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I’m glad I’m sex repulsed. Helps to avoid situations like these
/r/BlackPillScience29/06/25 02:30 PM
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Growing up every guy I saw doing well with women was extremely soft and feminine looking so you may have a point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:24 PM
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Long story short, nobody knows what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:27 PM
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The women are dating each other. That was my point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:46 PM
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If you’re any kind of dude in those parts you won’t date women. Earlier this year I read an article from the hill that said 61% of men are single as opposed to roughly 30% of women. Keep in mind these coastal areas are more populated so most of the responses are coming from those states. Do the math and it paints a very bleak result for lonely men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:50 AM
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I’ve always been surprised by people who need alcohol to be social. When I drink I’m an obnoxious ass doing just about anything to get a laugh. Normally I’m like them drunk (as far as sociability that is). Social anxiety has existed since the beginning of time. It’s a survival tool that’s not exactly useful in an environment where people are trying to have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:39 AM
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Well I went to schools full of women who slept around with hot, athletic guys who had little to no body hair so that definitely shaped my worldview. When I finally had my first relationship at 26 I couldn’t help but view it as a fling right from the beginning and I turned out to be right because she was yet another slut and I was just her latest fix. I do believe that women are only as good as their options. However, I can’t fault them for that because if I had been able to get sex that easily I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:31 PM
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Speaking for myself I would hate it if I was with somebody who just wanted to stay home all day. I need excitement and in order to have that she’ll also have to have some kind of employment. The problem is that society is aging a lot more slowly than previous generations so to the average onlooker it does appear that human beings have become eternal adolescents. Women in their 30s are no more mature than they were at 19 because they still care about what others think. That basically eliminates a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:47 PM
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I’ve been in your shoes. She’s the type that fucks around a lot and can’t commit. Don’t fall for it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:32 AM
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At my age I would immediately sense desperation. I dated someone who was desperate so I know where that leads. Short term fling at best
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:31 AM
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I know my parents wanted to keep me from getting sucked into criminal activity and that’s why they made this decision. Glad it worked out better for you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:15 PM
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Growing up in the inner city you see a lot of stuff a lot sooner than most. HS was different because I went to a private school full of rich snobs who looked down on me and treated me like a joke. I’d respond by making the crudest jokes I possibly could just to make them uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:57 PM
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If women didn’t exist then broship would never die. As far back as middle school I noticed that nobody was the same with me after they started dating. But the species needs to keep on going and unfortunately most men will have to put up with women’s bullshit in order to make that happen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:16 PM
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They're not saying they date the top 20%, just that they're competing for them. Big difference. How do you think the concept of femcels came about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:01 AM
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Basically. Wouldn’t you say I’m making the right choice under these circumstances? I think I’m better than a guy who would take out his jealous feelings on his gf. At least I have the decency not to make anybody else put up with my shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:04 AM
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I could tell from the beginning that she was trying to convince herself she wanted that but really had no idea what she wanted. I was right. When they start talking about that stuff within the first two or three times of meeting them, run!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:02 AM
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When I was in college I was surrounded by women who slept around and guys who couldn’t go a week without getting laid. I quickly figured out that people experiment during their early 20s with the hope that they meet the one. I didn’t get that opportunity so it’s obvious that my only options are the ones nobody wanted. Usually for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:25 AM
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Well I wouldn’t want somebody who’s likely to take off on me whenever she feels like it which is why I don’t date divorcees, single moms or women who haven’t been single since their teens and have had 20+ relationships. Because I’m in my 30s this is all that’s out there which is why I don’t date at all. Call me traditional I suppose but in my early 20s I would’ve said the opposite (had I been dating)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:11 AM
