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So a girl you are not even attracted to is playing hard to get and all of a sudden you are hot and bothered and trying to get her in bed? Did I get this right?
/r/seduction11/02/26 09:19 PM
4

Do you swallow? How many guys have you done at once? How much prep do you need before you take it up the ass? Is 3” the biggest you’ve had?
/r/seduction11/02/26 06:14 PM
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The problem is men have extreme black and white thinking about this. You are either 6’+ and you get all the hoes, or you are below that in height and therefore will die a virgin. apply that to every single physical trait men seem to obsess over. It’s not helpful at all. A short walk to the mall or grocery store will show you a ton of couples that look average, that are short, that are tall, that are fat, that are skinny, etc. On the other hand of course you can expect a gym baddie to want to dat…
/r/seduction11/02/26 06:12 PM
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Chest, shoulders and arms are way more important
/r/seduction11/02/26 06:08 PM
1

No they don’t and mostly it doesn’t work. You excuse it with stories of how picky and selective women are, although these stories are complete BS because women fuck total losers, criminals and players all the time. And they would never court a woman, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:34 PM
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As I pointed out: courting is an inherently feminine behavior. You don’t breed by displaying feminine behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:20 PM
1

When will you guys understand that courting is an inherently submissive behavior and therefore an inherently feminine behavior. Women know that. But somehow men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:54 AM
6

Well gee, you know that it makes men feel the exact same way if they are the only one planning everything. Bet that didn’t occur to you though did it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:51 AM
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All your powerlessness is literally your own doing. You choose to give away your power to women. You choose to pursue them desperately. You choose to be needy, instead of finding multiple sources of happiness and fulfillment that are not women. You all just like to present these thins as “male nature” because it absolves you of any responsibility to be anything other than a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:50 AM
1

The one who loves more has the least power. Do whatever you want with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:04 AM
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I mean the rules are very clear, it’s just that you guys refuse to follow them. I keep telling you that in the mating dance, the first thing to do is get rid of your need for love. None of you complainers have taken me up on it. Needy men are weak men are unattractive men. You can’t even play the rest of the mating game if you refuse to stop being so needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:02 AM
0

This is lame. Express interest in them through some banter.
/r/seduction11/02/26 12:58 AM
0

Let’s face it. Do you really think the average Sedditor has a good sense of balance and not overdoing it? I constantly see men come on too strong and express to much interest and eagerness too early on, killing all of their chances with a woman. Of course, once you start to get to know each other better and maybe even form a connection, communicating more often becomes important. I think this is the type of advice reserved for men who spend days and weeks texting back and forth with a woman they…
/r/seduction10/02/26 09:36 PM
1

Your problem is in the second sentence you wrote. Let’s see if you can figure it out.
/r/seduction10/02/26 08:47 PM
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Yeah, but they prey on lonely, old, attention starved women. For women like this, love bombing probably works. Think of the old rule: Treat a queen like a whore and a whore like a queen. A whore being a woman that men just use for one thing and then toss aside. Someone they see as beneath them. Treat a woman like this like she’s a queen and she will fall madly in love with you. Queens on the other hand are the opposite. Men worship the ground the walk on, let them get away with murder and overpu…
/r/seduction10/02/26 08:05 PM
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You are already overcommunicating. She doesn’t have to wonder where you are or who you are with. She knows you are a good boy who will check in her every afternoon.
/r/seduction10/02/26 06:45 PM
3

I’ve read this guy’s many comments. It’s comical. He is constantly getting kicked out of clubs workout even speaking to women. He only matches with super fat women and even those don’t give him a chance. It’s like he has a humiliation kink or something. Can’t quite put my finger on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:20 PM
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I agree with a lot of what you wrote, although I’m not sure there are all these different kinds of strength. At the end of the day, they all come down to who has more options. An attractive woman will always have options with men (probably not the men she necessarily wants), but men, typically make the mistake of taking their most powerful option off the table. And that option is being alone, or turning down sex. Because most believe that being alone or missing out on sex is a fate worse than de…
/r/seduction10/02/26 06:18 PM
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You have a fundamental misunderstanding of female nature if you believe what you actually wrote.
/r/seduction10/02/26 06:15 PM
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This advice is not for when you have a girlfriend. It’s for dating and hooking up. You also have a fundamental misunderstanding of women’s nature. Just because they have their phones stuck to their face it’s not a good enough reason to over communicate. Quite the opposite. You create emotional tension and desire by absence and scarcity, not by blowing up her phone and being available. Women are drawn to mysterious men, because what makes them interesting is her trying to figure the guy out. If y…
/r/seduction10/02/26 06:14 PM
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Yeah yeah yeah. That’s totally the full story.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:28 PM
2

The problem is not men approaching. It’s who and how. Men get really desperate and they chase women down the street, jump in front of them out of nowhere or accost them in places like bars or the gym, etc. And all of this without any signs from the woman that she’s open to meeting anyone. The other problem is men treat approaching as an all or nothing proposition. They have already made a decision they want the woman (based on what? Just her looks? Just because they are horny or lonely?) and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:44 PM
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Women/sex/relationships should never be your primary or sole source of happiness and purpose. If they are, then you become needy and desperate (look in the mirror), which is about the most repulsive trait a man can have.
/r/seduction10/02/26 12:54 AM
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Of course, this is very common. I am currently in a job search and was feeling really insecure about my last few jobs. Some were not very successful, so I always had it on my mind that I would be questioned about them and I would give off red flags and I usually did. See, women evolved to follow the lead of men. If you should up and in your own head you keep thinking about how flawed you are, how full of shit you are and how no woman will give you a chance once she finds out what a loser you are…
/r/seduction09/02/26 08:50 PM
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Please don’t use that word every again.
/r/seduction09/02/26 08:22 PM
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Nothing is worse than your type being any women who’d take you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:38 PM
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If you are pursuing even a little bit, you have already lost.
/r/seduction09/02/26 05:20 PM
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I thought you just wanted to smash.
/r/seduction09/02/26 03:24 PM
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The fear of rejection or approaching disappears once you are very secure in the value you have and can provide to women. Are you clear on what you bring to the table? Are you clear about what makes you different than any other guy? Imagine being a millionaire but dressed like a regular guy. You show up to some expensive jewelry or retail store. You know you can afford anything in the store. Do you think you will be phased if one of the sales clerks treats you like a poor person? Or if they have …
/r/seduction09/02/26 03:24 PM
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Text and say: hey change of plans. I’ve been out and about for the past two weeks and can really use a quiet evening at home. Let’s do takeout, a bottle of wine and a movie. My address is XYZ.
/r/seduction09/02/26 03:20 PM
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It’s two sides of the same coin. On one side, it’s about what you believe having women means to you (and about you), and the other side of the coin is what you believe rejection or joy having a woman means to you and about you. If you tell yourself having girls be receptive to you is awesome and it mean you are the man and that it makes you desirable and high value and pm the other hand you tell yourself women joy being interested means that you are a loser and that you will be forever alone. Th…
/r/seduction09/02/26 12:24 PM
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Eh. I actually have more respect for an actual porn star or a hooker who actually takes it up the ass than an OF slut, who does nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:31 AM
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I should have read your flair before responding to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:23 PM
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I can’t argue with you because I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:05 PM
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I think you mixed up your analogies there chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:50 PM
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That seems to track. Mens natural testosterone levels are higher in the morning and drop off sharply by the afternoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:43 PM
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Your claim was not the aim of my post, not at all. But you just assumed based on your own projections.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:29 PM
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You are not serious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:28 PM
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Hormones and their balance are very complex. That’s my point in the original post. It’s not just about one hormone specifically. Did you know that men also produce estrogen? And that if you crash your estrogen it can cause issues with sexual arousal and ED as well? Should all men now be supplementing estrogen to the levels women produce? Of course not. It’s an intricate balance between a number of different hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:10 PM
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I provided studies and citations showing that testosterone therapy in biological women for low libido is largely ineffective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:58 PM
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And you don’t think that messing with your bio gender’s hormone balances has anything to do with this? Lol. Just because a biological female is given testosterone, that don’t make her a man all of a sudden. And vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:55 PM
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I did and I’m on TRT. Horniness has come back but it will never be 15 year old pimply teenager type of horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:50 PM
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Citations from peer reviewed literature please?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:48 PM
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I’m 44. My libido fell off in my mid to mate 30s. It’s normal and takes me much more to get properly aroused than just seeing some cleavage or, as when I was 15, the wind blowing on my crotch the right way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:47 PM
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Women have a different cocktail of hormones. They fluctuate with their menstrual cycle. Most animals have an estrus, aka mating season. Human females also have one, but it’s a hidden estrus (meaning their buttocks don’t turn red for example) and it happens for a few days every month.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:45 PM
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What is this AI slop.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:38 PM
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Right. Which PPD claims women are inherently
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:37 PM
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Show me citations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:37 PM
-4

Many women are turn on by being degraded, so stop judging just because you might be prudish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:30 PM
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Where can I buy Bad Bunny’s stuffy, penguin like three piece suit like the one he’s wearing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:29 PM
1

