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People tend to begin to take a masochistic pleasure in their problems. Not that it justifies them it just happens and even if they don't want to. The problems people vent about tend to just be the anchoring point of a deeper issue they're unable to articulate. So when someone starts coming up with solutions it tends to be for these superficial symptoms. This can be annoying because the person with the solutions thinks they understand but it is merely their own delusion. Now some women get off on…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 01:50 PM
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It is because this woman is the cornerstone of their identity. Everything they do exists to be validated by this woman. It is her validation that gives it value. This revelation would mean they are powerless automotons though. So all the hate and their entire charade is bound up in creating an identity that disavows this reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 08:35 PM
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They fetishizes this type of woman then make it their life goal to become what they think this type of woman trully desires. Their entire identity becomes bound up in this type of woman but they want to be believe they are in control so they bellitle the reified object constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 08:19 PM
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I dont follow the reports so much and I was at first surprised too. Until, I thought back to my junior and senior year. 3 teachers in their early 20s to early 30s found me attractive. 2 of them ordered me into their rooms after everyone left then shut t door and turned the light s off. 1 began telling me how she has been catching me looking at her skirt and if I needed to be taught a lesson. The third teacher constantly told me how much I remind her of her exbf. I didn't even realize it at the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 08:23 AM
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It wasn't all it was made out to be.. It's because those two girls were frenimies and in the end I felt pretty used by them. My point was rather that it is rather common that teachers are attracted to students that have gone through puberty. Especially when teachers recognize that the pretty girls in highschool are much prettier than them by anyone's measure. So if the teacher is chosen over the pretty highschool girl it validates her long time insecurities since highschool and that she is getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 02:08 AM
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Teachers fucking students is all over the news. It almost happened to me. I just didn't make a move. When I list it like that it would make me a "chad" which is why I even mentioned it. I am no chad though. Its just funny that this stuff seems unbelievable to people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 02:24 PM
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Most people say things a step removed. Like "you remnd me of my bf in college." When I was 16. Or "you remind me of..." Followed up later with what they notticed about me they anchored the attraction to. "Aww its so cute when you ..." That kind of stuff, most are not directly Pervy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 02:25 AM
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See, that s just your opinion man. I wasn't prepubescent. Some people would make me feel uncomfortable and wouldnt take a hint but they were in the minority. I specifically remember adults being attracted to me and adults being jealous that I was with some of the girls I briefly dated. I also remember those girls telling me about adult guys being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 02:18 AM
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You just refuse to accept that adults find teens attractive. Trust me it was not always pleasant. Especially older perverted women that are vulgar and objectifying and gay dudes that are like that as well. Also I was outgoing and funny but extremely self-conscious and shy. This is why I didn't fuck those teachers they wanted me to make a move and I didn't. Also that is why I fucked the head cheerleader and prom queen because those girls were very controlling and didn't take a soft no for an answ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 02:02 AM
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I don't know for sure because I have self image issues. Internalized racism. I was a class clown and probably better than average. I was in good shape always placing in the top 3 in wrestling tourneys. I also beat up the bully of our year and stood up to adults that bullied children and I had straight A's while being a stoner. Beyond all that though I just acknowledged the little things about people, the subtleties that no one else notticed. Some combination of all that... I don't really know wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 01:56 AM
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Uhm... When I was a teenage boy most of my female teachers were attracted to me. The prom queen and the head cheerleaders were attracted to me too though. I fucked the head cheerleader and the prom queen. I almost fcked a couple of my teachers but I was too shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 01:44 AM
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You don't have to be amazing looking.. Decent but I think being able to catch women in that ackward moment and harness it until it becomes orgasms is what truly matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 08:39 PM
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There is no capitalism without poverty its built into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 07:30 PM
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Ah see I knew the neoliberal values would come out. It is how capatlism functions it uses people up and disposes of them. It then internalizes in people that sit pretty that rationalize it as putting the responsibility onto individuals. Poverty is built into the system and so is job obsolescence in the name of maximizing profits and growth. Something could befall you where you lose your comodified value and this is beyond your own situation of agency. Essentialy what you advocate is just getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 07:18 PM
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Yes, but you're projecting your situation onto the market. Only certain career paths lead to that and even still you could be outsourced overseas or to an app. The fact remains that in a capitalist society you are expandable. I agree with you though in your initial post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 07:06 PM
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That's the problem.. Emoloyees are expendable. This position for a ltr you speak of grows increasingly less stable in our present form of capitalism. Even whilentrying to become the perfect employee ones labor is being exploited for someone else's profit. This alone creates an attraction towards wherever that place is which ends up being an imaginary place that anchors in fantasy towards other people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 06:26 PM
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This is dependent on the market economy and something outside of the relationship. This is why the true problems are systemic and less a matter of responsible communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 06:05 PM
