FatedMoody Archive

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4	My dating coach showed me videos on street pick up - the anxiety and cringe was so bad I couldn't finish the playlist. Being uncomfortable with expressing your intentions/interest will protect you from rejection but will likely mean you won’t get the girl you want unless you get really lucky with a girl that’s willing to go out of her way to make all the moves. I’m sure you know already how unlikely this is. And even if this happens, you’ll constantly be in fear of losing this relationship because you won’t know how to express yourself well enough to attract the next girl. This will leave you vulnerable to girls…	/r/seduction	28/07/26 02:07 AM
13	My dating coach showed me videos on street pick up - the anxiety and cringe was so bad I couldn't finish the playlist. Honestly this sounds like cope. This to me reads to me you’re afraid of being vulnerable, and being rejected	/r/seduction	28/07/26 01:26 AM
11	Men not going to college I disagree has anything to do with how expensive college is. Look at conservative/republican position s ranging from vaccines, climate change, forcing religion in schools and tell me they aren't anti education/science	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 06:42 PM
1	Women: on a scale from 1 - 10 how do you feel about being approached in by a man in public who wants to give you his phone number? Yea I agree that getting a super clear non-verbal invitation to approach is very rare. Most times it is extremely ambiguous. How will you know the difference if you don’t try? I guess you can err on the side of safety and politeness. It seems that is for the most part what people are doing but to me seems to dim the possibilities of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 06:45 AM
1	Women: on a scale from 1 - 10 how do you feel about being approached in by a man in public who wants to give you his phone number? Yea I again I think we can agree that is inappropriate behavior but we can we agree there is a spectrum here and that is a bit extreme?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 06:12 AM
1	Women: on a scale from 1 - 10 how do you feel about being approached in by a man in public who wants to give you his phone number? Yes I definitely understand the nuances between what I’m describing and the extreme you’re describing. Sure are there some guys that take all the PUA stuff too far? Definitely. However approaching and having conversations with strangers can also be therapeutic. CBT in particular uses this approach for people that have social anxiety. I generally I believe we should encourage people to try and social with one another but emphasize respectfulness and respect. With the situation you describe those …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 06:03 AM
1	Women: on a scale from 1 - 10 how do you feel about being approached in by a man in public who wants to give you his phone number? Ok so you’re saying that you can go up to woman on the street depending on context no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 05:49 AM
1	Women: on a scale from 1 - 10 how do you feel about being approached in by a man in public who wants to give you his phone number? Isn’t that too black and white? Two lock eves with each other smile while walking by you’re saying these people never should talk to each other?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 05:47 AM
2	Discouraging men from approaching women perpetuates a culture in which only the least desirable men approach Ok that’s fair. I think we can agree on that 👍	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 03:31 PM
2	Discouraging men from approaching women perpetuates a culture in which only the least desirable men approach Ok what those young people activity on sugar baby websites? Would you count these people in the 90%?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 03:25 PM
2	Discouraging men from approaching women perpetuates a culture in which only the least desirable men approach Ok then you are saying that some relationships with large age can be achieved without manipulation? Or are you saying any relationship between someone 18-25 to someone much older is always the younger person targeted by a predator?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 02:50 PM
3	Discouraging men from approaching women perpetuates a culture in which only the least desirable men approach Sure I understand manipulation. Every one of us could be manipulated. But correct me if I'm wrong, you're saying that in this circumstance it can only be manipulation because they can't make this decision because their brains are fully formed yet. Is that right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 05:22 PM
3	Discouraging men from approaching women perpetuates a culture in which only the least desirable men approach But again I go back to your original premise that a person's brain isn't fully developed until 25, are you saying that people 18 to 25 aren't capable of making this decision themselves? You seem to agree that they should be able to make a large array of life changing decisions and deal with the fallout but not this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 04:45 PM
3	Discouraging men from approaching women perpetuates a culture in which only the least desirable men approach use the persons lack of life experience against them Couldn't this same be said for the government trying to get them into the military or people trying to convince these people into a job that might not have a future or credit card companies that give them cheap credit that might be dangerous? These organizations are making an offer and it is just to the young person to make a choice and deal with the "fallout" of that choice as you say. I don't understand how you're ok with young people being …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 04:37 PM
3	Discouraging men from approaching women perpetuates a culture in which only the least desirable men approach Yes but think what you’re saying. If you are questioning their judgement and brain development in their ability to make decisions here then can’t this be applied everywhere? Do you think young women should be allowed to make decisions on their own bodies eg abortion? Should be allowed to decide to move far away from parents? Do young men not be allowed to decide for themselves whether to join the army? Should either either gender under 25 be allowed to take loans to purchase a house or start a b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 03:56 PM
3	Discouraging men from approaching women perpetuates a culture in which only the least desirable men approach Ok so according to your logic women between 18-25 aren't “real” adults and you shouldn't trust their judgement? Don't you think that's patronizing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 01:23 PM
3	Everything TRP states is true, but only for low-socio social circles Ok by your definition then now King Charles is the upper class? How about the Kennedys in the US? Does Jeff Bezo or Elon Musk count?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/23 12:47 PM
1	CMV: "Approaching women" is dumb and a waste of time. The upside you listed doesn't seem worth enough for the downsides listed. Ok that’s fair. I mean if you’ve found other avenues work better for you then cold approaching isn’t necessary. Guess my experience I know the odds are long but when it hits it’s amazing. One of my fav ex-girlfriend I meet through random cold approach exhibiting sexual attraction to a woman you don't know seems so demonized in society. Agreed it definitely isn’t looked favorably these days however remember society can be w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 09:45 PM
5	How to cold approach a woman and how not too. Isn’t it all about goals in an interaction? Talking to women isn’t a waste of time however if your goal is a date a particular woman but don’t show your interest/intentions then that is a waste of time, don’t you think?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 06:45 PM
0	CMV: "Approaching women" is dumb and a waste of time. Yes, you can, and I do. I think most people take calculated risks Sure calculated risk but then if that’s the case what is the downside of a cold approach? A bruised ego and possible awkwardness but the upside could be a friend and everything in between that and a great relationship. cold approaching another man with the intention of becoming friends doesn't have the same connotation of "I'm trying to fuck you" as cold approaching a woman. So then I take this to mean you’re saying showing sexual…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 06:41 PM
0	CMV: "Approaching women" is dumb and a waste of time. Can’t you use this line of thinking of taking any kind of risk? Like why apply to a job or why trying to get into that college or why try to make friends?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 06:19 PM
13	People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take? I like this. Been focused too much on the results lately and not the journey	/r/seduction	03/05/22 11:56 AM
4	Why Ridiculous Pickup Lines Get Me Laid That’s fair. Should go out and find out for yourself. However there should caveat this is a high risk play. Some of these lines are basically negging. Difficult for many guys to pull that off as tease and not insulting	/r/seduction	22/01/22 02:23 PM
12	Why Ridiculous Pickup Lines Get Me Laid Uhhh… how is this any different than reading a random guy on the internet that says it is possible? Lol	/r/seduction	22/01/22 01:21 PM
2	You know you’re making enough approaches when your brain can’t fathom why you wouldn’t be doing it. Man this is exactly where I want to be. Would love to get to the point where approaching becomes 2nd nature. After getting laid this is probably what I want most of all. Just be able to conquer my fears. Thanks for reminding me why I’m doing this and my big picture goals!	/r/seduction	02/06/19 10:39 PM
12	All you need is 5 seconds of will power Really great video! Been struggling lately trying to improve myself and challenge my fears. This was a great reminder why.	/r/seduction	01/08/16 09:14 PM