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Self sabotage is an easy way for people to reason why they shouldn't self improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:37 AM
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I think he's being too hard on you. The majority of women have loose morals in this generation. The only thing you can do is vet extra hard and put them on a genuine path to god and see if they respond how they should. Don't rush things. They'll weed themselves out. There's no "test" you can do, though. People suck, things happen, keep working on yourself.
/r/RPChristians20/12/23 11:03 PM
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Not feeling "close" to someone has ZERO to do with giving other people oral sex. She's gaslighting you. Leave her, it absolutely will happen again. If it doesn't you'll always wonder if it has or will. If she's being genuine then she's admitted she will do this any time she feels unhappy.
/r/RPChristians19/12/23 06:00 PM
1

Take a breath. It's the internet. Go touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:10 PM
-9

God you're bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:38 AM
3

ed that the quality of women that pays attention to me has decreased (both in looks and in mental health) while Im better fi Not sure what the deal is with this. I'm 35 and 20-40 year old women spider monkey on me way harder than in my 20's, even though I'm married. I have a good career, dress well, stay in shape and have good social game, though. But I'm also 5'4ish. I think a lot of people make excuses (not you, just in general.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:03 PM
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The common thing I see from short bros who are having a tough time is mostly a self defeating attitude and a chip on their shoulder. Women see it to and that's hurting you way worse. Masculinity is a slider that can be pushed up and down based off different factors. Be tall is a push up. Having a stringy beard and a major gut is a push down. Just keep pushing up the scale where you can and you'll be fine. I regularly dated 6ft tall women before I got married. It was never a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:08 AM
2

Absolutely but not disqualifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:03 AM
2

So you admit you are killing, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:43 PM
2

"Don't push your beliefs on others" *brutally chops up a child before they can speak for themselves* K.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:20 PM
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The left pushing poor people front and center demanding they be able to get abortions isn't the good look they think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:19 PM
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about 5'4, here. Get in shape, dress well, have a good career, have confidence, be funny and you're going to literally DESTROY all competition regardless of height. Women would prefer to be with a short guy with everything going on than a 6'4 broke slob. ​ Until I got married I has zero problems landing women that were significantly taller than me and people regularly comment that they forget my height due to other factors. Men are hung up on this WAY more than women are purely because largely i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:26 PM
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Are you implying that when given a choice about anything most people make the right one (male or female)?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:51 PM
1

It absolutely will not, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:22 PM
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I don't know what 35 year olds you are talking to but most of the ones I know are just as adrift, lonely and lost as most 22 year olds. They just do it with undeserved smugness to those younger than them. The reality is most people never figure out genuinely who they are or what they believe. Saying there's some magic time that you're alive where it all comes together is the worst kind of cope there is and a genuinely dangerous lie to those who now look forward to it after hearing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:51 PM
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He's in the anger stage and it's easier for him to denigrate what he can't have rather than work on being better, honestly. I know this because I did this in the past. Hopefully he gets better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:48 PM
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This isn't an "Age" thing as much as a societal shift. Our great grandparents married when they were all like 16 and stayed together until the day they died. People place WAY too much emphasis on their own "uniqueness" and "identity", much to the detriment of their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:36 PM
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I think it's widely exaggerated. There are definitely some massive bitches out there who have nothing better to do than complain, however there's infinitely more lazy 20/30-somethings who flat out will call someone a Karen to deflect that they themselves are being incompetent or lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 04:22 PM
1

30 isn't too late. You just gave up and are feeling sorry for yourself. I was 33 with two kids dating 21 year olds without kids regularly. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:49 PM
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Bars/clubs are NOT atrocious, especially if you are well liked at a regular spot. The problem is guys think the "game" is about going out and hunting down women when in reality if you're social and have relatively high social status women will come to you. Unless you're just a weird overweight neckbeard or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:23 PM
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This sub absolutely does NOT represent the grander societies we love in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:24 PM
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Why cling to the past if you're working on your future in every other way? I avoid people from the past like the plague.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 04:25 PM
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You're talking about the anger phase, mostly. There's plenty of posts from middle eastern, asian and indians posting about how no one likes them because of their race. This is exclusively an "alt-right" deal. Self reliance, mental and physical toughness are inherently a right-wing ideals, though. It shouldn't be surprising that the vast majority of this subreddit would politically lean that way. That doesn't make them/us Nazis though.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 08:09 PM
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TRP: "Work hard, be self sufficient, read, eat right, work out, take care of yourself and your affairs to be a better man and you will find success in all aspects of life. No excuses." Everyone else: "What a dangerous nazi"
/r/TheRedPill29/12/21 06:29 PM
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During lockdowns I had a core group of about 10-12 people who came over literally every day and we partied. They would always bring friends. Everyone was hooking up. A couple of people began dating and eventually got married. It was one of the best times of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:34 PM
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I know you want to desperately believe that. The science just doesn't back up those feelings. Search the sub for more info.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/21 03:28 PM
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You haven't been around TRP long if you believe it teaches race doesn't matter. There's been many in depth posts with many fleshed out studies that women's sexual attraction absolutely is affected by race just like height and many other biological factors.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/21 03:25 PM
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Depends on what stage in the approach you're at. If you're walking up and some dude is immediately being a straight up dick then say "Are you two dating? I didn't mean to step on anyone's toes, man." she'll immediately put him down for even suggesting it and that'll make him insecure and he'll either lash out and try to insult you or laugh it off himself. If he insults you and she allows it or you can't fend for yourself, verbally against him you aren't gonna close with her anyways. ​ If you've …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 04:32 PM
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This is what I do but it does require you to already be flirting and her to have some level of interest in you beyond friendship: Simply ask in front of her if her and said white-knight hooked up. Likely she'll laugh and act semi-offended, even in front of him and explain that will never happen. He'll often pretend he's offended also or laugh about it but inside he's dying and is desperate to get away from the situation out of sheer embarrassment. Sometimes he'll even blow up when she intensely …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 04:05 PM
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Single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:01 PM
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Because the women in your life don't want you fucking around and either the men in your life already are and don't care if you do or aren't and are just as lost as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 12:05 AM
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You guys are acting like marriage will ruin your life when it's having children that will. You can get a divorce, lose your shit and rebuild. But children, oh man, if you get hit with child support that shit's for basically the rest of your earning life.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:52 PM
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Red pill is sexual strategy, period.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 02:31 AM
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About us: " The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. " Literally the purpose of TRP is about getting laid. Anything expectation beyond that for the subreddit/mentality is something you've made up in your own head.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 01:44 AM
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Mett decent people at higher-end bars/pubs when you become a regular. It happens naturally. Just make sure you don't fall in with losers and drug addicts.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 06:02 PM
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My I.T. consultation business focuses on local governments. We made more money during swine flu and rona than other years. I won't be hurting if it gets worse. Being right about one thing doesn't invalidate what I said.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/21 12:23 AM
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I agree. His over the top style isn't remotely attractive or interesting. It comes off as insecure, pathetic and needy for attention. There's no real substance to what he says just boisterous screaming into the ether like a 14 year old boy. It's been a very long time since he's posted anything of substantial value and his only defense is typically personal insults, condescension or anecdotal experience.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/21 08:48 PM
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Have fun getting laughed at.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:26 PM
1

"I dont think about it and don't really have time to."
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:08 PM
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The lesbian trapped in a man's body line is cliché as hell and a major red flag to women that you aren't remotely creative. It's a joke your lame ass uncle would make in the 80's and it's just going to induce cringe.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:07 PM
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This. I'm 5'5 and rarely if ever have I had a woman even mention my height. Dated multiple women that were 5'9+ Lift, have a good career, dress well, be mature, be stoic and you WILL have women falling all over you.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 01:51 AM
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I think his point, though too abrasive, is that while hair may be important this sub isn't a sub about hair loss/renewal. This sub is about sexual strategy. Get fit to get laid. You hair is like number 15 down on the list. If you're wanting to talk about regaining your hair maybe go to a sub that is dedicated to that. We're dedicated to getting you laid.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:35 PM
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Short guy here who typically dates women taller than myself. I'd say taller women in general (over 5'9ish) often do have more requirements for who they date. The reality is women want a dude taller than them... they also want a guy who's got confidence, a good career, financially stable, funny, good looking, in shape, etc. Height is one factor for women just like it is for guys. Make sure you bring as much to the table as you can in terms of attractiveness. These are my personal experiences but …
/r/askTRP08/09/20 02:47 PM
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There isn't enough information. If they're playing with you and you're just a crybaby then you need to toughen up. If they're doing it to try to drag you down in front of others then laugh and give it back to them. There's a lot of situations that could require different answers.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 04:09 PM
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I cringed. Don't do 90% of this. You'll end up embarassing yourself.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 03:38 PM
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Just because someone doesn't agree with you doesn't make them a troll. Don't be so mentally weak you can't have a conversation with someone who disagrees with you without having to attack them. Women frequently lose interest in men when they obtain things they want from them. Women always want "more" this is why betas often get cheated on during marriage after they give a woman kids and a house,etc. Women are all about feels. They are always chasing a new high. Give them what they want is a sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 02:56 PM
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Their desire to have and utilize those resources does not equate to your willingness to give it to them. Women are feels machines. They desire their desire for such things. Actually obtaining those things typically turns them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 12:11 PM
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You're only beta if you have to use those resources to get someone. Actually having status and money is attractive on its own without having to give it to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 10:43 AM
2

The best thing you can do is work out and eat right religiously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 10:39 AM
1

Almost no man "peaks" at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 10:37 AM
2

Currently in early 30s. Definitely the best Ive ever done. No clue where the cutoff will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 10:36 AM
5

I didn't say they were... but statistically....
/r/PussyPass06/08/20 04:45 PM
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Dangerous
/r/PussyPass06/08/20 04:38 PM
2

True, though I'd say we all calculate pros and cons in our heads in these situations. You exercise, eat right, have a good career, dress well, have a good personality but shave your head you're gonna beat a greasy pudgy 25 year old who works at walmart 9 times out of 10. Do the best you can and you'll destroy your competition for a very long time.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 04:14 PM
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Balding should have no affect on this. You should be in shape and shave your head if your baldness cannot be cured with medical treatment.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 04:04 PM
1

I'm sorry this hurt your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:31 PM
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You're telling me if you stuck an overweight dude who works at gamestop next to a dude who's worked out his entire adult life and is a doctor you're going to think "well they're both equally likely to be a potential partner for me =P" . If so then there's something wrong with you. Initial attraction is one of the major factors in dating ANYONE. Women value resources and health. We just know that's the case. They've done studies on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:33 AM
1

Okay but we know what MOST people desire in partners. I'm glad you're special and different but we generally know what is an isn't valuable and desired by most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:14 AM
2

Those are definitely both desirable traits most women look for in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:43 PM
1

Anyone (regardless of age or gender) who is high quality is someone who has attributes that many desire out of someone. For men that would be career, fitness, style and good personality to name a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:42 PM
2

Some choose not to get married or be in long term relationships, some divorced. High quality has nothing to do with being locked down to a single person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:40 PM
9

30-55 year old men who are high quality don't need/want women over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 10:24 PM
2

I agree with that, mostly. It's about sticking to your values. I wish it were simple enough to be your own man and the world will leave you alone but it just isn't. It's shown that since time began. You have to pick a side in most things political and attempt to affect change inside of it or they'll both end up running all over you.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:31 PM
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Change doesn't always equal progress like you said. The left has a bad habit of ripping shit down, making it worse, shitting everywhere and calling it progress and then chastising anyone who thinks their ideas suck as "stuck in the old ways!"
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:44 PM
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Living in the South in America you're pretty free of most of this crap unless it's the major cities. Being leftist in most of these parts will get you made fun of and shunned.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:05 PM
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Your "progress" is the whole reason we've had to create communities like this in the first place.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:04 PM
1

I do. I also go to a barber about 2-3 times a week to keep my hair and beard game strong but that goes into "dress well". I'd argue if you have a less than average looking face maybe grow a decent beard and definitely don't be too fat or too skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 04:55 PM
1