Way to miss the point of my original comment. You just read what you want to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:52 PM
1

Totally nothing to do with my comment. But for some reason you seem to want to keep being a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:12 PM
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It doesn’t help anyone to get advice from another loser.
/r/seduction07/02/26 04:41 PM
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What is there to think about? I only date supermodels who are between 19 and 19.5 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:25 PM
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Yep. Because in the land of the blind, the one eyed is king. Mystery’s “students” were always awkward, socially stunted guys, to whom being able to approach a woman and entertain her and her group with card tricks for 5 mins was akin to levitating off the ground or turning water into wine. He passed himself off as an authority and was able to create the illusion (he is a magician by training after all) that he was fabulously successful with women. But the bitter truth is that he barely if ever g…
/r/seduction07/02/26 02:23 PM
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There are only a couple of aspects of the MGTOW philosophy that are useful in my opinion. But the big problem behind this “movement” is the intent and motivation of the people who follow it. They become MGTOW out of bitterness, hurt and hate towards women. The core of their movement wouldn’t exist if it weren’t for the common enemy - the woman! In that regard it is no different than any other extremist movement that has a common enemy at its core. Whether that’s fascism, communism, nazism, Islam…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:18 PM
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You mean the guy that attempted suicide twice over a woman? The guy who allegedly went out every night dressed like a clown and got a bunch of numbers but never got laid, because women were just hoping he’d go away? That Mystery?
/r/seduction07/02/26 01:30 PM
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Brent Smith
/r/seduction07/02/26 11:27 AM
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Nigha still watching RSD retard videos and is wondering why he ain’t getting laid.
/r/seduction07/02/26 03:00 AM
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There is a time and place for vulnerability and it’s definitely not in the beginning of the mating dance. Get too serious and deep too early on and you will scare women off. The beginning stages of dating should be all about sex and fun and not getting serious. As you two start to get to know each other better, vulnerability can be an opportunity to form a much deeper connection. But do it too soon and you will regret it.
/r/seduction07/02/26 02:59 AM
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Change your story. Take what you just wrote and plug it into ChatGPT and ask it to reframe everything to a positive. Then save that new story and repeat it to yourself every morning you wake and just before you go to bed and as much as you can during the day.
/r/seduction07/02/26 01:20 AM
1

Holding each others’ dicks?
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:40 PM
2

The guy who have no trouble dating and getting laid are not attached to the idea that women or sex are the only things that can make them happy. And yes , many times women approach these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:08 PM
1

Well, understand that texting only succeeds if you’ve made the right impression during the approach. If that’s fucked, nothing else will fix it. The thing is, you need to approach a woman with the unshakable belief that you are doing her a tremendous favor by talking to her and giving her the opportunity to spend time with you is the most amazing gift anyone could give her. If you don’t believe this in your bones, then work on your story and your affirmations. Once that’s in place, everything wi…
/r/seduction06/02/26 09:06 PM
2

You have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:01 PM
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What he is conveniently omitting is that he is fucking a buncha hoodrats.
/r/seduction06/02/26 08:25 PM
2

You are already chasing which means she is running.
/r/seduction06/02/26 08:24 PM
1

I’ve known of Owen and the RSD guys for way longer than you and they are just weirdos. Whatever you pickup from them will actually just set you back. It may look impressive to someone who has no experience meeting women, but trust me, almost everything they team is wrong.
/r/seduction06/02/26 08:23 PM
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Consider that people tend to want what they can’t get. The guys complaining here can’t get hookups, so that’s what they obsess over. The irony is, if th EU stopped caring about getting hook ups or girlfriends so much, they would probably have a much easier time doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:51 PM
1

That means that you have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/seduction06/02/26 07:41 PM
0

They view it as a badge of honor. They are afraid if they take advantage of an opportunity right away, that opportunity will disappear, aka insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:39 PM
1

What is the typical male hook up experience? You think men who hook up have amazing porno movie sex? Most people hook up in the early morning hours after hanging out in bars and clubs. They are blunted by alcohol and other drugs. And the first time with someone usually sucks because you don’t know each others’ bodies. You think men who hook up are having amazeballs orgasms the first time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:38 PM
1

This is not about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:43 PM
-12

You have no idea how any of this works, so you?
/r/seduction06/02/26 04:23 PM
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lol have you met women? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:50 PM
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I think that’s the point. They are doing it willingly because they think they get something out of it, or worse, that by not having sex they are missing out on some “cool kids”, “members only” club. It is self flagellation and the irony is that the minute you give up the Pussy Monster, you become infinitely more attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:47 PM
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He is a slave to the Pussy Monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:46 PM
8

It’s emotional because we give it this meaning. It’s men who put so much weight on sex. You can just stop doing that. It will make you less needy and more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:44 PM
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lol sure. You are telling me a woman find a man who can give her an orgasm (rare) and then she just nopes out of seeing him again, because hook up culture?
/r/seduction06/02/26 03:43 PM
1

It all starts with casual and then may or may not turn into a relationship.
/r/seduction06/02/26 03:41 PM
34

Let me guess? None of these girls wanted a repeat?
/r/seduction06/02/26 03:39 PM
3

You need to take a step back and just start talking people in general without any goal in mind. You are getting too wound up about what imaginary people will think imaginary thoughts about you an have imaginary conversations about your imaginary approaches. Just nod to people, smile, say hola, practice your Spanish or ask them if they speak English and that you are new to the area and looking to make friends. Try cracking some jokes.
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:46 AM
8

Tell her “well, you have really good taste in men”.
/r/seduction06/02/26 03:00 AM
0

The most important one is being respected and not letting people disrespect you or get away with bullshit. This happens a lot with guys who grew up without a dad or had a very meek, nice guy type of dad, who probably let women walk all over him. Plus, these days we are raised by women when young, when we go to kindergarten, and when we start going to school, most teachers are female. By the time you graduate from college and get brainwashed by feminist liberal indoctrination, you barely stand a …
/r/seduction06/02/26 03:00 AM
2

Well, go before closing time so that you will be all forced to leave at the same time m. Don’t go there to hang out for hours. Go an hour or half hour before closing, be well rested, showered, smelling fresh. Just talk to them and when the bartender say last call, or they flash the lights, turn to her and say “I’m getting out of here, you coming”, but not as a question but as a statement and then turn around to start to leave. Maybe even extend your hand so you take her by the hand.
/r/seduction05/02/26 07:39 PM
2

Go up to one, have a big and fat smile and say hi, my name is Bob, what’s your name? Then you can open up a conversation by asking “sooooo, how’s your Saturday going or what’s your story?” And go from there.
/r/seduction05/02/26 06:41 PM
-1

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:48 PM
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Because the people who came together, came earlier in the night and they fucked off already. The ones who don’t plan on getting laid, also went home early. If you do show up early, girls might think “we have all night to find a hot guy, I wonder if another one might show up”. So when you show up a little before closing time, only the desperate and horny people will be left hoping to go home with someone then and there. It’s just easy pickings. If you want to make it harder on yourself, go early …
/r/seduction05/02/26 02:47 PM
-1

Fewer doesn’t mean none. But you knew that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:47 PM
4

As others have pointed out, most people who “self-improve” often do it begrudgingly because their only motivation is to get approval from the opposite sex. Inherently, this is what approval seeking is and for whatever reason, approval seeking behaviors and vibes totally turn women off. Many men also say stuff like this: “I lost the weight, got some muscle, started dressing better, but women are still not asking me out”, which tells me everything I need to know about how they are approaching (or …
/r/seduction05/02/26 11:55 AM
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It’s all about internal mindset. For every guy who says “I can’t get laid because I’m 5’7””, you can find a guy who has a girlfriend. For every bald guy who says losing his hair is the reason for not getting laid, you will find a bold guy that’s killing it. So it must be the internal mindset that’s the problem. I have found that men who struggle with women share the same thing in common. And that is that they don’t like themselves very much and many downright hate themselves. Unfortunately for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:56 AM
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Loss of self steel occurs when we have negative and distorted thinking. People can also feel sad for the loss of a loved one for example without loss of self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:22 AM
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Start going out to bars and clubs an hour before closing time and hit on women until one goes home with you. Don’t stop doing this until you get laid.
/r/seduction04/02/26 10:30 PM
-1

Actual approaching is not needed. You can simply give off try hard needy vibes and never actually approach.
/r/seduction04/02/26 10:01 PM
-1

This is just a false story you keep telling yourself.
/r/seduction04/02/26 09:56 PM
-4

They are on the apps.
/r/seduction04/02/26 09:56 PM
3

Remind yourself that she was with you for a reason and that if she found you attractive, that means that it is possible that every other woman on earth also finds you attractive. If you met her requirements, you can meet every other woman’s requirements as well. With that in mind, start thinking of any woman you might talk to as being the luckiest girl in the world for having the chance to get to know you.
/r/seduction04/02/26 09:37 PM
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I think it goes beyond this. In general, women have become too passive and men have become too aggressive in over pursuing. Since you can only be in one of two positions with a woman - you are either pursuing her or she is pursuing you - when men show up as overpursuers, women have no choice but to assume the position of the one being pursued. And being pursued comes with certain attitudes and behaviors, such as: you are always vetting the other person, your requirements skyrocket, you make them…
/r/seduction04/02/26 09:35 PM
2

