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| 1 | How does being a bad boy get the girls? | FawnBrambles | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 09:04 PM | |
| 1 | Should I admit to my lack of experience? | FawnBrambles | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 03:20 PM |
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| 1 | How do you guys cope with all the "psudo alpha gurus"? I'm so sick and tired of all the liars ruining the manosphere.Why do you care what other people who you will never meet do? You already know not to pedestalise women, so why are you putting these men on a pedestal? Realise that no one is perfect, and that you can learn valuable lessons from anything and anyone. You look at a fat football coach, but you wouldn't utilise his skills just because he doesn't look like a player? | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 12:05 PM |
| 3 | My GF (23) is cheating on me (M 27) with her ex (33). Do I tell the ex?No matter what you do. She will justify your actions as making you the bad guy. But the real answer is, who cares? She isn't your problem anymore. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 12:13 PM |
| 5 | How do you deal with the fact that you're short?Don't know why you're being downvoted, but that's my attitude as well - where you're sizing people up and having belief in your own abilities. Doubt is the enemy. But at the same time, ego is also the enemy. Gotta have that mindset or else you don't last. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 03:41 AM |
| 4 | How do you deal with the fact that you're short?Height doesn't mean shit. I've been a bouncer, bodyguard and work in fire and rescue. I'm 5'5". | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Going To Be The Best Man At My Best Friends Wedding, He’s Marrying A Woman I Despise, WTF Do I Do?Not your life to lead. Just be there for him. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 11:14 AM |
| 2 | How do you mentally prepare yourself for the day?I live and work in a very niche field of work, that allows me to have this lifestyle and ritual. And I've done work before this that is not available to just anyone. I don't claim to be a normal, average Joe so I'm not preaching this as gospel for everyone to follow. It's what works for me because I'm fortunate enough to be able to do so. I don't deny my privilege. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 11:15 AM |
| 4 | How do you mentally prepare yourself for the day?Tbf the question asked for how other people prepare themselves for the day. So i just shared mine. Others are free to pick and choose what they like from my daily rituals and discard what they don't get any benefit from. Incidentally, all of these habits I picked up came together organically without necessarily being forced. It just helped that me to find structure in making it a realised thing. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 10:49 AM |
| 7 | How do you mentally prepare yourself for the day?I'm very fortunate. I live on-site at a mining operation. So I probably save like an hour or two than most people everyday because all my meals are catered. So i don't waste time meal prepping, cooking and washing dishes. I get my room serviced, so I don't need to waste time cleaning it. And can even pay someone to do my laundry, but I just usually do my laundry during work time. Plus my office is literally a 5 min walk from my room so I don't have a commute. The same for the gym. Then I have a … | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Is redpill going to turn me into an atheist?No. If anything I became a buddhist from learning about TRP. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 07:55 AM |
| 18 | How do you mentally prepare yourself for the day?David Goggins said something along the lines of "You have ro re-affirm your belief in yourself", but you need to have proof behind it. It's like saying, "I am going to pass this exam!" Or "I am a successful and intelligent person", but you haven't put in the work. Here is what I do: I wake up at 1am for the gym. Post-gym, I journal reflecting on morning thoughts, stoic lessons, memento mori, buddhist lessons and what I am grateful for. I read a passage from the Daily Stoic and from another Stoic… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever tried a more spiritual side (religious) approach to life?Buddhism and Stoicism seem to come up a lot with TRP. I remember other people recommending to look into in the early days, but I found I gravitated toward them independently of their advice. Other things like meditation seem to be mentioned a lot in TRP community as well. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Height insecurityDo you have anything meaningful in your life that exists outside of you? Are you saving lives or helping people? Making a difference in this world? Are you working on your own business? Do you have a family you are trying to raise, protect and give the world to? Ultimately you have to realise how selfish your insecurity is. It will set you free. Every moment you give to this insecurity is a moment robbed of the fullness and intensity of power you would have given to life. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 04:58 PM |
| 7 | Guys in your 30s, is your friend group dwindling as fast as mine?This is me now at 26. I do a lot of work away from home for a week up to a month at a time, and even when I'm at work I'm almost usually at a different site so its hard to make friends even at work. Then when I'm home the only time people are free is the weekend. So I'm competing against other friends they may be closer to, as well as friends and other commitments in addition to family to see my friends during that time. It can be lonely so i just keep myself busy | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Why the hell can’t i get stronger?Do you have a lifting routine - a proper one based on periodisation, deloading, training maxes etc? Or one that you made up yourself? Is there a reason why you prescribed those exercises with rep/set schemes? Or did you just base it on how it feels and what you enjoy doing? How do you track how many calories you actually consume in a day? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Just focus on masculinityI remember thinking I was crazy for seeing how well received those "achieving basic life tasks" posts were. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/20 10:20 AM |
| 2 | Anyone here tried to improve their voice?I think being able to soften your voice is just as important. Think of trying to project 'reassurance' like of a late night FM radio DJ voice or a therapist. There are times for a vocal growl, and times for the calming tone. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 03:51 PM |
