FastForward99 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
489	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol	Field Report	FastForward99	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 12:32 PM
1	Help me find the fatal flaw		FastForward99	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/18 03:05 PM
0	Open (for me) relationship, nearly suicidal Tinder girl		FastForward99	/r/TheRedPill	01/09/18 08:50 AM

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1	I'm so paranoid of cheating now. I think a lot of guys are doing this whole thing wrong. Since getting with my current LTR nearly 3 years ago (who has a beautiful ring on her finger as a of a few weeks ago), I've fucked 10 other women, 3 in front of her. Other than our non-exclusive first few months, the agreement is that she can have as much fun as she wants with girls, as long as I get to watch (video chat is OK when I'm traveling), but no dudes. Yeah, her SMV is a bit lower than mine, and I run some dread game. But we have a…	/r/askTRP	16/01/19 06:26 PM
1	Pursuing the “maybe” girls I've always said to approach the "fuck yes" girls versus the "maybe" girls. You may lose out on some that you could have scored, but it's not the end of the world.	/r/askTRP	08/12/18 11:55 PM
1	Anyone else actually been really good looking their entire life but fucked up opportunities constantly due to mental issues and blue pill conditioning? Been there, done that. I had to learn social skills. It's not easy, and I had to observe and experience hundreds of social experiences before I fully understood how to be attractionate at a personable level. I'm still not perfect, but I'm regularly landing MFF threesomes for my partner and I. I don't have the answers, but apparently I have the skills, and can offer some guesses.	/r/askTRP	07/11/18 01:51 AM
9	7 Ways To Really Treat Women I'm also high on the autistic scale, have psychopathic tendencies, arrogant as fuck, and have two girls currently fighting over me. It's all about learned behavior. You don't have to be a "natural", you just have to emulate the behaviors. Don't let your mental status limit you.	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/16 01:41 PM
0	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol As stated earlier in the thread, not by a psychiatrist, but by two therapists. I'm not at the highest levels of psychopathy that are possible, but I'm definitely on the high end of the spectrum. Self tests place me between 90 and 96 more psychopathic than others who have taken the same test. You're right that a 100% psychopath wouldn't admit it, mostly because they would lack the introspection skills to see it. I recognize it, embrace it, and identify as it as a challenge. "Normal" relationships…	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/16 05:26 AM
1	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Abby or Betty? Abby has already gotten on my train, but Betty hasn't gotten my ultimatum yet. I need another month-ish with her to make her forsake all others just to be with me. It's worked with plenty of girls before either of them - you just have to wait until they're fully addicted, then there's no other man who can compare. Not that I'll hold onto either of them for the long haul, just until I get bored.	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/16 05:00 AM
2	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Betty is approaching mid-30s, and doesn't want kids. She was married from a young age until a few years ago, but never found a partner who she really respected or connected with. Basically, she is desperate for someone who can lead her, ground her, and fuck her well. Of course, she really wants commitment as part of the package. What she doesn't understand (as callous as it is to say) is that she's a little past her prime, she should have ditched her Beta ex-husband earlier, and tried to lock do…	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/16 04:54 AM
1	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol I use analysis to my advantage when it's mutually beneficial (even if they didn't know/recognize it), but not when it's going to seriously hurt some one. I went to dinner with Betty tonight, then back to her place. She wanted sex (including showing off a gorgeous French maid outfit she bought with me in mind), but I knew that wasn't right tonight, because I was still trying to figure out if it was advantageous to me to continue things with her. I decided she's had two strikes, and she only gets …	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/16 04:40 AM
2	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol I set up expectations with my girls - if they know how to cook well, they're my sous chef. If they don't, they're the cleanup crew. Betty is a professional pastry chef, gone through culinary school; I have no professional training. In the kitchen, she calls me "chef". Beyond that, they're all required to contribute to my house/lifestyle.	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/16 04:29 AM
2	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol It makes things more interesting, and is a pretty good test of attraction/addiction. If they still want you after you admit to something like that, they're hooked.	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/16 05:27 AM
1	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol That was kind of said in jest, but it is somewhat true on occasion. I don't have a strategy for dealing with the feeling, other than knowing we both enjoyed it, and that I instigated it.	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/16 01:59 AM
2	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Clarification: doing all the dishes/sweeping after we cook, folding/hanging clothes from the dryer, making the bed in the morning, etc. My place is generally pretty damn clean, but sometimes our activities make a bit of a mess. Edit: typo due to autocorrect.	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/16 01:37 AM
2	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol There's two approaches I've used, depending on the girl an hour relationship with her (time together, level of trust, etc). 1: Easing into it. Slapping the ass or pulling the hair in doggy is a good opener for a little S/M. Flatten her out from behind, and holding down her wrists is a good way to try her out on the B/D spectrum. Fisting, I introduce fingers while giving oral, steadily increasing, similar for making her squirt (both with "come here motions against her G spot). Anal, a thumb with …	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/16 01:33 AM