5'5 here. Dated multiple attractive women 5'11+. Dress well, be in shape, have a good career and have a good personality. I consistently do better than most of the 6ft+ guys in my circles. I just genuinely don't understand why short guys are always so self-defeating. It isn't hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 03:29 PM
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First off you're implying women actually know what they want and know how to articulate it. The height test is a shit test just like any other and one that frankly most short dudes don't have the confidence to pass. Also, online dating is trash. This should be a last resort for you. Go out in the real world for better results and higher quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:45 PM
1

Fair enough. Lost of people that work out do, though.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/20 02:14 AM
8

Lots of gym bros I know smoke, especially when they drink. This isn't uncommon.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/20 01:59 AM
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God this is so true. No one would have fucked me when I was 22. I'm 33 now and I regularly fuck hot 20-30 year old women. Abundance is real when you're mature and have your shit together.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 03:32 PM
1

thanks.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 10:44 AM
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The iq part is probably BS but I'd say it can help with critical and strategic thinking. Not to mention some of the skills in fighting/chess transfer to the rest of life pretty easily so overall good for your brain No. IQ measures pattern recognition ability in humans but largely IQ has been found to be unaffected by nurture (what you do and what happens to you) as much as nature (your genetics), as uncomfortable as that is for most to hear.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 01:04 PM
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It's a testament to how fucked our society is when sons are having to teach fathers how to be men.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:50 PM
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Exactly. ​ If you're chasing women you're either still not understanding the basic concepts of TRP or you haven't made yourself valuable enough to where women naturally want to be with you. I'm not saying women will flock to you beg you to fuck them but you should be high status enough to where women naturally want to be around you and normally have intentions of fucking you in the event you remotely begin putting on any level of game.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:49 PM
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Evidence acquired through illegal means cannot be submitted in a court of law. It's not fair but that's how it is.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 04:20 PM
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and will completely inadmissible in court
/r/askTRP30/06/20 04:16 PM
1

I'm not sure what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 10:44 PM
0

Well largely it wouldn't be a problem but we need population replacement of indigenous populations of higher average IQ civilizations and population areas such as Japan, Europe and certain parts of the middle east and india for the sake of humanity in general. Unless you just don't care and genuinely follow the "Enjoy the decline" mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 10:32 AM
20

So are some men. Don't resent women for acting in their nature and more than you should resent a rabbit for eating grass.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 12:55 PM
16

Check out Magnum BareSkins if you're having problems with condoms being too tight but want that oh so great feeling of goin raw.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 12:40 PM
1

About 5'5ish
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 06:04 PM
1

The lack of confidence of short men is the problem they face, not being inherently short. Have a good body, make money, dress well, have a fun but serious personality and tall bros will beg to fuck the girls you are. I fuck a chick who's 7 inches taller than me with a great body. She buys my drinks when we go out a lot of times. Stop giving yourself excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:47 PM
5

Every man who is legally allowed to should own at least one firearm. It's your job as a man to protect yourself and your property.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 08:32 PM
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What? Have you seen the side bar? This is a sexual strategy sub at its heart.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/20 12:41 PM
1

My bad i thought it was "save the last dance" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:03 PM
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He seems happy until you leave and take half the stuff, the kids and potentially his pension. Also, no guy is happy watching "The Last Dance". He's doing it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 03:38 PM
1

Guys, seriously. Don't bring up neckbeard shit with women. Let them do it if anything. Honestly I'd recommend not acknowledging you've seen it even if they do. I'm just trying to help you out. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:44 AM
1

Something isn't clicking. I'm not sure what that is. I will say that men from all walks of life are getting laid. Men WAY smarter and more successful than you and i will ever be and men that are dumb and unaccomplished. Don't look at one side of that equation purely so you can have an excuse as to why you aren't doing well. Fix what's broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:36 PM
1

Confidence is important in nearly every aspect of life. You're just offering up a very small fraction of some men who act dumb and projecting that on everyone so you can feel superior while still not getting what you really want (success in the dating world). Confidence with women, work, family, finances, etc. stems purely from your ability to genuinely have self worth. No offense but it sounds like you still haven't built a lot of that yet. You can "fake it until you make it" but really you sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:28 PM
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This EXACT response genuinely highlights your severe ignorance on "game". You need to read a LOT more of the sidebar. The fact you think you need to pretend to be something you aren't in order for women to find you appealing really shows how little confidence you genuinely have and how much more work you need to put into yourself. This is is what women are sensing off of you and this is why they don't want to be with you. These whole "I'm a nice good responsible guy and any dude who's doing some…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:37 PM
0

You've completely missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:25 PM
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This whole thread is filled with neckbeards patting themselves on the back for how they intelligent they believe they are and using excuses as to why they aren't successful with women. The reality is your game sucks because you don't have enough emotional/social awareness to read people and carry on normal conversations or be fun. She doesn't give a shit about Rick and Morty and it's your fault for not knowing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 01:23 PM
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It doesn't. He's talking out of his ass. Once quarantines are lifted people are gonna be running around fucking in taco bell bathrooms like usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:33 PM
1

I do. It's pretty good. I also ready the 4hr body "as well and it's worth a look
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:39 PM
1

I own an I.T. Consultation firm that focuses on small manufacturers (typically under 50m revenue) and I reinvest much of those profits into self storage buildings and commercial properties in small towns. I do some "here and there" stuff that I don't focus on much and it doesn't make much. I only "draw" about 1/4th of what my companies net. Basically live semi-frugally, no debt (except maybe a mortgage) and snowball your income. If you live by these rules not much can touch you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:30 PM
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My take home is approximately 275k. I don't flaunt it. I dress nicely but not over the top (tailored dillards clothes), I live in a nice 3 bedroom house in a good area (not like on a gold course or anything). I drive a decent car but nothing over the top (2019 charger RT) and I have a fun lifestyle (lot of nightlife, I host a lot of house/backyard parties, etc). If you looked at me you'd guess I make 100k and the average household income for this area is about 32k a year. I paid cash for everyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:46 PM
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Insecurity isn't attractive regardless of height.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 02:03 AM
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I'm about 5'5-5'6. I make good money and my last plate was 6 ft tall. I have no clue why short men feel victimized. Work out, get a good career, dress well, have charisma and you're gonna WRECK 6 ft tall dudes who suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:49 AM
1

Social media is enabling this BIG TIME. There's a lot of dude's girlfriends who have been hitting me up gauging my level of interest in fucking them. They're bored as fuck and women will ruin their entire lives just to feel excitement for 10 minutes.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 10:49 AM
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Exactly. Big brain morons thinking they have it all figured out is why so many people are broke, desperate and depressed. What makes us unique and dominant as a species is our ability to share knowledge, especially across the generations.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 02:59 PM
5

Whoo lordy that's a lot of anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:45 PM
14

Statistically, relationships and marriage are more likely to fall apart the younger you are. It's also true that statistically the more sexual partners a woman has the more likely the marriage will end in divorce. This doesn't appear to be the case for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:24 PM
1

I do! Personally, I am looking for some basic info on getting started easily with reputable sourcing and mixes for some gains without much risk involved. I don't need any hardcore cycles or whatever. That's just me, personally.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 04:39 PM
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Someone make a post somewhere about how to begin already. Everyone's wondering where and how to start.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 04:23 PM
0

I am interested as well.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 04:21 PM
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Do you know of a reputable one that I could look into?
/r/askTRP07/04/20 04:20 PM
5

At least click the link, Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/20 05:07 AM
7

Sorry I didn't know you you had tons of friends that were over 70 with existing pre-conditions because that's pretty much exclusively who's dying. https://www.worldometers.info/coronavirus/coronavirus-age-sex-demographics/ ​ Stop being dramatic and lying for attention. That's chick shit.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 01:43 PM
10

Your friends and neighbors aren't dying off one by one.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 07:59 PM
1

Been looking for some of this but everything is atrociously expensive. Looked on craigslist/Facebook marketplace but no one's selling anything.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 01:05 PM
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This is why you don't fuck anything that throws themselves at you. I know anyone can catch things but you severely mitigate your risk if you aren't banging ugly, fat, drug abusing, overly chaotic women who often are desperate and more prone to risky behavior. Also, always wrap it up. Not to mention in your social circles if people know you have some level of standards then those standard of women will be drawn to you more.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 02:16 PM
1

You're way too invested in stories from strangers in an anonymous space. Take care.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 11:51 PM
1

In general overreacting to things people are doing on the internet seems pretty beta and anger-stageish.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 09:19 PM
-2

Anger stage is still very real with you, friend. It'll fade give it time.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:38 PM
-5

If you're asking these questions then odds are you haven't even done the bare minimum which is invest in a 401k if your job offers it, then max out your Roth IRA, then put whatever you can into a mutual fund, typically with Vanguard.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/20 02:01 PM
1

It's important to note that HR is often used as a means of containing problems but firing people who raise them. Don't put a target on your back by being a part of any problem, either on the giving or receiving end.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 05:39 PM
15

You should act like you don't realize she's hitting on you and just avoid her at all costs in any personal way. If you acknowledge she likes you then you have to do something about it one way or another which will end in disaster. Sometimes the best move is no move. Avoid any and all alone time and keep a paper trail.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 02:36 PM
17

I agree. Those lines are trash and girls will think you're either boring or retarded for saying something like that. If you get caught not drinking say something like "Why are you trying to get me drunk" with a smile implying that she's trying to fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 07:11 PM
3

It helps if you get a circle of girls that you semi frequently hang out with and are cool with that will bring their chick friends around and you get the proxy girls' numbers and snapchats etc.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:41 PM
3

I think you're mistaking a heart to heart with getting a "omg I'm so drunk. my boyfriend pissed me off cause he wouldn't *blah blah blah*... if he doesn't care about me I'll *XYZ*, fuck him, right?!" text or conversation from a woman you barely know who wants to fuck you.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:36 AM
2

To add to this, if you are clearly NOT a virgin you can joke like you are in a incredibly playful manner and they'll find it humorous and it's an easy "in" to escalate.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:10 PM
21

You've never had an honest conversation with a woman who's "mad at her boyfriend" before, then. All women want to cheat, they just need a way to rationalize it to themselves.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:07 PM
3

I am american but my father has a similar mentality. He thinks it's ok to let himself not work out or dress nice because "if that's what women want then I don't want them". Of course he likes his women bigger too, I assume because he thinks they'll have a hard time leaving him. Many red pillers grew up without fathers and that really sucks but I think it's a different struggle being raised by a lazy, blue pilled man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:14 PM
16

Very right. I highly recommend every guy go get measurements for free at a clothing store like men's warehouse. With those numbers in hand you can easily purchase almost perfect fitting clothes from amazon (order based off of chest size for shirts). Buying cheap and get it tailored (should only cost maybe 30-50 bucks per item unless we're talking jackets or suits) if need be to get it to look better is always the better option than buying hyper expensive clothes that don't fit. Factor tailoring …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:39 PM
14

People grossly overestimate how busy they are. Most people just live hyper inefficiently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:15 PM
61

It's cheap to eat right and exercise. Cheaper than eating crap food and buying video games or other hobbies. It takes effort and that's why people fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:14 PM
0

You're right. This dude is a straight up loser. He needs to fix his shit.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 07:21 PM
3

Low blue light electronics help and I do them an hour before bed. Basically, no tv or computer or phone after 9pm, I then read my kindle whitepaper thing for about an hour and I usually sleep better and wake up bright and early for the gym at 5am
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:33 PM
2

That doesn't really explain all the other subreddits where they all lie to each other to make themselves feel better.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 06:31 PM
4

True but these aren't genuinely observed behaviors. This self reported behaviors. I think there's a lot of honesty in the OP and I think the majority of TRP principals apply in this situation. My general disagreement with you is believing a woman when she says basically anything about herself or her behavior.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 06:02 PM
26

Women don't even know what they want, let alone know how to communicate it. It's the reason you don't ask your mother, sister or female friends on how to get women. They'll tell you the wrong answer right to your face and not even know they're doing it.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 05:26 PM
6

Sounds like they weren't cutting fat. Girls care a great deal about body fat. Maybe even more than muscles.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 02:13 PM
2