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I was 26 when it happened for the first time and I had to settle for some worthless piece of trash on instagram who just wanted to cheat on her husband. Even if I didn’t advertise my lack of experience or make it known there was still the fact that nobody I went to school with or worked with ever saw me with a girl. You’re fucked if it doesn’t happen by the time you’re 21 I’d say. Probably younger if your peers are sex addicts like mine were
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:05 AM
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You’re 100% correct. I didn’t get my first girlfriend until age 26. She was 25. Right away she was bringing up marriage, kids and all that shit because she had dated so much that she wanted to settle down to prove she wasn’t just a slut. Meanwhile I’m new to all of this so this situation made me extremely uncomfortable and put me off from dating permanently. For a while I was mad that I missed out on how great love and relationships can be and had to come to terms with the fact that I’m probably…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:58 PM
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Only in the west can women have a kid with somebody and then kick the guy out of her life. Try doing that in the east 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:50 PM
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I spent years trying to make myself look more boyish but it was to no avail. I lost weight, started working out, always shaved my face as close as possible, used various skin care products, wore clothing from American Eagle, wore light misty smelling cologne and anything else I could to look like I was in my early 20s. It didn’t work. Eventually at 27 I just gave up and grew a beard. I suppose now that I’m older I could attract women my age but given everything they’ve probably gone through I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:01 PM
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So in other words what I’m saying is correct. These 20 year olds who can’t get laid never will. And if they do they’ll probably be rich and successful only to be accused of rape and have it all taken
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:29 AM
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Except I wasn’t actually 40. I’m not even 40 as of yet (got another six years). I was 18 but kept getting told I look old. College sucked now that I look back on it. I never stood a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:12 PM
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TRP clearly appeals to men who don’t really care if the women they date like them or not. I would imagine some guys who stumble upon this ideology are looking for genuine connections that they’re just not gonna find. If you wanna attract golddiggers then I guess you’re doing fine taking to this line of thinking because that’s all you’re gonna get
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:41 PM
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I was not an older guy. I was the same age as them. I just looked extremely old for my age. The reactions left me with the impression that I was unlovable and would only ever attract golddiggers which may have killed my ambition but I don’t wanna turn this into a sob story. I just know what I saw and young women are sexually attracted to guys who look to be about the same age as them. Anything else is a golddigger scenario. As for the MIT example, nerds have a problem completely unrelated to app…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:36 PM
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Very few actually know what that’s like. I don’t wish it on anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:06 PM
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I wasn’t balding but I was overweight, had rough looking facial features and a very obvious five o clock shadow. Even though I shaved regularly it was still obvious that I could grow a thick beard. The fact that the guys I hung out with told me I looked like Luis Guzman was all I needed to know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:39 PM
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From what I’ve seen a woman with a high body count is usually somebody who’s running away from something. Whether it’s a feeling of inadequacy, her family, her religion, her self, etc. there’s always something in her life that she can’t stand. That alone is what destroys her relationships. The girl I dated hadn’t been single since she was 17 and I know she’s never gonna change because she’s just an unhappy person deep down. I don’t really know what a man with a high body count would indicate but…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:26 PM
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I’ve only had sex with two women and only finished in one of them. Despite this low body count I’m single in my mid 30s and don’t see that changing. Especially knowing that most single women my age are too traumatized from past experiences for me to be able to tolerate. There’s more than just body count playing into it. In fact I’d say a guy with a higher body count is more likely to have success in finding a relationship because he knows he has options and he knows they won’t be there forever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:05 PM
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When I first went to college I immediately found myself surrounded by sex addicts. This was very frustrating because I was fat, looked old, had hair all over my body and wasn’t very athletic or physically gifted. I knew I had no chance with the superficial girls on that campus. Believe me man I’ve dealt with that shame. It got so intense that I overdid it with the drugs and alcohol to cope with all of this and got myself academically dismissed. It wasn’t just the shame of it not being able to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:54 PM
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Progressive women are incredibly hypocritical and don’t believe any of the stuff they say. They just say it to be relevant in today’s culture. Like most women they’re not very logical but if you really believe in this I can see how it’s frustrating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:45 PM
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They don’t know. It was not suspected the first time I had sex and I was already in my 20s so if there was any awkwardness it would’ve been pointed out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:57 PM
