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| 1 | I think i need to lose weight before datingI was 20 pounds overweight when I met my current serious GF. She is and was a size 0. Weight is important, so if you want to better yourself, then absolutely lose weight. But Here is what matters…get yourself an excellent haircut and a skincare routine. Get confident, smile, and get good at conversation. Dress clean. The girls will come and as you lose weight your glow up will be impossible to ignore | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 05:52 AM |
| 1 | fellas, would you rather keep up the dry spell in hopes of something better or keeping fucking these 4-5s?Yes, in my experience. They have to be cute and you need to treat them the same way you would a 10. And thanks, fixed it | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 06:49 PM |
| 5 | fellas, would you rather keep up the dry spell in hopes of something better or keeping fucking these 4-5s?4s and 5s are the best. Lots to work with, very lovable, and usually means unlimited access to all 3 holes raw and more. Not trying to sound vulgar, but it’s true. You might also score some V-cards too. Have fun. The hotter ones will come and that’s when you make them your GF | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 05:43 PM |
| 1 | 1 in 3 American men are not working in nearly a 20-year lowI’m one of those men. 31 years old with 2 degrees. I have not been able to find a job that pays higher than minimum wage since 2023. Before that I was laid off from 2 separate tech companies (in both instances my entire team and leadership were wiped out, it was not performance based). Since then I’ve done hundreds of applications, and I get rejected from all of them. The jobs posted online don’t seem real anymore. And the little work that is left, is all UNPAID (meaning 100% commission, no bene… | /r/MensRights | 31/05/26 06:34 AM |
| 2 | do you think men enjoy giving head or they fake it?I love it. As long as it’s fresh and smells good, I get the urge to do it every day. No hesitation | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 04:36 PM |
| 1 | I have absolutely no idea how to attract women. Any ideas?Be the best version of yourself and they will start trickling in. Be confident but approachable. Smile often. Don’t try…the moment you try it’s already too much | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 06:07 AM |
| 1 | How can I, as a man, get girls to pursue mePost pictures of you already with a girl. Like kissing and being cute, ect. The moment women you know realize you actually have game they will start texting you, DMing, and saying hi at cafes, ect. This is from experience | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 12:28 AM |
| 0 | Has stopping masturbation and porn helped you approach women?Masturbation is okay with NO porn or content whatsoever. It will bring your drive back and you will start to get the urge to look and talk to actual women. I also recommend you try and switch to 100% frenulum masturbation. What it does is it simulates your male G-spot, except you don’t feel pleasure until you orgasm, and even then it’s full body. What it does is it lets you orgasm and ejaculate (still feels super good and is very intense) except it does not substitute the feeling of intercourse.… | /r/seduction | 08/04/26 03:42 PM |
| 2 | If a girl texts you "sometimes later for sure" when trying to get her number, what does it mean?It means walk away, king, walk away | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 12:23 AM |
| 2 | How do I ask a guy I went out with a few times a couple months ago if he wants to hook up?Ask him if he wants to hang out. Meet for coffee or something and then Mae your move. Quick and easy | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Girl from tinder wants to fuckGet her number, hang out, use protection. Wing it my man | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Not able bring girl to my place? Is that a disadvantage?If she wants to fuck, then she wants to fuck, end of story. Place becomes less relevant at that point. You will still get laid if the vibes, universe, and timing align | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 04:21 AM |
| 64 | What are your most effective ways to make a woman horny?Suck on her nipples for 2-3 minutes non-stop while sitting next to her. She will get super wet very quickly and she will have no choice but to take you to bed. This is from experience | /r/seduction | 16/02/26 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on bringing your dates to night out with friends?4th date is perfect. Even 3rd date is ok as long as you have been intimate and ready to bring her into your world | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How to reject a girl?Tell her after you start putting your clothes back on and her uber is ordered | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 07:08 PM |
| 1 | How to get physical at home?If you’re at her place 75% of the work is done. Just be sincere, gentle, and escalate with subtle touches and gradually get closer to her. Put your hand on her leg and lean in slowly. The rest will come naturally | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 12:54 AM |
| -1 | Hinge response helpThats all you need | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 06:01 AM |
| -3 | Hinge response helpYou’re really cute 😍 | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 06:01 AM |
| 0 | Anyone got a quick way to estimate a girls age during daygame?Age doesn’t matter as long as she’s 18. It’s literally a pass/fail | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 11:15 PM |
| 5 | Opening Hinge Messages“You’re really cute. 😍” That’s it…you’re welcome. Got me 150+ matches in 6 months. But the follow up once matched is more important and the most difficult. You will need to figure that part out | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 01:31 AM |
| 3 | How do I get rid of the “There’s no point in trying, there’s no way she’d like me” feeling!I met her in a 2-day crash course for a professional exam we had to take. It was random and unexpected, which is usually how it happens | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 05:27 AM |
