGuys reminder: be honest when voting, the lurkers are ignoring this post and even if they were trying to mess with it we are still way more than them so their votes wouldn't count. It's very important that all the ladies vote properly ok? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:05 AM |
| 28 | The latest WHO report about the prevalence of sexual assaults perpetrated against women sparked a conversation in regards to what would the actual numbers be if we counted the unreported cases. So ladies of FDS please vote on this poll so we can see the sats within this community for comparisonanyways the ratio right now is at 62 yes and 19 no, if it changes too much then the lurkers are responsibile. That proportion already gives a pretty good idea, 3/4 women have answered yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:34 AM |
| 28 | The latest WHO report about the prevalence of sexual assaults perpetrated against women sparked a conversation in regards to what would the actual numbers be if we counted the unreported cases. So ladies of FDS please vote on this poll so we can see the sats within this community for comparisonis there a way to make it that way? I can modify or even repost it since it has been live only for 40 mins | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:27 AM |
| 2 | 1 in 3 Women subjected to physical or sexual violence in their lifetimei did the poll tell me what you think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:45 AM |
| 9 | Glad my tiktok shows me stuff like this. The comment section was also filled with supportive girls who all agreed!Yea I get what you mean girly. We kinda give the last two paragraphs for granted here, bc we have been saying again and again that rich doesn't equal high value | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 12:07 AM |
| 3 | 1 in 3 Women subjected to physical or sexual violence in their lifetimeyou know what? we should actually do a poll and have it pinned at the top of the page so that the most amount of women can vote. I'd be very very curious and it would be very very important, actually I might even make a post about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 11:56 PM |
| 105 | Glad my tiktok shows me stuff like this. The comment section was also filled with supportive girls who all agreed!of course of course as we always say HVM does't equal to rich man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 11:37 PM |
| 10 | Glad my tiktok shows me stuff like this. The comment section was also filled with supportive girls who all agreed!Anna bay is pretty chill in my opinion. Also it's natural for women to like men with money just like it's natural for men to like beautiful women. We aren't doing any of this with negative intentions keep in mind, we just want a dude who loves us and treats us very well and who we can throw all of our love at without fear of getting hurt. And rich men since they are less insecure, tend to be less bitter and more kind towards women, as long as they don't have a personality disorder that makes the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 11:34 PM |
| 6 | Article on Vice about FDS is laughably inaccurateThe woman who wrote this is too brainwashed, sad we couldn't save her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | What kind of twisted thinking is this? „If Sex Work wouldn‘t exist, men would be even more violent to women“ I‘m so tired of this BS that libfems spread to justify exploitation of women to „prevent“ more violenceThey don't wanna be treated as monsters and animals and they scream "not all men" then they come up with shit like this, pick a side | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 11:01 PM |
| 11 | Watch pickme take a tiktok completely out of context to advocate for men who are against kinky sex and are afraid of false allegationsSo let me explain real quick: the girl with red hair in the first tiktok is trying to talk about how men like kinky sex only when they're the ones initiating it, because they like to push boundaries and they like the sick validation they get from making a girl do uncomfortable semi violent things in bed. And this is a a thing we all know of here on fds. But then this other pickme tiktoker takes the video out of context and interprets it as this girl complaining because men don't wanna hit her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Men will date you while still looking for his wife ..Girl get that attention from good friends. Work on yourself until you stop feeling like you need validation from some dude it's not good for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:04 PM |
| 2 | About Chris D’elia’s ‘apology’ video.....That's right, he has to take accountability for at least some of thw things he did, he can't act like he was possessed by his addiction. A big part of it he chose to do. It's good that at least he publicly acknowledged what he did, hopefully more men realize that hookups are meaningless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 11:30 AM |
| 62 | Out of curiosity, what’s the special flavor of scrote from where you’re from?Nothern italy Small country towns: Stoners who are either into rap or techno and wear streetwear and the north face jackets and spend their free time going to clubs, smoking cigarettes and doing aperitivi in small shitty bars. They are usually hookup oriented and think having relationships is for simps. They have minimum wage jobs and they usually dropped out of highschool or they never went to college. They think they are the shit Big cities: Finance bros with a lot of family money who went to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 11:10 AM |
| 4 | I think I just lost some brain cells... this is possibly one of the dumbest things I’ve seen on the internet in a whileWhy do I feel like this was written by a pickme trying to rationalize why her lvm wouldn't reciprocate? She rationalized his diaregard for her by EmPaThiziNg with him and by convincing herself that he acted like that because he is a poor insecure oppressed dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:07 PM |
