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Mmm doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:23 PM
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That’s my point? You’re literally saying my point for me haha Doesn’t stop women chiming in to tell us how to be the gender we’ve been forever. We don’t need or want that opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:18 PM
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It doesn’t matter whether you agree or disagree with it. Women telling men how to be real men is the biggest load of bullshit ever. If you’ve never been a man you have ZERO right to comment on it. Even if your stance is a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:10 PM
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Stop telling men what real men are. Only men can decide that and fuck any woman who says differently. Same applies to guys telling women what they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:53 PM
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It’s literally how police handle domestic altercations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:12 PM
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Duluth model for one The person who created it even said they regretted it and it was wrong. And Police still use it to this day. Extremely sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:17 AM
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Men here are pointing out that people (usually women) are shitting on Ross as they then use Rachel as a standard bearer of what a good woman is in comparison to Ross. The examples used are always Ross and his actions while in a relationship or in regard to Rachel. Rachel is just a shit if not even more shitty than Ross. They are a horrible couple and both do things that would put them squarely in psycho territory. They are tv characters, they are always over the top and dramatic and insufferable…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:17 AM
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I literally said that in my comment. Reading comprehension is an important skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 07:13 AM
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And if we are picking on people’s flaws Rachel is just a big an asshole and a red flag as Ross is. I could go for paragraphs about her shitty and toxic behaviour Dr House pointed it out on the England Wedding episode. TV characters usually are made that way for entertainment, they aren’t normal human beings. They’d be insufferable to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:43 PM
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Some of these women are now claiming “mankeeping” is a thing like dudes haven’t been managing women’s emotions with how they word things and how they coddle by exclusively only listening to their partner bitch and complain instead of just assessing how to fix the problem… I say this as a happily married man with a beautiful little girl toddler as well. People are much happier when they treat their partner like their best friend and go above and beyond for their spouse. That means we listen and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:45 AM
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Geez your partners must be shit in bed? Never once had a complaint. Get many a compliment about how giving I am in bed. Wife loves to have sex because she knows I’ll get her off every-time before I worry about myself. Choose better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:56 AM
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What is there to be confused about. You believe in the “male loneliness epidemic” It’s a slandering term made by women to try and give negative connotations to men who choose not to date anymore. It’s toxic emotive language.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:48 PM
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Emotive language shaming and labelling does not make something a thing just because a bunch of miserable harpies want to play the victim. Trying to force a label onto people who choose to do something QUIETLY in their own life that doesn’t go along with the status quo is just boring, trust me it isn’t dudes complaining online about checking out of relationships. It’s 2026, we are better than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:56 AM
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I don’t think they are? Commenting on the shitshow of modern dating doesn’t mean they are complaining about their own situation. Men are checking out in droves… Women started the “male loneliness epidemic” as a way of shaming them. If you don’t care about those dudes choosing not to date then why are you force labelling them? And before you try to label me as something I’m not…I love my wife and absolutely put in work everyday to make sure our relationship never grows stale. I do just as much if…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:52 AM
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You wrote all that over a dude saying Sexbots will replace women? Cmon, surely you aren’t that worried?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:26 AM
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Lol you took that “study” seriously? I mean stuff like that is inherently flawed when to gain your data set you only take people’s words and claims and not their actions as gospel… Cause people would never lie on a survey to make themselves appear better right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:04 AM
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Men have been managing women’s emotions forever lol That isn’t something new. You act like only women have to manage men’s emotions and men need to change to keep up? Not saying there aren’t shit men but I think unrealistic standards are absolutely playing a factor across the board. Too many break up if even the slightest hint of a disagreement between couples happens. When a good relationship is knowing you aren’t going to agree on everything and coming together to a common goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:22 AM
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Yeah wouldn’t any woman who uses a buzzword generalising about men also then fall under the same bracket? Keep that same energy? People were a lot happier when genders weren’t soo combative. Now everyone gets super sensitive. Just being decent human beings to each other seems like a bridge too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:18 AM
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Man answering to help give OP advice^ I’ll preface this that I was always a relationship guy. But your question isn’t really about whether you can or not. My thing is I didn’t try to become long term material, I just shifted from “open ended” to “intentional” with the right person. Around about age 24ish I spent time being single and going through hookups. I was surprised how keen people are to do stuff like that, but whether they wanted something further or not, I think the fact that I didn’t p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:23 AM
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Spot on, basically how my wife and I got together. I was supposed to be a one night stand and now we have a marriage and a kid together. Sometimes it just all falls into place perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:10 AM
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Your assumption is men insulting fat women like other women aren’t catty don’t talk shit about each other. We have to date/marry/be in relationships with women. We see how you treat each other. Making this a gendered thing is a weak argument. Both men and women in general are mean to fat people in general because whether it’s fair or not, the majority of people who are fat do not have a condition and just lack the ability to portion control. It sucks but it’s reality. People are just in general …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:22 PM
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Come on…this isn’t a serious argument surely?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:20 PM
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You’re not serious….
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:17 PM
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Sure thing 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:56 PM
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You need to re-read what you wrote if you can’t see what you’re doing lol I’m not patronising you, you’re just all over the place which makes your points look weak. Literally helping you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:46 AM
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I didn’t say one was or wasn’t bigger than the other I’m refuting your claim (you claimed it not me) in regard to women complaining about men not approaching. You’re making an entirely seperate point. Stay on point, otherwise it’s easy to dismiss what you’re saying and it dilutes your points (which are valid)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:32 AM
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Why are you married to this man? You sound resentful. That’s toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:13 PM
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There are a shit tonne of reels and podcasts complaining about men not approaching. To deny that is denying reality. I’m not saying there aren’t losers trying to shame women into dating them, I’m saying there is absolutely a huge trend of whinging online about men not going to bars and paying for drinks and men not approaching women anymore. Otherwise the whole “bear or man in the woods” thing wouldn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 11:11 PM
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Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:08 PM
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Who keeps saying there’s a loneliness epidemic? That’s an online term that sad old women keep pushing cause they are bitter. Touch grass, be in the real world where normal people aren’t spouting that nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 06:20 AM
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Again, choose better
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:31 AM
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Never heard a man complain about being lonely lol The only people who ironically complain about it are women? Men like peace and quiet, that’s always been a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:46 AM
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Spot on!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:53 PM
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Exactly? Which was my original point. I’m not sure why anyone would disagree with what I said. Whining that your partner does nothing isn’t going to fix anything it’s just airing your dirty laundry for everyone else to see (pun intended) You chose what you are willing to accept or what expectations you have. No one owes it to you to meet those expectations, they should just do that anyway as a grown ass adult….. BUT you also don’t owe it to date/marry that person so excusing that behaviour or al…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:44 PM
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You choose who you date/marry. If you have a problem with it, don’t date them? Unnecessary whining
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:43 PM
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Based on self reporting? Yeah it wouldn’t be like people to overcompensate or lie to make themselves appear better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:32 PM
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I imagine he’s already doing that, most normal average guys clean their home whether or not they have a partner, despite whatever gender war bullshit nonsense tells you otherwise. If a girl’s partner is not meeting her expectations of maintaining a house then… ——— 1) He’s a slob, it’s embarrassing as a grown adult. How can you not keep a house clean? It’s not hard. ——— You have to wonder how many girls didn’t use their power of deduction to pick that their partner was a lazy piece of shit before…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:26 PM
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If your partner isn’t doing equal work, put on your big girl pants and communicate that. Sounds like a skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:32 PM
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Do you mean “compromise” ? Because comprise doesn’t make sense in the context of that sentence. Not all social issues are of equal importance if that’s what you’re trying to get at?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:34 AM
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I didn’t know you were statistical evidence? My apologies!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:31 AM
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I mean that’s a given when people become entrenched in it like a team sport rather than looking at everything through a lense. Politics is really bad for this as well. 99.99% are average human being plebs who make no difference in the World. We’d all be a lot happier if we got along and looked at the real problem which is the 1% at the top hoarding wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:21 AM
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Who says they aren’t? You? All we have is the data
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:17 AM
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It is entitlement to complain about partners who are already doing equal if not more labour. Greatest time in history for equal division of labour and people are still whinging. Note I said PEOPLE. Not men, not women. PEOPLE
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:39 AM
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And they already do? Coupled men these days do more child rearing and housework than any other time in history while also still contributing similar work hours to previous generations. Meaning they are doing twice or three times the amount of emotional and physical labour their fathers and grandfathers did for their family. Women have never had it better, I don’t see where the possible complaints could be coming from? Just seems like a sense of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:29 AM
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If you can’t see that I can’t help you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:54 PM
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Projection, shaming and ad hominem attacks. I’m filling up my bingo card!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:30 PM
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You’re being unproductive and trolling because you don’t like that they are making great points
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:27 PM
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If you read that and thought, “guys just want to make me their mother” Then that says volumes about you. Go to therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 10:18 PM
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Uhhh pretty sure it’s the other way around…. It doesn’t work like that. You can’t be “strong independent modern femboss” and then expect dudes to be traditional provider types. Most dudes are absolutely not attracted to women like that. What girls value and what guys value are totally independent of each other. Guys are not attracted to “status” or “money” in women. And before you rage at me…I’m not saying women can’t have jobs or shouldn’t have their own money. I’m explaining what attracts men …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:39 AM
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Talking to other people isn’t a hobby. Saying you like to drink wine and pet dogs isn’t a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:16 AM
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False
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:14 AM
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I was gonna say, saying you like to “travel” or that “like to laugh” isn’t a hobby. Guys generally gravitate to “things” which means they are more likely to have an actual hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:13 AM
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Simping for rich people is not a personality trait dude. Nothing wrong with being successful through hard work, everything wrong for being exploitative
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:24 AM
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Dude what?…you seriously don’t think there are controlling families at the very top that don’t want the status quo to change so people don’t go after them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:14 PM
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I merely adopted the dark…he was booorrrrnn in it, mooooulldded by it! r/baneposting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:11 PM
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That’s why I said We need people who commit the most heinous crimes to held to account. Key word there was PEOPLE. Men and women both can be monsters. There’s no difference between those two.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:37 PM
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We need someone like this guy to come in and destroy the establishment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:21 PM
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Your first point will get glossed over but it’s the most important one. This is a CLASS issue and not a GENDER issue. They want men and women to fight each other so we ignore the hoarding of wealth at the top. I’m glad the Epstein files are being released but we need to not get distracted by the War they started to distract from the release. They timed it exactly when they needed it to so people would stop pushing the issue. This is a MEN AND WOMEN issue. Do NOT stop bringing it up and talking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:50 PM
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You missed the point, just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 01:59 PM
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The increasing online presence and lack of third spaces which have been taken away due to multiple factors has caused an increase in loneliness in men AND women across the board. Then add in the gender war bullshit that is being fuelled to keep everyone fighting each other rather than focus on the elite 1% hoarding wealth. Women who use the term “male loneliness epidemic” are projecting. It’s an everyone problem, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:13 PM
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Yeah but shaming tactics and ostracising don’t work anymore when men know and can spot it and rightfully call it out. I’d expect women to do the exact same thing to men who try this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:52 AM
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DARPA created “Lifelog” to track and store a comprehensive, digitized trace of a person’s daily life, including emails, phone calls, location data, and movements. It shut down pretty much the exact same day Facebook started. Which is basically the same concept dressed up as a way of “connecting” people. COINCIDENCE? I THINK NOT?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:28 PM
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Most Gen Z/Alpha dudes don’t even know how to talk to people or hold a conversation because they’ve grown up with soo much tech in their faces they don’t know how to socialise. I doubt it very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:21 AM
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You completely ignored what I said just so you could ask something that was already clearly explained. You don’t want to learn you just want to argue. No thanks, bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:22 PM
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People saying something you don’t like isn’t oppression holy jeebus 🤣 Actively taking away rights is oppression. Way different ends of the spectrum there….if your baseline is “Wah I don’t like when men call women on their bullshit” then tough luck. Women do this to men all the time, you can’t cry about it when men do the exact same thing. Both are allowed to have standards and both are allowed to point out flaws in logic. If a dude who doesn’t have his shit together and looks like a slob wants a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:11 PM
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*The Men you have slept with do not listen If you pick men who are selfish in bed then that’s on you unfortunately. Once or twice it’s on them for being selfish dickheads but if you’re forming a pattern there’s a common denominator and that’s you. Never had this problem because I actually give a fuck about them getting off…. every girl I’ve ever been with had no problems at all finishing first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:47 PM
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This is one of the most logical and well said comments I’ve ever seen on here and usually I just go here for the laughs at some of the ridiculous takes. If she loves you and loves having sex with you, you won’t feel like it’s lacking. Even with the ebbs and flows of kids, jobs, life stresses. It’ll still happen if you are unselfish in bed. Source: My life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:41 PM
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I think being told one thing and actions not matching with the verbiage used is throwing them off. Most guys work on logic of if I do A I’ll get B which equals C so when logic doesn’t match they throw their hands up. Not saying they are the catch they think they are I’m just saying this isn’t faultless logic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:19 AM
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Attack the argument not the person Not that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:04 PM
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I call into question the efficacy of taking people’s self reporting as gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:52 PM
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Women do the majority of mental and physical load in relationships Self reported data, not effective because people lie, omit and think they have it tougher due to victim complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:33 AM
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Oh boy why didn’t he think of that…you’re a genius
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:10 AM