1	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol She just got divorced after marrying early. Low N-count, never really got on the carousel. I'm just broadening her horizons. She's got her issues, though.	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/16 12:18 AM
1	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol That's the next step... I had a ONS this summer with a 22 year old - I'd like to start plating in that age range. But I also needed to get back into practice after a 2 year LTR. For now, I'm enjoying introducing 30's women to BDSM. It's a fun and rewarding hobby.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 11:37 PM
3	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Wait, you're suggesting that girls are responsible for their outcome of own decisions? /s	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 11:15 PM
2	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol During the 'breakup', her words: "it's like looking through a window, seeing what you want, and not being able to get inside".	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 11:08 PM
3	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Thanks, man. I appreciate this.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 11:00 PM
6	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol No kidding, it's been fun to watch today.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 10:49 PM
3	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Abby and Betty cyber-stalked each other, and Betty stated badmouthing Abby towards the end. I'm not worried about violence, but you're absolutely right, it is an issue when an open relationship goes sour.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 09:50 PM
2	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Liquor, cigs, toilet paper, whatever I need and am too lazy to get. She pays for it all, too.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 09:33 PM
2	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol I generally ignore their words, but pay attention to their actions. I just loved the sequence.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 08:39 PM
6	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol This. My ex-wife has broken off all contact with her family over the years due to seemingly tiny things.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 08:37 PM
82	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol That's beautiful, brings a tear to my eye.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 08:23 PM
17	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol It's totally manipulation. So is much of game. Consider if someone goes "radio silent" on a girl after she misbehaves. Isn't that a form of manipulation? But that's commonly considered good advice here. What you need to decide is where to draw your personal boundaries on manipulation.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 08:15 PM
4	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Wow. Seems like a bunch of folks haven't dug fully into some of the sidebar material or dug into some of the top posts in the archives. Have you ever read any of IllimitableMen's essays on the topic? Considered that some of the icons of business or politics exhibit psychopathic traits? Psychopathy is a good thing in modern western civilization.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 08:09 PM
3	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol For any sort or LTR? Yes. For a short term plate, no.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 07:59 PM
6	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol I've been in multiple LTRs. A couple years ago, I had three girls on a regular basis, went on a couple days with another one, and a week later, had dropped the other three. The relationship ended two years later for other reasons, but when I find a truly high quality woman who I'm also extremely sexually compatible with, commitment is an option. In terms of holding onto commitment, your enemy is boredom/complacency. Try positions, toys, rooms, locations, etc. If you keep him sexually interested …	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 07:46 PM
8	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Believe what you want, bro.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 07:20 PM
7	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol I agree and disagree. When I have sex, I usually control everything. Many times, I've helped women discover kinks they didn't even know they had. Now this doesn't mean I don't care what they want or like - when I decide I want to down on a girl, I'll tailor things to her tastes. If I want to take her from behind, I flip her over, but also remember if she likes to be flat, ass-up, or with a pillow under her. This is the sexual aspect of leading the relationship, the "captain/first mate" dynamic.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 07:05 PM
2	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Agreed entirely. As I mentioned in another comment, you can learn to emulate some aspects, but it will probably be pretty awkward for a while, and potentially dangerous.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 06:58 PM
2	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol I'm taking a break from purposefully finding another girl until after the holidays, but afterwards, right back at it. I mean, I wouldn't turn down some strange if it fell in my lap. Abby knows that whatever we have is transitory, anyway. Plus, Betty lives just a few blocks away, and hadn't stopped texting me. I'm 99% sure she'll be an occasional plate, once she gets I'm not backing down.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 06:57 PM
4	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Nudes and masturbation pics/videos are required in my world. I don't fist all the girls I date, but it's a ton of fun if both parties enjoy it. Same with anal.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 06:50 PM