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I’m single and I don’t feel lonely at all. I have a friend who’s also single and we hang out frequently. We take vacations once a year and have a blast. I would not have the same amount of fun with a wife
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:54 PM
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When you get to be a certain age people aren’t as open to letting in newcomers. By your late 20s most groups start to splinter off into couples and nobody really goes out anymore. I didn’t have a group when I was in my 20s but I still saw this happen on social media. At some point the pics at bars and events were replaced with pics of weddings and children. I’ll just give you the bad news; you’ll always be single. The good news is it’s not as bad as everybody makes it sound
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:45 PM
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I look at my former peers when they show up on Facebook and I see lives that don’t seem the least bit appealing to me. They conformed to societal expectations. I rebelled against them. I’ve never wanted kids or a house (ironic that I just inherited one from my deceased father). I did maybe wanna get married but that feeling sort of came and went once I realized there was no way to have a wife without the other things I mentioned. My only regret is not having had sex a lot sooner because that wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:32 PM
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You said it yourself. Date with the expectation of having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:27 PM
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Typically people who expect that either haven’t had sex in a long time or they never had it at all and wanna get it over with. The latter was me ten years ago. But I am taking your advice and not dating. Except in my case it might be more literal than what you’re implying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:43 PM
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I’ve only had one relationship in my entire life from late 2015 to spring of 2016. Since then I’ve made minimal effort to find someone else. A lot of these lonely dudes are probably like me, people who never wanted a relationship so they don’t get past their insecurities and make an effort. I just wanted to experience sex and know what it felt like because when I was in college that was all the guys talked about and I felt like I was missing out. Before then I didn’t really care about it one way…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:38 PM
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The anti man stuff has been around for a very long time. I was in high school during the 2000s and I already noticed that the male stars all seemed rather effeminate. Now it’s even worse and the breaking point was probably when Hillary lost to Trump. A woman losing to a piggish business man really pissed off the feminist crowd. Since then a lot more men than usual have opted to start taking estrogen, grow their hair out and wear dresses. I wouldn’t worry too much about it. The earth is overpopul…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:27 PM
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I’m the last person who should be discussing this due to my lack of significant experience but this strikes me as a situation where you kinda need to feel a spark. Why would anybody waste their time with somebody they feel nothing for? Might as well be hanging around with bums at a bus station if that’s the case
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:22 PM
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Women talk a good game about how they want an emotionally mature guy but at the end of the day they hate weak men and need somebody who’s gonna bring in a good income and be able to do repairs around the house. When they’re young they focus mostly on looks and as someone who always looked older than his age, it didn’t help. Only certain types of men are cut out for this shit and I am not one of them nor do I wanna be
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:30 PM
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I just don’t trust women and I’m not sure I ever have. I see them hopping from one relationship to another and that leaves me thinking that they have an unstable identity that they try to solidify through partners. If somebody can’t be single for more than a month or two then I can only assume I’m just another bum who’s here today, gone tomorrow. The worst is when they endlessly complain about these guys and you didn’t pick them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:37 PM
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I’ve been single for 99% of my life. Excuse me if I think I deserve the best I can get for dealing with those years of loneliness I went to college with a bunch of sex addicts who had way higher sexual market value than me. Blame my environment for my attitude. Before then I hardly ever thought about sex or dating I never put any thought into that so I can’t comment I don’t try because I know it’s too late. I come on here to make feminists mad because it amuses me Like I said, it would take a mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:39 PM
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Well I’m not and don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:50 PM
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I’ve only had one relationship in my entire life and it lasted roughly six or seven months. She was a basket case who had no idea what she wanted and regularly jumped from partner to partner. There is an argument that she contributed to my mentality but I think this really is just a personal preference. I have no interest in women who have been run through so many times that they no longer feel anything for anybody. They tend to be very demanding in the bedroom and I have such little sexual expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:33 PM
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Well I move through life at a much slower pace than most people. Always have
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:45 PM
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34
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:38 PM
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I’ve been single since 2016
