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DISCUSSIONFatpandasneezes/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 11:35 PM
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It sounds like you're in a tough spot, and perhaps need to venture into some different circles. For reference, I have 2 more degrees than my husband does, and yet I'm a sahm and he's the breadwinner. Never has my education emasculated him, in fact, he's proud of my achievements and encourages me to pursue my dreams. It seems you may be better off changing your environment rather than yourself, given what you've noted.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 06:41 AM
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That's an unhelpful comment, seems it must stem from a pretty grim outlook on life. My husband enjoys head but definitely does not expect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:16 AM
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I mean, if you do cook extra and end up with leftovers that no one eats. Maybe freeze it the next day or within a couple days? Then it can just be an easy meal in the future on a "lazy day" or a day where you aren't available and he'd otherwise get take out or something.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/21 06:24 PM
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As someone who married someone just like that, and chose not to date someone else who arguably was also just like that (and probably a little wealthier too), it comes down to personality. Does he know what he wants? Can he make me laugh? Do we have similar life goals?.... This is where "personality" comes in, I think
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:23 PM
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Download the Tody app! It tells you when you need to so something and you can use the options to select what tasks are in your house (ex. Whether or not you have a basement). Then it'll just give you some daily tasks. My house was super messy and I was definitely a marathon cleaner until I got this.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 07:09 AM
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If anyone is looking for an app/list to help them with chores, download Tody! I found it in another post on either here or RPWives and it's definitely helped me pick up the pace around the house and keep things in order. The Mister likes to check out my "completed" list at the end of the day too and then he'll sing some praises about how hard I worked so it's working well! (and this is coming from someone who is soooo not a good house cleaner lol)
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 04:52 PM
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folding clothes always seems incredibly tedious when I'm doing that(no joke 99% of our closet is hanging just so I can avoid folding.) I do like the rest of the laundry cycle though. Omg are you me? I literally couldn't agree more!
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 06:17 PM
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I'm kinda in the same boat - 50/50 split, but now unemployed so I'm taking over most of the household duties (probably like 95/5). I've always despised house cleaning. The worst of which is folding/hanging laundry (though washing/drying is definitely my favourite too). Recently on this or another of the female-centered RP subreddits, I saw a recommendation for an app called Tody. Game. Changer. You can set it up to notify you when to clean what, and then you check it off and it'll cheer for you.…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 06:12 PM
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Unless she's interested in that. I'd love to explore the holocaust section of a museum, learning more about the history behind those events is just so fascinating. (not that it isn't horrific, but it's right on that line that hits the spot for me)
/r/seduction13/08/19 05:02 PM
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Groupons! My husband and I have been taking turn picking different groupons and trying new experiences about once a week or so. We've enjoyed them all so far and most of the "Things to Do" have a little mementos you can bring home afterwards as well.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/19 07:25 PM
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I always try to "serve" my guy in front of his friends, more so than I even would on a normal day. Make his coffee, bring his things, just wait on him hand and foot. I always agree with him as well, or defer to him if anything comes up. We can always chat afterwards if it's REALLY necessary. My man loves it, and I've seen the envy in his friend's eyes. They've even commented on it, asking their own SO's why they never do that. (hint: it's because their SO is a self-proclaimed 'feminist').
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 05:21 PM
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I'm a 27 year old woman. I have 2 degrees, and a "non-STEM" career. I have ALWAYS wanted to be barefoot in the kitchen raising kids. That is the ideal, in fact, when I dated (I'm married now), that was one of the things I would make sure we discussed. I want to be a SAHM. In fact, I am on my way to doing that now. Based on my career, we have discussed when it'd make the most sense for me to go on mat-leave, and my husband and I will start "trying" in a few months. If I could have skipped the edu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 06:20 PM
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Sure, but height is much more predictable based on parental heights than attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 03:43 AM
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But it isn't completely unrelated either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 02:42 AM
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He called me "baby girl" no more than an hour ago
/r/RedPillWives02/08/17 04:05 AM
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Maybe not, until you learn that you were the best candidate for jobs but because of your name, you aren't called for an interview over 6% of the time
/r/MensRights03/07/17 05:52 PM
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Contrary to every comment here, I'd definitely go tall and ugly. I like to believe ugliness is just a result of an undesirable combination of features, whereas height isn't as variable..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 02:28 AM
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I told my Man right away. It's something in into and something I want to explore, I needed to know if he was on the same page. He definitely hadn't dabbled before, and I'd only done it virtually (we're both each other's firsts), we chatted and explored together and..... It worked well git me! We're engaged and to be married next year.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 06:12 AM
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I think you're in the wrong subreddit
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/17 08:25 AM
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I'm not sure how to advise either, but my fiancé and I were in an LDR for the last few years and we still did a little something special every year. Be it a phone call or skype or something.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 10:36 PM
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That sounds cool. Would the photo shoot would have just been him taking the pics or were you planning a valentine's boudoir thing for him?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 11:34 PM
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Thanks for the pdf! I'll have you start right away!