You're right. I should wake up more before commenting posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:08 PM
-7

When you give something away freely you've lowered its value. You can't give things out to everyone for basically nothing then turn to someone and say "well since I love you or think you might be special I'll let you work extra hard to get this instead... but don't worry it's because i like you more than those losers". You did it to yourself. It doesn't make you a bad person but you have to realize what your actions have caused.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:44 AM
1

Because pussy has value. If you give it away for free it's the worst thing you can do as a woman in society's eyes, even beyond selling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 01:37 PM
1

ELO no longer in use. There's definitely some hot girls on there but most of them are pushing IG profiles or premium snaps. https://www.theverge.com/2019/3/15/18267772/tinder-elo-score-desirability-algorithm-how-works
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:44 PM
7

I am in a town with 3 massive big name colleges and tons of community/tech/jr colleges all within about a 120 mile radius. It's still full of fat girls, single mothers and 5's who you'd never give the time of day to in person. You can do tinder, just don't get heavily invested in the results and definitely don't let it replace real world interactions.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:27 PM
9

Blood work should be able to detect this after about 6 weeks. Odds are you have it orally as the majority of adults do. I'd not respond, get blood work done, deny ever being with her if ever brought up. Move on, regardless. You're fine. Even if you get it it isn't the end of the world. Wrap it up, lads.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:23 PM
26

I advise against Tinder as it's not as efficient as building some social circles and continuously expanding from them to new ones it's a longer game than swiping but the return is way better. Plus tinder is filled with fat single mothers.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:14 PM
2

It isn't the education systems or governments job/place to teach the things you are bitching about in the first place. Which was my literal entire point. Keep the government/education system out of teaching kids about these things. I am having a difficult time understanding where the disagreement is, here.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 06:01 PM
3

Have you ever been to an american college campus? If the education system is teaching something to your kids they're already likely ignorant on the subject which makes them ripe for indoctrination and we all know that western public education isn't exactly red pilled.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 05:21 PM
4

I'd say being ignorant is easier to fix than flat out indoctrination into the wrong ideals.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 02:11 PM
-2

Exactly right. Unless there is a MASSIVE shift in our (Western) culture and fundamental governmental structures I don't want the state teaching ANYTHING about life or social sciences to my children.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 01:57 PM
1

Because some things are so obvious they are beyond the need for legitimate debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:46 PM
1

Sure and I'm happy for you. I just don't think it's a good long term strategy for word to get out that you like banging dudes if you're trying to have a decent pool of women to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:15 PM
5

I think Leo is doing 100% fine. His personal lifestyle choices doesn't seem to prevent him from getting the women he desires, which is what most men dream of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:41 PM
2

It all seems too science-ey. I lift and am not hyper swole but in shape. i considered them but haven't had issues in the attractiveness department.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:35 PM
1

I don't care to debate the "why". I only care about what "is". You can sit and simmer in your feelings and try to change millions of people's psychology but I'm too busy living in the real world. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:33 PM
1

You're either trolling or being willfully ignorant. Western society does not believe dudes banging dudes in any capacity is masculine and most women find it repulsive. If you can't observe that then there's not much more to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:11 PM
1

A lot of lesbian sex revolves around penetration and someone acting out manly or dominant acts in bed. So lipstick lesbians aren't masculine and take on womanly roles. Plus, rules in general are different for women in every part of life. Sex really isn't much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 11:47 AM
2

There's an article about how a woman forced her husband to be a househusband because she thought it would be sexy and because he was a low earning sensitive artist type. It took a while but she finally admitted that she accidentally ruined her attraction to hum by doing that and left him. Took months or maybe even a couple of years, though. I assume something similar occurs in this process.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 11:45 AM
2

It's like when women say they wish men were more sensitive and cried. They'll watch you do those things at their behest and then leave you because of it. Just because do what they say doesn't mean they won't despise you for it nor does it mean it's what they ACTUALLY want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:54 AM
6

Women say they want all kinda of things they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:39 AM
4

A lot of them are and they present themselves as such. That's why "butch" is such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 10:56 PM
0

Never said women were more homophobic so not sure what victim complex shit you're on right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 10:54 PM
6

True enough. I've seen it. Drunk gay dudes especially have zero respect for anyone's boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 10:01 PM
9

To expand on this a little if I can. I don't think you think homosexuality is disgusting because you hate gay people. You think it's gross because it's not what you want. It's the same thing as not liking lima beans. Get that shit away from me doesn't equate to YOU being an asshole it just means you don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 05:42 PM
16

Why would people need to justify what they like anyways? Tell people what you want and what you don't and if they don't like it they can fuck off. No one's entitled to my time or affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 05:40 PM
137

I am not bi myself but have gay friends (none bi that I know of). Most of the women I know enjoy their company but overtly treat gay bros as their pets. They often backhandedly make snarky comments like "you're such a diva" or "stop being a bitch!" that demean them as men in general regardless of if the gay guy is flamboyant or not. When I ask them about it they don't view guys who are into other guys are genuine men. The main concerns are 1. social stigma of your boyfriend sucking dicks 2. dise…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:59 PM
8

Sounds like all races are eating a giant shit sandwich.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/20 02:10 PM
14

So Asian privilege is a think right because they stomp out whites in nearly every metric.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/20 02:00 PM
14

So is it black privilege when you want to be, say, an lapd cop but and they have a quota of black people they must hire so no whites are considered?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/20 01:59 PM
0

Was this a drug induced rant? I can't follow a single thing you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:01 PM
10

I'm sure you're fine with male on female domestic violence being blamed on "maturity" as well lmao. Hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:43 AM
14

It's a shame I had to hunt for this. Sports, gym, chores, duty. Masculinity has to be the focus first if you plan to show him TRP. It's easier for a fit, strong, smart, mature man to understand TRP principals than to pull some beta up at 35 who's got tons of work to do. Foundation is key.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 02:35 PM
3

y'know, if everyone else thinks maybe you're unstable then maybe you're unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 02:43 AM
4

Paraphrasing but... "My future mate can't drink, he cant play video games, yada yada" That's just as controlling as a man saying "my woman can't do XYZ"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:52 PM
5

The irony is you believe men are controlling and abusive yet all of your desires in a partner revolve around you controlling and abusing him lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:11 PM
34

You don't need to be hyper-ripped or mega-swole. It's honestly not that maintainable year-round. Get healthy, lose fat and the leaner you can maintain while having decent muscle mass the more women will just touch you in general. I lost about 60 pounds and i can confidently say the quality of the girls i fucked after that skyrocketed. I'm sure it was for many reasons beyond weight BUT I definitely know it had a major impact on it.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 04:56 PM
8

Fuck that. 6 days a week,10 hour days no thanks if you don't NEED that level of work to survive or enjoy it.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 04:44 PM
11

This i the EXACT answer I was going to give. You'll meet tons of people, work on game, people will talk to you like crazy. It's insane how well liked most bartenders are ourely because their job makes them social butterflies.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 04:44 PM
3

Sounds like the friend isn't very smart in the first place.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:08 AM
9

Unfortunately you're right. If it's established that she lives there you can't just kick her out and she has to leave. You gave her a SHITLOAD of legal protections by letting her reside there, even for free.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:07 AM
7

This is wrong. Don't listen to this person.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:06 AM
1

Honestly most men don't put personality high on the list for LTRs in the way you perceive "personality". Men don't care if you're fun/easy to talk to. Men care that you aren't a whore. Men don't care if you are driven. They care that you won't cheat on them. Men don't care if you're smart. They care if you will take on feminine roles such as cleaning, cooking, etc. Basically be chill, helpful, thin and work on your style and you're going to be in the top percentile of women men will choose for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:41 PM
1

If you're unattractive it's most likely due to either style or some type of fixable genetics (crooked teeth or frizzy hair). Fix those, there's tons of resources out there to figure out how. Largely, most men won't care about your personality. Most friends won't either as long as you aren't an asshole. " Being an ugly woman is like being a man. You're gonna have to work " -Daniel Tosh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:08 PM
3

If you're fat or unattractive you will have less people hitting on you. If you're overtly shy then it's a sign you're not very attractive and you know it. Hit the gym, learn how to dress and you'll find somebody pretty quickly. Unless you have some weird deformity your ability to find a guy is 100% in your own hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 03:14 PM
9

Getting approached by a woman who isn't at least buzzing from a couple margaritas typically isn't a thing. I have a very active nightlife and I can say without a doubt single women come in, sit down, order a drink and stare blankly into the crowd waiting to be approached. Most of the time they leave in 30-45 minutes wondering why no one came and talked to them. The hotter ones have a chance of someone coming over and sparking up a conversation but the fatties always leave with visible despair on…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 03:10 PM
8

The first thing I imagined when thinking about women I might not notice or care about was a fat woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 03:04 PM
5

You do seem pretty insecure. Make sure you don't commit to someone until you're confident in yourself enough which right now you are not.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 07:17 PM
12

Incredibly this. My kids don't remember m ex girlfriends and they don't give a shit. Get the fuck out.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 02:38 PM
5

Find a solid alpha broski who will show you how to be a man.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 09:25 PM
3

I'm not sure what a gordita is but I know what it gets you with a coked out 22 year old.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 06:08 PM
25

Every girl I've ever met that's remotely stable and not a complete coked out whore had a strong, masculine father in their life. Every gross, drugged out ran through skank I ever met (tons) all either had no positive male role model at all or a very weak one.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 05:06 PM
50

This is incredibly accurate. If you want to know how crazy she is AND how good she is in bed just ask about her dad. If she explodes and calls him a piece of shit she's both incredibly fucked up and likely to do anal in a taco bell bathroom.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 04:42 PM
14

Plated a chick for about 3 months who was 6ft tall. Never was an issue. Some people gave us weird looks and most guys are salty when you're with someone who's tall and attractive and you're short but that really just makes it feel even a little bit better on some level.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 07:01 PM
28

A word to all of those "manlets" out there: ​ Dress well, work out, eat well, have a good career, have a great personality and the pussy will flow to you just like anyone else. I'm 5'5 and I can say it's if you do these things you'll blow most average 6ft tall guys out of the water. No fucking excuses. Get out there and make it happen.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 05:59 PM
1

Imagine thinking that soft liberal men are lust inducing more than tradcons
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 02:17 AM
1

I already answered that keep reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 10:27 PM
1

Hey man whatever makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 12:06 AM
1

You are absolutely both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 09:54 PM
1

Your autism is showing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 07:27 PM
1

If you look at the first few entries and even look at their sources they all say that women are all kinda in the middle and men are either on the high or low end on average. We're talking about averages and it's absolutely based on MANY factors, one of them being gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 03:19 PM
2

Google "iq distribution women"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 02:09 PM
2

I don't think it's desperation. We already have scientific data that most women's IQ's and personalities are generally the same. The biggest variance in women is in fact their looks and physical health. Men are generally either pretty smart or super stupid, there isn't much middle for us. I guess what I'm saying is we play with the cards we're all dealt. That isn't desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 12:23 PM
2

Actresses who want a part, secretaries who want a raise/promotion, girls who want to go to an exclusive event or trip, etc.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:07 PM
7

Doughy dudes with cash and power get short term fucks all the time,mostly because women want something from them but it happens.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 03:49 PM
10

I'd say a fat man who's got money or power is going to get a higher value partner than a fat woman who most likely will settle for someone unattractive and broke or blowing lots of random dudes who won't date her who she met on tinder.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:11 PM
16

You're wrong. While being fat is a turnoff if a dude has money, power, status, etc. women largely will overlook virtually any physical attribute. Men care about looks... not even personality...just looks.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 12:08 PM
10

Prenups can be declared invalid for many many many reasons. I don't suggest relying on them to protect you in any practical sense. It's safer to just not get married and get a "clip" or "pinch" vasectomy which are more reversible for if/when you want to have a child.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 03:31 PM
1

Think about her but always consciously remember during those times of her cheating on you. It helps you put her aside a bit more. It takes forever. I think we all think of a few girls from time to time. Most of us think about getting super drunk and eating cheeseburgers 24/7 but being mature about things is knowing what you want and know when it's incredibly bad for you. Time fixes it, keep slinging game and working on yourself and eventually you'll begin wondering why the hell you cared so much…
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:24 PM
35

