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As a woman, I feel sorry for him as much as men feel sorry for single mothers. Idk what circles you run with but most people I know are empathetic and supportive of women trying to escape abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 09:24 PM
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This isn't the first time I've seen someone suggest this and it's never made sense to me. The only times my peers and I will really congregate is for industry related stuff, at most one of us just happens to make a workplace friend that we introduce to another social circle. Which I guess she could pursue should it happen around her, but it'll be a low frequency thing unless she asks a stemlord friend to set her up I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 11:00 PM
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Conversely, there are a lot of unintelligent people who make emotional and rash decisions to have children. I knew one couple (only been together for like 1.5 years at that point) where they basically decided to stop using birth control and if she got pregnant they were just going to run with it. Both of them were in debt, neither had anything going for them. Unsurprisingly they split, the girl seems to be trying to get certs to make something of herself but not sure if she actually learned anyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 11:46 AM
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You are in a ruthless, cold competition. If you fail it will be all your fault, society will leave you behind and no one will bat an eyelash. Right, and how do you expect society to claim with this massive number of men who are likely going to resent their position? We're not talking about a small subsection of incels at this point, you're claiming the overwhelming majority of men will essentially be invisible. It's a crisis for Japan as it is and the most liberal estimates are only at 20%~ of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 03:43 AM
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Women are getting degrees but I don't get why people think this is anything special. The top 10 earning degrees are all dominated by men with the exception of nursing, and the opposite with the 10 least paying degrees with the exception of theology. Getting a degree is moot if it's a worthless one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 09:52 PM
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It's not alarming since I hate men and have no empathy for them. Gonna go on a limb here and suggest maybe this is part of your problem with men here. Who the fuck wants to interact with someone who hates your sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 01:28 PM
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The age one caught me off guard. A month younger and attraction is killed?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 06:41 PM
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I judge men who use prostitutes pretty harshly because of the fact that I believe that they don’t see women as actual people. Why? Most men who pay for a prostitute are either unable to acquire sex, or find it a better proposition than going to the bar and jumping through hoops. I don't see how it strips a woman of her humanity as long as everyone consents. I'm pretty conservative about sex, but I've never really understood this massive difference some people have between casual sex acquired fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 06:25 PM
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Right now it's an issue because you take risks for 1) outside pregnancies 2) sexual diseases Great, so it's not an issue if you just fingerbang a whore right? 0 pregnancy risk, 0 STD risk. Come on dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:52 PM
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Not necessarily, they may just end up in relations where they hate each other for years but never follow through with their dreams of poisoning the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:42 PM
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If a man is balding he should just shave it all off and be done with it. Pretty much. The only debate in my head is clean shave or buzzcut at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:40 PM
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it was lucky for her she found an obviously gay boyfriend Seems like a stretch considering there are still a lot of other things they're able to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:27 AM
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Men say that women should be less picky, should settle for whoever they can get. Most people I know say settle, or increase your value. That's exactly what a friend of mine is doing, she started to understand she was attracting only low level men because she herself was low value as far as relationships go. I hope things work out for her. What is criticized is the idea that you have nothing going for you but still want high quality people to pursue you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 01:08 AM
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Is there any truth to the claim that culturally enforced monogamy begets a more moderate populace? Probably. If you feel the idea of raising a family and having a loving partner is closed off to you, what else do you have left in life other than focusing on politics or your career? Will the genders become more mutually antagonistic as we are increasingly freer to pursue base sexual desires? More so I suspect those types of people will avoid each other increasingly more until their frustrations h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 01:05 AM
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How is it possible that one sex can have a higher on average number sexual partners? They are likely using median rather than mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:00 PM
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The examples I referenced lacked enthusiasm to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 11:59 PM
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Guys usually won't complain if she does all of the same stuff for him, or at least maintains the same enthusiasm. The problem is they often don't, this is a recurring theme on relationship subs or r/dead bedrooms. Or hell, throw in the fact they often lie about their history so it seems she was always that way. Dude marries a girl that did all sorts of crazy shit for random men, thinks she always hated sex, then finds the sex tape lol. If a slutty gal fix's her shit and is what you described I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:26 PM
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Others have definitely replaced children with dogs/cats. Definitely. You can't convince me retarded phrases like "fur babies" is not part of some weird coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 09:49 AM
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So my family used to be large once upon a time. But for a solid generation most of the family decided to not have children I guess, and now the only people that could reasonably have children are myself, my brother, and my cousin. They're constantly pushing me to settle down and think about having kids since my brother has zero interest in all of that and my cousin is too young. This push almost entirely comes from the women, and I know they definitely regret deciding to focus on other things at…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 09:44 AM
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I agree with the gist of your post but I would generally make an exception for things out of their control. Losing a leg is both a permanent and major change, but not something I would leave them for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:41 PM
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wouldn't she become a better person worth dating? Sure, maybe for someone else. I'm not out to dunk on self improvement. But ultimately dating a "reformed" slut who became a prude is not something I would advise to any man I cared about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:34 PM
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If we're referring specifically to income and not the yuppie crowd I somewhat disagree, I've met plenty of other STEMbros and shit that just do their own thing and don't go to great lengths to put up a disguise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:22 PM