| 7 | Your Future in an Age Gap RelationshipIf the roles were inverted, she would have been dumped years ago smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 02:45 PM |
| 5 | "My husband and I perv on women together! Aren't we so quirky and unique!?" Bonus pickme points for saying the women should have talked to him first. Communication is key ladies! I highly doubt this was the first time she mentioned liking other women's pictures but okay.She had us in the first half... She could've been an fds queen, but no, she chose to be a pickme 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 02:39 PM |
| 3 | "My husband and I perv on women together! Aren't we so quirky and unique!?" Bonus pickme points for saying the women should have talked to him first. Communication is key ladies! I highly doubt this was the first time she mentioned liking other women's pictures but okay.It's who I am, I'm a horrible human, get over it. The entitlement, the depravity, the arrogance. He deserves lonelyness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 02:37 PM |
| 7 | I'll take my chancesLife's good ladies, don't let anybody ruin the fun for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 01:15 PM |
| 13 | Don't ever "sext" a man, even if it is only messages. Because if that man ever rapes you, he will print out those conversations and show them to police, and the police will dismiss your rape as "consensual"Very insightful, the common denominator in all of this is the lack of ability to see women as people with feelings and not intimidating enemies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 12:59 PM |
| 38 | Don't ever "sext" a man, even if it is only messages. Because if that man ever rapes you, he will print out those conversations and show them to police, and the police will dismiss your rape as "consensual"Literally nothing is consent. Only enthusiastic consent is consent. Everything else is rape. Inviting someone over, making out, not even foreplay is consent. And it isn't consensual especially when one of the two involved says no or opposes redistance. You can't trust the justice system and you can't trust men. You can only trust yourself for protection, therefore you need to take any precaution possibile and assume every man could be a rapist. Always assume the worst about people because if som… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 12:25 PM |
| 9 | Just finished this book and highly recommend to all my FDS queensTherapy will help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:00 PM |
| 17 | Cynics are LV and boringGirl no Fds is about staying positive and finding somebody that matches our positivity. You're doing it backwards. If he is a hvm you better treat that dude right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:54 PM |
| 39 | So glad to see women actually standing up for themselves. No means no.I thought the same. Guys who deliberately and randomly ask for casual blowjobs like degrading women. Imagine asking randomly to your dude to go down on you on command, like wtf you just wouldn't do that. This guy clearly saw his gf as a sex doll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:46 PM |
| 8 | Every time one of our stalker subreddits make a hate post about us, 👏 WE 👏 GET 👏 MORE 👏 SUBSCRIBERS 👏Lord wtf this worl is truly fucked up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:29 PM |
| 33 | Why do I feel like this fits here?That's what we are to some of them, iphones, once we break they get a new one and there's new ones always coming out. Ladies, we can do so much better in the way we select them, these men deserve to be forever alone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 10:48 AM |
| 28 | Why overt and extreme misogyny is a problem even for misogynists: It results in women being armed with knowledge misogynists never intended them to have (that they are openly hated, and they will be hated no matter what they do), and this activates women’s “jezebel” side.Any scenario will always be better than beeing stuck with a soul sucking NVM. Single and out there travelling, married with a hvm, single and with a nice network of friends, single and with a meaningful carreer. Literally any life scenario will make you happier than beeing with an abusive idiot, so do the best that you can do with your freedom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 10:15 AM |
| 97 | Men don’t degrade women they love #BringBackKinkShaming2021Some men love women in proportion to how much the woman does for them. Their love is conditional. If she ruins her body to give him kids, that's a big thing right? It makes him feel validated, therefore he loves her more. This is the typical thought process of people with narcissistic tendencies: loving people not for how amazing they are as people but for how much validation they bring. We are not people to some of them and their love is based on how much we can add to their life. A lot of them… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 07:15 AM |
| 54 | Men don’t degrade women they love #BringBackKinkShaming2021Yes, in general a hvm would never want to actively hurt anybody. Hvm are just not into rough sex, they don't have sadistic tendencies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:58 AM |
| 10 | If men were allowed to contribute their VITALLY IMPORTANT, MUST-BE-HEARD "dating advice" on FDS:The point is we are people too and our wants matter too. This is what they don't seem to get. Relationships are equal interactions between people. They act like the whole world revolves around them and only their needs should be taken in consideration, but we still need to pay 50/50 bc equality! Smh we clearly aren't equal and aren't seen as people, but we need to go dutch on the check? Yeah no bro | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:41 AM |