Any time a woman says "It's soooo not a big deal, get over it" is the second you should know it's a HUGE fucking deal and not let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:25 PM
4

I'm 32. Regularly banging 19-25 year olds. I had a couple LTRs that were 27-30 but found they weren't any better than the 19 year olds... they just were older. I mostly just engage for sex or flirting but rarely sit and hang out with one in a one on one setting as it's largely unbearable. I've even deleted social media recently so i don't have to see their crap. It's brought a lot of peace and honestly has brought on a perceived scarcity of my presence because they don't have easy access to me.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:13 PM
2

100% right. Drinking makes social interaction with women at least tolerable. I simply can't do it sober.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:20 PM
0

Don't give a reason, don't give an excuse. Just say you don't want to be together anymore and then immediately leave and block her from contacting you. Do this in a public place. If she attempts to contact you through channels you cannot control then don't engage, tell her it's inappropriate and ask her to politely leave. Record everything so there is no false allegations against you if this is legal in your state. Edit: If you live with her you should take a day off work while she's away from t…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:33 PM
1

You may be right but in my anecdotal experience a 40 year old woman who's horny and drunk and not getting attention is WAY more likely to be more sexually aggressive and intense than a drunk and horny 40 year old man in a public place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 02:38 PM
1

So basically everything most horny 40 year old women do at bars? cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 02:35 PM
1

Could you explain why it's a no go for lifting besides it being incredibly fattening and dehydrating? I have scaled back from 4 nights a week to 1 a week and from red wine to low calorie beer. Though i know both are awful for you on any kind of cut so i usually get a lot of low calorie protein in and dont eat dinner when i go out to compensate for the calories. Sorry still learning.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 05:55 PM
1

what was your cut like? Did you basically just cut bread and sugar out of your diet? I think my big problem with my cut is obviously alcohol as it's a huge part of my social life.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 04:27 PM
1

32, doing WAY better with women then when I was 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 06:26 PM
1

I could be wrong but I interpreted your statement as that men don't desire these women as partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 03:50 PM
1

Not sure where you're getting your info. Anecdotally, most strippers and porn stars I have met or know about have boyfriends or husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 02:28 PM
1

People you aren't attracted to that you get along with are called "friends".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 01:36 PM
1

They do... all of the time....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 01:35 PM
1

I know you're being sarcastic but the first 3 are 100% accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:27 AM
1

Then you're on the wrong subreddit and also chasing a dream that never really existed and even if it did we'll never get back to.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 04:43 PM
1

I'm 5'5. I've had plenty of casual sex with women of all heights pretty much. Personality, fitness, style and career/success definitely play a role. Would it help to be taller? Maybe. Does anyone ever bring it up? Not really. I see a TON of 6 ft tall dudes begging for a morsel of pussy that I've had and thrown away a few weeks later. I know that comes off as braggadocios but it's the truth at least in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:22 PM
1

Anecdotal but almost every woman I am friends with can recant 1-5 one night stands they've had. Casual sex is everywhere and it's getting worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 03:57 PM
1

I'd say from minute 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 01:58 PM
1

It's basically the asshole of Texas. It's the worst place ever.
/r/PussyPass18/07/19 07:19 PM
1

Not sure what AA means. You smile and pick on a dude about his shortcoming back to him in a playful way. Don't cry and scream OMG YOU SUCK AND I HAVE MONEY! If a woman shit tests me about them being taller than me I usually come back with "It's ok, I'll climb you like a red oak". Ex girlfriend was a 9 and was about 5'9. No complaints. Must be doing something right.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 06:46 PM
1

5'5 here. I lost about 60 pounds a year ago, lift 5 days a week, eat right, dress well, have a great career (I own a few businesses through both inheriting them and starting others) and have good facial features. I own my own home in a nice area and have a very large social circle. In my area (Central TX) woman aren't incredibly tall it seems and my height has never been a factor as far as I can tell due to me rocking things that I can control. I've spoken to some female friends who aren't in my…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 10:54 AM
1

I can also confirm this though I understand it's anecdote. I'm relatively shorter than most men however I make good money, lost tons of weight and gained lost of muscle, dress well and have a personality people are drawn to and have zero problems landing women of any height. Also, it's weird to me I don't know if it's a region of the country thing but in my part of Texas it's pretty rare to see a woman over 5'7ish. Most are 5'4 and under.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 02:43 PM
1

But see this is the majority of TRP that is why I think Atlas's description of "build a better beta" is bang on and exactly why TRP guys need to be told to chill the fuck out and learn to have fun instead of being unfuckable uptight tradcons. I think many guys on TRP are still in the anger phase. They often reek of insecurity and project that on every comment they post. There's so much good that can come from TRP. It helped me lift, eat right, talk to women, etc. but man... some of these dudes a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 05:44 PM
1

Look you can try to justify these negative behaviors by screaming "DOUBLE STANDARDS!" all day long but the reality is that there are studies that show these behaviors aren't making people happy, especially women...are actively hampering long term relationship possibilities for women. It doesn't matter what you FEEL. That's just the reality. Info on my claims linked: https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2018/10/sexual-partners-and-marital-happiness/573493/ https://ifstudies.org/blog/counter…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 02:22 PM
1

Why does she draw and accept such toxic mean, then? I'm not a MGTOW by the way. I don't believe your mother has the entire dating pool at her finger tips. I think most women who are 18-35 do as long as they aren't incredibly overweight. That's just my observation. Most men are genuinely lonely, desperate and have low standards. Constantly changing relationships shows you have poor judgement in partners. If you're sleeping around then, yeah, you're kind of slutty. That's not no-win. That's "if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 01:52 PM
1

You may be biased because it's your mother. Why do all of these men who I assume don't know each other feel compelled to lie to her? Is she controlling, verbally abusive, etc? We don't know and odds are you don't either. Point is, your point of reference is most likely skewed. Keep loving your mother but come to terms with that she's human and most likely contributing to her own single status.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 12:40 PM
8

There's literally only one city with over 5 million people in the USA and that's New York City. That doesn't make everyone else hicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 12:19 PM
1

Sweetie? You're the one crying about someone cringing about a dumb statement. I'm not even mad... I just feel pity and embarrassment for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 03:29 PM
1

Your insecurity is off the charts. Calm down, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:41 PM
1

It's not about being coddled... It's just very cringey.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:18 AM
1

Admittedly I am fringe right. I still think it's cringey.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:18 AM
2

she's 18. she isn't ready to be in a LTR. you are lying to yourself. Get out now before it gets worse.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:22 PM
1

Man, this sounds really REALLY pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 12:07 PM
6

Business casual also. I usually treat them like children the second I see a 40 year old man with a Mario neck tattoo.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:58 PM
1

I do business in Austin. I hate tattoos, that being said if you work/live in the austin area in engineering or tech especially everyone has dumbass facial hair, ironic tshirts and shitty tattoos... fuckin' everyone.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 04:54 PM
1

I think the bigger issue than documenting "emotional abuse" is clarifying what that even means. It's highly subjective. ​ One person might think a text saying "You need to lose weight because you're unhealthy and it's harming our relationship and my attraction to you" is emotional abuse while another person may think of that as being honest and working through issues in a relationship. "Emotional abuse" is very slippery slope that typically will be interpreted too broadly over time and be used a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 01:49 PM
2

Exactly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 11:48 PM
1

No, you don't argue or dictate a woman's actions. You make it clear what you expect and if they consistently go against that then you should just next.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 05:31 PM
1

If I'm standing on a bridge and i see nine people jump off in a panic then it's a smart idea to consider that they're doing it for a legitimate reason. Might they all be in a suicide pact? Maybe. Might there be something they're getting away from? Likely.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:58 PM
1

If 9/10 people say something tastes horrible would you still eat it?
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:17 PM
1

I run every red light because people run them and don't get into crashes. Some red light runners crash some don't so you never know! That's you, taken to its logical conclusion.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:05 PM
1

The "not all" argument is fucking lazy and completely antithetical to how you should live you life as most decisions you make will have to involve patterns, averages, etc. You're being mentally lazy while jerking yourself off thinking about how much of an out of the box thinker you are.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:46 PM
6

Any chick who majors in psychology or any other type of mental health field is typically doing so due to their own fucked up past. It's a pattern I've noticed at least. ​ But why do you even care?
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:16 PM
22

This is the real question that no one's asking.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:15 PM
110

"HE HIT ME GIRLS OMG!" ​ "OOOOMMMMG YOU SHOULD TOTALLY GO TO THE POLICE TIFFANY SO HE NEVER HURTS ANYONE AGAIN!!!!" ​
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/18 06:07 PM
3

You can be certain if she has feelings for you she's going to interrogate you about yours. The only response to give is: "I'm not talking about this and I don't care about yours."
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:13 PM
31

Dude, it's fine. Just get in the gym and stop being salty about those who do.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:11 PM
1

Answered below but here you go: ​ I personally always took it off after I get the job. If anyone asks (they wont) why it's off simply say you take off when you're typing, etc. and typically don't wear it around often. this is typical of most engineers, tech workers, etc. I know anyways. No one will will genuinely remember or care... and if they ARE thinking about it they won't ask about it again because no one wants the uncomfortable "I'm getting a divorce!" conversation. As for asking where the…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:42 PM
1

Well, faking it seems to be, at least.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:21 PM
2

sorry fixed that
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:05 AM
18

I personally always took it off after I get the job. If anyone asks (they wont) why it's off simply say you take off when you're typing, etc. and typically don't wear it around often. this is typical of most engineers, tech workers, etc. I know anyways. No one will will genuinely remember or care... and if they ARE thinking about it they won't ask about it again because no one wants the uncomfortable "I'm getting a divorce!" conversation. As for asking where the wife is simply say "she's out of …
/r/askTRP26/11/18 07:29 PM
1

This guy manages. ​ Single married men are the backbone of the economy and for good reason. I even recommend wearing a wedding ring to most job interviews.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:50 PM
1

Why are you worried about it? You should be at a point in your life where you're the "Chad" in these situations and you should be closing, regardless? Why do you care if other guys are failing?
/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:03 PM
1

Shady when you're pocketing money and not reporting it. That's tax evasion at the very least or embezzlement depending on how they company is structured.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:49 PM
1

This is the correct answer. Things are rarely as black and white as you'd might suspect. There could be some seriously shady shit going on and you could easily become the "problem". Getting rid of someone for something like this without incurring legal trouble is SUPER easy. ​ If you're trying to leave the company then leave and tell him on your way out as a courtesy.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 06:19 PM
8

Most likely a single mom
/r/PussyPassDenied01/11/18 06:33 PM
27

This is spot on advice. ​ This is how you end up getting oneitis and losing your entire identity. Just be glad you're part of a "community" of people who are telling you to get out before you lose yourself even further. ​ Have some self respect.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 02:13 PM
20

This is terrible advice. Don't degrade yourself to get what you want.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 02:03 PM
1

To be fair it's a fine line. The biggest take away is you need to be "busier" than her, on average.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 03:25 PM
17

It was also a TV show. Be polite but firm and just say you aren't answering questions and want to speak to your lawyer. It's typically not an awesome idea to piss off the cops any more than you have to, regardless of how fucked the situation is.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 02:43 PM
-1

Well he's on asktrp. It's not weird for him to ask questions...
/r/askTRP18/06/18 04:55 PM
5

Used the bar to fuck and find friends right after my divorce. Follow every word of these two comments. It's exactly what I did and my n count skyrocketed, I found a lifting buddy and my circle of friends exploded purely from being friends with the staff. Took about 6 months but if the staff (especially the women) likes you then usually you'll be introduced to many MANY of their friends. Be prepared to stay up incredibly late for bartender invites to house parties with other bar serviceworkers. I…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 10:47 PM
2

I think we can all agree that someone being attractive is pretty black and white but you're just wrong if you think everyone views attractiveness levels the same. Some guys hate short hair, others fetishize it. Some guys like Latina chicks, some like black chicks, some like Asian chicks. Some don't like one of the other. A HB8 black chick to one guy is gonna be a HB5 to another.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:52 PM
2

