FearlessConnection Archive

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1	Are Women Sexually Aroused By Drama? Thanks for being open to acknowledging that you may have been mistaken. That’s really refreshing to see, honestly. I’ve done a bit of research in that area, and there are actually more studies to support that men and women are pretty equivalent in emotionality. There are some differences in emotional expression, though, and men and women tend to use emotional regulation processes a bit differently. Further, men and women are a bit different in their reactions to specific kinds of emotions (e.g.,…	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/23 03:42 PM
3	Are Women Sexually Aroused By Drama? This just says that women have more nerve receptors, so they feel more physical pain than men, on average. It says absolutely nothing about women being more emotional due to having more nerve endings. I’m a researcher and would love to see the study you found that info in if possible.	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/23 03:21 PM
4	Are Women Sexually Aroused By Drama? Uhhh can I get a citation for the crazy ass claim that “women have a more numerous nervous system so they are more emotional”?? What does that even mean? More numerous nervous system?	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/23 02:26 AM
5	I got ghosted after the second date at my place and I would like feedback. I’m definitely not an expert at dating but, as a woman, I can give you a few things that would have turned me off from my own perspective. Obviously everyone is different, so take my input with a grain of salt. As others have mentioned, the info divulged on the first date would have made me a tad wary. I don’t have any issue with people that are bisexual, but I’m not totally sure I’d want that in a partner. Similarly, the fact that you don’t typically date girls my age would confuse me. My main …	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/23 04:45 AM
1	Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coin If places were reversed, I think you’d be genuinely surprised at how much effort is put in to keeping up ruse. Sometimes, the signs are obvious. Other times, they’re playing the long game, and playing it well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 02:36 AM
1	Women here love to say that their privilege is limited to casual sex, but access to relationships and casual sex are two sides of the same coin What do you mean we wouldn’t know? How could we not know?? Generally, we know when they seem romantically interested before sex, and then unavailable or hot-and-cold after sex. We may not always know beforehand, but we definitely know eventually. There’s also a lot of clues before sex too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 02:32 AM
12	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? The tolls of raising children aren’t just physical though. The truth is, kids are a major burden. When they’re wanted, they’re a burden worth baring. When they’re unwanted, it’s a daunting and hellacious task.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 04:56 AM
19	There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan? This is a silly assertion - Do you really believe that if birth control was made specifically for men, they wouldn’t be taking it too? In general, men are not ready for children until much later than women. If the onus of preventing pregnancy fell on them predominantly, they would put in the effort to avoid an unwanted child. If mens’ choices were to take birth control, or not have sex, men would be popping birth control like candy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/22 04:50 AM
6	Women outnumbering Men in college. Interesting. I could definitely get on board with all of those policies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 07:55 PM
16	Women outnumbering Men in college. Just out of curiosity, you keep asking if we should “address it”. Assuming the consensus is that it should be addressed, how exactly would you address it if it were up to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/22 07:40 PM
4	Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspective I’m not sure why men on this sub act like it’s a new thing that women get to be more discerning when it comes to sexual partners. For the most part, it’s always been this way. Men can reproduce as fast and as often as women will allow them to. Women, on the other hand, have to spend 9 months on one offspring just for pregnancy alone. For this reason, it’s always been this way. Men compete, and women choose. Any man that’s below the top 20% of potential mate value has always had trouble obtaining…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 05:22 AM
2	Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspective I can think of a thousand ways that women benefit society. The truth is, men are afraid - You ask what benefit women serve, when the same can be asked about men. In decades past, it was difficult to be a self-sufficient single woman. Now, there are few things that men provide for society that women can’t provide themselves. They can make their own money, they can build their own career, they can fix their own car with a little help from YouTube … hell, they can even reproduce without men being d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 05:12 AM
1	Why i think female rights make no sense from the male perspective Not a single “source” you’ve posted here is a peer reviewed journal article, making it difficult to take these claims seriously. While some of your points are factually correct, such as women outpacing men in higher education, the vitriol you’re spewing about this giant conspiracy to make mens lives’ unpleasant is just silly. I suggest that you consider looking into scholarly, peer reviewed journal articles on these points before you continue making claims of fact about all the ways women are ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 05:03 AM
2	Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment? Sure! I’d be happy to explain. I would guess I’m by no means in the minority. It’s a pretty common thing among women. It’s not that looks don’t matter to women, because they 100% do. However, it’s in a different way than it is for men. So, for example, looking at a picture of a hot naked girl would turn you on, right? For me, the sight of a naked guy, no matter how hot, does not turn me on. I think a lot of women agree. Looks are important for being attracted to someone, but for the most part th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/22 06:09 PM
4	Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment? Ha! I mean, there probably is some deeper psychological explanations going on, but the simplest explanation is that women are visually arousing, and men are not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 03:18 PM
3	Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment? That’s what I was picturing, too. Something along the lines of just walking along, tripping, and landing straight on a dick. Then just shrugging and being like “whelp, I’m already here I guess”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 03:12 PM
4	Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment? They do look like they feel good! lol I definitely can’t get down with deep throat porn, though. All I can think about is how awful that would feel for the girl, and if it were me I’d be gagging and choking with tears and snot running down my face. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 03:09 PM
