TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

FebruaryEightyNine Archive

View 0 posts and 1,045 comments by FebruaryEightyNine on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Showing the 1,000 most recent of 1,045 comments.
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
4

Like incels, you're a Virgin because you're socially inadequate. The same rules that apply to them apply to you. Everything else you've written is just typing for the sake of typing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:51 PM
3

LOL just realised you said in another post u were set to be a virgin into your 30s. No idea why you're sharin this as if it gives any remote insight into how women think. You're like a male incel trying to tell people how men work. The vast majority of women want someone who will be more dominant in bed and probably is more on the physically fit side.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:16 PM
6

College
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:12 PM
–

You've made 3 threads in the last day alone...come on guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:04 AM
–

you're just chronically online and annoying. Kinda ironic considering he posts waaaaay less than you do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:27 AM
7

This is like me saying the vast majority of women aren't socialised for jobs like law or engineering. Is this fucking for real??? As I will say until I'm blue in the face, A LOT OF WOMEN ARE NO DIFFERENT THAN INCELS/REDPILLERS Mostly blinkered, self serving idiots who are just angry the couldn't get the partner they truly wanted and come here to vent and whine about the opposite sex. You are literally no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:24 AM
3

You'll make a comment like this and then sit there complaining about blinkered redpillers without a hint of irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:16 AM
–

You're one of shittiest posters here and your family is clearly garbage stock so you're not exactly saying anything here. The men around you're a perfect example of what NOT to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:10 AM
1

LOL why? Didnt a bunch of white women literally vote for Trump. Cnt cry about the attitudes of men when your own demographic seems to share those sentiments. LOL you're the prototypical poster I am talking about. Cries about "misogyny" whilst lowkey supporting those very same types of men and then crying when people wont see you as the victim. A "Karen" indeed...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:51 AM
7

Lol amusing how this, albeit kinda based, comment is ignored. I don't even agree with conservative women, but at least you own your decision. Though I kinda find the lack of replies from women on here so morally outraged about the fact so many younger men ticked towards Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:46 PM
20

Yep. A lot of women on PPD/Reddit are full of shit. I also think the framing of abortion rights as a gender issue is a deliberate ploy by sexually/romantically unsuccessful women to vent about their poor choices under the guise of women's civil rights. Just like the manosphere is full of fake MRAs who dont actually care about divorce law but are simply mad they're not getting laid by the women they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:00 PM
-1

Has this actually been happening though? From my casual perusing of places like twox and feminism, the biggest critics in all of this post election discourse has been women (particularly white women), latino men and women and arab americans. I think the collective blaming of men has been really shut down this election cycle simply due to the fact that so many women supported Trump despite the dobbs decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:57 PM
1

I recognize this in myself as well. While I cannot predict whether I will become exceptionally sought-after in my later years, I have noticed a growing introspection and a significant shift in priority LOL of course... A lot of y'all seem incapable of understanding people can walk and chew bubblegum at the same time. Does ife reward those delay gratification? Yes, obviouly. But nowhere is there any correlation betweem high performers and a lack of sexual activity. If anything, the opposite is tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:35 PM
3

If 53% of white women and 45% of women overall voting for Trump (and the percentage of young women voting for him jumping from 33% to 40%) didnt tell you women are full of shit, I dont know what will. And its not that voting for Trump even makes them bad people or "voting against their interest", no...it simply implies that the behavioual expectations women have on here aren't shared by many other women. Many dont care if you're egalitarian, sensitive, expressive or empathetic. They simply care …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:54 PM
3

It's not about dates being expensive. It's that EVERYTHING is expensive now. Even a coffee date is about £20 now. That's a lot for someone on minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:41 PM
0

It is. Even if they dont think they do. Financial capability MASSIVELY effects the ability for young people to date. https://www.businessinsider.com/gen-z-dating-declines-all-time-low-inflation-loneliness-friendship-2023-10 If you cant afford rent or a decent job, how will u afford to pay for dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:03 AM
7

EE's are a funny bunch. Culturally chauvanist, but a lot of EE women I've come across actually seem fairly competent and a little forthright. Whereas a lot of western european women often preach about gender equality and "bossbabe"-ism but seem to wilt pretty easily when challenged in either a professional or personal sphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:37 AM
1

She's right. I consider the UK the closest in Europe culturally and economically to the US and, even here, we have mandatory holiday of about 22 days, universal healthcare, housing is bad but drops of a cliff in northern parts of the country, groceries are also very cheap compared to America too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:31 AM
–

This poster is an example of a typical American Feminist that I am thinking of. Completely full of shit. Since when does 50/50 imply you're a pick-me? Here in Europe/UK, most 50/50 types are so because they dont want men to be dictating where the date goes because they paid. And, even then, I tend to find most "pick me" types are simply virtue signallers saying what they think men want to hear in male dominated spaces. Their willingness to pay their way often lends no weight to their self esteem…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:26 AM
12

But its egalitarianism from BOTH sides. Most American women I see on here talk a good game about egalitarianism but clearly have absolutely zero intention of actually living it. Same way you all claim to care about bodily autonomy, but dont bother to vote in an election where its a critical factor. Here in Europe, women actually follow through with the talk and will genuinely lead their lives in a way which shows they're not reliant on a man nor want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:20 AM
0

Dont actually think this is necessarily true. When looking at both partner count and STD rates, the USA skews higher for both. The US puts on the front of being puritanical but are actually a lot more sexually pervasive than people are un Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:13 AM
1

I live near a homeless shelter. If you think the women in them are pretty and then I truly question your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:35 PM
2

I dont know whether its higher standards, tbh I think its something else I think younger women are just...unlikeable. When I had a break with my partner, I went on a date with some younger women and I was always taken aback by just how unlikeable many were. I remember one date I had to a dessert shop where she mentioned how unhappy I was that I didnt open the car door for her. TBH I would have had no issue with doing that, but it seems like the point wasnt made because she legit liked when guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:34 PM
5

No, YOU need to take some accountability. If a man I knew complained he couldn't find someone who wanted to have sex/date him, I would immediately tell him it's a you problem and that he would need to drastically change his approach to dating or the type of people he's approaching. Why should women be any different. If a woman can't find men to commit, that's a her problem. Just fucking lol at not being able to find one man out of 170 million and making out as if that's a problem with men. What …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:09 AM
20

Men in general only want LTRs with 9/10s, regardless of what their league is. Isn't this the same argument that redpillers/incels make about women "only wanting chad". I'm not even questioning it's validity, it's just amusing seeing women decrying those talking points whilst espousing the exact same in the opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:01 AM
2

Lol not sure how u want me to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:10 PM
1

Only on Reddit could the ethos "be the best version of yourself to ensure you have the best possible life" be controversial. Because Reddit is full of losers. The typical redditor is an unattractive male/female dork earning 60-80k in a white collar job they gained after they studied some bullshit in college. That and the women here seem to be desperate to push this hilarious image of respectability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:03 PM
3

Speak for your fucking self. We're not all unattractive losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:00 PM
2

TBH I think "yeah you're right we are very shallow and only date millionaire surgeon Chad!" is exactly what people want. Whether its gender discourse, politics or entertainment, people are kinda tired of people pretending as if they're more virtuous than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:57 AM
2

Again a bunch of nonsense bullshit responses from women who will never even obtain the high status male they claim they dont want. If you're sexually inexperienced and still listening to women on here, you're a fool and deserve to be single. Just like all the women here claim that they dont like misogyny and republican talking points. About 56% of young men, a demographic Trump’s campaign was vocal about trying to woo, said they voted for the former president this year, a flip from the 56% who v…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:53 AM
1

https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-marriage-divide-how-and-why-working-class-families-are-more-fragile-today Men from working class backgrounds are more likely to be single. Its not EVERYTHING to everyone all the time, but its a lot to many.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:44 AM
6

This is a crock of shit. Women had all the chances in the world to vote if they wanted to. They had a pro female candidate, who was a woman too. Instead 17m people decided not to bother this time. The truth is, despite whatever gender war crap posters like you like to peddle, plenty of women aren't all that big fans of abortion, trans rights or DEI either. Yet, if you listened to full of shit posters on here you would think men are somehow preventing women from entering the polling booth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:20 PM
7

Great analysis. I've always told this to people, anyone trying to argue that women aren't hypergamous is a liar. Even in Europe (where things are legit less fractured among the genders), women still cluster towards high income men. Here is another stat in the UK showing working class men are more likely to be single: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-40894089 The reason why women work is because all people work. What is really revealing is how many of thoese women actually progress their caree…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:17 PM
5

Why is it you redpillers are always complete fucking idiots? Water restriction is not remotely sustainable and should only used for short term weight loss requirements (and even those are considered dangerous and risky). edit: this moron is talking about doing 5 day fasts...fucking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:56 PM
-2

I can't. Because she is a shitty candidate. But that doesn't mean the democrats dont have infinitely more policies designed to support the working class compared to the republicans. The infrastructure bill alone is set to create thousands of jobs for blue collar workers. Whilst it is indeed a candidates job to sell themselves to their voting base, its also important for voters to educate themselves on policies best suited for their circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:07 PM
0

Based on what? Do you have any idea what male centric media looks like???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:04 PM
-1

Men are hounded everyday with images of roided up 6ft+ as the ideal. It's no excuse to be a slob.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:18 PM
1

Erection issues have a plethora of medications to alleviate the problem. Everything from cialis to viagra to hormonal supplements/antiestrogens to TRT. There is no excuse for a man to languish in his erectile dysfunction considering how many of the solutions I mentioned are now even OTC. And this is the issue. Due to the clustering in the middle, characteristics wise, you're more likely to meet women who languish in mediocrity without the willingness to change and the expectations that society w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:16 PM
0

Tbh it's likely they don't. Sanders was right when he said the working class felt abandoned by the democratic party but, even if that's the case, I fail to see what voting for Trump will achieve. And that's not because I'm some massive trump hater. But the simply reality is that unfunded tax cuts for the rich (we tried that in the UK, the bond market almost collapsed) and 20% flat rate tariffs are massively inflationary. The kind of inflation that's already made many poorer Americans perceive an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:13 AM
2

Single women outlive married women and are happier than single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:52 PM
1

But women outperform men on many quality of life metrics. They outlive them, are catching up in earnings, commit suicide less, have better platonic relationships. I'm unsure of the point you're making.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:47 PM
1

They are actually. Plenty of data on IQ, educational attainment, social competence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:42 PM
1

Socially, romantically, emotionally, intellectually (somewhat, women better educated and cluster around the middle, men more likely to dumber).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:28 PM
2

For me, this is kinda the problem I have with this sub. There is nothing expressly wrong with this comment...it's just that, for the most part, women aren't into men getting pegged. Yet this is currently the most up voted comment. I kinda feel it's almost slightly misleading, I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:23 PM
–

Harris was sus. She was a poor candidate too. But, again, you speak to women here, they're making out as if misogynistic/traditional men are the anti Christ. So you would have thought they would have stepped out to vote against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:04 PM
–

I was thinking Harris was a shoe-in for months. The only thing blowing my mind is how Trump still won even with the abortion repeal hanging over his head. Abortion isnt an in a single other western deomcracy other than America. The fact that the man who repealed it still managed to win truly blows my mind. I honestly think it has nothing to do with feminism, its irrelevant. America biggest demarcator is race and class. What annoys me is women on here partaking in their little fake gender war whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:10 PM
–

Holy shit. No way, is this 2024???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:06 PM
–

I won't deny it dislike women like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:52 PM
–

you're not offering anything to debate other than women are clowns, full of shit, liars who open their legs. Yep. Perfectly legitimate debate point. The opposite is too. And I see plenty of it. What am I willing to bet you're not here when posters like windmill flowers is arguing from a similar frame about men. It's different then of course. As said, some of you need to try to not be transparent, self serving clowns from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:45 PM
–

Fair enough. I've just come to not believe anything women say online anymore. And these elections contribute to that. We've heard for over a year how much Dobbs was going to move the needle. It didn't. Hell, we've heard how much the manosphere movement wasn't a thing anymore, it's proponents and grifters are more successful than ever. Somebody is bullshitting...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:43 PM
–

Yeah I call cap. You're well within your right. Doesn't make anything I said wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:41 PM
–

A woman who like fishing, hunting and working on her ute/truck will have more in common with a man who likes outdoorsy stuff Yes. And plenty of these women exist. So women on here need to stop pretending as if men's struggles are political/values issues. Their values clearly align with many women in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:40 PM
–

Woah it's almost like this is a debate sub or something. Lol notice how quick people are to denounce idiot incels. It's a little harder when someone id arguing not from the point of view of some fringe manosphere dope. YOu hAtE wOmEn. Lol the last refuge of the scoundrel. That nonsense point is all these online idiots have left.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:38 PM
–

God I would up vote this one hundred times if I could
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:35 PM
–

They don't not sleep or break up with Trump supporters. THEYRE LYING. A lot of you are just too stupid to realise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:33 PM
–

I am Chad (or Tyrone). I'm 6ft4, 280lbs, muscular and work a well paying job. I have a super high partner count because of my misogynistic views, not despite of them. In fact its when I calmed down, thought more about settling and reduced the fuckboy energy that I actually saw my prospects. Thankfully I had found a great partner by that point. Thinking anyone who acknowledged this is blackpilled is a copout.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:32 PM
–

Yuppppp.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:29 PM
–

B.a.s.e.d
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:28 PM
–

I constantly make the distinction. Did so in my initial comment too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:28 PM
3

I'm assuming this is sarcasm but it always made me lol how many swingers in America are Trump supporters lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:15 AM
–

They downvote and give bullshit nonresponses to comments like yours, because its the truth. Its easy to refute idiot blackpillers and incels. Its harder when people with more astute and nuanced observations like yours come along. Especially because you break down the bullshit mirage of western womens virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:36 AM
–

Case in point responses like this. Notice how it doesn't refute anything I actually said. This is how they operate. A lot come on here to lie and pretend they can't stand misogynistic, republican men and yet those are the men they open their legs for, date and marry. Feminist in the streets and a trad wife in the sheets 🤣🤣 I have no idea how men on here still fall for the okey doke.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:11 AM
–

Oh? So why the fuck then do you women keep voting for Trump????
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:08 AM
–

South Korea has some of the worst pay inequality in the world. It's clearly not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:07 AM
–

Lol and they're trying to down voted my posts. Clearly too chickenshit and lacking in integrity to actually refute anything I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:06 AM
–

Looool she didn't even win the popular vote. Even Clinton's unlikeable ass could do that. So despite four years of trump, the threat of a loss of their abortion rights and the rise of the Christian right, AND a female candidate they still resoundingly picked Trump. Never let the clown women on here fool you. I've been saying it for yours. They're COMPLETELY full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:47 AM
–

They don't. And I say that as an engaged man from the UK. The reason men are lonely has NOTHING to do with this misogyny or their political beliefs. It's because they're not Chad. Nothing more. Nothing less. The winners in the west with the most money, power, influence and status. Get it through your thick skull and stop letting women decieve you about their false virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:41 AM
3

Lol I feel this sub has become inundated with more weak, pathetic, cucked, "blue pill" dudes as of recent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:26 AM
–

Stop listening to women. Especially American (often white) women. They. Fucking. Lie. Lol just look at the results of the election. For all the talk you would think Trump was the reincarnation of Hitler. Everyone spoke about how terrible the Dodds decision was. Lo and behold, he fucking wins by the biggest republican margin since '88. I mean he wom the popular vote too, so they don't even have that on him anymore. Women are full of shit. The ones on here especially. They ain't boycotting shit. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:24 AM
1

Seems like the bullshit moderation on here is really just a front for shaping opinion. Not sure how something can be framed as a debate when any comment which even partially agrees with the OP is deleted. Only really allows for dissenting views to take shape. What on earth is the difference between this and the "CMV" flair then???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:49 PM
–

Hmm But yeah you're right. I have a lot of family and travelled there this year. Both Seattle and Houston. Both vibrant, economically powerful cities. Both amazing places that I thoroughly enjoyed but you really do pick up the subtle differences in how women operate. Again, the UK isn't exact haven for intergender relations but I definitely felt a greater sense of mild hostility from women. I could imagine it would be a lot more difficult to casually strike up conversation. On the flip side you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:40 PM
–

TBH whilst this is true, its also culture specific. Yes, men are expected to sacrifice themselves for women...but thats meant to be complimented by women who nurture, cook, clean and support their partner. Women dont want to do that anymore, but then cry that men also arent upholding their side of the bargain. This phenomenon is also more pronounced in America (where the bulk of this english language gender war discourse seems to be emanating from). I'm in the UK and whilst things are absolutely…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:50 AM
-3

Oooor...and bear with me here.... You could just learn how to take good pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:07 AM
1

So what do you recommend a man try to get validation online ? DONT try and get validation online. This desperation for validation online is why so many modern men are useless fuckups.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:47 PM
-3

Eugh More assoritve mating, sexual socialism, incel pandering garbage. Most dudes struggle online because their profiles fucking suck. Even apps like Hinge, which have changed the game, and yet still you just get legions of losers complaining that they can't take a decent pic. I mean, fuck, you can literally get AI to do it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:44 PM
–

Lol again. You've just admitted to dating multiple strippers and claim some of them "lied" to you about their work. You really aren't the average how you like to think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:41 PM
–

3 they lied and found out later Looool I would bet everything that most dudes could tell these women were strippers from a fucking mile off. 🤣🤣🤣 No one accidentally dates strippers. So, as expected, you're projecting. Majorly. And, you're likely giving off simp/john vibes and attracting the very women you're supposed to attract. There are estimated 1-2 million sex workers in the USA. That's 0.3 to 0.6% of the population. If you keep running into them, you're likely attracting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:38 PM
–