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 10:28 PM
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Awesome, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 06:10 PM
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I'm in Alberta - Edmonton or Calgary depending on the day, got any connections for me? =P
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 06:00 PM
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Woah cool! That's definitely a book I'm going to have to start reading. Edit: To confirm, this is the book by Helen Andelin?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 04:52 PM
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We're in a pretty big city too... but in Canada. Is there a special name for these places? Have I just been looking for the wrong thing? Everywhere I've found only starts allowing nudity and such, but still forbids sex =(
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 04:51 PM
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I haven't heard of this certificate! Could you elaborate a little on it?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 04:15 PM
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Woahhh I wish there was a place here where we could go that allowed sexy clubs around where we are.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 04:15 PM
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Oh no, I know that's what it is, I meant elaborate on the plans!
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 02:47 PM
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Care to elaborate? That also happens to my fiancé's birthday.... Nevermind the other event!
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 07:24 AM
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Wow! That sounds so cute! I can't sew at all so it's definitely something I need to learn for the future
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 07:23 AM
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Oooh care to elaborate? My fiancé's birthday is coming up....
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 07:22 AM
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That's super cute. I can't wait til we have our own place and I can just make whatever in my kitchen rather than having to plan around other people.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 02:51 AM
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Wow! I love the sentimentality of your gifts.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 02:50 AM
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Hahaha I got my man a box of exotic cheeses and meats... and he's having the same comments about not having the calorie allowance to binge as he'd like so I know what you mean!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 11:54 PM
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Like what?
/r/MensRights31/01/17 04:29 PM
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When my fiancé and I were LDR (and not yet engaged), I'd bake cookies and ship them overnight to him (a tad pricey, but worth it for all the praise he still gives for them), we'd Skype, like /u/yakuzaou mentioned, and often I'd put on something a tad more risqué for him. If cookies+shipping are too costly for you/don't work or whatever, something like edible arrangements also works (did that for a different year) or something similar where food is delivered.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 07:30 PM
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If you check out subreddits like /r/longdistance, you'll see that people are often discouraged from dating anyone that isn't local. But if it works for you, what they think doesn't matter. My fiancé (as of the new year) and I lived 3 hours away from one another for 2 years of our relationship and won't be 'officially' living local for at least another 5 or 6 months. If this guy is the guy, don't break it up because someone else is telling you it won't work. Being in RPW, I'm sure you're aware th…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/17 09:09 PM
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All of the links in your first image with quotation marks gives you sites that talk about how girls need to be taught not to hit boys
/r/MensRights10/10/16 12:37 AM
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Unlike the other two commenters, I do. I send pics whenever they're requested, or whenever I feel "in the mood." Yes, I trust my bf with them, but mostly, they make him happy, and it's at no loss to me, so why not?
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 09:50 PM
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Doesn't keeping condoms in your wallet destroy the integrity/effectiveness of the condom?
/r/seduction25/03/15 07:28 AM
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Oh for sure, I'm just explaining why OP might be experiencing this more with Asian chicks than with other races
/r/seduction04/03/15 10:34 PM
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Haha that's a good analogy - I'm the Asian in the equation, so... I just make fun of my boyfriend (who's brown) for having an Asian fetish. =P
/r/seduction04/03/15 08:56 PM
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Girls of different races are allowed to say they specifically have fetishes towards X race. Yes. Girls are "allowed" to say it. It's different for guys. Sexist, perhaps, but it's true.
/r/seduction04/03/15 06:36 PM
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Honestly, it's because it's mentioned so often by guys in general. At least, that's what I've found as an Asian woman. I've made the same comment to guys, and actually had some guys confess that was exactly it - they've never been with an Asian before. It's just so prevalent especially recently with the "fad". Granted, this is anecdotal, and several years old (now in a relationship), so it might not be exactly why the women you've met are saying this, but hopefully it gives you a little insight?
/r/seduction04/03/15 07:12 AM
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Did anyone else read this to the tune of the "everything is awesome" Lego theme song?
