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2	Crazy "theory" I observed after a few years of small talk and some experiments. I call it verbal peacocking... Yes I've heard of this criticism, and I'm not doubting that certain notions within NLP are not scientifically proven per say, yet. But similarly hypnotherapy wasn't (isn't?) either, but people still find that it does actually help them overcome fears, change their perspective, etc. I think one of the underlying primary functions of these systems, which some might say is also the problem, is that they work best if you believe it's working. Much like the placebo effect, which itself is even shown …	/r/seduction	11/08/16 09:36 PM
2	Crazy "theory" I observed after a few years of small talk and some experiments. I call it verbal peacocking... In not suggesting it's use in counseling. I'm saying for personal use, circumstantially it can be very useful.	/r/seduction	09/08/16 07:49 PM
2	Crazy "theory" I observed after a few years of small talk and some experiments. I call it verbal peacocking... In NLP this is essentially a pattern interrupt. You do something that makes that other person snap out of their usual trance to gain a moment for influence. It's really only useful as an edge in to use other game tactics. By itself it's pretty useless, in fact without further game, pattern interrupts only serve to be challenges to the ego and make you look like a socially awkward penguin. Anyway though, sounds like you're getting how pre game works. Look into NLP if you want to go down that rabb…	/r/seduction	07/08/16 04:58 PM
5	How long should good sex take? Tree fiddy*	/r/seduction	18/03/15 05:06 AM
5	I was better at seducing as a beginner than I am now? This is called the Dunning-Kruger Effect. The more you know about something, the more you're willing to doubt yourself and your ability. The inverse is also true about those who know little or nothing about a topic feeling overly confident about it. The trick here is to recognize you might be doing this, get out of your head, and go practice in the mindset you were in when you were doing fine. Your state will make the difference you're looking for. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93…	/r/seduction	18/03/15 04:32 AM
19	Preselection and Maintaining Frame FTW That quote perfectly fits what's going on for me right now. Been talking to this girl a while and she's playing aloof and disinterested. Now I've landed another girl, and first girl is almost going literally nuts for my nuts. She even said those words exactly "she's not even that pretty!" It's a simple yet beautiful formula.	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/15 07:37 PM

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