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:49 PM
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Meh. I don’t really like sex with another person. I’d rather just masturbate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:11 PM
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When you’re surrounded by trust fund babies who get sex whenever they want it and boast about it constantly you can’t really help but want some just to see what you’re missing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:03 PM
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I have one friend and the only family I have is an aunt and an uncle. I already passed the loneliness phase a long time ago and now find myself wondering why I felt self conscious over it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:01 PM
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In that case I consider myself lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:00 PM
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I’m a man and at this point I’m repulsed by the idea of sticking my dick in anybody or being affectionate with them. Anybody I got involved with would have to accept that I probably won’t even wanna touch them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:18 PM
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Growing up I was physically and verbally abused by my mom, saw my aunt as very controlling, had female teachers that were mean and nasty to me and found myself wishing I had siblings so I wouldn’t be alone in all of this. Plus my dad was away from home for two weeks at a time because of his job and I always knew that was why the marriage lasted because literally anybody would’ve needed a break from my mom even if it meant busting your ass on a fishing boat. This left me with no desire for marria…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:10 PM
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No. I’m a man who didn’t have a girlfriend or any sex until age 26. As soon as it was over I gradually lost interest in any kind of relations. By the time I was 30 I just didn’t want it anymore. I will never believe that anybody I meet now is all about me. I’ll always think they’re settling
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:58 PM
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That message is exactly what creates red and black pillers. They try the self improvement stuff, it doesn’t work, they realize they’ve been lied to, they see the same people who gave them that advice acting like clowns and still getting laid, they take to the internet and spew a bunch of hateful thoughts and then they get people thinking they’re gonna become school shooters. It really helps when a shooting just happened because then the media really hammers in that message
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:51 PM
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As someone who was in that category ten years ago I can tell you they’re not lying. It took me until age 26 to get anything and that only happened because a married woman was bored and thought I’d be exciting based on what she saw on Instagram. Women get sex a lot more easily because they really don’t have to do very much aside from not being 100% repulsive. Men actually have to work for it and only certain ones are cut out for the competitive nature of the dating and sex world
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:49 PM
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I actually went to college and it did exist. I walked in on my roommate fucking girls all the time. From what I’ve seen that’s the way to do it. Most marriages are based on superficialities such as status, resources, sperm count, etc. Why anybody wants that life is beyond me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:23 PM
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I didn’t date or have sex until age 26 so for me it’s a form of entitlement. After having had to wait that long I shouldn’t have to settle for somebody who doesn’t make me wanna touch them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:04 PM
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Personally I don’t like sex that much and prefer masturbation. I’ve never had a satisfying sexual experience. Even when I managed to cum it only happened because my mind was off in lala land imagining other scenarios. This seems to be a general theme in my life where I prefer my imagination to reality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:02 PM
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No. I have never wanted to be with anybody who didn’t feel any attraction to me. When I was in school I could tell girls weren’t into me so I didn’t even bother trying. It was obvious that the only kind of woman I’d ever get would be a golddigger which played into my lack of ambition
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:58 PM
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A lot of western women have been run through multiple times, become incredibly jaded and in a way get off on seeing men not be able to get laid. It’s like a form of revenge for the douches they were stupid enough to fall for
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:56 PM
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When I was in that age bracket I tried twice and failed. I quickly learned that waiting for them to come to me was the only option and when that’s the option the quality is terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:53 PM
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I didn’t cum early. I didn’t cum at all except maybe five different sessions. It took a lot of concentration and didn’t happen for at least a half hour. Apparently I have the opposite problem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:34 AM
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I lied about my status the first time because of just that. It used to be a huge area of shame for me but now I don’t care if anyone finds that out. Chances are they knew it all along anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:06 AM
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American women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:37 AM