| 46 | It's not kink shaming; it's refusing to buy into the bullshit. It's calling out depravity that serves men while destroying the lives of women. It's rising up against a system of oppression every woman on earth is laboring under, due to no fault of our own.A lot of men are like this, they specifically go after siccessful women with the sole purpose of "domimating" them. Like how pathetic, real confident men don't feel the need to do things like these. Real healthy alpha males are protective towards women and like to take care of them. You have to have some real inferiority complexes to like treating women like this. Lvm things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:06 AM |
| 4 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessHopefully his wife realizes he's messed up before it's too late | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 01:56 PM |
| 10 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessGive this to her on my behalf please: 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 01:53 PM |
| 10 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessYou don't have to be the old cat lady, you can be the free woman who travels the world, has an amazing network of friends and works hard to make this world a better place. This is what fds is about, beeing cool as heck on our own. And unless you meet somebody who's as cool as you and who truly truly deeply cares about you and your wellbeeing, stay single and keep enjoying the amazing life that you have created for yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 01:44 PM |
| 267 | Why is mainstream dating advice like this?? 🤢🤢🤢Hi welcome to planet pickme how can we help you today? Oh he cheated on you twice and said he never loved you and used you for sex? No problem, here's 5 texts that will make him want to marry you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 02:09 AM |
| 16 | I recently saw my now 25 year old ex who lied to me, used me as a human fleshlight then dumped me (as in, asked me to leave immediately AFTER!) 4 years ago. He now needs to wear glasses and his hairline has receded 3 inches back. Isn't karma beautiful?A guy I was seeing did this to me once, I'm happy I didn't answer when he texted me asking to come to his place after he stopped talking to me for 1 month. He just showed me what intentions were by doing that, so I just dipped. Proud of myself for that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:06 PM |
| 18 | I recently saw my now 25 year old ex who lied to me, used me as a human fleshlight then dumped me (as in, asked me to leave immediately AFTER!) 4 years ago. He now needs to wear glasses and his hairline has receded 3 inches back. Isn't karma beautiful?A speck of dust 😂😂😂 i'm deaddd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:54 PM |
| 13 | Lets leave situationships in 2020!That's great advice! 🗡️♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:45 PM |
| 22 | I found this thing called MDS.This is just a mess, so many contraddiction and double standards. An actual MDS handbook could be condensed into these points: 1)be a genuine, positive, good loving person with interests and social circles, who takes good care of their appeareance 2)go to therapy, heal your past traumas and do self growth 3)look for women who are also good and who also do self growth and aren't looking to use you The worst things that can happen to them while dating is ending up with a woman that doesn't love tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:40 PM |
| 64 | Imagine playing the cool girl for a guy who talks about you like this. This is not an appropriate Valentine's date and I hope she leaves before they get marriedGirl just beeing able to love somebody makes you worthy of a hvm. Loving people should go together. Therefore if you are a person capable of love, you are worthy of a hvm and of love from others in general. Work on becoming a person that you like and respect, that way it will be easier to love yourself. Ask yourself who would you like to be as a person? That's what helped me build self love from scratch, hope it helps you too girly ❤️❤️ Stay positive and always chase growth and improvement, the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 09:54 PM |
| 249 | Imagine playing the cool girl for a guy who talks about you like this. This is not an appropriate Valentine's date and I hope she leaves before they get marriedYou see? It's not that they have more respect for good looking women, it's that they know they can't smash them if they don't treat them well. But if they were sure that a good looking woman wouldn't leave them (maybe because she had low self esteem, no self respect or was very dependent) they would still treat her like shit. The way they treat you always has to do with their horrible charachter and lack of values, not you. So never ever ever measure your value with how you've been treated in th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Imagine playing the cool girl for a guy who talks about you like this. This is not an appropriate Valentine's date and I hope she leaves before they get marriedYou see? It's not that they have more respect for good looking women, it's that they know they can't smash them if they don't treat them well. But if they were sure that a good looking woman wouldn't leave them (maybe because she had low self esteem, no self respect or was very dependent) they would still treat her like shit. The way they treat you always has to do with their horrible charachter and lack of values, not you. So never ever ever measure your value with how you've been treated in th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 09:27 PM |