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Get this, women can be vindictive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:54 PM
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My friend was just told by his lawyers that he shouldn’t bother for 50/50 because he won’t get it for a child under the age of 5. And she’s a druggo and cheated on him. Tell me how he’s “not doing enough” to get 50/50 when he’s stable, never raised his voice at anyone in our workplace and seems like a genuinely nice person? He explicitly asked for it and they told him it won’t happen. The court system is inherently sexist towards men with children under school age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:50 PM
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Men don’t struggle with anything outside of dating?…. Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:44 PM
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Those are self reported numbers. And we know that never goes well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 04:18 AM
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Didn’t you just say men take no accountability like one comment above? Lol Why aren’t those women taking accountability for their poor choices? Don’t just sleep with any guy that sells you a dream through words. Actions speak louder than words. If you fall for cheap ploys it says more about you than them. And before you go “REEEEE SEXISM!” I’d say the EXACT same thing to guys. Don’t just wife/girlfriend the first girl to give you attention/be nice to you. See if her actions match her words.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:21 PM
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Idk how anyone could disagree or downvote you? Who keeps the power on? The water running? Producing energy and maintaining it? Who farms? Who fishes? Who takes the garbage? Who builds, destroys, makes, creates, designs and implements basically all major infrastructure, transport, urban planning. Who does pretty much all of the extremely dangerous and risk taking jobs that make modern society run as smoothly as it does? And the best most productive teams that work together are all male based team…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:51 PM
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Sounds like you need a better partner if that’s what it feels like
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:26 AM
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Lol seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:53 AM
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My fiancé didn’t wear makeup for two days in a row literally leading up to Valentine’s Day and she asked me what I thought. I told her i didn’t care in the slightest cause she’s already pretty without it… Companies using women’s insecurities to make them buy products to “look sexy” when majority of guys just want to see the real person behind the mask. Can makeup help accentuate features and hide blemishes? Sure! But if you’re caking it on everyday that shows to me you aren’t comfortable in your…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:33 PM
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I guarantee in 2025 most millennial men are very involved and absolutely have investment in child rearing and fatherhood. We grew up hearing about shitty dad’s who never did anything so it’s been drilled into us to not be that guy. Picking a shitty partner to procreate with is the first issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:14 AM
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What do these guys expect? That is YOUR CHILD. You aren’t a babysitter, you are a father. You equally have child rearing responsibilities. Just like when you come Home from work and Mum is with Bub. It doesn’t end, it’s just the beginning. You don’t just get to put your feet up. You do what you can to make things easier. I always have bottles prepped and cleaned at night once bubba is in bed so the next day when we are doing feeds she has bottles ready to go. It’s the little things. Tbf, my part…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:06 AM
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Projection
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:04 AM
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Seems like common sense right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:46 AM
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If that’s what you’ve taken out of then geeez Victim Olympics over here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:35 AM
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Women moved into that space after demonising it for decades as “nerdy” Women want to follow popular culture. Superhero’s and the like became popular culture because Hollywood started capitalising on the huge fandom of men who were fans of it How long until A.I robots go from being “weird” and “different” to being the “norm” While you and I may think differently to these men as we actually have human relationships, I don’t want to assume that nothing will change. The World constantly changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:50 PM
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Can’t have caused that many people to go towards Democrats as Dems didn’t gain a single County and lost both Popular Vote and Electoral Vote. Maybe the Dems need to take a hard look at what the real issues are and how they present themselves before blaming everyone else. RP and Grifters capitalised on Lefties demonising Men. Not just White men, ALL MEN. Black and Latino men went far Right in their voting. Now why would they do that if Trump’s policies were racist? It’s almost like the Dems are o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:25 PM
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In basic terms. “Actions speak louder than words”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:49 PM
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Dying of thirst in the ocean surrounded by water vs dying of thirst in the desert with not a spec of water in site. These are not level playing fields. Both have their negatives but one is experiencing a whole lot worse than the other. So now can imagine how moronic and tone deaf the complaints about no “fresh water” floating in the ocean to a bunch of people dehydrated and surrounded by nothing but desert sounds right? Gotta have some empathy for these dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:55 PM
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Seems incredibly selfish on her behalf to demand how a man proposes to her. The fact she turned it down purely because of that? Yikes! You don’t get to dictate that, guys barely get anything that they actually want constantly kowtowing to girls wants and needs…just give him this FFS. To me if your partner truly loves you they’ll take how you’d like to be proposed to into account and as a guy you should already know very clearly what they would like before doing it so you basically know the answe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:50 PM
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I’m not saying I disagree with you I’m just saying I understand why they feel that way. I’ve never felt threatened by it or used but that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:08 AM
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You basically just said, “You aren’t hot I just settled for you once I needed money and stability in my life” It’s one of the biggest backhanded comments you can make to a guy as it basically in his mind turns him into a disposable wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:53 AM
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Think of it this way. If you have a male partner, go and tell them that, “I wouldn’t have ever considered you as hook up material, only relationship material” and see how that goes lol Might want to go pack your things though!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:51 AM
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Women go for the low blow on things they can’t change like height or dick size. It’s punching down, weak asf!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:18 AM
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I would love to look after my baby and be at Home. Would it be tough at times? Sure! But if all I was required to do was cook, clean and take care of our baby (stuff I already do when I get Home from work so my partner can have a break) while i also then get to be pampered getting beauty stuff done (I’d love to go get a facial, massages etc) on money that now she mainly brings in….tell me where the bad part of that is? Lol My partner only worked 4 days a week before our baby, she wants to only g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:55 PM
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There’s a major difference between minute changes and major societal level changes. You’re well within your rights to chuck a huge fuss over shitty double standards and the crap situation that us blokes have been thrown… I chose to just roll with it because most women lack any empathy for men on pretty much any level. They will bleat about caring and expecting men to care about women’s issues but when push comes to shove they won’t back it up and give men the same level of care to men’s issues. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:23 AM
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And there’s the ad hominem attack. You sound lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:15 PM
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Sounds like you have shitty men in your life? You need to broaden your horizons if that’s who you associate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:45 PM
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What is this a sitcom? It’s 2024…. If your man is not doing all those things unprompted then that’s on you. The second I get home from work I’m immediately child rearing, feeding, cleaning and doing everything I possibly can to make my partner’s life easier while she’s Home on Maternity Leave. All the other young Dads I know do the same. Whatever you’ve been told in your men’s hate group is full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:52 AM
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Nobody, a bunch of niche randoms claiming societal changes will happen while nothing happens meanwhile 99% of the planet will continue to live normal lives. I know it’s cliche to say but they seriously need to touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:18 AM
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This is the most reasonable and logical take I’ve seen here in a long time. People on PPD seriously need to get out more, it’s a bunch of people screaming nonsense at each other that will never happen. The Nichest of niche takes that would never become popular with actual normal human beings. Majority of the World will continue to do as they’ve always done, just because legal marriage numbers have declined it doesn’t mean de facto relationships or situationships or any other kind of relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:26 PM
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I am hence why my Country doesn’t have a lot of these issues that America is faced with, some things are done MUCH better here eg. Universal Health Care, Nationwide Gun Restrictions but some things are also not as well done. No Country is perfect. The way our politics works is that no one man or woman can have absolute power as there are checks and balances in place. The party is nominated when voting by the population not the leader itself. If the leader strays too far from the views of the res…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:50 AM
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Blatant sexism that tears down all men when even the most moderate of men are struggling more than ever. And whisking it away as, “oh that’s a men’s issue” is a huge reason why it’s in the positional shitshow that it is. But really that’s just the tip of the iceberg. The major reasons are very obvious to see. Dems could easily win if they focused on real issues that affect everyone and actually standing behind them. Universal Health Care, wiping student debt, affordable housing etc They’d rather…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 06:56 AM
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Freezing your eggs doesn’t magically make it easier. The Egg is only one part of a very complicated process. The environment itself housed in plays a huge role. You can have the most fertile egg ever but if the body isn’t supplying the egg with what it needs or the implantation is on the wrong location it leads to huge increases in miscarriage or defects. As someone who went through IVF through 6 rounds with their partner, she had multiple miscarriages, all of the ups and downs of it while I fel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:19 AM
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So on one hand I’m a potential monster for just existing, even though it’s not my gender that murders children at an astonishing rate…why aren’t we locking up women in droves?….(because women are not a monolith just like men aren’t and fuck those women who push those narratives that demonise men for existing. You c%%ts have made society worse for everyone) On the other hand I’m clearly mentally challenged because I’m a man and “oh well done you literally passed the lowest bar so I’m going to pat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:37 PM
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Men don’t report out of fear and stigmatisation The numbers are much closer to 50/50 than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:32 AM
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Infuriating to say the least. I am just as much a parent as my partner. Also assuming that I’m “babysitting” if I’m looking after my child. It is called parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:20 AM
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It’s not a misuse. Just because you don’t like it, doesn’t make it any less true. Noticing a trend here of women trying to dodge the reality that. Your sisterhood are killing babies, sure hormones go out of wack but we don’t make excuses for other kinds of murder? Murder is murder. Abuse is abuse we don’t get to sit and pick and choose what is and isn’t applicable just because we don’t like what it shows us. The fact it’s a defenceless baby who never did anything wrong to anyone and yet people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:15 PM
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Idk? I’m not going to say that there aren’t good and bad people that are male and female Yes we do need to make significant changes. Allowing Dad’s to have EQUAL amounts of Paternity Leave to Maternity Leave (why do men get discriminated against?, both are able to feed/change/nurse children) Women shouldn’t receive more contempt than men? That’s a word way to think about all of this….men should just be treated as regular human beings as a baseline and not treated as disposable, violent monsters …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:05 AM
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Statistics don’t care about your emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:55 AM
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I’m not going to engage with hypotheticals that don’t exist. Men are more hands on than ever with children but the rate hasn’t increased with abuse/murder with involvement in parenting increases. Its not relevant, its the same kinds of arguments RedPill guys use in here over things that aren’t relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:32 AM
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So statistics suddenly don’t matter when we choose to feel like it doesn’t? The stats are the stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:16 AM
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The one backed up by statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:04 AM
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Being perceived as dangerous/capable makes you more likely a target to get attacked. Guys generally aren’t going to go out and assault women, they are going to assault other men. They’ve done this experiment. When people get filmed out in public watching a dispute between a man and a woman they almost always take the girls side. If the guy starts trying to get physical with a girl immediately all the men will rush in to try and save her and hurt him. When the roles are reversed and everyone just…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:26 AM
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I agree with soo many of your points. I’d just like to add something that really sucks as a male. On top of all the negatives for men, you are automatically assumed to be dangerous, violent and/or creepy even when you’ve never given anyone any reason to be thought of that way. Thankfully as a male parent of a young baby, I haven’t been harassed yet about taking my baby into the parents room but I definitely got stares when I walked in. Why is that? Why can’t I just walk in and do what any parent…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:05 AM
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$0.01 plus tax Sounds good, you now owe me $5
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:44 AM
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As I lay here with my baby on my chest, I wonder how anyone couldn’t put in the time and effort for their kid. They aren’t an accessory, they are your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:10 AM
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Nope it’s true, I’ve found they sympathise more because they get the same emotions and feelings most guys do. It’s like the “a-ha!” moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:22 AM
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I’ve found the lesbian friends my partner and I have are some of the MOST sympathetic to men’s struggles which is crazy and mind boggling because they are completely separated from men on soo many levels. And they have twin baby boys as well. The more “manly” one of the lesbians has been one of the most supportive people in my life to understanding the struggles of not being the birth parent. We regularly do “check ins” to see how each other is doing. People forget a lot of the time that it’s no…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:13 AM
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Stop being lazy and actually take interest in men’s sexual health and anatomy. It’s not only just on men to understand a women’s body. Girls should be equally as invested in understanding men’s side of things. That’s what “feminism” is about right? Equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:16 AM
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Lol that picture is doing her zero favours
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:31 AM
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That’s just stupid, like mind boggling stupidity. In times of crisis, women literally look to men for guidance and safety. If they were so afraid of men, why are they literally coexisting with them in everyday life? You’re telling me every time they go outside they break down into tears and can’t be within the same space of men?….come on! Lol The real World isn’t wackos on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:27 AM
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Actions speak louder than words
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:44 AM
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“Standards for thee but not for me”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:41 AM
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My partner originally was going to just use me as a ONS (told me this many times) and we have been together 6 years, are engaged with a 4 week old baby. It definitely can happen from those situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:00 PM
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They got what they asked for. Why are their lives more valuable than mine? I’d sacrifice myself to save my partner and our baby but that’s because they are my partner and my baby. It wouldn’t matter the gender. I have no obligation to put myself in danger for anyone outside of that bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:35 AM
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Being abused/assaulted and not being believed is one I can think off the top of my head, especially when a lot of campaigners against men’s mental health and shelters comes from women. Lots of Countries still don’t even consider men being raped as thing… IT FUCKING IS and it’s disgusting that it’s not treated the same way. Women come from a position of being automatically assumed as victims even when there’s physical proof otherwise. Duluth Model which even the creator has come out and said was …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:02 AM
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That’s a good man, he role modelled well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:21 PM
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Life doesn’t stop once you come Home from work? It’s not a “well I worked all day so I deserve to do nothing now” It keeps going, you now have to be “super mum” or “super dad” Whoever is at Home now needs you to step up and take over so they can get things done for themselves that they couldn’t when they were at Home caring for their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:20 PM
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You’re meeting the wrong dudes unfortunately if they hit 30+ and “don’t know” By that stage you should very well know if you’re down to have kids or not. I’d see it as a red flag otherwise cause it sounds like they don’t have their shit together or as you said lying to you for ulterior motives. Plenty of guys want kids, they just want to make sure their lives are in check before doing so because it’s the responsible thing to do. These are usually major points of checklists in guy’s heads when de…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:05 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:04 PM
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It’s more common than you think People don’t talk about it due to stigma
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:03 PM
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Am a Dad of a 1 week old baby so think this question is very appropriate for me I love my Bub soo much (never thought I’d be this happy) It’s just an extra bonus on top of my life (good job, nice home, loving and caring feminine fiancé, cool dog) I definitely don’t think fatherhood is for everyone (sort your shit before becoming one) but it’s absolutely a thrill and a challenge
