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Fat_Papaya/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 09:24 PM
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Between 2001 and 2011 recent immigrants from the A10 countries contributed to the fiscal system about 12% more than they took out, with a net fiscal contribution of about £5 billion. A10 countries are Cyprus, the Czech Republic, Estonia, Hungary, Latvia, Lithuania, Malta, Poland, Slovakia and Slovenia. Lmaaaaoooooooo "The countries that aren't much different from ours in terms of standards tend to produce productive migrants"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:40 PM
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Can you find a picture of a dad bod and link it? It seems like what women mean by a dad bod is just the stereotypical muscular guy with a layer of body fat, basically the exact same thing but less aesthetics haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:44 PM
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The mindset makes perfect sense to me, there are plenty of examples of nearly all women sharing the same views when it comes to dating/relationships and effectively lying to men when asked about anything that involves dating and relationships. Basically, anything that can help the man in any way is more than likely to never be mentioned, and of course, any information that can possibly harm women in any way, such as to make them look bad will never be mentioned, he will only ever be fed informat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:14 PM
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I'd take the money, I'm tall and good enough down there lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:50 AM
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I'm pretty sure that the question for women tag wasn't there when I made the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:20 AM
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A woman's value is tied heavily to her beauty and fertility, 18yo are the best in terms of fertility that is attainable (fertility window is the longest) and for beauty they're likely ranked somewhat highly or will become more beautiful in the following years. At 30 women lose 90% of their eggs. From that point fertility drops by 1% per month. At 35 pregnancy is considered geriatric. Men who commonly dislike high n-count women are more likely to find a very low n-count with an 18yo or even a vir…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:13 PM
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Probably doesn't want to deal with women anymore haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:45 PM
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After reading the comments on your replies here, I see that you're easily the worst/fake Incel ever lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:45 PM
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Oh god lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:50 AM
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I genuinely believe that a large portion of the subs to this subreddit are banned accounts lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:54 AM
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When I'm at the gym and outlift my friends and most other people without having done training previously
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 12:51 AM
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We need to expand toxic masculinity to directly insult, belittle and degrade average women. Like for the payment thing you mentioned, the man should pay if the woman is attractive, they should split if she is average and she should pay if he has a higher SMV, or she has some horrible traits like being a single mother. This way we can equalize with toxic femininity haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:17 PM
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There are these crazy things called the exception to the norm haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:18 AM
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Women are unfair and unrealistic by nature
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:16 AM
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I have never even heard of examples of women doing romantic things like ever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:24 AM
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Do you think of yourself as normal in that regard when compared to other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:23 PM
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Does it work for good moods?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:12 PM
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I think women treat good looking men very well, but good looking women don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:26 AM
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Can you provide more information?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:54 AM
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What's the easiest way to keep women away? My method is to hang tampons soaked in vinegar on my doorframe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:43 PM
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TikTok was made by China to corrupt the youths of the Western world haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:06 AM
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This is a bit extra weird as I'm mixed race myself, but I think certain types of interracial relationships should be banned haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:01 AM
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Well if you say it works then so be it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:10 AM
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No, I'm just saying that you can't expect to get a 100% loyal partner by just putting in some effort, shit happens and all that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:05 AM
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I'm not talking about myself haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 03:04 AM
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You turned around quickly on that one haha The narcissism bit was more about the wording, made it seem like because she was into you that no other guy could possibly compete. Honestly speaking, it's a bit naive to think that you can get loyalty out of a woman if you put in the effort, if she wants to do it, she's gonna do it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:59 AM
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These damn rapid fire posts right before my bedtime. I GOT A JOB, I CANT DO THIS 😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:52 AM
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Oh so you're conflating narcissism and confidence lmao At the end of the day, the vast majority of guys do care, and even the confident guys know that a virgin woman is a mile and a half above a non-virgin, that's just the way things are, the same way virgin guys are actually looked down on haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:51 AM
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Confident men think they can do better lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:43 AM
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It matters enough to me that I would probably just decide to remain single for the rest of my life and adopt/surrogate kids and become a single father haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:41 AM
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The secret answer is nothing if that's what she believes haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:43 AM
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So they can't vote or do all sorts of other 'adults only' stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:11 PM
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Who said my number count is high ? It's an assumption that is to be made due to the argument you're making, like I said before, most of the men that don't care are ones that have a high n-count, this means it's safe to assume that you're one of them. ​ Just look at what you are doing . First you just conceded that people don't think like you which means this isn't some biological imperative or whatever . What are you talking about? I'm not talking about my own personal beliefs, but about general…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:51 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/shorts/8_6OfqcfLHc How accurate is that video? Share your opinions haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:47 PM
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I don't like to speak on generalizations. You should be more worried about putting forth generalizations and me , as man having no clue of what the hell you are talking about. It's wrong for me to speak of generalizations when I'm talking about general trends? Are you serious? ​ And yes , this is a projection in the sense of , I don't know anyone who I am around who believe interpert this the way you do. I'm not going to get bogged down by some belief you have to the point where you feel comfort…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:57 PM
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It's both men and women that are like this, insecurity isn't the main thing for all of them however. Though I didn't mention them, religious people aren't this way due to an insecurity, though I'd say that they make up the majority of people that are that way, I think haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:45 PM
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This is weird, you are so caught up in your belief that you aren't even embarrassed by that comment. Just a huge projection , why are you so bothered? What bothers you ? Can you describe what about my comment makes you believe that I am 'caught up in my own belief that I'm not even embarrassed' by my own comment? Am I being extreme with what I've wrote? You're seemingly being 'offensive' trying to somehow pin some insecurity on me without any real information to work off of haha ​ What do you me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:27 PM
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They're liars, real tradwives don't have a hoe phase haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:08 PM
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I think most tradwife women are just fakes haha Either ex-sluts seeking to try and rebrand themselves, women wanting to pick and choose whatever benefits them the most in a 'traditional' relationships or whatever other disingenuous garbage. Only a minority are the real deal and they're usually raised that way and get married young enough that if you didn't go to school with them as teens you'd never find one that's available haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:46 PM
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There were two questions haha, what's you n-count? --- Usually when arguments like this are made, it's made by people (often women) that have high n-counts, seemingly trying to alleviate any personal issues they may have with the stigma that their sexual past carries. That or to get others not to hold such a stigma themselves. As well as the special 'naivety' that their higher n-count has given them. What these people often fail to realize, is that everyone, men and women alike, tend to desire p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:42 PM
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Your worth is determined by you, no one else. Doesn't mean that everyone else has to agree haha ​ So if they thought they were worth it then sure yes. I think the point you are missing is women would rather be single than settle. So if you don't think they are worth it so be it, they don't care. Many women do care, and it's not about me, it's about whatever ideal man they'd like to be with haha ​ Meanwhile men are constantly complaining about how women should lower their standards. I have NEVER …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:22 PM
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Are you a woman? And whats your n-count? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:12 PM
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The reason that women are pickier is because they can be. Years ago all you had to do was be an average to below average man and have a decent job and you could easily find an attractive woman. There aren't enough attractive women for this to ever be possible haha. Seemingly a very biased view of things haha Nowadays though women make their own money and so many are fine being alone, so yes the standards are higher but it's how it always should have been. The standards are bloated, just 10-15 ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:36 PM
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The brutal reality of how hard dating and getting relationships are even for some above average men will get them all to wake up lmao ​ Example, I'm 6'4", therefore, all women are fair game for me. Oh wait, I'm fat! Looks like I'll have to lower my standards haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:28 PM
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I think the main thing personally speaking, is that if you have standards for a potential spouse, than you should reach these standards yourself, or your gender's equivalent of those standards. If women did this, than I doubt many men would complain, as it's too reasonable haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:32 PM
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Twice, but I'm too lazy to get the booster and so far COVID comes and goes kind of fast for me so meh haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:10 AM
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I think I got COVID for the third time haha fuck this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:51 AM
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I think a big one that a lot of people don't mention is that people get out of shape and less attractive, either their partner doesn't want to have sex with them that way, or they don't want to have sex at all when out of shape due to insecurities. This happens to men and women too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:06 AM
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As a 24yo (soon to be 25) virgin, I'd ask him what he thought he did wrong, and what advice he'd give me to avoid becoming like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:48 PM
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What I mean more specifically is that she is incredibly biased, I see this sort of stuff come out of women that are misandrists, usually the one that had been abused in the past by their father/spouse. I wouldn't be surprised if OP is one of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:40 PM
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I'm in my late 20s, and all of my female friends are 25-40, gorgeous, successful, wonderful, and many are single by choice. 🙄🙄🙄 Between that and the title it became immediately obvious the type of person you are to believe this crap haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 03:57 PM
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I'll admit that it's really demoralizing and I kind of don't even want to try to begin with because of it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:57 PM
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How much your personality matters depends on how good you look, the better you look, the more lenient people will be. Even stuff like making jokes, will get a better reaction if you look good haha ​ Also how tall are you? You've added quite a bit of detail of the perks you got from it and it got me curious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:44 AM
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I'm a man seeking a woman haha ​ Good Character (Polite, Kind, etc...) Virgin and wants to wait for marriage (like I am) Acceptable appearance (She doesn't need to be a 10/10, but I'm not sure how I'd feel if she was very visibly deformed) Financially fine (I'm not 100% sure what my own financial situation will be like once I'm out of school, if I can be the sole bread winner, I'd do it, if I can't than I'd prefer it if she only had to work part time, and bonus if it's WFH) Healthy (no significa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:21 PM
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There right there slut shaming is a given to some. Let’s sit with that, there is never a NEED to criticize someone’s sex life, what two consenting adults do is their business,‘I don’t know where you’re from but in America we have that freedom, gay, straight, kink, we have that right. It's not really about shaming people, it's really just that there are those who care about the amount of sexual partners their potential/current spouse has been with, and these people don't wasn't a partner with a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:20 PM
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Yeah they lie in the reverse by trying to make themselves seem more sexually successful than they actually are haha, only a very small minority actually lie to make it seem like they're not just a fuckboy haha I don't think of the former as quite as severe as the latter, women almost exclusively do the latter, with only the exception to the norm doing the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:01 PM
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There's a bigger problem when you have one well travelled partner and another that never could do it, and is aware of the amount of 'places' their partner has gone haha This is probably why women lying about n-count is so common haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:30 PM
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Where do we disagree? Where does preference need to lead to shaming? I suppose the only time that this would be necessary, would be when the vast majority of women have very high n-counts, this seems like such an extreme scenario, that I'm sure it will never happen anyways haha Y’all complain on the daily ohhhhh women only want tall men women only want rich men women only want men with job wah wah wah then turn around and proclaim but my standards are fine. Quite often, the type of standards wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:31 PM
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I think most men would go the extra mile for attractive women haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:21 AM
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I disagree there is no connection - everything I mentioned was at one time just a “normalizing” movement where things they weren’t normal before and are now. If young women want to normalize more societal things now I think that’s fine. These really aren't the same type of things though, getting women into the workforce and normalizing women's obesity are obviously not on the same 'level', I don't think it makes sense to conflate these two things together. I suppose we can just agree to disagree…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:56 AM
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The examples we have of using manipulation, control, and childhood indoctrination to produce a monogamous society are firmly rooted in the past. They refer to the past primarily in the context of denying women rights, this is an extreme jump to be making, in both cases, even more so for the latter of the two. ​ Any discussion of a future society that uses similarly coercive tactics is incomplete without discussing real life examples from history. They're conflating the past too much with the fut…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:33 AM
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I don’t see novadina bringing up the past "They want to change back to what used to be. They want more power and romanticize the past and think of things were like it was before they’d have more power. Probably they would have been worse off in the past too, though, they only think about the positives like “getting a virgin wife” and don’t think about the negatives." - Novadina ​ Vogel first referred to women currently also not being loved by their partners, and then brought up a very common and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:25 AM
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Oh it was just in response to what you said about men’s arguments being reactionary, not really related to the post. Didn’t mean to get so off topic, sorry. I suppose this point is arguable, but men's more reactionary method is meant to be them reacting to the women that they're presented with (I though this much was clear, please forgive me if I hadn't been specific enough), not about what societal changes they seek to create haha ​ You said changes women wanted were “harming society” and I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:18 AM
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u/liefelijk, u/darkvalleys, u/MyLastBestChance - You're the three that asked for comment links, here they are; Comment 1, the conversation with the "vogel777" user, I actually recommend that you read my conversation with the "bluemooncookiedough" user, it was quite nice haha Comment 2, this time with user "Novadina", it technically starts here actually haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:00 AM
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Yes I agree it’s reactionary. They want to change back to what used to be. They want more power and romanticize the past and think of things were like it was before they’d have more power. Probably they would have been worse off in the past too, though, they only think about the positives like “getting a virgin wife” and don’t think about the negatives. I don't understand why you're making this extensive point about 'the past', it was never mentioned before in our conversation, and even the post…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:36 AM
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Twice now, and both occasions recent, I've had a woman I was debating suddenly bring up "the past" about how things used to be and that it's men's goal to return society to this older way of life, where men had the power and the women were forced to do whatever it is the men dictated. I don't understand why it is that these women did that, there was never any mention, let alone a hint, of "the past", yet these women still brought it up, and began to debate on it almost as if it was suddenly the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:27 AM
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Seems like you are saying men like to argue by using studies to prove why things should stay the same and that they are justified in feeling the way they do, and women argue by suggesting we should change things. Not precisely, though you're not incredibly off. This explanation of yours is too black and white, seemingly glorifies the methods that women take, while also misinterpreting their objectives. At least, in my opinion that is haha. (Though I do like the use of the word 'change' for the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:01 AM
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It’s not that it’s I’m going to reject you before you reject me. How many of the men here making these claims have zero women asking to be in the running anyway? Like come on let’s stop pretending. “Ohhh I’m not going to choose you” “did I ask?” This isn't precisely it either though, most people, men and women alike, prefer to have a partner with an equal amount of sexual experience (n-count) as they do, there was a recent post where a number of women claimed that they had desired a man with a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:47 AM
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Yeah women do it too, but women don’t seem as inclined to pretend they are super logical and that their decisions are due to studying statistics, rather than emotions, like men do. I think part of this is the fact that both sexes are being criticized for different types of things, and each have different types of desires. For example, both promiscuous men and women are bad partners, yet we only hear about men getting any criticism (or criticism thrown at those who are against promiscuous women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:33 AM
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Sure. But my point was it doesn’t matter what the statistics say as the reason men like younger women or virgins has nothing to do with statistics, they like to pull stats out to make it seem like they have these preferences for pure logic reasons. I agree with you, but this isn't some men only thing, women also do their own version of it when they have to defend their preferences in men haha ​ You can tell because when the stats show it’s better for something they don’t like they still don’t li…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:23 PM
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It’s an I’m going to hurt you before you hurt me mentality. I mean, we’re all adults here right? We know the psychology of bullying and projection. Studies show men with zero experience are not good bets as partners either. Refusing to be with someone isn't hurting them, this is near Incel-tier logic lmao ​ You know exactly what was meant. If you think a man who has spent years absorbing manosphere content and a growing hatred towards women is a good bet for a husband I have a great time share o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:19 PM
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How about you obtuse yourself haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:31 PM
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Can you provide me with a source for that? I tried looking for a bit and found; https://news.gallup.com/poll/212702/lgbt-adults-married-sex-spouse.aspx This source stats that 11.4% of men are married to a same sex spouse, while only 9.3% of women are married to a same sex spouse. (From the "Marital Status of LGBT Americans, by Gender and Age" table) My source is very contradictory to what you're saying haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:30 PM
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There are some trade offs for example younger women consistently produce healthier children, in the 30s is when problems really start to pick up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:26 PM
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This isn't pokemon haha, we're not trying to "catch them all" a reasonable person tries to mitigate the likelihood of failure haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:24 PM
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Women are harder to keep happy haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:25 PM
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A spectrum that shows more women = more divorce haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:43 PM
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I agree with your post haha I don't think that the men that value a woman's beauty too much above everything else are fully aware of the risk they're taking in establishing a relationship on something so small. I also think that any woman with an ounce of self respect wouldn't be happy with being desired exclusively for her beauty/body, and any woman that doesn't mind such a relationship are largely the type not worth being with. Though I will admit that an attractive partner is still instinctiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:41 PM
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Eh you can argue that til the cows come home, anyone looking at these discussions can figure out it’s insecurity at its core and a million reasons as to why the insecurity is justified. How is avoiding an especially risky person as a partner a sign of insecurity? This makes no sense, like imagine some man has a history of domestic violence and women are 'insecure' when they don't want to be with him, regardless of how much he claims to have changed. Which hey! I get it, I’d be insecure too. I me…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:35 PM
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Disregarding that something is a bad choice and taking what can be considered a self destructive path, all to avoid the being single is an incredibly stupid thing to do haha Also what do you mean by eternally single? Are bad choice men and women the norm? Are the good ones only a small minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:31 PM
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Relationships are very unenjoyable for women! Why is it bad that women cripple their ability to enjoy relationships??? ?????
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:34 PM
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But don't we all do this to each other? Everyone judges everyone they see the moment they see them. On top of that, it's already well known that men are desired for what they can provide rather than anything else, hence why most guys are BB, a sperm bank (if she wants it to be him haha), source of income and a day care worker all in one, if women are objects then aren't men tools? Which is worse is up to debate I suppose, it's either you're wanted primarily for your appearance or for whatever yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:32 PM
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The other user linked a good source from this sub, you can also just type any variation of "promiscuous women" into the search bar and limit the search to this sub, you'll get incredible amounts of information this way haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:20 PM
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General trends still show that promiscuous women are a bad choice haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:18 PM
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It's a great thing that they consistently wait until after marriage to break things off haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:17 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:17 PM
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There are sources which show that promiscuous women generally tend to have lower marital and sexual satisfaction, higher divorce rates, and etc... So part of the consequences is her becoming an inferior partner, and also being less capable of enjoying her marriage and sexual activity with a long term spouse/husband. Usually when comments like this one are made, women will rush in to try and argue it away, I'll preemptively argue against the main point of that I remember haha Some types of women …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:52 AM
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Is that all there is to it? Is that all? There isn't any more?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:41 AM
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I hear about "women being treated like an object" all the time but I have no idea what it means haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:08 AM
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I suppose that's true, but the rates are significantly better for gay men haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:06 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:05 AM
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Yeah, it's like over twice the rate of Gay men haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:01 AM
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Women's oxytocin levels (oxytocin being the "bonding" hormone) dropped when they got intimate with their partners, while men's oxytocin levels rose : How do women produce oxytocin for their spouse then? Or is that not something they do for their spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:28 AM
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Lesbians have freakish divorce rates haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:26 AM
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I'm 24 and I actually think about doing this myself, if I can't find a woman to be with. Though I think it would be better to have a woman with me for child raising, I find myself a bit demoralized at my chances of attracting a woman that I'd feel comfortable having children with, let alone getting married too haha. It's one of my major gripes and it depresses me to think about it. I feel a bit conflicted with these thoughts, I feel that I would be denying my hypothetical children the benefits o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:01 PM
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If I love them back it doesn't matter haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:40 PM
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I don't have any friends that are women haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:14 PM
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These types of questions pop up a lot haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:07 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:33 AM
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Why do some poor women choose not to sell their bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:18 AM
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I'm a 24 year old virgin and I think that 25 is when it might start to stick out haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:46 AM
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Why not put yourself out there? I'm a 24 year old virgin, and I have no real confidence to approach women, mostly because I know they'll say no due to my weight haha. But what's stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:43 AM
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The fact that open relationships are bad, proves that monogamous ones are better
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 01:14 AM
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Open relationships suck and fall apart like 99.99% of the time haha Some more stuff too but I don't really wanna rack my brain trying to pull out everything that I can think of haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:05 AM
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Thanks haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:28 PM
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Because there are many examples of that being the case. Like if a man said that he was very sexually successful than I'd do the same haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:43 PM
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I'm not saying that anyone in the group is a liar, I'm saying that many are liars and even then I was specific to dad bods haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:17 PM
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How would you break the ice then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:50 PM
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No they don't appeal to 1/100 women, youre just delusional, as someone in college, living in an all girls building, I can say they appeal to MOST women in that age range, while the third guy appeals to literally not a single human I know. I don't understand how you think that you've disproved my point by specifying a specific group of women when I'm speaking about all women, generally? Also how are you aware this is the case? If it's just an assumption, then it's not much for evidence. And men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:37 PM