OPs idea of relationships is entirely transactional. They're not necessarily wrong but I feel they're too autistic to see the nuance of it. Yes, women will use their looks to get ahead or get the attention of desirable men. A lot of men use this realisation to jump and assume that every woman is secretly a sex worker or every man's fantasy is to wife a stripper. What they miss (often due to their neurodivergence or terrible socialisation) is that front loading sexuality in just about any human i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:27 PM
–

A metric ton of attractive women are NOT on Instagram or their profiles are private. Eugh, honestly you sound like someone who only dates bimbos (probably trying to entice them with money) and then trying to extrapolate your choices for the entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:17 PM
–

No they're not. Again, most successful men are married and middle aged. Most date women within their tax bracket and education level. You're six times more likely to earn over 100k with a college education. Without being disrespectful, your idea of a successful man sounds a lot like the "HVM" shit peddled by manosohere grifters. Lol have you legit dated any strippers? You would know most of their exes are often not financially stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:14 PM
–

And they're paying for her the leave. That a concept you clearly don't seem to understand. Most successful men are married, 40+ and most income through either dividends, property or their career. Put two and two together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:02 PM
–

Lol yeah this again. Propensity for sex work or even leveraging sexuality for professional gains often says more about one's values and upbringing than ones looks. And I'm the first to say women here bullshit about the reality of womens sexual proclivities, but let's be forreal. A lot of women (like men) are indeed not for sale and will earn their position through good old networking, nepotism and sometimes just good old fashioned hard work. Assuming every hot woman is just a proposition away fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:59 PM
–

It literally does and there is a plethora of data on this. Honestly you sound pornsick and delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:53 PM
–

This. I've dated a few sex workers. Their lives were often in disarray. Not because they were particularly awful people or unintelligent but often just due to the fact that sex work is messy and complicated. Even outside of sex work, when I dabbled in swinging and kink the women there either divorced, perpetually single or came into the scene through their partner. Front loading your sexuality is simply not the way most people engage with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:42 PM
–

I'm really starting to get the impression you don't know many successful men. The quality of redpill adjacent posters has really dropped off a fucking cliff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:38 PM
–

I was with you until you claimed most men would want to date an escort/sex workers or that many women have dabbled with that work. I think most women have thought about selling themselves but the barrier between thinking about it and actually doing it are still quite solid. Especially in the anglicised West. Despite all the talk about progressivism, unless you're in the most sex positive urban communities, most people (men and women) still treat sex workers as icky. Onlyfans has somewhat reduced…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:27 PM
1

This is one of those threads that says a lot more about the OP than anything else. Whilst I won't deny male incels have a stranglehold on this sub, I'm seeing their female counterparts fighting hard for second place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:17 PM
2

Maybe try talking to some actual real men and not living on the internet and you'll probably learn that not every man who disagrees with you engages in laughable online loser communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:08 AM
1

I can't speak for other women Yes. Don't. That's a start.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:03 AM
2

Wanna know what every single one of my considerable female friend group prefers most? Sweet, friendly, empathetic, loyal, non-sex-crazed dad bods who are great with family, hosts well, listens, shoulders his share of things. All of them. GET THIS THROUGH YOUR HEADS. Your friends are probably losers. And you probably are one too. Hence why you're even posting on Reddit. Women aren't magical, special or in any way more virtuous. They're just as shallow, narcissistic, self involved and self serving…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:17 PM
3

I mean, do you really need proof of this? I can post statistics. But do you really need me to?? Really??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:12 PM
1

I say this shit all the time. My fiance is also starting to nag a lot. But tbh, I've out her through the ringer to get to this point and she's earned her right to be a little cranky. And even then, I still give her shit about all kinds of domestic related tasks. I think it's true but, as with anything in marriage, you need to ensure you're doing it for the right person. My fiance is a better person than me. Problem is, a lot of guys are struggling to find that right now. When all your options ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:29 PM
-1

Nah. I've never had anything particular against fat women and have smashed a few...but I feel there is something kinda lacking personality wise in many. Its often a lack of self awareness. Its funny because an often used hypothetical is "would you ever date a fat women if she had an amazing personality" when the reality is I cant think of a single young, severly overweight women who actually had said "glowing personality". Their weight was often indicative of poor lifestyle choices which they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:44 PM
3

How is paying for porn more respectful? I had a fling with a very minor onlyfans girl and she literally said most of the dudes paying for content were weirdos with the oddest requests. Lol your posts are so lame. It's like this forum is predominantly incels but some of you on the opposite end of the spectrum clearly aren't that well socialised either. If you actually spoke to any sex workers and didn't just listen to virtue signalling influencers online, you would know most don't look favourably…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 08:33 AM
-1

TBH it really depends on the income. The modern knowledge economy has really become a game of feast or famine. And most high income earners I know aren't making that high income in a vacuum. The whole "ms degree" phenomenon will likely be most pronounced among women who, themselves, are high earners/academically high achieving. Again, like much of the typical disinformation/reality distortion, there is this odd attempt to act as if successful women are mostly single/dating men who earn less. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:12 AM
-2

This discussion is an interesting one because I think the thing no one is talking about is this key point: Here is an article of a feminists being jealous of Mormon trad wives and their traditional lifestyle. When, the case of the US at least, I look at the polls and at surveys on abortion rights...I legit have come to believe that a lot of women are straight up lying about how progressive they actually are. They're still deeply influenced by gender norms and have significant patriarchal expecta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:07 AM
3

I mean this is it. Like your husband, I've progressed way beyond my station in this field purely on the merit of me have a modicum of charm and conversational skills. IT is indeed bad (I'm in it too) but I also think it's the corporate world in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:19 PM
9

I used to rail against the whole "AFBB". And whilst I still acknowledge that women lack honesty and transparency when it comes to their dating preferences, I dont exactly blame them for having them either. Since 2019, my career in tech took off as did my competitive fighting. I'm about 9 fights or so in and tbh, throughout my time in kickboxing/MMA/boxing, I've met some real extraordinary people who've reall served as role models on how to better handle myself. Thats not to say fighting isnt wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:14 PM
1

People like OP is the reason why I tend to read peoples post history before engaging with their nonsense. To say OP is the definition of the dunning kruger effect would be an understatement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:32 PM
1

I'm not in London. And UMC for me is AT LEAST a million dollars in assets/equity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:08 AM
1

Lol except Asian and African parents often place a disproportionate emphasis on education. Does that suddenly make them UMC? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 11:30 PM
1

Google is full of crap. I've earned way more than 120k in my last few years in tech and wouldnt say I am anywhere near upper middle class. And thats in the UK, where 120k goes a lot further than it does in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:47 PM
-1

Blue collar and "upper middle class" is often just a euphemism for college educated and white collar. Which returns to my original point of education being a greater factor than arbitrary ideas of "class". The irony is, I bet cash most redditors aren't actually dating "upper middle class" dudes. Your man earning 120k in tech doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:30 PM
29

Yep pretty much. And the data agrees with you. A potential partners status matters to men plenty. Don't let redpillers lie and tell you different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:38 PM
-2

Meh. I don't think class, at least in terms of "lower", "middle" and "upper" matter so much in America. This topic may have more weight in a truly class ridden society like here in the UK. But, in the US, there tends to only really be two classes. The working and owner class. Bigger differentiation can be made in regards to people politics or their race or education. America, to its credit is fairly fluid when it comes to the middle income brackets. It's not like in the UK where class can be ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:37 PM
-1

When I think of the posters who make significant amounts of dumbass posts, they're all women. Not men. That should say a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:04 AM
3

Erm...what? Is this for real???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:59 AM
1

If a guy openly said in the opening courtship stages that he expected his wife not to be fat and then he left her when she had a baby and gained weight, you would not be saying its her fault for dating a man like him in the first place. And rightly so. But thanks for the insight, because this is what I say about a lot of women who post on this sub and why I honestly feel a lot of you are as repugnant as the redpillers you complain about. Redpill is morally ambiguous, but often many of its adhere…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:54 PM
2

Lol this is like an incel getting annoyed at someone who doesn't spend their life on the Internet not understanding the difference between them and redpillers. Really hilarious listening to you femcel types.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:30 AM
0

Tbh it has a lot do with it. Even according to your own ideology. One of the big tragedies of the patriarchy, according to feminists, is how patriarchal expectations forces men to express their masculinity in often toxic ways. Those ways often express themselves in violence, abuse and bullying. Especially the domestic kind. Sitting there asking what things like intimate partner abuse has to do with a misogynistic culture which places immense pressure on the men kinda just makes me feel you aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:14 AM
–

Again. This is what I'm talking about. I legit think a lot of you are fucked in head. I legit don't think a lot of you function above toom temperature IQ. Take Diddy. A perverted, violent, abusive, criminal sex trafficker whose awaiting federal indictment. Look at the QUALITY of the women that are chasing after rich pervy fuck Diddys exes: -Cassie Ventura -Kim Porter -Jennifer Lopez A model, a model turned chart topper and an international superstar. Yeah, "absolutely abysmal" indeed... I legit …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:43 PM
6

And to think I got down voted for calling this chick a femcel clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:17 PM
–

I'm no redpiller but it legit seems this way. It seems like some women here are fighting the tide. I speak to a lot of guys. That redpill-esque "women are golddiggers and whores" is mainstream. And not without reason. Most know damn well how much looks, money and status matter. And yet dumb fucks here drill waste their time trying to convince us that there are a sizeable number of women who think Jack Black is peak masculinity. Just fucking stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:10 PM
1

You legit type like you fucking have special needs. I feel dumber for having read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:03 PM
–

People on here need to stop saying this dumb fucking shit. It's lame and we all know it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:55 PM
–

This shit is mostly espoused by male losers and incels. They're not opinions that will be accepted in mainstream discourse any any even remotely respectable media outlet. We know damn well no one is getting up on TV to say "fat women are disgusting" and then enjoying a promising career. Saying "its only okay when men say it" is laughable as, at least in mainstream discourse, its almost as if the opposite is true. What I am kinda noticing (and equally sick of) is the influx of female losers on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:27 AM
-9

LOL I gotta be honest, I dont believe you. But then, to be fair, I dont believe most female reddit posters. It just all sounds so...performative. Like a reply tailor made to antagonise the idiot redpillers and incels. In truth, I just dont think a mans promiscuity (or lack thereof) figures much into those choices. A lot of men dont bother finding out what their partners "body count" is, let alone women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:24 AM
4

I'm a "slutty man" and I'm engaged to a non slutty women and have had plenty of non-slutty partners. Maybe women care and maybe they dont, but a mans sluttiness simply pales in comparison to other modes of assessment of our attractiveness. A woman would much, MUCH rather date a slutty man who is attractive and tall than a non slut who is unattractive and broke. Promiscuity merely doesnt figure as much in male attractiveness as it does for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:16 AM
–

The only way to work out seriously. Was literally my first comment. The fuck are u even on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:19 PM
–

By working out seriously I mean I fight professionally and coach. As stated, I don't know anyone who trains seriously or competitively and doesn't use some kind of facility. And I'm probably talking to someone who doesn't train seriously and yet is speaking on it. As is typical on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:27 PM
–

The only way to work out seriously. I train heavy and I can count on one hand the people who work out hard/seriously and don't use a gym or training facility some sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:51 PM
–

I am willing to bet cash a lot of those women look terrible and a lot of that "nip and tucked" is just some makeup and lululemon leggings hiked up to their tit's.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:45 PM
–

By default men definitely put less effort into their appearance than women. You just need to go outside to see that. BUT. This is changing rapidly, as the data you posted mentions. I've been in the gym recently and the amount of women attending seems to have fallen off of a cliff. Especially young women. It's the same in the MMA and boxing gyms I go to. Whilst I noticed a drop after covid, it seems to have fallen off of a cliff in the last year or two. This seems drastically different from 2019 …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:42 PM
17

Using a "gone wild" subreddit as a sample to test this laughable hypothesis is embarrassing. Seriously do some of you not realise how laughable you sound. Just go to a club and see the men that women oogle. Just leave the house in general...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:59 PM
0

LOL Jesus, are you implying you're somehow emotionally mature? As said, women who argue with points being made like that in the OP never cease to amaze me when it comes to their stupidity and lack of self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:36 AM
–

It could be irrational. Could be based on insecurity. Or a fear of emasculation. But at the end of the day, who cares? A BIG problem I have with a lot of modern women is how incredulous many act at the concept that a man has any kind of standards for anything. Its the same reason why I am seeing more and more women who cant seem to get a functioning relationship with a man worth a damn. The same way you care about height and income, a man is allowed to care about shit that matters to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:24 AM
1

Fair points
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:21 PM
2

Niceness is a bit like fiat currency. It needs to be backed by something thats holds people accountable for it to be worth anything. I used to be non confrontational and people pleasing (to a degree) when I was a teenager until I became and adult and discovered bodybuilding/lifting. Then I became a bit of a tryhard dick, its only when I discovered martial arts in my late twenties that I started to actually become "nice", except my niceness/agreeableness was a lot more genuine and came from a pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:49 PM
-2

Loool I dated plenty of women in real life who liked the same shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:29 PM
8

Hmmm. Its simple TBH. Parallels can be drawn by ethnic minorities/black people. Things are objectively better now than they were in, say, the 60s. In the US, they're on the cusp of two POC presidents and, here in the UK at least, we've had a south asian prime minister, a ghanian chancellor, a south asian home secretary and a black home foreign secretary literally scolding Russia in the UN general assembly as of last week. Problem is, its often the very people who harp on about how better things …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:55 PM
-5

This. But the amusing part is...I used to go to swingers parties and sex clubs when I was younger. And often end up having sex with 3-4 partners in a night. No, not every woman I would hook up with were stunners. Most were not. But I was a sex addict who loved the spontaneity of it. What blew my mind was, the more dismissive, rough and "pornified' the sex was (I often opted for doggy), the more likely it was they would come back for more or tell everyone who sexually capable I was. I felt like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:30 PM
63

She could be kicking and screaming and some guys could still get off Bruh. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:21 PM
2

If an incel came on here and talked about how a woman violated his boundaries and made him feel uncomfortable I would absolutely believe and validate him actually. So you believe all the crap they say about misandry and being victimised by women who dont want ot have sex with them? I mean good for you. Because I certainly dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:26 PM
–

Yeah, whats interesting is that men and women largely rate themselves the same but are often men are perceived far lower than their self assessment, and even lower still by women. But it really flies directly in the face of OPs attempt at making a point. Every women thinks shes hotter? Yeah but so does every man. Whats worse still is that most women have looks that cluster around the average mark, where as most men actually cluster around the lower ranges. However, it definitely does lend creden…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:18 PM
0

Just because I’m single doesn’t mean I don’t have insight on how I’d like to be approached. Well tbh. You don't. We don't take incels here seriously who make it to their twenties without being able to fork relationships with the opposite sex. The same applies to women who struggle with that too. I got cold approached last week and it did not feel good. And again, you're speaking as someone who has reached 25 and is having to ask reddit how to talk to other people. Whether you approve of cold app…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:57 AM
3

Lol I'm redpill now... Desperately trying to insist ugly bollywood actors are attractive isn't gonna make it true. You can't negotiate women being into your creepy asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:28 AM
1

Yeah but just from your post history you appear to be someone struggling with their mental health who is going on 25 and hasn't had a functioning relationship. I don't know why redditors who clearly struggle socially insist on lecturing about what men should and shouldn't do romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:25 AM
2

How would me mentioning him being 50 somehow also be me alluding to men aging well. He didn't look better than Bradley Cooper when he was younger either. But he's clearly someone your no pussy getting creepy ass wants to live vicariously through. Dork.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:11 AM
1

LOL here was thinking you were gonna link to someone actually attractive instead of some 50 year old bollywood actor. Which isn't of any surprise considering you're another one of reddit's weirdo indian incels
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:12 AM
4

God, this literally took the words out of my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:16 PM
0

BUT, as I keep saying, a significant chunk of American women have been voting for legislatures and politicians who refuse to offer social safety nets, maternity leave, or standardised healthcare. In countries like the UK and France a politician wouldnt dream of even entertaining the concept of curtailing things like abortion rights. We had a conservative politician speak about maternity leave access needing to be curtailed and I believe she may have legit torpedoed her campaign with said comment…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:28 AM
3

TBH I have to agree. And I say that as a Brit. Recently travelled to America as well. I legit do think that American are uniquely...meh. TBH my reasoning is that I think America is where you're most likely to meet massively ideologically hypocritical people. Here in Europe, whilst people talk about equality. They walk the walk too. A lot of women will say they dont want a man who tries to purchase their affection, but they also wont sit there complaining about paying their way on a date. Egalita…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:50 AM
3

Loool it's so fucking lame and tragic how committed you are to believing your own bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:37 AM
8

Loooool Its always funny reading posts like this because I genuinely can't tell whether people are stupid enough to think comments like these are a flex. I can't imagine ever saying on a public forum that I wish my fiance had a different face or bigger tit's. And yet here you making statements like like yeah i wish he was taller than me and i wish he had broad shoulders. but i liked him so much more than the guy who did have those things And thinking yeah, that totally makes me look good! People…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:32 PM
12

Tbh Zuckerberg and his wife have somewhat glowed up. It's clear they take care of themselves. The same can't be said for SBF or his ugly partner in crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:18 PM
1

Yeah I've probably slept with at least a dozen women I've cold approached. And that's not even included the various ones that I dated/kissed/hung out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:49 PM
1

So it's laughable that I don't want to date a man young enough to be my kid, or old enough to be my father? Plenty of people dont like working in retail either. But those are the only jobs they can get. I'm honestly looking for a dead ass average man and these single middle aged men can't even do that. This is nonsense. There are plenty of average, competent middle aged men. They're just not going after you. Choose to be alone (because thats fine) but thats a you problem, not a "middle aged men …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:16 PM
3