If he thinks they are 7's then they're 7's for his purposes. The scale is ridiculously different for everyone.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 03:46 PM
3

You're right, especially when we're talking about insurance, taxes, maintenance, etc. Generating passive income at that level in any way is EXTREMELY difficult and often requires multiple generations sacrificing to make it happen.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 03:45 AM
3

You're in high school. This is a high school girlfriend. You should next her. This isn't worth your time, effort, attention or future. It's a fucking high school relationship. Next the fuck out of her.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 04:03 PM
10

Austin.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/05/18 08:46 PM
23

A woman who says she cannot possibly get pregnant is looking to make you a father in 9 months.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 02:27 PM
1

This is the right answer. Your perception of her has changed and you know you can never change it back. Have enough for respect for yourself and her to end it but I wouldn't go into "why".
/r/askTRP30/03/18 04:25 PM
29

Exactly. She just wants attention. Don't give it to her or give her the ability to generate it.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 06:09 PM
5

Hey man, if you're happy then I'm happy. I'd definitely recommend somehow protecting yourself from getting financially raped in the event things go south. People being in happy, stable marriages for 10+ years then it all exploding is the rule, not the exception. Kids complicate things, marriage or not. Just trying to look out for you.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 07:35 PM
10

I think most PEOPLE fall under renters with no or useless degree making 100k a year. I don't think it would tell you much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 07:33 PM
5

Good post however I highly advise against marrying and having children with any woman who has pictures of herself practically naked on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 07:23 PM
14

I have two kids (7 and 10). I think if I found one of them to not be mine it would be utterly devastating but not as devastating as being a cuck for some random dude. Guess I'm ordering these tests.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 03:36 PM
1

This is completely the right answer. You should never be in a situation where you're expected to pay for everything unless you're legitimately in a "date" scenario. Any meetup simply tell her what's happening. They always agree if you're confident about it.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 04:12 PM
1

I agree. I think both of us are right, really.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 01:05 AM
10

I think it's building the relationship off of lies that makes her a slut, an emotional one, at least.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 07:22 PM
14

the first person that makes the accusation has the advantage and it's triply so if the accuser is a woman. You were so close to being right. Let's be super clear here. If you are involved in a problem at work or initiate one it's very likely that you have a target on your back from management especially if it is you vs woman. If you go to HR every time a chick asks you out or flirts with you then YOU are the problem and you WILL be dealt with. It may not be fair but that's the world we live in. …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 12:13 AM
30

No fucking way. This is so wrong it's not even funny. DO NOT bring in lawyers and consult HR. This is a one way ticket to the unemployment line. Instead, politely decline stating you don't socialize with anyone outside of work and keep a paper trail.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 10:12 PM
8

You can always tell how worthless and trashy someone is by the names of the groups they share. "Grown folks conversations - Adult Version". This person didn't even think about going to Jr College
/r/PussyPassDenied28/11/17 03:20 PM
3

Obviously women use sex as a tool every day but if she's outwardly proclaiming she's going to use sex as blackmail against your behavior she's already losing respect for you and you should next her, in my opinion.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 03:11 PM
1

You've never worked a customer service job before.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 06:26 PM
1

You're extremely right. I protect, provide and have the ultimate say in literally everything in my LTR. She cooks, cleans, waits on me hand and foot, etc. She knows I don't need her and she knows as long as she meets and exceeds my expectations then she's going to have a good life with me. She knows if she fucks up I'll dump her without a second thought. I think culturally/socially it's better for me to be in a relationship. Anyone over 30 in my area that is single is typically a major loser. Th…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:56 PM
4

bro I'm rich and lift 400 pounds and get laid EVERY DAY by 700 plates. U wish 2 b mi. if u don't ur beta az fuk. I'm nextin' ur mum.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 05:48 PM
4

It's the right choice. This isn't the kind of behavior you want from your potential wife/mother of your children. If she ISN'T the potential wife or mother of your children someday then there's no reason to date her. Side-note: I don't think any woman "explores her bi-sexuality" without a man being in the mix on some level.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 05:46 PM
7

My biggest issue the /r/trp is the "lmao brah ur so beta fggt and not hardcure lik mi". This comment is no fluff, no bullshit and he's not trying to wave his dick in everyone's face. It's the only one worth a damn right now.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 04:40 PM
3

Many states allow annulment within a year of marriage. You should look into this.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:22 PM
1

That's a non-answer but that's up to you. I just don't think what you're saying is well thought out. Take care.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:47 PM
1

Could you give me some examples where he's repacked some works? I know many would be interested in this.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:38 PM
-1

I think the later editions of his book where he provides fairly in depth examples of this happening in the real world help support his work. I think you also need to define what you believe "power" is. In his book he lays out that "power" ranges from positions of actual political power to handling interpersonal relationships, etc. In which case we don't really know if he does or doesn't have power in his life. I can say that you don't simply become a best selling author and develop a cult-like f…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:50 PM
8

Ah yes. Nothing gets women all wet like asking for an email address.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 01:44 PM
18

If you're bald and ripped you're gonna get some major ass.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 01:34 PM
13

Guys, seriously. Don't use those example statement of interests. They're gonna fall flat. If we're cringing, they're cringing.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 01:36 PM
2

IF she cheats once she'll do it again. Good for you, man!
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 06:14 PM
8

You're in the anger phase. It's normal and will pass. In the mean use it to focus working on yourself. Letting anger consume you without purpose or result is just weakness. You'll be fine. We all went through it.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 05:17 AM
10

You're the great sage of our time.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 06:21 AM
7

And ironic to the maximum
/r/PussyPassDenied24/01/17 01:26 PM
5

Dat white guilt doe... How much is blue hair dye going for these days, anyway?
/r/PussyPass07/01/17 10:22 PM
5

What do you have to gain? If you're worried about losing her if you don't then you never had her. I'd recommend not accepting and never bringing it up.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 05:14 AM
5

Women don't care if you try. They care if you succeed.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 03:37 PM
2

luckily it sounds like you have a shit job. Just bang the 18 year old. If your friends treat you like crap for the whole situation then they aren't your friends and they should be dropped as well. Don't fuck people where you work.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 09:42 PM
1

I should say, it's one of the clearest examples of a woman's inability to follow simple directions and make the correct decisions.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 04:16 PM
1

She was cooking it for herself. I'll be sure to tell her redfallhammer is done with her shit.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 03:51 PM
1

Second this. It'll completely overhaul your life if you apply them correctly.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 03:35 PM
1

Don't eat with a chick you haven't already fucked and do not wish to fuck again. Don't let it even become a topic of consideration. Two things usually happen in this situation, realistically. You either a: pay for her food and drinks and hope to god she's gonna fuck b. dont pay for her shit and she gets pissed. Example: I was on a 2nd date with this chick and she said she wanted pizza. I told her I wasn't hungry and she could order some if she wanted. She asked for my card. I told her no. She go…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:18 PM
2

Friends dont have sex. People in a relationship do. So are you in a relationship or not?
/r/askTRP15/07/16 12:28 AM
3

I have some friendships with women. They give me tons of information and lead me to other social circles of girls I have yet to meet. Information is power, networking is everything. Never trust them, though. Edit: Want something to get out but don't want to have to humble brag about it? Tell them about it and tell them not to tell anyone. The right people will know within the week. I do this often when I get major pay raises, promotions, going on nice vacations, etc.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 03:35 PM
9

I don't think he's disagreeing with that there's many ways to channel your anger that push you to better yourself. Many musicians, businessmen, etc. used anger, defeat, etc. to push themselves to great lengths and it payed off in a massive way. Your emotions should be used to push you into greatness.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 02:43 PM
1

Can confirm. Held frame, didn't enter into a relationship with her. She still leaves presents on my doorstep with "I miss you" cards hoping I'll give her the time of day. Also, she's incredibly mentally unstable and her mother is a cunt from what she tells me. OP is spot on.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 04:09 PM
2

I can never get the camera positioned correctly so it's usually just my frothy gooch swaying in and out for 15 seconds.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 09:17 PM
1

I'd say juice isn't worth the squeeze on this one. A lot can go wrong. Next.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 07:20 PM
2

Damn this hits home just this week I had a friend who's girlfriend "doesn't like the party scene" and suggested we all do a "game of thrones night or something" and is forcing our lifelong friend to stay home all of the time. When I said "we can't all change to just make your girlfriend happy to be clear it's pretty much impossible to be friends if we never see each other". He replied "I know, I'm sorry". That's that. I blame him for being such a pussy. I don't blame her any more than a blame a …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 06:40 PM
1

Don't EVER listen to your girlfriend.... about anything.... like... ever....
/r/PussyPassDenied17/06/16 03:35 PM
1

Ironically, these women are not highly desirable to most white american men as their first choice.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 08:13 PM
2

I think we've JUST started seeing the swing back. People like Milo, Steven Crowder, Gavin McInnes, etc. are cultivating massive a following. The rise of the right wing is happening again and with that some normality regarding sexual roles and attitudes, in my opinion.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 08:10 PM
1

Stifles your hunters mentality towards women. Gives you a false sense of accomplishment through rewarding yourself through nothing. A lot of of men stroke it wrong or too often and it creates erectile disfunction later on, etc.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 11:40 PM
8

In Texas the lonestar (foodstamps) program is UPC based. Meaning if you want to use that foodstamps card it only applies to certain UPC (barcodes) in that database. It's pretty easy to implement in practice, honestly.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/05/16 09:50 PM
1

Mind if I ask what bike you have? I considered biking instead of jogging... as I completely hate jogging.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 05:49 PM
1

There is! I'll check into that. Thanks!
/r/askTRP27/04/16 05:49 PM
2

I'd say roughly 45 miles one-way to the nearest boxing gym (which is what I'm interested in)
/r/askTRP27/04/16 03:48 PM
2

Agree completely. Masturbation and pornography not only does nothing to help your life it will make it drastically worse.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 01:37 PM
9

Society just doesn't fall apart like we fantasize about anymore. We really don't know what would be incredibly beneficial in an apocalyptic scenario because, frankly, we've never experienced it. When societies "collapse" now it's never global, aid usually comes and often people are just poor. So, in reality, if society collapses the only thing people will care about is your ability to acquire resources. The odds of us being wiped out completely are much higher than some random mad max/ walking d…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 04:21 AM
2

Damn right! Never EVER take a chick's word for it. Not only that but STDs and such. There's never a reason not to wear a condom.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 08:37 PM
0

Get off online dating. It's a meat market where women have all of the power and the women on there are nothing but fat, single mothers. Also the likelihood of a woman having an STD on online dating vs out and about is incredibly higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 01:53 PM
-1

Yep you're right. I totally misread that.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 03:50 AM
1

I cringed at "go make me a sandwich". Just reeks of fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 03:29 AM
1

This thread directly related to interpersonal relationships, not careers. You actually agreed with me that your disorder has hurt you with interpersonal relationships. I never used autistic disparagingly. I said it WILL be something that hinders your SOCIAL progress and you came in and unintentionally agreed with me while trying to chastise me. Stop being so sensitive.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 01:31 PM
1

I agree with you. I just add the caveat of "never believe what a woman tells you because odds are even she doesn't really know"
/r/askTRP06/04/16 02:45 AM
1

Never EVER assume a woman doesn't wanna rope you into a child or child support, even if she says she doesn't want to. It's just not worth the risk. How many single moms have you heard use the phrase "I didn't plan on this but it's the best thing that ever happened to me. He needs to man up..." that's code for marry her or pay her child support.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 10:16 PM
2

Yeah it's not like women would lie or something...
/r/askTRP05/04/16 03:28 AM
7

You should end the relationship. Clearly you aren't that invested. You can at least leave her with her dignity if you bail now. Honestly I don't think she'll tell her, though.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 03:16 AM
6

If you're autistic I feel bad for you but it legitimately hurts you, socially. Just like being short (like me). Doesn't mean you can't overcome it but you should be realistic about it. Also, stop being a pussy.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 07:58 PM
2