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:00 PM
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Bullshit, most guys don’t even comment on each other’s appearance let alone most girls. You either need to be morbidly obese (Lizzo) or wear ridiculous outfits (Lady Gaga) to get guys weighing in on that stuff negatively. Most guys don’t give a flying fuck what girls wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 11:32 AM
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You’ll get some bullshit argument that doesn’t address your point or silence. They always have some excuse as to why they don’t hold themselves or the sisterhood to account on child abuse and infanticide even though it’s ASTRONOMICALLY slanted one way. Hey girls, stop abusing children you sickos!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:54 AM
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Or tell them to stop abusing and killing babies and children since girls do that at astronomical rates. Even have laws about “infanticide” because soo many women get depressed and off their child. But guess who gets unfairly stigmatised and profiled around parks, shopping centres etc for being fathers/carers with no evidence other than, “feelings” Men…it’s total bullshit. Bunch of hypocrites. ANYONE can be abusive and can kill. That’s not a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:51 AM
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I’m currently going through this with my partner who had our baby (c-section so post surgery scars included) and it’s no different to the amount I was doing while she was pregnant, or when she wasn’t because I was already doing those things anyway. I want her to be relaxed and chilled and not straining herself. She carried our baby, the least I can do is make her life as easy as possible. Because our household works as a TEAM and it’s not that fucking hard to do housework, cooking, cleaning etc …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:26 AM
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This, it’s not that hard to be a well adjusted human being
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:00 PM
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Sure ok we’ll go on that…what I said is also an opinion. But it’s also not a dumbass opinion like yours was. Hence bulk downvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:09 PM
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Actions and words are different Lot of talk from both men and women that’s a load of compete bullshit but it’s mainly guys that can’t seem to filter it out when gals do it because they get persuaded by words and emotional language. Even though guys probably have a better instinct in detecting bullshit in other guys 95% of what people say and especially on Reddit when giving advice is bluster and bullshit. Actions shows people’s true character.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:21 AM
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They’re just having harmless fun? Geeez not everything has to be super serious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:19 AM
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I didn’t say young age is when fertility issues happen I said lots of women don’t realise they are suffering from it or realise others are suffering from it. Stop putting words in my mouth. I said go and get CHECKED early. Two totally different things and it’s gross you made assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:35 AM
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Just because they had kids doesn’t mean they didn’t go through fertility issues to get to that stage. You can end up with kids and still have issues? That’s literally my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:19 AM
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It’s more common than you think. People aren’t going around telling you their fertility stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:34 PM
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If you’re trying to fall pregnant at 40 the chances of that happening are very very low. Sticking a bunch of sperm in there doesn’t just magically happen. The rate of IVF success is: 30 year old range: roughly 30% 35 year old range: roughly 10% 40 year old range: roughly 5% As someone with a 30 year old partner who could fall pregnant naturally but had 4 miscarriages, we had to do IVF as she has a more complicated reproductive system (Uterus didelphys) We started at 25 and she only managed to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:00 PM
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That sounds like rich people saying. “Money doesn’t buy happiness” I mean not necessarily but it sure as heck helps buy things to make your life comfortable and it reduces stress which means you live longer. It’s grandiose lecturing down to the little guy when the little guy doesn’t have a choice. The little guy HAS to take what he can get and then on top of that get lectured by the person swimming in money how it’s not soo great… Like GTFO. 9/10 people will take the rich lifestyle. Now apply it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:18 AM
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That unpaid work thing leaning heavily one way is complete garbage. They showed the data from that study people always quote and the way it was reported was massively skewing the data to misrepresent it. They actually found that over time men increased in family/household duties from a very low % to a much more manageable % whereas women went from a high % to a medium %. Ask yourself, if more women are at work and working similar hours to men, how could they possibly be doing the same amount of …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:47 AM
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Umm you just proved the point that divorce favours one side heavily lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:08 AM
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Ooh shit! You brought the facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:02 AM
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I’ve rarely seen guys enforce this ideal. If anything it’s been the opposite. Entire thread on AskMen the other day of guys saying the number 1 thing that women do that causes guys to lose trust/think women should know that they do. Is ask for “emotionally available” guys then act repulsed or break up the second a guy opens up to them. Guys aren’t doing that to each other. That’s them telling their real examples from their experiences without any judgment. No dudes were doing that to them, there…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:55 AM
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The framing of questioning assumes men are at fault for that. Accountability has gone out the window (for a lot of men as well) But these women think they can show 0 respect and get treated like a princess. “Women are wonderful” theory in full effect. Need to teach BOYS AND GIRLS to treat others how you wish to be treated. My partner treats me and appreciates me with respect because I treat her with the same level of respect and we are a TEAM. If more people had this mentally we’d have less moro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:47 AM
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What? Lol What are you even on about? I’m saying breastfeeding is the best based on multiple factors BUT formula is also a great option. I never said anything about any of them being bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:45 AM
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There’s been a bunch of research recently into all the positive effects breastmilk has over formula. And as someone who has a friend who literally works in a role that requires research in this particular area, she was adamant about the pros of breastfeeding over formula. Just from a nutritional standpoint alone, there’s soo many natural occurring factors that you can’t simulate with formula. And I say this as someone who is going to have his soon to be child rotating between breast/bottle/formu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:57 AM
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That’s toxic masculinity language. How dare you use such harmful language. For Shame!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:19 AM
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Nope you’ve taken that and run with it, I never said that. Society would be better off with people who are rational
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:27 AM
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Exactly Go right ahead, we’d be better off without most of them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:20 AM
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Why are you not keeping that same energy? If you are equal in every way, you are just as equal in serving your Country Anything else is discriminatory I say this as someone who doesn’t want to send anybody to die for rich people who don’t care about them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:32 AM
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Yeah I’ve been hit by an ex partner. Never been hit by another dude. But my experience doesn’t matter…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:55 AM
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Yes it does Both would be unhinged rants though of someone who clearly needs therapy. He was just pointing out the hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:12 AM
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Says totally ironically while using a phone (made by men), on Reddit (made by men) using internet and WiFi (made by men) in the safety of your home (built by men) with electricity to power on basically everything you see around you (all created by men) Many wonderful and beautiful women in the World that get a bad name because of bottom dwellers who make the World an ugly place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:11 AM
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Yeah there’s levels to this shit lol Most women need to just basically exist and they can have attention/validation Plenty of guys who wouldn’t even be getting anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:22 AM
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Good stuff, sounds healthy and as long as you have clear communication that’s all that matters. I should probs mention that my fiancé can integrate with the guys when required and she can definitely hang with the banter of most of the guys of the group (she has a great sense of humour) but she can also just as easily get with the gals and fit right there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:44 AM
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Does she have any girl friends there to hang with? It would be shitty if you leave/ditch her the second you arrive. You should also check in on your partner to make sure they are ok first before doing that and then you should be able to give little heads up when required to make sure you both are all g. My partner and I can hang for hours at a party/event away from each other without needing to be by each others side but we always check in at intervals to make sure the other is doing ok. If they…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:20 AM
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I get some of your points and yes there is a clear difference. But id say most guys consider the girl their best friend…just a different kind of best friend. Guys who love and value their partner absolutely consider their wife/fiance/spouse to be their best friend. The person you confide in the most. I have my mates and my bro as some of my best friends but the one true person who I can lean on when I’m sick, sad, angry, frustrated is my partner. She’s always been there for me for the highs and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:17 AM
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How many men are filing restraining orders. It’s the same argument with divorce filing. How many men are filing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:21 AM
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Men and women don’t communicate the same. Trying to force men to act like women do is in itself the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:27 AM
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Yeah immediately sends off warning signals when they are talking up how funny/attractive/great they are. Most people (men and women) are boring asf and try to put up a smokescreen that they are more interesting than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:07 AM
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SOME MEN don’t want to date, SOME MEN do want to date. Men are not a monolith (just like women aren’t a monolith) I think you listen to respond which is a huge red flag…totally different to actually listening and absorbing the information provided. It’s easy for me to see that idiots who tar everyone with the same brush deserve to be unhappy fuckwits who stay alone. Leave the rest of us normal people alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:04 PM
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Don’t tar an entire gender with the same brush just because your life sucks and you’re a miserable fuck that got screwed by a bunch of dudes who didn’t want to settle for you. I love, respect and admire my fiancé and she does the same. People on here are soo terminally angry. The World is not black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:48 PM
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Competition creates the market
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:09 AM
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Yep, just like the entire “beauty” industry excels at understanding women’s insecurities, capitalising on women’s desire to meet the beauty standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:03 AM
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And steroids and supplements. Plus most male celebs wear makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 08:20 AM
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Men have been replaceable for centuries. If the pendulum swings back, there’s going to be zero sympathy. Life sucks sometimes, that’s reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:43 PM
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I admire soo much the kindness and caring nature of my fiancé. Her kindness, her love for animals like I have, she goes above and beyond to make sure I feel content and she’s beautiful with or without makeup on. I’m sure most girls are like that with their partners too. My fiancé is 29 weeks pregnant and will be a fantastic mother. Her and I are great with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:02 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:04 AM
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….seriously, can nobody read? I copied the person above me and changed the wording around
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:03 AM
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Doesn’t that apply to both genders? Women wanting what other women have out of jealousy? That’s why they’ll give their “friend” bad advice in their friend’s relationship in hopes of sabotaging it. Seen it happen way too often.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:06 PM
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Did…did you read what I was replying to? I was mocking the person above me… Have a read, remove your downvote and give yourself a slap on the forehead. Or? Do you only defend it when girls do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:59 PM
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Pin this to the freaking top. Answer this perfectly /close thread
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:36 AM
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Pretty sure guys don’t need to accept someone breaking the law. You have a right to safety if you are a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:43 AM
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Men gaining access to sex and Women gaining access to sex are not considered the same. One requires game/skill/level of attractiveness… The other requires just being open to sex These are not judged the same and rightly so. The opposite happens with commitment. One requires having the skills/ability/respect to gain commitment. The other requires saying a couple words. Women control access to sex, Men control access to commitment you can downvote all you like but the truth hurts. One is respected…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:40 AM
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They don’t ask but they definitely do care. If you’re the town bicycle and everybody knows it he’s getting clowned on by his friends/peers. Status and respect is important to men whether you’re one of the RedPill clowns or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:37 AM
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Why do all women think they should be as successful getting commitment from attractive men as the most attractive women? Like, life doesn’t work that way. Obviously, commitment success isn’t going to be distributed equally across the board. See how that can be flipped. People in general need to lower their expectations. It goes both ways. The most attractive guys are barely even settling down for the most attractive women let alone plain Jane’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:35 AM
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That’s from a RedPill page…that’s your first problem. If he’s happy and she’s happy what’s the issue? Their relationship is nobody else’s business. She’s a fantastic woman. As I said earlier I will feel compassion if the circumstances are out of your control (his and hers), not the consequences of your actions (people making poor choices then complaining about them)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:13 AM
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Hang on, we tell men “do better” and hold a thousand campaigns for DV and ways men can treat women because men are more likely to commit DV against women right? So why is child abuse, pedicide and infanticide not treated THE EXACT SAME WAY when there’s an extremely obvious large amount of it happening from one gender? We should have government backed campaigns raising awareness for this which is just as big a problem? What’s the difference? You wouldn’t be taking the “women are wonderful” approa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:26 PM
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Obviously a level of ego has to be involved to pursue dating and rejection will obviously cause a hit to that. The premise of “buy ME” a drink is totally wrong and would put me off immediately. If she bought him the drink it would be totally different. If a girl does that for me It would immediately give me the vibes that she has courage, she’s not entitled and she’s willing to put herself out there to show her interest. Telling him to buy her the drink comes across as she thinks her shit doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:22 PM
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That is incredibly stupid. Why is he the one who is “lucky” He wasn’t interested in the first place, he doesn’t owe you time or money. It isn’t a privilege to meet/spend time with anyone he has no investment in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:17 PM
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Hang on, men aren’t owed compassion… Girls by default don’t show compassion or sympathy for guys so why should guys do the same? Neither are owed anything. I will feel compassion if the circumstances are out of your control, not the consequences of your actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:05 PM
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So do you personally think she’s doing it for an ego boost?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:38 PM
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Nailed it It’s the entitlement and then thinking they’re still owed something. No honey, you’re now on an even playing field and it’s a reality check basically like a door being slammed in their faces. Guys will never sympathise with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:32 PM
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Even though they are far more likely to commit child abuse, pedicide and infanticide. Yet men are automatically presumed as monsters by women who perpetuate the stereotype to the very children they are more likely a danger to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:26 PM
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“Oh no, it’s the consequences of my poor decision making! Better blame every external factor rather than looking in the mirror and taking responsibility.” They will literally be toxic as hell and do little to no self reflection. How many guys out there sit around complaining about their ex partners? Now how about girls? They know it’s true and they sit there and deny deny deny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:13 PM
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Exactly If she says all her “ex partners were bad” There’s usually a common denominator and it isn’t the guys. Guys dating will usually suss out early in dating how a girl discusses past relationships because your past matters. If you spend too much time talking about how bad your past partners are generally that’s gonna send warning signs to not commit to the girl. We aren’t stupid, we can read between the lines of a toxic drama queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:08 PM
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She basically prefaced it with. “I’m doing you a favour by giving you the privilege of buying me a drink” Why didn’t she buy you a drink if she was keen? Think you dodged a bullet there and I hope her ego got massively checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:56 PM
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That’s like the video a lady interviewer did. She goes around asking a bunch of probably 20-30 year old men what they would prefer in a woman. “Natural” or “BBL” Overwhelming ALL of the guys answered “Natural” Then she did the same for 20-30 year old women with same question. What would men prefer in a woman? Overwhelming ALL of the women answered “BBL” And they think men are easy to read. They don’t even know what men want and then think they can get these guys to commit to them? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:30 PM
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Girls giving guys dating advice is about the dumbest fucking thing ever. THEY DON’T EVEN KNOW WHAT THEY WANT 😂 How could they possibly help anyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:39 AM
1