The men approaching you are the men of your calibre. You're just too lacking in self awareness to see it. I mean you're 40+. In four decades you haven't come across one half decent looking man in your age bracket??? It's amusing how many people post stupid shit like this completely unaware of how laughable they sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:52 AM
2

Exactly. And to think people are getting down voted for stating this. This sub is becoming more of a refuget for weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:29 AM
-1

And?? People get pissed off for all manner of innocuous reasons. I dislike the various charities and satellite TV providers who approach me when I'm shopping. I tell them no and they move on. Ever wonder why these vendors still exist? Again, because I'm not a narcisstic idiot who thinks just because I personally may not be interested in the product someone is selling that it therefore means no one is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:29 AM
-3

I've approached people back in the day. Sometimes it works and sometimes it don't but I never garnered any particular negative reaction other than a no. And then we both went about our days. But, you see, unlike you I'm not a paranoid weirdo shut in and talking to strangers doesn't invole feelings of being 5 years old and crying about stranger danger. God, reddit really is full of fucking losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:14 AM
1

Weirdos on female dating strategy complain that men don't meet their behavioural and economic standards. I'm saying that many women not only have standards for those attributes but standards for men's looks as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:45 PM
1

The problem here is with "moderately successful" and "decently looking" that people have a problem with. No one is entitled to fulfill your desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:38 PM
1

If you're doing fine then you likely have little understanding of how many men are actually doing. Even bringing things down to simple logistics. The fact that you even have your own place already puts you ahead of many men living at home or with roommates. Also, it's very likely the women you're talking to are middle to upper middle class who don't even engage with men outside of your tax bracket. Everything is relative and it's likely you have little exposure to the men lower on the socioecono…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:30 PM
2

The ones I listed are the ones who actually have promising careers that extend beyond their looks. All (bar Sweeney) have been nominated for multiple Emmy's/Academy awards. I have no idea why morons on here try to be smartasses often at expense of their own point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:23 PM
0

she was gorgeous and friendly This matters. And it matters a lot. For a lot of men too. Most women are not this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:22 PM
2

That's because your possible lack of personality/looks takes away from the positive variables relating to your income. It's as simple as that. I work in software engineering and have worked with plenty. Despite the good pay, many are just ludicrously unattractive and often aren't actively engaging with the opposite sex either. Things are challenging on both fronts. Desirable, gainfully employed men don't want unattractive, entitled thots but desirable young women don't want unattractive, sociall…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:18 PM
0

Yeah it's not traditional at all. I've dated quite a few EE women. But at least if you're going to get the attitude, would be better from someone whose at least slim and hot. Which a fair few EE women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:16 PM
4

I would date an easy 6 over a high maintenance disagreeable 9 because at some point her looks just aren't worth the juice.So high standard women end up just getting passed around.because there's always a lower standard option look what happened to Brittany Renner. Not sure I agree with the rest of your premise, but this statement has some weight. I actually think female beauty isnt as valuable as many people here perceive. I like to liken it to Hollywood. I find it interesting that the "it girl"…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:43 PM
–

Good post. Are you a man or woman? I know its going to sound mega racist but a lot of the white women on this sub operate in really bad faith or just straight up dishonest. Its kinda lame how many are acting incredulous about the fact that a lot of men lean right, especially if they're masculine presenting and this dischotomy has become even more apparent in recent election cycles where divergence along ideological lines is becoming more pronounced among the genders. They, instead, just want a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:27 PM
2

At the end of the day, there is a wall. There is a point where both genders will notice their attention from the opposite sex dissipate. What gets me though is some women pretending as if they're somehow looking forward to it/like it. Its a great thing to grow old gracefully and gradually move to that more mature, less sex centric point in our lives but, judging by the sheer amount of plastic surgery, STDs (which these days are even more commonplace among older people) and attention seeking beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:58 AM
0

You're someinr who brags about dating whilst being over 30. The only clown here is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:44 PM
1

So you're better looking than her and yet wondering why she choose someone who is "loser status"?? Doesn't the looks obviously mitigate that???? I legit wonder about Redditors and its the reason why I barely post as much. I swear this site is full of some of the dumbest motherfuckers around. Not in formal, educational sense but in the practical sense. Never seen a place full of people so lacking in basic fucking common sense. "Hey guys my hot girlfriend was with a good looking guy before but, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:08 AM
–

Again. You have no fucking idea what you're talking about. The violence committed by the suffragettes is well documented. Are you all this historically illiterate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:02 PM
16

Thing is, female loneliness has kinda become extinct. Due to gender war discourse and a desperate attempt to not legitimise redpillers/manosphere types, a lot of women these days seem to be falling over themselves to tell us how much they're not lonely, dont need a man, dont value marriage and dont want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:08 PM
-1

Crime against women reached a nadir in the 80s and 90s, where crimes against all peoples were at their hightest. Because woman weren’t classed as people. I mean...what? Women weren't classed as people? Since when? Even the womens suffrage movement was complex and layered and largely involved women in the upper middle classes. You have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:54 AM
37

The games dirty, people are just realising it now. Its the same thing in the jobs market. A few years ago people would have scolded you for lying on your CV, working multiple roles simultaneously, being dishonest with recruiters...now its all fair game. Because people have learned companies dont really value their staff like that and the fact that we're in the midst of a job market decline, at least in the white collar world. There is a similar stagnation in the dating world, I think it ties int…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:18 AM
3

Looool u get em bang to rights 🤣🤣🤣 Us men really gotta do better man, jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:47 PM
–

She's one of the biggest loser motherfuckers I've seen on this forum. There's a lot of posters who argue in bad faith but her responses make it clear she's in a very bad place when it comes to feelings towards the opposite sex. There's too many posters who think simply being the opposite of redpill dorks somehow makes them different or better. There is another Irish female poster with crappy takes but you can tell she's a totally normal and innocuous person. The "sharp" lady genuinely seems like…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:44 PM
–

LOL does your wife know that you're into the redpill/blackpill/manosphere flex? Its weird, I dont even necessarily have any strong stance either way its just this... If anything, you are just proving confidence does not matter. It is all about being attractive baby. When someone is unattractive, suddenly their confidence is portrayed as arrogance lol. Really gives off incel vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:34 PM
–

Pretty much, you gotta get in where u fit in
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:28 PM
2

Trying to make out as if height is some kind of exclusive reserve of the redpill is kinda cheeky. It matters to a lot of people a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 03:12 PM
5

Its like that line by Jim Gordon in Batman Begins: One of the interesting aspects of the internet is that it kinda provides an exposure of lesser known information to a wider number of people. Just like how feminism enlightened women as to lesser desirable behaviours exhibited by misogynistic men, redpill has kinda blown the lid open on the less savoury aspects of womens desire. Thats why women are pushing against it a lot of the time. Especially the ones on subs like this. Most women I can forg…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:34 PM
–

Alpha is a loaded term to use. But your point makes sense. Its gonna be lost on here as the women you're most likely thinking about aren't the type to post on Reddit. Women on here are often hovering the 3-5/10 range whilst not being the most socially adept. The problem is that most Redpill types are thinking about 6+/10 women who, for the most part, wont be found on obscure gender war discussion subs. I also think you're forgetting the act of settling. I actually think women are far more realis…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:24 AM
–

This is such a Reddit take. I mean seriously, I cant think of a single mainstream metal artist these days. What on earth are you going to see going to one? I'm a fan of Tool, A Perfect Cicle, NiN and Rammstein. I would get blank looks mentioning any of those names to some pretty girl on Tinder 90% of the time. Maybe swap out a metal band for Chris Brown/Harry Styles/Burna Boy/The Weeknd and you'll possibly have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:15 AM
–

Women would rather pay for dinner with a rich man than to have a broke man pay half for dinner. Jesus, this is one of the most based comments I've ever read.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:59 AM
–

Actually you do. This is the problem with this sub, a lot of you guys struggle because you don't form good social bonds with your peers. Despite the ubiquity of online dating platforms, it still counts for, at best, 30-40% of hookups. The vast, vast majority of relationships and casual flings are formed though real life social networks and activities. These require bonds with men of similar age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:39 AM
25

Most are repulsive, but in this weird and heavily subdued way. TBH the bluepillers kind of allude to to it sometimes too. Its essentially the "nice guy" phenomenon. A lot of dudes I meet in the IT field can be insanely arrogant, combative and condescending but its masked in this sheen of "niceness" and/or non confrontation. It works very well in an office setting but is an absolute death sentence in modern romantic life. Especially now when women are earning their own wages and require more from…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:11 PM
43

Then I’d go to my crappy IT job with my coworkers who are all straight arrow gym 2x a week no drinking or smoking being all responsible and they’re virgins at age 27 After working with IT types for five years, I'm really not shocked that many are single at 27. Not shocked at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:45 PM
2

TBF I have to give creadit ton u/kongeriket for coining this term: It's a terminally online white Anglo female thing. Once you acknowledge a lot of the women posting here from that lense, it kinda makes everything else muted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:29 AM
5

Also, White women vote for the GOP and Pro-Life movements at the highest rate after White men. They even beat Black, Asian, and even Hispanic men with their voting records on average. Yet Redditors will talk about how there's a major "gender divide" in politics despite the actual ballot results not showcasing this. Hell, Black men in Ohio last year voted for abortion rights at a higher rate than any other demographic including Black women. Yet Redditors will claim that it's men who are "conspiri…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:50 AM
2

Reddit offers the perfect storm for biased echo Chambers. Not only the nature of the topic/interest/demography based subs but also the heavy handed moderation which likely scares away cadusl observers more plugged into the real world. And then you have the fact that this sub is pretry obscure and full of male incels. There's a tendency to believe that the women here are all somehow well adjusted opposites of those male incels but, when you actually start to look at it, you realise a lot of them …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:37 AM
7

will say this... almost all of the women fit a certain demographic of liberal white women. I watched Latinas flirt with him, and black women give him the eye, but nothing like the others. This is what bugs me. I've had almost identical experiences to what you say your friend has. I look like a fitness model. But the most egregious behaviour I've experienced has been from "liberal white women". I mean even my fiance, whose white herself, has commented on it. "A black girl will look and maybe make…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:09 PM
1

Maybe, I dunno. Not sure about her preferences outside of the one she mentioned to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:42 PM
1

Hmmm. Would have to find it, ain't seen it for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:25 PM
2

I slept with a girl who was on onlyfans. Very pretty but had fuck all of a following. She had a preference for black guys whilst being white and her partner was possibly half Asian? Not sure. Tbh "cuckold" kinda has different meanings. In the mainstream it implies anything from a guy who doesn't have a backbone to a dude who let's his girl fuck other men. In the kink/swinging scene, it pertains to a guy who gets off of the humiliation aspect of a girl fucking another man. A lot of dudes in that …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:55 AM
2

LOL you even parrot the dumb as fuck redpill rhetoric. Lemme guess, you have no social life amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:53 AM
8

One thing thats really understated is just how socially retarded most of the women posting on this sub are. These aren't Stacies and Instagram influencers, most of the women here are overweight loser shut ins and the comments kind of make it obvious. I can ask any girl I know in real life who would tell me complaining about a boyfriens big dick is like complaining your girlfriend gets catcalled too much. You have to be socially retarded to see that. However, most of the women here are, indeed, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 09:51 AM
5

It's called humble bragging you fucking buffoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:55 AM
2

This is the prototypical post from the average dumb as all fuck woman who posts on this sub. With all the typical nonsense rationalisation too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:53 AM
–

Yeah when we first started speaking. She was nice, complimentary and positive. She tried hard to actively engage in conversation and think of interesting topics to discuss. She also showed keenness when I expressed interest in meeting up the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:44 AM
0

I don't have a problem with any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:53 PM
–

Loool there are PLENTY of women who absolutely debase themselves to fulfill their sedual urges. I've known and met many. Just lol at this perpetually online take.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:27 PM
1

Loool since when is 50/50 odds rare? Do you understand the definition of the word rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:16 PM
0

Doesn't gaslighting somehow imply I'm attempting to misdirect whatever point you're trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:15 PM
5

You seem to be arguing with yourself here. I have no interest in discussing my specific thoughts on whatever drives female promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:12 PM
–

This makes absolutely no sense and can be made as a bullshit comeback for every statement made on Reddit ever. Just fucking lol. So the reason I've not seen much dissenting discourse among women despite being on and off here for years is simply because women who dont agree don't bother replying? Are u legit fucking stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:47 PM
2

There's no need to justify. High partner count women are psychologicallly damaged and totally different then normal women. Women on here definitely don't argue that high partner count women are psychologically damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:46 PM
0

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:45 PM
-1

"go on dates" Is pretty clear. TBH I'm just starting to get the impression you're another one of the many bad faith debaters on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:08 PM
12

https://bespokesurgical.com/2021/06/24/sexual-history-by-state/ https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm The CDC data says that 1 in 4 people have 10 or more partners. This idea that women sleeping around is a rare is a nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:05 PM
0

So what? Do women rarely go on dates? Considering how few partners you claim people have?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:59 PM
-5

Ahhh progress. That's good. Appreciate the reply. But now you see this is the problem a lot of the redpillers have. This honesty rarely comes without prompt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:54 PM
3

Lol fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:52 PM
–

Yep. Especially on Reddit. I would lean on the demographic represented on here heavily leaning towards dating white men exclusively. And yet they'll be the first to tell you how "personality" and "niceness" matter most. Funnily enough it was often women who had no qualms about the race of their partner who were more honest about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:51 PM
4

but women with high body counts are disgusting to me. Fair enough. But lets see women come in to chastise you for this statement the way they do redpillers for saying similar. As said, I bet they wont.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:45 PM
-1

No its not rare. Its like saying purchasing a home is rare because the average person only does it a few times in their lives. You can only have so many sexual partners. However, at any one time, there will be thousands/millions of potential options due to the sheer amount of people partaking in casual sex at any one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:43 PM
6

Because we're talking about "primal physical lust". Not sure if that can not be visual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:40 PM
1

TBF these are a lot of good points. There’s still a stigma that men will be romantic to start the relationship but women will be the one to continue the romance during. Bingo. This is it. Romance is often elicited by men often on the front end and women on the back end, in reality the issue both gender have is their inability to meet the their counterparts on the other side. I see so many men who just stop giving a fuck when they settle. And there is plenty of data on this too. A big reason why …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:38 PM
6

I dunno how true it is, but I've dated _a lot_ of women. And of that signficant number I can only think of two women in my life (and thats two among hundreds) who legit charmed me. One is my fiance. I can count on one hand the number of women who invoked any feeling of intense romantic desire on their part. Thing is though, you've likely heard stories of a woman paying for a guys lifestyle or shacking up with a guy whose a shiftless bum. But those stories are always presented from a view where t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:25 PM
0

This is just rubbish. Online dating has changed the game again. Geo-locative technology has enormously facilitated the hookup process, and were it not for contraception, may possibly be indirectly responsible for a small nation’s worth of conceptions. A recent U.S. study found that 78.2% of adults aged 18-34 claimed to have had casual sex with someone they met online. While it is extremely difficult to accurately measure the degree to which people are having casual sex (generally defined as inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:13 PM
-6

They are, because its very rare to actually see women on here offering dissenting point of view that disagrees with the general consensus among women here. If you were right, a bunch of women will come onto this thread to tell us how certain women like to fuck and like fucking attractive dudes. We probably wont though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:09 PM
0

This may be true. But it kinda funny how women seemingly don't experienced primal lust when men claim they do but then also try their hardest to justify women having super high partner counts. "Oh my she just likes to fuck". Yeah? Then why when dudes actually think a woman does then suddenly they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:03 PM
–

I always find it amusing that women will always downplay the idea that immutable traits can make men unattractive and yet whenever there is a post from a person of colour talking about how inherently unattractive they are because of their race it's always mysteriously heavily upvoted. Hmmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 09:55 AM
2

I think this is a great analysis and a little bit of a level up from the usual dross about misogynists or "picky women". However I'm unsure of whether the "adored/adorer" dynamic is gender specific. I also think being the "adored" is more complex than you give it credit. Whilst I'm sure a lot of people like the idea of being admired and doted upon, I often find that humans struggle "adoring" complex and multifaceted people/things. Such adoration often hinges on the adored living up to a standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:14 PM
3

I'm the first the call out the femcel clowns on here. I'm simply aiming my ire where appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:54 PM
0

Skinny and fit will make use above average as a woman too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:54 PM
1

Agree on all points
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:40 PM
4

Is this a "hoe phase"? I dont get it. I was pretty much a videogame playing dorky loser in my teenage years and then kinda escaped that by the time I turned 21. I fucked around a lot but it was more to do with me being a sex addict than any feelings of being entitled to pussy. I dunno, so much of this discourse from redpill types just seems so bitter. Like its not enough to just get laid, it like you need to get back it women for rejecting you in the past. Y'all need to get over yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:24 PM
14

Being jacked does not make you attractive. It does, sorry. Unlike you though, I'm actually jacked. I would know lol. If a girl you found unattractive got in better shape, she will still be unattractive to you. Erm...yes? Being in shape can have major effects on your physical attractiveness and thats true for both genders. Plenty of women have had major glowups from merely losing weight and even more so from losing weight AND lifting. This is all loser incel/blackpill talk. Your face, hair and sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:22 PM
3

I kinda don't agree with this. Whilst I definitely think I'm not their first priority if they don't show enthusiasm towards me, I kinda feel a lot of people don't even have a "first priority". And tbh I'm guilty of this myself. There is a beautiful line in The Wire that encompasses this way of thinking... "Hey, hey, hey, a life. A life, Jimmy. You know what that is? It's the shit that happens while you're waiting for moments that never come." Lester Freeman Whilst men are DEFINITELY guilty of it…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:17 AM
2