Karaoke bars can be good, also. Learn to dance if you haven't. Most bars have a mix of people. The bars i frequent have cliques of people where some are sullen drunks, some are assholes and others are just flirting and talking. Remember, bars are easy access social experiences. While some people go and drown their sorrows a lot of people go because it's just a quick, easy place to socialize with no planning or expectations.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 07:01 PM
1

What kind of crowd are you seeking? I frequent a country bar. I am not country at all and am well received, if anything standing out is beneficial. Obviously that's different than me going to, say, a gang bar or something.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 06:07 PM
3

For the best. You don't want ties to her any more than necessary. Frankly, finding genuine friends is tough. I have maybe 2 and even then I rarely spend time with them. Acquaintances are easier to find and to maintain. I don't know where you're from but where I'm from (Texas) complete strangers usually get along in bar situations and such as long as no one's being a prick. I think consistency is key in finding male interactions. Go places and keep going. It'll just happen if you do that.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 04:34 PM
17

The biggest thing I want you to remember is you're MAJORLY in your prime right now, unless you've completely made bad life choices. If you're not obese, know how to dress, have a good job with stable income and aren't autistic then you'll have some perceived value, especially to younger women. Don't talk about your divorce at length with ANYONE. Mention it if asked, cut the conversation short and keep it light. I'm 28 and have a couple of friends who're in their late 30's and early 40's who are …
/r/askTRP04/04/16 03:20 PM
4

This is the pretty standard go-to insult or insinuation any time a red pill guy talks about his past relationships. It's childish and not productive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 01:19 PM
7

Ah, be that as it may I don't think you'll find many RP men will come here and try to advocate or sell themselves on something they don't want to be a part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 06:48 PM
8

Most RP men don't seem to want to have LTR. More importantly, these traits he claims to have actually make him less than ideal as a long term partner but an ideal person for brief sexual encounters. The whole alpha fucks ,beta bux kinda thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 06:43 PM
3

Oh don't get butthurt. Take a joke and laugh, God. People are so sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 09:10 PM
6

Well at least your username is incredibly fitting for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 09:03 PM
4

Which planet are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 08:58 PM
6

The formula is: Is she a woman? If so then odds are she will consider cheating at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 08:52 PM
1

I don't think either are bad. Often, some on TRP just thinks if you don't bang a chick within 10 minutes of meeting her then you are never going to. I've found that's not nearly the case.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 11:19 PM
1

Obviously he may not have many options but you are right. I would focus on getting a better living situation before working on "making it happen". That being said this is the PERFECT opportunity to go into monk mode for a bit and hit some major goals.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 10:19 PM
5

Go to the bar with her and order a coke or something? Don't take it personally if the date ends with a hug and a "text me later". Usually date number 2 is when I personally push to stick my parts in her parts.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 08:30 PM
2

Man up. Tell her to fuck off. What's wrong with you?!
/r/askTRP15/02/16 05:54 PM
1

This is my biggest "thing". Video games don't work anymore and it's my workout off-time. My town is kind of small so if you want to socialize you drink or go to church. Flag football does start up soon which will help a little bit but it's one day out of the week.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 02:52 PM
4

Anyone here cut out drinking? How did it effect your gains, money and social life?
/r/askTRP31/01/16 10:32 PM
4

Back when I did LTR's I wouldn't mention my kids for a month or two. We'd hang out, they'd fall for me then I'd mention it. It never was an issue after that. A couple of them said they'd have stopped talking to me if they knew I had them and they're glad they waited and got to know me before learning it. Point is just wait for a bit and get to know each other before dropping bombshells on each other that way there's context... More importantly... stop wanting a LTR.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 04:18 PM
4

I don't think he is. Rather, I think he's implying that she has gone into the workforce as the least common denominator with no genuine career, plan, talent or mental stimulation. If she was 400 pounds with EVERYTHING else the same about her she's be jumping between fast food jobs and definitely not married to anyone of worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 10:22 PM
2

Man quit being a fucking pussy about your height. You're the only person who truly gives a shit. Dress well, get fit and make money and you're beating 99% of men out there in the sexual marketplace, regardless of height.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 02:39 PM
3

Not sure why you're being downvoted. I don't know many dudes named Angela.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/01/16 10:31 PM
3

You can't just cherry pick. That's disingenuous. Obviously there are ideals that are commonly held... that's the purpose of a subreddit. It's kind of like saying "I never see anyone on /r/Christianity worshiping Allah! WHAT A BUNCH OF GROUP -THINK RETARDS!" Nope, they talk about commonly held philosophical and theological belief in Jesus and how it applies to their lives and that's what brings them all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 04:40 PM
6

TRP does not question their own theories and their methods are simply selective observations. Big difference. There is often massive debate in /r/TheRedPill over theory, application, etc. I feel like you may be generalizing a group of people that you've been criticizing for generalizing others... which is very ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 04:22 PM
7

Okay, first, not trying to be an asshole but "women" means more than one woman, "woman" means one woman. I'm not sure if English is your first language but it's killing me. Most people don't fully know who they are, but others don't usually know it better. Simply isn't true or else Psychiatry, Psychology and Religion wouldn't exist or be so prominent in many people's lives. This is true for men and women. Ask any women, and see that they have just as much hobbies as men. Ask them why they do it …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 03:49 PM
8

They just don't understand themselves as well as TRP'ers do. I know you're being sarcastic but in all honesty... You're 100% dead on. Most women have no clue who or what they are at any age which is why (we believe) the red pill is useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 03:28 PM
12

All I know is that these concepts of women have resembled my mother, sister, a great number of my sister's friends, my ex wife, my ex girlfriend, a great number of THEIR friends.... I think I'm more comfortable generalizing after seeing the endless sea of women in my life be exactly how TRP has taught. The red pill gets an overtly bad wrap because there is obviously a lot of men that are angry that they were TOLD to treat women a certain way and that they'd become more appealing when in reality …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/16 02:49 PM
3

I do day game but despise online. For the record I do take special times to just get hammered.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 09:56 PM
1

I'll say this. Be very careful. Often, three ways start out as fantasy for both but when it's real and has happened it can create a lot of issues around jealousy, possessiveness, trust, etc. I've seen three ways ruin a lot of relationships that were rock solid before... that being said... have fun!
/r/askTRP30/12/15 08:34 PM
1

He's a good dude but definitely doesn't understand women at all.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 08:01 PM
11

Hit a little too close to home, bud?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 08:01 PM
26

Always get text messages or something similar of her showing direct interest in touching your wang. It isn't rock solid but it's usually enough to scare them into shutting up if they try to pull that shit. I had one girl say she felt "pressured" into sex and "didnt know what to do". I told her "well I have the texts of you asking for a 'cum shower'" so I'm not sure what to say." She dropped it after that.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 05:52 PM
2

Oh god somehow I skipped the "office" part of all of this and I thought this was genuine social situations. Don't hang out with chicks from the office. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 09:23 PM
2

If you aren't in the mood you shouldn't be there.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 06:38 PM
1

I'd just jokingly shout "He kind of has a crush on me, he's always staring at me and talking about me. It's flattering but obviously he's kind of embarrassed about it..." People will laugh. He'll feel insecure when he's the butt of the joke. Do it playfully so that it seems you don't care and you're dismissing him.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 06:37 PM
3

Like most have said, I recommend just keep having fun. When he interjects on YOUR interactions with people in an awkward way just kinda give a "cringe" face like you're embarrassed FOR HIM to someone else. You'd be surprised how quickly people are willing to jump on the "that guy is weird" train with you. I run into this a lot in the bar scene where everyone is trying to do anything they can to get and maintain attention.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 03:31 PM
5

I live in Texas. It's not uncommon at all to see kids from 21 to men age 70 in the same bar all talking and hanging out. Get away from clubs and start going to bars, lounges, etc.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 03:27 PM
2

Atta boy. If she isn't moving at the speed you dictate then you definitely need to bounce on your own terms. She may swing back around quicker than you think once she sees you have a spine unlike most guys.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 12:31 AM
1

If you are coming off as beta then it may be a good idea to cut contact, become forgotten for a while and come back as alpha rather than trying to immediately salvage. This only works if you cut the contact. If she cuts you off before you pull the trigger you'll be locked away in her brain forever as beta.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 10:06 PM
1

Shaming isn't the same as chastisement. Don't get in his face and make fun of him. Instead, take little jabs at him in front of everyone without coming off as a dick or being bitter. Laugh at broke people who can't pay back their debts without mentioning or even looking at him. Shit like that. Make him uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 09:33 PM
3

5'6 here as well. Never been a problem. Be confident, dress well, have a good body, be successful. Often my competition are 5'10 men who have spotty beards, shitty personalities and couldn't genuinely speak to a woman to save their lives. It's not hard. Don't make excuses.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 09:28 PM
3

There's no way you can engage that will make YOU feel better. If anything delete facebook or remove them from your friend's list if you're truly done because this bitch is still holding you back on some level. If you "confront" her about tagging you or liking your stuff on facebook then it makes you look like a weirdo. For normal people, those activities aren't enough to justify any genuine "talking to" but, rather, are normal things people do. I don't think you should be on social media until y…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 09:12 PM
1

Juice isn't worth the squeeze in day to day conversation. Be passionate about whatever but every hobby has a stereotype and you don't want to be on the wrong end of those.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 06:27 AM
1

This is correct in my opinion. I normally go with "Why do you think that is?" turns it back on her, keeps YOU from saying something stupid and forces her to be humble which will subconsciously make her also make excuses why she's good enough for you.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 10:09 PM
1

This is dicey. Everyone should keep in mind that no one will ever look positively about your level of knowledge on things like dungeons and dragons or video games. If you know a lot about these I don't care but a woman will and for mostly the wrong reasons. Movie info should be "geeked out on" purely with quick, funny references or quotes. Honestly this is such a dicey thing to do I'd genuinely avoid it in favor of in the moment fun or letting her yammer about herself and reveal actually importa…
/r/askTRP27/12/15 12:20 PM
78

I think you're using mental gymnastics by saying you'll "use" her for sex. Why do you need her for that? I think even best case scenario it's a crutch and will slow your progress to new pussy. If you want to plate her and it isn't an emotionally charged situation then cut her loose, bang two other women and then plate her.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 12:14 PM
1

It's about sexual strategy. If he's a known cheater this could be bad (sometimes good)... but definitely not worth the risk.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 07:10 PM
8

Oneitis is deadly. If you wanna fuck other women you should but don't cheat. Cheating is something bitches do. Plate her if you can.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 10:11 PM
5

The good treatment and looks always fade. If you're interested in being with other women you need to explore that in a serious and respectful way. Just respectfully tell her you aren't able to 100% commit right now and don't want to end up resenting her by forcing it. I think sometimes TRP gets caught up in playing the game that we don't realize sometimes doing the honest, mature thing is the quickest way to happiness.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 09:22 PM
5

You better be big and black or he's not gonna let you put it in.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 07:49 PM
1

Publicly embarrass them and deal with the slap on the wrist for hurting their feelings. Something like "Look, you're all fat. I don't wanna fuck any of you. Leave me alone, skanks." The only thing women have is their pride and selectivity. By crushing both of those in a public space they'll mostly likely flip out on you but also be so embarrassed they'll never talk to you again. This obviously won't work if you have, in fact, tried to fuck them and have failed.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:43 PM
2

Being a dick in general in these situations just makes you seem butt hurt and pathetic. I always recommend being respectful but firm. Your response is the correct one.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 10:38 PM
24

How else are you going to silence someone when you've clearly lost the argument?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/12/15 07:27 PM
3

Basically I didn't feel like arguing that specific point of his but rather the other part about ruining everyone else's life simply for feelz.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 02:16 PM
12

Her life is already ruined. There's no point in ruining more innocent lives as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 01:44 AM
3

Red pill focuses on fitness, professional development, social dynamics, etc... To get women... Like fitness focuses on those things... To be fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 08:01 PM
10

Red pill is a sub about sexual strategy for men to get women... Of course it's going to focus on women... Just like /r/fitness focuses on... Fitness...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/15 06:05 PM
1

Yeah. It feels trollish... maybe it's just me, though.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 08:19 PM
1

Troll post. Don't engage.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 08:05 PM
1