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She probably had controlling parents, social anxiety, a body image disorder, interests that are more individual than group oriented, extreme envy, sensory processing issues, a religious background instilled in her at a young age that she eventually rejected but it still followed her around like a curse, trouble finding a job and keeping it, two therapists who didn’t help her at all and she can’t help but give off a melancholic vibe so she tries to be personable but it requires so much attention …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:27 AM
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From what I remember I was good at cunnilingus and using my fingers but struggled when it came to using my dick. ED
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:33 PM
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Oh yeah like a high school or college aged girl would’ve wanted a guy who was overweight, looked way older than he was (there were rumors that I was in my 30s), had a body covered in fur and had little to no athletic ability. Fuck off with that bullshit!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:18 PM
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I’m 34. Any woman I meet now is gonna be a single mom, somebody who hops from bed to bed, extremely unattractive or have something else wrong with her. Women who are single are single for a reason. If a guy is single it’s because he got screwed in life. The worst part is that if I wanted to date someone fresh out of college I would then have angry, pink haired feminists with half their heads shaved trashing me all over social media and attempting to doxx me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:25 PM
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She was a sex addict. That was her attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:06 PM
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She didn’t know I was inexperienced. This wasn’t really something I liked to broadcast
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:50 PM
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Bold of you to assume I talked about them like that in my youth. I didn’t. I’m just no longer afraid to be abrasive because now my goal has become to turn women off. If they didn’t want me back then I have no use for them now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:49 PM
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Well she was. There’s literally no other way to describe somebody who had never been single longer than five months
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:12 PM
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I find that a lot of women who are really vocal about this either got taken advantage of by an older guy when they were young or had a kid young which lowered their market value. It’s all resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:23 PM
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Obviously I notice if a woman is attractive but I have no interest in doing anything with her. I’d rather just rub one out. Gets the job done faster and I don’t have to deal with knowing that I’ll be temporary before she moves on
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:12 AM
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I haven’t had sex since 2016 and all I’ve noticed is that I no longer have any interest in the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:50 AM
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Yeah that’s exactly what I did. At 23 I knew I would never find anybody because I was already out of college and gained no experience during that time. Women don’t respect guys who lack experience. I stopped thinking about it for as long as I could until at age 25 I became enraged at my situation and destroyed everything around me. At 26 I got on tinder and met a girl who I dated for seven months. She was 25 and hadn’t been single since she was 17. I knew it was doomed from the start so I just e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:49 AM
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Why do you think I’m 34 and single? I had my first relationship at 26 and right from the start I knew it would be short lived. If you failed to attract anybody in high school or college it’s a pretty safe bet that you’ll never find a good woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:45 AM
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If you’re a man and your family doesn’t encourage you to date while you’re in high school or college and makes it sound like a stupid idea, expect to be alone forever. The world will not wait for you to catch up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:12 PM
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When I was 22 people thought I was 30. Now I’m 34 and some people think I look older while others are saying I aged well. There’s no way to determine somebody’s age based on how they look
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:45 PM
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Women get approached by men way more often than the opposite. They have way more options as a result so they do not finish last. As men we have to move fast or risk being alone. I learned that the hard way. Anybody who says good things come to those who wait should be thrown off a balcony
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:42 PM
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I didn’t have sex until I was 26 and had to settle for a married woman on Instagram who wanted a fling. Months later I got into a relationship with a serial dater who hadn’t been single since she was 17. Your options are not good at all if you’re a late bloomer. I’ve been single for seven years and don’t see that changing. Once I realized that the world had screwed me in love this badly I stopped caring
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:39 AM
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Neither situation will lead to greater happiness for anybody. If you reach a certain age and haven’t been laid you might as well just accept that nothing will make up for lost time. But I suppose it is better to at least know what you’ve missed out on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:31 PM