Nope. Rates of sexual intimacy have genuinely fallen. Women are having less sex as well as men. That age old OKCupid data that redpillers love to parrot actually shows that whilst men have a more distributed rating for women, they primarily message hotter women. a curvy women could be the type for a fit dude Nah. Especially among general Zers. I'm around a lot of fit people. Both through my kickboxing and just going to the gym in general. Because of the large, social media fueled sub culture tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:03 PM
3

A lot of men are into stupid and self harming kinks like erotic asphyxiation, frotting and sadomasochism. Is it a woman's fault for being pressured into engaging with those kinks? This is a stupid line of argumentation and I won't even call it a lack of "accountability". Its just immature. For as much shit I give delusional redpillers, it's crazy how juvenile a lot of the regular female posters on here seem. No way I'm convinced wasting time arguing with incels doesn't rub off on people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:53 PM
1

Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:22 PM
7

I kinda disagree. I actually don't think monetary wealth, status and romantic success are that intrinsically linked anymore. It's similar to the capital markets. They've become so detached from economic fundamentals that they're just not worth analysing as a determinant of economic health. I say this because globalisation, information and abstraction have had fundamental effects on human endeavour. Wanted a job 50 years ago? You had to get up, leave your house, either line up for work involving …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:34 AM
4

This question is pointless in this sub as so many women here operate in bad faith. However, here in the UK, the topic of women being taken in by criminal men can no longer be ignored. In the last few years alone we've had multiple scandals involving female prison officers having sex with inmates. It'd a common thing but it seems to have taken a turn in the last few years. There was incident earlier this year involving a female prison officer having sex with an inmate on camera, even worse still …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:08 AM
–

Plenty of perfectly healthy and attractive women suffer from eating disorders and body dysmorphia too. Should they also be dismissed????
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:01 AM
2

Do women want to be approached for a date in person? You may have seen both men and women assert that women do not. According to my results, most women do. A similar percentage of women in their 20s and 30s also want to be approached. However, the desire to be approached drops off for women in the age 41 and above group. The oldest cohort of women wish to be approached less. 74% of women aged 25 and below want to be approached more; 77% in the full 18-30 cohort. 68% wish to be approached more be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:15 AM
1

Tbh I don't do it a MASSIVE amount either. Maybe once every few months. But it added up over the years I was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:09 AM
1

This is where I am. There is another poster on here who you should put this to. The woman literally seems intensely socially maladjusted to the point i don't really trust their stance on their types of conversations. I've had people talk to me (and me them) all the time and it's not weird. And most aren't even the opposite sex. Since when did this become so odd??? The majority of men aren't redpilllers or pick up artists the same way most women aren't raging misandrist ridden feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:07 AM
–

Yeah I don't really care about any of what you posted. You're a loser who really needs to disengage from your online war with male social failures. It's really fucking sad. Don't you have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:28 AM
3

And you clearly can't grasp the topic of conversation I'm even replying in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:15 AM
3

The majority of people aren't "pick up artists". The fact that you're even alluding to people being that kinda says a lot. I'm talking about organic conversation with people in day to day life. Some of those people will be romantically interested, and of those, most won't have invested time into looking up PUA unlike what most of you weird reddit shut ins want to believe. Most will not be. I really hate when men pretend women are actively anti-social because they are disinterested in pick up art…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:10 AM
4

You know what's weird. I used to cold approach in the gym a lot. It was the girls who weren't eye fucking me who would be the most receptive and the women who would almost be inviting my interest who would be the most difficult to engage with. Made me kinda stop trusting women's opinions on cold approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:53 AM
3

I'm a super muscular guy and get approached all the time. Literally multiple times a day. My fiance says it's a beautiful thing to have people want to engage with you and I agree. And as I've become a more well rounded person, I've become a lot more welcoming of it. Your mentality is kind of the reason why a lot of people these days are so unhappy with themselves and with their lives. Outside of concerns for safety, it's beneficial to the soul to engage positively and healthily with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:48 AM
3

It's a good flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:45 AM
–

Most people aren't the sum of their ideologies. Any women on that "hashtag feminism" wave would most likely be a weirdo. Can't say I've met too many of those. I've met a few obnoxious women who kinda hide behind the "feminist" label as cover for their obnoxiousness but I wouldn't actually class them as legit feminists. TBH though any sane woman should at least be sympathetic to feminist agendas and theories. Same way most sane dudes tend to air slightly more conservative than their female counte…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:41 AM
1

You "don't have to pay a penny of it" if you barely earn a livable wage. My student load deduction is fucking massive. As I keep saying I am yet to see you make an informed post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:02 AM
–

Girls that flake or you have sex with and ghost. If you hit them up and l they respond, things can still work out. Yeah they did work out as we went out eventually. But flaking is bad. It's bad manners and, even if you did end up dating/sleeping together, isn't a trait indicative of a fruitful relationship. Sexual or otherwise. Many attractive women almost seem obligated to flake and that's the issue I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:54 AM
3

Lol I made a post in a recent Andrew Tate thread that shit like this is gonna start revealing the ugly reality of female sexuality. They're as burdened by lust, depravity and power as men are. I think people like Tate realise this hence why he's so popular. After all he gained a lot of his income facilitating cam models, often promising them the opportunity to get rich. Even if he is convicted, it was never the Taken style trafficking ring that many of his detractors would like to convince you i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:55 AM
8

This is bullshit and another attempt at pretending as if men aren't equally affected by skewed online perceptions of femininity and beauty. nor would most men want their girlfriend to be a porn star. And yet, Onlyfans is a billion dollar business. And men aren't just paying for content, they're paying for interaction. No one can convince me, in an age where women are becoming millionaires off of talking to simps, that men don't desperately want relationships with these types of women. Lol they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:19 AM
4

Even ted bundy talked about how porn affected him and his violent tendencies & there’s tons of research that supports it too. Ted Bundy was a malignant narcissist and famously full of shit. Its been well documented his death row interview was a last ditch attempt at a reprieve through trying to help some bible thumping politicians attempt at legislating against porn. Porn can be toxic, but I don't think there is any data pointing towards it increasing rates of sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:16 AM
4

I think your premise is kinda correct, I actually don't feel people are that well equipped to actually deal with the attractive people they desire. And yes simping has become an epidemic, and that's not simply down to men treating women to nice things (which is a good thing BTW) but men literally falling over themselves for beautiful women. I heard somewhere that men have now become the groupies and I csnt unsee it lol. I remember chatting to a Romanian girl some time back. She was absolutely st…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:05 AM
2

I never said they were. Hollywood adheres to this lame moral orthodoxy often as a cover for the rampant sexual, physical and financial abuse that runs rife. One can always absolve themselves through some pro minority back patting. There is no "gay agenda" but there is a "we're very enlightened and fair and moral now" agenda and the young men have simply checked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:32 AM
1

Yeah which is the typical response from a fucking buffoon. Let's all sit and pretend as if the votes some of the neo fascists are getting are all just made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:25 AM
2

Eh. I like watching the boys. Good show. Plenty of "woke" themes and messaging that I enjoy seeing. The latest season features a gay relationship which even my fiance said felt a little..forced. And the boys is one of the better ones. TBH I don't really have a problem with it being in there, but then when you couple that with the general shift a lot of media is having against the male gaze then it's unsurprising to notice the men checking out. If there was plenty of media showing how men can hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:24 AM
1

FUCKING. BASED.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:16 AM
1

This is why most people don't take a lot of LGBTQ folk seriously. So many self serving clowns among our stock. He's right. And I'm bisexual. Most heterosexual men just DONT. FUCKING. CARE. They don't want to see gay relationships plastered over the media they consume every five minutes. And that's not even because many care not to like it. They're just not interested. It seems like so much of the modern media narrative cares little abou5 the actual preferences of normal, well adjusted, cisgenere…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:08 AM
3

Yeah but I tend to find people (both men and women) who think dominance is owed to them are easily dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:27 PM
3

This is true and insightful, but I actually disagree that women dont want to be subservient to men like Tate. I think they do. I think in an age of more equitable gender roles (as well as greater balance in general), people (particularly those who want to behave like oppressive men) often end up falling for those who display their own narrow idea of strength and dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:07 PM
4

It doesnt bode well. I have never heard that the time between a sex crime and its litigation improving the chances of conviction. I mean, hell, many jurisidictions have a statute of limitation precisely because of the negative effects time can have on the soundness of a conviction. I think its more a case of them waiting for Tate to slip than them having anything concrete.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:53 PM
-2

Everyone thinks, deep down, Tate is right. That's the tragedy of it. I always equate it to politics. You go online and see people crying endlessly about people like Trump, here in the UK it's people like Farage and his Reform party. Or Le Pen in France. And yet somehow, consistently, they get massive shares of the public vote. Reform, an anti immigration party highly popular with racists, got 14% of the vote share. Despite their open misogyny and pretty open plans to curtail women's rights, abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:02 PM
5

Jesus, this. This is what pissed me off about the video and its got nothing to do with women at all. Shame to see idiot online misogynistic clowns actually Rob us of the ability to discuss the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:03 AM
–

Again this is the problem with a lot of women on this sub. Fucking idiots who produce the most asinine strawman. I can literally pull out "commitment gap" articles from every major publication out there. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/feb/25/young-men-relationships-study-week-in-patriarchy https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2021/06/pete-davis-dedicated-infinite-browsing/619039/ And yet without fail there is also one idiot on here trying to claim the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:57 PM
–

Well he is leaving you alone. Hence the term "pump and DUMP". I mean...seriously. These replies are amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:48 PM
–

It's true. You should probably heed it too lest you want to spend your whole life single and stuck on PPD arguing with redpillers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:43 PM
–

Loool..I can really tell a lot of you dudes don't even understand what goes into looking good. A lot of the desirable and masculine men you see out there have stylists, personal trainers and plenty others professionals whose job it is to make them look good. The form matters just as much as the function. Your hair, skin, clothing and teeth all contribute majorly to your appearance. The majority of men not focusing on it out of some misplaced sense of "form over function" is exactly why these men…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:38 PM
–

Most “hot” women are often the equivalent of a scrawny nerd or a chubby dude. We just have lower standards for women and even find women’s flaws and quirks hot. Says a guy who probably doesn't get any hot women...hell, probably doesn't get any women at all. Being "hot" is work. The only people who disagree are those who...aren't hot. In no reality are they the equivalent of the average scrawny, unkempt, unattractive dude and the fact you think they are is unsurprising given how arrogant and delu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:25 PM
–

When i go about my day i would say 95% of the time an attractive women is with an attractive man Agreed tbh even though I do think you see an occasional average looking guy with an attractive women, I notice this more than anything. My fiance will happily stand up and say that I stand out more than her physically but she has received an insane amount of mistreatment because of it and its made it abundantly clear to me that non-looksmatched couples are definitely not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:21 PM
–

Lol its funny, the only people who argue that men look better than women are fucking incels. Every fucking time. Can't say I've ever met a dude who actually has success with women who legit thinks men look good. Tbh fact is most men ARE unattractive. And I say that as a man. And a bisexual one too. A few stand out but most have terrible hygiene/physiques/hair/skin. And it's getting fucking worse. You're seeing a few more put a tiny bit more effort into working out and, even then, most remain puf…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:18 PM
–

No they fucking don't. And I say that as someone who is bisexual. Most men look fucking terrible. The women aren't a whole lot better but the men are particularly awful. And it's gotten worse. Fatter, less concerned about good grooming, awful style choices. The only people who parrot this bullshit are ugly as fuck incels and blackpillers. You have a few who can stand out because there are more avenues for male hair loss/skincare, training and grooming but the majority look worse than they ever d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:07 PM
–

Hmmmm, who to believe. A successful vogue columnist or some anonymous loser arguing with incels on reddit. Such a tough one...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:49 PM
–

I mean yeah but you're also 33 and single and posting on Reddit. I actually think you're probably decent looking, but the odds of that aren't exactly in your favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:46 PM
2

Paid professionals are expected to behave, be there and pay attention. So your main focus is on knowing what to do and clearly communicating that to your team and coordinating their efforts. Yes. They behave because they have something to lose. But also because your opps/competitors are of a similar level. Leadership is also about consequence and accountability. In videogames there are none. Yeah decisions are more time sensitive but what happens when you fail? A respawn? You fail to uprank? How…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:51 AM
0

Again. No it can't. And it should be no surprise that in a time when kids and young people are the most socially reclusive and incapable, that videogames have become so popular. Having the confidence to lead a bunch of idiots on a videogame chat is not the same as having confidence to move up the ranks in the professional world or succeed at some creative or sporting endeavour. Trying to paint it as the same is hilariously bad (but unsurprising) judgement. I mean sit there for yourself and ask, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:56 AM
2

Can't say I've led anyone in a videogame but I have led teams in the real world professionally and competed an amateur level. I can't say there is a single thing from my videogame playing days that carried over.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:52 AM
2

Looool If you think leading people around in some WOW raid is the same as leading a team of paid professionals or athletes then I really, really worry for you. They're not the same. Like, at all. For starters, I'm certain there is pretty much zero consequence for losing your online battle, same can't be said in the real world. The fact that people are arguing this on PPD is very on brand and kinda unsurprising sonsidering how many of you struggle so much with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:39 AM
0

"Online" doesn't have to mean a dating app. It's insta, tiktok, Facebook and messenger too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:36 AM
7

Loool there is no fucking benefit to playing the shitty AAA games most people here end up playing. Always amusing reading this pathetic cope about how tapping away on some controller is somehow tantamount to improving hand eye coordination. There are legit ways to do that and they absolutely don't involve sitting at home on a controller and I say that as someone who competes and owns a PS5.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:29 AM
2

Nah. If that was the case daring wouldn't be so dependent on things like race, class and income.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:49 PM
3

You're on Reddit. I don't think you quite realise just how lacking in value this site is when it comes to gaining valuable observations from women. Sorry but you just aren't going to find nuanced, honest opinions on topics on here. For that, you would probably be better off presenting this to a circle of intelligent women in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:11 AM
–

OP constantly moves the goalposts for his arguments. Though, cant say I expected much from an idiot incel who calls himself "francisco lachowski".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:47 AM
–

Then that negates your concept of "normal".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:41 AM
–

You expect maturity from someone who calls themselves a "pink pill woman"??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:23 AM
-2

The opposite. Its often a sign of a womaniser. I mean I feel women on this sub are getting more obtuse. How has this been upvote dso highly? What next? Spending a decade with an ugly, broke man is an achievement???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:21 AM
–

That's diet. A GOOD DIET is work and there is a reason why dieticians are even a thing and sports nutritionists are paid well to ensure athletes and actors perform/look on point. Pretending diet isn't a conscious effort in our sedentary society is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:18 AM
–

U mean like a job? Marriages among financially successful people are significantly more stable so miss me with this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:16 AM
0

You need to be careful with trusting what you read on Reddit. A lot of men have a deep fear of promiscuous women and "reflexive jealousy" that they obsess over. But it's not even the fact that they hate it. Their obsession often has them writing fanfix about their supposed wife who spent her college years getting tag teamed by the football team but now won't even kiss his cheek. Often included are graphic details of the size of the phalluses his wife used to be used to. It's fodder for the insec…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:48 PM
-1

As someone who actually has a partner count over 200 and knows women with very, very high partner counts. There is literally plenty of data showing that there are way more men with that kinda high partner count than there are women. I also know men who have settled with women on that wave, they're far from easy to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:29 PM
-1

You can fuck 200 people up until 25 and then commit to a person and live traditional lifestyle with the accompanying gender roles. You can, how many do though? Thats the beauty of America (and the Anglicized west in general), they have everyone believing they can lead these privileged, hedonistic lives. Not that anyone should be banned from doing so, but which man, other than the 1% can fuck 200 women consequence free by the time he is 25 and then settle? How many women are attractive enough to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:20 PM
5

True, and I kinda notice the opposite here in the west where the women plays "boss babe" whilst being an incompetent fucktard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:11 PM
2

Dude, didnt the supreme court just repeal abortion laws? Nuts that people legit think humans will stop humaning anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:44 AM
7

You did that because you're full of shit. Always blows my mind the number of intellectually dishonest women on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:35 AM
3

I find Farages politics absolutely risible and believe parties like Reform are a gateway to white supremacy. However I can also acknowledge he is a genuinely decent looking and immensely charming guy. It's not that hard to hold those two thoughts at the same time. It really blows my mind how many people struggle with this and then wonder why a guy whom, through Brexit, has already shown his political ideas are laughable and idiotic, still garners immense support.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:37 AM
2

The hell does this have to do with my comment? Who thinks the world is against them? I'm ony saying drones are not as effective as boots on the ground because they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:00 PM
3

LOL amusing posting this after some of your hilariously ill informed posts. Its always amusing that the people who talk the most about intelligence and "sapiosexuality" tend to be utter morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:57 PM
4

Drones will never be as effective as boots on the ground. Libya, Syria proved this defacto and all conflicts happened in the last decade or so. As I keep saying, redpillers seem horribly deluded whereas a lot of "bluepillers"/women on here legit sound like they've never read a book or watched the news in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:51 PM
2

Norway, Sweden and Israel are fascist states? You really are a dimwit. Its apparent from your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:46 PM
–

This topic always amuses me as the bulk of the comments always seem to come from redpillers/incels. For any non white people who cling to those ideologies, these discussions should offer proof of what a pathetic, debased, porn obsessed, useless cretinous sacks of garbage your redpill counterparts are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:09 AM
–

Yep. Agreed. They're so fucking weird and obsessive with it. That and black male sexuality. You wrote this and a dude (who is clearly a porn addicted loser incel/redpiller) already jumped to talking about porn and "BBC myths". Seriously a lot of right leaning white American men strike me as a seriously pathetic bunch. We have our racial issues here in Europe too but there definitely isn't the same obsessive vitriol aimed towards black women that I see from those types.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:07 AM
–

Looool thank you for literally proving that guys point 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:05 AM
–