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Do women just not want relationships or are they betting on men approaching in person? How would an average guy even get a girlfriend these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:49 PM
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But the first two guys can just be a niche thing, even the 3rd guy can be niche too. So they appeal to 1/100 women but they are 1/1000 or 1/10000 men so they get disproportionate attention. Most women are a bit vague on what they like, and quite often are very misleading/dishonest, such as to claim they like dad bods when in reality they more than likely don't haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:45 PM
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Being attractive is part of the extreme though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:12 PM
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I don't understand the thought process men have when it comes to having sex with many women. An opinion of mine is that, for men that only care about sex, a guy that had sex with one 10/10 woman is better off than a guy that had sex with ten 5/10 women. No offense to average women, this just seems like common sense especially as women infamously prefer men out of their league haha There seems to be more of a quantity over quality type of thought process, and I'm not sure why this is the case. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:03 PM
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I know haha, I see some people with very obvious and significant issues that they can't change and it reminds me that things aren't so bad for me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:42 PM
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I have been fat since I was a kid, it's their fault for making me this way, and it's my fault for maintaining it now that I'm old enough to take action on it. It's a struggle and I do have some issues but I'm still trying haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:34 PM
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I am but it's slow, and I got some bad habits holding me back a bit haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:29 PM
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I'm 6'4" too haha, yet another example that my parents shot me in the foot making me fat lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:12 PM
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I'm 24 and I don't believe that I'm autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:05 PM
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How tall is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:59 AM
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You lack nuance, I didn’t say dishonest your black and white thinking lacks insight and maturity. Also you can’t pick and choose which parts of your posts I critique. How am I being black and white? Can you give an example? Also you may criticize any of my comments, but do so honestly,.as stated before you had removed context from one of the quotes you had made from one of my previous comments. I just think your position is all over the place one on hand you say “ The new system wouldn't really …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:49 AM
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I've never heard of number 3 before haha. Can you give an example? Also I'm bald so what do I do about number 1? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:36 AM
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Changing how we view sex in general is a wonderful idea. I sometimes think that men on here want women to have to be reliant on men. Which always sounds bad to me because of how abused I have been by men. I'm glad that you agree with me haha I feel like too many people, both men and women, aren't valuing sex the way they should be, nor do they seem to worry about the repercussions beyond unwanted pregnancy and STDs. Should more people take into consideration the ability to have exclusive intimac…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:34 AM
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That's not what I'm saying, I'm saying that all the guys mentioned are extremes, they're one of the list of things that I mentioned. I don't even know what any of those guys look like haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:50 AM
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Are you not describing natural beauty though? Very few men are born with this, and even then women's high and unforgiving standards ensure that a man must be born with a handful of such traits in order to stick out from the rest. I can see that you'll mention makeup and other temporary measures to improve a man's looks. But I see this dishonest, wearing makeup is akin to wearing a mask, or to using a photo filter to enhance your appearance for some dating profile, if you're only temporarily impr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:49 AM
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What exactly are women attracted to? I'll be honest and say that I quite often think that women are lying, for example, I seriously believe that the majority of women don't like dad bods, and that what many women consider to be a dad bod is probably just the very muscular 6-pack body with a layer of fat over it for padding haha The guys you mention are all extremes, rich, famous, attractive or whatever. How good of an example are these guys really?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:16 AM
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But these things will change how people see you and thus how they define you haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:03 AM
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I know one way to insult a man would be to compare him to a woman haha At least, I remember hearing about it in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:48 AM
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This implies that women are responsible and glosses over deadbeat dads who leave or give women no choice but to kick them out due to addiction, cheating, abusive behaviour etc regardless of women's best intentions. This lacks nuance even if you don't intend to say women are to blame it will be read as such if you negate this side of things. Why pick out a quote of mine from a previous comment to the one you're responding too, remove context, and then use it to try and frame me as being dishonest…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:54 AM
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I see your comments a lot and I have come to really respect your opinions. You seem to take into account your emotional and rational self, which is needed to come to working solutions. Thanks haha, you're now one of the handful of people that I like on this sub haha Do you think people being less promiscuous would bring more people together? Yes I think that's the case, for example, there are already a number of sources which clearly show that more promiscuous people tend to have worse relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:00 PM
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Well please enlighten me, what do you suggest we do to make everyone monogamous and chaste until marriage? As I said before I don't know how to do it. But I still think it's worth trying, and even a partial success would be worth the effort. As it can assist many millions of people to live better lives. Lots of people raised with those values, even with good parental role models who had a good marriage still divorced when divorces became easier to obtain and when women had greater access to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:14 PM
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I agree with you but it's what would make me happier, I think there's something more to having sex with someone you love rather than a bunch of strangers, like you have the added emotional element that enhances the experience, not only for the pleasure of orgasm, but more importantly for something deeper, which would be the love you have for that person. I feel a sensation in my chest thinking about myself experiencing something like this, and I hope that I can one day. Maybe I'm just the type o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:05 PM
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I would rather be loved by just one than sexually successful with many haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:56 PM
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Well you are talking about changing a system that millions and millions of people are perfectly happy with to suit yourself. Changing the system doesn't mean that we have to break up all the current relationships or to oppress people, the transition would mostly be in the form of society coming together to raise children to hold these values and to then enable them to carry them out. I have made no mention of my own personal life and don't like this implication that I'm arguing on behalf of some…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:10 PM
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But you are talking about going back No I'm not, I've never said anything like that. Again, you're putting words in my mouth, please stop. ​ any system that puts restrictions on people behaviour is by default going to remove peoples freedom, thats men and women. We have differing levels of restrictions for rape, child abandonments and other harmful things to society, these things are harmful and we seek to mitigate their extent. The methods used to "puts restrictions on people behaviour", as you…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:22 PM
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Were people actually happier in the past? Probably not, they probably had much lower expectations, lower educational levels, lower life expectancies, poorer health. They didn't all have magically happy marriages, not at all and there is plenty of primary evidence for this in books on social history and even archive recordings of peoples first hand experience. You miss my point that by making all the things you don't like less acceptable that people automatically have happy stable lives, people w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:45 PM
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I don't understand why you don't accept that an easier time in dating (more attention, greater response rates, etc...) as evidence to them being more sexually attractive/desirable. I highly doubt anyone would ever seriously argue that people that are seen as sexually attractive/desirable wouldn't have an easier time when dating. Earlier, you said it was because of personality traits, and your reasoning behind it was just some stereotype about Black women, they're like 1/20 of all the women in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:17 PM
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Manipulating people sucks, but if it leads to a more stable society than let's do it. Like we wither have the current system where people are unhappy and society is less table, or the new system where people are raised to hold the right values to be happy and society is more stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:16 PM
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No, what I mean is that they're more sexually desirable, like if we were to follow the data, most men of all races would prefer to have a White woman. I'll provide two sources, by scanning through these and using your head, a little common sense and what you already know, you should be able to figure it out. Source 1: Positioning Multiraciality in Cyberspace: Treatment of Multiracial Daters in an Online Dating Website (ResearchGate) In this source it shows that simply being half White substantia…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:14 PM
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I'm pretty sure that there's already a sizeable portion of the male population married to wives that don't love them haha Either way we all know that the current system sucks and is leaving plenty of men and women unhappy, beyond that, we're aware of other things that further support a monogamous system, which would again be better should it include some level of chastity or at the least a significant reduction in promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:43 PM
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How? It's just a penis and women have low libidos for the most part. What makes you want a dick pic in the first place? What about the guy makes you want to see his penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:00 AM
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What's the purpose of a dick pic? Don't women not feel anything sexual from that sort of stuff? Unless it's Chad of course haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:55 AM
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Women and men don't have the same values haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:52 AM
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It's not just America, it's the entire Western World, and even in other countries to some degree. An Asian woman will do fine, men are far more accepting compared to women. But if that Asian woman had some decent competition from White women, she'll have a harder time. I'll provide a source which seeks to show how multiracial people perform in online dating, and those who are mixed with White, consistently outperform their minority counterparts. This should help get the point across too https://…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:49 AM
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Maybe the dating data wasn't the best, they're still the most desirable. There are plenty of non-White women that complain about it and I see it pop up every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:37 AM
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I feel like I'm getting some 'resistance' from people even though I'm right haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:25 AM
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Well if we look at the data for men, we see White men at the top. So it's still safe to say that White women are popular too. Like we can argue as much as you like but this is just one of those common sense type of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:07 AM
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I'm pretty sure dating app data shows White women as one of, if not, the most desirable groups for men of all races.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:15 AM
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Most women are like this regardless of whether or not they're attractive, it's just that the attractive women have an easier time doing it. People might try and argue against this, but we all know that the vast majority of women find the vast majority of men as unattractive, the main reason why most men get into relationships today is because the woman he's with wanted to have kids (not with him specifically, just to have her own), so she needed money, a sperm bank and some help to raise the kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:17 PM
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I actually had a few Reddit Chats with some young women, and they all had a short list of cosmetic surgeries that they had wanted to get. Though I'd bet that women will have some sort of movement to 'normalize' (aka. lower standards) for women's bodies to make 'natural beauty' something better. Kinda like what diamonds did for the natural vs. synthetic thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:51 PM
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Just Be White, basically it's an Incel thing that iirc says if you're a White guy you can get sex easily, they use data from dating sites to show that White guys have the best rates out of all races of men and some other stats to 'prove' it. Anyways I think the way you're meant to take advantage of it is to go somewhere where your race will help you get women. In OP's case he's just milking his Western White Guy\**TM perk/advantage on women from poor countries, it's more of a wealth (and to what…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:45 AM
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Post yourself first OP haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:01 AM
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This is a completely hand-wavy explanation. Next you'll tell me "you'll know once you're in love". Pair bonding is something that's natural, all the right hormones are released and your brain falls in line with it. It's not very hand wavy and it's what got most couples throughout history to stick together, or at least helped convince them to stay together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:17 PM
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There's an emotional element too, there's something more intimate about the type of love that you have for your spouse that you don't get with other people. Kinda like when people say that sex is better when you love the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:34 PM
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😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:42 PM
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I do a squat, sitting and standing both seem bad to me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:31 PM
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Do you kiss and cuddle with your "closest drinking buddy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:09 PM
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Why do you not hold any value for the special type of companionship that only a spouse can provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:20 AM
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They want to have about the same amount of previous partners as their current spouse (a lot of the women in this thread are the same), the insecurity comes from a discrepancy in the n-counts between the two, in which the woman has a higher n-count. You can effectively set the bar yourself by controlling how many sexual partners you've had, and allow for your future partner to be more comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:07 AM
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That's rule 7, I said rule 6 haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:53 AM
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Rule 6 haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:31 AM
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My 30 day ban is finally over but it was long enough to kinda kill my desire to be active here haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:50 AM
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The equivalent of a fancy piece of paper with some words on it doesn't magically make someone anything substantial at whatever arbitrary age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:46 AM
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They weren't going to approach regardless lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:44 AM
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The amount of women here claiming to be virgins is insane, from what I've seen it's like they only exist on the internet haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:50 PM
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Child abandonment haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:06 PM
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There are studies that show that higher n-count (more sexual partners) causes a bunch of problems, it's damaging to society when more and more people are unable to have a stable marriage/relationship. Most of the people that support this shit are just idiots that fucked around and are either in denial or just got lucky in opposition to the general trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:14 PM
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How the fuck is the 2nd last 7 a 7? She's like a 3-4 for me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:04 AM
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It's going to be done mostly by religious groups. Source 1: The Future Of American Religion: Birth Rates Show Who's Having More Kids (Religion Unplugged) This source shows the fertility rates of religious groups within the USA, those that are not religious have a fertility rate below replacement, while most religious groups have fertility rates above replacement. Source 2: Amish Population Profile, 2019 (Amish Studies) This source states that the Amish fertility rate at roughly 7 children per wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:29 AM
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Thanks :D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:39 AM
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The process is already happening, the people that already do that are having more stable lives and a higher fertility rate, while those that don't aren't (and increasing rates of childfree). The only way for the former group to fail would be for the latter group to indoctrinate/corrupt the children of the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:30 PM
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I think it's child abuse when porn stars try to have kids, like there's no way that this kid has a normal childhood and isn't bullied relentlessly, like imagine some guy pulls out a video of your mother flat out doing porn moans and blasts it in the middle of the classroom, insane
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:09 PM
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You should delete the other post and notify the people there to come here haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:30 PM
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Oh I see now, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:25 PM
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Did you quote the wrong part then? I don't understand what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 07:11 PM
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How sure are you of this? How manly are you on a scale of 1-10?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:57 PM
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BALSAMIC
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:41 PM
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So this is why you occasionally hear about women that lose their attraction to their boyfriends/husband once they get off of birth control. Wouldn't this also mean that sexually active women that use birth control, are a greater risk as a partner than a woman that doesn't use birth control? Primarily, for men who are not perceived as masculine by whatever standards these women may have? Keep in mind, that this is likely to be the majority of men due to 80/20. Not to say that they're all feminine…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:40 PM
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This damn sub feeds my addiction of arguing with people, I can't stop 😭😭😭 I keep putting out bait to see if I can trigger people but you assholes smartened up to my tricks 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:29 PM
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Why is it wrong for me to doubt out of Africa? And what do you mean by cite genealogy tests? I don't remember doing this haha I'm dropping the bit about the Polar bears, they were just an example and now we're off track from the original point. The real purpose is cultural and linguistic preservation, you also have the fact that the people getting replaced are more intelligent than those that are replacing them, this is especially harmful when you consider the direction society is taking in term…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:33 PM
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Combatting it is just stuff like shunning people for doing these things and raising children to be very opposed to those things. Also this idea that the whole system is meant to fall apart because of only a few incels and sexless men isn't even something that I said (you're dishonest), we're nearing far more substantial numbers of people that are single and sexless. Just look at what OP has posted, these are extreme scenarios that we're already in and are on track to for things to get worse. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:28 PM
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Out of Africa is a shaky theory, there is evidence which puts it into question. And preservation of a people and culture isn't wrong, this is a bit different from animals haha And the point about animals, and more specifically the Polar bears, they're going through this process because of human caused global warming, it's our fault and it's not natural, resisting this makes sense, had the process been natural than we shouldn't get involved, but that isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:26 AM
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Maybe there's something about you that makes them do that? I've never even heard of this happening to women, I do hear about men getting it by default though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:14 AM
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what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:05 AM
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That was probably the solution that was used in the past to deal with the current problems we're facing today, not the best method though haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:48 AM
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There’s no such thing as racial purity. There is only gene frequency within a localized gene pool, which is dynamic and natually shifts over time. This is quite odd, there are plenty of people who get DNA tests, and get 100% of one race and at times 100% of one ethnicity. Those that are 'pure' exist, but this is besides the point. My point is that losing those that are pure would be a shame, it would be better if we were to preserve all groups, and combat the destruction of groups that are under…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:45 AM
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I agree with you, but I think we shouldn't sacrifice the Polar bears in order to get the Grolar bears, nor should we sacrifice one group of people to produce a mixed group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:19 AM
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What do you mean by this? Like writing a book?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:44 AM
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Well I hope that I'm not ugly haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:44 AM
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How do you guys deal with your demoralization? It all seems so hopeless when it comes to dating and relationships. I don't want to give up just yet, at least I don't think so, but I know that once I start trying, that it's going to be an absolutely horrible experience and I'm going to be made to feel worthless by however many women. Its a bit hard to admit, but it's inevitable haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:37 AM
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What is you’re overall opinion on sex work and those who participate in it whether it’s onlyfans or prostitution? I don't agree with it at all, I know there's plenty of evidence to show that the people involved in it tend to be victims in some way. I think it should either be against the law or at the least controlled at an absolutely EXTREME level by a government body. ​ Would you date a sex worker? I would rather die, I'm an Incel, not a simp. ​ Would you be friends with a sex worker? I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:21 AM
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So Japan is actually a sunjugated nation under the USA, how interesting, I'm not going to argue with this, though I will still disagree with it. As for other countries conquering Japan, this is extremely unlikely, first of all, Japan has fuck all for resources and they're covered in mountains, and split up into many, many, islands, it would be hell and a half for relatively worthless land.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:15 AM
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You guys are quite strict on the rules, though I suppose it's for the best or else the sub will probably get banned by the exceptionally sensitive admins haha I've edited the comment and removed a large section of it, is it fine now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:12 AM
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If what you mean by this is that this process is cyclical, than I agree if I remember correctly there is evidence of this in the past too. However, I would like to think the all the easy to access information would help people maintain the new and more stable system, and possibly break the cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:59 PM
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You mean kill themselves faster than the rest of the developed nations and superpowers of the world? What are you saying by this? I seriously have no idea haha When I mentioned Japan it's because they are simply trying to do damage control with the current situation they're in, though unlike the Western countries, without the use of mass immigration. Like the West, they have much of the same issues when it comes to dating, they just have it worse due to their extreme work culture. ​ If not for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:57 PM
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When I say "system that distributes relationships and sex more fairly", I don't mean forcing women into marriages and legally chaining them to their husbands, and effectively forcing them into some life of servitude. The process would be more akin to a culture which more intensely values LTR and family values. While at the same time seeking to combat anything that deviates from this. You can see this with more religious groups, they tend to have more stable marriages and a higher fertility rate,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:41 PM
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This actually counts for that? I thought that it was 'tame' enough, and it does have some grounds in terms of the connection that I'm making between the two points
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:37 PM
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I don't believe in some evil organization doing that, but if you look at the demographic stats you'll see things are happening regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:36 PM
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If anything the black population in america is decreasing lately and the white population is subsidized by white mexicans who many would differentiate under "ethnic". I said "countries", not "just the USA". The USA was at like 80% White not too long ago and now they're floating at nearly 50/50 with the youngest cohort of children. This is a disastrous level of change, nearly apocalyptic even and considering the 'racial culture' they have it is extremely harmful to the Whites. Like imagine becomi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:34 PM
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Society will just degrade more and women will dance on the ashes, filled with pride haha You can already see how severely bad it is when you consider all the countries that are doing this to themselves are going through massive replacement of their host populations. Inevitably the system will crumble, what will happen after that depends on which forces at play win haha EDIT: I disagree with your point as this system is unsustainable and will inevitably be replaced by a more appealing system that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:56 PM
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thanks :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:36 PM
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Personality is probably the big one for most people haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:42 PM
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What's the IQ point difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:21 PM
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As a guy: My ideal relationship is lifetime LTR. Looks: 10 Money/Career/Status: 0 Personality: 10 Social Circle: 0 Intangibles: 10 Intangibles are that she is compatible with me, enjoys the same pastimes, good at cooking and baking (I'm fat, and I'm not sorry haha), physically active and willing to exercise with me. These are just the ones I can think of right now, I'm sure there are more haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:17 AM
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So it's possible to become sexually attracted to someone by just learning to like them? But at the same time women make it increasingly hard to even approach them in the first place? Like how many women do you know that are willing to become friends with a guy? Are you willing to do it? I'd bet that all women think every time that the guy just wants sex and think negatively of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:23 AM
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Example 1: A working-class/lower middle class friend who is married to a woman from a much richer family than him (as in, her dad earns a 6 figure salary). They are both of average intelligence, and met doing the same pointless degree at a third rate college, but have been together 15 years. The state of her father, who is likely an older male and well into his career, doesn't really matter for her. What matters is her own personal financial situation and her earning potential, which just so hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:16 AM
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And it is necessary for the husband to be sexually desirable. But women find that vast majority of men as unattractive, so how can this always be the case? If anything, with the information the sub provided, we can assume that this only happens in a minority of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:02 AM
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What do you mean by "sexually desirable stable (read: regular) guy" when it's already been proven that the vast majority of women find the vast majority of men as below average? What men are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:42 PM
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Isn't one of the main arguments about BB guys that they're stable? And who says she wants to have his kids when most women just want to have their own kids? Like seriously, how many women honestly say "I want to have your babies" to their husband? What kind of dream world is this haha If women had the choice, they'd surely select a sexually desirable man as the biological father and some stable BB to raise the child with, so long as there are no consequences on her part. I don't think I've ever …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:36 PM
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But I have been attracted to women before?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:26 PM
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Don't women not even want men to approach them? I'd go so far as to say that the vast majority of women don't even want to be friends with the vast majority of men haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:51 PM
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So I'm partially asexual because I have 'high' standards for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:02 PM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:06 PM
1