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This is why it is easier to be a semi gigalo. Women care about good clothes, being recognised as wierd and appreciated for it, and then getting the shit fucked out of them. The problems come when trying to secure that stable life and this has less to do with women than it does with the sate of the system its self.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 06:02 PM
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I think the problem starts before that. That man must live up to this supposed role, and that he goes out of his way to do it. Or that if he does societal conditions take him out of being in a position to maintain the previous intimacy demands. What happens in this situation is the woman identifies that the value he is creating is being siphoned off elsewhere so she becomes attracted to elsewhere or whom possesses the signifiers of this imagined elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 05:52 PM
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What I'm saying is the circumstances typically change where one or both people feel emotionaly starved. If the guy has this "build a life" thing going on that changes the circumstance. He then relates to her through that thing which places many demands on her in essence suffocating her. And her change is a response to that. Conversely she might have told him she wants to build a life with him and the societal requirements of that he took on may have been too demanding so the intimacy of that fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 05:33 PM
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Bingo!!!! You nailed it. The chick changes because she gets pissed your not railing her nonstop and busy "building a life." She's feels invisible so she cheats and becomes bitchy because she feels she was pushed to a place she felt sh needed to do that. Then the rs falls apart and guys take t red pill. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 05:04 PM
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The problem is more that the demands of society or more now thannth were in th past with less security. These surpless demands take that energy that would go towards men fucking the shit out of women towards work and maintaining rent and bullshit. All th while women are encouraged to fully satiate their sex drive which is k hh much less demanding than men's role. Women don't have to get and maintain boners and women do way way less work in bed. This creates a certain disatisfdaction in women tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 04:35 PM
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Its a part of a greater social trend of "not getting attached." Its pervasive and everywhere from all the mindfulness drivel to the sort of bullshit eastern spirituality everyonr ascribes to these days. It boils down to a lack of job security with ever increasing competition. From the 70's onwards wages stagnated which caused a lot of financial tensions which led to a shit ton of divorces. With ever decreasing financial stability it makes maintaining mariages seem unsustainable. People are just …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 04:16 PM
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The truth is that has everything to do with lasting. Also the more someone is getting laid the better they are at it. This is why trp refer to the person yuyuou speak of as chad. A person who swings from branch to branch fast enough to never get out of their rhythm for too long so they stay at their absolute best at sex. That person you describe is chad its not that other "men" guys can't fuck like that it is just if they have been single a while it takes a bit to get back their mojo, now if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 12:48 PM
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It depends on what is considered cool in that environment. People respond to the agreed upon commodified qualifiers that signify value. Different places have different signifiers. Being the one who creates the plot for a given interaction or narrative is always attractive. The proverbial "conch" of the lord of the flies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 10:33 AM
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I thinkni might be around that number. I'm a male. I'm not happy with the way I look. I had a four or six pack most of my life until my foot got mangled. This makes exercise difficult because its my damn foot and it is in pain most of the time. People that tell me to push through it are fucking ignorant. It only gets worst and lasts for days or weeks and is a source of insomnia for me. I can get girls interested in me that are cute and skinny or normal or fat. This is due to my sense of humor an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 01:25 AM
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When they realize it comes with to many complications and porn is much more convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 07:11 AM
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Its about accepting and incorporating aspects of oneself that aren't perfect, so the otr person can love you in spite of them. Or you can hide them and cover them up and repress yuor feelings to appear tough or whatever. But this tough guy is not in touch with themselves at all and tend to be assholes because of it so the chick will love you inspite of being an asshole kind of thing. Being an asshole is still a flaw its just they situate their own shortcomings as other peoples flaws and don't ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 09:14 PM
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Look you are seeing what you want to see here. I am not saying you chose to be overtly sexual when you chose that costume. What I am saying is that costume even n its own era had sexual features built into the taboos itself and now that over 100 years have passed since that is a normal thing to wear a costume such as that enters the realm of kitschy pastiche and thus fetish. You do not ha to be aware how of how taboos and fetish work for this to be the case. Besides when someone tells you you re…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 10:02 PM
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Its not all about masculinity. Chicks are very into guys with some effemnite good looks Johnny dep is just the most obvious example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 03:42 AM
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One of the main keys is to embrace your weirdness and turn it into a source of humor. Because believe me chicks feel ackward too and often and if you can share those ackward moments with them as funny moments they will love you. That is kind of the trick behind neging and dread game and all that. Except you don't ever have to pull that abusive shit just be able to be in on her ackward painful moments and be able to playfully tease her about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 03:39 AM
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Uhm. Jonny dep?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 02:43 AM
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Being well dressed and groomed is half t battle. The main thing though is communication skills. Take theatre classes to get comfortable talking and develop your own personal weird sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 02:35 AM
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The trick is to take a crotch shot with a ruler in boxerbriefs with a woody. Then post that on tinder. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 02:31 AM