We can't answer what you like. You need to think critically about yourself. Examine your hobbies and what you are good at. How old are you? Some people like computers and they're in I.T. some people enjoy social interaction so they work as a bartender. It really just depends. Whatever you do, find out 1. How much you're going to make in 1, 5 and 10 years. 2. Where's the ceiling on your industry? If you're a bar tender it would most likely be owning a bar(s), if it's real estate I'd assume (witho…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 10:05 PM
1

Perfect response. To build on that. I recently did a field report where I kind of elaborate on this. I bang a lot of bartenders. These bartenders have to work in bikinis. Men come in CONSTANTLY bringing them gifts, food, you name it. They tell them they're perfect, amazing, smart, whatever. Most of these girls are 6's to 8's with decent bodies... nothing you'd truly look twice at in a grocery store. Some of them are getting older (30's) and can't leave... because they don't know how and because …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/15 03:39 PM
6

Can confirm, HR is purely there to figure out ways to prevent lawsuits and how to fire people if need-be.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 03:02 PM
12

I completely agree. I think he's already gotten on the radar in a very negative way.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 03:00 PM
13

I laughed. Seriously, reiterate that this is a date and you aren't interested in her sister coming around this early. If she objects then decline the date and next her. You don't have to be a dick about it but do be firm.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 09:19 PM
9

I honestly think 90% of us are all here because we have at least one woman in our life that opened our eyes to how women truly are/can be. It doesn't matter if that woman was an ex, your mother, whatever. I personally use these feelings when I'm working out or pushing myself in some way to be better. The feelings of resentment and hurt have DRASTICALLY faded as I've become more successful with women, personally and sexually. Use emotions to strengthen you not bring you down.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 10:17 PM
3

Comes off kind of dick-ish doesn't it which I think is the opposite direction you should go for such a basic shit test.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 10:27 PM
1

Most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 07:06 AM
2

Rape can come with mental problems, STDs, etc. which can all snowball into more problems. My mentality about it is: "I'm sorry for your trouble but it's not my burden to deal with nor would I be fit to help you through it for the rest of your life." I think that's reasonable and respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 09:35 PM
1

You're addicted to debt it sounds like. /r/personalfinance would have taught you to save for your children's college, make them go to affordable colleges for viable degrees etc. The economy is great for me. I have two children, live in Texas in a suburb right outside of Dallas. According to Business Insider it's the 11th most expensive city to live in in America. Best of luck!
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/15 03:42 PM
21

The signs are the opposite of what most men believe they would be. These are typically increased sex drive, increased happiness in a relationship, etc. I don't think they are trying to make up for their immoral behavior but rather I think they're just happy riding as many dicks as possible so they overlook the unhappiness of your relationship purely because it isn't their primary focus any longer. Be VERY skeptical of a happy woman.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 02:35 PM
4

Goddamn you nailed that perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 02:29 PM
10

The more anonymity a woman has, the quicker she'll be to hop on strange cock. This is why I believe that the camera enabled cell phone and Facebook (internet in general) are the worst things to happen to monogamy in human history.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 02:23 PM
10

Your finances are out of wack. Please consider joining /r/personalfinance
/r/PussyPassDenied27/10/15 09:41 PM
1

Possibly. I mostly just didn't respect the total breakdown that occurred after where he "swore off" all women, etc. Quick update: They're back together now. I'm sure I'll bang her again in 3 months.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 04:57 AM
1

Serious question, Why not adopt or pay to have a surrogate as a single man and not get married? You'd have a family a legacy, etc. Obviously do this whenever you're ready, say your early 40's?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 02:46 AM
33

Doesn't matter if it was justified or not... that thumbs up from her was kind of funny.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/10/15 02:38 AM
1

He's not my bro. I don't have allegiance to anyone just because they have a wang.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 04:23 PM
2

Or you know... I could just actually could be telling the truth?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 04:21 PM
-1

The reason I bang mostly bartenders (previous field report in my profile history involving other bartenders) is because they are usually worshiped by their customers and definitely have an inflated opinion of themselves. It's a little messed up but I definitely "get off" on conquering women who believe they're too good for most. To put it in context: I was married for 8 years, nasty divorce and pretty overweight. All that's changed and I'm self-aware enough to know that some of this stems from t…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 10:39 PM
2

Betas believe treating women with concern, unconditional respect, etc. will get them laid. they rely on "good guy points" to get sex. These guys are usually just brainwashed or misguided. Omegas typically fall into two camps. They flat out worship women as something that is unobtainable or have committed social/sexual suicide by giving up all together for whatever reason, usually sparked by some event. These guys are beyond delusional and incredibly poisonous.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 09:36 PM
1

Hopefully. I have no genuine disdain or ill will towards him. I think we've all gone through rough patches but that's what makes us better.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 08:26 PM
-2

The reference to him being "omega" was his declaration via facebook of "I'm swearing off women all together!". We all win, we all lose. It's how you handle it... I think that's called "frame".
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 08:25 PM
-4

This is a serious question. Is it really me disrespecting him? I never vowed any form of loyalty to him or anything. We weren't/aren't friends. I never really pushed anything in his face and really many times I went out of my way to separate myself physically from her. It was only whenever they got in the fight and she basically told him to fuck off that I took her home. My thoughts were basically that his insecurity or inability to control his situation isn't my fault.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 06:34 PM
-1

Well I don't really need to go out of my way to prove it happened but I'll give some additional details (I hate overly wordy original posts). She's not a 10 by any means, a solid 8. My town is pretty small compared to what I assume most people are used to. The people here aren't top notch. Most of the guys are a catch if they're a welder or work in the oil field. I work in I.T. I (try) to cultivate attention on my own terms. Fun, laughter, dancing, etc. or I bounce which I think builds a level o…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 06:32 PM
-17

Maybe you should find something to gloat about, then? Good luck out there, man!
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 06:17 PM
0

I just wouldn't be in a relationship with someone, especially someone like that... which is why I fuck her and leave her.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 06:12 PM
-10

Not have been in a relationship in the first place. Are you new here?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 06:11 PM
6

To be fair, she's a 22 year old bartender who gets paid purely based on her looks and ability to flirt. That's going to make any woman fucked up in the head.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 05:30 PM
3

I've found drama is mostly a two-way street. If you ignore it and shut it down it typically collapses rather quickly. Also it can increase social/sexual value when people see someone who's entire job it is to look good be so obsessed with you. Also let's not forget the 48 Laws of Power: http://48laws-of-power.blogspot.com/2011/05/law-6-court-attention-at-all-cost.html
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 05:08 PM
-1

I don't take it personally, for sure. If anything I pity him. Hopefully he learned "She doesn't love you, it's just your turn". It's the most important lesson you can learn about women.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 04:49 PM
12

Are you implying there are women in this world who aren't crazy?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 04:47 PM
2

Lift, wear more adult clothes, cut your hair. Can you grow facial hair?
/r/askTRP20/10/15 08:48 PM
3

Him: "I banged your girlfriend" You: "Yeah we laughed about how bad it was when she saw you" Be ready to fight.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 08:44 PM
2

Just calmly respond "Some other time." then don't text her back for a week or two.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 09:08 PM
3

I agree. A lot of guys here need to learn a little tact (if they care) or how to drop it (if they truly don't care). The response above definitely breaks frame.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 09:07 PM
9

Childless 54 year old women are known for being shall we say - less than kind and empathetic? I added emphasis because you seem to have a weird disorder where you can only read half of a sentence.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/15 06:18 PM
12

If she has a child she's not exactly childless...
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/15 04:22 PM
1

5'6 here. No problems. I'm stylish, charismatic, have a decent physique, professionally doing well and follow most of the TRP. Most women I have bedded are still shorter than me or my exact height. 6 ft tall guys I know are striking out and most people respect me. You're only as tall as you project yourself. I know 5'4 guys who seem 7 ft tall and 7ft tall guys who seem 5'4.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 06:50 PM
2

Sounds like you aren't ready to plate spin. I'd recommend you bang each chick only once and learn not to make ANY contact with them until you get the hang of it then progress to spinning ONE plate... then TWO... etc.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 01:29 PM
1

I hope so, best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 09:46 PM
2

I should have been more clear. If you're a normal, sane individual you wouldn't want your son to experience EVERYTHING in life. You'd want him to simply have the best life possible. Not all experiences are good ones and alcoholic strippers that prostitute their time aren't good for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 09:00 PM
1

I would want my son to experience all that life has to offer. If you've lead anywhere near a normal life then you wouldn't wish that upon your son. You'd want him to have the best life possible, not get cheated on by some strung out stripper who has men pay for her company. Look, the reality is you have your doubts about this relationship as it is because no one who's 100% happy and confident would go to online strangers for validation. Do what's best for you, get out and find someone that's goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 08:30 PM
1

Stripper, mental health issues, can't identify with people of her own gender, tons of tattoos (yes I believe this is a red flag) and WHERE YOU FUCKING MET are all MASSIVE red flags. A person's past is the ONLY fact-based indicator to predict their future. If you genuinely sat down, drew Pros and Cons with a line down the middle and were honest the cons of this relationship are way outnumbering the pros. It doesn't make her a bad person, it just makes her undateable... or it makes you extremely l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 08:21 PM
4

Clearly a critical mentality rift is about TRP. It's important to cultivate acquaintanceships not friendships with the majority of people you meet, especially if you're using them for something. I think, honestly, you've been given a great gift to get out there and find some better people to be around.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 03:40 PM
3

In love after a month? Moron. Do you have kids? If so be prepared to get raped in court.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 03:38 PM
4

Surround yourself with similar goals and mentalities. If you can't then go solo until you do but don't ever feel the need to grovel to a group of people who don't want you around. It's incredibly damaging to your psyche.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 03:30 PM
3

Depends on the lies and deceit. I completely disagree. It's indicative of greater problems and likely larger undiscovered lies. Next the fuck out of her.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 03:25 PM
7

I wish I could blame women for all the things I'm angry and depressed about. But I can't. I expect more of myself, and I know that I am not incapable of anything realistic. This shows you aren't hopeless. However, you are in a VERY dangerous spot. Never having sex, a girlfriend, etc. at your age can lead to the first time you DO experience those things you're going to be hit with one-itis (the thought that she's special and you focus all of your time and energy solely upon her) very hard. I'm no…
/r/askTRP05/10/15 02:31 PM
2

Yeah, my ex-wife took my name. There was like... maybe two forms she had to fill out. People asked about her name during the divorce WAY more than they did whenever we got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:46 PM
0

WHEW WHEW WHEW https://i.imgur.com/FuzhtK7.jpg
/r/PussyPass01/10/15 08:45 PM
3

I've been saying for a couple of years that there's three inventions that created the modern day whore: Camera phones, the internet and facebook.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 03:16 PM
1

I only have three true friends, everyone else is an acquaintance I use for social situations and in certain contexts. Friend 1 " J": "J" and I were both in our early 20's. I was going through a divorce. I met him through his father whom I worked with one day at a company lunch. I invited him out for drinks one day on a whim because he'd just moved and frankly I had no friends. We hit it off, mostly drinking and going to strip clubs. We were both fat. Eventually we got a fire under our asses that…
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:56 PM
-13

You seem like a well-rounded individual.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/09/15 09:30 PM
-9

This sub isn't about feminists... It's about women doing something wrong and trying to get out of it by claiming to be a helpless woman. I just saw some dude bashing feminism. Don't get me wrong, I hate feminists for the most part but that's not what this sub is about.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/09/15 08:03 PM
-22

This isn't pussy pass... this is Men's Rights stuff.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/09/15 06:57 PM
6

Your reply of "so i can save it on my phone, of course" comes off needy and awkward. Not trying to come down on you. I just don't want you to blow it. Good luck!
/r/askTRP22/09/15 03:22 PM
16

No, please don't say that. That's terrible.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 02:17 PM
-6

Good deal! Proud of you, bud!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 01:24 PM
-9

I'm confused as to if you were answering the question or just posting to attempt to validate yourself...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/15 01:01 PM
10