| 49 | On Ethical Self-Preservation: is it okay to fundamentally distrust men?As you said, this is self preservation, men are tecnically always a potential danger for us. Imagine it like beeing in the presence of a wolf that you don't know if it's wild or trained, you know it could potentially eat you if he wanted to, so you are very careful not to get close just to be safe. But it's not because you think that the wolf is evil, or because you hate wolves, it's because a wolf is strong and has teeth that could hurt you, so you don't trust him. Wild wolves see humans as foo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 09:07 PM |
| 48 | This is horrifyingI almost cried reading this. Thank you so much girly for taking the time to give us some very important advice. I will remember this I promise ❤️ You aren't alone in this, many women trust the wrong people and this is a messed up world. Keep spreading the word, hopefully we can prevent things like this and save some girls in time through fds There is still hope for the future and thankfully there's still good people out there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 11:08 AM |
| 46 | This is horrifyingLoving somebody should never require hurting yourself for them. And somebody who loves you wants you to be safe, emotionally and mentally. Real men are protective over women, they would rather jump off a cliff than hurt physically or emotionally somebody that they love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:49 AM |
| 15 | The Risks Associated with Dating in the Modern EraFinally someone has said it. Online dating is the devil for us fds girlies. It's a toxic sample of men and it's setting yourself up for failure. We deserve somebody approaching us in real life, getting to know us and courting us. Remember: hvm have no problem putting in the effort bc they like working for things. They know beeing a woman is hard and they will therefore show you with their consistent good actions that they care and they have serious intentions. Lvm instead are entitled to sex and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:33 AM |
| 21 | The Risks Associated with Dating in the Modern EraTo them this is literally them getting free prostitutes. We need to stop this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:20 AM |
| 18 | The Risks Associated with Dating in the Modern EraThey are susceptible to it but it manifests into them becoming kinkmeishas and normalizing violent sex. Because that's how women are rapresented in porn. Or they don't get brain damage because they watch lesbian porn and porn that isn't violent. If that's what you meant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:17 AM |
| 35 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising..."it's not my fault if women think we are healthy humans with feelings whose life doesn't revolve solely around getting laid" They say women are naive for trusting men and then they go around saying shit like "not all men". Pick a side dudebro | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 12:02 AM |
| 38 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...You just found the connection between rapists and incely fuckboys: ENTITLEMENT. And this stems from what psychologists call hostile masculinity, wich is a trait considered a risk factor for potential rapists. Our culture unfortunately still promotes hostile masculinity and men with no values and with toxic personalities embrace it and incorporate it into their charachter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 11:54 PM |
| 93 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...Imagine if women were entitled to men's money the same way some men are entitled to sex. Imagine if we lived in a culture where women were encouraging each other to trick men into relationships and leech on their money and resources like men do when discussing strategies to get women into bed. The scrotes would riot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 11:38 PM |
| 43 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...And this is why women shouldn't ask guys out. Because there are still selfish men out there who feel entitled to sex and who have no problem fooling a girl who asks them out, in order to get what they want out of her. We are not equal yet, a lot of men still see women as objects to be used for sex, therefore men should earn our trust by doing things like taking us out and courting us. So libfems can stop encouraging young girls to approach dudes. Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 11:02 PM |
| 3 | What Red Flags Have You Ignored That Later Became the Reason You LeftFun fact: in personality psychology the H factor stands for honesty-humility. Those two elements are strictly correlated. Liars tend to be more arrogant, therefore more narcissistic. There's even a book about it, it's called the h factor of personality, it's super interesting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 12:26 AM |
| 5 | When you did everything in the wrong order...Thank god here in Italy even in big cities like Milan people still date the normal way and dating apps are used almost exclusively for hookups. It's so sad how in some countries people don't seek new people in real life anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Sister SolidarityI love you all this subreddit is one of the best things that has ever happened to my mental health. Big thanks to the founders and the moderators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 11:55 PM |
| 26 | i wanna hear your opinion on thisAgree wholeheartedly, ask any therapist I think they would tell you the same. A lot of rape victims start hooking up with random people in order to feel like they are regaining power over their own sexuality. That is a coping mechanism and it's self destructive. I think that people are molding their sexuality around the abuse they have received in the past in hopes that normalizing it will make them feel less violated. And they are willingly letting other partners abuse them to revive their trau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 01:00 PM |
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