| 3 | How do I get rid of the “There’s no point in trying, there’s no way she’d like me” feeling!For me it came when I a girl that I thought was out of my league started to like me. It made me realize that I set the bar way too low and instead I needed to raise my expectations to the absolute top. Figure out your standards, and stick to your guns. You will find yourself attracting that type before you know it, even if you think you are just average | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 03:10 AM |
| 8 | how do I have a one night stand with a cougar 19 maleUse hinge, set your profile to their age group, and all you have to say is “you’re really cute 😍”. Match, and then ask to go on a date like you normally would. When they mention the age difference, sell yourself as the no judgment boy you they always wanted. Say it will be fun. Then charm her and treat her like a lady. Enjoy | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 02:38 AM |
| -1 | How can I increase my libido and overall desire?Do you watch porn, if you do, stop immediately | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Matched with a girl on Tinder that I’ve seen in my gym. How to proceed?Hey fancy seeing you here haha. Let’s talk at the gym?…or better yet want to ___________? There you go. Ask her out | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 12:42 AM |
| 1 | I really want a girlfriendNo you don’t. lol | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Does women only sleep with you if they trust you or what??Pretty much haha. You have to trust one another and feel safe to be naked and be exchanging fluids, begging held down, ect. It’s all trust an connection. If either party is irresponsible or careless sex can literally lead to unwanted pregnancy or life altering illness. Sex is the ultimate activity where trust and safety is everything (even if you just met, that’s why vibes, communication, safety, and trust is so important) | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:49 PM |
| 5 | Pt.3 tinder-Hanging out with girl tomorrow and she has a boyfriend what to do?Run as fast you can. Bad karma for her BF and if things got serious with her, she would do the same to you | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 01:56 AM |
| 2 | 18 year old added me on tinder too hook up she’s in high school and im 23 it’s just weird thing to do right?There are only 2 rules of last resort, she has to be 18 and it has to be consensual. Have fun, and don’t feel bad. You’re both adults and she seems to know what she wants. | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 01:21 AM |
| 4 | Can't control my m****bationBuy a realistic pussy toy on Amazon and a ton of lube. Seriously you need to stop using your hand. The rubber toy will help your dick heal and it will feel way better. Also use the toy to actually pretend your having sex. It’s mentally healthier to pretend your fucking someone vs using your hand looking at porn | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 05:03 AM |
| -2 | I don’t think I’ll ever get a girlfriend and I don’t know what to do about itRelax, they tend to spawn when you least expect it. Don’t sweat it | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 03:56 AM |
| 2 | After Getting a Number Off Hinge/Apps Do You Call First or Text?Text to say hi, call to make plans | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | I keep hearing stories of guys on dating apps getting a girl to come over directly to their place and having sex, how do you do this?5’11” | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 06:35 PM |
| 5 | I keep hearing stories of guys on dating apps getting a girl to come over directly to their place and having sex, how do you do this?I literally matched with a girl on bumble last week and within 3 hours I was in her dorm ( live near a university) Im 30 and she’s 25. She’s a 6 but literally could do whatever I want, and we also did anal. I’ll be visiting her on the regular. Cracking the code is as easy as seeing if they have “short term” on their profile and asking them if they want to meet in public to check the vibe for a FWB situation. That’s what we did, and within 15 minutes of talking with light touching, flirting, ect … | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Gathered courage and talked to my gym crush. Turned out that she's older than me. Is it over or I should play my shot?Thats just what I’ve experienced outside of my age range of 25-35. 40 is not a hard cutoff | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 10:01 PM |
| 22 | Gathered courage and talked to my gym crush. Turned out that she's older than me. Is it over or I should play my shot?Bro age is just a number. Send it. The most fun I’ve had is with women between 40-50 (I’m 30 now but made the discovery when I was 25). If you like her, go for it. Date as many women as you can until you find one that clicks. You will make discovery’s and adjustments as you go | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Is paying Tinder worth it?NO! But if you want to pay for an app, I recommend hinge, but even then the monetized benefits are debatable. | /r/seduction | 13/09/25 09:31 PM |
| 3 | What's with girls telling me they're busy?Yeah it was interesting. But unfortunately is isn’t going well. Her communication sucks when she is busy and stressed, so I’m not sure if it’s sustainable. We were/are long distance (about 100 miles apart, 2 different big cities) and we would spend weekends together about every 2 weeks. I haven’t seen her in 2 months. So I might end it here shortly or I should post another insta story haha | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 05:15 AM |
| 8 | What's with girls telling me they're busy?I thought it was rejection with a girl that I was seeing. She said she was busy and she ghosted. It only took me posting a story on instagram with another very attractive girl for her to resurface and freak out. Long story short it got her back and she was actually pretty F*ing busy, she just sucked at communication. It gave me the upper hand and used it to my advantage. No regrets | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 01:24 AM |