That's not what he said. He said it's full of loser engineers. That doesn't mean all engineers are losers... it just means there are a engineers that are losers and they really use Okcupid. I work at an engineering firm and I can say one thing for sure... a LOT of them are out of shape and have zero social skills or self awareness. That doesn't make them bad PEOPLE that just means they're going to have a very hard time in the "dating" world.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 01:36 PM
5

If you read the whole post you'd realize it wasn't even about my marriage. Good luck to you, broski. It sounds like you're dealing with a lot.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 06:58 PM
4

He may be implying that overexposure to sunlight can cause cancer.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 04:37 PM
1

If anything, you're passionate. I dig it.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 04:18 PM
2

This is 100% correct. I have acquaintances in many different circles, both male and female. It's all 100% transactional. Find out what people NEED that you offer and capitalize. This is different person to person. Don't expect to have many genuine friendships, cultivate working acquaintanceships. Read this: http://48laws-of-power.blogspot.com/2011/05/law-33-discover-each-mans-thumbscrew.html
/r/askTRP09/09/15 01:19 PM
6

Are you working out and sleeping regularly? How's your diet? These are MASSIVE factors in overall happiness and changing these three changed my whole life and especially my attitude about it. Also, Stop jerking off so much if you're doing it more than once a month. Edit: Diet includes booze. I love booze... but it fucks with my emotional state after prolonged use, even when sober. Enjoy in moderation.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 01:10 PM
5

At this point I think my SMV is pretty high and such moves within this social circle might do more harm than good. I'm known as the flirt and fun guy of the group. Becoming "serious" with or about anyone might discredit that reputation. I'm not too interested in revenge. This was just another instance of AWALT. Frankly, I'm grateful she taught me this important lesson and I was able to rebound rather inconspicuously, stronger than ever. If anything I feel bad for her new boyfriend who has to loo…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 06:40 PM
9

This was a very well thought-out post and makes a ton of sense. Thanks for the perspective!
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 06:12 PM
15

"career"
/r/PussyPassDenied03/09/15 09:38 PM
3

As with all things, words don't matter, only intentions do.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:41 PM
5

I'm not trying to discredit or argue with you but EVERYONE knows, even outside of TRP that women lie about their partner count. Hell it's so widely known that comedians literally write MATERIAL around it. I'm not saying don't have sex with these women because they're lying... just realize... all women lie, ESPECIALLY about how much lumber they've been catching.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:51 PM
5

Concise and accurate. This should be the top response. Basically "Shut the fuck up and maintain frame."
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:29 PM
3

I tended to land women who only had sex with 2 or 3 people So exactly how high were you to believe they were telling you the truth?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:27 PM
4

In the past Men could recite poetry, be expected to conduct warfare and love to the degree of generals and poets and be commended for each. What you should be saying is that old traditions are dead. You are romanticizing History. More women have been traded and married for goats and land than have ever been woo'ed by poetry and high-societal interaction. Most men throughout history were expected to sow crops, die in a pointless war between cousins, couldn't read and you lucked out if you didn't …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:21 PM
1

Women are attracted to resources and power, in the end. Back in caveman times that meant the biggest and strongest. Now it's money, power, status. Obviously it's all a balancing act so get your ass to the gym and demand a fucking promotion at work to see max results.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 03:22 PM
2

You're 22. No one gives a shit about a 22 year old man. This is the time in your life where you should either be advancing in a career or education. Set yourself up professionally while working on your health. Personally, when I got off my meds I felt way better and women began responding more because I was't being medically sedated all the time. There's too many advancements in modern science for you to be worried about your T levels. Get it fixed. No one is EVER going to respect someone in you…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 04:12 PM
1

some of the things he says in the interview are cringey, mostly about buttholes.... but he is pretty blunt and doesn't let her get away with stupid arguments. I like this guy.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/15 02:46 PM
3

Abusiveness implies the "victim" doesn't deserve the treatment. If a friend is betraying you I'd say he definitely deserves to be used to get you laid, unknowingly. Being outwardly manipulative towards him is low value. Perspective is the name of the game.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 11:41 PM
9

I think you're taking the phrase "manipulation" at a too basic of a level. I'm not saying whisper in his ear to get him to do things for you but you're incredibly wrong if you think that manipulation isn't a key facet of TRP. Every single thing you DO is in order to change a situation or perception...
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 09:48 PM
17

Back whenever we held a lot of parties we played the "badass" game. Basically there was 3 of us and it would be someone's night to be the ring leader. Basically we'd just give John compliments all night behind his back. Women always responded, super easy. Now we're all older, wiser and enjoy fending for ourselves much more.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 08:51 PM
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I disagree. If he is actually betraying you (which you don't actually know) then be aware, keep him at arms length and USE him whenever it is appropriate to get what YOU want. Weak minded people can easily be manipulated to do things you want for your own gain. The alpha wolf doesn't kill every other wolf in the pack because they want his spot... he controls them.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 08:48 PM
3

I just imagine them all in a pinup pose on top of a buckling tree branch with a shitty stretched out betty boop forearm tattoo.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:16 PM
1

If she is particularly unstable and vicious, she might try to pin you with a sexual assault charge by gaslighting. Seen this happen before. There's virtually no defense against this in western societies. I'd highly recommend NOT banging anyone who has emotions for you in which you cannot reciprocate.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 06:45 PM
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Can confirm that every time ANY female I'm on the phone with from the bar (except my family) that can hear other women talking or laughing in the background instantly feel like they have something to prove, on different levels. Sweet, simple, powerful advice my friend.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 03:12 PM
-1

When I was 13 I knew about cigarettes. I wasn't smart enough to make a decision on if I should smoke or not.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/14 08:12 PM
19

Ah sorry i watch the embedded version.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/14 03:43 PM
74

We don't know what she got, do we? I think she got 10 days in jail THEN attacked the judge.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/14 02:30 PM
-1

I personally don't subscribe to the "if you've got nothing to hide then give up your privacy" argument. I think it's naive and dangerous.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/12/14 09:17 PM
-2

He basically claimed that if you choose to not to show your ID to a police officer you are a sovereign citizen. That's talking out of your ass and has nothing to do with what you're talking about.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/12/14 08:45 PM
-5

Nope, he just doesn't know what they are. It's kind of like saying "Christians worship trees." You don't have to be Christian to know that that person doesn't know what they're talking about.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/12/14 08:07 PM
-5

Work on your reading comprehension. I didn't express an opinion on being a sovereign citizen.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/12/14 08:01 PM
-7

You have no idea what a sovereign citizen is and you are REALLY bad about speaking out of your ass.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/12/14 03:23 PM
-19

This joke really needs to die. It's run its course.
/r/PussyPass08/12/14 10:49 PM
5

Doesn't really surprise or bother me... it's just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 04:59 PM
4

Hate group, REALLY?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 04:42 PM
2

What makes certain men so weak they need to be "woe is me" about their circumstances that are certainly never unique to just them? We've all got shit to deal with.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 05:24 PM
1

First off I categorically don't believe you know people who randomly learned to play an instrument by sitting down with it. Second off I mentioned learning from others while having skin in the game. Aka practice.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 03:12 AM
1

To use your instrument analogy I'd say most people don't learn to play an instrument by themselves. Often they have teachers and resources and build from there. To say you cannot learn life skills unless you go out and learn on your own is basically not riding on the backs of those who've already learned. Only a fool believes in not learning from others. Just step back and really think about how foolish that sounds. Having said that it doesn't exclude you from getting out there and getting some …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 03:33 AM
0

I really think you are confusing assertiveness with aggression. Attention isn't always good if it's extremely negative.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 09:13 PM
0

If you paint it in black and white terms of aggression and submission obviously you'll always choose aggression. But in reality that's not how it is. To go back to my shitty lion analogy, the lion doesn't randomly attack everything it sees to show it's in control. It waits to actually be challenged.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:28 PM
1

You're right. Females love drama. There are different levels and in the end violence and belligerence is the easiest for them to identify. However if you can keep them within the circle and make them a part of looking down on the morons you'll find you save yourself a lot of bullshit like getting kicked out of bars, jail time, etc.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:18 PM
1

I've seen the exact opposite. Women consistently make fun of these guys. Some will be attracted to rage and conflict all the time but they definitely haven't been top tier in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 05:45 PM
2

While not a self improvement book, The Price was incredibly applicable to how I wanted to live my professional life (executive level management) but I found that if you adapt some of it's points into your social life you can benefit a lot as well.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 05:20 PM
4

Physical confrontation and anger isn't always inappropriate. Again, it's about control. The scenario provided might happen two or three times in your entire life and it's completely acceptable to get angry and physical. It's an appropriate response which is what this post is about.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:50 PM
-1

Every example you provided are men who show physical power and prowess by maintaining control. The bezerker wasn't to get laid or increase social value.. It was to fight in wars...
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:48 PM
-1

I completely agree. Everything had a time and place. This post isn't to dissuade aggression, anger, etc. It's about controlling it when appropriate.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:27 PM
2

I appreciate the heads up and the support on this critical piece of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 03:56 PM
0

If you can't get through to the person it's much easier to make him/her the fool in social situations or walk away. This will automatically increase your value to those who see you handle the situation.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 03:25 PM
1

This may be where we differ in ideology. If you're built like a brick shithouse, show financial and social dominance then you should almost never be challenged in the first place in any practical sense. I'm not saying be emotionless. I'm saying a grown man who's in control over himself determines how he feels through perspective and experience and knows how to control his baser instincts. It's no different than wanting to bang a chick RIGHT NOW even though you know you've got to play the game. I…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 03:22 PM
1

Definitely not recommending submission in the face of adversity or altercations. Just make sure it's appropriate, swift and doesn't turn you into the guy who overreacts. An example I take from my own life is someone would say I was fat before I lost my weight. I'd respond with "You sure do care a lot about how I look. Why is that?" I didn't have to threaten to beat anyone's ass or cuss them out. It put myself in the place of dominance and made his statements awkward. I then smiled and went back …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 03:15 PM
1

Even though he may be trolling I take the time to reply in the event he just doesn't get it, instead. We're here to help each other get better on TRP and I'll indulge a little belligerence to try to drive the point home. The fact that he's on TRP means he isn't hopeless. Good analysis of the statements provided.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 01:24 PM
7

Glad to hear it man. A man who can control himself can easily control his surroundings. You're gonna go far.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:54 AM
4

I just realized it doesn't seem like you have anything to actually contribute to the actual subject I've presented. You're talking purely to hear yourself speak, metaphorically.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:52 AM
7

Clearly this post struck a huge nerve with you. I'm glad and I believe you can improve. If you need help on it feel free to PM me. I used to have the same problem.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 04:07 AM
8

This is exactly what I'm talking about. Needless angst and aggression doesn't do anything but make you seem REALLY insecure. I feel bad for you and hope you can curb it and add to the discussion in the future. Take care, bud.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 03:58 AM
1

I think you're both arguing the same thing here. Realistically we need men to push the envelope and piss us off to reach the next level, if anything just to spite or BE that fucker. We also need positive, stoic men that form the foundation through leadership and integrity. We all have a place and neither is more or less valuable. We didn't go to the fucking moon because we got bored, we wanted to piss off Russia.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 03:41 AM
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Remember a woman revels in her self pity and asks that others accept it. A man fixes his situation. The one example I can give is that someone who is hopeless would say "you should love me even if I'm fat." whereas someone who is on the cusp of success says "no wonder people don't love me, I'm fat.. I'd better go lift." Never accept your inadequacies.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 02:54 AM
6

Dig up the video? It's been all over reddit for like a week? It's been reposted here like 30 times alone.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/11/14 10:41 PM
11

The reason people are downvoting you is because by saying "oh she's a chick and cant hurt you so you shouldn't retaliate" you are literally handing out a pussy pass on a subreddit called /r/pussypassdenied
/r/PussyPassDenied12/11/14 06:34 PM
27

How is it abuse whenever someone defends themselves? I don't get it.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/11/14 02:34 PM
28

...You know why...
/r/PussyPassDenied11/11/14 04:23 PM
2

God damn you're cool. I LOOOOOOVE me some type o negative. I'd buy you a shot if you were here.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/11/14 10:34 PM
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