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I lost my virginity at 26 to a married woman who had three kids. While you are correct that beggars can’t be choosers you fail to ignore what a situation like this can do to one’s brain. Knowing that this is the best you can do leads to no enjoyment of sex and even more bitterness towards your life and the trajectory it has followed. Just hearing people bring up the topic of sex makes me angry and causes me to have misogynistic outbursts. Not to mention that I now have such a lack of empathy for…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:38 PM
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I’d say a much younger woman. By the time women are 30 they’ll have so much experience under their belts that a virgin would be a huge turn off. I’ve read articles written by women in their 20s who had this happen and turned the guy down as soon as they found out. Plus if you’re a virgin at 30 then it can only be assumed you’ve had nothing in terms of relationships which will also be a red flag for women who already know what they want. I had my first sexual experience when I was 26 and the girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:38 PM
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At this point in my life neither
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:52 AM
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Yeah I came of age when the internet was first starting out and it was not the reason for my lack of dating options. Some of us are just naturally unlucky
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:50 AM
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I realize that is a general rule of thumb but because I’m an exception I felt the need to chime in. I’m a 32 (soon to be 33) year old male and I actually wanna be forever alone. I do not like the options out there and see absolutely nothing I could gain from a relationship. I don’t like sex, I do my own laundry, cook for myself, maintain my living space in a halfway decent manner, can come up with a number of activities to engage in on my own and in general have almost nothing in common with wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:39 PM
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I lift weights six days a week, box at least two or three days a week, eat a lot of protein, consume almost no sugar and drink a gallon of water a day. I don’t see how I could have low testosterone. Especially considering that I have to manscape regularly or I’ll look like tumbleweed with a head. This is all bitterness over not having fucked 19/20 year olds when I was that age
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:22 PM
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A doc won’t help me. Everything I just described is mental. As much as I hate to admit it I’m still pissed off that I didn’t have sex in high school or college and it’s keeping me from wanting to have sex now. I have a problem with being late to things and lose interest if too much time has passed. Because I wasn’t able to have sex until my peers were getting married and starting families it became unappealing to me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:47 AM
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I went through the same thing. It sucks but at least you have the comfort of knowing you won’t end up with a nagging wife, rotten kids and a mortgage that takes you a lifetime to pay off
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:42 AM
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I’m turning 33 in a couple of months and I’ve been celibate for six years. I didn’t have sex until I was 26 (it’s a complicated story) and when I finally had it I realized that it wasn’t doing anything for me. I tried to enjoy it over the next year but could never finish or stay erect. If anybody has suffered from sexual FOMO it’s me because I’m left thinking that this happened as a result of getting such a late start. I tried to have sex again when I was 28 or 29 and never got an erection. To m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:39 AM
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I don’t let it bother me. I prefer masturbation to sex and anyone who criticizes me for this has no reason to do so because clearly I have no intention of doing anything with them. There comes a time in everyone’s life where they just have to say “fuck people!” This is your life and you do what makes you happy regardless of external opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:31 AM
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That seems reasonable. I’m not sexually active but I always encourage people to explore their sexuality and figure out what they like. If you don’t experiment then how will you ever know what turns you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:23 PM
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I’m not in a relationship and don’t want one. If I am RP then I’ve been that way since childhood because observing my parents’ marriage made me never want one. If anything I’m just bitter over not having sowed my wild oats when I was younger but it’s too late to be complaining about that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:40 PM
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This is usually what happens. A lack of interest is attractive for whatever reason. I don’t want a family and most women my age are desperate to have one so I go beyond not showing interest. I intentionally make myself less appealing to women by constantly dropping profanity, vaping juul, blasting death metal and being brutally honest about everything. So far it’s worked
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:35 PM
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I’m contributing to that in my personal life and you know what they say, you need to be the change you wanna see in the world. I wouldn’t let couples get you down because most of them are miserable anyway. They just don’t show it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:50 PM
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I’m in my early 30s and this seems to be the age when a lot of people I once knew are getting married so I’d say mid to late 20s. I, however, have no intention of dating because the vast majority of women want children and I don’t. Plus I just don’t really find them that interesting or attractive as they get older so I’d rather not damn myself to a miserable existence
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:45 PM
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