| 5 | At what age did you find yourself pulling the most women?Right now, 30. This year I’ve had 2 very special women in my life (not at the same time), 1 is still ongoing, plus I’ve had encounters with a couple more, and all are the hottest and most gorgeous I’ve ever experienced. And I’m meeting and flirting with more (but I’m trying to keep the one I have, but have to leave the options open until we have the talk). Maybe I just got lucky but moral of the story is don’t ever think it’s too late. Edit: compare that to pulling on average 1-2 girls a year be… | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 10:34 PM |
| 6 | She invited me to her house, what should I do?Also forgot to mention, be sure to kiss her neck soon after start and keep kissing it as much as you can. It’s a cheat code to turning her on and getting her super wet. Neck and ears. Also be sure to kiss her inner thighs as close to her pussy as you can to tease her. And be sure to suck her nipples whenever you can. Seriously it’s how you build her arousal and you will love doing it. Win win. And remember this is a “fun” experience. As long as that’s the mindset you will have the best time of y… | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 02:09 AM |
| 10 | She invited me to her house, what should I do?Ok bro don’t worry. Literally don’t overthink it, and go with the flow. Just slowly and affectionately face her, put your hands on her hips, and start kissing her. Be gentle. Don’t stop but see how she is reciprocating. It will get more and more intense and eventually you will be making out on the bed and from there it’s up to you. Seriously don’t overthink it and don’t be nervous. Odds are she is nervous too and things are usually are way more fun when things are playful and relaxed. Don’t be a… | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 01:34 AM |
| 5 | Should I pay evrything on a date??Yes but leave subtle flirty hints for next time like “I’ll get today if you buy desert (or the drinks) next time” or something along those lines. You are proving to her you know what it means to be a gentleman yet you won’t let her walk all over you. Also gets her thinking about the next date | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 03:11 AM |
| 37 | Went on a date but girl didn't show up. (Need mental guidance)Block her and never look back. Stay strong | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 07:20 PM |
| 10 | Being a 22m virgin is making me suicidalBro it’s frustrating but don’t end it over something like that, and 22 isn’t a big deal. I lost my virginity at 20, and didn’t start having regular and great sex until 28. No regrets and now I’m having the time of my life in my 30s. Don’t sweat, it will happen and you will be very happy you waited | /r/seduction | 22/08/25 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guyYes. If a woman is mature, age is just a number. I’m 30 and have jumped from 18 to 23 to 35 and then back to 26 since last year. Just be confident, respectful, and have a great time | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 05:25 AM |
| 6 | (M18) I am into older women, but I don't know how to and where to find them.Tinder and hinge. Set your profile to 30+. Ask for coffee dates. Have fun | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 03:53 AM |
| 3 | I (26m) like older women, where do I begin to meet them?I’d say 7s and 8s. A couple of single moms in the mix too. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 02:12 AM |
| 78 | I (26m) like older women, where do I begin to meet them?Tinder and hinge. I figured out older women is a cheat code to getting laid almost whenever you want. They usually are lonely, are thrilled that hot young guy is into them, and have already gotten over all their insecurities. I’m 30 now but over the past 5 years I went out with about 10 women over 35 and under 50. Great experiences. It will teach you a lot about women. Just be yourself and also make it clear you want them physically. Be romantic and traditional. And be relaxed. If you get pushba… | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Do you avoid porn?Usually just the thoughts/memories of past sexual experiences/make outs, ect. You will find it’s much easier to be turned on and hard when porn is out of the equation. Once in a while might look at some nude photos here on Reddit for the eye candy or if I’m curious about an ethnicity or body type, usually if I’m thinking about pursuing a new type of girl I don’t normally date, but nothing hardcore | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you avoid porn?No porn. Even masturbation gets better without it. Plus you can jack off all you want and still feel the need to talk to and want girls | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Is it worth it to have sex with a woman if your not that attracted to her?Just manage expectations. If you just want to get off and have fun, then yes. Pussy is pussy at the end of the day. But depending on your stage of life and goals, that’s where it gets complicated. And make sure you wrap up if you just want pussy. And don’t psych yourself out. I was I the same boat as you, same mindset, wasn’t getting anywhere and lowered my standards, and then out of nowhere, totally unexpected an 11/10 literally dropped into my life and became a GF. It taught me that is all con… | /r/seduction | 24/07/25 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Where do you go to approach women?I met my last GF in an online real estate course on zoom. It surprised me too 😂 | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s?Yes. If you want to get laid it’s a cheat code. I’m 30 but I started dating older when I was 25. Women 35-50 that are still really hot and sexy love it when younger guys are into them. Find the right one and you can do whatever you want to them, and not have to worry about getting them pregnant either. It’s also a very nice and loving experience. Highly recommend if you have the chance to do it. Great practice too for when you find the right one closer to your age | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 05:24 AM |
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