Lol again as a black person in the UK, its amusing how most of you people really have fuck all understanding of black people despite claiming you work around them. It's unsurprising that many of us are more and more seeking out purely black spaces instead of associating with fucking idiots who write this trash. It's obvious as fuck you are absolutely NOT privy to those women's discussions on race, gender or culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:03 AM
–

Jesus, shut the fuck up. I'm Nigerian myself. I very much see myself as black.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:00 AM
–

Lol what a pathetic thread and of course the little jab at black men. Black women being "unnecessarily hated on" I largely due to the white western world systematic destruction of their image. Last I checked it was largely white owned western media companies who peddled the "ghetto hoochie" single mother of five kids, strong black woman archetype. Its hilarious when adequate white men push this laughable narrative that black women are oh so demonized (especially by pesky black men) as if the las…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:59 AM
–

So not being golddiger is dumb according to you? Yes, Jesus. NOT caring about your partners potential income is a first class ticket to poverty. A partners/husbands earning potential has profound effects on a woman's economic outlook. What does it have to do with attraction? Noone wants low paying low status job, that's normal. It's entirely due to attraction. Certain professions are deemed more attractive than others is this for real? https://www.businessinsider.com/attractive-jobs-people-on-ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:46 AM
–

And men's fame is completely unrelated to how they look? Yes, pretty much. Even in the context of Hollywood. I went to watch Bad Boys 4. A film that's done remarkably well despite the box office malaise this year. And that's a film helmed by two 50 year olds. Show me a female equivalent, hell just show me a mainstream film with two middle aged female leads and I'll agree with whatever rubbish you're spouting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:36 AM
–

True. But I've always noticed this more acutely among middle class western women...who are, surprisingly weak in reality. Its funny because passport bros look yo the global south and easy for partners forgetting that women from those regions are likely to be smarter, more transactional and calculating than most women here could ever hope to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:32 AM
–

Today you can choose minimal wage worker and earn your own money so you are not limited by his income. So in the past women were pressured to look at his income as a very important factor. Today we don't have to, his income doesn't limit our lifestyle today. Men are dropping out of the workforce entirely due to the debasement of wages and low perceived status among blue collar and non college educated workers. https://finance.yahoo.com/news/whether-china-u-gen-z-120000665.html I mean this is lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:29 AM
–

They don't They're doing that in this very thread the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:24 AM
–

And that's like the bottom 20% and rates of teenage pregnancy even among that cohort has fallen off of a cliff in much of the developed world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:21 AM
–

Sorry but the reason a lot of you think this is because of the female reddit folk are kinda losers. My fiances social circle is largely made up successful, educated, middle class women and all of them, amusingly enough, are taken bar one who literally had cancer. It's not so much that women deeply care about men or what they think, but its obvious among many women, being able to attract men of valuable status plays a big role in intragender dynamics. To sit there claiming broke people somehow do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:12 AM
–

Women's fame is largely predicated on them being hot. And plenty of famous actresses have spoken about their near invisibility once they've aged out. Maggie Gyllenhaal being one of its the biggest proponents. And she's kinda right. I've seen her brother in about half a dozen big budget films in the last 5 years alone whilst the same can't be said for her. Again one of your crappy, disingenuous takes. We all know good and well status doesn't apply the same for women as it does for men. Actresses …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:04 AM
–

Just lol at this pathetic shit. And you redpill fruitloops wonder why you can't get laid. Attributing it to some evil conspiracy by women when, in reality, a lot of you are just unremarkable lames. A house is fucking freedom, hence why the rich have seen their wealth explode on recent times whilst everyone else drowns in debt and inflation precisely because of the property and assets they own. I swear this is why women are running ahead of men, too many see swallowing dumbass Tyler Durdenesque b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:00 AM
–

Oh god no. I went from a Honda Civic to a BMW 8 series and I sure as fuck ain't going back. Just lol when you're cruising in heated seats and practically floating whilst driving 100mph on the highway, you sure as shit won't be rushing back to a civic anytime soon either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:57 AM
–

No the fuck they can't. Do any of you clowns even go to clubs? Any half decent one with a decent table service (and the beautiful women who follow) caters heavily to high status men/men with money/fame. It's unreal how some people talk about clubs on here. A lot of you make it clear you have no social lives. And yes, I'm talking about mid-upmarket places in hub cities like London, Toronto, NY and Miami...not some dive bar or anime cafe for weebs or redditor losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:52 AM
2

There is nothing telling. And there is plenty of nuance with racism. And I say that whilst being black. You don't have a monopoly on being the recipient of bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:31 PM
1

Honestly, I think a big reason for the seemingly disproportionate amount of Jewish representation in some industries (entertainment, law, medicine, etc.) just comes down to a culturally enforced idea of academic achievement being the best way to survive in a goyim world. And how does this negate my point? This statement doesn't, in any way, challenge the idea that organisations like AIPAC have significant influence in Congress.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:56 AM
1

My ex was fired from her job for her cam model nudes. You have to be insanely fucking stupid to think posting traceable pornographic content doesn't come with risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:32 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:31 PM
1

But this is what's kinda disingenuous. Are we sitting here pretending as if pro Jewish interests don't have significant influence in the corridors of power in America? I feel filthy just saying that but I kinda feel there is nuance in this topic. And it's my issue with this discussion in general. I feel there are legitimate gripes that redpillers have that were worth discussing. But sitting here playing dumb only means these people sink further down the conspiracists rabbit hole. Equally I can a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:32 PM
7

I'm not a "manosphere" type but I kinda feel a lot of the answers are kinda in bad faith. I get people (rightfully) dislike the manosphere but I've dealt with my fair share of masculine women and most were extremely off putting for the same reason feminine man often are. I think the idea is of incongruence. I tend to find a lot of people who try to take on opposite gender roles often end up encompassing the worst aspects of them or straight up formulating some kind of weird gender appropriation …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:24 PM
–

I don't think I have ever heard a women online in anywhere other than some sex focused/sex positive echo chamber claim they have preferences for a large penis. It's not that I don't believe you but I have an acquaintance who has a massive dick. He's actually in his 50s and on the average side looks wise. I literally saw how wild women would go over his penis, the so called "average lovers" too. It made me sometimes wonder where all these women who apparently find a large penis so uncomfortable w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:42 PM
–

Nope. There are plenty of people who are short or overweight (or both) who are insanely successful, which directly contradicts your narrative. This is idiotic. There are plenty of successful short men who are insecure because they're short. And a lot of that insecurity us borne out of the fact society deems it ok to insult them. I was watching people insult the British PM, Rishi Sunak, about his height. And it just came off lame and even lamer how many people looked past it. If there was an equi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:30 PM
–

The whole penis size discourse is fucked up and I think is kinda indicative of the duplicitous nature of male/female discourse. I have a pretty huge penis. 98th percentile in terms of length and pretty large girth. Have I had women comment on its size? Yeah many, obviously. But I've also had the opposite strangely enough. I've had women claim it was "average" and I've had many more assume (before seeing me naked) that because I was very muscular it somehow was a given that I was compensating for…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:20 PM
3

I dunno, I'm 6ft4 and pretty decent looking facially. I'm also jacked as fuck. The latter has helped tremendously. Got laid so much I legit just got...bored of doing it. Really blows my mind that people make out as if its not a big plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:34 PM
–

Hence "almost every metric".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:46 AM
–

Lol people complain about South Koreans but it's citizens perform better than Americans in almost every metric. Live longer, divorce less, weigh less, graduate more...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:29 AM
–

Tbh a lot of comments are gonna disagree but this is what my parents did for me as I became an adult. Interestingly enough, my personal hygiene was shocking in my youth and was actually a source of bullying for me. But by the time I turned 14/15 my parents really started to push the importance of maintaining food hygiene practices. By the time I became an adult, I started ensuring I was investing in good skincare and perfume. Things like plastic surgery are kinda pointless and should not be enco…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:24 AM
2

What made the misc fun and unserious was the tongue in cheek nature of it and the fact that posters kinda had to earn respect with a half decent physique. Even the early PUAHate/incel proponents like "RudyRude" kinda sounded half comical most of the time. It didnt help the case that half the incel memes like "lay down and rot" and "its over boyos" were fucking hilarious. Then, somehow, it just kinda started taking itself seriously and became even more toxic and sinister.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:54 PM
1

Goofy? Nah. I legit think its gotten kinda dangerous. Redpill detatched itself from the PUA community and became enmeshed with the incel community.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:51 PM
1

2020 would probably be correct. "Redpill" used to be so fun when it was Patrice O'neal videos and understanding how to "game" a chick and relationship dynamics. Take a look at this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oW9ySaJO4K4 Its just wonderful. The fun back and forths, the jokes, and that exchange is actually one of the more antagonistic. If you listen to some of the "Black Phillip" show, its wonderful seeing how personable and friendly Patrice is with his female guests. You can tell Patr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:49 PM
4

No. I am a super high SMV man (DM for pics if proof required). Way over 6ft, ridiculously muscular, well endowed, high income. I have a partner count in the 400+ region (used to be in the kink/fetish/swinging scene) and have had just about every freaky sexual experience you can imagine. After a while it got so fucking dull. The appeal was largely based on be being a severe sex addict but, after a while, talking to new women just gets fucking boring. Outside of looks, very few have perspectives w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:30 AM
1

But you literally are a jealous loser. Hence why you’re trying to get ahead of him by saying that. Your post history makes it totally apparent that you have nothing going for yourself beyond you apparent IQ which you could very well bebullshiting about as well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:51 PM
1

I’m in two minds. High status men definitely don’t approach often but they DO approach. Whilst I agree it’s unlikely they’ll do it in the street, a gym/work/college? All day long. Another thing a lot of people don’t understand is that whilst high status men find it easier to get laid, doesn’t mean many are particular effective at it. It’s why me too became such a big thing in the first place. It was a window into how creepy and socially incompetent many high status men can be. The red pillers ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:40 PM
3

This is true tbh Dating apps are actually on the decline in the big way. Honestly, without going all anti America, I think the age of American software/social media dominance is gradually on the decline too. With how TikTok has captured the imagination of gen Z and how more and more women are opting out of using apps altogether, I think it’s a gradual turning away from uptake of American hypocritical and hyper individualistic dating and cultural norms. In the gran scheme of things, America is al…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:26 PM
1

What about “online” though because if that’s higher than 10% then it’s likely you just replace Match Group with Meta.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 06:19 PM
1

Tells me to calm down. Also writes a mountain of text that I sure as shit won't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:43 PM
1

The blonde Stacy banging the QB will most definitely be saying “ewww” to a guy who is in his mid / late 30’s. Isn't this a high-school 90s sitcom meme? Even as a Brit, I wasn't exactly blown away by the WAGs of the NFL/NBA draft picks. And they didn't really seem like "stacies" either. Men just want to date a woman whose hot and relatable. If that's the batista trying to "find herself" does it really matter??? My fiance was a 21 year old with meh grades and no job when I met her, I can guarantee…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:43 PM
3

Lol fuck that I was 28 and had no issue meeting my, at the time, fiance who was 21. When I went back on the market briefly at 33, I dated a 24 year old and was talking to a whole load of 19 and 20 year olds. This is, again, what annoys me about this sub. Women trying shame men from talking to their competition. The number of young women (let alone the most attractive ones with the best options) who would consider dating someone 10+ years their senior is vanishingly small. Is it? Wasn't it said t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:34 PM
1

In a crowd of 5000 women for someone like Chris Brown I would indeed bet that at least 2-5% at minimum wouldn't say no to going back stage with him. And that's a very low estimate. But it's not about being unhinged. You're just a fucking loser. Like most women on this sub. Saying to any real life female friend or even my fiance that Chris Brown (and a bunch of other rappers) have legions of women wanting to sleep with them off strength of their notoriety/fame they would probably Tyy to hammer ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:54 PM
1

Since when are rappers and a serial baby murderer in anyway an equivalent??? Saying rappers have a lot of women wanting to fuck them is no revolutionary statement. As I said before, you're someone who legit uses the term "pink pill" most of the female posters here now are just like they're make equivalent. Shut in losers with no idea of the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:01 PM
2

Looool you legit think rockstars and musicians don't have legions of fans wanting to fuck them? Is this for real? Is this how stupid this subs userbase has become???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:00 PM
-1

Chris Brown (albeit not a rapper) has women lined up queing for his concerts and club appearances. Rappers like DaBaby have a string of "babymamas", hell doesnt DMX have like 15 kids. Pretending that famous rappers are allergic to rappers is the exact kind of shut in bullshit that makes me tire of posting on this sub. Everytime I drive past my local arena I see a string of young girls queing the see the latest noname tiktok rapping sensation, yet let the shut ins on here tell it, women are more …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:51 PM
–

Romance maybe the main motivation for men but children/familial ties are the biggest for women. This laughable nation that women are somehow above dependence on others for their sense of belonging and satisfaction is only peddled by women on this sub. A hive of chronically online losers and femcels. People are 100% right for being concerned about the lack of achievement of key milestones for both genders among gen Zers because its, at best, a sign of a significant cultural and social shift. I di…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:54 PM
3

They can. Whether they do is another matter entirely. As said. I look fucking incredible...but I train like a dog and I've had to significantly up the rigorous of my training to fight the inevitable decline that comes with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:54 PM
13

People in their 30s and 40s actually look better than in their 20s. No the fuck they don't. Please stop saying this coping horseshit. And I say that as a 35 year old who is pretty incredible shape. It's fucking obvious I'm in the twilight years of my physical prime and I'm on the gradual physical decline. My 30 year old self looked better...objectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:53 PM
3

Age gap is merely one gendered inequality. And even then women are catching up. It doesn't speak much for disparities in wealth or education, which I would bet see large gaps among native female - foreign male cohorts. Just like it does the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:42 PM
3

I’m an expat in a very diverse country in the middle east. Local guys have much more regimented gender expectations and this doesn’t appeal to my friends or to me as a western woman. Hmmmm. LOL I'm literally basing every one of my posts on shit you have written in this thread. And you claim I'm triggered, but you're the only one using insults. LOL do you not have an ounce of self awareness?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:18 PM
4

Its a Reddit thing, not neccessarily a woman thing. Plenty of boards where discussion among women is a little more honest. Lipstick Alley/Mumsnet/Tattle are all hives of femcels and trolls but there is plenty more honest discourse about "feminist" matters, be it anything from gender roles to transgenderism. Reddit would have you think that TERFs are raging, older female bigots when, in actuality, there is plenty of discomfort among women about how trans women are being allowed into cis womens sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:13 PM
7

You literally posted this: Local guys have much more regimented gender expectations and this doesn’t appeal to my friends or to me as a western woman. What is hard to understand? And you've replied three times which is very hit dog hollering vibes for me. I dont even need to waste my time stalking your profile to know its pretty obvious you're talking about Dubai/Saudi/Emirates. And yes, sitting there pretending as if women turn their noses up at the weatlhy local men or the fact that said local…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:58 PM
10

LOOOOL in the emirates (where mixed marriages are among there most common), they have seen a rise of in marriages between emirati men and foreign women (they made a big deal about this years ago, fuck knows whats its like now: https://en.ammonnews.net/article/9436). Sitting there making out as if there aren't significant chunks of foreign women dating local men in wealthy middle eastern countries is fucking laughable. Especially considering lopsided attitudes towards gender make it impossible fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:15 PM
13

TBH everything I'm saying has already been said pretty succinctly by u/wtknight but yeah, this study kinda confirms all the "hypergamy" talk. It also really kinda kills the idea this prevailing idea I see in some quarters that western women somehow date with some greater sense of moral fibre than their male counterparts. If anything their desire for lopsided relationships are just as acute as their male counterparts, no matter whatever bullshit women on here like selling you. I actually noticed …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:07 PM
8

LOOOOL that poster is one of most disingenuous, bad faith contributors to this sub. I wouldn't even take her comments seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:53 AM
4

No, you're just full of shit. I'm black and very attuned to Reddits general anti black messaging. I'm not the biggest fan of this sub but its actually been pretty good at keeping open bigotry to a minimum. Most of that was limited to its "purge week" and, even then, there was a lid kept on the most egregious behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:50 AM
2

This is an extremely asinine statement that makes me distrust anyone who says it. There are plenty of people who lie about rape. The FBI states it could be anything from 5 to 8% of accusations. To pretend there isn't some kind of incentive for some is just being full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:20 AM
1

That being said, the powers that be (ie. governments, corporate leaders, etc) don’t particularly see that as a good thing as masculinity as a whole (whether healthy or toxic) does threaten their status quo. Without this defensive backbone, a society is more likely to fall in line, more likely to be co-opted and more likely to be taken over by outside forces. I kinda half disagree with this. But then I also feel there is a kernal of truth to it too. The issue is a lot of this debate gets swallowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:48 AM
1

Meh, I tend to prefer bigger cities. Haven't really struggled anywhere but I definitely felt it was easier to deal with women in big cities as they were more used to men who were mindful about their looks. I'm arrogant as hell. I tend to find big city women tend to take to it better as they're no stranger to successful dudes with egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:31 PM
3

Really men, do y'all just trust random strangers you meet in strange places? I sure the hell do not. Depends on the stranger. I'm not a paranoid weirdo though so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:21 PM
3

Me too. We are truly blessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:30 AM
3

Lol how is walking down the street on your own not intentional??? The only difference with that and drunk driving is that the latter puts you behind a 1 ton vehicle which can do considerable harm to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:43 PM
1

No this makes no sense. By that logic, are drunk drivers absolved from their reckless stupidity because of alcohols ability to increase confidence in poor decisions? You feel more emboldened or that you can do it yourself. You can be taken off the street, sure, but again, alcohol makes you feel invincible. This is entirely the point. It's kinda rich to complain about dangerous men whilst downing alcohol and reaching a state which would make you more vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:49 PM
6