That's true, but they can also just use a throwaway with me too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:07 PM
1

When looking at their accounts, they already have activity in that sub haha They probably just want a more one on one experience maybe, or to get a man's opinion too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:06 PM
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No, they already had the idea of the surgeries. If softmaxxing is stuff like muscle building then that's most of what I do haha Though if I think that the surgery would be a good idea I will recommend it, otherwise I'd say that they should just save the money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:03 PM
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Well I actually just got a 4th person to contact me haha It's actually been a learning experience for myself to do this, it's quite nice and enjoyable too haha Also I would think that the risk in both cases isn't really the same, it's either just one person (me) or however many on those subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:18 PM
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I highly doubt that such people would involve themselves in these types of studies. "My son's step-father isn't his biological father" Like who needs to take a study to figure that out haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:16 PM
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Probably just a small wave of new people, a bunch of lower end posts got removed actually. The mods have to get some sleep you know, they can't always be here haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:56 AM
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It's really unfortunate that women's natural/instinctive ways are so damaging to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:55 AM
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I had my third experience chatting with a woman from this sub on how she can improve herself, It's been a nice conversation so far and she'll probably continue it later today or maybe tomorrow. I'm interested in the fact that she actually has a lot of overlap with the previous two women, but the previous two don't overlap with each other. Like she has a lot of the same ideas. We had established goals for her to achieve and took out most of the surgeries that she planned to have, with the final r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:51 AM
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Why the heck should these guys even go lmao Like it's your special day and the guys that got to nut in her first get to share it with you? What if she tries some wedding night cuck shit? Plenty of women love that sort of crap haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:39 AM
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Okay I see now haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:16 AM
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Well I suppose you've lost me now haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:50 AM
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Really? Just for having strange standards like this? That's really odd haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:47 AM
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I can find all sorts of women as attractive, they just need to have the right combination of traits that work well together. The actual traits can be just about anything so long as it all works well together. For example, a bit chubby all the way to a bit muscular are body types within the acceptable range, it doesn't have to be a 'Barbie' body on all of them haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:36 AM
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I've never felt attraction to a man though haha And I have felt attraction to women before too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:04 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:09 AM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:29 AM
1

I hope it helps haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:24 PM
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oops haha, these types of racial acronyms aren't very popular outside of mixed/interracial communities, I should have been more specific haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:23 PM
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No no, what I said is that I never saw a woman that had both an attractive face and body, like I can still be attracted by just one or the other. I didn't say that I never felt attraction before haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:21 PM
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No no, my parents are WMBF, so White Male-Black Female, my mother in multi-generational mixed (her mother was mixed, and her father was White), she still identifies as Black and if you saw her she would look Black to you haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:19 PM
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My parents are actually interracial, WMBF, however, I'm about 7/8 European with the rest being African, so I don't really have the exact same 'issue' as you do, due to my own appearance being 'Whiter'. Because I'm mixed race, and my general interest in the types of stuff this sub gets into, I've developed a interest in how racial/ethnic appearance plays into the dating world. Source 1: Positioning Multiraciality in Cyberspace: Treatment of Multiracial Daters in an Online Dating Website (Research…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:11 PM
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No, many combinations of many traits that work well together is attractive. Also they don't need to have giant assess haha, even a small ass is fine so long as 'fits' in with the 'package' that she has
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:04 PM
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They have to look attractive haha But to be serious about it, I think what matters is a combination of factors, she doesn't need some sort of Barbie-esque body, a bit chubby is fine so long as it works well with her body. I think being a bit chubby to a bit muscular is acceptable so long as it works well with her overall 'package'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:42 PM
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Women my age, like if I include them all I guess the number would be worse haha I don't mean to say that 90% of them are unattractive, like they're a bit harsh on the eyes or anything (they're mostly average). But I cannot imagine myself ever desiring the vast majority of the women that I see, they're all quite pitiful in terms of their physical appearance, for example they weren't very genetically gifted in terms of their face and body. And are just average or even below average in one or both …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:38 PM
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I've never heard of that haha And I think you really do have low standards haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:45 PM
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It's a bit tough working out at the gym, to try and improve my odds with women, knowing that I'm more than likely going to be disappointed with whatever I can get haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:27 PM
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I'm glad that someone agrees haha, I think this would become worse if they weren't wearing makeup haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:25 PM
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I think it's just low standards haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:24 PM
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Over 80%? Are you nuts haha I think you just have really low standards haha Can you send me a picture of what you think an average and an attractive woman looks like? And include what you think each is on a X/10 rating?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:23 PM
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It is a college town, and there are some good looking people, but definitely not full of them haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:20 PM
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I go to uni too, I've actually got another semester coming up in about 2 weeks, and when I'm in school I see largely the same thing haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:17 PM
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I'm not saying that they don't exist, but rather, that I've never seen one myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:16 PM
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I don't do it often enough for it to be a problem haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:15 PM
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I honestly can't remember ever seeing one, and I think that I'd remember as she'd be the only one at this point haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:14 PM
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Why have I lost you? How many women do you find attractive in your day to day life?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:12 PM
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no haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:11 PM
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I am, that's why I didn't say 100% of women are unattractive haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:10 PM
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I live in Montreal LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:10 PM
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Why do so many people claim that most women are attractive? I rarely see an attractive woman, either by her face or her body. I can easily say that roughly 90% of women that I see are unattractive, in both face and body. And I don't think I've ever seen a woman that had both an attractive face and body.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:25 PM
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This is the wrong sub for this, go to r/relationshipadvice Either way, you're better off dumping her, it might suck but don't let some ex-whore milk you for all your hard work, find a woman that deserves a man like you. There are also studies you can find easily which show the effects of a higher body count, such as reduced marital and sexual satisfaction, and increased divorce and cheating rates. She's a much bigger risk than an average woman, take care of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:11 AM
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They probably have higher standards too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:00 PM
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What is a mutuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:16 PM
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This one is gonna hurt some people haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:15 PM
1

Yes, to both. Your opinion is now invalid haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:19 PM
2

Have you cheated on someone before or had it happen to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:12 PM
1

Well I have actually cut back a bit and skip entire posts now, rather than to go through all of them haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:15 AM
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I think you're right haha I think I'm just a bit paranoid so these types of things get through to me too easily haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:50 AM
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So she's having sex in public places or she's having sex with too many men for it to be private?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:33 AM
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So the guy I responded to is claiming that the guy he responded to is a Nazi because he's implying that 'Tyrone' has STDs? Even though, statistically speaking, there's a good chance that it's true haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:33 AM
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So what does it mean for a woman to not be a Hogan?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:27 AM
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What the fuck am I reading lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:27 AM
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What the hell is a Hogan haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:25 AM
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Oh so it's a man trying to alleviate his insecurities about his girlfriend's sexual history haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:01 AM
2

What does "1488ers" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:48 PM
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OP is obviously a woman haha Maybe even trying to justify something haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:38 PM
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Kinda a hard pick honestly, something in between the two would be a lot better, but if I really had to choose one or the other (all else equal), I'd pick the woman in the bottom, I guess, maybe haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:36 PM
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Provide pictures?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:32 PM
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I think you might be onto something haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:49 PM
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I'm talking about the type of people on this sub haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:48 PM
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The amount of guys on this sub that openly claim that they have had many women cheat with them irritates me extremely haha Really makes women's loyalty seem less and less common these days, if it even exists at this point haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:13 PM
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I feel like most women currently have that and only a minority of the men have ever experienced it haha I think this plays a key role in how debates are held on this sub, I feel like Blackpill type people are exclusively male, while those who are in relationships and still have negative views and feelings are also still predominantly male.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:11 PM
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There are a lot of women here, and they are quite vocal, I like to think that I get a bias from two different 'countering groups' haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:06 PM
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I have no experience from real life, so I'm trying to learn here haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:55 AM
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What do you mean by pairing it with something else? And with what, if you have any examples? I do like the idea of becoming quite muscular, but I'm tall at 6'4" and I hear that filling in my frame will be harder because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:30 AM
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I was at it for a bit in the past and began to enjoy it but I quit for some time due to COVID closing the gym. I've restarted and haven't hit that liking the gym part yet haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:28 AM
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So I have to be a natural/genetic Chad under all this blubber is what you're saying haha On the bright side I'm 6'4" tall, so maybe there's a chance haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:26 AM
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Common sense haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:23 AM
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More than likely won't happen anyways, but I gotta lie to myself to get on the treadmill haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:39 AM
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The gym grind better help me get a gf haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:26 AM
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He's a sack of shit, grow a spine and have some self respect, you're a young early 20s woman, you can replace him in 5 minutes when he'd need 5 months to replace you, dump his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:00 AM
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How much blame are you willing to put on women? Or are you another one of those women that acts blind to the faults of women and somehow spins everything to be men's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:46 PM
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Really? Are there other words that are not allowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:57 PM
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Well I think your first two points sort of explain themselves as to why you're underestimating the desire for human touch. If you don't mind me asking, would you feel the same way with a spouse? Where you prefer that they not touch you, and possibly even 'avoid' sex with them, or to at the least have it very rarely? I think most women find the vast majority of men as both sexually and aesthetically unattractive haha. I don't want to put all the blame on women though, these days men aren't having…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:00 AM
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I think you're underestimating the desire for human touch haha I'd like to ask, are you a woman? I always feel that because women can so easily get casual sex or relationships, have lower libidos on average and that they find like 99% of men as unattractive that they don't feel any 'pressure' to seek these things out, and can just use casual sex when necessary to scratch the rare itch. I would bet that women who struggle horribly to get casual sex or relationships are not nearly as 'unconcerned'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:09 AM
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Hormones and instincts push them all to desire sex haha And let's be honest, if getting sex was easy, would the men remain sexless?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:54 AM
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Nearly all of the men are trying to cope, the women are either telling the truth or they're insecure due to their obesity haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:35 AM
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But this would inevitably result in a significant n-count disparity between the two. I don't think many guys would be comfortable with that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:34 AM
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Most people aren't comfortable with the idea of sharing their partner, also under such a system, honestly speaking, most men would be sexless and a small minority would monopolize the majority of women. Like you need to understand that women absolutely do not care about the vast majority of men, and they especially don't care about them in any way sexually haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:10 PM
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I don't think any relationship type that isn't stable for child raising and would have most men question paternity would ever get off the ground without absolutely massive scale cultural shifting that borders on extreme manipulation and brainwashing haha I agree completely with your last point, I wish that more people would form those types of relationships with their extended family and in-laws more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:54 PM
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Is that seriously what causes this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:49 PM
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Thanks for the replies, perhaps the only way to ensure a steady supply of sex would be to become incredibly attractive haha. Though I still believe that vetting plays a critical role haha I'll take this opportunity to ask you, do you believe that a horse would make you more attractive? Like if you were sitting on a horse, would women think you look better? Or if you had a Tinder profile, with just normal pictures of you, but then you swapped them out with pictures of you on a horse, would you ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:02 PM
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A person who married young as a virgin easily will say that they didn't get to live while they were young and that they were so sex focused that they married for the wrong reasons. Your morals are only in the moment. And what I mean by that is that the man who waits to have sex in marriage at 21 isn't always in the same mindset to resist temptation at 36. I understand what you mean by this, but I feel like there are a number of factors that come into play that would help keep him on the right tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:48 PM
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I saw one guy in my life with wide hips, he looked so bad haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:35 PM
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Really strange that it fluctuates so extremely haha, but I believe that most people have sex at least once a week, so I'd say that these may still just be exceptions to the norm haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:29 PM
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You could get a better understanding of dating scene by observing people in real life and seeing how your friends or relatives date. I only know two guys that talk to me about their dating lives. My one friend that tries is having a horrible time, first dates only and he hasn't had a second date in long time (6'2", White, blonde hair, blue eyes, a bit thin though ~150lbs). My other friend seemingly gave up, he's really up in the air about it and not sure (5'10", White, long brown hair, greenish-…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:25 PM
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Well I am still a virgin and I've never had a relationship, I might have no experience but you just seem straight up bad at forming stable relationships haha. Like however many fell apart because of the libido difference being too much, yet you never bothered to just vet for it haha Most people don't have incredibly mismatched compatibilities when it comes to sex, I still have the opinion that simply communicating with the person is enough for you two to figure things out haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:07 PM
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Oh I see, I think that we're having a misunderstanding. You're asking for evidence on how often women have kinky sex with some casual guy and then act very reserved/vanilla with their spouse. I had assume that after I said: I'll be honest, from what I've seen so far on this sub, having any level of optimism towards women when it comes to sex and relationships just seems a bit naïve haha. That you had wanted evidence from me to support my above quote. I suppose I do agree with you actually, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:02 PM
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No, I see it when men do it too, and I argue with guys on some points as well haha For example, I argue against age gap relationships, and will argue with men on this haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:57 PM
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Well I don't have any relationship or sexual experience whatsoever, and I'd rather not start getting into that stuff completely blind either haha. Also I was never making an argument that all women did this, but rather, just as something that however many women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:39 PM
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You've never seen what I described happen before? Are you serious? haha I suppose I can use the fact that "This isn’t evidence mate." as an example then haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:28 PM
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I suppose a good example would be all the dishonesty and such. Quite often, PPD women will use an 'exception to the norm' example (might be anecdotal) that they try to use to disprove a point entirely. Between this and possibly other tactics, they try to derail conversations that paint women in a bad light, under the context of dating and relationships. Of course they try to make themselves as believable as possible when they can, but at times their arguments are really flimsy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:17 PM
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It's a hard pill to swallow for women, but there's too much evidence to support this haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:04 PM
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This can still be avoided by the extreme vetting process and friendship that I mentioned in my original comment haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:00 PM
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What do you mean? All the people that mentioned this here are liars? Also, I've cut back my time on the sub a bit, I only come in and do little bursts now haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:58 PM
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Getting married at all can pay off, but it's also a risk haha I did specify that the process includes developing a friendship and then vetting the guy extremely, the problems you're describing can be avoided haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:56 PM
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I'll be honest, from what I've seen so far on this sub, having any level of optimism towards women when it comes to sex and relationships just seems a bit naïve haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:56 PM
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Exclusively from this sub so far haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:51 PM
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No it's just what she believes he will think, I highly doubt many men would complain or even think less of their wife/girlfriend if she had wanted to do kinky things with him haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:50 PM
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Well I don't think it's that extreme, but I do hear about women that apparently have kinky sex with strangers and then not with their boyfriend/husband, because she doesn't want to be seen as 'lesser' (like a whore I think?) by him. I remember there was this post with a massive comment explaining it in good detail, it was at the top of the post and had a bunch of awards haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:46 PM
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You're likely an exception to the norm haha Most people tend to go through the usual sexual/horny urges at whatever rate each individual may have, with this they can estimate how often they'd like to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:40 PM
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Well it should be her fault haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:38 PM
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It does unfortunately happen, however, between the extreme vetting process, and the fact that the type of people that wait for marriage tend to have the morals to be less prone to cheating, I would assume the odds of it happening are much lower when compared to average relationships today haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:38 PM
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Had you vetted the guy properly, you could've avoided that haha, my original comment specified the need for 'extreme vetting' haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:35 PM
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This I can agree on haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:15 AM
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"How often do you feel like you would like to have sex?" "How often do you get horny" "How often do you masturbate or think about sex" This is basic communication haha When you were a virgin, did you have no idea how often you would like to have sex? Do you think most people are unaware until they have sex at least once? You make it seem like you believe that most people are just incapable of knowing how often they feel the sexual/horny urge? And can then base that knowledge to guess on how ofte…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:06 AM
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the virgin sexual compatibility testing fan vs the chad basic communication skills enjoyer
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:01 AM
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Can you explain what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:59 AM
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He should've vetted better, and so should the women that got together with him. My point from my original comment still stands haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:58 AM
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All your problems could've been prevented if you had just vetted out women with low libidos. The problems you had were effectively self inflicted haha My original comment stands haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:57 AM
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I like how everyone is focusing on the virgin part and ignoring everything else haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:54 AM
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I suppose you're right to a degree, but the odds of it happening are still incredibly slim haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:24 AM
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Safety advantages? You mean like the guy raping/killing the woman he's dating? The amount of times stuff like this happens is comparable to the rate of people being struck by lightning haha. It's not really a viable argument to be making haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:16 AM
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Maybe you should just be better at arousing women haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:14 AM
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Man approaches a woman he likes assertive Woman approaches man desperate I did hear about this one before, but as an example with similar context to now. I actually think that today most men would be quite happy to have a woman approach him haha ​ Woman sleeps with man on first date shes a whore. Man sleeps with woman on first date stud Considering the type of men women prefer to have sex with on the first date, this is fairly accurate haha. As to whether or not she's a whore is another thing en…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:13 AM
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Marrying a good friend that has passed an extensive vetting process is obviously good for her, this shouldn't be up for debate haha Both being virgins for the most stable marriage perk,
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:06 AM
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What is it that they would discover by having sex with multiple people? And that they can't figure out by simply having sex with a single person, that happens to be their spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:05 AM
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What do you mean by not compatible? I always think of this 'sexual compatibility' as just some myth that people make so they can justify fucking strangers haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:03 AM
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Find a single guy quickly, develop a solid friendship with him, vet him extremely, if he passes, get into a relationship with him and build your lives together, marry as virgins for massive bonus points
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:50 PM
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Can you give me some examples? Not trying to be 'that guy' or anything, I just don't know any myself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:49 PM
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What the heck do men have better than women when it comes to dating? What an insane question haha. As far as I know, men are agonizing in some nightmarish hell-scape of difficulty while women are basically just frolicking in a field of flowers and getting opportunity after opportunity of whatever they want being presented to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:14 PM
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The odds that the relationship falls apart and all she gets is however many years wasted is quite high, so no haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:58 PM
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Personally speaking, I think women's lives are significantly easier than that of men, though I don't really envy them so much, 'they' effectively fought for and had the whole system more or less rigged in their favor. So I feel more of a disdain rather than envy. That being said I don't feel this disdain strongly towards women, but rather I think of 'those women', the ones that actually fought for these changes and I have my disdain for them being quite strong, while the average woman who had no…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:42 PM
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I hear that those guys that quit porn or even the guys that do NNN properly, claim to get a number of benefits such as a higher drive, more ambition. Would there be some equivalent effect on women? Such as porn use for women would lower their desire to find a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:36 PM
1

Did you lose the desire for romance and if yes, then why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:50 AM
1

Thanks haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:39 AM
1

Your post is already incredibly low effort, stop being so lazy haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:48 AM
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Can you provide some examples of this? Like the types of things men say “women do” “women feel” “women want” “women are” for
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:46 AM
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Well I suppose I'm working on my appearance through the weight loss that I'm putting myself through haha. It's gonna take some time though haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:45 AM
2

Opportunities to have sex? haha none have ever come my way, trust me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:18 AM
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I was just answering OP's question on how I protect my values on sex haha. It's still meant to be a bit of a joke too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:43 PM
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How big is the OP is the most important question haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:06 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:04 PM
3

Thanks for the praise haha What kind of media got you to like romace??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:29 PM
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I personally really like the idea of being in a romantic relationship, I think that it's common sense for a romantic relationship to be stronger than one that lacks romance. But beyond the benefit of a stronger relationship, you also have the reaction you get when your partner treats you well in some romantic way, and the feeling you get when your partner reacts to your romantic gestures, in both cases you're going to feel great haha The toxic and abusive relationships thing is bit of a mixed ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:14 PM
2

I'm not that wealthy but for the male version of this question, I'd take the wife haha. Being loved genuinely is priceless haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:57 PM
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Yes haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:06 PM
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This must be sarcasm haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:05 PM
2

The issue is that just about all women do this, it doesn't matter what ever % range she falls into. These same women then go off and do all sorts of bad things to the men they 'settle' with haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:29 PM
2

Thanks for the response, I never would have guessed that the PP website owner would respond haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:25 PM
0