There is only one trap and that’s the trap of neediness and attachment. Women never want what they can get and only want what they can’t get. Although to us men it looks amazing to have a ton in common with a girl and gush all over her, to the woman, on an emotional level, we are communicating “I’m easy to get! I’m over eager and over excited to be in your company, because I don’t hang out with many attractive women like you, so I consider myself of much lower value than you are.” It sucks but t…
/r/seduction04/02/26 07:18 PM
1

There are a lot of seemingly paradoxical behaviors in these type of men. Ultimately, it comes down to how intensely they hate themselves and then projecting that hate onto others, most notably women. They want to get close to women, but at the same time subconsciously they are thinking “you dumb bitch, don’t you see what I see? That I’m absolutely worthless and that you should not waste any time on me.” It’s subconscious self sabotage, because they can’t reconcile wanting to be with someone else…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:14 PM
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You should join the Leopard Ate My Face party.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:48 PM
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Why are you feeling sick to your stomach about women? It’s this guy who enabled her toxic behavior and catered to her every whim. If anything, it should make you sick to your stomach that there are such simps who still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:38 PM
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I think you can absolutely want something and still not stake your entire self worth and happiness on whether you get it or not. And in the case of women/love, staking your self worth and happiness on getting them will all but guarantee that you never will get them. I don’t understand how this is still not clear to you guys. Emotional neediness is the single biggest turn off for women. So the very fact that you are seeking out women to fill an emotional hole in you, is what’s preventing you from…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:34 PM
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Lolz. Are you a real person?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:21 PM
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Nice theory, but falls apart when you take into consideration how many famous and rich people adored by millions have offed themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:13 PM
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Wrong. It has been proven over and over that it is not our circumstances that cause us emotional distress, but how we THINK about our circumstances. And invariably people who are depressed or have low self esteem, have distorted and untrue thoughts about themselves and their circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:41 PM
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When it comes to having women problem, the actual problem is believing you need love/sex to feel happy and complete. As long as you telegraph this neediness, finding actual love and sex will be extremely hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:40 PM
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Or it’s just as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:44 AM
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I’m convinced that 99% of men suffering from the male loneliness epidemic are simply deeply depressed people with their self esteem in the shitter. Funny thing about depression, many people get depressed and some even kill themselves although they have loving families and partners. So it can’t be that being loved cures all. But I’m sure if they cured their depression, they would have much better chances to find romantic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:37 AM
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If a woman’s face looks like she is trying to turn into a humanoid alien, it typically means she’s in the middle of an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:32 AM
1

You don understand an Indian virgin makes you the majority right?
/r/seduction04/02/26 11:28 AM
1

Brent Smith or Rick H. Everyone else is a scam.
/r/seduction04/02/26 11:27 AM
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When I was dating my rule was by the 3rd date. If I wasn’t fucking her by then, she was gone. I’ve had to enact that rule only a handful of times and the girls always lost their shit. For the most part things are either progressing towards sex or they are progressing away from it. In general, I have no use for women I’m not having sex with,’other than as family or friends. And I didn’t have any female friends I wanted to fuck. Once I made this rule and stuck to it, magically women started sleepi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:59 AM
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Go out very late at night. Like half hour before closing time. Look for women who have their backs against the bar and who are scanning the crowd. These are usually the ones who are ovulating and looking to get laid or at least thinking about dick. Avoid women who are just teasing men for attention, women who seem to be huddled up and talking to each other, but have a closed off body language. Then make contact with one of the girls at the bar, who is facing the crowd and if you can hold eye con…
/r/seduction04/02/26 01:46 AM
1

Well, that’s the game and we gotta play it. I’m sure women lament that they can’t just dress in sweats or pjs, and not do their hair and make up around us all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:38 PM
1

Certainly been there with my first couple of relationships. At the end of the day, a woman needs to feel like she respects her man and her man is respected by others. And if she can manipulate him or walk all over him, it means others can easily as well (because she’s just a weak woman after all /s). And if others can manipulate and disrespect him, it means that having a baby with this man is a risky and dangerous proposition and he won’t be able to protect her and the baby from other competitor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:36 PM
1

100%! When I used to date, and a woman said “oh, I love sushi”, that would be the last place I’d take her to (as a first or second date), even though I myself love sushi. I just never wanted to give the impression that I’m trying to please her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:31 PM
8

Pleasing the woman. Trying to defer to her for decisions, or making decisions about where to go out on a date based on her preferences for food, music, etc. Agreeing with her on everything, trying to figure out what they have in common so he can say “me too”. Guys think this sort of kiss ass behavior will score them brownie points, but women see it as pickme behavior and end up friendzoning or stringing these guys along.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:55 PM
2

lol, you sweet sweet summer child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:35 PM
10

It’s like going up to a wild animal, getting bit or scratched, going up to it again, getting bit and scratched. Doing it yet again, and still getting bit and scratched and then blaming the wild animal for being stupid or evil or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:33 PM
3

If I didn’t know better, I’d agree with you, but I have tried to help enough “lonely” men and the level of resistance they have to ANY change is beyond anything I have ever experienced in my life. I will give you just one example. I used to lurk in the r/Bumble sub, the one for the dating app, and often you will see posts from mostly men asking for a profile review. There was one that caught my eye. The title of the post read something like: “Haven’t had a match in 6 months” So I take a look at …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:28 PM
1

No problem pal
/r/seduction03/02/26 11:55 AM
18

What are you hoping for here? That she will let you sniff her pussy one day? Maybe date 14 or 40?
/r/seduction03/02/26 11:24 AM
0

You really sold us on you there in that last sentence. What a catch.
/r/seduction03/02/26 11:23 AM
1

Yeah I ain’t reading this Chief
/r/seduction03/02/26 11:21 AM
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Because you are talking out of your ass and accusing men of something that women very much do as well. So spare me the virtue signaling about how pure and innocent women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:20 AM
3

Nobody knows the type of bitches I get at Tool concerts….oh wait!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:19 AM
1

Get tattoos and a criminal record.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:18 AM
4

And so is romance and smut novels…:oh wait!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:16 AM
-3

lol, you sweet summer child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:15 AM
5

You mean like that male creep who wrote 50 Shades of Grey?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:10 AM
1

So because SOME men are bad, you think this warrants ALL women in certain religions to be covered up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:19 AM
0

Your lack of reading comprehension and intelligence is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:18 AM
1

Yet you hear only women get stoned about it but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:16 AM
0

You saying all men are rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:15 AM
1

So you saying all men are rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:15 AM
1

Okay pal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:12 AM
1

A few rules of thumb: Communicate via text in as little characters as humanly possible Texting is to be used for setting up dates only and not having conversations Don’t make any excuses when texting a girl. Stop writing, hey how are you, what are you up to, how’s your day going, when what you really want to say is “Hey, I want to see you this week” or “let’s go out this Friday”. Don’t text after dates.
/r/seduction03/02/26 01:40 AM
2

Or maybe these men should figure out how to attract women on their own merit and not rely on a patriarchal system to force a woman to mate with them out of physical necessity for survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:36 AM
1

If you believe that women don’t like sex and seek it as much as men do, ask yourself why does every major religion consider adultery a deadly sin, or threatens women with stoning if they as much as look at a man, or make them dress like ninjas and so on and so forth. If women really didn’t give a damn about dick so much, why would men feel a need to control them and keep them away from other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:34 AM
0

You okay bud?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:25 PM
5

Learn to banter a little bit. Going for the date right away is like sticking it in her ass without any lube. You gotta warm them up first a little bit. Learn the fucking dance. Also, when suggesting a date, don’t give them the entire itinerary, definitely don’t suggest Friday or Saturday dates (you should have a robust social life and shouldn’t be available those nights) and definitely don’t ask stuff like “if you are free then”. Go for something low stakes, not being stuck in an escape room wit…
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:24 PM
32

Typical loser behavior. Have rules and set those rules early on. Tell any one you are dating “just to set expectations, I’m not in the emotional headspace to have an exclusive relationship right now. Are you okay with this?” Or you can phrase it in a different way. The fact that you are avoiding all of this means that you are scared shitless and by your damage control response it does appear that you are scared.
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:52 PM
1

You can touch yourself, you can desire yourself. So I guess you just need a baby mama to carrry your seed? How sexy!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:43 PM
1

So why is the man allowing himself to be treated like an object?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:06 PM
48

Man, you can’t even follow simple directions, how do you expect to have a full blown conversation?
/r/seduction02/02/26 04:37 PM
0

I saw an Asian guy that was built like a bodybuilder with a hot white girl. I saw another one, relatively short, with a girl that looked like a white or Latina baddie, but he was covered in tattoos, piercings and dressed in street fashion. Definitely not the pocket calculator, bowl hair cut types.
/r/seduction02/02/26 04:20 PM
63