1	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol If my girls are well behaved, they get part of the "boyfriend experience" - see my earlier comment on gifts, cooking, travel, etc. Even Betty got some of that in the first month, including an out of state road trip last week.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 06:47 PM
6	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol If you're a cheap bastard, you can find a PDF online, or wait for an occasional sale.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 06:43 PM
20	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Abby is definitely TRP aware, and knows what I value in a woman.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 06:42 PM
6	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Read Sex God Method for some ideas. A little BDSM never hurts, either.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 06:25 PM
38	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Just because my morals don't line up with yours doesn't mean I don't have a set of principles I live by.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 06:22 PM
8	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol The preselection aspect can't be overrated. I was out with Abby, one of her out-of-town girl friends, and her boyfriend. When the girl friend heard about our arrangement, she got visibly turned on, and started doing kino on me. Abby and I tried to convince her to ditch the guy and come over for a threesome, but no luck, she's faithful to her man.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 04:49 PM
3	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Not from a psychologist, but two therapists I saw clearly identified me as such.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 04:35 PM
49	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Yup. Basically, I said I didn't want her fucking anyone else, and if she didn't like it, too bad. It's incredible what you can get away with when you give them the best sex of their life. I'll admit, she does get some other benefits - occasional small presents (<$20), sometimes I'll cook for her, and a couple free trips (airline and hotel points).	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 04:30 PM
5	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol I'm mid-30s, have my own house in easy walking distance to downtown nightlife, and a very successful career. It wasn't meant to be edgy, just honest.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 03:35 PM
14	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Read up on Stoicism - you can emulate some of the traits without the mental flaws that lead to the actual condition.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 03:33 PM
17	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Why? I included it to spark conversation around: How you can admit to massive red flags, and women will still love you/want to fix you, if your SMV is high enough Dark Triad traits and their value in dating - it's been a while since the subject has come up, and thought it might be valuable to the newbies to be exposed to the topic	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 03:31 PM
71	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol My ex-wife of seven years was BPD. I know the warning signs well, and stay the fuck away.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 03:27 PM
16	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol You know how when someone yawns, you sometimes "catch" the yawn? I don't. A girl can be crying on my shoulder during a breakup, and I don't feel a thing. I'll comfort her, but it's about going through the motions that are expected by society, not because of actual sympathy. I can make my eyes tear up a bit when I need to, though.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 03:25 PM
-23	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Personally, it's always been there for me - I remember watching people in middle school, figuring out what made them tick, and how to use it to my advantage. Then I spent years trying to suppress it, until I finally acknowledged what I was, studied it, and embraced it.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 03:21 PM
8	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Many reasons not to be with only Abby. One, she lives a ways away, and is really only free on weekends and the occasional weekday (we both work from home most of the time, but have a lot of phone/video meetings). Two, I get bored easily, and enjoy variety. Three, she's nearing the wall and divorced. There are many different kinds of open relationships - I structure mine how I want. Personally, I don't like the idea of sticking my cock into something that's recently had another cock in it. Typica…	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 03:18 PM
26	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol I love knowing I've Alpha Widowed someone - it's happened in just about every relationship lasting more than a month for the past four years. Knowing that I've set a standard for them, a point of comparison that will last for years. However, I don't personally like causing pain post-breakup. Not because of remorse, but because it goes against my moral code.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 03:07 PM
13	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Classic Dark Triad stuff - lack of empathy/remorse, egotism/narcissism, manipulative/Machiavellianism. Not all my traits are dialed all the way up, though, so I'm not a danger to society. Read "The Wisdom of Psychopaths" to understand how these traits can actually be positive in our current society.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 03:00 PM
12	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Wrong girl. Abby (who I changed the rules on) knows she'll never have me completely, and is OK with that.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 02:54 PM
38	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol All parties involved are in their 30's. I can see that happening in college, but not now.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 02:52 PM