This sub uses an awful amount of studies, and with a bit of inference, one can come to this conclusion haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:22 PM
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Most women hide their pasts, the vast majority absolutely do not care about their partner's 'integrity' (if that's the right word), they simply want to protect how they're perceived themselves. It's something you see often here with PPD women saying things along the lines of "it's not his business", which makes very little sense to me, I think it's perfectly reasonable for your spouse to be aware of your sexual past, anyone who argues against this simply refuses absolute sexual transparency with…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:19 PM
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Does anyone else here think that AFBB might transition into AFBC? (Beta Cucks) Now I'm not saying it has to be 100% pure cucking relationships, or even open relationships where the women choose the man they desire for paternity and then the other man for child raising. There are many ways for this to manifest, and even something like step-fatherhood becoming the norm for average men is a form of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:09 PM
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I think that like 99.99% of women wouldn't want a SAHD, and are likely going to treat him worse if he made less money, let alone didn't make any money at all haha I would bet there are studies that show women don't treat their husband as well if he made less money, though I doubt men who make more are treated any better. I personally feel like women by default put in the bare minimum for relationships, at least from what I've seen on this sub haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:54 AM
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Probably just a discomfort of the inequality haha Basically they're unhappy with the fact that their future spouse is effectively guaranteed to have run through many guys in her youth (when she was more attractive), while he more or less got next to nothing and now he gets an older and effectively inferior quality version of her (less attractive) as a spouse while many men in the past enjoyed her in her prime. On top of that, she will actually make it more difficult for him to get sex compared t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:45 AM
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Never heard of food that gets to choose who eats it haha Most people get an average partner because that's all they can get, this much should be obvious haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:24 AM
2

So PP women are just especially selfish and manipulative RP women??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:05 AM
3

When I go to the gym, it's like 95-99% men and the rest are women, the guys are all over the place doing all sorts of things, while the women seem to do cardio almost exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:14 AM
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How does it make you feel that you have to compete with an apple pie haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:31 AM
3

What is the pink pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:34 PM
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What is the pink pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:34 PM
2

From what I hear, a bunch of them become really angry haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:26 PM
13

Online dating will always be bad, women will always try to hold out for a guy much better than she is and if she can't get him, she'll just drop out and stay single for life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:17 PM
1

Me too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:06 PM
3

Haha I thought it was like a slang word for something. So what you're saying is that some guys are having sex with pies haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:36 AM
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No I don't haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:03 AM
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It’s not meaningless when it’s the point of the conversation. This is what is repeatedly put forth by red pillers and general manospherians ad naseum. I had stated that it was meaningless, as in the past whenever I would claim women who are promiscuous damage their pair-bonding ability, I would quickly have all sorts of women jump onto me like hounds on some wounded animal and begin to argue and debate me endlessly. So to avoid this I'm just saying "it's meaningless" so they can't really argue w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:50 AM
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What a great source, I really recommend that you make a post about this here for the sub, I'm sure many people would like to talk about this, probably haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:42 AM
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I think the reason why women's issues gets so much attention is the fact that it's the only 'gendered' issues that really get brought up, the vast majority of people, men included, absolutely do not care at all about men's issues whatsoever. As to whether or not this is due to cultural or even instinctive norms is beyond me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:35 AM
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I've never heard of it being a inheritable genetic trait before, can you provide a source for this please?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:32 AM
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Firstly, men are not ‘more reasonable’, there are movies about them fucking pastries. That’s a pretty low standard for sex. That’s not ‘reasonable’, that’s desperate. I don't know what a 'pastries' is, can you tell me what it is? As for the desperation thing, I specifically knew that this would be brought up which is why I included the bit about "as to why this is the case may or may not reduce the legitimacy of them being more reasonable, however, the end result remains the same, as they show a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:28 AM
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All of the studies and their similar results are simply coincidences, ignore them haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:24 AM
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I think the issue can be summed up as; 5/10 women will only ever desire a 7/10 man at the minimum and would rather stay single for life than to 'settle' for a 6/10 man, or to be 'fair' and get a 5/10 man. I can understand that people don't like this but, this has effectively been proven countless times on this sub, men do it too of course, but unlike women they're okay with a 5/10 or even a 4/10 if he himself is a 5/10. In this regard men are more reasonable, as to why this is the case may or ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:29 PM
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But there are studies that show that higher n-count correlates with higher negative consequences such as reduced marital and sexual satisfaction, increased divorce and cheating rates, to name a few. Whether or not pair bonding is damaged is meaningless when the end result is a riskier partner regardless. People can argue against this all they like, but at the end of the day the general trends remain fairly consistent and anyone with some semblance of common sense would acknowledge the importance…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:12 PM
3

I hope so haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:01 PM
3

Thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:49 PM
1

With our without a beard?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:47 PM
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I'm fat and I exercise because I want to be hot, the health benefits are just a bonus haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:45 PM
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I wonder what an example of a cute guy from a woman's perspective would be?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:25 PM
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So women are actually so stubborn about their hypergamy that they are willing to just remain single for life rather than to just want an equal partner, insane haha Like do I seriously need to make myself a 7/10 in order to get a 5/10 woman? I'm gonna be in the gym for years before I make it to that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:08 PM
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Yes? Even asexual people get into relationships all the time. Now of course it's not common, and most people both men and women would likely prefer a relationship with sexual activity, some more than others haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:25 PM
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Are you trying to boil down the whole argument to "it's only about sex"? I never mentioned sex in my original comment and you were the one to bring it up first, it seems dishonest to be doing this, if that's the case of course haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:11 PM
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So what you're saying is that if you don't find the right guy (with extremely limiting standards), you'll just remain single for life? Why not reconsider the childfree part? That alone would drastically increase your options. As a side note, I also work with flowers, it's primarily warehouse work, but I spend a lot of time actually getting flowers for orders and having to know their names too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:09 PM
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Companionship is a great one, there's also the desire to start a family, as examples
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:41 PM
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No need to tell me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:39 PM
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I don't believe it, I'm arguing against it haha Though I never specified sex precisely
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:06 PM
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Well I'm glad that you're being positive about things and that you're likely to have better chances in the future, that being said, have you ever considered simply lowering your standards a bit? Perhaps finding a man that isn't a vegan but is childfree? I'm sure you can still find very good men even if there's something about him that you're not entirely happy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:51 PM
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If I remember correctly, I saw a bunch of people saying this in the lonely men thread. I could be wrong and it may be another thread, I'm not so sure, though its one of the recent ones
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:48 PM
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At least you're aware that your standards would make finding a suitable partner incredibly difficult, I suppose my only advice would be to find out where vegan men hang out and go there haha Best of luck, keep trying to find someone, being alone now might be okay but who's to say it will be like this for the rest of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:39 PM
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Well I can't say much about the pressure element, maybe because men and women aren't treated the same way in this aspect, or I'm not old enough to get that pressure put on me yet. Though I do believe that not all men and women have the same experience with this sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:34 PM
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I never said anything about needs, I'm talking about desire haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:32 PM
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I gotta remain humble when I make it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:25 PM
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What I mean is that wanting relationships and family is natural, and your argument is seemingly to have women raised to not want these things. Am I correct? May I ask, are you one of those 'childfree' people?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:16 PM
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If you don't mind me asking, what is it that you want in a man, from a man and how hard is it to find a man like that in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:14 PM
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Glad that you're happy with what you have haha Please speak up more about it, too many unlucky women complain about what they have openly and cause single women to become hesitant at the idea of finding love. It isn't right for them to be demoralizing other women so I think it would be beneficial if women like you can counter the negative women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:53 PM
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Why encourage them to avoid it though? We can't really deny the instinct behind the average person's desire for a relationship, nor can we deny the benefit of socializing with a spouse and possibly children. I've never been pressured to find a relationship or to settle down and have a family, I'm 24 and I'm a man. That being said, I really like the idea of finding a spouse and starting a family with her, are you saying that it would be best for the hypothetical woman that I marry to have remaine…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:50 PM
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Why does everyone argue that women don't want a man? Don't women also have the instinct to form a relationship? And aren't they the ones that everyone claims to want relationships more than their male counterparts?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:41 PM
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Probably the second guy, I don't think evolution would make women desire a strong guy with no body fat over a strong guy with body fat, like one gets food and the other doesn't haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:17 AM
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The amount of people here that describe an exception to the norm and then pretend that the whole point has been disproven haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:16 AM
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Here is another source that shows how race plays into online dating, it even shows differences for mixed race people. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/281226045_Positioning_Multiraciality_in_Cyberspace_Treatment_of_Multiracial_Daters_in_an_Online_Dating_Website I hope this post doesn't get taken down haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:11 AM
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Their choice to remain single and then they do this too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:09 PM
1

I do drink an okay amount of water and eat bananas almost daily. Though I did feel quite thirsty when I first got on and didn't drink much water as it was quite warm. How much water and potassium do I need daily? I feel like I drink plenty of water, and I'm able to drink some just about anytime that I'm thirsty, with few exceptions. Though what had happened after I made my comment was that I had went to lift some weights, drank some water and then returned to the treadmill, I was on it at 7 spee…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:58 AM
1

Thanks for the advice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:52 AM
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Thanks for the info
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:23 PM
2

What's RICE? or do you mean actual rice haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:00 PM
2

Maybe I have this, what can I do to help fix this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:10 PM
1

One or two dicks in the mouth??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:50 PM
1

Today at the gym, when I was on the treadmill, my right calf muscle started to hurt a bit and I decided to get off the machine, I had this in the past and just pushed through it. But this time I'm wondering if that isn't a good idea, does anyone here know what might be causing this? I'm going at a fairly fast walk, no need to jog at this speed, I think so at least, I'm a bit taller so maybe I just have longer legs and can get away with walking haha. Anyways, I'd like to know if this is a result …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:50 PM
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With three men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:42 PM
3

But what if it was subtle enough? Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:17 PM
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You're not supposed to know when it happens haha I can't answer this question, I don't know at all haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:15 PM
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The post on men being gaslighted is really demoralizing, I wonder to what degree I've been manipulated. I see that some women there are trying to argue against the general theme of the post, but many of the arguments are flimsy and fall short, some of which are simply arguments for the sake of arguing, they don't really hold up if you were to take the time to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:00 AM
2

Why not make this a post instead of a comment on daily chat?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:55 AM
1

I feel like this is a woman larping as a man because of that other thread haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:46 AM
1

But women don't want to be approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:07 PM
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Well Ive never had sex and never had the opportunity for casual sex either, so I can't say how I would react in that situation, I think I would if I knew her but would refuse otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:47 PM
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Well personally speaking, I have a height requirement/preference for women, I'm 6'4" so I don't want a woman that is too short compared to me. Also I hear about men that like 'Amazonian' women, like tall and muscular that pushes them around a bit haha - Death by snu-snu hahahahahaha I agree with your part about makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:43 PM
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I think this is just a perk of being attractive (it's called pretty privilege?), even women need a lot of genetics to be attractive, and I mean actually attractive, not the "men have lower standards" attractive haha This is why attractive guys get an easier time with women, same way attractive women get more attention, both sides of the same coin in this case haha We average and below average people need to humble ourselves more and not make comparisons to those of us who've been born with excep…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:58 PM
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I'd be flattered even if a gay guy asked me out haha It's nice to know I got something going on at least for somebody haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:35 AM
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The threads recently have made for poor reading material haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:07 AM
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I'm still super fat, It's gonna slow down a lot soon haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:17 PM
1

How would you define an undesirable man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:38 PM
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Why do you go to auctions? Is it a hobby or a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:27 PM
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Thanks haha, I post updates here so I feel pressure to keep making progress haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:49 PM
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I lost 4lbs this past week, had to go to the gym of my usual off days to get this much haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:45 PM
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I've actually seen a few women here say that they don't mind a higher n-count, and a ex-virgin woman that actually wanted a guy with a few previous partners, though it turned out he had a ton (large penis haha) and she seemed a bit unhappy about it but she seems to have just put up with it. So even in that extreme scenario there is at least an example of a woman that doesn't care, or at least doesn't care enough to do anything in such situations. Though it may be due to her lack of experience ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:39 PM
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I see every now and then, guys on this sub admitting that they've slept with women who were in a relationship (she cheated) and they usually explain this as the fact that he is better off than the woman's spouse in terms of his physical appearance (ex. being muscular), or that the spouse is boring in some way (he has the average character traits women seek in an LTR, I assume) while the PPD poster is more exciting. Seemingly, from what these posters are saying, the vast majority of women will ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:29 AM
1

Hilarious sub haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:16 AM
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That's what the average guy can get? There's no way that's enough for women to care haha I think roids are the only way to get an attractive body haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:16 AM
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At least you're self aware haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:47 AM
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I somewhat agree with you on your last point, but I feel like seeing as women are now dating multiple guys, it means that you'll have competition with guys that made it past her filters so you'll have to beat them all to get her haha Even the timing is important, like if some guy is already on the third date when you get your first, he's got a big lead already and is probably going to beat you too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:45 AM
2

And just now you were calling people out 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:42 AM
1

Maybe you have an irresistible ass and she has a BBC dildo strap-on. Do the math champ haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:34 AM
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Can you provide a picture? I always feel that when I try to find one online that the guy is secretly on roids haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:32 AM
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Good to see that you're in the right place of mind on this, it's kinda stupid that she went on a date when she still isn't over her ex, seems like she really did waste your time and gave you that false hope too, maybe you can try again later though haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:31 AM
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Don't let the most likely outcome get to you, most guys have their first dates fail, it's just the first way it is. It sucks to experience it, but keep moving forward and look forward to better dates haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:07 AM
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When I was a kid I crashed a friend's 4x4 haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:41 AM
2

That's right, look at the positives haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:30 AM
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Don't let it get to you, move on, look forward and focus on your future
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:22 AM
2

I don't go for any women at all, none of them wants to be approached and dating apps are practically a scam for average guys, let alone for below average such as myself. My preference is actually for slightly chubby, obviously a 10/10 would be great but I'm aware that I'm not good enough for that haha I'm okay with women that are in my league and I'm not unhappy about that or anything like that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:41 PM
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I'm 24 years old, so I suppose I'm in that dick pic generation your sister mentioned haha I honestly think you're just an abnormal woman with different tastes than the usual, the vast majority of women absolutely do not give fat guys a chance, they don't even give the vast majority of thin guys a chance either haha I'm aware the emotional element is important for women, but again the general appearance of the man judges whether or not she gives him the chance to prove himself to her 'emotionally…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:12 PM
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I'm not better off than you think haha I don't mean to be rude or dismissive of your experience, but anecdotal evidence is hardly viable at all, especially when it goes against the obvious norm haha Women tend to have very high standards for men's bodies and although some women can overlook some things, the vast majority are unwilling to overlook obesity. I'm 310lbs and I'm 6'4" tall, I like to think that I don't look extremely bad, but I know that I don't look good either. I'm far more likely t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:35 PM
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I've had friends that were girls in the past, I can't say that I have any now and I can't say that it's easy for me to even get any more currently. Another problem I have is that on a few occasions I've had women act like I was following them on the sidewalk, and this has made me feel insecure about my general appearance towards women, especially as the most recent women nervously looked back at me a few times, I felt horrible and just awkwardly kept walking forward but slower. I can understand …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:29 PM
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I'm not in the hookup culture stuff at all, I've never done it and I don't even have the ability to start. I feel like I'm missing out on a lot because I know that many people my age out there are doing it and that if I ever get married I'm likely to end up with a woman that has a very high n-count while I've either got a very small one or she's my only ever sexual partner, which is a major insecurity for me. It really irritates me a bit because I know I'm only ever going to fail regardless of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:25 PM
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Massive claims and no sources haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:27 PM
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That's not really what she did, she had planned to date the guy and even cancelled the date on the same day. And of course, there's the fact that there may have been other guys too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:59 PM
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She still had the intent to do it, she literally cancelled on the same day of date. It's degrading to me because I have some semblance of self-respect, you're likely one of those 30+ n-count guys that doesn't care anymore haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:56 PM
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Cancelling on something that you planned to do because something unexpected happened doesn't magically absolve her of the intent haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:55 PM
2

What's so bad about living in Canada haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:54 PM
1