| 5 | Anyone here tried to improve their voice?Wasn't a great singer but I did take 6 months of voice lessons and practice vocal exercises from time to time. I worked security, and now in fire & rescue, so being able to project and manipulate your voice to enhance command presence/de-escalate and build rapport is important. There have been times that a good vocal growl has legitimately broken up fights and backdown. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 05:49 AM |
| 0 | Holding your frame /standing up against bigger guys. What would you do in this case?This guy was talking about an immediate problem, but was already worried about getting beat on by 6 days. Sounds like he's worrying about problems that don't even exist yet, like worrying about how to run the entire company when you're just a mid-level manager. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/20 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Broken up with. Delete from all social media?On the main sub, there was a post about building power. It was really about what to do when joining a new social circle (social, workplace etc). The lessons in it were: Purchase a notebook Dont gossip Be a silent extrovert Take lead You are a king I got downvoted for pointing out that is this something we really needed to be shared? Next up, how to tie your shoelaces (like a real man). | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 02:51 AM |
| -14 | Entering a new organization, community, or being part of a new group. Here are my basic 5 golden tips for you. (Respect, likability, and receiving extras)Is this really something that needs to be codified and taught as though it was something insightful? How autistic can you be | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/20 12:05 AM |
| 6 | When shit hits the fan, women have to rely on men.so your wife divorces you and you think it's a good idea to break down in the middle of a work presentation? No, you put a cap on those emotions and excuse yourself long enough to go back home and release. It is healthy to control and restrain your emotions. A 6 month old will cry out of hunger, but at that moment it feels an intense sense of emotion. Is it acceptable for a grown man to cry because he is hungry and emotional? Having control of your emotions doesn't mean not expressing them. | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 02:14 PM |
| 2 | How exciting of a life do I really need for a girl to want to date me?My life on paper sounds exciting and out there but I personally feel like I'm still not good enough sometimes. Then I see girls dating guys I would consider boring. Take it from me and let's both realise that our lives are our own. Your life is good enough that it is exciting for you. | /r/seduction | 02/09/20 04:32 PM |
| 1 | How to best look after my physical and mental well being whilst on crutches.Here's a little sneak peak for you if you do end up reading it: You'll realise that this injury was GOOD. You might realise that you've taken your health, your fitness, let alone your mobility for granted. Now every workout for you will be precious. You'll be more cautious in your training to avoid injury because you know you aren't bulletproof anymore. You'll be smarter about it so you can continue to lift into your 50s, 60s, maybe even your 70s. This injury saved you from breaking your back. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 05:17 PM |
| 1 | How to best look after my physical and mental well being whilst on crutches.Read Viktor Frankl's "Man's Search For Meaning". It's about a neurologist who finds meaning even when imprisoned during the Holocaust, and has developed logotherapy as a way to help other people find meaning. A small injury like yours means nothing in the grand scheme of things. Even to a professional athlete, this is something many of them will bear and even then, it still means nothing. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 11:56 AM |
| 9 | What are your Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks stories of girls playing, leading or giving different treatment to another dude while with you?Don't shit where you eat. Having said that I do flirt and bant with them. But I have been with a couple of girls before they became a dancer, and have dated a couple of girls from another club. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 02:39 AM |
| 4 | What are your Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks stories of girls playing, leading or giving different treatment to another dude while with you?I fly up to a mine site about 1000km away from my home city for a couple of weeks at a time, then fly home for RnR. Fly In Fly Out = FIFO. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 02:32 AM |
| 111 | What are your Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks stories of girls playing, leading or giving different treatment to another dude while with you?I bounce at a strip club, the girl you see is the same girl you walk past in the street and might not even take notice of. I also work FIFO, the amount of married, engaged or otherwise committed women that sleep around because their partner is thousands of kms away. One moment they're talking to their partner on the phone saying goodnight to them, and the next she's following you back to your room. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/20 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Share a typical daily schedule/ routine of a purposeful man.I wake up at 0200am/pm (depending on dayshift or nightshift), and start work at 0600, completing 12 hour shifts. I work FIFO (Fire/Rescue/EMT) and live on site at a mining camp: 1 week of days, 1 week of nights, then 6 days home. Before that early morning start, I complete a workout, take a cold shower, write in my journal, practice gratitude and mindfulness, meditate, train kegels, look at my calendar and plan out my day, and smash out breakfast before getting in at 0545. On my RnR, I still wak… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | The flaw of the red pill...I agree. I mean there are fkn field reports of dancing with a girl in a club or even just smashing her. This is basic shit. You don't need a field report for when you cook a new meal from a recipe book. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Any of you guys lift and train BJJ? Any routine advice?I lift, run, sprint, ruck, kayak, train BJJ and undertake required training for work whilst remaining operationally ready all within the same week. 5'5" and 200 lbs so I think my advice should be fairly sound. Tactical Barbell is what you want. You can download it on Amazon Kindle. Allows you to program around 1-4 days of lifting in conjunction with other fitness disciplines. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 11:41 PM |
| 4 | Forgiving Your FatherSometimes I question myself as a man. Then I come across tidbits of information like this that confirm what I've already acknowledged and accepted. Then I know I'm on the path. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/20 10:59 PM |