Have you tried: “Hey, I’m (insert your name here), what’s your name?”
/r/seduction02/02/26 04:17 PM
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You have a lot of control over how others perceive you, mostly by changing how you perceive yourself and controlling what you can control (appearance, behavior, attitude, confidence, etc.). Resigning to thinking of yourself as a loser and expecting others should love you anyway, without you loving yourself first, is just delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:38 PM
3

Yep. People don’t want to accept the ugly truth of power dynamics in a romantic relationship. They want to believe in their Disney fairy tales.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:30 PM
1

What if I told you that you could skyrocket your success rate by going after women who are there to get laid?
/r/seduction02/02/26 11:56 AM
1

You are over pursuing them. Stop being so available and eager to get laid. You gotta toy with women a little.
/r/seduction02/02/26 11:52 AM
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Stop trying to figure out how to get on with the woman’s program and start working about your own program. Focus on what you want not what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:51 AM
3

The truth is ugly isn’t it. Sorry you couldn’t handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:50 AM
3

The best sex in my life and the best I have been treated by women is when they thought there was a threat by other females to my attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:38 AM
0

The alternative to that is a woman who gets fat and lazy and stops having sex with her man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:33 AM
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Why are you guys so attached to this idea that women and people in general must accept you as the loser that you are yourself as? Why should anybody accept people who see themselves as losers? Isn’t the definition of being a loser that you are rejected by society?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:30 AM
3

My best friend in high school banged more girls in HS than most men their entire lives.
/r/seduction02/02/26 02:13 AM
2

Men can be picky and selective as well. They will likely get more play that way because they will appear hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:58 PM
1

Right. So you are playing by her rules because you don’t even have any of your own. Do you even have an idea what you want and what you want to do with this girl?
/r/seduction01/02/26 05:20 PM
2

Yep exactly. One of the best nights I had was when I went out one time and told myself “I’m just going to go get a drink l, relax, people watch and enjoy myself. I don’t even want to talk to women.” And it just happened that the hottest (to me) girl in the lounge started burning holes in me with her eyes. I thought it would be rude not to go talk to her because if she wanted it that much, she had to have it :) And the conversation flowed so naturally. No forced kino escalation, no forced negs or…
/r/seduction01/02/26 05:17 PM
1

My situation was slightly different but there are a lot of parallels. I was always very shy and anxious, but found great friends in high school and they introduced me to a group of girls from an upper class. One ended asking me out and we dated throughout high school. At the end of high school, I ended up moving to the US (originally from Eastern Europe) and that was a huge shock and brought on a lot of the same old depression and anxiety. So ended up wasting my college years and feeling really …
/r/seduction01/02/26 02:50 PM
5

It’s just another way of saying “women flake on me all the time, so I have to check in to make sure you are going to show up”.
/r/seduction01/02/26 02:36 PM
1

What are your rules around how soon you have sex?
/r/seduction01/02/26 02:08 PM
0

See, this is the problem with the whole pickup lifestyle. It is inherently extremely needy. You are trying to force your way through a locked and bolted door. Some guys even skip the door and just try to break through the wall by slamming their head against it over and over. Wouldn’t it be much easier and nicer to instead walk through an open door? Look around, see if you like it? If you go out to try and pick up women, all you will do is telegraph a needy and desperate energy. An attachment to …
/r/seduction01/02/26 02:06 PM
1

Well, there were more women than men and some women just want to get laid too. But anyway, keep going out with the vibe of a hungry and thirsty wolf and let me know how it works out for you.
/r/seduction01/02/26 01:32 PM
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That’s the lamest advice I’ve ever heard. Way to put that final nail in the coffin.
/r/seduction01/02/26 01:30 PM
21

Way too much interest. You have to learn to be a bit deliciously cruel and let women stew in uncertainty for a bit. Repeat after me: WOMEN NEVER WANT WHAT THEY CAN GET AND ONLY WANT WHAT THEY CAN’T GET. Here are some things that make you WHAT THEY CAN GET: Overcommunicating, too much and too often, having deep conversations on a first date, trying to put your hands all over too soon, not doing anything to screen her, trying too hard to prove yourself to her, talking about the future with you two…
/r/seduction01/02/26 01:28 PM
1

You kept getting rejected because you went there on the clear mission to troll for pussy and the women smelled it from miles away.
/r/seduction01/02/26 01:14 PM
0

I don’t follow any PUA gurus because they are all full of shit. But if you want someone who has a bit more sense, I would look at Brent Smith and Dr Robert Glover’s dating stuff.
/r/seduction01/02/26 01:12 PM
1

Hey man, it’s up to you if you want to feel like a nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:11 PM
5

I don’t think so. What made the difference for me was to sit down and figure out who and what I am, what I liked and disliked, what kind of relationship I wanted and what kind of woman I wanted, what her qualities should be and how she’d treat me. Basically I focused on knowing what I wanted and committed to only going after that and never settling for someone outside of that. I had spectacular success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:39 AM
1

I stopped reading at “talking to a girl for a while”.
/r/seduction01/02/26 03:34 AM
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Do you think waiting much longer is going to make her tits less saggy and her face less wrinkly?
/r/seduction01/02/26 03:33 AM
1

I don’t know man. It’s a conscious decision to stop bullying yourself.
/r/seduction01/02/26 03:32 AM
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I can’t believe anyone is still listening to that psychopathic retard.
/r/seduction01/02/26 03:31 AM
0

Stop caring about getting a girlfriend and change your story .
/r/seduction01/02/26 03:31 AM
1

Stop trying to put your hands all over a woman the second you meet her. This is literally the most retarded pickup advice ever given.
/r/seduction01/02/26 03:29 AM
3

What exactly does a woman offer a man that he can’t get for himself? Granted most men can’t suck their own dick, but other than this one, what else?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:27 AM
2

How can you be depressed when you are in a relationship? PPD User Does Not Compute.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:24 AM
-2

She swallows, takes it up the ass, calls him Daddy, brings her hot friend in the bedroom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:23 AM
0

No man, don’t be fucking silly. The problem is that men are conditioned to have extremely low self esteem and that leads them to be needy and desperate, which is a huge turn off for women. Learn to love yourself and not need women for approval and validation and love, and they will be swarming you like flies swarm a pile of horseshit..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:23 AM
1

On the contrary, I think you should be pulling away from them. You are not asking the tough qualifying questions because you want to appear as a good pleasant guy. They sniff you out a guy who doesn’t get a lot of girls. And they are right. A guy who gets a lot of girls will be very selective and discerning. He will try to find out if she has the qualities he is looking for. You don’t appear to have any idea of what you want in women, other than just wanting them to love you. That makes you appe…
/r/seduction31/01/26 10:40 PM
1

Your problem is clear as day to me. You are trying to please these women and get on with their program. You are chasing them and wanting something out of them (sex, approval, relationship). Stop that. Stop trying to get them. The next time you go on a date, make it super low effort, like drinks at a cocktail bar. On the date, stop being thinking t about touching them, being funny, witty, etc. Actually, on the opposite - I want you to take a slightly skeptical view of the woman in front of you. L…
/r/seduction31/01/26 09:58 PM
-3

You fucking stalked this girl for an hour and then are asking for advice on how to be an even creepier stalker?
/r/seduction31/01/26 09:49 PM
1

It is simpler than this. People and women especially, never want what they can get and only want what they can’t get. The nice guys who treat them politely and never say anything that might offend them, and who are trying a bit too hard to please them, are the guys they can get easily. This includes the wanna be pickup artists who are cold approaching them an trying every trick in the book to create attraction. While the guy who is doing whatever he wants despite her protests, who might be even …
/r/seduction31/01/26 09:49 PM
1

Libido and arousal are way more complex than just high T = horny. Estrogen and testosterone are the two primary sex hormones and they occur in both genders. An imbalance of estrogen in men can also lead to low libido. Here is why there is a disbalance and asymmetry in male/female relationships. Men have become too aggressive and women have become too passive. There are only two positions you can be in when interacting with a woman. You can either be in the pursuer position or in the position of …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:58 PM
3

Every time you tell yourself you NEED something to be happy and fulfilled, you are making yourself a slave to that thing. We need food, water, clean air and a shelter to stay alive. That’s indisputable. But everything else outside of that is not a real need, but we elevate it to a need mentally. No one has died from lack of sex. It doesn’t have any detrimental physical effects, other than needing to clean your pipes periodically (for men). But if you keep telling yourself that not having sex is …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:05 PM
5

Both men and women project their arousal mechanism onto each other. For example, men typically need a woman to meet two criteria to get aroused enough to actually have PIV sex. She needs to be attractive enough (very fluid criteria that can change based on the last time he’s had sex or how many beers he’s had that night) And 2. She appears to be willing. So men project that onto women and think: “If I were a hot girl, everybody would be willing. So all I would need to do to find someone attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:51 PM
2

That’s not the point of the post. The point is that if you can’t be happy alone, you won’t be able to attract a mate, because nobody wants needy, sad and desperate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:00 PM
1

The more you avoid what makes you anxious, the more the anxiety will defeat you.
/r/seduction31/01/26 02:07 PM
0