Your example is shit. But TBH I dont think the point is entirely wrong. A better one would be the sheer amount of women you see walking around city centres/clubbing districts alone on Friday and Saturday nights whilst barefoot and heavily inebriated. Often the same women will complain about creeps and predators. Always seemed bizarre to me. My partner admitted doing it in her younger years as well but then would be concerned when alone and our plumber/electrician came through.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:07 PM
–

Lol what society is that? Romania? I dated a Romanian girl, a few actually. Most recent one was one of most image conscious, spoilt, rich daddies girls I ever met. Just LOL at you attributing the very human need for physical attractiveness as some kind of cultural toss up. Hot is hot. Some of you really do try to fool these inexperienced dudes by chatting utter bollox 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:55 AM
–

I'm not in any need of help. Lol this kinda says it all. All you do is sit online arguing (and feeling superior) among incels. My fiance and I are likely infinitely more successful than you are in our social lives and both of us are acutely aware of the power of physical appeal. Despite both of us enjoy large, positive and fruitful social networks, we've still invested thousands in our appearance. Because we are not stupid and don't base our reality on what the bottom 50% of men om reddit say. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:33 AM
–

Exactly. Honestly a lot of the women talking about social skills likely don't have particularly good ones themselves (hence why they're here arguing with incels). A decade ago before I started having real success dating, I delved deep into learning about charisma, good sales technique and "game". And no, I didn't follow stuff like pick up, I read up about persuasion, read a bunch of Dale carnegie books, studied body language, 48 laws of power, the social contract, NLP and a whole load of other s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:25 AM
–

Loool The women who speak the most about charisma are the ones who know the least about it and either don't have a man or a dating one with absolutely negative charisma too. Social skill and charisma is a powerful tool. But it is far from the answer to anyone dating woes. It shouldn't be either. We are both visual creatures, a woman shouldn't have to sleep with an unattractive man no matter how charismatic he is. And it's cool that men realise that now and are putting more effort into their fitn…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:12 AM
–

Of course. But what are social skills? Women claim that they've been proclaiming this to be true, and they're right. Problem is they're only half right...because when you ask them what these "social skills" pertain to, you start to realise they conflate those skills with being agreeable, docile and politically correct. In reality, social skills simply mean the ability to effectively communicate with others in order to build bonds or achieve success. And, in many cases, men with good social skill…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:55 AM
1

find that after 2020 everyone and their third uncle’s monkey either did or was exposed to something gym or exercise related, so now the collective signal to noise ratio (stupid shit people say about training online) is higher. Conversely, the amount of easy to find, great information about training is also much higher than 10 years ago, so it’s not all bad. Loool so fucking true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:04 PM
12

Tbh there is actually a decent bit of data to support OPs claim. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12144-023-05451-x#:~:text=Paralleling%20previous%20research%2C%20higher%20pathological,did%20not%20moderate%20this%20relationship. Paralleling previous research, higher pathological narcissistic grandiosity was found to be statistically significantly related to greater involvement in feminist activism. Unexpectedly, gender did not moderate this relationship. Also, higher pathological narci…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:30 PM
8

I don't get why earing delicious food is synonymous with being sedentary and not taking physical activity or your health seriously. It's replies like that which give away the fat losers on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:44 PM
16

My fiance goes to the gym 3 days a week. She is the furthest thing from a gym bunny. I seriously don't know why anyone takes most women's responses on here seriously. This sub is full of absolute buffoons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:43 PM
1

Honey, listen. I'm online far too much because I stupidly accepted a promotion which forces me to travel 3/4 of the year, and I'm trapped in hotel rooms or waiting for my turn to speak and I have nothing else to do in a city I'm unfamiliar with. I'm not your honey and I really don't give a shit about any of what you just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:09 PM
7

Maybe. Maybe not. I'm not a lonely young man. I've dated a lot of women and I'm now getting married. I've been able to enjoy success because I've never been stupid enough to pretend things are that random. MOST of my exes like fitness, charisma and confidence just like most people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:58 PM
3

I don't really care for hearing about the intricacies of anyone's preferences on here tbh. All I care to show is that being fit and muscular is a significant benefit in the physical outlook and appeal of both genders. Some anonymous posters (half of whoms contributions I think are junk) musings on the opposite sex aren't all that relevant to me either way. Except for the bit about "visibly not on steroids" considering how difficult it is to actually determine who is on and who is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:50 PM
5

I like very muscular men, so long as they aren't on gear. A typically shit non statement from the typical PPD clueless poster. "As long as they're not on gear" which means what? How do you even determine that. I see people point to guys like Chris Evans as an example of guys who "aren't on gear" whilst he probably was/is. Women aren't lying about having different tastes and preferences. This place is anonymous, it's not like women are being graded or judged, there is no reason to lie. Most of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:37 PM
7

Yes tbh. I think all people are. I don't think people are that unique and I feel products are able to sold to large swathes of people for a reason. Women and men are no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:29 PM
2

Loooool I love how you put "non MD" in your previous response. As it was clear you're not a educated medical professional. Not one of the studies you posted linked your erroneous suggestion that muscle mass is somehow linked to ease of concussion. What does "flexing real hard" have to do with muscle mass either. Do you even know hoe muscular hypertrophy even works? This some of the most non scientific kook I've seen posted on here and I've seen a lot of it. 🤣 Lol your spouting off scientific con…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:12 PM
5

Do they make up incels? Bodybuilders aren't desirable because they're mostly short and don't actually look all that great anyway. However I do see women raving about guys like Cavill and Michael B Jordan or NFL/NBA players. All of whom have muscular builds. The problem with this debate is that a lot of men are delusional. If you're 5ft9, 20% bodyfat and have some muscles you're not going to be setting the world on fire. When people are talking about muscular they mean lean with visible abs or ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:04 PM
10

It's extreme but I dunno. I'm very muscular, tbh I actually feel I'm at the point I'm too big. I'm often kinda taken aback at ths sheer amount of objectification I experience and, in many cases, the women doing so are the kind people here claim shouldn't at all have a remote interest in the way I look. I'm not here to convince anyone of how juch muscle is attractive to whom but I definitely understand men being jaded by perceived double speak. Same way women dislike it when men claim they "prefe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:00 PM
1

😰
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:21 PM
1

Lol this is so true. I've become a lot more "neutered" since moving in with my fiance 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:54 AM
6

Tbh those are fair points
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:49 PM
2

Lol this. Its so fucking weird. My fiance is a Chris Hemsworth fan. It wouldn't offend me because Chris Hemsworth is a decent looking dude. And I don't look anything like Hemsworth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:19 PM
4

I date interracially too. I don't think I've ever felt this way. I think its time to admit that a lot of black women who date interracial have self esteem issues and waste too much time trying to compete with white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:54 AM
15

My celebrity crush (at least one of) is Halle Bailey. My fiance is a white woman. Sydney Sweeney is stunning. With massive fucking tits. Getting annoyed at her being s celebrity crush would be like getting annoyed at someone liking Jason Momoa or Henry Cavill. I legit worry for a lot of young Black women's self esteem. Many seem to have real issues with it. I say that because of this... As a black woman, I think the dating scene would be better if men just date their type of woman and stop settl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:59 AM
3

Lol you legit trying to convince me you put on 20lbs of pure muscle in a few months. Lol show some pics (hell, I'll even show some of my own to make it fair). So many of you dudes are completely full of shit. I'm willing to bet cash you didn't put on no damn 20lbs of muscle and you're probably not standing out physically either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:48 AM
4

Yeah I grew up pretty working class as well. I mean blue-collar dudes definitely have their faults but there was something just...risible about the tech nerd types I encountered. I often struggled with the passive aggression and underhanded vindictiveness. And tbh it'd replicated on here too. You'll have a guy in one breath say how lonely he is and how desperate he is to find love only, in the next breath, proclaim all women north of 135lbs as subhuman trash. So many gave off this "nice guy" ene…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:46 PM
6

I disagree. There is definitely a crisis. But "incel" is a catch all term for a number of different phenomenon happening all at once. It's undeniable that men are earning less, graduating less, dropping out of the workforce, having less sex and all manner of other things. Problem is a lot of that is grouped into the singular "incel" term.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:39 PM
16

Gotta agree. I'm currently in the tech field, been in it for five years and I'm currently titled as a senior and have had leadership roles too both as a team lead and, as of now, a community lead at my current workplace. However, I've also worked at Amazon warehouses, sales and in a factory. Whilst my current workplace is pretty good with decent, socially calibrated individuals, I definitely can't deny that the negative stereotype of socially defunct tech nerds largely rings true. Whilst I didn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:31 PM
–

Probably not. But that was a different time. I feel women adhered to more cultural and social expectations back then. Now though? Nah. It's like paying for a first date. I actually like the idea of paying for a meal with someone I'm courting. However, more often than not, it's actually seen almost as a weakness of sorts by women who often just abuse that good will. My brother had a kid with a single mother, whilst we are glad for our nephew it is DEFINITELY not something he would encourage. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:17 AM
–

Yes, there are dozens and dozens of things that can negatively affect your dating opportunities. Yet men of all shapes and sizes and socioeconomic status still get dates. Plenty of uneducated people have jobs too. Doesn't mean college doesn't have a significant impact on your earning potential. Loooool another red piller trying to motte and bailey their way out of a bullshit argument 🤣 Again, the musings of a fool. Assuming anyone who doesn't buy into nonsensical rhetoric is redpiller. My post h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:39 PM
–

There is always one clown. And yet poor, short, weak, or low status men get dates every single day. We have studies for how much poverty, height and body frame negatively effect many mens dating opportunities... https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/business-40894089.amp https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/miriamfauzia/height-dating-apps Neither gender is "wired" one way or another. Looool you've heard it here on Reddit first ladies and gentlemen. Sexual dimorphism apparently doesn't ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:03 PM
–

That's the point. It's like Trump. His very existence is a giant fuck you to the American political establishment by those who (rightly or wrongly) feel annoyed at the lack of any focus from those in said establishment. It's essentially a protest vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:55 PM
–

What kind of comment is this? The American South consists of about 120 million people. That leaves out the other 200 million in America. Is it really silly to assume that many of these (and even more when discounting America altogether) grew up in places where mainstream liberal attitudes were abundant?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:52 PM
1

I wouldn't say hate. But it's kind of a similar experience you face being black. It's often those speaking most resolutely about black pride who'll be the first to stab you in the back. Hell, we all see how BLM basically became a grifters paradise. And that's despite having plenty of great experiences with other black people and preferring environments with a healthy amount of other black people too. I notice it with my fiance. She's a girls girl and has a lot of positive relationships with othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:04 PM
-1

This is all well and good but you've made a variation of this discussion before and it's starting to come off as if you're either in the closet, confused about your mate choices or not as secure in your masculinity as you want ot think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:59 PM
1

Not because I can't get them, but because I don't want them. Once they reveal how childish and careless they are, I get turned off. Yeah sure thing. Surprise, surprise people who just turned adults lack maturity. Why does this even need to be said? As said, I don't trust any dude sitting there telling me how much he totally doesn't desire hot/young/thin/popular women. The disingenuous from female PPD users is annoying enough as is, from men on here it's just tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:51 PM
-1

I think context is important and your posts kinda show that you're not really "normal". Without seeming rude you're on the very left of the political spectrum and may not exactly come off as "masculine representing".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:40 PM
2

Tinder which is used by 70% of regular app users. https://www.businessofapps.com/news/tinder-retains-highest-market-share-in-dating-apps-reaching-72-of-maus/ Can some of you just admit when you're wrong. So many women on PPD seem committed to being full of crap are arguing unnecessarily and makes most of you look stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:30 PM
2

Lol actually there is a decent bit of data on this: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna94163 The Chads also tend to be in relationships. OP is actually kinda correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:27 PM
2

I met my fiance when she was 21 and I was 28 and she remains still the most enjoyable conversationalist I know. But I also dated a 28 year old when I was 23 and, more recently, a 45 year old when I was in my late twenties and we had plenty to talk about. I would bet cash that you would never ask why those women talked to me but you'll be all morally outraged at me courting my fiance. If you don't have any gripe with age gap relationships why is this even a topic for discussion? Honestly, I'm jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:15 PM
-1

I actually think single women are lonelier than ever. I believe that only because of how much women try to convince us they're _not_lonely. I also don't believe there as many lonely men as purported. Yeah, there are incels...but this is largely a <30 problem. Male loneliness probably isn't intrinsically linked to romantic success.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:16 PM
–

The point still stands. There is no honour in accepting loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:55 PM
–

Tbh from the very fact you even made this discussion, I get rhe impression you're not really "happy" with your loneliness at all. There is nothing at all wrong with NOT accepting loneliness, for either gender. The only issue is when men are hurting emotionally they tend to turn that anger towards others whereas women turn it inwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:13 PM
2

Who on earth said I wanted to be a fuckboy? I'm engaged. Again, avoiding the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:52 PM
2

Being promiscuous AND selling images of themselves. Two separate actions. When did I imply that selling images of oneself made one promiscuous? And, unsurprisingly, you've avoided answering the question. As expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:34 PM
4

And many women want to be promiscuous and sell images of their bodies in Onlyfans. So we have a right to belittle them yes? Lol watch this poster now disappear once this question is asked....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:10 PM
–

Yes. That's patriarchy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:50 PM
1

I mean yeah u can't force incels to not be bitter. But bitterness isn't something I would wish on anyone. Its a pretty soul sucking and debilitating state of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:49 PM
3

"You're seen as nothing more than a whore, just easy pussy" "These men have their own lives, you are not invluded" I do wonder how well those statements would go down. For me, I tend to find a lot of women want to cry about objectification and "slut shaming" whilst slut shaming, body shaming and objecifying men. It's interesting to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:47 PM
–

This is what I mean by being full of shit. PPD women will sit there questioning the validity of fucking Pew research data to argue their dumbass points. And then when all else fails many just resort to lying and chatting complete nonsensical garbage. The link I sent literally has the questions pollsters asked. Men are especially likely to place a greater emphasis on their role as financial providers. While a nearly equal share of men and women say a man needs to be able to provide for his family…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:43 PM
–

Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:38 PM
0

Tough shit honestly. I meant physique and face. You can't force women to have sex with undesirable men and income parity means women don't need to do so for survival either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:38 PM
0

Heights and face can be improved upon. Hence why I say the bottom 50%. The bottom 50% are less than 5ft9. However for anyone above this they can work to improve. For most of history a good chunk of men didn't pass on their genes so its nothing out of the ordinary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:24 PM
–

PPD women are notoriously full of shit so I've linked the data on Americans expecting men to be providers (from Pew btw) just in case anyone wants to chat utter shite. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2017/09/20/americans-see-men-as-the-financial-providers-even-as-womens-contributions-grow/#:~:text=But%20in%20most%20couples%2C%20men,a%20good%20husband%20or%20partner. But in most couples, men contribute more of the income, and this aligns with the fact that Americans place a higher value o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:17 PM
1

If you have the attributes that they're looking for then it's easier than ever. Problem incels have is that they're the bottom 50% and thus get absolutely no attention period. For the top 10% or so, sex has never been easier. It's finding worthwhile, committed relationships with attractive women that's the difficulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:14 PM
6

Tbh I've had this happen twice as well but both times it was with women whom I smashed literally the day I met them. Its hardly something one can complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:09 PM
1

It's been like this for a few years now. If anything I think the pandemic actually slowed things down a bit. A few years ago I was big on the NSA scene and went to a sex parties and I would literally end up having sex with multiple 8/10 women in the same night. There was little intimacy involved and I actually found many would enjoy the sex even more if it was more degrading. I don't really mind either way. I honestly think a lot of women see me (and men who look like me) as sexual objects. I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:02 PM
4

Yeah the idea that men don't care about women's work is a nonsense out forth by idiot redpillers. Though I'm kinda shocked someone would look down on postal workers. Didn't one on the big labour unions in America just secure a big salary rise for postal workers too???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:47 AM
1

They do tend to drastically overestimate exactly how handy they are… Which means they're likely not handy at all. There are plenty of manual jobs involving plumbing and wiring where guys who think they're handy definitely shouldn't be getting involved in and end up wrecking shit even worse than someone with no experience who would have wisely left it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:42 AM
1

Lol this is rubbish. I've been in tech for 7 years. The stereotype that this field is full of shut in dorks with no lives is largely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:41 AM
1

Lol no it isn't. Being a PT isn't remotely like being a coder. And I am a coder. Some of you dudes just chat utter shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:40 AM
2

Eh. By this logic Harvey Weinstein must have clearly had something considering he smashed half of Hollywood's nineties and naughties starlets. Except turns out he was just an abusive rapist who leveraged his producer power and the casting couch for his own benefit. You people need to stop using fucking actors as a barometer of anything. It's embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:18 PM
1

Has "female gaze" porn ever done well??? I think I can remember people saying most studios which catered to it kinda folded. I think I can speak with some experience here as back in the day I used to be bull for a swinger couples. I legit think the things looked for in standard porn are the same thing women are looking for. Sites like "Tushy" , "Blacked" and "Brazzers" all likely have significant female followings too. Please don't buy into this "women like sensual, thoughtful love making in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 05:24 PM
1

Sorry but this conversation is like watching two dudes who showed up to their first boxercise class argue about switching stances. Money helps. But a lot of you are just so devoid of attractive qualities that it barely carries you over the line anyway. If you're even using sugaring sites in the first place, you're probably not particularly attractive to the opposite sex in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:21 PM
3

You're right. And I think a few studies kinda prove it too. Decline of hypergamy: https://www.niussp.org/gender-issues/hypergamy-on-the-decline-in-europe-le-recul-de-lhypergamie-en-europe/ Rise in sugar dating: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/in-the-name-of-love/202006/why-sugar-daddy-relationships-are-on-the-rise%3famp However, as one poster rightly put it already I've noticed a lot of "babies" aren't really into the whole reciprocal part anymore. The sugaring pheno…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:28 AM
–

