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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	I (Chinese, 23F) need some help at becoming more independent	DATING ADVICE	FearfulPear	/r/RedPillWomen	18/11/19 11:38 AM
1	Do Perspective-Labels Matter?		FearfulPear	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/19 05:59 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What is the "real" N count for women these days? I think there is not enough evidence to make this assertion. This is like a projection, more than a reasoned conclusion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/19 01:43 PM
2	What is the "real" N count for women these days? I think there really is a huge variance, and it depends on everything from personality to circumstance to values. While my mother was religious, I was not (my household was secular), but this has not stopped me from adhering to a personal value of being loyal to one and only one man throughout my life. I met that man when I was 17 (about 6 years ago). The reactions I get from friends when this topic is broached range from eye-rolling to slight disbelief; the point is, it should not matter what t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/19 01:41 PM
5	I (Chinese, 23F) need some help at becoming more independent You might be right. I haven't had the chance to talk to anyone about this before. I definitely agree about the sexual repression part, especially in my family. To be honest, I'm not completely comfortable talking about it; but since anonymity: I do love having our sessions. He didn't use to enjoy it as much (I would characterise it some kind of mental block? He never felt "pleasured" or as though he "enjoyed"; even after his Brunei training and our first time I had to initiate for awhile) but fo…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/11/19 03:32 PM
1	I (Chinese, 23F) need some help at becoming more independent I understand. I do feel confused however, when I find myself attracted to how brusque he was before. Nowadays, he doesn't really display his aggression except when I witness his competition speeches and how he acts with his group mates. The thing is, he has always been a really aggressive person, and it was this slightly contradictory mix of aggression and sensitivity that I was attracted to. It's really difficult to describe, but I think the best illustration is when he brings his other guy fri…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/11/19 03:00 PM
1	I (Chinese, 23F) need some help at becoming more independent I do know that that's how people would see it - but maybe I can take this chance to clarify: I really do want to live with him forever. These past 2 years, he has really changed into a better person. But this does seem like an excuse unless I give real instances when he has made me feel as though he loves me: He listens to me even if I go on for 1-2 hours about my insecurities. He really does listen. If we are not together, he writes long messages to help me through my problems (things like not …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/11/19 01:22 PM

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