You sound like a creeper.
/r/seduction31/01/26 02:07 PM
1

In med school he can get the best steroids.
/r/seduction31/01/26 01:54 PM
12

Treat a queen like a whore and a whore like a queen. Always works. Women have always fallen for the bad boys who don’t kiss their ass. I remember seeing one of these street interview reels on Insta, some guy asking a really hot young girl on the street about what guys turn her off. And she says “nice guys”. So he follows up “really! What about nice guys turns you off”. And she says “well, when a guy is really nice to you, it is because he doesn’t get any other girls, and that’s not attractive.” …
/r/seduction31/01/26 01:49 PM
0

Didn’t the guy who invent it try to kill hinaelf twice over a woman?
/r/seduction31/01/26 01:46 PM
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Be sensitive and kind, don’t play games, show that you are ready to commit to her for life on the first date, pursue and court her, prove yourself that you are worthy of her, etc. Basically treat a queen like a queen. Never works. These behaviors are inherently submissive and therefore feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:44 PM
1

Stop showing so much interest. Don’t call them after a date. Stop pursuing them.
/r/seduction31/01/26 03:39 AM
1

Yep. Trying too hard was my biggest obstacle. It’s just another expression of neediness. Stop needing women and they will flock to you.
/r/seduction31/01/26 03:38 AM
2

Are you a typical Asian nerd with puny arms and a well performing 401K?
/r/seduction31/01/26 03:37 AM
2

If I wanted to approach, I’d probably approach no more than 1 or 2.
/r/seduction31/01/26 03:35 AM
6

Being single is your most powerful option. But if you take it off the table by making singleness this terrible and unbearable thing, then you truly have no options left.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:34 AM
3

Good! Now that man and that woman can actually get to know each other and want to be with the other on the merit of who they are as a person and not because they desperately need each other for tax purposes or to bust a nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:33 AM
2

Being happy single doesn’t mean that you are obliged by law to remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:31 AM
2

Couldn’t agree more! If there is one secret to having f women attracted to you it’s this: know who you are and be comfortable with that AND don’t need them. Not needing them drives women crazy. Every man has options when it comes to women. Even when the option is to just stay single. But most men stubbornly take this option off the table by wallowing in their loneliness and neediness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:30 AM
2

Yes. What are you doing about it is the real question?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:28 AM
1

This is decided by how you set up the interaction preceding said hook up. If you pursued the woman, then you are expected to continue pursuing her. And it won’t end well for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:28 AM
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Women just regurgitate the same old feel good outdated dating advice that has feminized men for several decades now. There are alternatives, but guys like you just refuse to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:26 AM
0

The more you give women the idea that you want to be bf/gf or that you are the husband type, the more she will put sex on hold. I don’t pretend to want anything but a physical relationship. This way I got sex much faster and easier than when I was all wishy washy or promising women things that I had no intention on giving them. You speak out of fear. Fear that women will turn you down for it. Promising women to give them something of value (commitment, exclusivity, etc), only to get something of…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:55 AM
-1

I think arguing with women is inherently a bitch move. She either does what I tell her or she doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:18 PM
4

So why is it easier for me to get laid when I’m honest with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:17 PM
1

That’s certainly an inner game issue.
/r/seduction23/01/26 09:27 PM
1

If you go to a club without the intention to pickup girls, how do you end up being angry if you don’t? That’s mean you are attached to an outcome, you just don’t admit it to yourself. Here is the secret about women: you can only have them when you are willing to lose them/let them go. It seems that you are too attached to picking up a girl and going home with her. Practice focusing on the process and not the outcome. Be okay with whatever the outcome is and wherever the chips may fall. One way t…
/r/seduction23/01/26 08:51 PM
1

I never said sit there and wait for women to hit you up. As I told another poster, it’s much easier to walk through and open door than it is to keep banging on a bolted door or worse, keep banging your head against a wall, hoping one day it will crack and you can sneak in.
/r/seduction23/01/26 08:42 PM
0

So let me get this right! You believe the product, ie you, is subpar? And then you wonder why badgering women and doing thousand of approaches doesn’t work for you. lol.
/r/seduction23/01/26 07:00 PM
1

Easy. Just change the reason for approaching a woman.
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:50 PM
4

The guy that sells a product clients want to buy. Not the guy who badgers people about things they don’t want.
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:46 PM
1

First of all, women approach men all the time. They just don’t do it in the “hey hot stuff, wanna get out of here” manner that most men would love to be approached in. Women approach by sending signals, aka holding doors open. The problem with just blindly approaching is that it sends of hella of a needy energy. What is the goal there? To get her to like you? To get her number? To get her in bed? What happens when a used car salesman approaches you? Or a beggar? It’s a turn off, because they wan…
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:45 PM
-3

What is an easier way to enter a house? Open a hole in the wall by slamming your head against it OR by walking through an open door?
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:30 PM
2

When I was single, I had to make sure a girl really wanted me to take her number to even bother calling her. If I had to “work” to get the number or ask her out, it never happened. The only way for this to work well, you have to be absolutely convinced that you are hot shit and that you want nothing from the woman. You are doing her a favor. Not easy.
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:28 PM
-6

I mean it’s so obvious why guys like him or you are not getting laid, it’s hilarious. Your approach is so inherently needy and creepy that it’s a miracle you get to bang one girl out 100.
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:24 PM
1

Then don’t call yourself a male. There are like 12 genders right now, so you can choose one or make your own up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:18 PM
4

Exactly. As a matter of fact, women love pursuing men, but men never give them the opportunity. If you give yourself so easily to women, they will not respect you or value you, unless the have earned your attention and interest.
/r/seduction23/01/26 01:10 PM
21

You make correct observations (not hard to do), but draw completely wrong conclusions from these observations. This is 100% a self induced problem by men. In any interaction with a woman, there are only two roles you can play. You can either be the pursuer or you can be the pursued. When one person shows up in one role, the other has no choice but to adopt the opposite role. You can’t be a little bit of this and a little hit of that. You can’t have two people who are chasing each other and two p…
/r/seduction23/01/26 12:35 PM
3

Well somebody has to fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:04 AM
2

Actually they would be solved is they stopped worrying about what women are thinking and started worrying about themselves and what they wanted. When you approve of yourself and put yourself first, women will start playing by your rules. If you try to play by their, you will always get played.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:37 AM
0

I’ve seen enough men’s profiles to know what the issue is. It’s not just about angles and lighting. It’s about the vibe they give off and the ones who don’t get laid give off the vibes of a guy who doesn’t get or is a virgin. You have to look the part, like a guy who gets ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:36 AM
1

I’ve found more success with brutal honesty. Once I finally started thinking of myself as a hot commodity who is valuable and has what women want and need, as opposed to a loser who has to beg for attention, being honest with women that I don’t want serious relationships worked very well. So well indeed that they started falling in love with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:39 PM
1

What do you think is the question least asked of attractive women. The above is not a question. It’s a statement.
/r/seduction22/01/26 11:37 PM
0