| 76 | Has this decline led to even 25 yo girls being damaged?I dated a 24 year old girl as a 25 year old guy. The only girl I've ever met who had FB, SC and Insta but never posted anything - no selfies, no thotty pics. Actually knew how to hold a conversation. I ended up dating her without knowing she had a boyfriend. When I found out I cut her off. She took it well. No emotional outburst, no angry messages, no friends of hers talking to me about what i did. She took it all like a real champ. The most adjusted girl I've met. But there's a good reason why … | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 10:50 PM |
| 3 | How should I answer when a girl asks how much money I make?I only date women who make more than me | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 11:34 PM |
| 3 | What was the most important thing that improved you dating life?I don't go clubbing, but I do enjoy bouncing. So everything everyone else says like dressing well, being confident, making a move etc doesn't mean shit if you're not out there in the town where girls are. Bouncing gets me out of the house, it just so happens that I get to meet girls this way. It's not like I got into bouncing or emergency services because of girls. We do it because we have fun and get to make a difference. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/20 12:44 PM |
| 3 | What was the most important thing that improved you dating life?Becoming a bouncer. And then going into fire/rescue. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 10:16 AM |
| 18 | Giving No More Nr Nice Guy to my father - worth it?If you give a book like this as a gift to someone, they might see it as an insult. Instead, what I've done is what Jocko Willink (ex-Navy SEAL) recommends. And that is giving a book to someone and telling them, "Hey, I read this book that really resonated with me and I really want to implement its lessons. Would you mind reading this for me so you can be my accountability partner so that when I stray from the lesson you can have the detachment and insight to mentor me and keep me accountable?" G… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Some good quotes to keep moving forward?"With each step you take, bear courage in mind." " 'This is just a job; it isn't who I am. It doesn't matter.' But it does matter. Who knows - it might be the last thing you ever do. How you do anything is how you do everything. How you handle today is how you'll handle everyday. How you handle this minute is how you'll handle every minute. "Please test the lowly Musashi with hardship. Let him become the greatest swordsman in the land, or let him die." | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Is it beta to ask random strangers how much you think you weigh?You already know the answer. Put your ego in check. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 09:01 AM |
| 1 | What should you do if you had to fight a guy with black belt in martial arts?It is delusional. But any disciplined fighter knows that anything can happen so he should never become arrogant or cocky. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 11:27 AM |
| 1 | What should you do if you had to fight a guy with black belt in martial arts?Disciplined and well-trained martial artists are used to fighting against opponents who use the same techniques and rules of combat as them. If you're unpredictable, and unorthodox, they may not be able to use their trained, reflexive responses to counter your attacks. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 02:01 PM |
| – | Why has seduction evolved to be as complicated and confusing as it is today?I do some work as a bouncer. Every now and then I get some guys asking me to wingman for them. I go up to a group of girls and ask if they would be open to sharing a booth or table. Then I go and bring the guys over and introduce them. Works like a charm as it gives them social proof. | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Garment care and you. Why it matters and how to do it.How far has TRP fallen where we now consider the topic of garment care as part of building power? Coming to you next week, How millionaires brush their teeth. Step two of their morning ritual will surprise you! | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Any stories of people who managed to change the social dynamics inside a group (from the bottom clown to the top)?I was a regional manager for a footwear company. Part of my job meant going into stores and developing a unique store culture at each site location. This is an industry where 99% of my staff were female and SJW-types. Most people try to change the dynamics or culture of a team to whatever they want it to be - this will lead to failure. The culture you foster must be congruent with the pre-existing attitudes, beliefs and behaviours of the people in that team. Then you shift it into a different on… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 10:33 AM |
| 5 | What was the most disrespectfull thing you´v ever see a woman do?I once met a girl at a nightclub whilst on vacation. She introduced me to her husband, and made it clear that they were married, and then I took her on the dance floor. The poor bloke had cancer. I still fucked her anyway. Never get married. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/16 02:41 PM |
| 44 | A Female 'Firefighter' Shows Why You'd Want a Man to Rescue YouI'm really good at starting fires. Damn, man. Because I'm not. It usually takes me 6 or 7 tries to light a match by striking the panels of the box. And I typically break the match without it igniting so I end up using 3 or 4 matches in those 6-7 attempts just to get it to light once. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/09/16 02:29 PM |
| 46 | A Female 'Firefighter' Shows Why You'd Want a Man to Rescue YouThe problem is that this whole men and women are equal thing has brainwashed people into thinking women are equally as strong in physical terms. When a man and woman get into a confrontation, she will get loud in his face and typically, he will back down and walk away, leaving her thinking to herself that she won that confrontation because of how intimidating she was. I used to work in the nightclub scene and saw it all the time - and on the rare occasion the bloke actually hits her, she collaps… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/09/16 02:27 PM |
| – | Should I admit to my lack of experience?Where I come from, everyone seems to know each other or at least, know OF each other. And that chances are I WILL end up coming across them again because I come from a small city. The girls from the cruise are ones that don't live in the state or even same country as me, and will never see them again. Does that change anything? | /r/askTRP |
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