I live in Canada, what are the odds for me then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:30 PM
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I've never tried dating, and honestly speaking, stuff like this really pushes me away from the idea of even starting. And it is degrading, I don't want to argue about it so let's jut leave it as a difference of opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:29 PM
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Having to compete on the apps is hard enough but now you gotta compete with other guys that get past her filters too, absolutely insane haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:28 PM
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She was dating multiple people, she cancelled because she hit an important milestone with one of the guys, so she cut off the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:27 PM
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Women actually date multiple people at the same time? How degrading is this wow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:04 PM
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I feel like losing your virginity to someone you care for has a special meaning, and in the best case scenario a couple is formed by virgins who view each other as their own special someone. I understand that the first time isn't meant to be amazing for a number of reasons, but I don't think of the physical elements of sex as the most important, but rather the emotional element. In my opinion the bonding that sex has on a couple is far more important than any sexual satisfaction that they may ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:26 PM
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I feel like I should give up on the idea of dating and relationships before I even start, is this a good idea? I've seen enough evidence on this sub to make me feel like I'll have a horrible time just to find a partner, and than she will likely not be very good to begin with. On top of this, I'm so far behind in terms of experience for anything involving women that I'm likely going to end up with some super sexually experienced woman with like 10+ partners and I've had none besides her, besides …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:40 PM
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Horses are dignified and noble animals, they're the representation of power and prestige, so often to do you see important historical figures depicted on horseback (ex. Napoleon) as a method to improve their appearance. By sitting on a horse you improve your standing among people, for example, people quite often say that men that are tall are at an advantage as they are head and shoulders above people, but on a horse, even your ass is above them what does that say about them? That's right, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:36 PM
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Confidence is a combination of how good you feel about yourself. It's admirable because it must imply that the individual has something about themselves to be proud of. I think developing a muscular body would give most men a good confidence boost, but they'd get a bigger boost from sitting on a horse. With that muscular body you need to stand up straight, shoulders back, chin up and eyes forward. This should make you look confident, but for a bigger boost you should sit on a horse. Keep the hor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:51 PM
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I feel like most of them don't even want virgin guys, just low n-count guys (one of them directly told me that's what she wanted on this sub, and I've seen a few other virgin women share the same thoughts), this is another problem that makes things worse for me. I really can't believe the insane amount of different ways that this whole process is made to be as difficult as possible for me, it's incredibly demoralizing, especially knowing that I'm far more likely to find a pretend virgin than a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:35 PM
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Really strange at the amount of women lying to hide their virginity, how annoying to hear this when I want to find a fellow virgin and now have to put up with the fact that they're likely going to purposely hide themselves from me 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:37 PM
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Buy a horse
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:47 AM
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My respect for you has increased ten-fold haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:09 PM
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FIRST
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:00 PM
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I will keep going haha it's my only chance to get a gf haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:26 PM
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I lost 8.5lbs the previous week haha I think I cut loose a bit too much by riding off the high of success haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:26 PM
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Sorry haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:20 PM
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I lost a pitiful 2lbs this past week haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:09 PM
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I'm glad to hear it, don't let the fact that most men assume the worst get to you, it's only natural to have a pessimistic view when it's reinforced constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:45 AM
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Women (and men) with higher body counts tend to come with a whole list of negative consequences as a result of it. For example, general trends of increased divorce rate, reduced happiness, reduced martial + sexual satisfaction and whatever else I can't remember. If you don't want to keep a low n-count for men then do it for yourself haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:35 AM
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Well maybe you can just get better at jumping? Practice makes perfect and if you train your legs enough you might get enough air to make the dunk at your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:03 PM
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Invalidating your relationship because you want to have sex by any means?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:02 PM
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I actually do look at before and after pictures of people who've lost weight as a way to motivate me but I never knew about this subreddit, thank you 🙂🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:29 PM
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Oh haha sorry my mistake, if it makes you feel better, you could still dunk on a standard rim if you jumped off a stool or a ladder haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:09 PM
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I'm 312lbs from my last weight check, and I plan to get close to 200-220 range, I plan on being fit and muscular, I want to do a complete 180 degree turn and fulyl transform myself haha In the past I had actually lost 50lbs but regained a bunch (roughly 25-30lbs) when literally everyone I knew got me chocolate for Christmas haha I'll never make that mistake again 😤😤😤 If I had it in my to make such a big loss in weight before, than I've got it in me to do it again and to keep going haha I only re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:46 PM
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Creep?? It was just a joke, the chart here shows I'm in a great position haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:29 PM
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Haha I'm only teasing, I know being tall helps me a lot, the chart that got posted has my height as the 3rd best haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:27 PM
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Why did you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:51 PM
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When are we supposed to approach women? Like how do we even get dates, if they don't want us to approach in person and they don't use dating apps in significant numbers??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:46 PM
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I'm 6'4" 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:37 PM
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How did women start to out earn men? It used to be the other way around but through Feminism it has completely swung the other way. And all of this within a fairly short period of the.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:30 PM
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I'm in 3rd place haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:05 AM
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Romance haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:49 AM
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Thanks haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:44 AM
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I know that many of the more hostile members are just a niche group, and that most Feminists are reasonable women. I sympathize with women's issues because I know that most Feminists/women are reasonable, but I don't identify as a Feminist because the extreme members are too much of a turn off for me. I won't go out of my way for all of what Feminism fights for, but I'd help out if possible for more substantial matters such as abortion, maybe I'm just lazy sorry haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:54 PM
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wat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:45 PM
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I wonder how an actual woman's list would compare to this haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:44 PM
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I suppose you're right when I think about it more, this is more of a better safe than sorry type of thing, so I shouldn't say it unless I know her situation first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:41 PM
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I never thought about it honestly, but I always kind of liked the idea of trying to be as self sufficient as possible, grow food, raise animals and hunting for all food sources. I know it's hard but I feel like the health benefits would be worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:39 PM
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I guess one hobby that is guaranteed to make someone more attractive is exercise haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:42 PM
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It's things like this that make me count my blessings haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:35 PM
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The parts where the women are a bit too hostile towards men is part of it, but also constantly pushing things that have been disproven like the pay gap. And fighting for 'equality' even though women are now doing better than men, largely as a result of them taking from men (ex. taking away opportunities via women's only scholarships and grants - and establishing a 'culture' that makes creating such scholarships and grants more of a norm than gender neutral scholarship and grants). It's not reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:33 PM
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I suppose you're right, but I don't think the odds of that happening are high?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:07 PM
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I'm very family oriented, cooperative, willing to make concessions and compromises when necessary, working on myself to improve (weight loss and eventually muscle building), quite tall, large build, raised with good values by my parents, raised in two parent households, current college student, virgin and willing to wait for marriage, sympathetic to women's issues (not a feminist though) and whatever else I forgot haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:17 PM
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I think the nice old lady deleted her account
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:50 AM
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Sorry, I've already had my opinion changed haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:33 AM
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Isn't there something like a sort of Stockholm syndrome for this type of thing? Maybe not 100% the same thing but somewhat similar?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:30 AM
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I think metoo was completely necessary, I think it's really unfortunate for women to feel like they can't come forward with the fact that they've been sexually assaulted or raped. Infamous cases like Bill Cosby and Harvey Weinstein are great examples as both men had been walking free for decades after assaulting over a dozen women each. I had actually not thought of neurotic or especially insecure men when I had made my comment, though after chatting with some women here I came to realize that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:08 AM
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Wow I never knew about these rates, thank you. I completely agree with your last point 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:02 AM
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I think attractive men are given the benefit of the doubt for their actions (a perk of being attractive, like pretty privilege) and unattractive men are treated more harshly for their actions, while average men are more in the middle and what it is that they do is more important with their appearance not holding any significant sway. I suppose similar things can happen with attractive, unattractive and average women too, it's just that they don't seem to happen often enough to become all that we…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:42 AM
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I don't think those women even want to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:38 AM
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They should open carry a shotgun
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:38 AM
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I still find some people here to be a bit of a pain in the ass but I try not to let them get to me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:29 AM
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I quite often hear that women are incredibly subtle with the signals they send, like nearly telepathic levels of visibility haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:28 AM
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No not at all, I've made multiple comments in this thread saying that I'm against the murders. Please don't jump to such conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:14 AM
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You're welcome haha, I was bit of a troll in the past but the few nice women in this sub slowly got to me and I decided to become nicer overall haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:12 AM
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This is a bit depressing haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:08 AM
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But men are expected to approach? You're not only saying that men shouldn't approach but they should even ignore women. How are people meant to start a relationship then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:05 AM
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I'm quite sorry that you experienced those types of things, I know I've heard a story or two that made me cringe a bit and I don't even have experience dating or approaching haha But my point was that when women establish the 'creepy guy' norm it makes it harder for men to approach because they don't want to be seen as creepy, but I've had my opinion changed already and now see that this isn't really a viable argument. So I now completely agree with your last point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:02 AM
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They're like +500lbs haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:59 AM
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I actually agree with just about everything you said in this comment, thank you, it's given me something to think about and has made me realize that I might be working against myself to a degree by thinking that things are worse than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:54 AM
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Okay I see what you mean now haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:53 AM
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Haha I got multiple people here humbling for me being a dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:52 AM
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How exactly does this work with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:31 AM
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Sorry, I had conflated the downvotes my comment got onto you, thinking that you had made one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:27 AM
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I can understand what you mean by this, I often hear that at times it can become a bit overwhelming to get approached so often, and I of course understand what you mean by women's spouses being unhappy with constant attention on their partner. But what I meant to say is that establishing norms such as the 'creepy guy' one creates an demoralizing atmosphere for men that makes approaching more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:25 AM
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Let me be more specific, what I mean is that when women create a norm, such as the 'creepy guy' one, then the men that they do want to approach them will hear about it, and it will lower their own confidence to approach women, and in however many cases may prevent him from approaching however many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:23 AM
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I think it would be nice if women made themselves more approachable, and that they didn't establish certain norms like "creepy guys" that make the idea of approaching even more intimidating than it already is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:16 AM
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Yes I know that, I'm just trying to say what I think most guys that think this way mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:14 AM
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Alrighty haha, well I proved it wrong with Pierce Brosnan's case haha And obviously there's plenty of other relationships like that too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:13 AM
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I'm just trying to be the messenger don't shoot me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:12 AM
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Yes they do there's BBW, SBBW, SSBBW and SSSBBW.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:11 AM
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The government saves money with these laws by disincentivizing child abandonment and preventing whatever portion of men from effectively mass producing single mothers. And of course forcing those who don't want to pay to actually pay up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:09 AM
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From what the study says both overweight men and women have the same opinions as those of healthy weight men and women, this is to say that if you again read in between the lines, than fat women have a preference for same weight couples even when both are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:04 AM
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I actually spoke with a woman here that was raised by a single mother, she seemed to be really nice and a good mother herself with a stable relationship. It was quite nice to see considering the norm for children raised by single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:17 PM
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I think the argument would be more like the fact that in the vast majority of cases she would've been just like those women in the past had she been in their shoes. Trying to frame the idea that the whole point is to 'punish' someone for a 'crime' that they didn't commit seems dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:09 PM
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This isn't really a counter argument haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:01 PM
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It's falsifiable because it's common sense that you're wrong haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:01 PM
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This seems a bit negative though. Like are you saying that all women gain weight once they get into a relationship? Have you done that? How much did you gain?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:23 PM
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What am I supposed to do? Find a study on whether or not men commit to overweight women? Do you know how vague that is haha What's so strange is that it's already well known how many men have lower standards, or a greater variety in standards, yet you're seemingly ignoring this much to satisfy your own biases. Are you overweight? How high is your BMI? Send me some pictures? I've got a BMI of about 38 haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:22 PM
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This is easily falsifiable, there are plenty of fat men with fat wives that show them off to their friends, who are probably also fat haha ​ You even have thin/fit guys that are with fat women and have them around their friends. I remember a somewhat famous case of this was with the actor Pierce Brosnan saying that he still loves his wife and finds her to be very beautiful after he was asked about whether or not her weight gain bothered him. He's an incredibly successful actor, and he and his wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:29 PM
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Well I'm mixed race myself, so I suppose that I'm an outcome of an outlet of increased unity. I suppose most Canadians, myself included, are just fairly kind to each other, we don't have very strong negative feelings between the races, the only real one being between Whites and Natives, but this is mitigated significantly by the fact that the two groups tend to live apart, and the Natives that do live near Whites, tend to be Metis, whom are actually mixed race peoples themselves with European an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:22 PM
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I think the study implies that people have a bias to prefer couples that are similar to themselves, this is likely why you commonly hear about how most people get together with their 'looksmatch' and how most couples tend to be fairly equal in other variables, such as income level and educational attainments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:16 PM
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Well I'm glad you're healthy haha If your proportions bother you just do some exercise to sculpt yourself a bit and you'll be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:15 PM
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This is probably the symptom to something, you should do some research, it might be diabetes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:10 PM
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Some men would, but quite a few have a preference for larger women. For example, if you read in between the lines of the source, you can see that overweight men effectively have a preference for overweight women, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:08 PM
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This is very interesting ,can you provide an example for this? What I assume to be the popular consensus, is that because men have more open and relaxed standards for a woman's body, that or their preferences are more varied, than wouldn't that make it so that men would be the ones to care less? As women have, comparatively speaking, more strict standards on the physical appearance of their spouse. And can you describe what you mean by women's understating that physical attraction is personal, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:06 PM
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I think if the guy rode in on a horse, lassoed her and dragged her off into the sunset, then no woman could deny him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:59 PM
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If you read in between the lines you'll find that this is how most people think, even fat people when it comes to their own mate selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:56 PM
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I think most people don't really pay attention all that much, but this is because the process is subconscious (they don't need to put in the effort because it's automatic), I remember hearing about how people automatically judge someone as the first thing they do when they see that person. Also this is just a view into how people make their mate selection choices a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:55 PM
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Yeah this is something that I got by reading in between the lines so to speak, it makes me wonder how deeply this effects partner selection on an individual basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:50 PM
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Do you do anything to reach across divides in Canada and if so what? The main difference that I see is that Canada is more 'unified' I suppose, like we have a roughly 60/40 split for left/right wing politics, while you guys are more 50/50. We also have more diversity in our bigots haha, I remember our PM had done a radio interview talking about taking in Syrian migrants and tons of callers with thick Caribbean accents (Jamaican mostly) called in and just started blasting him over it. So our poli…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:52 PM
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The study just had so many parts haha, and they were all stretched out and had a bunch of numbers in side that most people wouldn't understand so I decided to just spam TLDRs haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:46 PM
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What I meant by the divided thing was just societal polarization, mostly around politics and such, not specifically about the abortion debate, though it does still play a role to whatever degree. As for the Medicaid thing, my source did list it rather than Medicare, so it is in fact the $521,000,000,000 cost I listed before. Sorry for any confusion haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:31 PM
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I'd also like it if women had greater choice in their abilities to dictate their lives when it comes to child-bearing, I find it really unfortunate that many women are denied this and are having t ogive birth to children that they don't want to have for whatever reasons they may have. Though your country is far too divided and too many people on both sides are playing a part in worsening this, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:40 PM
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I would think that in 99% of these situations that both spouses are on the same page for the abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:37 PM
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It is tough to evaluate how much the US is spending as we don't have here a comparison to what other countries spend per family/individual. You in Canada have a population of some 38 million while we in the US have a population of some 375 million. Is the US spending really that high or does it just reflect the large population of the US? I can understand the logic behind this, but I'm not 100% sold on the idea that population differences are all it takes. For example, Canada spent around $308,0…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:14 PM
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Yes I can understand what you mean, but I feel like the wording you're using is in a way projecting this sentiment onto all men, to imply that all men act this way. While my argument is that this is quite uncommon, and that many abortions are already done by women who have children and who are likely to be with stable spouses. Keep in mind, I'm not trying to minimize the issue at all, I think it's very unfortunate and abhorrent for it to ever occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:45 PM
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Yes, I'd prefer it if this wasn't a thing at all, it's quite depressing honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:56 PM
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I can understand that some guys might become jealous and such, but I highly doubt that it's a significant portion of the population that does this or the problem would be significantly more common. Also there are all sorts of stats like the frequency in which whatever significant percentage of couples have sex that is commonly posted in order to counter more negative red/black pill guys, on this sub. These same stats can be used to counter this argument that men are killing their spouses due to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:55 PM
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Unfortunately as many states are making abortion illegal and access to birth control is really tough, it would probably be impossible to limit the number of children someone has. I understand that these are issues, but though careful planning and use of more basic forms of birth control such as condoms, unplanned many pregnancies can be avoided. It's not a 100% fix, but I don't think abortion should be considered as a form of birth control, it's a termination and not precisely the same thing. (I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:50 PM
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Well these cases are still quite uncommon, obviously haha So I still believe the increase wouldn't be substantial.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:33 PM
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Canada does have abortion and such, but the abortion clinics are far and few between so women are having to travel significant distances at times in order to get an abortion. The US actually does spend a lot of money on welfare and such, and spends most of it on the poor. So I don't think it's 100% a viable argument to make that the US isn't doing enough, and policies restricting children would directly alleviate the issue by preventing impoverished children from being born. Source 1: Welfare Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:30 PM
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The whole thing was just a joke haha But I suppose your comment does make some sense, but at the same time the better he is the more strength he has in negotiation and the more likely women wouldn't want to lose him too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:06 PM
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Most men wouldn't do this, they tend to actually care about the children, it's mandated because the government is trying to save money and forces it on the man, and the culture at the time of the creation of such laws was far more traditional than it is today, which would've affected decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:12 PM
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I work in a refrigerated room, it's -1C at all times and I hate it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:07 PM
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Although it's unfortunate, it won't be too much of an increase. I think I heard that most abortions are done by women who already have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:03 PM
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I take it you are in the US? I am too. I'm from Canada, but I don't think the differences between our countries are all that extreme. ​ Unfortunately the US has too many kids already living in poverty. Would such a law that would likely put more kids in poverty, be offset by saving lives? Maybe it would. Although perhaps it would plunge more single families into a life that in and of itself becomes a breeding ground for violence. Hmmm . . . . I wish we could run computer modeling of this sort of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:51 PM
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Not just a millionaire, but a billionaire, and the guy would have to be an 11/10 Giga-Chad, he'd have to give them horseback rides on the beach daily, he'd have to send them to the hospital with cunninglingus induced heart attacks daily, he'd have to fly them to exotic countries weekly, he'd have to be a 3 star Michelin chef, he'd have to cook and bake daily, he'd need to have a monster 16inch ding-dong with 3lbs ping-pong balls and he'd need a nice personality too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:55 PM
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I can see now how it can really add up with enough different motives, I was thinking that most of it would be for largely the same reason, and had not thought deeply enough to consider scenarios like you had described, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:51 PM
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I agree that the men who kill their spouses aren't very rational, but the goal isn't to solve the problem, the goal is to mitigate the issue. Even a small reduction in the murder rate can be considered a success, as lives have been saved. Of course, the preference would be for these murders to no longer occur, but realistically speaking this is wishful thinking, and the only available option we have is mitigation. I wouldn't fully consider signing off of the children as exclusively financial, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:50 PM
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I would think that maybe men having the ability to sign off of babies, and no longer have to financially support the baby/child would be a way to reduce the murder rate? The vast majority of men will still pay for their children, while the scumbags that are willing to murder can take the 'easy way out' so to speak, and lives can be saved. I think this would help even women who have abusive husbands, though probably not as much, and generally speaking the men that would murder their pregnant spou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:34 PM
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Women worth keeping wouldn't agree to this anyways haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:29 PM
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Seriously? Is there any truth to this being common in the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:27 PM
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Why is it that these women are getting killed? I can assume it's their spouse doing it, but what is the primary motivation? I remember that during the Covid lockdowns and such, plenty of children were getting kidnapped by their fathers in my area. I'm wondering if this sort of extreme act is done under similar pressures/motives as the murders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:12 PM
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I think of sex as more of an intimate relationship building type thing, not the sort of thing that you just toss around, even with close friends. I'm not 100% sure on how to word it properly so it's a bit deeper than what I had described. Do your have the similar views that I've described? Because I do agree with your original comment, and I'm wondering if this is because we're on the same page for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:23 AM
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I remember I once read stuff like this, it was a bunch of women talking about how they would act stupid in order to make their husbands feel better when they solved issues by themselves haha I suppose it's nice to want to make your spouse feel good but this isn't really the best way to do it haha Personally speaking I'd hate something like this haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:59 AM
9

Can you be more specific to what you mean? Are you saying that whatever reasoning that's commonly used by promiscuous women to justify their actions is unviable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:48 AM
3

What's surrendered wife? I've never heard of that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:47 AM
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Maybe this is because the fun flashy girls are more approachable? They give off more of a welcoming energy? While the more quite girls give off the "don't approach me" type of energy There is this thing where guys are called creeps and such when they approach or whatever, so there is a level of hesitation, besides the usual fear and nervousness when it comes to approaching, that makes some types of girls easier to approach than others. There is also a common thing said to guys who don't approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:46 AM
3

I hope it's the dream for the lady I meet some day haha And I hope she's an A from OP's list
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:06 AM
1

I see what you mean, my idea was that the person would be introduced and the the two of them would spend some time together to see if they were compatible, before they decided on whether or not to start a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:02 PM
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Well I can understand the risk you're describing, with things not working out and feeling a certain pressure to preform. But I feel like your case is an unlikely scenario. Like you're dealing with a spouse that seems to have a sort of 'culture shock' with you and vice versa, this would complicate things obviously. Like if you and here were born in the same country and had the same cultures growing up, then the relationship would be more stable and more likely to succeed, would you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:42 PM
1

I can understand what you mean, but these are just normal pictures, not like they're posing in a sexy way, just standing their for a normal photo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:54 PM
1

It's hard everywhere haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:41 PM
0

No haha, I don't ask them to send those types of photos, mostly just face and body shots, fully clothed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:14 PM
1

Wow you slut haha 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:13 PM
1

I'll wait a bit and see how I feel after some more weight loss, thank you 🙂🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:06 PM
1

The mean ones are probably still mean haha, I think I mostly get lurkers and bit very active members
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:05 PM
1

Thank you. I really do hope my height helps me, I've had some women here say that it's a big plus haha I hope that I can get some experience some time, I feel like maybe I should just go out and start asking now, just so that I become desensitized to rejection. I hear that some guys go out and get rejected like 200 times in order to feel nothing from it anymore, so maybe I should consider doing that too. I'm a bit nervous about the idea, and I'm not so sure how I'll take it honestly haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:40 PM
1

It really was nice haha The two of them were both my age, the first was on the same page with me a lot and the second had a lot in common with me, it was a really nice experience each time and I really enjoyed the process haha I even have a third that hasn't gotten back to me yet after she had contacted me yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:14 PM
1

I just came off my second Reddit chat conversation with a woman from here and it was yet another really nice experience, ladies send me pics and I will judge you and we can talk about it, it's a lot of fun doing this haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:04 PM
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I think it's obvious for some, like if a woman has a tramp stamp that says "Bukkake Queen" than you can assume she gets around haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:38 PM
1

I think it's normal for women not to care, even I don't care and I'm a relationship minded guy haha Same thing with how society doesn't care about most homeless being men, and the suicide rates too. It's like a cultural/instinctive norm not to care at all about men's issues I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:15 PM
1

I used this website, and it says that my BMI is 37.98, at 6'4" and 312lbs. I think I might be okay with the socialization part, but once I get more comfortable, I'd be awkward a bit at first because I'd be nervous. I suppose experience would help deal with this haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:16 PM
3

must be a different culture or whatever at my school then haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:46 PM
1

I will have to persist, I suppose that's my only real choice if I want to succeed, and beyond that being negative about it won't put me in the right place of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:43 PM
1

I'm currently dieting and I'm doing fairly well so far. I would like to try dating one day, I'm just a bit torn because I know it's going to be incredibly difficult, and many women are going to have me jump through hoops and preform like some circus animal for them haha - at least that's what I heard dating is like for a man. ​ The women do nothing for personal partners thing was just me trolling, I decided to stop doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:28 PM
2

So you're saying that the quality of the guys that you're able to attract is high enough in your opinion, and because of that, you think of dating as a waste of time, as you'd rather be alone than to take such a man as a spouse? This is really weird haha, I feel like you either have extreme standards or maybe your own appearance only attracts certain guys. If you're comfortable with it, can you send me a picture of yourself through Reddit chat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:23 PM
1

Is that so? How tall were the tallest?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:20 PM
2

I'll try not to let it get to me, odds are I'm not going to have much in terms of success for dating and relationships anyways. I'm likely to run into a lot of failures, one after the other, and may end up in a bad relationship anyways once I'm in my 30s, because I've had such a delayed start I won't really have the time to find someone fast enough before all my options are jaded and/or single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:19 PM
1

I've been on and off this sub for a few years, I've never dated because I never really had much for the confidence to approach, and I just knew that because I'm overweight, that all the women I approach are going to turn me down, even fat ones haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:17 PM
2

You wanna go? 😤😤😤 Think you can take me? 😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:15 PM
1

How depressing haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:47 AM
1

Someone from here called me out with a direct username link thing in a random thread in another sub reddit, I have no idea who it is because they used some random alt account haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:28 AM
1

You don't get it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:41 AM
1

You're in a dark spot if you think one single dumb girl is adequate evidence haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:30 AM
2

I'm glad that you're already taking steps to help her, and I'm glad that you came out so well even when raised by a single mother in defiance of the usual outcomes of such people, it's a very reassuring thing to see. I would really recommend that you help her find a spouse that is an especially nice man, this would be the absolute best case scenario for her and she can effectively be guaranteed a good and happy life with this. Best of luck to you, your daughter, and the rest of your family. Than…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:10 AM
1