BRAVO Thank you for speaking some common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:36 AM
7

Just not entertaining bad faith arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:26 PM
3

You could just read what I said instead of going on a tangent?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:18 PM
8

Sigh…it’s not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:18 PM
21

North Korea calls themselves “Democratic People’s Republic of Korea” ….there’s about 3 things wrong I can point out with that title alone. Labelling yourself something means nothing if the actions don’t match what you say. They can say all they like how they feel about men…actions tell an entirely different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:24 AM
1

It’s shaming language to try and stop disagreements. They don’t like being told “no”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:14 AM
2

You keep projecting and then labelling others…hypocritical much?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:07 AM
1

OP is using bad faith arguments and a bunch of projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:05 AM
1

Pointing out a double standard and hypocrisy is not jealousy and victimisation. It’s pointing out a bad faith argument. I don’t agree with a lot of Red Pill stuff because I think a lot of their points are used to cope with the fact life sucks in a lot of ways and most guys aren’t handed anything which they whine and moan about…life’s hard guys, move TF on and get over it. BUUUT, Feminists are basically the other side of the same coin. Same talking points but flipped and whining even though 99% o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:00 AM
3

Men are shamed for bullshit beauty standards all the time. Difference is they can’t control those things which makes it even WORSE like height, hair/hairline, facial hair Not saying women don’t suffer horrible judgment I’m just saying the dude ones are totally out of any control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:05 AM
2

Are they actually going full blow for blow against you or are they holding back? I don’t want to assume because you said you were trained I just imagine most of those guys don’t want to/won’t go full tilt against a woman. It’s nothing to do with you personally I’m sure you could handle yourself in many situations most girls can’t, it’s just hard to get out of the mindset in a mucking around sense of not wanting to hurt women physically because we have greater length/mass and muscle/bone density.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:20 AM
4

You sound like you’re trying to compete with the guys. Which means they are going to treat you like one of the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:24 PM
8

The consequences of choices and actions Zero accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:10 AM
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I didn’t say you shouldn’t look after your partner so we agree on that. What I said isn’t wrong though? You are responsible for your own happiness. If you’re relying on others for your happiness then you’ve messed up somewhere along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:06 AM
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You’re responsible for your own happiness not someone else’s. He’s not a crutch. Just like she wouldn’t be a crutch if he was the one noting meeting expectations or dropping the ball.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:51 AM
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I’m not saying you’re wrong I’m saying why personally attack someone just because someone presents you a scenario or question. There’s no reason to be unnecessarily hostile.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 12:42 AM
4

Why not just answer what he said instead of jumping to ad hominem attacks?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:08 PM
4

Pretty sure she got grilled on this on a podcast and they found out she was raised by a single parent and got emotional when she was questioned about her logic behind this. If I remember correctly, she couldn’t even back up her own logic, she just wanted some doormat to provide without getting anything in return because her mum was a single parent who struggled and she didn’t want anyone else to go through the same thing. Her heart was in the right place but her logic was completely messed up an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:31 PM
5

Very true, just going on my experiences and the success with it. 100% never failed. Definitely worked with my fiancée haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:39 AM
5

Like Michael Jordan said. You don’t call yourself the GOAT, you let your peers be the judge based on ratings in each criteria and it’s disrespectful to his mentors/people he looked up to. Humility is a very important trait. Compared to LeBron CALLING himself the GOAT and getting laughed at. You can call yourself the GOAT all you like but everybody knows real G’s move in silence like lasagne. MJ will always be number 1
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:09 AM
8

Ice cream and evening/late afternoon stroll is better since not everyone likes/drinks coffee. 99% eat ice-cream and you can go specialised icecream if the date has dietary requirements. Never had a bad experience doing it. Always worked for me and got 2nd dates and further. 2nd date usually did something more activity based. Dinner date basically not my thing until we are exclusive LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:51 AM
6

That’s such a ridiculous assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:11 AM
7

This take is outrageous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:00 AM
1

Potentially, most likely no but we’d need more context. People can still have feelings for others even when in a relationship. It does happen. When people talk about “orbiters” they’re talking about people who are close enough to you to be in regular contact. Like a “my guy best friend” kind of thing. It’s not just some random you chatted to 15 years ago and now don’t even talk to…that’s just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:03 AM
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I’ve always thought it comes across as overcompensation. If someone tries to brag about being knowledgeable about something I’ll be like, “Oh ok I don’t really care tbh but you do you”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:32 PM
1

Weaponised incompetence is a absolutely a real thing and if your partner is doing it you need to communicate that or talk with a councillor (impartial third party) to get the kinks worked out so both are contributing at a fair level. BUUUUUT and this is a big one. YOUR way of doing a task isn’t THE ONLY WAY of doing things. There is MORE THAN ONE way to do a task. I’ve found with some relationships and even my own mother that control issues with daily household tasks can be a massive issue that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:41 PM
0

Because it’s not that deep. It’s surface level banter, it’s how we bond. We don’t take it to heart because it’s not about our character or our values or anything like that. It’s just joking around understood by the guys as a way to connect on an even level. If your friend can take it and dish it back then you know he’s your bro. We can call each other a dickhead and be having a beer together 5 minutes later because we are doing it in jest and the person we are doing it to is reciprocating with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:54 AM
1

Ditto Before my wonderful fiancée, I was with a FWB for 6 months. I wouldn’t call it a relationship but I’d imagine she would since when I said I was not doing it anymore and going to make it official with my current partner to start dating my now fiancée officially at the time, the FWB told me she loved me in response… $1000 says she was telling people we were in a relationship even though we BOTH clearly outlined from the beginning that it was casual and I wasn’t looking for anything more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:20 AM
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Cause she’s full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:56 PM
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You denied that girls have agency WHEN THEY DO and then came in with a straw man to justify doubling down. But yeah he’s wrong, soo many people with incorrect pill flairs 🤦🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:39 AM
0

You know that’s not true and to imply it is, is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:11 AM
3

People change their minds all the time for a bunch of reasons. That’s why there’s a huge portion voting block called “swing voters”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:12 AM
5

Easiest way is to stop incentivising MONEY when people split. Biggest factor is divorce is money first and foremost.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 02:48 AM
4