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Penis size
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 02:28 AM
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Probably within their cultures. But the western version of orientalist cultures is like I dream of genie which is fetishistic. There are tons of romantic movies that take place in the Victorian era and that alone fetishizes it. The issue is your ignorance and I think this is the same issue with asscrack yogapants. The girls just see it as fashion but the fashion itself is already sexualized.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 02:03 AM
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Do you understand why in the Victorian era they covered up so much? In that era even the neck was extremely suggestive and sexualized which is why it was covered. To show neck or even ankles was taboo. So yes Victorian dress is extremely conservative and sexually repressed. But because it is so old and a part of role play it is inherently fetishistic. Just like masquerades always have been for hundreds of years if not thousands
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 01:52 AM
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Did you ever see that old Simpsons Halloween special where bobdoll and Clinton run for president? Where yes like "abortions for all!" Crowd boos. "Abortions for no one!" Crowd boos. "Abortions for some but not for others." Crowd cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 01:35 AM
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Burka's cover all even the eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 01:31 AM
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Burka's for some but not for others?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 01:28 AM
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The Victorian style outfit is all about taboo. Where even showing your neck or ankles is taboo. This taboo sexualized even the hint of skin in that era. Flash forward 100+ years and that outfit is first and foremost recognized as doll clothing. Secondly it now acts as a fetish style role play garb. Where the role you play is sexually repressed maiden.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 01:26 AM
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The plumbers crack is unintentional like cankles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 01:18 AM
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Burka's for everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 01:02 AM
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Its not necessarily directly like that. The fashion itself sexualize s and objectifies women but from a woman's standpoint she's just trying to live up to the image she is shown of what a woman is supposed to be. They end up justifying the fashion itself by it being comfortable or whatever. Then a lot of women will play the empowerment card. The thing is the power derived from skin paint style yoga pants is its sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 12:41 AM
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Maybe all the men that do it have a mental disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 12:32 AM
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That outfit you wore fetishizes you as a sexual object. It says to the world "I am a doll" when guys have that element removed of person to person you experience that person to doll interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/16 12:18 AM
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That's if you think its possible to do it that way. I think many young people do not think that is possible and that is why the hook up culture is convenient. Everyone becomes an independent contractor in these conditions. Where everyone must compete against everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 11:34 PM
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You just need to have a big penis and wear tight pants... Then wink when you catch them looking at your penis. That's the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 12:42 PM
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Bingo, and you guys don't have to worry about healthcare and your education is much cheaper. Those factors a a much bigger deal in the states so the the culture adapted to the economic realizity in which they live. Where housing is cheap healthcare is cheap education is cheap and jobs pay a liveable wage people are still getting married and having kids like it's the thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 06:16 AM
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Overall wages have stagnated while cost of living has increased. People are more often hired on as temps through contracts and are made to compete for temp position's. Complaining about these conditions makes you a target for accusations of entitlement. Because of these conditions creating the environment for nuclear family seems unobtainable unless one follows a long narrow path and people don't want to deviate from that path if it is their goal and by that time arrives if it does they are in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 10:12 PM
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I wanna meet your girls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 03:54 AM
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It's I think soooo much of it is a sense of humor. Guys that get stuck in friend zone that don't know how to get out seem to lack the ability to playfully tease. I think that's why trp and pickup stuff appeals to them because negging apes playfully teasing. I have the opposite issue I am moody and depressed so when I meet someone and actually talk I have a good sense of humour and playfully tease But I am often preoccupied by being sad so these girls take it is a sort of rejection. Like I build …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 03:38 AM
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It sooo depends. I see girls accept guys into their space but on a friendly level. They become comfortable in that space but secretly the guy has a thing for her. It is common. The problem I see is those guys don't typically seem to be able to pick up on that chicks like sexual aura or whatever. Or maybe they do but see it directed at someone else yet still stick around. These dudes just tend to lack a sense of humour in most cases. You don't evennhave to have a great sense of humor just be the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 01:11 PM
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They have a picture of an average person and base it off of that. The image of the average girl is a mid 20's slightly overweight white girl with mildy attractive features. Then they think to themselves yeah I would fuck her. Then they make there statement. But The statement is completely made off a girl they imagine in there head they find attractive enough to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 07:34 AM
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There isn't really a reliable checklist and most that exist are kind of bullshit. Also what is abusive in one culture might be normal in another. So it is you important to view their cultural attitudes towards women that they have internalized. Beyond those signs which may be obvious abusers tend to be really good at fitting in and the clearest sign would be what they tend to call dreadgame on here. This is probably the most telltale sign of an abuser that they indicate to you that you are a dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 07:19 AM
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