I don't think that I'd get sucked back in easily, I've made very good progress and have been going to the gym very consistently. I'm also talking with a friend about the progress we each make at the gym. I'd like to help glowup get out of her phase if possible, so I'm gonna keep bothering her about it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:03 AM
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Gimpgirl alt account haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:28 AM
4

Thanks haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:27 AM
3

You should put her in positions that push her comfort boundaries a bit and let her take charge such as to have her order food for the family at restaurants. She might not like it but you have to help her build her confidence, she might end up going through some hardships in the future if she doesn't. Are you not worried about how she'll do when it comes to relationships? Especially those that are sexual and eventually marriage? I can understand why you think she'd end up like me, but as a girl, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:26 AM
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Based off the physical? Are you completely blind to the extreme variety of body types men are into? For example, you made multiple posts about fat/overweight women, and one was just a picture of a chubby/overweight woman, she was fucking HOT and a bunch of guys in that thread agree with me. There's even guys into BBW, SBBW, SSBBW and SSSBBW. Like holy shit, if there are guys that are rock hard for women that are like 400-500 pounds of lard than there's obviously going to be plenty of guys that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:09 AM
1

Because they're degenerates
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:02 AM
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They ran because they themselves were raised by single mothers haha Now this is a chicken and the egg argument haha --- Go back to making fat posts, I really enjoyed them haha Here's a link that might get you into the feel for it; https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/fd24/e74997d138c05b7418ab2d638a03eb5e532f.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:00 AM
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If you love your partner than you're not settling haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:43 AM
6

Aren't there facts on how men raised by single mothers tend to come out as criminals? And that many school shooters, and mass shooters were raised by single mothers? Why jump to such massive conclusions that effectively demonizes an entire gender? While disregarding the critical role of the other? My comment is NOT an attack on women!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:28 AM
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your welcome haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:24 AM
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Ladies, how big of a deal breaker is baldness for you? And what do you think your friends think about baldness? Don't hold back, I can take it 😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:14 AM
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I don't think it's right to withhold this information for serious relationships, I can understand that it's private but there should be a level of openness expected in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:00 PM
1

Not like these ones no haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:49 PM
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They have sex with gay men and get HIV, then have sex with women and give them HIV, and then the women have sex with straight men and give them HIV. Now the straights have sex with eachother and spread a disease that wasn't really an issue for them in the past all around their group. You now have the situation from your tweet haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:13 PM
1

Oh god 🤮🤮🤮 Edit: HE GOT FUCKED TO DEATH BY A HORSE!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:10 PM
1

Very impressive, good job 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:09 PM
5

It's mostly because of the bi-men that this happened I bet haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:08 PM
1

Please explain haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:07 PM
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I suppose that's true, but it's also partially a lack of courage, and it's especially bad for men as they have to approach and it's well known how incredibly difficult dating is for men haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:29 PM
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Lacking self-confidence haha I think this is my problem, if I don't change this I'll never lose my virginity unless my mortician is a necrophile hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:22 PM
2

thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:21 PM
1

thanks haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:20 PM
1

Are you actually undesirable? Can you send me pictures of yourself? I've done this with a woman on this sub before and actually have another one on hold for this so I don't mind at all haha ​ Another thing you should consider would be to approach men yourself. It's a bit strange saying this as a virgin guy myself, but be careful if you choose another virgin guy, he might be a bit bitter after years of loneliness and rejection. But you're still much better off getting together with a virgin man e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:14 PM
2

I already know that haha But do you have anything else to add?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:10 PM
1

I know it's hard to find a virgin, but I've seen multiple self claimed virgin women on this sub that are around my age (most a few years younger), it makes me a bit more hopeful. I really want to find one if I can I really like the idea of being equal in terms of n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:09 PM
2

What does this mean? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:08 PM
4

Why not do any dating at all? It's very easy for women so you should've had many opportunities go your way? And as a 23yo it should be even easier now, why hold yourself back?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:06 PM
1

haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:49 PM
2

Thanks, but I feel like there is something special about exclusivity, I know that studies show these people tend to have stronger marriages, so they might value each other more and as a result form a stronger bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:49 PM
2

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:47 PM
1

So it would help me stick out more is what you're saying. I really want to attract a good partner, around my age, family orientated, not too many past sexual partners (preferably zero - I also like the idea of chastity until marriage), I know I can't be too picky but I'd like to remain at least somewhat optimistic haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:41 PM
2

I'm 24yo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:26 PM
1

I don't think it's horse girls only haha Most people think horses are noble animals, and sitting on a horse gives the rider a sense of power, prestige and all sorts of other good traits that they emanate and effect surrounding people with. Probably why important historical figures are often depicted riding horses for their statues and monuments haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:24 PM
4

Like a cowboy hat and some cowboy boots? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:16 PM
2

I mostly just stick to this sub, I don't jump into red/black pill subs or websites. ​ How did you meet your boyfriend? I've always liked the idea of just staying with the first girlfriend that I get but I'm too insecure to do it when I know she will more than likely not be a virgin too, I think it would be degrading for her to be in such an elevated position as my only sexual partner yet I can't be the same for her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:15 PM
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I don't want to be alone haha I have to find a partner, I want to have a family and I want to be a father some day. I don't want to be alone when I could be bonding with someone that I care for, and building a better life with them, I know that I'll be more complete, mentally and spiritually if I was to fall into a genuine mutual love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:13 PM
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I still believe horses are the fastest way to boost SMV by like 2-3 points for most people, would it be smart to buy a horse in the future? The Horsepill is really tempting me, also I just want to ride a horse haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:11 PM
1

Wouldn't being nice invite kindness in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:07 PM
2

so its an absolutely crazy emotional roller coaster haha where is this quote from?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:06 PM
1

So let's say I had a dating app, and I put a picture of the garden into the app, it would improve my odds? I'm wanting to find someone that's similar to me and that shares the same hobbies, I don't want to accidently draw in women that aren't very compatible, not that I'd get any to begin with haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:04 PM
2

Personally speaking, I've never tried getting into dating at all. I always assumed that it's going to be absolutely terrible for me and more than likely going to leave me bitter and alone. This sub has effectively hammered that thought into my head but now it's somewhat more specific as to why it's going to be hard for me and I now understand more that much of my success is down to the whims of the women that I'm trying to date. I'd like to take this opportunity to ask anyone with more experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:41 PM
2

I had some girls approach me when I was fat, balding, and had bad acne. This was in highschool. I'm 6'4" tall, I think the height helped a lot, especially as I was the tallest guy in the school. Though I did socialize quite well and made a lot of jokes constantly, which made me somewhat popular, again the height helped. I was even taller than all the teachers haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:01 PM
1

I want to talk about whether or not gardening is attractive haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:51 PM
1

I think more reasonable people should call out the problematic ones then, it would be a step in the right direction haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:50 PM
2

I'm starting to think that being a somewhat misogynistic asshole isn't right haha Maybe I should start being nicer to women? I still think a lot of women here are a pain in the ass, but there are a few really nice ones and I don't want to insult them directly or indirectly. I enjoy the nice conversations more too, though they hardly ever occur haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:12 PM
2

Why is everyone always giving her such a tough time?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:23 PM
1

I'm from Canada haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:22 PM
1

Most guys do like what you explained, but they like all sorts of other things too. In fact, if you go back to one of your deleted posts, the one that's just a picture of a woman, you'd find a comment that I had made claiming that this woman had my ideal body type. So I'm an easy example of a man who actually prefers a body type that differs from what you said (something akin to a modern Barbie), there are also other men in the comments praising the wan in the picture. And beyond that I'm not alo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:13 PM
2

But why do you keep spamming the same general stuff? Nearly all you posts are about fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:06 PM
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You're the OP that goes on about how hard fat women have it and keep making posts about it haha I'm pretty sure that unless you're like 300lbs that you don't have it nearly as bad as you think. Send me pics and I can judge you if you want. I've actually already done that with another lady that approached me for it. Though the other girl did include her face, you can keep yours out if you want, Reddit chat is the best way to do it and is very convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:00 AM
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Completely irrelevant when you consider the amount of body types men find attractive and then the large level of difference within preference across the group haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:51 AM
1

Lmao haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:29 AM
1

Yes obviously but not about dating or romantic stuff haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:29 AM
1

That's a bit depressing haha But I suppose it's not a choice for me to make anyways haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:54 AM
2

Well to be specific, the lady said that a tall 3/10 guy is actually a 10/10 guy. And also there is a study that shows that short men need to make hundreds of thousands of dollars more than tall men to be seen as equally successful. I believe there is also the fact that women's height preference for some dating app had 6'6",6'5" and 6'4" in that order as the top 3 most desirable male heights. And this was implemented as a requirement I think, so men below were excluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:53 AM
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They're ugly and unappealing, so the whole point of weight loss loses its meaning haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:49 AM
1

What do you mean? Are you saying that they're hard to talk with? Like they're annoying?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:48 AM
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I was talking with a lady awhile ago and she said that height is super important for her and her friends. Another lady here also added that she finds it important too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:21 AM
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I'm trying to lose weight to improve my odds with women, but when I see what most girls look like 😬😬😬 really demoralizes me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:18 AM
1

No I said can be loved, men cant be loved. It's because women have such high standards that the vast majority are not happy with the man that they marry so they cant love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:20 AM
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No women can be loved, but for men only Chad and lucky men are loved, the rest get no love. What I mean by Muslims not being a big group is in Western countries, I live in Canada and there are not a lot of Muslims here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:48 AM
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hilarious haha 🤣🤣🤣 I just gotta rid of the baby fat, then the beast will be released 😤😤😤 Women can't even lose fat, that's why their all out of shape 😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:45 AM
1

Some exceptional group that breaks from the norm isn't really a viable example, also you literally just said that the guy is BB, women don't love BB guys they just use him haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:42 PM
1

women are so loose down there that their brains fell out so they are dumb 😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:40 PM
0

no I didn't haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:17 PM
1

I will receive almost exclusively rejections, lets say for every 100 women I ask, only 1 might say yes, and then I have to have a successful date with her. The odds are so insanely against my favor it's mind boggling. Women like you have no idea haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:10 PM
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There are massive swathes of the male population today that are completely sexless, like 1/3 of men under 30, and it probably got worse since that study haha Getting married to a woman in her 30s that wouldn't have given you the time of day, and at the same time would've though of you as a loser, during her 20s while she was incredibly sexually active, and you were sexless, is beyond degrading haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:09 PM
1

Opting out because you're not good enough for a man that fits your standards. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:05 PM
1

I don't know haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:58 PM
1

Maybe if you ladies could reach them, the standards wouldn't need to be lowered to your level 😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:55 PM
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oh god you're still going stop it haha men have low standards, something that too many women take advantage of 😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:12 PM
1

not at all haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:11 PM
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wow such an extreme example, pfft women, always jumping to extremes to get their point across 🙄🙄🙄 maybe she should be better at cooking, and have an hourglass body haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:09 PM
1

Is muscle building a good idea when you're overweight? Or is it better to slim down a bit first?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:08 PM
1

My mother has a friend that did Keto and it really fucked her up, now she's gotta take pills for life haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:05 PM
1

god almighty 🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:05 PM
3

Maybe women should be reasonable haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:03 PM
3

high standards, low tolerance, what a great combo haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:58 PM
1

So what you're saying is that a guy that isn't Chad, is getting treating like he was a Chad haha This impossible to exist hypothetical situation haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:56 PM
1

That's an exception to the norm haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:54 PM
1

Are you insane holy crap I will not be accepted, I will be rejected by all the women I approach, average guys are rejected like 99% of the time so a fat guy like me is gonna get it even worse haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:54 PM
1

Are you serious? This isn't some "woe is me I'm fat and therefore unlovable" argument, I'm saying that because normal dating for men is so insanely difficult, and because I'm fat which makes me less attractive and so on, I'll be disadvantaged in an already difficult situation, I'm far more likely to receive exclusively rejections from women than even a single acceptance, which then carries on to any measurable level of success. If I lost the weight, I'd improve my chances much more, my odds are …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:52 PM
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Nah women have insanely low tolerance, and they almost never try to work things out either haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:45 PM
1

If she doesn't really like him and uses him as nothing more than an easy source of income to sustain herself without having to work, than it's obviously BB haha Sure, it's not as bad as the usual BB but it's still BB
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:41 PM
1

Kinda funny that most women choose to do that to themselves on purpose haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:33 PM
2

Attention seekers and maybe free food
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:30 PM
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Depends on what she thinks of him I think, in that incredibly unlikely scenario haha virgin women for marriage in 2022 lmfao 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:29 PM
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Too bad only a fraction of a percent of women do any of those things out of love haha most of them see it as a chore because the guy only BB to get here haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:29 PM
1

I'll get into dating eventually so I have to care haha This is even implied a bit at the end of my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:27 PM
1

Why not give an answer to the questions? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:33 PM
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What do women in love with men do? From what I've seen they don't do a damn thing so it must mean they don't ever love the man haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:04 PM
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100% agree haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:58 PM
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Whether or not a man approaches a woman is part of his selection process for relationships haha The women that don't get selected more often than not got too cocky and blew all their prime years fucking around and are now facing a new and harsh reality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:58 PM
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Oh you sweet summer child, that is not true at all. You are just in denial about all the fat happy couples in your area, or fat happy men who have thinner (or thicker) dates. I legitimately hardly see fat people in my area, I have no idea why, but I don't. Beyond that, I'm currently a university student and the other students I see are mostly skinny, I do see some fat and overweight students but they're uncommon. ​ If you've decided to never date that is your prerogative and honestly to the bene…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:20 PM
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Doesn't matter, women have incredibly low levels of tolerance, it's why they up and leave so soon after their man opens up emotionally, it's why they think that the build up for divorce was slowly building while men think it was abrupt, it's why initiate most of the divorce and so on haha I can't say much about my source, I only skimmed through it as I'm actually arguing with multiple people and it takes a lot of time to do this with all of you haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:04 PM
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Can you show some proof that the study has been debunked?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:01 PM
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More than 20 sexual partners? That's freaking insane, there's no way that number isn't wildly inflated by the upper percentages of men and women who are getting N-counts into the hundreds or over a thousand. I would still be refused, I literally do not see enough fat people in my area to make me feel like the stats you showed me are true, even in my day to day life. I'm not looking for older fat people, I want a younger spouse because I'm 24, and it seems like the vast majority of women my age a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:53 PM
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No you can't haha Like the moment shit like this becomes too widespread it all blows up in our faces, absolutely not sustainable at all and it produces drama like crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:48 PM
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If men don't approach a woman its because she doesn't reach their standards, which should be absolutely depressing as hell for the woman as men have really low and relaxed standards haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:46 PM
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What I've seen from the people in this thread, those who have really high n-count tend to be far more forgiving of n-counts themselves, while the inverse is true haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:42 PM
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Women do all the selection haha How can you not know this? And let's not pretend the fact that intelligent women blow through large parts of their fertile years in school as something that shouldn't be taken into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:41 PM
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You're right haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:30 AM
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But I hate losing haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:42 AM
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Lol no. Not sure how to even communicate with someone who thinks all women or even most women are looking for a meal ticket. A lot of women live on their own by choice and are more likely to live alone (without having kids or a live in bf/gf or a spouse) the older they get a few years after age 18. Something like 1/3 of women use the apps for free food, as some source I saw posted here recently said haha. That's an insane number, and between that and the actual difficulty of dating men face, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:26 AM
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We're doomed haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:16 AM
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I enjoy debating a bit, but when I got 3-4 people on me it's really hard haha I'm even arguing with some Black supremacist here haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:15 AM
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In a 2015 paper, researchers tracked 2,701 marriages using a study on health and retirement and watched what happened when someone became unwell during a marriage: only 6% of cases ended in divorce. Haha that's from your source, it's not even all that common, like 1/20 chance, and that's taking into account both men and women, so the actual rates for men leaving their sick wives are lower than that haha Source 1: Household chores not the reason why many marriages split after all (Today) In fact,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:14 AM
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Is this mean to be a counter argument? haha That literally doesn't disprove of anything I said, besides of course how common skinny people are (I suppose what I see at school is misleading). Also, your link doesn't work, I don't see whatever source it is you used.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:08 AM
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Most of the country (US) is overweight. Most of the country does get dates, has sex, relationships regardless of this at multiple points in their lives. I'm not an American, I'm from Canada, people in my age group are mostly in shape and skinny, I'm 24 years old. ​ Does being fat narrow your dating pool? Sure, it narrows it to people who are ATTRACTED to you. You might not be your own type, but you are someone else's (a lot of people's actually). I don't think your weight is what's preventing yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:46 AM
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First source never mentions selective breeding. The second source claims that they did use selective breeding (only mentions it once) and they say that they used large males for it, in order to produce better workers. Average African-American man is about 5'8" tall from what Google seems to be showing me, so this is clearly bullshit and didn't work haha The third source doesn't mention selective breeding either. Seems like it was just about breeding slaves for maintaining the workforce. ​ If you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:40 AM
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The sick spouse thing is a symptom of something that men admit to on this sub: they don’t actually care about/love women beyond their looks and what they can do for them. Treat others the way you want to be treated haha Also men leaving their sick wives isn't even all that common I'd bet haha ​ The inverse is not true of women. Women value commonalities, compatibilities in personality/morals/interests, etc. very highly. Too bad it isn't enough for them anyways haha ​ I don’t know if you have any…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:23 AM
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Describe how exactly this disproves my point? Like I can very easily say that broke women find broke men to team up with in order to make getting by in life a bit easier, they however, prefer a man that makes more money than they do. So the my point stands haha That right there makes plenty of sense and counters your supposed argument quite easily haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:52 AM
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Yes it's a short time, it's not like we're getting dozens and dozens of generations of slaves being born and raised in a 'selective breeding' system, there simply wasn't enough for their to be a significant change, as not enough generations of selective breeding had passed. Not only this, but the average Black (with slave ancestors) isn't incredibly strong or genetically gifted in terms of their physical traits, the vast majority are normal and bland like any average person from any other race. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:49 AM
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I’ve seen men that I honestly thought were hideous and had nothing exceptional going on be loved to the moon and back by their girlfriends. This is almost like that "I know a short guy that absolutely slays with the ladies" type thing that everyone pulls up whenever a short guy talks about how hard it is haha, doesn't matter either way I had specified that some guys just get lucky so that's just what you saw. ​ You have no real dating experience yet behave as if you’re an expert on dating lol. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:48 AM
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That's not it haha try again
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:11 AM
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They've got an average IQ of like 70whatever across the continent, their intelligence genetics are complete trash. Can they have some good genetics? Sure, it just depends on what it is and whether or not you think it's good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:54 PM
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The idea that selective breeding worked on Blacks after such a short time haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:48 PM
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That's not at all how it works haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:46 PM
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Are you serious haha If you really believe that it only took a few generations of 'selective breeding' to genetically modify Blacks to such a degree, with no real evidence. Then you must acknowledge that Blacks tend to be less intelligent and more violent, in all societies that they're in, including ones in Africa. IQ tests, twin studies and just about any type of test consistently get the same results of lower Black intelligence. African-American crime statistics are infamous to say the least, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:45 PM
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I assume you just need to be more socially active with her and mix in some romance, that should get the job done like 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:41 PM
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The sick spouse thing is too uncommon for it to matter, most women up and leave when their man loses his job and even when he opens up with his emotions haha It's so strange that you keep mentioning the prettier woman thing, you're effectively holding a small portion of the male populace up and are inflating their actions as those of all men, while the vast majority of women are branch swinging and they also have hypergamy as well. Women can always attract a man they love, they simply choose not…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:39 PM
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Even if men do settle for a woman they don't love they can learn to love her over time, it's the advantage of lower standards, women can't do the same haha And let's not even bother mentioning the prettier woman thing, the vast majority of men stick with their wives and it's not like prettier women are impossible to find haha You point on women's standards is worthless when you consider how quickly women are to throw away the men they supposedly love haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:38 PM
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boring cookie cutter personality with women's standards? haha Just about all men then haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:30 PM
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Are you trying to tell me men are not loved regardless? That’s just simply not true. No, I think attractive men can be loved, men that are really exceptional through their actions and a very small percentage of men that get lucky. Beyond that the rest remain unloved. ​ That’s not how emotional bonds work lol. You have to get to know someone first. How is this not obvious to you? What? I clearly state that isn't how it works, I'm not thinking the norm is love on first sight or whatever. ​ Duh? Of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:06 PM
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I think there were actually studies to show that women were more into looks then men are. As to all that crap about men not being able to love, that's mostly wrong, men have lower standards so they can actually love their spouse haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:56 PM
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Women make it difficult themselves haha It's not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:55 PM
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Haha I was right, it was an extremely abnormal reason lmfao And it is abnormal, the average woman isn't queer haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:48 PM
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Are you serious haha, if that's the case than why are you and your family lanklets? Why aren't you all big and strong, rather than tall and thin? Why isn't there a stereotype that Blacks are strong? Don't forget that the people that got captured and enslaved weren't some genetic marvels, they literally lost whatever war and got enslaved and then sold off haha You're literally jumping in deeper into the Black supremacy stuff haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:45 PM
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they're gonna refuse it anyways haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:11 PM
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Thanks haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:10 PM
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thank you 😞😞😞
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:10 PM
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u/flakybottom got it right haha, I'm at 312lbs from what the scale told me when I weighed myself, It'll slow down soon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:07 PM
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So women select for partners in such a way as to directly harm humanity, by lowering teh average IQ over the generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:01 PM
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It doesn't matter just they just need to spend a little to show off a bit and her standards for game will drop like a ton of bricks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:40 PM
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It won't be accurate anymore after awhile haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:39 PM
2