There’s no consent there. If you walked over and spanked her ass and she’s a stranger…how do you think that would go down? It absolutely is sexual assault, even if it’s something minor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:20 AM
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“You’re not a real man” As if ANY woman could define what being a man is. Sorry to hear this bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:15 AM
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This is what I find hilarious. It’s a piss easy to do. I don’t get why people feel they need a pat on the back for doing something that a child could do. If your partner can’t do basic human shit then they aren’t much of a partner are they? You should respect both yourself and your partner enough not to live like a slob and it should be equal amount of effort into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 02:22 AM
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Because women like sex too…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:59 AM
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No it’s sounds like you’re answering with feelings…salty
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:12 AM
2

Seriously? If your man can’t basic shit like cook/clean/do basic housework/outdoor chores then WTF is he doing? That shit isn’t hard, that’s why I always laugh when people complain about being SAH parents. That’s the easy shit, it’s raising a child that is the task.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:58 AM
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Yeah how many of them have guys on the go while they say they are “single” When they say “single” they don’t truly mean single. They mean being in physical relationships without putting labels on it. ONS, Fuck buddies etc are still a type of relationship. They just won’t admit that they are investing time and emotional labour into it because MUH INDEPENDENCE!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:47 AM
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In 2024? Really? Are men still struggling to do basic daily tasks like housework? It’s piss easy!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:44 AM
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Women enjoy solitude more? Source? If anything most guys like peace and quiet lol There’s a major difference between choosing to be in solitude that you can pull yourself in and out of and basically being pigeonholed into it. I reckon a lot of guys need to improve a lot in their lives and stop the obsession over being in a relationship…learning to be happy SINGLE and stop giving undeserving girls attention that they won’t reciprocate. BUT I also think girls need to take accountability. You can’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:42 AM
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Which I mean that’s fine because reality is not everyone will pass on genetics and the family line may stop with them. But if this then continues into society (it already is in Japan, Korea etc) it’s going to continue to get worse Either girls need to reality check themselves where the pendulum swings back or the World needs to update and women need to change to persue men. This is the environment that has been created.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:46 PM
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The “deal with it” part is the WORST. “Deal with it” sounds like great advice while populations are collapsing already in several nations where they are even further along the scale where dudes have completely checked out of dating/relationships. They don’t get that, if guys don’t do “society”, then society collapses. There won’t BE anything for them to go for as they get older and older. “We don’t need Men” YES you motherfucking do LOL They honestly think sperm banks just magically fill themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:25 PM
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Seriously? There are guys out there that don’t want to get the woman off first? TF is wrong with them? How selfish can someone be lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:51 AM
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That’s not just a male thing? There are genuinely women who actually believe I am “giving” my male partner sex so he should just be grateful. Like a fucking reward…Its a garbage mentality to have treating men as “lesser than” Legal sex is between consenting adults, plural. If that’s not your relationship/situationship then something is off. Also before someone says something dumb in response, communication is key! Libidos go up and down and arent a stagnant thing, but if your partner TRULY loves…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:44 AM
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Of course it is? Taking accountability is also not gender specific and yet it seems to be one gender that has real trouble with doing so. And it isn’t men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:03 AM
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Oh I agree we were just going with the premise of single/relationship. You’ve changed the entire question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:25 AM
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Which I mean, they should be? But not because they are being called those terms, but because they are acting that way for people specifically to say that. If people are pointing out lack of maturity that should be a wake up call to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:42 AM
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That’s fucking stupid because the reverse is exactly the same…calling him a manchild after sleeping with him isn’t the exact same thing? At least bring a coherent point forward
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:37 AM
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Lack of accountability strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:35 AM
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Would “acting like a brat/spoiled” be the equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:32 AM
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The real question should be. “Would you be happier in a happy relationship or being single?” And not “it’s complicated” or “I’m with a FWB” Actually legitimately single. Not sleeping with someone. Too many people (men and women) are soured and salty by their shitty relationships that they think being single long term is the new goal rather than realising the shitty relationship was shitty and that you’d get a different result in a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:37 AM
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Supposed to be about discussion. Probably why I’m under “no Pill” Don’t subscribe to any one thing. Life isn’t one narrow thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:27 PM
2

Ok yeah that’s fair, appreciate the response!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:19 PM
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Yeah the second my fiance uses something like that, she can pack her bags and be gone. Thankfully she treats me with respect and not once has ever used anything we’ve talked about previously against me. Because she knows she’s done if she even tries that bullshit. I don’t care if she wants to argue/discuss a point with me as long as it’s fair game. It’s the same crap as, “a real man would” They have ZERO ownership or knowledge of what a “real” man is because they aren’t a man. If expect the exac…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:44 AM
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For the gender that says they are really good at communicating, it sure does sound like they like to talk “at” each other not “to” each other. That’s terrible communication skills lol Guys for all their flaws will at least tell it “to you”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:40 AM
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Hold on? If he has a platonic female friend that does something that you think is “inappropriate” is it ok for him to decide if your feelings about said action are valid or not? Genuinely curious because if you say no to this you’re being a major hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:29 AM
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That’s a massive assumption you just made. Girls and guys can feel more than one emotion. It’s wrong to assume only girls are allowed to be “sad” or “unhappy” and guys can only be “angry” That being said, if your partner isn’t “receptive to your emotions” I’d say that either one of the below are happening A) we aren’t getting the full picture B) One or both are immature
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:23 AM
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So you literally read one line and ran with it? You sound lovely…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:16 AM
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I think the point they are making is your words say one thing but your partner selection suggests different. Hence OPs point. But I also think people are too quick to lump people into black and white categories when reality is much more a shade of grey. I make more than my fiance cause she works part time whereas I work full time. She wants to be around to raise kids while I’m more than happy for her to do that while I’m the breadwinner. But we also do all our bills together, we share equal amou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:26 AM
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They’re in the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:32 AM
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BUUUT MA PREFERENCES Standards for thee but not for me. Bunch of hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:49 AM
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You can’t expect “hot and single” if you aren’t that yourself dude. Even “hot” guys get nowhere near the level of success as even above average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:52 AM
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How long before OP becomes one of the “men” she’s talking about when she suddenly gets upset and they have a fight/argument…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:34 PM
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That could apply to anything in life too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:31 PM
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My fiancé does shit for me all the time and vice versa because we are a team. If I wanted flowers as a guy (I don’t), I’d ask for them but I don’t want flowers so it’s not required. Instead, she gives me back/foot rubs and runs her hands through my hair while we are sitting watch tv. I do the same for her. She’s pregnant too so I’ve been doing more of the chores/tasks so that she can relax since she’s carrying a freaking human inside of her. If you’re a team you’ll love doing it for your partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:42 AM
2

Genuinely curious what those “tests” are? Heard of women shit testing guys a lot, never heard of a guy shit testing girls? A least that I’ve heard of?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:39 AM
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This is the best answer here!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:38 AM
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People can’t do that? That’s freaking easy It’s called a calendar, you give yourself a reminder to do things on certain days. As long as it’s communicated between you and your partner so you both know what’s required and when, both of you should be able to do that stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 04:59 AM
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Exactly the same as us, good to see that this viewpoint is widespread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:24 PM
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I mean the answer is pretty simple… If they are stomping their feet and making a big fuss over men paying for dates it’s because they only believe in equality when it suits/benefits them. If your partner/potential partner isn’t going out of their way to even just simply offer to pay on the first date (even actually getting out a card/cash) then that should be a sign that they already expect you to pay for stuff. Back when I was dating, I always insisted on paying on the first date but that’s bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:22 AM
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Suggesting “just be yourself” is the dumbest advice you could give to these guys that are already down on confidence and not achieving results. Wait? Really? That was what was holding them back all along? Why didn’t they think of that! /s It’s not helpful and will not change anything. It’s keeping them in exactly the same spot they are in now where they are struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:20 AM
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Social stigma and lack of human intimacy would probably hinder that. Guys can go without that stuff for long periods of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:35 PM
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Guys would make MORE money staying single because they would be less likely to have kids and more likely to spend longer at work meaning more overtime, more on call, less commitments to social life so they can focus on building their own wealth and not lavishly spending (huge majority of consumer purchases are by females, guys live simplistic lifestyles if they have to) Obviously the best thing for society is two people growing together but there’s a lot of costs that become involved by being in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:08 AM
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She wants to be the one who tames a wild boy. Like it’s some fairytale lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:03 AM
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It’s not that they aren’t having sex, it’s not having sex with THOSE guys in particular that are complaining they aren’t getting any. Most girls are willing to drop panties for a dude in a heartbeat if it gives them the tingle. They hold different standards for different guys which is totally their right. It’s their body. But they also can’t complain about “aLL mEn sUcK!” “wHeRe ArE aLL tHe GoOd MeN!” if they continually fuck the fuckboys and those fuckboys continue treating it as a casual fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:00 AM
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Can confirm Both my partner and I partied very early 20’s, both got into relationships shortly after. Broke up with people then met each other at 24 through mutual friends (she used to work with my brother). Now both 30, own our home, engaged and have a baby on the way. It’s pretty much the norm for most normal guys. You spend your late teens/early 20’s partying and enjoying being a young adult. As you hit mid 20’s you start looking for a more serious relationship and start becoming more mature.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:13 PM
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Same can be said for women? Some people suck, some people don’t. It’s not gender specific
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:43 AM
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Why would you associate those horrible things with AGR? If both are adults then they are BOTH free to choose. Any other assumptions you make is your own insecurities being projected.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:25 AM
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You can’t control height.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:10 AM
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I think a lot of TRP is garbage but length of text/context is a very good point. There’s a balance
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:45 PM
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Absolutely correct To the point and always having clear intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:42 PM
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What a load of crock, go away with that holier than thou bullshit. Stop lying with your flair. Doctors don’t just hand out anti depressants like candy? People have to be clinically diagnosed to receive treatment. And then there’s levels to treatment. Different medications do different things for different people. Blaming an entire gender for the other gender jumping on anti-depressants is moronic. Depression is a mental illness, has nothing to do with that. What is concerning is that an entire g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:52 AM
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Anti-Depressant usage amongst women has skyrocketed. I reckon there’s some cognitive dissonance going on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:29 PM
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Self-reported data is useless because people lie and omit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:15 AM
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Guys are terrible at lying. You just didn’t hear about the girls doing it because they’re better at covering it up and being covert so of course you aren’t gonna hear about it if they never let it slip? The numbers are almost equal in terms of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:09 AM
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Usually associated with APD correct? Very very small % of people who meet that criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:05 AM
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It’s always funny sitting back and watching both extremes blame each other for stuff that has happened forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:37 AM
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Can’t have you cake and eat it too Being sold a lie to “have it all” was never going to work out. You can’t push a sexual revolution for women then tell men to “be better” and “stop being players” and expect everything to just fall into place. Men saw more women pushing for more sex without commitment and went, “Umm ok? Lol” It comes across as hypocritical to lessen standards one way while increasing them the other. No matter how pure the intentions were. So while women started exploring the mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:23 PM
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THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:35 AM
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You are part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:31 AM
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I’m with you brother. Me too…oh shit am I allowed to use that term?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:31 AM
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What power do 99% of us have? Can I have some of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:26 AM
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Why would you be insecure about that? My fiancé doesn’t put herself in those positions because she respects me, just like I respect her and don’t put myself in those positions to make her uncomfortable. Would be different if she was being outright disrespectful to me, with or without me there. No one said anything about just talking to the other gender. We both do that because it’s totally normal to speak platonically to everyone. You’re making it seem like no one is allowed to talk to the oppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:17 AM
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If she’s doing that she is entirely disrespectful and you leave her ass immediately. Your partner doesn’t even entertain that kind of shit if they care about you, same for the reverse
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:06 PM
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I agree with what you’re saying. However, of that 88%, how many are actually single? How many are gay/bi? How many are looking to be in a relationship? How many have high standards? How many already have a butt tonne of men in their DM’s/hanging with them that they wouldn’t consider outsider of their own circle they already have? How many are too old or too young? How many are lower than the dude’s standards? How many are in prison? How many are homeless/in debt/have mental issues? 88%??? Bet th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:09 PM
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Red Pill grifters make money by making dumb bimbos look stupid and hypocritical They make money = bimbos want to hang around them for “clout” and “males with status” because it increases their instagram views/Tik Tok numbers RP grifters get “clout” and “status” from other males because they have money and bimbos around them The “clout” they have gets them more money to make podcasts grifting easily persuaded disillusioned males who are tired of being made to feel like the villain 24/7. They are …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:57 PM
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Similar to I believe the popular saying called a Duck Test “If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck…” Basically can apply it to people who continually put themselves in those situations then complain about everyone else with zero accountability. Or as you said. If they are walking around and keep complaining they can smell shit every where they go, maybe it’s time to check their own shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:20 AM
1