/r/MensRights23/02/15 07:08 PM
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Who cares what society thinks? Who cares if you're overweight? Be a decent guy, and the right girl will find you. Or you'll find her. Don't worry about making it happen, or how it'll happen, because it'll happen when the time is right. Overweight means nothing. It doesn't mean you won't find a girl, it doesn't mean your worth is lower. /r/amiugly probably has one or two people tells everyone who posts there that they are. Just as /r/gonewild has one or two people who tell every girl who posts th…
/r/seduction06/02/15 05:54 AM
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This makes a lot of sense. Thank you for taking the time to respond.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/15 01:15 AM
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As someone who's more of a RPW lurker than actually a RPW, I have a few questions I'm hoping someone can answer? I'm obviously interested in becoming better for my SO, but as neither he nor I are red pill, and him even less so than I, there's some... Dilemmas I have with the solution that's proposed. For example, the article notes that she should just forget about the 'small things' that bug her as obviously they don't bug her husband. But won't that cause resentment? Especially, assuming that s…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 07:22 AM
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Nope. Because the word 'man' is still in there =/
/r/MensRights15/11/14 01:58 AM
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They're actually trying to remove the word '-man' from the word woman. :) As a woman, that's so stupid. Next thing you know, calling people "humans" will be sexist because there's the word 'man' in it. Or what about "mankind"? Should "menstruation" then become "womynstruation"? I wish these movements were for more useful things. It'd be a dream come true if I could be barefoot and pregnant in a kitchen, waiting for my man, and not have to be frowned upon by society. /rant
/r/MensRights14/11/14 10:41 PM
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.... That is cool. Like, nerdy spacey cool. I really hope what you're saying is true.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 02:08 AM
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Gwailo G-Why-Low So... like saying 'white' except without the 't' sound at the end, and adding a 'g' like in 'girl' sound at the beginning. Then just 'low' as in, well, high .... and 'low.'
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 03:20 AM
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Girl here, so not sure if my opinions will be completely redpill, but..... not long after my now-bf and I first started chatting, I went abroad for about a month. We agreed to chat when I was back in the country though, so we did. We've now been together just over a year and still going strong. So, don't give up!
/r/trpGAME04/10/14 12:26 AM
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Speaking from the woman's point of view.... I also agree. When my bf responds in a way that affirms his dominance, or reinforces that I'm his, it just... it leaves me weak and completely at his disposal.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:19 AM
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Basically, I think what /u/gekkozorz is referring to is 'punishing' for 'undesirable' actions/behaviours to prevent them in the future. I believe this is known as positive punishment.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:15 AM
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Seconded. They say that the sub is the real person in control as they're the one who calls the shots with soft and hard limits, safe words, and all that.
/r/seduction16/03/14 10:45 PM
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Heh. I'm a female, but honestly, I'm sure most of them are. Our society is pretty sexist.
/r/MensRights19/01/14 07:02 PM
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Haha so it's just one of those 'strangest laws in [country]' kind of thing. Ex. It's illegal to pay a debt higher than 25 cents with pennies in Canada. That's cool, it's unfortunate that someone tried to manipulate it though.
/r/MensRights18/01/14 12:43 AM
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I'm very aware. But I wouldn't think a law like this one would last so long. I would have thought it would have been brought to light years ago
/r/MensRights17/01/14 04:49 PM
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....I don't even understand how this could have been a law for so long....
/r/MensRights17/01/14 03:59 PM
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You can only tip cam girls through third party websites, you can, however, buy gifts for girls directly.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 08:29 AM
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I find it super sexy when a guy can take charge/control. I don't want him to be a dick, but the whole alpha male thing really does appeal to me.
/r/seduction17/08/13 04:11 PM
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I've actually read somewhere that on average, girls innately seek someone with personality similar to their dad's.... So I wouldn't be surprised?
/r/seduction15/08/13 12:05 AM
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Girl here. Those are my two favorite lines from the above. I love it when guys 'do that'.
/r/seduction14/08/13 10:32 PM
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my child is there. They don't need to see an argument, especially one which they might perceive to be their fault (Daddy wouldn't be here fighting with those ladies if I wasn't here). This is probably the best reason here. Although, I like all your answers =) Your child is lucky to have you!
/r/MensRights04/07/13 04:22 PM
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This is amazing. As a girl, I was definitely reading and smiling at the pro skill. I love learning about other cultures and their Gods/Deities, it's so cool! I'd totally fall for it.... I'd probably fall for it again if some guy did it irl too, if that were to happen. =P
/r/seduction28/06/13 08:43 PM
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Who says he spends his nights ignoring his wife? Just because it's an open marriage doesn't mean that either of them are neglected.
/r/seduction22/06/13 07:11 PM
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And this, is what 'alpha' truly means. Congratulations OP!
/r/seduction27/03/13 01:13 PM
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Your post reminds me of my post. Except I personally don't take guys home from the club to snuggle. So.... maybe? Girls like to pull those kinds of tests all the time
/r/seduction17/12/12 03:57 AM
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