Okay. So you don’t have problem?
/r/seduction22/01/26 11:36 PM
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Sounds like you have a self defeating belief that drives you to qualify or prove yourself to women by trying to be super funny or cute or whatever. This comes across as needy. You need to behave like a man who is so hot that he doesn’t need to convince any woman to go out with him and if you are talking to her; it’s because you are doing her a favor. If you want to do this right, thinking of something like this: “Hey, saw your application for the girlfriend position come in. Reviewing now but fy…
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:52 PM
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The key thing is this. Neediness is your highest obstacle to success with women. If you don’t love yourself, if you think of yourself as a loser, average and other disparaging adjectives, and if you believe that women have something that you need to make you happy with yourself, you will always fail. The secret to having women is simple. Have high self esteem. Know yourself and what you like and dislike and feel good about you AND don’t need them. Nothing drives women more crazy than not needing…
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:46 PM
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What is your type? Or what kind of guy does your type of girl fuck?
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:44 PM
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I once accused a porn start who I started talking to in a bar, by asking her “so what else should I know about you other than that you like hitting on innocent guys, minding their own business at the bar?” She completely lost it and started pursuing me then and there.
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:42 PM
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Your problem isn’t the method, although this sounds like a good method and good framework for interactions. The issue is that your vibe sucks for some reason. Maybe you see women as trophies to win over because you want something from them or you don’t think highly of yourself. Or both. You need to revisit your inner game and give yourself permission to rate yourself above any woman out there. Be good to yourself and obey rule #1 of Power: -Get out of your own way This means thinking of yourself…
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:39 PM
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None of this matters if you are not getting the outcome you want, which should hopefully be to get laid and get a girlfriend. And if you were getting laid and had a girlfriend, you wouldn’t need to do any of this silliness at least not to this extent.
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:27 PM
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Not sure why you think I proved any of your misguided thoughts on the subject. Again, I’m all for practicing skills that you think you might be lacking or have weakness in. But if you are approaching hundreds of women and not getting laid, this will only depress you because you will start believing that something is really wrong with you. And here is the real issue. Approaching so many women is needy. And neediness is the biggest problem men have when it comes to women. So why not fix the issue …
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:26 PM
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Well, you can bury your head in the sand, but that’s exactly what it means. Sorry.
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:21 PM
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Yep, regarding your last paragraph. Approaching a ton of women lowers your value. What does it say about you if you’d approach anyone? If a woman told you “yeah, I’d fuck pretty much anyone in this club/bar”, would that make you more OR less attracted to her? Mass approaching says “I have no options, I have no standards, I will take any scrap I’m given, please someone like me”.
/r/seduction22/01/26 05:31 PM
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It would have taken you a fraction of the time you spend making snide remarks to just answer the question, which means you are just being disingenuous and goofy and not worth engaging with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:20 PM
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Utter and total bullshit. When will you guys understand that normal, well adjusted men are getting girlfriends and getting laid without having to a fraction of the silly stuff you need to do to just get a number? Mass approaching is NOT NORMAL. It’s weird. And most importantly - it DOESN’T WORK! Do you know how I know? Because I’ve done it all. And if you guys were actually getting laid and getting girlfriends from mass approaching, you wouldn’t have the time or inclination to be doing thousands…
/r/seduction22/01/26 12:19 PM
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Have you ever asked yourself how all these PUA gurus and random Redditors who claim to approached thousands of women and in many cases hundreds in a week, if they were actually getting laid and getting girlfriends or at least fuck buddies? Because if they had even two girls to have regular sex with, none of them would have the time, energy or motivation to be approaching thousands of women. The only conclusion is that if you are the one approaching thousands of women, it’s because you are never …
/r/seduction22/01/26 12:05 PM
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Well then you need to stop sending signals that you are boyfriend material. How are you dressed in your profile? Are you nice and clean and appear like a good boy? Or do you have fuckboi vibes, some tatts, shirtless photos, etc. You need to give off the badboy vibe. Also on dates, you gotta make it abundantly clear that you are not hubby material. You need to immediately tell women that you are not in the emotional headspace for anything serious but that you are always looking to meet people you…
/r/seduction22/01/26 12:00 PM
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Chasing begins way before a woman pulls away. Some men are in perpetual chasing mode because they are so needy for female approval and love. If you need them, then you are what they can get and no woman wants what she can get. They only want what they can’t get.
/r/seduction22/01/26 11:54 AM
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Oh yes, that’s exactly what men on this sub think chasing means. I’ve had men say that nothing counts unless the woman expresses interest verbally, asks him for his number, asks him on a date, lovebombs him with compliments and then grapes him. If a man has to as much as lift his finger or even take a shower he is the one chasing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:51 AM
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I agree with you. You should absolutely stay single and not be bothered with any man burdening you and worrying your pretty little head with his buffoonery. It’s about time men learned to figure things out for themselves. If they did that, maybe one day they would also be leading scientists, doctors, engineers, one day they might build us entire cities, design spaceships, cars, and household electronics. But alas, this is some utopia future that will never ever happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:48 AM
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I agree with u/Lysa_Bell that you need to define “chasing”. The reason is because people sometimes have a very black and white understanding of of these terms. Same with “approaching”. Men seem to think the only thing that counts as approaching is a woman coming over to you and saying “hi hot stuff, wanna get out of here so I can wrap my lips around your dick”. And everything else doesn’t count. My definition of chasing/courting is “when another person is actively trying to prove themselves to y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:41 AM
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You need to be pointing fingers to your own gender not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:24 AM
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Can you blame them for believing that? This is a very easy to overcome problem for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:44 AM
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Which one is easier or more likely to change. A. Everybody else to make your life easier? Or B. You. It’s not a multiple choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:20 AM
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The fact that you exist, right here and right now, is proof that your genetic ancestors survived and procreated since the beginning of life on earth. But somehow you are the special one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:19 AM
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You don’t need anecdotal evidence. The very fact that you exist in the here and now, a product of a male sperm and a female egg, proves that your genes that you have right now, have been able to replicate and procreate since the beginning of life on Earth. Period. This is science. This is a fact you cannot deny, wave off or discount.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:17 AM
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As I said women approach just not in the “hey baby let’s go to your place” type of way. The will smile, look at you, hover around, etc., hoping to get picked.
/r/seduction18/01/26 07:18 PM
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Society rewards men who are successful in the eyes of said society, by giving them permission to feel confident about themselves and to go after women they want. Work = sex. This is the equation which runs society as we know it. The only way for a man to get sex with desirable women is to earn it by achieving something society approves of. This is the mainstream, unspoken rule of dating and sex. The nice thing is, you can learn to break that rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:12 PM
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Put two and two together. If mass approaching worked and a man got a girlfriend or at least a couple of friends with benefits he could see once a week, why would he need to keep mass approaching? Use your brain Einstein. The only men who advocate this ridiculousness are the ones who don’t get laid, because it is retarded way to get laid. It doesn’t work. A man who has his choice with women would never resort to this type of approach. Only desperate, lonely men who can’t meet women otherwise, bec…
/r/seduction18/01/26 06:41 PM
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Not exactly how this works. It’s all about women wanting what they can’t have. If a guy approaches them and by his vibe and body language you can tell that his whole self esteem and self worth hinge upon you giving him his number, or even worse, if it is clear he has an agenda when coming over, then he is what this woman CAN have. Why? Because he’s already decided he wants her. He appears needy and as if her saying yes will give him the value and self worth he so desperately needs. Ironically, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:22 PM
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How else would I know the above?
/r/seduction18/01/26 05:56 PM
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If mass approaching worked, then guys should be getting girlfriends and fuck buddies ar least. Which would lead to them not needing to mass approach anymore. So anyone who does mass approaching is indeed not getting laid or get laid ao rarely, it’s not worth mentioning.
/r/seduction18/01/26 04:57 PM
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Women approach men all the time, just not in the “hey hot stuff, wanna get out of here” way that most men would like to.
/r/seduction18/01/26 03:31 PM
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And you’d be right to be worried because mass approaching is extremely needy and weird.
/r/seduction18/01/26 03:29 PM
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And you’ve been blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:23 PM
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Fear can be fear of losing him if she disrespects him or does something stupid. Admiration is pretty self explanatory. Now, you are being disingenuous by introducing the qualifier “that she just met”, because you are trying to trap me into a “gotcha”. Respect is an absolute requirement for having any kind of relationship with someone. It may not happen right away as you meet this person, but if you do disrespect them, don’t be surprised they won’t be in your life any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:17 PM
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Fear or admiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:11 PM
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If you complain to women how you are undesirable and constantly rejected, I don’t think you will ever have the chance to date a woman, who can be empathetic with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:09 PM
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The thing that compels guys to demand empathy from women, is the very same thing that actually causes the majority of their romantic problems. And that’s the deep, unquenchable need to get women’s approval at any cost. The origin of this approval seeking probably has to do with how boys are raised by women, from early childhood all the way through high school (most teachers and caregivers are women). That’s why guys see getting female approval as so crucial to their well being. Demanding empathy…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:07 PM
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I mean you already set the precedent. You had some covert contract with her, meaning she never knew her side of the deal, and now you are butthurt that she doesn’t put in any effort or work?
/r/seduction17/01/26 09:14 PM
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This is hard to interpret because we don’t really know how your interactions went before that. Did you flirt, was there a lot of banter? Ball busting? Or did you talk about your favorite hikes and how to deal with blisters from poor hiking shoes? If the latter, that’s not very sexy. Secondly, the way you asked her out was very weak. You don’t come across as a take charge type of guy. Stop trying to be so nice and pleasing to women, asking them if they want to grab a drink maybe sometime. You nee…
/r/seduction17/01/26 09:10 PM
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I’ve never had more women hit on me than in my 30s and 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:01 PM
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I mean other than family, women we are not sexually attracted to, for all intents and purposes, are completely inconsequential to us men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 08:02 PM
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It’s goes back to the old Mike Tyson saying: “Everybody’s got a plan until you get punched in the face.” Every woman can have a laundry list of requirements, red flags, standards, wants, preferences, etc. And it would be very easy to stick to that list when she meets a regular nice guy, who is utterly sexually unexciting. When emotions and horniness are removed from the equation, your plan works. But when you get punched in the face by emotion, by visceral attraction to the other person, all of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 08:01 PM