Looool My sister in Christz you're literally repeating verbatim the MGTOW/incel origin story, complete with being referred to as a "great catch" and the "awwww sorry but I see you as a sibling" starter pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:10 PM
–

Jesus christ this post is a mess. Why do so many women here complain about redpillers and incels when many of you exhibit the same toxic, weirdo autistic traits. When I was around 18, I had my first love. It was a pretty Christian conservative guy who was pretty friendly and nice. Yet after a few months of dating, he got sick of me. I had later seen that he got with a super liberal girl later on who had short hair. But then, in my 20s, after I had been friend-zoned by multiple guys for more feis…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:03 PM
7

Looool as if non submissive women don't get cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:55 PM
2

I simp my fiance. Want to retire her in the next two years. And I probably will 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:51 PM
3

A big, hairy, muscular, powerlifter type with a beard and tattoos. Knows boxing and other martial arts. BUT turns into a blubbering mess when he sees a cute baby, dog or cat. Regularly cries at films and shows, and has a naturally nurturing personality. This is literally me. To a tee. I'm 6ft4, 290lbs lean and a kickboxer. 7 K1 fights (and 1 MMA) and soon to be 9 at the end of the month. And my Instagram feed is literally chock full of cute baby and animal videos. I also do most of the cleaning …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:49 PM
2

Yeah this is a really good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:39 PM
2

B.a.s.e.d
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:38 PM
1

And yet here you are, attributing your shitty ex boyfriend to something common among black men. You "black men are blah blah" types online are always amusing to me. Its as if you're lacking in self awareness, you dont realise you're chock full of the same self hate and poor self esteem issues as the black men you love to criticise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:05 AM
1

I will yell at whoever deserves to be yelled at. You'd be surprised at how non-confrontational most people are There is always one. You're stupid as fuck and likely middle class and sheltered. Your luck will run out. As it does for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:31 AM
9

Looool this is such a loser mentality. But then I looked at some of the subreddits you post in. I genuinely pity you. It's like one of those incels/redpillers who complains about women and dating without an ounce of self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:58 AM
1

None of these people are people on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:11 PM
1

I'm black myself. Not American.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:36 PM
0

I'm reciting what black Americans say themselves. I'll take their word before the sheltered fuckheads on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:36 PM
1

And he just won the nomination with pretty much no other republican candidate coming close. Are u serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:35 PM
1

getting 30+ emails EVERY DAY from men Some of u people need to use discernment. I do wonder why a woman in a relationship is getting 30+ emails a day from random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:34 PM
1

And he also had 70m. Sorry but this juvenile and kinda...unintelligent. I can happily acknowledge both that Trump is a racist buffoon AND he's also incredibly popular at the same time. Its not hard...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:27 PM
-1

Being on Reddit and its scummy, white centric audience who hide behind echo chambers and double speak. Even my initial post seems to have a peculiar number of downvotes. Even in the real world I have, ironically enough, had my best experiences (at work at least) with old white men and women. I've experienced immense shittiness from other people of colour. And yet, I train at an amazing gym full of south asians and muslims with many people I call friends. You have to be careful about attributing …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 04:08 PM
1

Biden is trailing because of his stance on Israel, not because Trump is politically competent. He is without question an incompetent bigot. BUT a lot of people dont think that. And he could very well end up winning in November, not matter what reason people have for not voting in Biden. Either way, he isnt nearly as unpopular as reddit would have one think. One doesn't get 70m+ votes being unpopular.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:39 PM
0

pro baby murder, I find it rich that other female posters wont touch this. I just feel if it was an incel/redpiller saying this it would be treated with a lot more ire.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:32 PM
1

I assumed most Russians are violently homophobic and racist I dont think the "violently" term is warranted but I would take that poster with a massive pinch of salt. Reddit has become a place full of simply too much virtue signalling bullshit that its hard to garner any kind of legitimate analysis on anything. I also find it rather...interesting they're claiming Russians have a passive acceptance of the war. I cant speak for someone who actually lives in Russia but I'm also of the belief that Pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:30 PM
-5

I prefer liberal women. You may be in for disappointment. I mean, I'm not in America and whilst the American right seems to have devolved into outright bigoted degeneracy and grifting, I dont hear many wonderful things about left leaning cities like LA, San Francisco or NY either. I tend to find left leaning white people have a whole host of anti black baggage as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:17 PM
1

You, apparently Erm... That means working on looks and your success ​ Who is complaining about attractive women? LOL you. As I have said previously I specifically remember your username above a post decrying how men seek out attractive women and how terrible that was because attractive women were/are somehow morally lesser people. Not sure I can be bothered to find the actual post. Sorry but you're just as unsuccessful as the male incels on here, or at least thats how it comes off in your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:29 PM
-3

If you're using subreddits to make generlisations on large swathes of the population then you're an idiot. There are subreddits dedicated to cuckolds too, does that mean a large amounts of men want to watch someone fuck their wife? Incels are, at best, 30% of the population of <30 year old men. AT BEST. Reddit has brainwashed its female users into overestimating their ability to get laid. If you think there are a bunch of attractive men clamoring for overweight, unattractive, video game playing …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 03:01 PM
1

Maybe you should try again: “ can make enough money to attract a shallow, attractive woman”. Get it? She’s shallow because she is willing to settle for a man she isn’t attracted to because money is more important to her than compatibility. Which men are actually trying to do this shit here? Redpillers literally call that "beta bucks". This is about power, and in a sexual marketplace, its largely superficial things that make you more powerful than others. Again, I'm engaging with someone crying a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:57 PM
0

When did I say that looks do not matter? I never said you did. However, again, I feel this isnt about womens attraction to men at all. Its about mens wider appeal. Again, what you dont understand about redpill/incel/blackpill. It isnt about you. Men aren't trying to gain the affection of women, they're trying to be the ideal man. Why? Because its seen as more sure footing than being loved by a woman. Why do you think there is so much talk about women initiating divorce? And for that matter, most…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:55 PM
1

Both men and women are worth far more than their sexual desirability. Life is far more complex than coomers will ever understand. And yet here you are, arguing desirability politics with incels...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:47 PM
2

It’s why conventionally attractive men can and do get rejected, and why women can show some medium ugly man she’s dating to her friends and they just don’t see what she sees. Again, this is like the job market. I'm certain my years of experience, multiple degrees and accreditations get turned down by prospective employers...but my chances are still an order of magnitude higher than the dude with a random bootcamp and a non-relevant degree in a social science. Men dont want to be the medium ugly …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:54 PM
-2

they wouldn't date me, either. This is key. I dont want to hear the opinion of 5ft6 broke dudes on how they feel about Onlyfans models either. Reddit (and online in general) has fooled ugly, socially low ranked women into thinking their opinion matters on anything. You're a little behind the incels (who've learned this emphatically in the last few years) but you guys will catch up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:47 PM
-2

​ She “likes his vibe” better than the other muscular but lean, above six feet guys with a great face. Every conventionally attractive man isn’t appealing. Most aren’t. Chemistry, rapport, and things in common are the deciding factors. Chemistry, rapport and things in common all vary wildly from one person to another. And thats the point. Even if you do have requisite chemistry with someone, you still have the risk of that person just falling out of interest. Men want to be attractive to a wider…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:45 PM
-2

Meh. This is like saying a candidate with no qualifications and a degree in womans studies can be a better employee in a big tech company than someone with a masters in computer science, a 3.9 GPA and 3 years experience at Google. Its technically true but largely unrealistic. This may be the issue some have, I think a lot of young, inexperienced men are clamoring to be told that, yes, looks, status and wealth are big drivers of sexual success. They may be misguided in believing they're the only …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 01:24 PM
1

You’re the sexist assuming it’s because he’s male and not because in his 1k posts he has 0 related to parenting, child development, home making, household management, or anything related to SAHD skills or interests. If there’s “few things they’ve wanted more” then why do they never seem to show interest? They show interest in Elon Musk’s jet habits. I have barely any posts on this account pertaining to kickboxing/MMA and yet I've had 7+ fights. Are you stupid enough to believe the entirety of on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:10 PM
-2

Marrying under the age of 25 is one of the biggest predictors of divorce , and one of the biggest reasons the Mormon divorce rate is so high, despite all the other facts that would seem to suggest they would have low divorce rates. I’m not saying that men earning more doesn’t have an influence, but it’s probably not as simple as that. A lot of other things in the mix when looking at typical high earners. No it doesnt. And just LOL if you're trying to attribute the gap in marital stability to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 12:04 PM
1

Interesting debate topic, but it will be lost on a lot of the women and bluepillers because arguing against modern sociosexual dogma is seen as a massive nono here. I also find it interesting you mention the following: There is just individuals deconstructed to their kinks, peculiar tastes, and beliefs (pills) who match up with equally peculiar tastes and kinks in a non-holistic manner based on if the dynamic of those peculiar aspects happen to match. They could be people who despise each other,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:54 AM
6

It’s nonsense that women don’t care about provisioning there standards have literally only gone up with their own income. I am thinking that whilst there are more irritating blackpillers/incels on this sub there are also more women who seem severly divorced from reality. I get not believing the incessant talk of Chad and height but to now somehow imply women dont care about income and education is just insulting our intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:20 AM
2

By what women, on social media? Again. More delusional nonsense. Men still perceived as financial providers (data from Pew): https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2017/09/20/americans-see-men-as-the-financial-providers-even-as-womens-contributions-grow/ Women caring more about earning capacity than perceived wallet size: https://www.westernsydney.edu.au/newscentre/news_centre/story_archive/2012/its_not_about_the_money_research_reveals_women_are_more_interested_in_a_mans_earning_capacity_than_t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:18 AM
2

Men aren't really needed for financial stability and financial security nowadays Again, some of you just chat utter garbage. Jesus. But then I'm not surprised someone with a "Pink Pill Woman" moniker is spouting delusional, unintelligent nonsense. Married men and women wealthier: https://read.dukeupress.edu/demography/article/59/2/461/294245/Are-Married-Women-Really-Wealthier-Than-Unmarried The influence of men in black intergenerational poverty: https://www.brookings.edu/articles/the-inheritanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:12 AM
4

B.A.S.E.D.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:04 AM
9

I earn exactly twice as much as my bf does. You are not the norm. Money is a problem if a woman doesnt earn enough to feel financially secure or you have nothing else to offer (emotional security and good sex for example). Just complete bullshit. https://ifstudies.org/blog/better-educated-women-still-prefer-higher-earning-husbands https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/jomf.12372 Honestly, I have no idea why female redditors spout this garbage. And its interesting considering both the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:12 AM
5

Very insightful post. traditional cultural/biological norms regarding mate selection are actually even reinforced nowadays How do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:08 AM
4

There is a positive correlation with the amount a man earns and relationship/marital stability. To pretend money doesnt have a massive influence on love is just asinine. https://read.dukeupress.edu/demography/article/60/1/147/342803/Wealth-and-Divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:07 AM
2

I do accept the increasing economic and cultural power of women but I don't see how this negates from the value of hard physical labour. Especially now considering inflation and a decrease value of degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:43 PM
2

As technology constantly improves, brute strength is less and less in demand as well. Brute strength has never been the human primates forte and claiming male physicality is not needed anymore is incredibly asinine. You just need to go to any building site/factory/warehouse to see that reasonable male physical competence is still the backbone of many critical jobs. Warehouse workers, plumbers, bricklayers and roofers are all super in demand right now. I kinda feel these brain dead takes are from…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:35 PM
4

abusive and toxic behavior has been normalized Has it? I see that shit being spoken about negatively every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:33 AM
2

Wasn't that the point? I dunno I feel some of u are arguing just for the sake of arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:38 PM
5

and a lot more Black Pillers and FDS types. So true. A huge chunk of incels and women who...I don't even know if I would call them "FDS types". They're just fucking weird. They claim to be "bluepilled" but they seem like something else. I call them femcels tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:01 PM
1

Lol yeah that's perfectly fair
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:18 PM
2

Bingo. I think this is the problem a lot of women and undeserved minority groups have right now where so much of mainstream media caters to what they want to hear. Reality often isn't that clear cut. I can guarantee, if my brothers or male friends was getting physically attacked by a female partner neither myself or the women in my life would be all that sympathetic of her complaining about him physically defending himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:53 PM
2

I actually disagree with people saying that people have a hive mind checklist of what makes them happy. I think for the vast bulk of people, a family, loving partner, kids, a stable roof over their head and friends would make them very happy. I actually think society fools us into thinking those are things we don't want and that some arbitrary idea of "dreams" and " passions" are what we truly chasing after. We are fixated on the lives of the rich and famous whilst forgetting the restricted, hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:39 PM
14

No the fuck it isnt. Christ, so many of you dudes on here just chat utter shite. https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://iwpr.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/C460_Single-Mothers-Briefing-Paper-8.21.17-final.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwjOqsyBgpyFAxWGXEEAHZ0DCr4QFnoECA8QAw&usg=AOvVaw0goZHm71OiQhXckRxkySx8 Single mothers have low rates of college degree attainment: as of 2015, just 31 percent of single mothers ages 25 and older held a bachelor's degree or higher, compared with 5…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:48 PM
1

Who said there's no wealthy people on reddit?? There really arent. Even when I visit forums like cscareerquestions (tech is one of the salaried positions paying well these days, even despite the tepid market). I'm always rather unimpressed by how modest a lot of the salaries are. I really just dont think Reddit is a site which caters to high earning people. Two things which are very important to my life are fitness and tech. For the former, Instagram has been far more useful in connecting me wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:43 PM
0

Because you're probably not good looking. Its really not that complex. If you've made it to fucking 24 and still cant find even a mid girl to fuck you its probably simply because you aren't that appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:37 PM
0

So, how come women believe only broke guys use Reddit? Because they're not. And its an easily Googled fact. https://www.cnbc.com/2019/02/11/reddit-users-are-the-least-valuable-of-any-social-network.html https://www.statista.com/statistics/611232/instagram-users-in-the-united-kingdom-uk-by-household-income/ The latter post mentions 25% of users earning 75k or more, but there is similar data for Instgram which shows this number at around 52%. I've seen women say this but most rich guys around me t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 12:32 PM
1

It's not bragging, you asked you dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:16 PM
-3

Attraction is subjective Uh huh 🙄 I swear most of the women in this sub say the same shit. We all know some are more attractive than others but do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:47 PM
1

And yet the weird thing is many will also argue to the death about how we can't judge people for their partner count. Interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:30 PM
2

I have no idea how they appear to other women but I know that other women find my husband attractive. Yes you do. Sorry to go all "redpill" but please, please stop selling men this horseshit that you're not acutely aware of how your man is perceived by other women. It may not sully your attraction towards him but let's not completely bullshit ourselves here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:29 PM
1

Yes, my clarification of reward was to clarify that just because there is payment doesn't mean the payment is the only reason the service is being offered. The teachers are barely getting paid to do what they do and could get paid more to do something else. The teachers are required to do some job that gets them payment or they won't survive. Knowing that, they choose to do teaching, despite it barely passing that qualification, because they want to teach. In other words, they are choosing to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:19 PM
1

"Reward" was never my argument and you know it. My argument was a paid service is not the same as a community. That's it. You went into a random nonsensical tangent about capitalism and I said capitalism is not the reason good and services are rising. I also challenge you to find, anywhere in the world, where people without any familial/social connection to you are going to raise your children for free. You: Nobody would be willing to help with childcare if they weren't rewarded. Why do you keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:53 PM
1

And there is a good chance u have very little to show for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:58 PM
3

You don't get to pick and choose what parts of other people's input you like. This is the fundamental thing bluepillers don't understand. Life is never that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:22 PM
1

That's more of a capitalism problem. That's what happens when private corporations can rule over things we need. (And before you get on me for this: I am not saying capitalism is inherently bad or that unguarded socialism will cure everything. Just that there are some bad extents, and this is one of them). Not everything is the fault of capitalism. Most daycares are independent. The cost of my barber is going up. Is that capitalism fault too? People charge for services rendered. People also need…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:29 PM
2

One theory that I've been pretty obsessed with is one pertaining to the explosion in sexually motivated murders and serial murders in the United States (though I'm sure the phenomenon is replicated in many western societies) between the 1960s and the 1990s. Whilst many have rightly attributed the decline to the increased coordination among local police forces, the rise in FBI profiling, DNA, increased presence of CCTV and global tracking systems, even reduced presence of lead in household produc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:17 PM
2

And who cares if it's a service? Their wallet. People are struggling to afford these services hence why they're not having kids. Plenty of parents have had kids to add to the labourers on the farm. In the developing world yeah? Not in the west. School teachers are paid abysmally. The pay is just to make sure they can afford living themselves- if they wanted to get rich, they'd go into another profession. What does this have to do with anything? Daycares and nurseries are often run on volunteers …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:53 PM
2

The other option is also a community network, which is actually what we already have in the west and pretend not to: from birth to like 2, the SAHP generally watches the kid with the help of occasional nanny/babysitter/friend, then you've got daycare watches them 8 hours a day, then preschool 8 hours a day, then public school 8 hours a day, sports coaches 1-4 hours a week, youth-group leaders 1-2 hours a week, occasional weekend at grandmas or at the friends' house, etc. Loool what kinda stupid …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:10 PM
1

Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:59 AM
3

Everyone is cool with sharing the burdens. The expectations? Not so much. There are plenty of south Asian and Muslim communities where I live where extended family looms large. No one envies the misogyny, cultural baggage and financial demands many of them have to live by. Especially not the types here who claim they want to date/marry who they want and then also expect to have all the benefits of a traditional extended family unit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:58 AM
2

That's not true. At all. The gap has been closing but its still in favour of men and widening again. And it seems like covid and the current interest rates will exasperate that. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.forbes.com/sites/brendarichardson/2023/03/27/gender-gap-widens-for-young-single-women-looking-to-buy-a-home/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:25 PM
10