You sound annoying. Please stop
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 09:41 AM
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The problem is you’re saying it to the guys who aren’t doing that to you already. You may as well be yelling into the wind. The guys who are approaching you and “not leaving you alone” aren’t the guys you are giving advice to lol These guys do not and will not care what you have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:26 PM
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Can confirm that both are beneficial and I rarely go to couples therapy. You should always be looking to improve/work on things. Being complacent is why relationships are breaking down and soo many people are on anti-depressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:08 AM
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Dude this mindset is soo toxic. I play football and do regular time trial events like 2kms, 5kms and 10kms events. I would never tell anyone that only doing physical activity is the only way to improve mental health. Especially when we know depression is a mental illness. It’s actually chemical imbalances in your brain. Not everything can be solved with “Just lift bro!”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:05 AM
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Lol what? Why would you give this terrible advice to people? Therapy is good for everyone Having a third party who isn’t in any way connected to either you or your partner is a great sounding board/brainstorming for ideas on how to make your relationship stronger. That way you come from a place of positivity rather than negative “he said/she said” crap. People automatically think therapy = bad You’d never tell a marathon runner to stop training because they broke a record time. You’d never tell …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:59 AM
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This is something I actually agree with even though a lot of stuff on here is garbage advice. If she isn’t showing similar interest and effort as you early on that’s a big red flag for it being doomed to fail. Theres always an exception but exceptions aren’t the rules. Things should just click early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:13 AM
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Michael Jordan said it best. “I don’t want the GOAT label because it disrespects all the legends who came before me” Basically real leaders don’t need to tell others they are the best, they let their peers do the talking for them. Same with “aLpHa” bros…you aren’t an Alpha if you have to try and convince everyone else you are one. Real G’s move in silence like lasagne
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:05 AM
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And people forget that who you are at 20 is not who you are at 30. Which is not who you are at 40. You have a different mentality at those ages. I’m 30 and am engaged and I’m going to be a father in about 8 months. At 20 I was partying and spending my nights at bars/clubs having fun. At 30 I’m more content hanging out with friends/family at Home and having a chilled night in with my fiancé. If you told me in 10 years time that I’d be going after a girl who is 20 because “men only want the younge…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:12 AM
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These guys completely misunderstand what a HVM is. They think falling into the RP echo chamber will solve all their problems. Problems that can’t be fixed by internet scammers looking to make a quick buck off of them. It takes personal accountability from both men and women. Everybody ages lol, the wall is there for everybody once they hit over the age of 40. No one is going to look the same at 40 as what they were at 20. That’s just basic biology. That’s why it’s called a “mid life crisis” when…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:32 AM
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Have you never been touched inappropriately by an older woman? I know that myself and plenty of my mates have because that dumbass bullshit double standard of, “women touching men inappropriately is ok” I never asked for it. Made me feel super uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:26 AM
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Or? She’s unstable herself and is blaming external factors rather than accepting accountability that maybe she is the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:15 PM
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Ego I’d assume? You’re telling these guys that they aren’t a catch, that they weren’t a prize or really all that wanted. That they’re just the afterthought of what she really wanted and she had to settle for them. I’m lucky my fiancé treats me well and shows me how much she appreciates me. She was the one who initially chased me so I think that also helps. Both partners in the relationship should make their partner feel wanted. It’s a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:37 AM
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He’s telling the truth. The house of cards is falling because girls can’t complain that, “MUH HUSBAND DOESN’T HELP OUT AROUND DA HOUSE” If we are equal and have been raised that way with more and more of the younger generation growing up being told to contribute at home, this isn’t your mum and dad’s generation of living anymore. Guys contribute just as much around the house and now that bullshit excuse isn’t gonna fly anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:09 AM
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Women easily make up the majority of the consumer base which drives up inflation which drives up cost of living. So yeah that is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:04 AM
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And majority on anti-depressants. That’s not a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:57 AM
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It’s the norm, not exceptional behavior. THIS! It should just be the norm for BOTH partners. Being polite doesn’t require a freaking pat on the back. It should just be common courtesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:56 AM
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So if I hold a door because I’m being polite it’s now showing off? TF kind of logic is that? It’s a freaking door..IDGAF who I hold it for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:54 AM
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If my partner ever asks me this I always have a go to answer. “We should both try it on and see who’s ass looks better? 😉” Usually gets a laugh and an eye roll out of her, I’m not falling for that stupid trap question. Just like “rate me out of 10” Why? Those stupid rating scales are subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:34 AM
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Varies between teens to 20ish range depending on who I am surrounded by in work/hobbies. The fact I live with my fiancé means I have at least one female around me almost every day. I can tell you right now listening to some of her group chats that many women are very horny and will make some very sexual comments. One of her friends has been perving on a dude at her gym daily and even said she was going to pleasure herself to the thought of him just yesterday. This from a girl who is definitely n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:28 AM
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It’s not violence that will get you, it’s the rising interest rates and bills that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:21 AM
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You asking a majority of a group of people who don’t do anything like that to change something that they already don’t do and expecting results is ridiculous LOL Bad people are gonna do bad things whether you ask the wrong group of people nicely or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:17 AM
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It’s easier just to check out and not do those things if the conditions are fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:11 AM
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That would imply accountability LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:08 AM
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Exactly, “Halo” effect will always win out. Humans are flawed and like to think they are smarter/more intuitive than they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:07 AM
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Being covert about it doesn’t make it any less creepy. And creepy people are not going to admit they are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:37 AM
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There are already women’s only gyms that exist…multiple different ones that have gone out of business or completely become irrelevant due to lack of customers. Women don’t even use women only gyms because what they’re saying and what they’re doing are two different things. Curves being just one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:34 AM
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When have girls ever been called out for being creepy in public? Like ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:31 AM
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Soo men get more support after divorce?…if you say yes I’m actually going to walk into the ocean…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:53 PM
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Married men do less household labour vs single men What results and data are you using though? Those studies aren’t even close to being up to date. Men more than ever are doing all those things that are supposedly “not being done”. It’s such a stupid tired old trope about lazy husbands. It’s the same type of crap women say when they go, “oh isn’t it great that he’s babysitting” It’s extremely sexist and a disgusting mindset to have when he is just as much the parent as the mother is. This isn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:46 PM
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My relationship with my partner is very positive and we love each other very much. We are a team and will always try to look at it from each other’s point of view which I find makes it easier for us to get/stay on the same page. I appreciate that you’re being civil and not attacking me for my perspective. Very refreshing! As for why they would feel that way? Biggest one I could think of that gets brought up here would be that since 80% of divorces are initiated by one gender that there’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:51 AM
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I don’t only see it as a negative? Did you read what I said? I said I can see the justification of why these guys don’t want to get married. I, myself, me, the person speaking to you can see more positives than negatives in my own relationship because Im going in with a clear idea that I, myself, me KNOWS the risks that I as a male am taking and trust that our relationship is strong and will continue to work on our relationship no matter the ups/downs that happen. IF anything were to happen, it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:54 AM
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Can you blame them? What benefits do most guys get out of marriage?…for any benefit you point out for most guys they could point out 5 downsides. 90% of the risk is taken on by 1 person and I’ll let you guess which one it is. These guys have seen the results and data and have checked out of going down that route. Marriage had more of a basis in religion in the past. Now it’s basically a marriage contract. As an engaged man myself, I know that what I’m signing up for means that if shit was to eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:17 AM
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Basically the “Halo effect” in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:13 AM
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That quote usually comes from women and it’s f’n disgusting. I’m not “babysitting” FFS, same as “giving mommy a break” No TF I’m not, I’m doing just as much child raising if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:06 AM
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What are the moral rules we place on men that you disagree with? What do our standards have to do with those rules? I think (based on what I can gather) what OP is trying to say is that normal guys who go on normal dates have expectations placed on them by women/society to not pressure for anything and have to wait their turn for things because he doesn’t want to be judged morally as a creep/sex crazed etc etc He wants to morally be viewed in the eyes of women as respectful and kind and a gentle…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:53 AM
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If he can’t do that basic shit he’s not an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:49 AM
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Exactly Women hold power with sex Men hold power with relationships We work better when we allow ourselves to understand each other better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:42 AM
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People at my work are acquaintances, people who I play sport with are acquaintances. My friends are my friends. I totally agree, I think people conflate the two about people who they are just nice to and can have a chat with and can’t differentiate between that and the people who you extensively hang out with outside of work/commitments etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:25 AM
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My male friends and I have been friends since high school and still catch up to shoot hoops, go to someone’s place for events like birthdays, social events, public holidays etc, go for drinks even though all of us are in relationships, married and or have kids. You should still be able to maintain friendships through that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:24 AM
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So again Wealthy —————- Middle class —————- Poor This is all you should be focusing on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:05 AM
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Do the men around you suffer from the same cost of living crisis and interest rate hikes? It’s almost like it’s only the wealthy who benefit, wealthy isn’t gendered either. Those rich families have rich men AND WOMEN. Money has no discrimination when it comes to gender. The rich want us to be at a gender war with each other so we aren’t tackling class warfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:55 AM
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I know for sure that I care, it’s rubbish you can’t choose where your taxes go. I know for sure what I’d be cutting immediately. It’s fine if other people want to pay for them but they shouldn’t be my responsibility because of others bad choices. I’m sure plenty of people would be happy to offset the costs of all the single baby mamas out there…right? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:42 AM
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I said single and hooking up. I didn’t say whether it resulted in a relationship or not (a few times it did) a few times i wasn’t looking for anything more than casual stuff and that’s what it was. I don’t go into dating people with any preconceived notions. I see what happens and where it goes and decide if I want a relationship from there? With my fiancé, we both went in thinking it would be casual without telling the other that and we both didn’t have expectations on anything and it’s now res…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:21 AM
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Exactly! I never go out for dinner dates too early. You want to do fun stuff first! My fiance and I went bowling/ate icreceam, went for a walk by the river so we could spend time on finding out about each other (we already knew little bits through mutual friends/my bro so we hit it off almost instantly) Second date went to the city view lookout and then had drinks at the local pub so again we could chat while we did activities that were fun that didn’t feel coercive or pressurised on either of u…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:06 AM
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…you’re backtracking after YOU (I can type in all caps too to make a point lol) made the statement of basically “nOt aLL wOmEn!” That’s your platitude. You saw a statistic that said ”43.8% of lesbian women and 61.1% of bisexual women have experienced rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner at some point in their lifetime, as opposed to 35% of heterosexual women.” and you went into how it’s misleading when the stats are right there to read. That’s the stat, you don’t need …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:59 AM
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And I agree with you on that it’s totally not the case and if anything is trending into a much more “50/50” style of thing. It’s definitely still a majority preference though and to deny that would be denying that women still at the end of the day prefer many traditional ideals when they talk of “equality”. It’s very much still men courting women and men insisting on paying. Majority of couples are still very much following along with gender structured norms despite what the media is telling peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:38 AM
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But then you’re just assuming just like you said others are doing? “By an intimate partner” That could be anything, that could in the past be 99% woman on woman, could be 99% man on woman. It doesn’t say specifically what it is? You can’t make platitudes out of that statement based on nothing? You made an assumption based on preconceived bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:35 AM
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lol you don’t think this still happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:20 AM
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Couldn’t we assume the same about any other stat then by putting qualifications on everything to make it into something else based on pedantic wording? It sounds you just don’t like what the stat says so you’re trying to twist the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:15 AM
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I agree with you but the basis of the original question is laughable there’s no point even entertaining it. You don’t entertain for example anti-Vax rubbish right? So why would I entertain another silly premise?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:11 AM
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Hypotheticals usually have some basis in reality. This question has none as I can find about 10 issues in about 5 seconds with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:10 AM