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You are right. There is no point in this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:19 PM
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My wife would probably be like “why are you posting on all these subreddits about dating and women? Do you want your penis cut off?”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:12 PM
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Filtering for specific qualities and characteristics is a purely logical exercise. These are conscious needs. But when a woman meets a man who stirs her emotions, all of that logical, conscious stuff gets overridden as long as her emotional needs are being met. You need to understand that men with antisocial traits are not getting women because of these antisocial traits, but despite of them. Because they do something that no other man gives her and that is meeting her emotional needs to pursue …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:11 PM
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Well, you are putting the horse before the cart. Women comprise roughly 50% of the population, in the US there are more women than men. So we can easily tell you - anywhere there are people, over time chances are half of those will be women. So you can meet women anywhere. Not very helpful, is it though? That’s because you have no idea what you want and without knowing what you want, you won’t be able to figure out where to find it. What do you want a woman for? A fuckbuddy? A new wife? A gf? A …
/r/seduction17/01/26 01:06 PM
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You are going down a path you will heavily regret one day.
/r/seduction17/01/26 01:01 PM
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And we get back to the crux of the problem. Believing that your penis has less value than her vagina. Low self esteem. Hating yourself. And then you wonder why women don’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:46 PM
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Well, I guess that’s one way to get to loving yourself. Just tell yourself you are worthless. Makes total sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:40 AM
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Watch all parts 1-4 https://youtu.be/HnEKdvUrO4k?si=8BCwXLSZgKq503tD
/r/seduction17/01/26 12:16 AM
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Man, this is so important. I think this is why pickup guys get such bad rep. They are literally just wandering around aimlessly looking for passingly attractive girls to bother. It’s so weird, creepy and needy. But making up to a woman because you find her attractive AND there is something interesting about her (at least you can hope) is such a different vibe. You have to see it from the woman’s perspective. It’s dehumanizing to be approached and asked out only because some guy is horny and thou…
/r/seduction16/01/26 10:01 PM
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Ahhhh! And so we get to the crux of it! The doomer circlejerk. When you are not getting laid, it seems like everyone else is getting laid but you. But if you are not getting laid and only hangout with guys who are not getting laid, pretty soon it starts to look like nobody is getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:38 PM
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Okay, so you are appealing to authority by not even properly citing any studies, although I know you are referring to an 18 year old blog post without any forward citations or that has been replicated in the peer reviewed literature. Okay, don’t listen to Chad. So listen to whom? To e guy that’s not getting laid? Just so you can learn how to not get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:04 PM
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As I said. You just have a very rigid and narrow definition of what approaching is. If, for example, your definition of “an attractive male” requires that women literally throw themselves at him, rip their shirts open and moan loudly “please, make love to me, daddy!” without him as much as engaging in a conversation, then, by your definition, the amount of attractive males will be minuscule. Because the males who can truly elicit such a response are confined to the likes of rock stars and the li…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:29 PM
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Most ideas, both red pill and black pill, have originated from men who were not getting laid or had trouble getting laid. Many of the early pickup gurus, were also just total nerds in high school who were bottom of the rung. Such people form a specific view of the world that offers only a tiny slice of what is actually happening. As the saying goes, you start with a wide horizon spanning in all directions, and that horizon narrows down more and more until it become a single point. And that, is y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:25 PM
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When you are not getting laid, it sucks. It seems like everyone else is getting laid except for you. But when all you do is hang out with other guys who are not getting laid, pretty soon it looks like no one is getting laid. And that’s where all of these distorted and untrue blackpill believes and ideas start forming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:12 PM
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Sorry for the quip. You are right. But women’s approach and they approach often. You just have a very rigid definition of approaching, which for men typically means a woman coming up to you and saying “hey hot stuff, let’s get out of here”. Which, obviously, doesn’t happen very often. But women will look at you, smile, hold eye contact, hover around you, try to talk to you by asking some seemingly random and innocent question, or even dancing in your line of sight just to get your attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:06 PM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:32 PM
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I understand that. But here is every man’s problem. You give way too many fucks about what women are thinking and saying. Worry about yourself and what you want. Who gives a fuck about women’s standards and requirements? You are just falling for their game trying to figure out what you think they want so you can finagle yourself to be that thing only to be completely wrong. Stop thinking for them start thinking for yourself and your desires and standards and requirements. If you show up as a guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:26 PM
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The blackpill can be summed up in these analogies: If I can’t look like Arnold (or have his genetics), there is no point of even going to the gym. If I can’t look never be as rich as Elon, there is no point of ever trying to advance your career. If I can’t be an Einstein, there is no point in learning anything. And so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:44 AM
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Women approach all the time. Well, maybe not you, but they do approach other guys all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:42 AM
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Because men insist on taking their most powerful option completely off the table. That option being just staying single/alone. Instead they consider singleness or being by themselves, the biggest curse that could befall any man. They make it so scary and unpleasant to be single and by yourself that it virtually becomes a non option for them. They cuck themselves, shit themselves in their own dicks and then wonder why they feel powerless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:41 AM
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Most men here freely admit that they see women as the prize and that without a woman their lives are empty and devoid of meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:34 AM
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You make very astute observations, but draw completely inaccurate conclusions from those observations. Yes, it appears that most men act like dancing monkeys and your conclusion is because women hold all the power and they act like the hiring managers. But that’s an in accurate conclusions. The reality is men create this behavior in women because they show up with the mentality that they have to prove themselves and by doing that they will earn the ultimate trophy - SEX! It’s an attitude and wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:33 AM
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I used to follow a dating coach called Brent Smith. His mantra was always “it’s not about your relationship with women, it’s about your relationship with yourself”. The truth is men who have trouble with women have very rotten relationships with themselves first and foremost. The lack of women is not the problem, it’s just the symptom. Men are led to believe lies such as: “Women are born with value, but men must earn their value!” Okay? Really?! What use is it to tell yourself that you have no i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:27 AM
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Start with a glass of wine and tell her you’d rather have sex on an empty stomach and eat afterwards, because after you are done with her both of you will be famished.
/r/seduction16/01/26 02:10 AM
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As a guy who’s had Brazzers pornstars hit on him at a bar, you just have to believe you are way hotter than they are and that they are lucky you would even talk to them. Also, don’t do anything to try and “get” them. If they feel like you are trying to “get” them even a little bit, they are out of there. Also, before a woman starts pursuing you, you have to tell her “no” at least once.
/r/seduction16/01/26 02:05 AM
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That’s so desperate. And approaching from the side is downright creepy.
/r/seduction16/01/26 02:03 AM
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Going out alone is tough, but can be very rewarding. Here is the real problem. What is your objective? What do you want? And what kind of relationship or girl are you looking for? It seems that you have a solution (going out and approaching alone) in search for a problem. You don’t know what you want so you lack focus and objective. It feels weird for you to be alone because you have no purpose to be there.
/r/seduction16/01/26 02:02 AM
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You are doing this the hard and wrong way. The biggest problem guys have is over expectation. You tell yourself I MUST, I HAVE TO get her number, seduce her, turn her on, blah blah blah! I MUST have a great interaction, blah blah blah. So you get nervous, sweaty, clam up and most importantly you come across as needy and desperate. Firstly, stop going out to pickup girls. Just change the reason you go out. Go out to have fun and socialize. Erase pickup approach and sex from your mind. Just do it.…
/r/seduction15/01/26 11:52 PM
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Send her a DM and tell her “Hi, I would love to talk to you at the gym but I always feel so shy around pretty girls. So I swear im not avoiding you 🤣”
/r/seduction15/01/26 11:46 PM
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I can suggest a ton of free or low cost resources that will do you much better than a coach.
/r/seduction15/01/26 11:44 PM
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I only have capacity to think for myself. I can’t think for the woman too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:43 PM
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You are thinking wrong. You are thinking “what will please her, what’s the right move so she thinks I’m cool, what would she like to do, where do the men she dates take her out on a date”. Stop thinking this bullshit. Invite her into your world. What do you want to do? What do you like to do? If you want to keep it light and flirty, then pick a cocktail bar and schedule the date in the evening. Don’t make it too out of the way, but also not across the street from your place.
/r/seduction15/01/26 11:42 PM
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It’s simply Survivorship Bias. Like the WWII story about bombers being sent over Germany and only som returning to base. The engineers studied the damage and figured they should reinforce the armor where the planes had the most damage. Until a smarter guy came along and said “Well, these planes took all that damage and STILL survived. So these spots are not critical. We are only working with the survivors, so we should reinforce the spots that don’t receive damage as these are were the downed pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:38 PM
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In olden times and when we were tribal, mating skills were passed on from father to son. This has been lost. And even when you do have not one but two father figures giving you advice, you choose to spit in their faces and call them old, stupid and out of touch (figuratively). Yet, you are the one who isn’t getting any puss. Make it make sense. So who are you going to take advice from? Your fellow virgin, incel, socially retarded Gen Zers?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:34 PM
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And that’s great news for you! Finally you can take responsibility for your own problems!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:32 PM
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If a man is not vetting a woman, then she is vetting him and he won’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:32 PM
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No. At one point I was very desperate to display how cool and exciting I was and by trying so hard, I made a clown of myself. Now I attempt to display zero value. It doesn’t mean I dress like a hobo or walk with my head down. I just know my worth and I don’t have to go displaying anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:09 AM
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Interesting. I should tell your theory to the Brazzers porn star who was literally beginning me to go to her room so we could have some fun. All I did was actively pull away from her all night. But yeah, go ahead! You seem to know a lot more than me about super attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:07 AM
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I know. I should have been nicer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:04 AM
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The reason they are not viable is because they make themselves icky by pursuing. Don’t you get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:04 AM
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You just change the dynamic. Instead of constantly trying to force on outcome by pursuing and begging her for attention, now the attention comes to you and you can enjoy it without trying to capture it. You can never truly have someone until you can let them go. If you want true longevity with a woman, you should never let her land you completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:03 AM