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The UMC women I know are very ... bland. Most groups of people are bland with the same set of opinions for the most part. It's not like you're going to see a diversity of thought if you date some indie hipster or what have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 11:55 AM
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Perhaps she didn't know what she was missing out on by getting married as a prude? Missing out on what? By her own admission she cheated because they failed to work out other issues and she was an idiot at the time. Point is more that now any dude who gets to know her "gets a worse deal" because she has a massive host of issues related to all of that and only recently is she beginning to recognize all of that after always complaining she was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:39 AM
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Not wrong in either case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:42 AM
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You're trying to discount what she's saying but why the fuck do you think women enter relationships? You yourself pointed out it won't be for sex or money, which basically only leaves loving the partner really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:41 AM
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It's pretty neato
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:32 AM
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Besides youth, why do you think a woman won't giver her best to her later partners? The most prudish woman I've ever closely known was a divorcee with a history of cheating. Inversely the ones with minimal baggage or at least had a solid grasp on it were generally more receptive. I wouldn't say having a history is necessarily damaging, but it frequently is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 03:21 PM
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dr nerdlove is basically this, but I can't read it because it has an undercurrent to it that makes me sick. Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:18 PM
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Depends on the frequency and severity. If you have a protector/white knight/whatever bent it can be nice in limited doses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:09 AM
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I think this is lovely when paired with the fact you decided to start calling him a nazi a bit after this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 06:21 AM
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Why are you feeling so attacked? Is it because you know I'm telling the truth and you are terrified of the fact that you're aging? You're starting to hear younger women say "eww" and laugh when you pass by? Women your age are starting to look at your younger brothers (or perhaps your son) and not you? It's cringy when redpillers think they're able to get into random womens heads and so is this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 05:10 AM
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I'm curious, what was the main difference in advice between the new girls and the former mods?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 02:18 AM
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I like to argue, and have to make a mental check to know when to let it go. Naturally headstrong, some would say even pompous at times. I will fail to notice small details you may be hoping for me to comment on. I tend to ignore the outside world when I am focusing on something, so there's a decent chance she may feel ignored. A number of women have commented that they hate my sense of humor, men seem to appreciate it more. That's the big stuff off the top of my head anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 11:32 AM
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I would say that usually falls into the prerequisites. You must enjoy their company, find them somewhat attractive, etc. I wouldn't even bring it up because I feel it goes without saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:48 PM
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A kick starter to buy gas for his car no less. I swear to god I'm certain that has to violate some rule somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:43 PM
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I'm just trying to follow your logic here. So men are treated like shit. They then adopt the red pill to earn status. Women now expect "red pill"/high value/whatever men. Thus, the red pill is why men were treated like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:38 PM
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I enjoy video games, which many men seem to like To be honest I've only really seen men make a fuse out of that when they're kind of inexperienced. That they love the idea of a "gamer girlfriend", but then there are so many qualifiers such as her skill level or what genres for instance. It's sort of like saying you like movies, now what? The dude who likes Adam Sandler a bit too much doesn't have a lot of overlap with the one who just watches weird indie films.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 08:16 PM
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I agree and find this quite strange Seems simple to me. Women are the ones usually complaining about these topics, so people usually point out they walked into it. People regularly do the same thing when a dude complains about child support for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 12:36 PM
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I don't really see it as comparable to being an incel. Their whole premise is that no one was interested in them to begin with, while the woman would be suffering because she feels betrayed. I mean it's a dick move for sure but I don't think the two are really comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 12:08 PM
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Lying is almost always in the wrong for a long list of reasons. But there are exceptions for most people. Immanuel Kant's axe murderer example is one of the more famous examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 08:02 AM
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Generally when it breaks promises, or involves lying in my book. Like if you're not feeling it, fine. But if you dump her right as you convinced her to move, you're in the wrong as an obvious example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 08:00 AM
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23 strikes me as oddly specific
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:46 PM
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I hope you are aware a lot of these are "maybe, but not necessarily" details. I've met plenty of people of the same faith that would disagree with each other on such topics. Regardless, you are 100% free to have whatever standards you wish, the only question is if you'll get what you want. If you find a man that fits your standards, well there's no real issue. If not, that's when you should consider self review. I do find it odd that you're so religiously conservative but keep going to bat for s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:24 PM
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Realistically though, I think men and women in such situations should looks for others who are also just taking the first steps. It's not really viable though. By the time you're entering your mid 20's, people entering their first relationship are incredibly rare and if you're non religious I would imagine it's even worse, since the majority of women I've met that are still inexperienced are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:02 AM
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Absolutely. You just have to have your priorities clear. If one has a crush on the other for instance it's going to make everything weird and put a constant strain on everything. One of my best friends is a woman and I have something more resembling a brother-sister bond with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 09:30 AM
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Well if you lie to get into a relationship you still aren't hurting the guy. Does your ass ever get jealous of your mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 09:12 AM