bros before hoes for life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:38 PM
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I want to show off a bit and say that I lost about 8.5lbs this past week haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:35 PM
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You don't have genes for survival because of slavery haha This is some weird black-supremacist talking point, slavery wasn't around long enough for it to have any significant impact on Black genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:26 PM
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It's so easy for women to make comments like this when they know they can find someone that will actually love them for who they are regardless of what they have to bring to the table. ​ I actually feel sorry for you. Most women care the most about the emotional bond they have with their partner. There’s tons of things that come before money. Yes, it’s also important but so are other things. Let's not pretend that women just see a guy and instantly form an emotional bond or whatever other lies, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:25 PM
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Most guys in our age bracket have an absolutely terrible time with dating, if they had money than they'd do better. Not to mention women consistently go for older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:19 PM
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You see it a lot in those ages, I'd add that it gets more intense at 25-35 depending on how badly the woman wants to start a family, kids cost money haha Different ages different desires obviously, an 18yo and a 20yo woman won't have the same desires, either way they're gonna be expensive so money will still be really important. ​ Edit: I meant an 18yo and a 30yo, big oopsies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:23 PM
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I have a friend of mine that's a lanklet, I told him that if he was short enough he'd have the perfect 'canvas body' to transition into a Femboy, this was an insult type thing I made to convince him to go to the gym haha It worked 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:20 PM
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He wasn't handsom lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:46 PM
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Most of the time she's just hungry haha And I think most men actually do go months without any matches
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:37 PM
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Finding a woman that wants you for anything besides money is insanely difficult haha. This much should be obvious when you consider all the different ways in which they've shown themselves to hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:33 PM
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They should stick to their own and remain separate but they largely try and convince/manipulate others into their stupid games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:59 AM
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Why are you doing this? There had to be some extremely abnormal reason why haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:57 AM
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Sure just take those people and separate them at the very least then haha Every community that had too much of it became unstable so there's no point in sustaining multiple small scale versions of that and sprinkling problems around haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:54 AM
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I think 'lanklet' is a term for tall skinny guys, though they'd have to be especially skinny for it I think, it's meant to insult them for being the tall and too skinny combination and also adds in their inability to put on muscle easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:49 AM
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Monogamous relationships are for everyone, you just need to put in the effort and your instincts will kick in and you'll come to enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:07 AM
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Free time is nice but it's better to be productive. Videogames, tv, movies and all that shit is completely worthless inevitably you'll forget about 99.99% of what you experienced with those anyways. If you're going to spend your time get something more meaningful out of it. Get out there literally just about anything will do. You can burn years with the wrong mindset the earlier you start the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:55 AM
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Instead of making my usual abhorrent comment, I'll actually take this seriously. I'd call this guy a dumbass, there is literally nothing to gain of actual quantifiable value from having multiple sex partners, if this guy has such abilities than he should be focusing them on a life partner and possibly a family that he has started with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:06 AM
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Wow haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:03 AM
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I haven't made any porn videos haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:02 AM
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Free time is worthless, spend it doing something, the clock is ticking every moment you waste you'll never get back. Get on it seriously ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:00 AM
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It's nice to read when people open up a bit. So let's say some guy sneezes, and its incredibly loud, would that put him on your radar? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:50 AM
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Well the eye part is actually nice haha The nose part is still funny haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:44 AM
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Gives him a taste of what she could never provide him, an attractive body and enthusiastic sex haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:37 AM
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okay haha, plz oppress me dommy mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:35 AM
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I really made you mad even though I said I don't support the system from the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:24 AM
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I see a lot of women specify the eyes, why is it that the eyes are important to you? And why a big nose? Haha What's a strong nose? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:03 AM
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Oh I see, you'd like to marry me 🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:55 PM
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Why? He's the peak of masculinity haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:51 PM
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It depends on the type of sex I guess. For example, super lustful, turning you on a lot, sex would probably be done by two very attractive people having sex together, while super passionate sex is done by people that love each other deeply having sex together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:44 PM
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Yes, I'm quite tall so it spreads out well, also I got an average score on the AI thing I mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:30 PM
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That's nice and all, but you added a bunch to it and implied that I had also said those things, this is dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:45 PM
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fucking gold diggers 😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:44 PM
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Short guys please avoid this post
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:45 PM
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I said that I don't support this, I had some simply stated an appeal it had for me. I completely agree with what most of your comment says.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:16 PM
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I quite obviously didn't go so far as you had implied with your own comment, I said that I don't support this at all and simply listed an appeal it has for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:13 PM
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I specifically said that I don't support it (the part in the brackets like this), I don't want to deny women their freedom and humanity, please read more carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:10 PM
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I don't really think of myself as RP as I don't read into their beliefs and such. However, this concept of denying women their ability to sustain themselves or participate in any meaningful way if they are unmarried. Has a certain appeal to me I suppose (I wouldn't support it anyways, don't attack me haha), the benefits that I would receive would be that dating would become much easier, it would still be quite difficult, as women would still get to choose their partner, so I'm still having to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:42 PM
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I don't think that men and women are compared the same way when it comes to their n-counts, I would say women are judged more harshly. Though this isn't to excuse their behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:25 PM
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I actually read a lot about interracial relationships as I am mixed race myself. I'm on mobile so no sources, also I'm doing this off of memory. From what I've seen, the less self respect and self confidence a woman has the more likely she is to accept a black man as a partner (hence the stereotype of fat white women doing it) it is almost non-existent for HV White women to choose a Black man. It's a bit rough but hypergamy isn't color blind and stereotypes don't make Black men sound good honest…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:00 PM
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The women are obviously liars haha Most men with disabilities die alone, this much should be obvious, hypergamy pushes women to want a better man, not a disabled man haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:42 PM
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Well I sure hope so haha I'll take what I can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:02 PM
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The amount of young guys taking steroids today has absolutely exploded, beyond that an attractive man requires far more genetic traits than an attractive woman. Women have lower standards on them and who have easy work arounds like makeup to effectively put a mask over their face, allowing them to circumvent their genetic beauty requirements. Beyond this the attractive male physique requires hundreds upon hundreds of hours of exercise with high levels of discipline and dieting in order to achiev…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:54 AM
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We're just going to run in circles, lets stop haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:24 AM
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It's not the same type of cuck, it's more of a subscription service cuck haha All the ladies giving you hate for this would never take a single father haha Even single mothers prefer childless men haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:21 AM
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I think what a woman wants tends to be unreasonable, especially when they want it to be completely one sided. Can you give examples of how they would want to be wooed?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:20 AM
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In what ways can a woman give back? And how likely do you believe an average man can find a woman that does?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:16 AM
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No, you're another bullshit big-agri supporter, I'm going to have a garden and I'm going to find love, you can't stop me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:36 AM
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Seriously? Is it really that much of an advantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:35 AM
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You're probably some bullshit big-agri supporter. I'm going to get a garden and I'm going to find love, you can't stop me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:34 AM
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I did mention that there are exceptions haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:32 AM
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If I had a large and successful garden would that trigger the same instinct in a woman? Food is a resource, and it would've been very valuable at the time when women developed their instincts. Hypothetically speaking, if I had a Tinder profile, and I used selfies of me in my hypothetical garden with my absolutely massive harvest of squash and other veggies, would that turn the ladies on to me? Is there a threshold to how impressive the garden needs to be? I actually like gardening so you better …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:17 AM
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I'll just keep moving forward for now and we'll see what happens, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:10 AM
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Good luck and thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:01 AM
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Woah you're making me blush stop it 🥵🥵🥵 At least you agree with the point that I'm making haha You should really go on a diet though, even being just a bit chubby for a woman isn't all that bad so you don't need to go for some Barbie aesthetic. I've been dieting and exercising for a bit and I do feel better as a result, physically speaking and mentally too, I'm only 24 so maybe you'll get better results being a bit older. Even more so the results you'll get by preventing health issues further do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:49 AM
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Haha, my sister got 8.5 and a man, it was hilarious at how angry it made her 😂😂😂 When I smiled and increased my attractiveness score it actually thought I was a woman, it stung a bit to see that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:46 AM
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If that’s true and you are mostly playing a role here, I implore you to step away from it. You know that losing weight will make a huge difference but if this toxic bitterness becomes a part of you it will definitely negatively effect your prospects for a healthy relationship. I'm not toxic or bitter in really life, I only do it here to see how people will react, and to start up debates/arguments. I don't even believe what I say for like 99% of my 'bad' comments, like the one I made above. The o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:44 AM
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I'm 24, a man, not religious, and would love to get married even right now if I had a good partner. Children come out better so long as they are provided with what they need, wealth doesn't matter after a certain point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:03 AM
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Single motherhood is rising, and that's with those 'mature' mothers being the norm haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:01 AM
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That's just a meme haha The only memes that has some truth to it are the ones about how easy Chad gets it, everything else is a lie. Like do you seriously think "Short Kings" is actually a thing? ​ If I lose the weight, the only way I wouldn't be invisible would be for me to become incredibly handsome. Otherwise, I'd have to fight to become visible in all the usual ways men do, I'll have some advantages from the traits I listed before, but I'll have to put in effort regardless. You on the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:59 AM
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Mature mothers are just jaded ex-sluts haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:54 AM
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I'm 6'4" tall, I've always thought of myself as average even though I'm fat, I got a score of 5.2 for attractiveness (6.4 with a smile) on that AI thing some guy posted awhile ago, my only bad traits besides being fat is that I'm bald, everything else that I have is above average to some degree. I also have a few other good traits such as broad shoulders, large hands and thick wrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:52 AM
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No, she's probably a serial kilter if she wants to bait me like that haha What's the point of this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:44 AM
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If women cared about family and so forth then they'd settle down younger rather than waiting until they have gigantic drops in their fertility, and whatever significant percentage are overweight or obese, father dropping fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:43 AM
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I'm also quite fat OP, I weigh about 320lbs now (though I'm quite tall so it isn't super bad looking), and I was at a peak of about 350lbs in the past. I see that you're describing yourself as being invisible, but you're choosing to be invisible by not losing the weight, this much should be quite obvious to you. Thin women get approached, thin men don't get approached and both fat men and women don't get approached, all of this with exceptions of course. If you lose your weight, you'll become vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:40 AM
2

Well I'm glad we can agree, best of luck raising you kids
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:34 AM
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Free meals, fucking around and the usual shit you've already heard about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:33 AM
1

I'd rather get dates easily, rather than to go through what I hear most men put up with haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:14 AM
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Women took love and threw it as far as they could for short term gains haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:12 AM
1

holy shit 😲😲😲
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:11 AM
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Is that really what I said? Can you explain how?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:09 AM
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I know myself more than any of you would ever know haha But I'd say yes, though I'm probably a bit biased as I'd like to think that my real life self isn't so bad compared to my anonymous-forum self. For example, I've never mentioned it before but I really do like the idea of doing romantic things for my partner, though I'm just probably never going to find a partner worth doing those things for haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:09 AM
2

I'm against a 20yo and a 40yo getting together (my parents did this, it worked out well for them but I feel like my mother was wronged), but the other person said a 14yo and a 40yo, that's wildly different and obviously much worse. Even though I agree with both examples being bad, I don't think it's right to be dishonest about what the person in the linked comment said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:05 AM
2

That's not at all what the comment you linked said, I'm against age-gap relationships myself but you're being dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:20 PM
2

I'm saying match the effort, imagine going all in for a woman that does nothing but also expects you to bathe her in attention and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:24 PM
5

It's not an easy choice to make, most people that remain single long term didn't make the decision themselves. Inevitably loneliness will creep up and push the person into a relationship, it's a type of curse that ensures women have victims to prey upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:23 PM
4

Most men can't find someone who loves them for himself. You should already be well aware of how incredibly harsh women are when it comes to judging men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:17 PM
2

Sure I won't speak for all women, I'll just speak for the 99%. That guy you mentioned is an idiot, if you're not lying, because he found that 1% woman and lost her by assuming that she was like the rest. What you felt from that man is what all men feel from the women they deal with, and they're getting it from multiple women over time as they have to go through failure after failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:16 PM
1

Would you generally like and appreciate someone that treats you poorly? And as if you weren't worth their time? Would you do that to a whole group, who's members consistently treat you as I have mentioned before? It's quite demoralizing and degrading to go through failure after failure in dating as a man, specially with the insulting way that women treat you at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:11 PM
1

They doll themselves up with makeup and whatever for personal pleasure, they don't do it for the guy unless he is in the top X%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:10 PM
1

I say they don't want to date me because I'm fat, that has been the only reason why that I have ever stated. I'm dieting and have lost a bit over 25lbs, I'll be coming soon ladies haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:09 PM
2

I don't ever approach women so I don't date at all, and on top of that I'm not some idiot that's gonna say the shit I do here to actual women around me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:06 PM
1

The current dating dynamic is already fucked up, just numbly fumble in and out of relationships, it's what many people do these days already, more and more people can just do it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:04 PM
1

Inability to cope with loneliness and instincts driving you that way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:03 PM
5

That kind of mindset is fostered and set to grow by the majority of women whom give the vast majority of men an incredibly difficult time to get a spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:02 PM
1

Satisfying relationships aren't something that the vast majority of men can have. They are almost guaranteed to marry a woman that finds him disgusting just because he's nothing more than an average man and she couldn't do any better because she couldn't compete with above average women. There's no point in trying to be emotionally invested in a relationship in which your partner doesn't actually value you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:01 PM
4

Too often are men thrown away by remorseless women for no good reason, the dating and courtship dynamic between the sexes is so incredibly skewed in favor of women that they can act with a near impunity and most do precisely that at the expense of men. This is why you see such significant portions of the male population remaining alone longer and longer, inevitably, a time will come where no less than 50% of all men are guaranteed to die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:48 PM
6

Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:45 PM
1

That's wrong though, I'd be taking advantage of them in a way, but at the same time I don't really have time either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:13 PM
5

Men are still judged more harshly haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:06 PM
1

It's a simple question haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:02 PM
1

Nothing, I'm too fat, all I've done is exercise to try and lose weight
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:28 PM
1

Thank you haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:26 PM
1

I'm not optimistic enough to hold onto the idea anymore, from being an actual virgin woman that didn't lie to me is nearly impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:26 PM
1

No, I have to lose weight first or I won't get dates, at the same time all my friends are guys, my only chance is that I'm still in school and I got two semesters coming up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:24 PM
1

They're liars haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:23 PM
-1

I'm beginning to think that I should give up on the idea of waiting for marriage as I'd never find an actual virgin woman to marry. But I have no clue as to how I'm going to lose my virginity and speedrun dating and sexual experience before I'm 30, I'll be 25 in a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:58 AM
1

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as they say haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:01 AM
1

Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:59 AM
5

Serial monogamy isn't an issue then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:58 AM
2

Finding a virgin is so easy as a woman, I'm quite jealous haha odds are I'll have to give up on the idea for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:56 AM
1

Honestly speaking I don't think I can completely agree or disagree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:54 AM
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I got reported for harassment on a comment that isn't even harassment, quite annoying haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:52 AM
5

Poor bastard haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:58 AM
1

It's not really actual friends though, I doubt you're in any real contact with the vast majority of those guys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:57 AM
3

Are you good enough for a man like that? And at the age of 41? I'm sure many single 30something women would beat you out by miles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:47 AM
3

I'll be honest, I absolutely hate talking about this because it's been like my 15th time and it always ends the same way, so I'm just dropping out now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:45 AM
3

Honestly speaking, as a virgin myself, if I was ever offered sex from a woman who did what you had done, than whether or not I accept depends on how I feel about my odds of finding a virgin wife. If I feel like I can or that I still have time, I'd refuse, I think that the exclusive intimacy is important, if I feel like I can't find a virgin wife than I'd accept (if I knew her well, I don't like the idea of sex with strangers). So in a way I feel like all those guys gave up and just had sex with …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:43 AM
4

I see so my wording is being a issue, even though people should be able to infer the meaning behind what it is that I'm saying. And the general trend remains the same, so n-counts can give you an idea of what choices people are gonna make haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:39 AM
4

Can you specify what you mean by this? And can you give examples of how a man would show that he genuinely likes and appreciates women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:39 AM
2

Can you give examples of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:38 AM
2

Her standards haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:35 AM
3

This makes no sense though. If taking a condom off suddenly makes sex an act of rape. (consent is breached) Then lying in order to have sex in the first place should also be rape. (consent is secretly breached)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:33 AM
3

what's your n-count? And would you hide it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:33 AM
2

let's hope for the latter at this point, shit like this will just become a cycle otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:31 AM
1

God almighty 🤮🤮🤮 nah just kidding, it's quite a strange story though. Makes more sense now that I know you're a woman haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:29 AM
1

Really? Can you at least acknowledge that it's wrong and that it's something similar to rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:29 AM
1

My point was a joke. My history of not understand correlation? What? Because I wont accept "it just isn't okay!" as a viable counter argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:28 AM
1

better not cry about the tumors champ, how high is your n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:26 AM
2

ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:25 AM
2

They won't regret it until it's too late haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:24 AM
2

I don't want men to get away with it, I've made that clear. How can you not agree that love would make sex better?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:22 AM
28

I just think that most women genuinely hate most men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:21 AM
7

What would be the maximum amount of previous partners he had be? And would you have a specific preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:19 AM
2

Do you at least acknowledge that it's a wrong thing to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:19 AM
2

Correlations apply to most, elevating the minority that don't in order to disprove of the point isn't viable and it's dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:15 AM
5

Lesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:14 AM
2

Insane haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:14 AM
2

How did you find so many virgins? This seems really extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:12 AM
0

There's nothing to gain from being masculine, it's a lot of work and getting nothing out of it just makes it stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:47 AM
13

Why use the word experience? It implies that they gain something of 'value' when it's quite possible for people with high n-counts to be bad at sex. What is your n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:07 AM
3

That's a bit odd honestly, I'd consider lying to get sex a form of rape and I think most people would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:05 AM
1

The studies say otherwise haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:04 AM
1

all men are now betas
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:55 AM
13

how high is your n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:55 AM
5

n-count for men does matter. Source 1: More sexual partners, more cancer? (Harvard Health Publishing) Men who reported 10 or more sexual partners in their life were nearly 70% more likely to have developed cancer when compared with those reporting 0 or 1 lifetime sexual partners. For women, the findings were even more dramatic: women who reported 10 or more sexual partners in their life were nearly 91% more likely to have developed cancer when compared with those reporting 0 or 1 lifetime sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:54 AM
2

Why do you believe consent under a lie is okay? And isn't rape? What is your n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:52 AM
2

haha no wonder you don't care, I always see that the men who don't care have big body counts themselves. Such a simple thing to see, too bad you'll still get a low n-count woman anyways, they seem to be drawn to self destruction haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:50 AM
3

Imagine that, the first woman being LV and the first man being HV. Makes you think haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:48 AM
1

How high is your n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:47 AM
2

No no. There are studies that show people with more experience, period, are more likely to divorce. But that does not mean they are worse partners. Thats a bad argument and just baseless, unless your condition for a good partner is based on unconditional love and loyalty, which many would not agree with. They are worse partners because they are more likely to divorce, good partners are less likely to divorce. This shouldn't have to be explained haha ​ These are grown adults, not children lol. Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:46 AM
0