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And that’s why narcissists can easily manipulate people pleasers. Try telling a narcissist no and watch them turn the world over to pursue you and your validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:51 AM
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Exactly! You are so warm! The guys who don’t want to commit are the guys they can’t have. Women want what they can’t have. The guys who throw themselves at them and pursue them are they guys they CAN easily have. The guys who are flaky and non-committal are the real challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:46 AM
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It’s not only about looks. Take something like a person having standards and knowing what they want. Just by the act of not being willing to take anything, they are more appealing because they can also reject you. Hey, this person has standards. I’m interested, but do I meet her standards? Am I what she wants? She doesn’t seem head over heels with me, so I need to work a bit to keep her. See? It’s not only about looks. It’s also not being overly available, not having a life, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:45 AM
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High value means valuing yourself highly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:36 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:35 AM
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I see what you are saying. Again, let’s not take these analogies to the extreme. I indeed did have a cat who was very needy and acted like a dog and I have a dog who kind of acts like a cat (with me, but not with my wife for example). I will challenge you on your view that people are very different from each other. If there is anything that is a universal truth it’s this - people never want what they can get and only want what they can’t get. That’s the underlying principle or natural law if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:35 AM
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Thank you, you get it. I hope my tone wasn’t confrontational, but perhaps that’s a blind spot of mine I need to work on to make sure my message is better received. And thank you for responding to the other female poster. Of course, using an example of cats and dogs doesn’t account for the nuances of behavior, but people tend to take things too literally. Thankfully you completely get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:29 AM
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I am saying that your behavior and vibe is a composite of different body language cues. These include they way you dress, what clothes you wear, how you wear them, how you style yourself, how you interact with others, whether you lean forward or backwards, is your head on a swivel checking out every hot piece of ass or are you bulletproof like you see hot women every day. All of these make up the outward projection of who you are to the world. That also includes your inner state. If you are thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:25 AM
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Your interpretation is wrong. Women have the illusion of choice because men have overpursued for way too long. and while women seemingly have all these options, why dont they want any of them? Why are they also so unhappy with dating? Because they are not turned on by desperate men who put them on pedestals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:19 AM
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You got me!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:17 AM
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I do all of these things for me not to impress women. But apparently you only dress nice and take showers so women can think well of you. That’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:16 AM
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People get turned off if they sense it’s used as a tactic and not as a way of being. I’m saying just don’t be so fucking affected by vagina and you will get more of it than you can handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:15 AM
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Not in my experience but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:12 AM
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Maybe you should try it some time. But I have a nagging suspicion that your big brain won’t allow you to not sabotage yourself for even a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:10 AM
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Ahhhhh. So the whole thing about woman only fucking Chad is totally made up. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:09 AM
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Not sure you are correct. I personally attempt to display zero value. But women sense that there is something about me by the way I behave. The attraction is very quick, but it can take some time to really fester.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:06 AM
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Sure. A bit of playing hard to get never hurt anyone. I just do the things women have always done to me and it works wonders to use your own game against you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:04 AM
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No. It works for all kinds of men. I’m not saying that some uggo will start dating a new supermodel every other week, but he will certainly increase his success with women in his looks league. Beats posting on blackpill subreddits every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:03 AM
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I mean women can show some interest, just enough to give the guy hope. Again, it’s why most men say dating is hard, exhausting, painful, etc. They bring this desperate, nervous energy, and then wonder why women feel turned off. It’s called emotional contagion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:02 AM
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I don’t mean ignore as in acts like you don’t even exist. Jesus. Learn some fucking nuance people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:00 AM
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And what I’m saying is that a man can become more desirable by not needily overprusing women, but by being more mysterious and reserved. But you seem to be really incredibly good looking and none of this of course applies to you. Only Chad can enter!!! Amirite
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:58 AM
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lol. I bet you won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:57 AM
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Why do you think women have an abundance of options?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:56 AM
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So you are saying you only chase Chad, who can ignore you all he wants which just proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:50 AM
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I’ve always had more success when the woman was the first one to express interest and pursue me a little bit, while I was playing hard to get. You just never met a man that behaves like a man who is pursued.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:46 AM
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R/NotLikeTheOtherGirls
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:45 AM
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Yet most of us are ugly or at best average. Why isn’t the human race full of beautiful sons? Your theory makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:19 AM
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Oh my. So you are one of the virgins who has never or barely dated and yet you somehow know everything about dating and the opposite sex with 100% certainty! Lolololol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:21 PM
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Your argument makes zero sense. Otherwise, humanity wouldn’t have survived for millions of years and we wouldn’t have the highest human population ever. I understand that this may be YOUR personal experience but this is certainly not the reality for the vast majority of men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:12 PM
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My point is, women have spontaneous unprotected sex all the time. The whole thing about them being picky and choosy because they can get pregnant is just a myth. Women fuck all kinds of sleazebags and lowlives. The reality is most men are too nice and meek to excite any arousal in the average woman, where she’d throw all caution to the wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:01 PM
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For most of human history, we were tribal. A single mother relied on her family to raise the child. Funding a “cuck” is basically finding a male who is not sexually exciting, the way a family member wouldn’t be sexually exciting, because they smell and look familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:59 PM
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It’s not that fucking easy to make a baby. Most people have a lot of trouble, even when they are trying very hard to have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:49 PM
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Humans have sex for pleasure you know. And a female can only get pregnant 2-3 days out of the month. The pregnancy risk is vastly overblown.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:27 PM
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Women get laid with men, so if it is easy for a woman, then by definition it must be easy for the man as well. Now if you said it’s easier for a woman to get laid with another woman than a man to get laid with a woman, okay, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:26 PM
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Worry about yourself not about what other inconsequential strangers might be thinking about you.
/r/seduction11/01/26 10:13 PM
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Do it take some extraordinary effort to talk to a friend or another male or make a time and date to hang out with them? So how exactly is talking to a woman some superhuman difficulty level task?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:12 PM
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So you are telling me that humans (and every other animal on earth) survived and procreated for unknown eons yet women are kind of iffy about sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:11 PM
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I mean you are right that this reflects reality in the sense that in 9/10 cases the woman has all the power. But that’s only because men give away their power easily. Men keep telling themselves stories (lies) like: “I need a women/sex/love” “Women don’t need men or even like them very much” “I HAVE to get sex or else…I’m a loser” “I’m worthless without a woman” “I must pursue a woman hard if she’s to ever be interested in me” Etc. The most ironic thing is, that it is men’s behavior which elicit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:09 PM
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You should always be a little skeptical of women. It’s a good thing. Women are always skeptical of men approaching them. You should always approach women with a cautious, skeptical mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 08:10 PM
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That much is clear.
/r/seduction11/01/26 06:17 PM
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What do you need to escalate? The point of the date is to see if you want to fuck her eventually, not to try and tuck them and there.
/r/seduction11/01/26 05:55 PM
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Short date is perfect. Leave them wanting more. If you think that spending 5 hours with her and boring her out of her mind is advantageous to you, be my guest. But it’s a stupid idea.
/r/seduction11/01/26 05:38 PM
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Ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:23 PM
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As the saying goes: “cowards die many times before their death, the valiant die but once.” It’s not about someone rejecting you, but about rejecting yourself over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:57 PM
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Or…or…just hear me out okay. Or he is constantly to telling this story to himself about how ugly, unattractive and what a reject he is and it becomes his reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:25 PM
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You must be the world’s most rejected man. Every post you make describes worse and worse rejections than the last one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:21 PM
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The problem isn’t that many other guys are interested in these girls or that they get attention or that they are hot. The problem is that you don’t believe you have anything of value that they need or want. You see yourself as a worthless worm who can only make their day worse. But if deep inside yo ur heart and soul you knew you were cool, awesome, that women love you and want to fuck you and that any woman will be better off meeting you than not meeting you, you wouldn’t have any trouble appro…
/r/seduction11/01/26 02:33 AM
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Let them take the initiative. If they are not, ask them point blank “I assume you matched with me because you wanted your hang out?”
/r/seduction10/01/26 03:27 PM
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If you know what you are doing your success rate will be close to 100%.
/r/seduction10/01/26 03:25 PM
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Understand that the way you describe this makes you appear extremely needy and desperate.
/r/seduction10/01/26 03:25 PM
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Stop pretending that you are not interested in fucking women.
/r/seduction10/01/26 03:24 PM
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This sounds autistic.
/r/seduction10/01/26 03:23 PM
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Just mean over and kiss her. It’s not THAT complicated dude.
/r/seduction10/01/26 03:21 PM
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Unfortunately for you, no women live in Italy and haven’t been seen in those lands for decades.
/r/seduction10/01/26 03:21 PM
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Neediness. The answer is neediness. When you center your life around women, you become extremely needy. It’s a vibe and energy you project anywhere you go. It’s the same vibe that a beggar or a used car salesman project. They want something from you and want to extract it badly (your money). Most people can sense this and it turns them off. Even repels them from such people. Men who are fixated on women are the same. They want to extract love, sex, attention, approval, etc. Men talk about “getti…
/r/seduction10/01/26 03:20 PM
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