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Highest levels of DV are female/female relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:39 AM
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Basically hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:34 AM
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No it does not! You’re telling me that something women get easy access to is hard…I mean come on LOL surely you’re not going to act like there are not major biological differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:42 PM
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One person’s personal experience doesn’t make up the majority There’s a reason you called it a trope. Had to have come from somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:35 AM
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It’s not gonna be every guy and every family but I’d say more often than not it is the case. Some guys are either not gonna bring it up or aren’t good at vetting but the bullshit alarm thing is definitely a thing. We can smell it from other dudes a mile away. Insincerity comes across very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:26 AM
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Are you a man? Have you ever had “the talk” Ask the guys here if they’ve been vetted in some way before. I’d assume more than half will tell you they have before. Defintely isn’t a “trope”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:22 AM
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Men are pretty good at smelling bullshit from other men very quickly. He has a point, it’s why girls use to introduce their potential partner to her father so he could give the new potential bf a “talk” and or vet him to suss him out. This isn’t just a TV trope it’s a good way to get an idea if he’s a fuckboy, a bum or whatever other red flags pop up. If the bullshit alarm is going off early then the Dad is probably gonna lean on his daughter to reconsider.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:32 AM
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Very well put and I’m sure you could add another 100 more self-related questions of vetting if you wanted to. Plenty of chances to vet. If they keep meeting all these “bad” men then chances are they are the common denominator and they are the problem. It’s nobody else’s fault if you make poor choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:29 AM
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Common sense!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:26 AM
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Would rather argue over semantics of a name than actually address what you said. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:26 AM
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What happens when the majority of those perpetually lonely and perpetually online men paying for their lifestyle start choosing a robot over them? They can’t make money off of these guys if these guys aren’t buying what they are selling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:11 PM
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Ok sure thing sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:27 PM
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…..I asked questions. Seriously? You’re just looking for an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:27 PM
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This sounds like the reverse but for girls? Lol Most girls have a laundry list of standards these days that they won’t compromise on and then complain that they’re struggling to find a guy “where are all the good men gone?” Sound familiar? Most average guys are struggling to even get a date let alone a relationship. I think I read somewhere that over 60% of men under the age of 30 are single and lonely. That number is increasing. With women doing far better than ever monetarily, socially and hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:00 PM
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Hey now I’m in a very happy, committed relationship with my fiancé Some of us just like reading this hilarious shit during work breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:53 PM
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I don’t know why you keep commenting on my stuff but please stop. You’re not adding anything to the conversation. Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:52 PM
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No I’m not? You don’t know me so you shouldn’t make assumptions about me… Go read my other comments and bugger off. Fake ass profiles trying to talk shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:42 PM
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I appreciate you taking the time to answer the questions. Sounds like you both communicate well and are on the same page with things which is a big part of being a good couple. Flowers to both of you, wishing you a lifetime of happiness!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:42 AM
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Huh? I’m confused? I’m not being judgmental I asked a legitimate question as I’m curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:31 AM
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So you mean to tell me he was really eager to not do monogamy and you were not on board at first but now you are? How does that make you feel? Please be candid here no judgment! Do you feel like you were coerced to go along with it for the sake of the relationship? Are your needs being met? Do you want to close the relationship down the track or only when he decides? Or does he never want to close it? I know it’s a lot but these are important questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:28 AM
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Now now give them a chance, no judgment here u/Kizka, who was the one who brought up the idea of an open relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:54 AM
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For sure, I appreciate you going into detail!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:52 AM
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Women try to change men all the time once they get in relationships to get them to meet more of their own arbitrary standards. The whole “I’m training him to be a good partner/husband” or “I can tame the bad boy” thing and we just accept it as normal? Why is it if a guy has ONE boundary that it becomes an issue? I agree trying to turn a baddie into a housewife probably isn’t gonna work just like trying to turn a bad boy into a good guy isn’t gonna work…there’s just massive double standards here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:00 AM
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Quick question Who decided they wanted to open up the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:49 AM
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The thing that does give me pause is when they are arrogant about it, or that they believe that it entitles them to more say in a relationship, or that they believe that just because they're outstanding in their field means that they are outstanding in every field. In exactly the same way that women find men behaving that way kind of offensive or unattractive. PREACH MY DUDE, PREACH! I reckon most guys couldn’t give two shits if she earned more than him, it’s when she brings that “boss bitch” at…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:34 PM
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Prenups generally get thrown out. They aren’t some be-all end-all magical clause that saves people from having accountability like they do on tv shows. If you are out earning him and you split, get ready for your finances to take a hit. When you get married, you’re signing a contract that basically says “If we split we get 50/50 no matter who has contributed more to this” Even then most countries count “de facto” as on the same level as marriage too so same rules apply. Most prenups do not get h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:19 PM
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Why is it a revenge fantasy? Women can emasculate men but men can’t do the same back? Sounds sexist… I mean my partner and I are a team and I don’t care who earns more money but demonising one person doing the same thing as the other gender shouldn’t be ok. That’s a massive double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:57 PM
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Isn’t that kind of obvious? You aren’t owed friendship just like he isn’t owed sex or romance. If he has no self respect and orbits you that’s on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:33 AM
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It was a question not a statement…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:52 PM
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I’m not from the US LOL but sure! And what about what I said is promiscuous? I asked a question…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:08 AM
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7 in a lifetime? As in relationships or just sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:03 AM
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When they say, “someone would be lucky to have you” what they’re really saying is “someone who is below my level would be better off with you…me? I’m outta your league buddy and don’t you forget it” You have to really listen to what they’re saying or watch the actions. Flowery language dressed up as a backhanded compliment. Eg You’re a perfect emotional support I can lean on when I’m feeling down but I don’t want anything more than that. Never, ever become that to a girl. You’re basically labell…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:27 AM
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That’s like a rich person saying, “you’re poor, you should just get rich stupid!”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:14 AM
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How is it hard to understand? If the husband is the one who stays home because the wife is making more money and stays in her career then he should receive the exact same benefits. We both know that’s not the case…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:43 PM
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Movember is a big thing in Australia, heaps of money gets raised and everyone knows why a bunch of guys are growing out their “mo’s”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:21 AM
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One is potentially damaging to life/career/family The other is just hurtful Those two things are not even remotely close to the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:48 AM
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Women are working just as much as men so it should go both ways? Both people need to earn a living due to cost of living and wage stagnation. That affects BOTH males and females.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:47 AM
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TLDR; You’re deflecting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:37 PM
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Kony was massive at the time? I’m 30 and I remember it clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:31 AM
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That’s most people in general It’s not their words but their actions that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:25 AM
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No, you’re choosing to accept what you say as fact and what others have pointed out here as “not harmful” You benefit from how modern dating works. Women want men who are masculine and fulfil their gender roles but then also want to take masculine roles when it suits. That’s a bullshit standard and the reason why a lot of guys are jaded here. I can almost guarantee you aren’t the one going to check that noise in the middle of the night when you start feeling fear, you aren’t the one standing in …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:22 AM
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THIS! Spot on! I cook, clean, do washing, do outdoor tasks like gardens/mowing, run errands all the time and work full time….plenty of men do all those things that “apparently” only women do. Where’s my 100k? Oh wait? YOU AREN’T OWED SHIT, ITS NOT A JOB It’s a responsibility of owning a house, not a fucking “woe is me situation” Sick of people, specifically girls complaining about doing housework….nawww diddums. Did wiping that bench make your day hard ? It’s embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:20 PM
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According to some of the think tanks we should as men just appreciate being in their presence. As if us men are just a bunch of plebs who are even lucky to be allowed to communicate/be near women at all….it’s a gross mindset! I love and value my partner very deeply but if she tried even slightly to stop me from hanging with my male friends (she doesn’t) we wouldn’t be together. She’s been in a very controlling relationship before and she knows the hurt and pain it causes. She could never subject…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:00 PM
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Bars/Clubs, Bumble for social media App, through mutual friends etc I only went on FWB/Hookups thing for about a just under a year I believe? Prior to that I was in 2 seperate relationships that I’d consider actual relationships. One that went for 3 years and another that went for 2 years. Prior to those two I was just out of high school or in high school and only had 2 relationships. Both went for roughly about 5/6 months? So I guess they don’t really count…didn’t really start having proper rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:33 AM
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I’m one of those guys… I’m “average” in the looks department maybe a 5 on a good day, I’m 30 years old and I have had heaps of casual hookups/sex before I got with my fiancé. Even had a FWB for about 6 months where I explicitly stated I wasn’t looking for a relationship and I was the one who ended it when I started seeing my current partner. Both the FWB and my fiancé and plenty of girls I’ve dated/hooked up with before were way more attractive than me (been told I’m punching above my weight in …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:44 AM
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I take catcalling seriously all the time when it actually happens, I don’t when people embellish and demonise a whole gender because of it. And you can’t say you aren’t embellishing because you’re using it to make generalisations…it’s right there, “Would it be reasonable to assume that’s a clear representation of men or not, because if so, y’all pigs. I’m sorry that it’s happened to you before, no one should have to feel this way. I question the legitimacy of hundreds of men doing it. Come on no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:00 AM
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I’m calling doubt on heaps of people catcalling. One person isn’t heaps. And most people are gonna shame the person catcalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:36 AM
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While my financè is totally fine with me experiencing emotion (not that I cry in front of her very often), the fact that ANY girl at all views a guy differently after crying is disgusting and they need to do better. I would hope that people realise emotion is a HUMAN thing not gendered. And I’m not referring to crying when you drop a glass when it smashes, I doubt pretty much any guy is crying over something that insignificant. I’m talking about real reasons to cry. Life changing stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:50 AM
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But what you’re saying is way below her station based on what? Looks? Talent? What’s her personality like? She could be extremely toxic and that immediately makes her less attractive or less stable in relationships. You can be conventionally attractive and an utter piece of shit. That immediately makes you not LTR material. I mean at some point she can’t keep going through guy after guy after guy and still think she’s in the right no matter how they looked or what their career was up or down the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:37 PM
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Those studies are grossly exaggerated in echo chambers. It isn’t relatable in the real World. Nobody gives a fuck or cares that much, those guys who say that shit out loud are usually single and/or not well liked. The fact these podcasters push this kind of rage bait crap is preying on people’s insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:48 AM
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I’d imagine the bar is “steady job that pays the bills?” How many guys do you know that are complaining about how much their girl is bringing in? It’s basically non existent outside “Alpha bro podcast culture” and even then those guys go way too far into rage bait stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:46 AM
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Some people honestly believe it’s a boys club and that the boys just huddle around and give each other pay raises while women don’t get those same opportunities. That’s illegal Companies would just hire more women and men wouldn’t have any jobs if they could pay someone less for the same amount of labour. Businesses don’t give a flying fuck if you’re male or female. They only care about the bottom line. It’s very clear only a MINORITY of PEOPLE get those raises. The other 99% get the scraps. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:14 AM
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They don’t struggle to find a man They struggle to find a man that will commit to them. That’s the catch 22 of going after these types of people. They want their cake and to eat it too. You can’t have both
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:07 AM
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She seems like a projecting mess of personal issues. You can be talented and also a person with issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:12 AM
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Yeah that’s a quick way to push dudes away outside a ONS. Nobody wants to deal with that cringe unless they are cringey themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:10 AM
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You’re missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:22 AM
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Basically need to eat a big slice of humble pie. Guys do it on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:14 AM