-11	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol Because of having an actual open relationship with multiple women? Pretty common in the hippy city I live in. Three is where I max out - two locally, and one in the town I travel to for work a couple times a month. Because of (mildly) psychopathic tendencies? Read up on the Dark Triad. It's like catnip, plus automatic frame with aloofness and IDGAF attitude as an added bonus. Just be aware that while you can cultivate some aspects of Dark Triad and use them for your advantage (both with girls, a…	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 02:40 PM
42	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol This was actually part of the conversation. Originally, Betty and I discussed a threesome with Abby, before jealousy kicked in. Abby says she's bummed out now that it didn't happen. At the end, Betty accused Abby of manipulating me; that if I wasn't with Abby, I'd be ready for a committed relationship. I agree that Abby stepping up her game was a subtle form of manipulation, trying to stake her territory, but I'm totally fine with that. The funny part is that Betty was also trying to manipulate …	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 02:32 PM
40	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol As in, "if I can't have him, no one will"? That's why you don't stick your dick in crazy. At least not BPD kind of crazy.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 02:21 PM
7	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol And how do I know she's not fucking someone else? Because she bitches about it all the time, especially while I travel for work. Got her a nice new vibrator, she quieted down a little bit.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 02:19 PM
9	FR: First date, she says she wants an open relationship; a month later, she's trying to lock me down. Lol This. She's already tried to pull that one.	/r/TheRedPill	30/11/16 02:15 PM
5	[FR] First success since being on TRP Even a no can be a misdirection. "We're not having sex tonight/on the first date" can be coded language to tell you that she's thinking about it. There's a difference between a soft no and a hard no; amused mastery can be your friend when girls says stuff like that. Note that this is not an excuse to push things too far - you don't want to actually rape anyone (ever), nor have charges brought up against you (ever). But if she brings it up first or unprovoked, it can sometimes be an indication th…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/16 05:40 AM
3	Telling your very first plate there are others before tou actualy get them. I do it a bit different than most here, but it works for me. It comes down to setting her expectations, though. I practice open (for me) relationships, with as much detail as she wants. I directly told my current primary girl after a few weeks that she wasn't the only one I was fucking. She was upset and left that night, but was back the next night. Now she likes to hear about my adventures with other women. My most recent plate was told on the first date (then proceeded to "break all her rules"…	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/16 10:38 PM
1	IF she likes you, She'll go out of her way to please YOU Entirely true. I'm seeing two girls in a completely open relationship; one is napping in my bed right now after a solid mid-day fuck while I finish work, the other will be coming over later tonight. I travel significantly for work, but decided to give my car a deep cleaning this past weekend, including washing the seat covers. I ran out of time before my flight to put them back on and Ubering to the airport. One of my plates came over while I was gone and put them back on for me, and replaced th…	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/16 09:33 PM
1	Create Your Slut I personally have an orgasm all the time. It's a bit different for a girl, especially in a relationship of sorts. There's the occasional random orgasm, and there's the forced orgasm. The forced is pretty intense, where she can't take any more, and her body just gives up. It's especially interesting when she believes she can't get off in a certain way.	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/16 02:21 AM
1	Create Your Slut And a bit of practice in letting go on their part. They have to be very comfortable to relax enough. Usually they're introduced to it as part of playing with bondage, forced orgasm, and squinting.	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/16 11:38 PM
2	Create Your Slut No, something I do regularly to someone I know well enough. It requires a pretty deep (no pun) level of trust.	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/16 11:33 PM
13	Create Your Slut BTW, the above is from a late 30's man who's been married once, and engaged a total of three times. I only asked one of them to marry me. I admit, I admit, I lost my mojo in my more serious LTRs in the past, but learned my lessons well. You must keep yourself attractive and your options open. There's no other way in the current time of unchecked hypergamy. It's only your turn as long as you want it to be.	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/16 11:16 AM
27	Create Your Slut This is why I limit relationships of any kind with a girl who's not in the "fuck yes" camp. Anyone who's "fuck no" (obviously) or in the "maybe" gray area doesn't get to be with me. I'm not going to spend time trying to win a girl over beyond the sometimes mandatory three date waiting/ASD period. The best words a man can ever hear are "you can do what you want with me". I've heard this from every LTR-ish in the past four years verbatim, within a few weeks of starting anything with them (note tha…	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/16 11:04 AM
7	Learn to fucking cook. This is 100% true. If I haven't banged a girl by date two, date three is always at my place for a home cooked meal. By then, I've leaned enough about her preferences (meat/veggie/vegan, flavors, go-to drinks, etc) that I can easily guess what she's going to like. I dangle a meal idea in front of her, and she jumps (most often because she doesn't know how to cook very well herself). I often do a bit of prep ahead of time (especially if I've chosen something ambitious because it sounds like fun), …	/r/TheRedPill	18/09/16 03:15 PM
29	Vasalgel Donation Pledge $50 down, even though I've had kids and a vasectomy.	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/16 01:34 AM