FatSassyBlackGirl Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
31	The start so young 😭	MALE DEPRAVITY	FatSassyBlackGirl	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/20 04:54 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Division of Household Labor with Male Partner If he won’t even help by washing the dishes after and basic food prep like chopping things..... I’d say throw that man out! At the very least he should be appreciative and looking for ways to help you out, you are his partner not his servant. And I agree cooking together or doing chores together can be fun if you make it fun!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/21 06:45 PM
8	Why are these the first results I see when I look up “female” or “pink”????!!! SMH.. 🤦🏾‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/21 05:44 PM
52	What does a "Green Flag Date" look like? Yes! A man who can both be decisive and also considerate of your needs is definitely a green flag!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/21 10:12 PM
38	Yikes. It’s true ladies - don’t let him know how you’re feeling. If he knows you’re interested, he will also know that you’ll accept rock bottom treatment for his attention. Not me 👋 Yikes 🙅🏾‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 08:19 PM
34	Dear men, I can't speak for every woman, but using photos of yourself holding a baby 🍼 or with children 👨‍👧‍👦 on your dating profile does not make us more attracted to you. It's always an automatic left swipe for me regardless of anything else on the profile. 📸 They probably googled what to put on their dating profile and those were the first things to come up in the search results 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/20 11:05 PM
2	Hey, I've been lurking in this sub for awhile now. I see a lot of experiences with LVMs in this sub. Is there anyone who wants to share their wonderful experiences with dating an HVM? Awe he sounds like a great guy! ♥️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/20 10:26 PM
23	Hey, I've been lurking in this sub for awhile now. I see a lot of experiences with LVMs in this sub. Is there anyone who wants to share their wonderful experiences with dating an HVM? After about 6 dates, my current boyfriend sat me down and told be he’d be proud to have me as his girlfriend. No beating around the bush, fear of commitment, or playing games haha. He is also quick to be helpful, even without my asking, and often says that “making your life easier is a hobby of mine.” ♥️ So those are two things that come to mind right away :) Stay positive hon!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/20 07:03 PM
23	Freudian slip Oh no 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 03:08 AM
46	Does anyone’s boyfriend pay their rent/bills? I’ve never heard of this happening unless you live together or it’s a sugar daddy situation 🤷🏾‍♀️ And I would personally be kind of uncomfortable with it, I can pay my own rent, if he wants to treat me or make my life easier he can do so in other ways.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 01:53 AM
65	I Guess the r/TheRedPill Dorks' Plan to Rebrand Themselves as "Men's Self Help" rather than Misogynist, Emotionally Abusive Rapists isn't going well. Notice how you have NEVER seen something this manipulative on r/FemaleDatingStrategy despite all the claims we're "the same". I can’t imagine this is any easier than just, idk, communicating? 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 11:38 PM
5	Do not let men smother your voice or your opinions, stay strong FDS sisters 💕 Just because I at the time fit the “angry black lady” stereotype doesn’t mean I’m WRONG.. 🤦🏾‍♀️ I try to just not correct people in person anymore, argumentative guys see me as an easy target because they assume I’ve never heard of logic before.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/20 05:55 PM
7	Well these are just facts sir There is a small subset of women who prefer bigger men or who aren’t picky about body type, I don’t see the need to lambast them if they aren’t your type. Telling someone “nobody finds you desirable” is both mean and often untrue. Even if there are more men into plus sized women than women into bigger men 🤷🏾‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/20 05:49 PM
2	This man boldly made SEVERAL antiblack sentiments in the face of me, a black woman. You’d think they would learn that shit doesn’t work 🙄 They just think “Nah that b*tch was uptight it will work great on the next one”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/20 10:47 PM
29	Glamour magazine thinks Sia has cracked some magical code on how to get men to agree to casual sex. Apparently it involves begging Diplo, known international playboy, to have sex with her by text. Glamour thinks this amazing and innovative. The things articles are written about these days 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/04/20 09:57 PM
30	Where we conditioned/raised to try and fix broken men? At least in my family it was sort of the norm sadly... plenty of infidelity, men being held to low expectations, women having to handle 90% of the responsibility, etc. Happy to be breaking that cycle and reminding my younger sister and niece to not settle for those type of guys.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/20 07:22 AM
3	Do you guys force yourself to date? If you’re in a funk or a bad mood, dating someone new is probably a bad idea. That time is better spent with friends and by working on yourself! You don’t want to miss out on a potentially great guy by not being in the right headspace for him, and forcing yourself to date probably ain’t good for your mental health anyways.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/20 06:54 PM
2	Unmatched 🤦🏼‍♀️🤣 scrote I haven’t watched it but isn’t the show Sex Education just a comedy/drama?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/20 09:26 PM
2	Unmatched 🤦🏼‍♀️🤣 scrote Is anyone else missing what he did wrong? 🤔	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/20 09:12 PM
92	If he asks if you've got a friend for his mates... That's a red flag sis. Oh god I hate when guys say this 😡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/20 06:58 AM
6	LVM in my area. Probably rates himself an 8/9 Probably not a great idea to post his contact info online like that, but yeah this guy is a piece of work to put it lightly 😬	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/20 09:04 PM
3	One piece of dating advice you'd give your younger self and why? I’d tell myself to pay attention to how the guy acts around you in public. Does he hold your hand often when walking somewhere? Does he enthusiastically introduce you to people he knows? If he only wants a relationship behind closed doors, that’s a huge red flag.. learned that one the hard way smh 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/20 09:21 AM
12	And this is somebody who asked me to send him TWO (!!) body shots of myself! The audacity!! Moobs and bald head! And he wants a body shot to make sure I’m skinny enough for him lmao I mean by his actions alone he seems like a total asshole, the body shaming doesn’t seem necessary 🤷🏾‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/20 09:09 AM
19	A lot of LVM will warn you beforehand that they’ll sexually assault you on Tinder Biggest eye roll of my life 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/20 05:16 AM
11	Amen. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/20 05:18 PM
41	This is why you never settle! That’s adorable! 😍	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/12/19 09:38 PM
-4	He told me he's not looking for anything serious, but also he isn't pressuring me for sex. So I'm confused. Maybe you ladies can enlighten me. He could be worried about moving too fast? Like, in his mind, saying that he IS looking for something serious might make you less interested 🙄 See where things go, but be honest about what you are looking for and that you aren’t interested in waiting around “getting to know” someone forever.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/12/19 07:21 AM
17	Is someone here writing for SNL? I swear this brilliant sketch is straight out of FemaleDatingStrategy. Matt Schatt is a HVM 😤😤😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/19 12:58 AM
23	Keep being suspicious, never let your guard down. Ask his ex-gfs about his personality. You can NEVER be too careful when it comes to relationships. Your life is on the line! Yikessss, definitely gotten messages like this before 🤦🏾‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/19 05:43 PM
16	Anyone here childfree? I don’t plan to have my own children (But was told I wasn’t welcome in the childfree subreddit because I want to adopt/foster in the future lol) It might be too assertive to put family plans in a dating profile but I’d say bring it up after a few dates for sure. I know of relationships that have ended over the two disagreeing on whether they want to have kids! It’s a big deal. You could probably approach it light-heartedly, and in my experience guys aren’t thrown off by the topic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/19 03:55 AM
1	I genuinely feel bad for you folks and want to offer my time if any of you want to talk. It’s a little patronizing to assume the women on this sub are all desperate or lacking self esteem... And saying so isn’t going to get one to talk to you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/19 07:41 AM