Fearless-Pea-3813 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	All going wrong with the kids Start journal writing daily for yourself your deeper thoughts and letter writing weekly, to your kids, keep it positive and light. Give them a letter box to keep those letters in. Give them a Big Hug, hold on tight and a few seconds too long, each time you see them arrive and depart. It will work out for you :)	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/26 12:41 PM
1	5 Divorce Tips for Men Good info, Thanks	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/26 07:33 PM
1	Getting Worse Excellent	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/26 09:49 AM
9	Today is going to be tough If you can make an appearance, find your son, hug your son, take a photo together and then you can leave whenever you feel like leaving. Enjoy the moments with your son.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/26 05:55 PM
5	It’s done Write each child an age appropriate card/letter and keep writing those cards/letter each week or month as appropriate. Writing a card/letter helps you and the child. You can write about anything or basically nothing day to day stuff. Just keep writing in addition pay close attention to any conversations it will lead to sharing. Sending {{Good Vibes}} keep the children in your attention forefront and you’ll all be good. Best Wishes PS - put letters under their pillow or in a jacket pocket and don…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/26 09:16 PM
2	Alienation bs I wrote to my teenager as it was more appropriate to their needs at the time. They said “Thanks for the letter” in front of the other two younger siblings. One sibling said “How come I didn’t get a letter?” and so occasionally random letters to each began thru the years 💕	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/25 01:15 AM
9	Alienation bs Write that teen heartfelt meaningful letters, if they stay with you put it under their pillow, if not, put it in a jacket pocket. Don’t say anything about it. Keep writing letters at random times, sometimes about something, sometimes about nothing but a humorous or personal funny story or idea. Good Luck and Hang in there :)	/r/Divorce_Men	07/12/25 10:27 PM
3	Bumped into ex today Great response on many levels, Thanks for your thoughts :)	/r/Divorce_Men	02/12/25 01:49 PM
4	Advice on holidays / birthdays Do your own thing, plan a day trip, one night or weekend trip of the bday person choice, time together alone with your adult children is the goal, invite all the children each time but don’t expect all to attend each time. Enjoy	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/25 12:17 PM
3	Best books for post-divorce advice for men? This is how your marriage ends, Matthew Fray. Also he has lots of online content too	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/25 04:24 PM