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Men generally don’t care if a women has money/status. It’s been shown many many many times that all guy care about is if she brings peace, comfort, caring nature, and looks after herself. Someone who keeps him grounded and feels supported. Maybe for the top % earners money might matter but for majority of guys, we couldn’t give two shits what a woman earns. As long as she’s bringing other things to the table that’s all that matters. There isn’t much clout chasing or status proving required for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:08 AM
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But we do know how other men work We can smell bullshit from a mile away, it’s part of being a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:00 AM
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I made this same comment yesterday. Nobody is to blame but Jeebus Chrysler dudes can smell bullcrap from other dudes A MILE AWAY, how are girls unable to notice it? Of course the reverse happens but it’s nowhere near as prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:36 AM
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Fifty Shades of Gray is pretty much the highest selling book ever. Porn for women, degeneracy is a two way street? It’s not exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:40 AM
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I kind of feel like in general, guys look for reasons to say 'yes' and women look for reasons to say 'no'. My brother in arms! PREACH!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:37 AM
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Or? As I said below that, PEOPLE are good at hiding sociopathic/abusive sides…that’s why they are sociopathic? There’s no blame here and I’m sorry to hear your ex was abusive. I hope you’re doing better now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:24 PM
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Guys can smell other guys bullshit a mile away. I don’t say, “pick better men” but I can sense an asshole from spending 5 seconds with them. Ever heard of the “bullshit alarm” ??? Dudes know when other dudes are full of shit. The problem is that girls don’t seem to be able to pickup on the bullshit and that’s why they end up with the clown that everyone around them can tell is a clown. In saying that, It’s not girls fault or guys fault that PEOPLE are good at hiding their sociopathic or abusive …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:17 PM
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Very well said
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:15 PM
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Had my ass smacked and grabbed at a friends wedding the other day by a woman who I only kind of know. Right in front of my fiancé who I was talking to. Random girl had been drinking and I gave her a puzzled look like, “WTF was that?!?” but she just laughed it off as, “oh I’m just playing around, it’s a joke” I’ve seen other guys had this happen to them AND THEN get in trouble from their partner for getting touched? Glad my own partner saw how uncomfortable it made me and we went to dance and go …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:42 AM
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Oooo I have a stalker too <3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:29 AM
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Oooo I hit a nerve. Give it to me sweetie xx
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:20 AM
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How many people are going to actually admit to cheating? Just like how many guys are going to report DV against them? My guess is not many
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:18 AM
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Wow that went over your head He’s saying women are using a gay slur while trying to be covert about it. “Oh you don’t agree with me, you’re just being sassy“ They want to act virtuous and PC until it doesn’t benefit them and then they’ll use thinly veiled shots at manhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:54 AM
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Women hold power to sex, men control access to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:09 PM
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Are they though? It sounds as from a lot of previous posts here that they’ve resided to not being satisfied with their own lives (maybe unrealistic expectations of what they thought their life would be like) and are blaming external factors. Agree with some concepts of the wall but some of it is bullshit though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:52 AM
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My question for a lot of my male compatriots. Why weren’t you having fun at 18-22 and going out partying/enjoying being young? I know I was and I didn’t care if was with or without a woman doing so. I dated plenty of women through my teens and into my 20’s and it didn’t change how I viewed girls. Part of growing up is learning from your mistakes. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn’t… At that age of early 20’s I don’t blame girls at all for exploring themselves. They aren’t teens anymo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:50 AM
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Delete this Terrible and missed the mark multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:11 AM
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Reddit is about as left as left can be lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:48 AM
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Of course you don’t, because that would imply taking on board something else than what YOU believe is correct. I work more hours and do just as much if not more housework than she does. And I do all of the outdoor stuff too so add that on top of it. You feel sorry for her? I love women, I love people that show respect by earning it and don’t demand it be given to them. Oh sweetie, you sound insufferable. There’s nothing worse than someone who just argues for the sake of thinking they are importa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:07 AM
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She’s not the only one? I can source these for you if you like? Just because you don’t like evidence in front of your face, doesn’t mean it isn’t true. That’s what you’ve been repeating ad nauseum throughout this thread. Also before you shit all over me and try to use ad hominem attacks, I’m one of those males that brings in more money, do just as much cooking, cleaning, housework, clean up inside and do all the outside work (which women basically never count as part of doing chores….how conveni…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:55 AM
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You know the lady who wrote a book about doing an experiment to live life as a man for 18 months killed herself after she realised what men go through on a daily basis. And she was just like you, “oh I wish I grew up a man, it would be soo much easier” You don’t know the half of it…you don’t want to go down that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:34 AM
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Fantastic and reasonable take
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:25 AM
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You wrote a lot and made a lot of projections about me without knowing me at all? The same thing you claimed I was doing lol Just remember to keep an open mind, when you’re as old as I am, you see a lot of stuff and you may think you know everything. Just remember, you aren’t in their heads. You don’t know how they truly feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:20 AM
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You don’t know that they don’t want you though. You’re assuming that they haven’t thought or currently do think of you that way. Of course if you asked them they’d deny it. How could you possibly know? Maybe they are genuine friends with zero other intentions, maybe they aren’t? Men will do a lot of shady shit and play the long game if it means they think they can get even the slightest chance of sex. That’s why orbiters exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:41 AM
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Hold on? I thought we were told ad nauseum that everyone is beautiful no matter their size So are you saying that isn’t true?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:53 AM
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THIS ladies, THIS! Blemishes? We all have our things we don’t like about our bodies (men and women), that’s what makes us unique. I know for a fact most guys won’t care if he’s a well adjusted male. Body hair? Hell wouldn’t most guys shave body parts these days? I know that at least once a month or maybe once every few months I need to shave my chest, stomach, lower region. I want my partner to not have to deal with my sweaty body hair when we are trying to do it. Stretch marks? I’m 5”8 and 154l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:40 AM
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You can be insulted based on reactions? If someone offers you something by being polite and you pull a face at them do you think the person who was being kind to you is going to feel insulted? Imagine being soo far up your own ass that the best response you can pull is “ewww” Now imagine a person putting themselves out there only to be treated the same way someone looks at things that people find gross…guarantee if it was you on the receiving end you’d be up in arms about it…but you’ve clearly n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:22 AM
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Lol what? Women are way more harsh with the way they reject men than the opposite way around. If anything, males have to use kid gloves with the way they do it because the backlash they cop back is usually horrible, “What? Are you gay?” “Oh you’re ugly anyway” “Oh so you don’t want to get with this? What is wrong with you?” etc etc How many times have you heard a guy say they’ve been told, “Ewww no!” Or just plain laughed at? Called names? Insulted in all kinds of ways? Don’t know about any girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:11 AM
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That goes tenfold the other way. Imagine being assumed you’re a monster for literally existing. That you at any moment could be violent and all you think about is sex, that all your worth is your wallet…it’s disgusting. Never before have I ever been threatening to anything and yet our gender is at fault for the World’s issues? The majority view is that women’s issues are important, hence why it gets mainstream coverage and we should ALL want to strive for a better World in which girls are treate…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:34 AM
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I’ve always been told girls do that for themselves? I have a finance, pretty sure I take notice of what does and doesn’t work to improve appearance. Doesn’t make me love her any less.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:33 AM
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Who can’t tell when their partner is or isn’t wearing makeup? Lol It’s bloody obvious what is it isn’t natural
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:15 PM
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Standard created by men? Ahh no it’s the standard created by women who want to compete with other women because women put down other women over their looks, it isn’t the guys doing that. Surely you don’t actually think men give two fucks about what face cream you are using? Or if your eyebrows are on point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:12 PM
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That’s cause those types of people value status and look over fit/connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:04 PM
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How many people are telling the truth? Those stats are relying on these people not embellishing or giving false answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:25 AM
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Tarring all with the same brush is why people assume men are automatically guilty and monsters. It’s fucked up logic to think the minority represents the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:36 AM
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When women say, “oh he’s babysitting” No I’m fucking NOT, that’s my fucking kid. It’s called parenting. As if I’m incapable of doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:48 AM
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They “feel” like they put in more work. If you have to use level of emotion to judge the amount of effort in a relationship then it’s already showing someone is being facetious. Man or Woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:39 AM
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That sounds like the people you’re dating If I as a male can’t do basic housework which is an expectation not something that needs to be praised over, can’t be emotionally available and aren’t a hard worker/goal driven guy then WTF am I doing? Those should be standard requirements of anyone, male or female. That’s just being a decent and respectful human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:37 AM
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Lol 90% of what you said is repeated ad nauseum by women too? And if anything those expectations are much more advanced on males over females? Stable? Loyal? Respectful? Compassionate? Being popular or socially well respected? Communication with other women must be minimal or only in work settings? Adapting to lifestyle/activities/friends circle that your female partner has? You just listed everything guys are expected to be but it’s turned up about 5 notches. Guys have to be: emotionally availa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:32 AM
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Jessica Lovejoy is the perfect example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:30 AM
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Of course not everyone fits into one box and there’s definitely ladies that are to the point and guys who beat around the bush and are coy. The exception doesn’t change the rule though. My fiancé will usually be pretty good at telling me what she wants but making decisions especially if we are getting fast food….ohhhh boy she even admits she’s terrible at it. I’ll give her 10 options, we take 20 minutes to narrow it down to 3 and by the time I pick one she’ll say, “Nahhh I don’t really want that…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:45 AM
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Been told many times by older males, “Don’t take their words at face value they won’t tell you what they actually want because they want you to figure it out on your own, watch their actions as that’ll tell the true story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:06 AM
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BINGO! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:11 PM
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These women probably don’t realise or don’t care that those guys are seeing more than one woman at a time because he’s high status.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:27 AM
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Guy act differently around other men than they do with women around. When you hang out with the guys there’s less pressure. Why do you think guys love “hanging with the lads” Ask any man, they’ll tell you that. Who is the more judgmental? Pretty sure if I see someone out I’m not commenting on their dress or their makeup. Most guys won’t give two shits about stuff like that. If two guys rock up wearing the same clothing they’ll laugh about it, what happens when girls wear the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:43 AM
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Lots of those expectations are created by other women though? Women judge other women WAYYYY more than guys judge women, they are just more coy in the way they go about it. That’s why guys enjoy being around their guy friends soo much, the judgment and stigmas don’t exist. They’re allowed to be themselves without having to put up a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:01 AM
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Lack of responsibility, taking ownership that they could be the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:54 PM
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Women control access to sex, men control access to commitment. It’s always been this way and will continue to be so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:50 PM
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People don’t realise that if they’ve never been through IVF. There’s basically low chance of guarantee of it working. People putting their stock in “freezing my eggs” basket don’t seem to understand that they have to put the fertilised egg back in and with an older body the drop off of it working after age 30 is a stark difference. It’ll work for some, but by large and majority it won’t. Stats back that up. Gonna be a lot of older, upset women when they realise this when they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:47 PM
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EXACTLY! Blame and shame instead of taking responsibility that, “hey maybe I’m the problem”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:40 PM
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Goalposts can shift very quickly from “good” based on a whim because two people’s set of feelings and emotions have to be considered. People usually aren’t honest with themselves. They’d rather complain and blame than put in the work to make sure the relationship stays healthy. It’ll be easy or good if you put in the work. People go into them expecting easy/good and are given quite a rude awakening.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:33 PM
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Was gonna say, guys probably have more hobbies than woman do. That’s why lots of woman fall into the trap of becoming their relationship and losing themselves to it. They don’t have an identity because they never had one in the first place. Guys NEED to have hobbies because that’s how we are hardwired, to do things that require physical aspects, hand eye coordination and getting things done. If anything, it’s females who try to stop men from having those hobbies and focus only on them. How many …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:41 PM
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Had this conversation/intervention with my old boss in my part time job. She kept asking me why she was getting matched on dating apps by guys (who were way out of her league) and then they’d meet in person and the guys would immediately lose interest, stop talking to her or act like a different guy in person. Cut to me and my male workmate looking through her profile telling her she looks nothing like the person in these photos. All of our female coworkers wouldn’t tell her what was wrong with …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:20 AM
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