I meant in the context of relationships, as OP had mentioned, not in the context of shitty baiting wannabe fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:37 AM
2

Woah buddy it's totally by choice, I'll have you know that I'm 6'4" 😤😤😤
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:36 AM
8

>Societal decline increases. >Women show no remorse. A tale as old as time, phenomenal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:36 AM
6

They don't care haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:33 AM
2

You actually invited me to a Dancepill subreddit? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:32 AM
6

Conform to what you despise or stay alone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:10 AM
1

Alrighty then, let's just give up and enjoy the decline, fuck it all haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:09 AM
8

Women don't want to dance with you if you're not attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:04 AM
1

Easily. Humans are not at all a species that naturally strives for being "the best". That's cukture based. Most people do not spend 100% of their day bettering themselves. Most people don't even spend 20% of the day doing that I agree with this, but this isn't a viable argument against what I'm saying. I've said that people should do something to better their chances (implied for success in relationships which) and you're argument is effectively that they're just not driven for it. The simple so…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:02 AM
5

It's inconvenient for everyone, more sexual partners increases the rates of divorce and all sorts of other negative things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:49 PM
1

When was it stated that women would lose their choice? I absolutely hate it that whenever I mention monogamy and chastity, every single time, some one comes at me about how women are going to be victimized in some way, and it's usually that they're going to lose the ability to divorce/split up. That's not the argument at all, I've even already explained it to someone else!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:48 PM
4

Okay and? Who gives a shit? You act like that's a crime or a horrible thing. Except what about the men who do the same and go on to have kids and wives. I did mention that men do wrong things too, it's part of the same sentence, you literally cut out he part that includes men and then accuse me of not mentioning men. ​ Rhe fuck? So because they had more sex, they're worse partners. And they're bad because they can find good partners with lower sex numbers? What?? Yes they're worse if they have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:45 PM
2

Being loved like something, isn't the same as actually being that thing. How can you not understand? Holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:14 PM
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Women never mean it when they say it for the vast majority of men, so it depends on whether or not she feels like she settled for less. If a man says it than odds are he means it and he'll be crushed to find out it isn't mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:12 PM
1

It depends on how well their relationships form, this hypothetical world would probably make people more patient for this sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:06 PM
9

Sorry to hear pal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:05 PM
2

Says the guy who said men are dogs 😂😂💀 Here's your accusation above. ​ I'd say men are loved like dogs rather than people by their spouse. Here's my quote about dogs that you're accusing me with. And this is the link to the comment. (The sentence is right at the bottom, note that the comment is not marked as edited) DID I SAY MEN ARE DOGS?!?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:03 PM
2

Their venting their frustrations, and not guys are like this. I've had no sexual partners, I've never been kissed, and I've never experienced love, I'm not steaming mad about it and it only makes me somewhat depressed to think about it. I'll be 25 in a few months and I'll be part of that supposedly only 1% of men that are virgins in the age group. I don't screech about it, and I'm not thirsting after every woman I see or wanting to have sexual partners by the dozen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:58 PM
1

Horniness does cloud judgement, but it wouldn't be so extreme as to push people into such situations, not to mention this hypothetical society would be aware of this and have taken steps to mitigate this. I agree with the idea of the divorce risk scores, it only makes sense, people are already judged for all sorts of things today, some of them arbitrary, so something like this that is just common sense good thing to consider seems right to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:51 PM
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He definitely does the thing where he's like "well now you're just making me feel guilty, you hate me" when I bring up certain things. He's gaslighting you, this is a form of manipulation. You need to call him out when he does this and push on the issue, grow a spine and take a stance for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:48 PM
1

No they wouldn't, you seriously think you're going to get through the whole process of marriage and then have sex with someone while being horny, non-stop the entire time, and that horniness is the driving force behind your decision making the entire time? Insane. Divorced people are especially likely to get divorced a second time, separating them is so that they don't spread that out to people who have better odds. Let's also not pretend that denying people the choice is something to be taken i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:29 PM
2

That's not the quote you put into quotations though, stop jumping around like this and then act like I'm being dishonest haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:24 PM
1

I don't remember making any implication that this would be the case, in fact I had specified in another comment with another user that it wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:23 PM
3

You're in an absolutely horrible position, how deeply have you discussed this with him? Is he under the impression that he's wronged you in some way or have you been tip toeing around the subject as to not make him feel guilty?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:22 PM
3

This is true in a way, especially since now I've become the HL partner over time. It's tough, but not in the sense of my ego. It's not just some superficial ego thing. It's an actual question of if he can see our sex life close enough to the same way I see it. He doesn't see it the same way because there is no exclusivity, he doesn't value you the way you value him. Perhaps not the best way to put it but there's something special about only ever had one person and being with them, that he lacks …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:40 PM
1

More sexual partners has a slew of negative traits correlated with it, it's not helpful at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:38 PM
1

"Some people cheat the system so we shouldn't bother with it, in fact we should adopt a new system that not only further enables these people, but glorifies and simplifies this same behavior for other people!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:37 PM
1

Why do you keep going back to powerful men? Those who were powerful enough to change the system, didn't need to follow the rules, and those who weren't powerful enough to change the system couldn't do anything about it. The true main culprit are women, they've pushed for this and they're loving the damage they're doing to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:19 PM
1

That's not what I mean, people can date and form friendships with each other and they can discuss whether or not they'd like to become romantic, once they agree to it, they get married and then they can have sex. They will become compatible with each other over time, none of that "I need to fuck 15 guys to find the one that just so happens to turn get me off quickly on his first try by chance, rather than to just get a guy to learn how my body works and get me off just as fast". Divorced people …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:16 PM
1

Those men were getting plenty of women to begin with, they were all having secret affairs and so on, or would just divorce their wives and get a newer hotter one. The liberation mostly helped women by allowing them the freedom to shoot themselves in the foot and be proud of it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:12 PM
1

Not just them, but all the people that do casual sex and that serial monogamists, and divorcees thinking they should get together with people who haven't been divorced. Perhaps some other groups too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:08 PM
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I'm very sorry for what happened to you, I absolutely cannot stand it when people do these types of things and it really hurts me to see it happen. Can I ask why you stayed with him? And also do you feel cheated in a way? He's your one and only, and you're not his, so naturally you've got this imbalance and are now in a degrading relationship. The worst part about this is that he would be insulted and angered if you had asked to be able to explore around so you guys can equalize your n-counts, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:07 PM
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They'd never admit it but it's true, more and more women are going to push do destigmatize paternity fraud and to devalue paternity in general too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:03 PM
1

No you need to fight for dominance and full horse rights
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:02 PM
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Your tactic is nice, and everyone should follow it. But too many people lie and they do it connivingly, I remember a story I red here on Reddit about a man that had waited until marriage, got married and had a child. Only for his wife to admit that she wasn't also a virgin though she had presented herself as one, he was now stuck in a degrading marriage because she waited until they had a kid together, not only that but she had raped him because he wouldn't have had sex with her had he known. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:02 PM
1

pair bonding for both
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:49 PM
4

The solution is to return to monogamy and chastity, but they refuse it constantly, they'd rather keep sweeping the issue under the rug until it bursts and they lose their rights
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:47 PM
2

He can't be inferior in any way, so I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:44 PM
1

Just another nail in the coffin haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:38 PM
4

Quite often they decide to do as they like, and pretend otherwise. So often are virgin women really born again virgins, so often are traditional women really promiscuous whores, much of the same applies to men with their equivalent ways. The issue is that these people seek out partners that are too good for them, and they then waste these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:36 PM
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That's known cases haha Most men don't receive loyalty from their wives/girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:33 PM
1

Men should care about a relationship depending on how he deals with loneliness, the worse he is with loneliness the more he cares, the better he can handle loneliness the less he can care
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:32 PM
1

No just always ride the horse, for example, once I saw a guy ride a horse into town to get himself a sandwich at Subway, very handsome man I'll tell you. Take the Horsepill, accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:30 PM
8

I got 5.2 without my glasses (when I tried again and smiled, it gave me 6.4 - I must have a beautiful smile :) haha), guess my lowest age as 31 when I'm 24 (smiling lowered it to 27), it thinks I'm a man (thank god, it got this right - I couldn't take it otherwise - but when I smiled it thinks I'm a woman god damnit haha), it guess my BMI as 28.2 when it's actually a lot higher. I got my sister to do this, she smiled and got 8.5, it thought she was a man to humble her haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:29 PM
59

Husband but not father is the secret meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:10 PM
0

You are subconsciously deemed as expendable by all women, and you are easy to replace as dating is easy for women, this seems like a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:07 PM
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The same pair-bonding arguments are about to start. More sex partners = damaged pair bonding = bad things more likely. People (mostly women haha) can argue against this all they like, but if those among us whom lack multiple sex partners are shown to be better off, than why not emulate their actions? Why not strive to also better your chances? How can something like this be argued?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:59 PM
4

I try to google search "are horse girls crazy" and it auto filled the rest of the sentence before I could finish 💀💀💀 About 53,000,000 results (0.44 seconds) 💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:56 PM
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I wonder how women try to work around stuff like this? How can they not see that these types of things paint them all in a bad light? I know that they say crap like "not all women" but these things seemingly apply to the majority of women, why should we elevate some small minority/niche group up as if they hold any significant sway?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:54 PM
1

I did say most people haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:51 PM
1

Black stallion, easily the most handsome of horses. Feed it well for a shiny coat
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:50 PM
2

Are they loose?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:50 PM
1

It's called pattern recognition, unfortunate for the innocent but that's what happens when you don't police your own
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:48 PM
2

I'm not Black but I do have women get uncomfortable around me at times. I'm 6'4"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:47 PM
1

Don't tell me this is some sort of brony code speak
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:37 PM
1

My eating habits aren't insanely bad, I eat mostly healthy normal foods and don't have a lot of unhealthy food like chips. Sometimes I get a craving or whatever and do have some junk food, but I don't think it's common enough to be a significant issue, like at most once a week. I also only have one reasonably sized item, I'm not making combos of multiple things or whatever, I always think of the calories involved and try to do the math like "This bag of chips is half an hour on the treadmill, is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:36 PM
2

Just shave the horse, take the Horsepill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:18 PM
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Shirtless Putin is hot, you just have trash taste in men, take the Horsepill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:17 PM
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There's that saying about getting your foot in the door, that's what being attractive does, now you just gotta find out whether or not you like the house haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:24 PM
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Well I did say most people haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:23 PM
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I'm fat and leaning Blackpill a bit, it's a bit rough but I'm trying to lose the weight, I've been fat my whole life because my parents were always very overweight and they raised me to be like them. Honestly speaking that should be considered child abuse and outlawed, but those anti-fatphobia retards would fight against it tooth and nail. I've lost about 50lbs but regained a bunch from Christmas, than had gym closures and such fuck with me since then, now I'm able to get back into the gym recen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:22 PM
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Take the Horsepill, accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:22 PM
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I firmly believe most people can gain 2-3 points on their SMV by sitting on a horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:19 PM
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weight loss haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:17 PM
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I also hear that guys with wedding rings on get a lot of attention too, it's kinda fucked up that women seem to do this sort of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:02 PM
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Rule 1 and 2 pal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:56 PM
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Now that I think about I'd bet most women have a long list and personality is no where near the top haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:28 PM
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They never cared about the type of person you were ever, women lie when they say personality is the most important or whatever they say to elevate it to some point of importance. In reality your appearance is what's most important and then personality comes second for most, not all women as to whether or not they stick around. Even then part of me believes that it's never important even during a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:08 PM
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That quote has nothing to do with dogs holy shit lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:00 PM
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you're really on it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:49 AM
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I'm a beta Chad even though I'm fat haha what a load of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:45 AM
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You didn't get it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:32 AM
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That's not what I said, learn to read
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:31 AM
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Don't bother with this guy, he wasted a bunch of my time earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:43 AM
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I'm saying nothing would change
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:40 AM
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That's not what I'm saying, stop assuming everything is an attack on women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:40 AM
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Alright you've been trolling me haha insane to think attractive people don't have a wildly easier time haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:39 AM
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That's right, and spending most of it looking around isn't as effective as having choices lined up right away
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:17 PM
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Women would still refuse the vast majority of men, it'd just take longer now. Also the gender ratio will remain insane at like 80% men or whatever. Nothing would change
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:40 PM
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Nah what men receive is fake, it's all pretend, you'll see it soon one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:35 PM
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Nah the studies are wrong in some vague nitpicky way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:34 PM
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Picking wrong is one thing, getting to choose with options to spare is another haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:44 PM
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My mother told me that 75% of women cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:37 PM
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I'm not doing this you're delusional haha You got super lucky or are just in some top X% of men and now you're projecting your experiences so hard that it completely clouds your vison. Most guys don't get anything, and most men will die with nothing wake up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:34 PM
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There is this common counter argument made by women whom claim that lower tier men tend to receive attention from lower tier women, not that their low tier actions (ex. criminal behavior) is what draws women to them. This argument is effectively that 'matches' attract each other, wouldn't this also apply to your example with the women who have fake nails and such? Though guys who want casual sex and whatever are the most common, they might be more willing to go after women who hyper sexualize/be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:29 PM
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Yes it is, like if I said I'm disgusted by women, their sexuality and any the idea that they do sexual things, except for when I find them attractive and they're sexually satisfying me. What would you think of that? If you think that it isn't 100% misogyny by the definition? Than do you at least acknowledge it as something quite similar to misogyny? Remember that I had said "almost an equivalence to hemophobia..." so I'm not moving goal posts here or anything dishonest like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:16 PM
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Dating for men is like walking through a gun store at this point haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:02 PM
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I think that’s a bit extreme, I mean I may feel a bit of embarrassment when seeing people kiss in public (because that’s private) but if your automatic feeling is disgust than it is what it is. Are you saying that my comparison to women's disgust to unattractive men's sexuality/sexual acts as equivalent to homophobia is extreme? Are you kidding me? It's practically the same thing haha You even admitted to it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:01 PM
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That’s what happens when you get unwanted advances so often from friends and strangers. Also it’s more extreme disgust towards it than despising it. There's a fact that when straight men see gay men kiss, they feel a level of disgust equal to seeing maggots, that's homophonic and it's disgust. Whether or not you like it, women are basically doing the same thing to men as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:32 PM
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I hardcore agree with what she said but it doesn’t mean I’m asexual or hate men How is this not seen as extreme? This is almost an equivalence to homophobia's sexual element, to actually despise the sexuality/sexual acts of an entire group, unless they're attractive to you and they sexually satisfy you? How insane is this, like holy shit. No wonder there's so many fucking misogynists on this sub, absolute insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:21 PM
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That's true but plenty more want a partner, so it really starts to drag down on you after a few years of women refusing you for only being their equal haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:09 PM
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At least she is being honest about how she feels. You can't rationalize someone to feel differently than they do. You can point out as you are doing here that this creates a world of winners and losers, but this guilt tactic is unlikely to change how women feel. I'd like to be an optimist and believe that she's a rare case, but I'm really starting to think that AWALT is true. Quite a lot of the women on this sub are incredibly demoralizing, and they really hit it home on how degrading it is to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:53 PM
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You're right, there is no set attraction level for women, you gotta be the best of the best, and if everyone goes up than the bar goes up. It's rough, and honestly speaking, fuck them for that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:51 PM
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She wants biased responses to float to the top haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:43 PM
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Same thing happens with single fathers but no one whines about it, who the fuck wants to take care of kids that aren't yours, it's literally extra emotional and financial baggage. And who knows how jaded the mother might be too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:42 PM
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Being attractive solves the issue for both sides haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:40 PM
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women are disgusted by male sexuality period. ONLY the man being involved with THEM and them being aroused makes male sexuality tolerable Wait so men that are unattractive to women, having any form of sexual act is disgusting to these women? And the only way around this would be for her to be attracted to him, and for them to be doing the sexual acts together?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:02 PM
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Most of the women here would quickly get divorced/dumped and then be black listed for life haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:32 PM
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First off why would you ever marry someone who didn't give you enthusiastic sex and totally satisfy you in bed. Like... what? Sign up for 60 years of unenthusiastic sex? Why would you do that to yourself. No, if I ever was in an unenthusiastic sex relationship I'd leave it ASAP.. youre kinda telling on yourself here man You'd be surprised at how many guys don't get enthusiastic sex, many men are nothing more than a means to and end for her. She won't be putting in the effort or enthusiasm becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:30 PM
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Some guy gets to have quick and easy sex with a younger and more attractive version of your wife, whom at the time would've likely thought poorly of you. Simultaneously she lusted for that guy far more than she ever will for you, he gets more enthusiastic sex than you ever will, at the same time she'll do things with him that she'd never do with you because she fears being judged. There's a chance that he'll get to have sex with her multiple times too. What he got quickly and easily, you've had …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:46 AM
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Smart move, don't forget to upload them on Imgur and share the links haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:29 PM
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Keep track of usernames boys, the enemy are about to out themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:36 PM
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Sure okay haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:45 PM
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That effectively the same position as before haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:46 PM
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Exceptions to the norm always exists, doesn't really change my point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:45 PM
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The average guy failed like 99.99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:43 PM
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I and some of my friends don't match this extreme example you've made, for example, one is a genuinely kind guy and he struggles horribly, never getting a second date after many attempts. And to those guys you described who do get into relationships, they had faced many many many failures and rejections before they got into one relationship, that was my point they get rejected like crazy, largely because of the mismatch of attraction and interest. Women get the interest relatively easily, most m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:25 PM
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How often does that happen? It's not something that can be counted on whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:18 PM
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This really hits home how transactional dating and coupling with women is haha Makes the concept of pursuing them seem degrading honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:51 AM
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Girls show interest through telepathy and smoke signals, and beyond that they have absolutely insane standards, and 99.99% of them refuse to ever approach. Also the examples you gave are a bit weak and extreme, the vast majority of men give up for a simple no, let alone for something more substantial as the woman is already in a relationship and even more so, her being a lesbian haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:45 AM
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I see what you mean but its not really the person that gains the SMV it's the job that has it, the person just benefits Edit: the airline pilot thing is just for free flights, nothing else
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:40 AM
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Yes but men are declined nearly every single time, that's the difference and you're seemingly ignoring it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:28 AM
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This makes some sense but it's still too optimistic haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:26 AM
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I'm already working on it haha So far I'm down about 20lbs, I had lost 50lbs previously but gained a ton from Christmas and my gym was closed right after for awhile (I used the one in my apartment building). I've got what it takes to grind it out long enough to make good progress I just gotta get back into that flow, I've only started going back to the gym a few days ago, though now it's an actual gym and not just the one in my building
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:25 AM
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I've been shown interest from 3 girls in highschool, 2 asked me out, one did multiple times and the other only once, the third girl only did some heavy IOI. Since then I've received IOI from one more girl in another school, and beyond that to the present day nothing, for about the past roughly 5-6 years. I suppose all the interest I got was because I was gigantic compared to my average classmates and comfortably larger than those who were nearing my size, I am 6'4" with broad shoulders, large ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:10 AM
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They want free flights, not you haha Women are terrible when they constantly pull crap like that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:57 AM
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Yeah obviously you're a woman haha If you were a guy they'd both turn you down haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:55 AM
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Lucky ones and hot ones, it's a constant failure otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:53 AM
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The context that matters is whether or not a potential spouse cares about the number, and whether or not she's honest about it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:52 AM
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I'm 24 lmfao Fat parents made me fat and fucking ruined my chances haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:40 AM
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Because you're a young male virgin and this sub lays it out as to how difficult it is to get with women and how dishonest and demanding they are haha, we're in the same boat so I might be right on what you feel haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:38 AM
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Just remake the thread in a neutral way that isn't so personal, use yourself as an 'example' if you want and then ask people what men in this type of situation should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:03 AM
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N0t Th3 Si2E 0f tH3 BO4T
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:54 AM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/uAUjekSZ7-k?feature=share
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:45 AM
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Yet another reason to give up haha I'm not even small but this becoming too much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:42 AM
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These people are down voting the guy hard when he talks about the issues he's facing, absolutely brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:26 AM
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I just had a girl earlier today send me pics of herself and asked me to rate her and give her a man's opinion on how she can improve her appearance, she had wanted to transform herself from a 5 to an 8. It was quite interesting having this conversation with her, especially as she was nearly my age, and a bit fun too. We were on the same page for a few points too which was a bit surprising, she seemed to have good self awareness and overall she seemed quite nice, especially for a PPD woman hahaha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 01:00 AM
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