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No, (some) women lie to get into relationships. But in both cases for every overt lie there are 10 cases of people just bullshitting themselves about why they'll change their mind or can get them to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 09:02 AM
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I see the value in it. I've learned that I'm just not capable of living with some people really, even if we made for good friends and partners otherwise. If you feel like you're just crossing your fingers for him to propose, cohabitation isnt really the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 08:59 AM
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Neither are man whores really. Women who pursue them regularly lie to themselves, which is not the dudes fault. Like hey no judgement if you don't want to date them, I wouldn't want to pursue a slutty girl either. But the weird justification to shame man whores but not slutty women is just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 08:55 AM
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I have been told over and over in the manosphere that this is a laundry list of standards and that I am essentially going to condemn myself to a lifetime of cats and loneliness and that I need to settle and lower my standards. Probably because you've made numerous threads complaining about men ignoring women etc. You are totally entitled to have whatever standards you want. That does not mean you will actually get what you want. At some point people often reconsider what's really important. For …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 08:49 AM
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then freshman year of college was so crazy i don't get how anyone could escape it as a virgin. Watching some of my peers it seems pretty easy to see how it could happen. But major and location is probably a significant factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 08:42 AM
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Definition is a bit ambiguous which does not help. I was raised with the perspective of red flag=something to be cautious about, while deal breaker was the hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 08:38 AM
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They have to keep fucking guys until one of them commits and this can take a long time. They may fully believe that. If it's actually a good strategy is an entirely separate question, and the answer is a solid no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 08:36 AM
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You would be even bolder making demands on women to sleep with you if you had absolutely no risk-including in the workplace. Would some men be more aggressive? Probably. But if women had a spine and said no they'd get over it. You talk about how women are making the some of the gold and get to redefine the rules but now you're suggesting they're all glorified secretaries. You’d also just outright lie. Hence the marriage exception. The woman has a safe path, it's on her if she refuses to follow i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 04:05 PM
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But I’m certainly dead against fat shaming and lookism Sure, but I can't help but think of Jennifer Lawrence here when she wanted to make calling someone fat on tv illegal but then...called Christian Bale illegal because he packed on weight for a specific role lol. Like everything about it just rings so fucking hollow to me. Being proud should be saved for achievements Right, I constantly encourage people to keep a spreadsheet to track their weight loss progress for this reason. It helps to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:56 PM
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Right, but his success is despite being fat rather than because of it. I'm not saying it's something insurmountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:47 PM
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They would only end up with 35 kids if the women were stupid enough to continually sleep with low quality men despite the existence of financial abortion. You say you want men to be better but this is the quickest way to get them to work for commitment, just add an exception for marriage or something to that effect. You mentioned before only the greater good matters after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:43 PM
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While they exist, they are relatively rare. Much better to lose weight and have a better range of options even when discounting all of the health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:36 PM
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Varies on location. Nothing really happened at the clinic when I drove a friend there. Suppose cold weather prevents 24/7 protesters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:33 PM
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I make a point to get to know my SO's pets, children, family and friends, because it gives me a chance to learn about the wider scope of their life and how they form bonds. While I encourage getting to know your SO's mother, she's not sleeping in an adjacent room. It basically requires you to leap immediately into the family life and most guys arent really thrilled with that notion. By your own admission you'll only spend time with her if you take the kid with you everywhere. you could end up ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:32 PM
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It's not a new thing for people to advise single parents to stick with single parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 02:15 PM
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No one is denying he's shit. The point is everyone tells these women not to pursue these men, they pursue them, then they wind up burnt. It's just hard to give a shit, it's not like they're children being told not to put their hand on the stovetop. It's not like the majority of these men are hiding their true nature, the woman just makes bullshit up to minimize his flaws. Ultimately they're allowed to be stupid, I just don't want to be dragged into their stupid choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:45 PM
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I'm more interested in stuff like this. I feel like the consequences of a worst case scenario are far less significant. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reversible_inhibition_of_sperm_under_guidance
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:28 PM
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Fat women started fat acceptance to make themselves feel like they could still be attractive and fat. While accurate, the thought process is still absurd. Reminds me of when I had a weight loss plan with a former friend of mine, she ended up giving halfway through and just bitched that fit guys weren't into fat chicks. Killed a lot of my respect for her to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:19 PM
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Because for the most part the men in these discussions arent the reasons they were knocked up to begin with. You keep talking about how they're all opoid addicts, what % of those men do you think are involved in gender debate subreddits? It's not like we respect that kind of man, but he's not asking us to pay for entitlements that compensate for his mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:35 PM
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I have a pet theory that fat women are less forgiving of weight gain because it makes her own failures more visible and are uncomfortable watching their friends lose weight for the same reason. Not sure if it works with the genders inverted but I wouldn't be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:18 PM
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But if you like the girl what's wrong with settling down with her ? Nothing. But the guy who's not committing, well he just doesn't like her enough to do so. Maybe it's because he's so so about her, or he wants to have more experiences or who knows what else. I've seen plenty of women avoid serious relationships because they felt they were "too young" to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:39 PM
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