8	Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment? Right, I guess it would help if I explained my sexual preferences. So, I’m definitely sexually attracted to women as well. I’ve slept with women here and there, but I don’t generally date women. Most of my partners, both romantically and sexually, are men. However, I do not enjoy sex with men because of any visual aspect - Which is another reason why men in porn kind of turn my stomach. Women, in contrast, are visually appealing for me. I just find it much easier to get turned on by porn when it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 02:19 PM
2	Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment? Sure. I’ve seen all kinds of porn. Amateur porn doesn’t really do it for me either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 01:47 PM
5	Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment? Sure. I’ve tried all kinds of porn, and lesbian porn is just the only thing that gets me going. When women do stuff to each other, it looks like it feels incredible, and it’s much easier to imagine yourself in the experience if it looks like it feels good. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 01:46 PM
13	Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment? Agreed. The worst is when you find a good video, and then the fucking camera guy just can’t help himself and he starts trying to put his dick in the equation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 02:30 AM
16	Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment? Hopeless. I wish more men understood that, if you learned it from porn, it is absolutely and unequivocally incorrect. Glad you got yourself a keeper - I’m not super optimistic about my own chances. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 12:37 AM
18	Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment? Couldn’t have said it better myself. In straight porn, the woman never looks like she’s enjoying herself, and the man is always so aggressive that its awkward. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 12:27 AM
43	Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment? Personally, I watch lesbian porn. For the record, I’m into men - I just really hate men in porn. They’re all just beefy obnoxious guys pounding away wildly, without any inclusion of things that actually feel good for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/22 11:15 PM
10	Blunt question for women: What do you imagine or fantasize about when you masturbate alone? Specifically what are you feeling, thinking, or desiring? What is it that you want in that moment? “Accidentally losing my virginity” made me laugh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/22 11:09 PM
2	Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble? Personally, I think it has something to do with how much men loathe when a woman acts like she knows she is attractive. A lot of men will be complimenting a beautiful woman, but as soon as she acknowledges that she agrees that she is beautiful, they get enraged and all of the sudden she’s a “stuck-up slut” or “not even that hot”. If women aren’t allowed to acknowledge that they think they’re pretty, they have to play the stereotypical “beautiful but totally unaware of it” role. Pretending that t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 03:34 PM
33	Unattractive Women Jesus, bitter much? No one is trying to placate you. You asked for womens’ experiences, you don’t get to pitch a fit when they give it to you. I think we all know why you have so much trouble meeting women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 01:04 AM
7	Women of PPD. How many of you are single? Same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/22 09:27 PM
1	Why do you think housework still tends to be shared so unequally? While obviously it isn’t the sole factor that contributes to this housework disparity, I think it’s partially due to how men were/are raised. Society promotes an equal distribution of domestic tasks, but society isn’t the one raising these children. I think the people who parented millennials and generation Z grew up watching the way their parents divided household labor, and didn’t make it a priority to teach their sons how to care for a household. As a result, the up and coming men don’t know …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/22 01:54 PM
1	Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights? Whether he should “receive compensation for emotional damages” is a different argument than whether they should be able to terminate their legal rights as a parent. Saying the woman should pay the man for emotional damages is pretty extreme - it’s just as easy to say that the mother suffers emotionally from his choices as well, either from becoming a parent when they’re not ready or by undergoing the abortion procedure. I don’t feel strongly about men terminating their parental rights, but to sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 03:47 PM
3	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Been wondering the same thing. Elsewhere in the thread, he told someone, and I quote: “Fine, make it the other way around and argue against the point”. Funny, since I did that and OP is nowhere to be found.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 06:19 PM
3	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Women out earn their husbands in like 30% of heterosexual relationships today. You’re way overestimating the prevalence of wealthy men marrying destitute women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:36 PM
3	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children You seem like a deeply troubled individual. I hope you are able to heal and move on from whatever caused you to think of all women the way you do. It can’t be easy to live inside your head with all that hate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:25 PM
6	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children Just because you don’t know many doesn’t mean they don’t exist. It’s just as likely a pairing as any other two professionals. Regardless, if it makes more sense to you, replace the construction worker with a software engineer making $40 per hour working 60 hours per week. Either way, he makes less than half of what she does, and you cannot say that this pairing isn’t common. How would you divide the household chores then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:39 PM
6	CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of children I think you’re intentionally missing the above commenters point. Regardless, what happens when it’s the other way around? How would you divide housework and childcare for this couple, for example: The man works 60 hours weekly earning $20 per hour as a construction worker, which is a physically demanding job to say the very least. The woman is a primary care physician that works 40 hours per week, and her salary averages out to $100 per hour. Even though the husband works 150% of the hours the w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 03:32 PM
14	When to have s*x with someone you date? Noticed this too. Lol I didn’t think that there were even belts/ranks in MMA.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/22 02:50 PM
8	Why women talks about their previous experience ? Not sure if I agree with the acronym. I mean, obviously you shouldn’t go prancing up to complete strangers in non-social settings to argue about these things. However, if you’re on a first or second date, I think that’s the most important time to make sure your values align with a potential partners. If politics, religion, or abortion are particularly important to you, best to make sure you’re compatible early on. The only one of those that I don’t think you should discuss early in the dating pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/22 02:45 PM
6	how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you? I think you’re overestimating what make up can do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 02:01 AM