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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Irreversible friendzone?	Fundamentals	Fearless_Leave7298	/r/seduction	02/02/26 11:16 PM

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1	Irreversible friendzone? The issue I see with saying it in person is that after delivering the tiny good bye speech about how I dont want to see her in at least a long time if not never, the rest of the meeting becomes awkward and there's nothing else you can really talk about after that. Because I'm not sure I really want to develop a conversation about this topic with her and have her try and justify her non attraction to me, or telling me how she feels about the fact that I like her, or whether this is the first time…	/r/seduction	04/02/26 08:00 PM
1	Irreversible friendzone? Yeah you know, after a couple of days of depression and brooding about it, I reached the same conclusion before reading your comment. I am certainly ready to lose the friendship, I've been trying to avoid her for a long time now. Its time to tell her its over. I'll probably send her a voice message, the only question is whether to do it now or wait to the next time she texts me. In the unlikely case she decides to unlock the "attraction" box one day, great, if not, fine, definitely better than s…	/r/seduction	04/02/26 04:20 PM
1	Irreversible friendzone? You know what? My first instinct was to dismiss your comment as stupid, and I disagree with the first part, there definitely is a friendzone for people who would like to be in a different category, but you're right. At some point you have to go straight to the point and stop the games, especially when she's no longer playing them, the flirty stuff and all that. She very determinately put me in the "friend" box and locked the "sex" box in a way no tecknique can unlock. It makes no sense to keep a…	/r/seduction	04/02/26 03:56 PM
1	Irreversible friendzone? Nah dude I'm sadly past that stage. It's a deep hole. As I said in the comment you responded to, I USED to be the classic venting bucket through text, but she understood that wont fly and now we just meet for coffees every once in a while, and talk as real friends about our lives. I am the opposite of "always available", I take a long time to answer her every time, but she doesn't lose interest and insists until we find a day. But she pulled the brakes on my flirting more than once, she clearly …	/r/seduction	03/02/26 02:10 PM
1	Irreversible friendzone? Thanks for sharing champ	/r/seduction	03/02/26 11:44 AM
2	Irreversible friendzone? Yeah, as I said, I'm not madly in love. I could do perfectly well without her in my life and quite honestly, at the moment her effect on me is more negative than positive. You say I should lay my cards on the table and that's a view, but the thing is- she knows it. It wouldnt be new info to her. You dismiss pickup theory but the fact that certainty (her knowing she can have you whenever she wants, if she wants)- does kind of destroy sexual tension. And if its not true with every girl, I'd say it…	/r/seduction	03/02/26 08:49 AM
2	Irreversible friendzone? Yeah, I understood you perfectly well, I would be willing to have her use me sexually to get with another guy. I'm not saying that's ideal, I'm saying I could live with it because I'd know she sees me sexually. The way things are now and with the level of non existing flirting there is between us now (even the teasing is disappearing)- I won't have her even in 10 years. She sees me like she sees a female friend or a gay friend, I just happen to be a hetero guy. And I'm not saying she's using me …	/r/seduction	03/02/26 08:20 AM
2	Irreversible friendzone? By the way, when I refered to "another girl" of course it would have to be in a non committed setup, but that's pure speculation. Also yeah, answer's yes, I wouldn't mind if she "used me" sexually for whatever reason. Just her seeing me as a potential sexual partner in her life, being able to flirt knowing there is an actual chance it could happen if circumpstances aligned- would be enough	/r/seduction	03/02/26 06:46 AM
2	Irreversible friendzone? I'm not sure you really got my gist here. The problem is mostly that I like her enough for it to hurt when I hear her talking about other guys she has sex with, that's all. On the other hand, I really do value our friendship and enjoy talking to her, especially when it's about other topics. I'm trying to strategically think of what's the the fastest and most effective way to create sexual tension between us, if it's possible, though it does seem very unlikely right now. Because I feel like if I …	/r/seduction	03/02/26 06:16 AM
1	Irreversible friendzone? Yeah, I was kind of wondering about the best course of action to take in my current situation. I know in theory its not permanent, especially given there is potential for attraction between us, but I really don't know what's the likeliest and fastest way to try and get out	/r/seduction	03/02/26 04:58 AM
1	Irreversible friendzone? Aight thanks for the real answer. It used to be a classic friendzone as in venting about love problems via text and asking for advice. She saw I wasn't with it. Now she just texts me to try and set up a meeting, and when we do, she tells me about her life, and I tell her about mine. I've gone a couple of days without responding, avoided meeting her for months, but at some point it's unavoidable, I can't just be telling her I'm busy all the time. I agree getting a girlfriend is the closest thing …	/r/seduction	03/02/26 04:53 AM
3	Irreversible friendzone? I know she knows, the important part was the "therefore we cant meet anymore", that is the question. As I said, I never initiate conversation, she's always the one to message me first. So technically I never really "talk to her", but not answering would be rude and it would achieve nothing. By the way, I disagree, its not pure attention/validation seeking, we both find each other genuinely interesting as friends. I just happen to want to do more things with her aswell	/r/seduction	02/02/26 11:42 PM