It's 28 in America. Its about 35 here in the UK. I think America is skewed heavily by Christian conservatives in the South and religious denominations like Mormons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:57 PM
0

Just about every metric points towards women accelerating past men when it comes to education, employment and financial maturity below 30. HOWEVER, be that as it may, I feel that whilst women still mature faster than men. Many kinda end up stuck in that 20-something mentality where men often spend their 20s in various ruts (be they romantic, educational or financial) and them find themselves in their late 20s and 30s and start to get into gear. Of course this is exasperated by women often fallin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:56 PM
–

Honoring parents and elders (to the point is detrimental) is a big part of the culture in many sub saharanpur African cultures. You're an idiot and you need to stop posting. Everything is from some dumb fuck white centric woke lense whilst making it abundantly clear you've never interacted with anyone who isn't some white bread type in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:41 PM
2

Yes, them meeting other markers of masculinity plays a major role but in general, it has made Asian men of all heights and ability levels more desirable simply because the politics of desirability are constantly changing. No, it's made ATTRACTIVE asian men desirable because that's how attractiveness works. Similarly, if a non-black woman is attracted to me, its largely because I'm actually attractive...not merely that I'm simply black. Plenty of short, fat, unattractive black guys getting no pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:38 PM
4

Looool yes the "rise in women finding asian men attractive" is just a "trend" and nothing to do with the fact that the men in question are tall, talented, young and fit musicians. Even more laughable you equate it to the lack of interest in fatness. Men also don’t care if a woman is in a relationship or else affairs wouldn’t exist Yes because no woman has ever knowingly slept with a taken man... Some of the absolute asinine horseshit you people post never ceases to astound me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:08 PM
1

Honestly. You sound more and more like a triggered fat chick. It's lame. Being fat will never be attractive. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:33 PM
2

The US has a much better societal structure than SK Looool it does? SK female life expectancy: 84 US female life expectancy: 77 SK infant mortality rate: 1.85 US infant mortality rate: 5.6 (jesus) USA wage gap: 82 percent SK wage gap: 65 percent USA poverty rate: 15% SK poverty rate: 2% To suggest USA has a better structured society is laughable. The US is a fucking mess. Just because South Korea has some pretty egregious gender gaps, it doesn't negate that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:30 PM
2

Being of healthy weight is a positive biological marker for both genders. The parameters within "healthy weight" may be wider than what is cited in BMI charts but its there nonetheless. Let's not pretend as if being grossly overweight is attractive...for anyone really.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:05 PM
2

Loool it's crazy isn't it???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:03 PM
2

All this “healthy lifestyle” talk is like a nice way of saying “please don’t be fat” It is. What on earth is the problem with that???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:24 PM
2

You keep speaking about dependence and "mommy's teat". All my male friends earn within the top percentage of income and are successful men in their own right. There are plenty of men who pay their own way. Are you incapable of finding one of these? Because they never seem to come up whenever you speak about men which makes me think you're struggling to find interested suitors who are actually worth a damn. Which would be a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:34 PM
2

No man is interested in ever moving into your home. You just lack the self awareness to realise that and front (like most on here) on bullshit standards you don't even really live by. So many of you clowns try to mask your lack of desirability behind nonsense expectations of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:26 PM
2

I'm competent enough to cook, but my fiance does all of it. As someone said most of you are bums who a terrified of someone holding you accountable in anything. My partner wanted a guy who would be open to paying bills whilst she did most of the "home" duties and I'm fine with that. Same way she likes playing housewife some of the time providing I'm covering the rent. We don't hide from gender roles. May be why I'm capable of having a long term functional relationship whilst most of u are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:21 PM
2

Yes. I clean my house every Saturday. How on earth am I meant to "automate" mopping and Hoovering floors and wiping down bathrooms???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:14 PM
-3

Why would I want to outsource chores that we can do ourselves? Paying for cleaners as a capable adult is not at all a flex. Even more so when it's clear most of you are fucking broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:38 AM
3

I've actually always believed that men have higher standards than people think and women have lower standards than people think. Problem is a find a lot of men delude themselves into think they merely want any attention when, in actuality, there pretty finicky about the things they'll tolerate in a relationship. This exasperates the loneliness men experience when they're unable to court the attention of the women they want. Hypergamy really goes both ways. go the gym regularly (3-4x a week,) eat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:33 AM
1

Would love to know how that works for the independent performers and onlyfans types. Unless they're being trafficked too...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:02 PM
0

Bragging about creating a whole alternate account to rail against porn is...something. You're clearly unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:53 AM
0

Lol are you fucking stupid, there is plenty of data on polyamorous relationships divorce rates https://ca.finance.yahoo.com/news/polyamorous-relationships-really-long-term-103720614.html?guccounter=1#:~:text=Polyamorous%20relationships%20aren't%20historically,has%20a%2092%25%20failure%20rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 08:28 AM
1

I'm no fan of porn. But you're obsessively anti porn to the point of weirdness. Its like all u ever post about. Its fucking weird and reveals either an emotional instability or intimate experience with porn yourself that you're desperately trying to run away from.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 08:21 AM
2

I called him a pushover. I stand by that. I also said it follows the AF/BB situation which I said does not linearly correlate strictly with the "alpha/beta" dichotomy. But then, what do I know. I am unaware of the intricacies of your relationship so my judgement is surface level at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:57 PM
2

all women bad, all men victim Loool that ain't me. My post history alone makes that clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:35 PM
2

LOOOOL Who are you trying to convince? Me or yourself??? How I had my pick of the most handsome, wealthy, high status men and they didn’t mean shit to me because we weren’t compatible? As said, if you say so. If you like it, I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:26 PM
3

You've written a whole lot of stuff that isn't all that relevant. The alpha or beta thing isn't meant to be literal either. End of the day the men who didn't commit to you were of higher looks and status than the one who did. Which wouldn't mean all that much on its own but it seems the main selling point of that guy was his willingness to make himself available to you and that you weren't all that excited about giving him much of chance in the first place. As said, you don't allay their critici…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:48 PM
3

I mean, I always appreciate honesty, but this is very much the AF/BB situation redpill dudes like the talk about. You mention dating several attractive dudes with looks, wealth and status and eventually dating a guy who was "cute enough" and that you would "give a shot to in the evening". He never got angry when I fell asleep early. He never flipped out when I didn’t text for a few hours. He didn’t break down or punish me when I had to call a date off. He took my effort and matched it. Always. D…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:45 PM
0

I'm an INTJ and get easily annoyed (and depleted) by being around other people for extended periods. So I can recognize that I'm a very flawed, out-of-the-ordinary individual who may have a much easier time dealing with being single than the average person might. I sometimes find myself craving something more from life, obviously, but I realize those cravings are more of a fantasy than anything else. Lol I'm an INTJ too and I too struggle with extended periods of socialisation but I've forced my…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:06 PM
-1

I’m not not beautiful, but I’m not unattractive and have no problem attracting men I like. I’m not unhappy with my own ability to date even I stretched out my experiment to be single beyond the three months I planned into a blissful year of no men attempting to control me. Eh. I'm gonna take your word for it but I'm not convinced. People who declare attractive people as somehow unable to be rounded, decent people almost always do so from a point of jealousy. Sure it does. It means women are reli…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:42 PM
2

Respectable post. I think the only thing I will acknowledge is that its definitely a very new thing for women to almost take pride in perpetual singledom. It's new in the mainstream. It was something in black culture in the late 90s and early naughties but that was more centred around financial independence than simply being single and, if anything, things have changed on that front. If a black/urban female singer made a "single lady" anthem these days she would be torn to pieces. In fact I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:33 PM
0

Lol Sorry but you come off as a deeply unhappy person and I'll never forget that "nice girl" post you made complaining about men choosing attractive women and how they're somehow worse partners. Filing the paperwork first doesn't exactly mean a huge amount either. I tend to find women are the first to make grand declarations about their state of mind that are almost never true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:23 PM
0

I've had lesbians tell me different. All in all I don't really care. Its amusing considering you're apparently married to a woman yet seem to be crying that some men are perceiving lesbians wrong lol. Doth protest too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:13 PM
1

You speak of being married like its some great accomplishment which makes me know you're one of those perpetually online types I was talking about. Just lol at the vitriol you're throwing. You can claim to not be a loser incel but you certainly have the behavior of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:58 PM
7

So many of you just come on this forum to chat utter shite. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3439659/#:~:text=At%20the%20age%20of%2034,men%20in%20the%20general%20population. At the age of 34–36, 83% of the women doctors were married or living as if married compared with 71% of women in the general population; and 89% of the men doctors were living with a spouse or partner compared with 68% of men in the general population. And that's married and cohabiting, not to even speak of datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:20 PM
-1

It's a kink which is informed by ones sexuality. Why are you so triggered by this discussion. Why has this sub become full of femcel losers like you who can't engage in adult debate. I though the guys were bad but there is an influx now of female perpetually online weirdos too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:54 PM
0

Yeah tbh. Definitely worth a brief experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:57 PM
-2

Funny you say that. Because I know plenty of gay dudes who've had sex with women. Are they all not gay then? Again I've never felt the need to force an assumed identity. I also know straight dudes who wanted to watch me smash their wife. Are they deffo not straight then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:16 PM
6

But honestly, the 20s women I know who are forgoing relationships for career are doing things like pursuing MDs or PhDs, becoming surgeons, working 60-80+ hr/week jobs, etc. Can you really blame them for not having the bandwidth for serious relationships as well? I kinda feel this bullshit. Honestly the most successful women I've met and known are all attached anyway. My sister is a prominent consultant eye surgeon building hospitals in Africa. If she can find a guy in her early twenties most ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:13 PM
1

Loool your labour laws in America are utter garbage. No state/federal mandated maternity leave and "at will" employment in a ton of states. The salaries in America are nice but you guys very much are financially dependent on your employers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:09 PM
-3

Depends. Everyone will say no. But I remember being the in the kink and swinging scene and there were a sizeable minority of lesbian women who would seek male partners. Was fairly common actually. It's amusing how many on here will claim no but then argue to the death that sexuality exists on a spectrum. Again my issue is so many of women's mainstream beliefs are performative. In truth they're right, "lesbianism" like homosexuality is on a spectrum too....which means there's varying degrees of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:59 PM
1

I know redpillers and incels are complete and utter morons bur sometimes you need to ask yourself about the perspectives of the UMC women who spout their horseshit. Again, I tend to find even wealthier POC tend to be way more self aware of their privilege and behavioural habits...at least online. Sorry but I see too many (often white) women coming on here to claim they don't care for wealth/income/education/even race sometimes. But the data just doesn't support that. At all. It's unnerving readi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:22 PM
3

Out of interest...are you white or a person of colour? I kinda feel this matters. I gotta be honest, white people tend to be hyper dishonest when it comes to discussions of class and dating but will be the first to discriminate ok these grounds. Just calling a spade a spade.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:12 PM
0

The data supports my opinion. That's what I rely on. Not a bunch of dishonest weasels on Reddit. Maybe it's because I come from a modest background and I'm used to full of shit (often white) people telling me how much wealth and status doesn't matter whilst they heavily discriminate against working class people and people of colour for the very things they claim to not care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:08 PM
2

The men who complain about women's "high standards" are fucking losers. The vast majority of men on this sub are redpill or incel losers who don't get laid. Tbh anyone who thinks women have high standards is laughable. Not all men on here think the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:01 PM
0

Thinking caring about a man's income makes one redpill. But then I guess if you're already enough of a pathetic clown to identify yourself as "bluepilled" might as well lean all the way into the delusional nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:58 PM
1

I'm not into redpill. And to be fair to them, its not that people live their lives according to statistics. Its coming online and seeing everyone claiming they're the outlier. Everyone is apparently the one person who doesn't care about looks or income, isn't fat, isn't broke, isn't a paycheck away from poverty. Worse still, the posts are incongruent. We are witness an explosion in the cost of living, more people leaving the workforce due to poor health, rapidly declining life expectancy and sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:54 PM
1

Eh, I'm not a prostitute, I don't want a relationship for money. Money doesn't awake any romantic feelings in me. Why does caring about a man's financial standing make one a prostitute??? Why do you keep using the word "prostitute"???? Most SUCCESSFUL couples ate mindful of each others financial standing. What are u on about? https://getpenfold.com/news/dating-finances Studies have shown that couples who have similar spending habits, savings goals, and attitudes towards money are more likely to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:45 PM
3

Yes. Because if we should ever divorce she should be able to provide herself. AND her being educated and gainfully employed means we operate on the same level. It's INSANE that women on here are literally arguing the same shit redpillers do without an ounce of self awareness. Tbh I've always thought that the female posters here are just as scummy, self serving and selfish as the redpillers they complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:41 PM
1

I do too. I still made sure my partner was educated and successful. Isn't this what redpillers claim? That men don't care about a woman's income. And women on here, in turn, say those men just want a woman they can't control. I honestly don't see how the dynamic is different here. Sounds like you're too shook of a guy who is decent AND can provide and support himself financially. And no, those things aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:35 PM
-2

Maybe we love him for HIM as a person? Maybe we are not golddiging protitutes and we don't want a relationship for money? You can love a man and care about his ability to provide for his family at the same time. You don't believe this because, as stated, you have virtually no self esteem and assume these things are mutually exclusive. It would be like me assuming hot women can't be decent, loving people...except I don't because I was actually raised with a modicum of self worth. As said, the rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:32 PM
1

Becasue we love them and we don't care about money. It's just money, it's OUR money and I don't care who earns them. Again. This is loser talk and is not a flex. The number one reason for marital dissolution IS money issues. Ensuring your partner is solvent and able to command a decent living isn't being shallow, it's actually fucking conducive to a lasting relationship. Plus it fills my heart with joy if I can take care and provide for someone I love for HIM I provide my fiance. I earn easily e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:26 PM
5

How does one have income whilst being unemployed without being a trust fund baby or a drug dealer?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:46 PM
1

Nah. The opposite actually. I've always said dating isn't all that different from the job market. And as someone who was able to progress relatively quickly, I learned early that there are consistent patterns to ensure success. At least I my field. Those being: A strong linkedin profile A succinct CV with relevant keywords Following the STAR technique in interviews Avoiding discussing politics at work Those are just some but they tend to ring true across the board and dating is no different. Pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:25 PM
0

About 20% of men don't want kids according to studies. Since when is 80% not most???? Did you seriously post this? Like...seriously???? My husband doesn't and most of or social circle is child free. Almost all of them are highly educated and career driven, want to travel, etc. Again, they're part of the 20%. WHICH IS NOT MOST MEN. Are you fucking slow?? It's great that you feel this way but there are men who are actually intimidated by women like this. There are men that actually sabotage their …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:19 PM
1

An associate degrees provide legitimate skills. Some who have them even work in trades. Many don't. Most associate degrees offer shit outside of a few specialisms. And we all know this. Hence why the current administration in America is offering student debt relief. And it's especially true for women who often choose low paying majors lacking in skills which can transfer to real world income. Such as? Communication, business, media studies, most arts degrees... How much are nail techs making? My…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:06 PM
1

It doesn't depend. Just like it doesn't for men. I think this is the problem with a lot of women. Because whilst ill admit there's a lot of ain't shit dudes out there, I often find it's often men who truly elevate to become exceptional because the ones who do don't sit there pretending there is subjectivity in truly desirable traits like charisma, wealth, status or good looks. Some men really value intelligence and ambition in a woman, for some men it's actually a turn off. Ambition and intellig…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:51 PM
4

Those stats are all true, but I still find women like u rich. You spend all your time complaining about men and yet you're almost always single, loserish and whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:41 PM
4

No. And I'm a big advocate for education. But I'll take a woman with a legitimate skill or trade over someone with a fucking associates degree. And the market seems to be agreeing with me. I'm seeing more and more nail techs make a killing because, fundamentally, its a skill which someone is willing to pay for. There are too many women partaking in degrees which offer little in the way of tangible skillsets and then wonder why they're working in Starbucks or barely being paid a liveable wage. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:35 PM
7

Yeah. And what's rich is the bluepill dickheads chime in with their usual gaslighting bullshit claiming "iTs aBoUt lOw qUalItY pOepLe". This is just misdirection and an attempt to dilute the conversation. I do think though people need to understand why certain women are "low quality". Personally, I think its about effort. I'm stunned by how many women I see who think cheap makeup, fast fashion, haughty personalities and a bullshit education in a meaningless subject are things which men should ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:31 PM
9

It follows perfectly, the issue is dudes like you are hopeless unassailable fucking losers who cant grasp basic decency. I have a big ass dick. And a hot body too. Women like both. Does that mean I know parade around naked because of such? The problem with "unsolicited dick pics" is the word "unsolicited". Its not a difficult concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:41 AM
36

The fact that you have dudes arguing about sending unsolicited dick picks is the very reason why I think redpill/incel/manosphere types are very much the bottom 50% of the dating pool. Yes, women get turned on by dicks. Especially large ones. But sending shit unsolicited just makes you look either socially stunted or desperate. I've had women do that shit too and it was almost always a sign of literally zero self worth or social maladjustment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:34 AM
5

That's inceldom. Being an incel isn't corralled to being in the "manosphere" or being a Tate fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:15 PM
6

Tbh it's so much about incels as much as it the assumption that introverted/shy/socially reclusive men are somehow going to be Tate fans. It actually doesn't make a whole lot of sense. If anything, all the guys at least partial to Tates message that I've met ha e certainly not been short of female attention. It begs the question why women on here are so quick to attribute Tate fandom with those personality traits. Personally, I think it speaks to how many women on here see introverted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:16 PM
3

"A girl on REDDIT" woah 🫢 The jokes write themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:44 PM
6

Thats fine TBH. We're dimorphic mammals who reproduce sexually. Its of no surprise we will be invested in the opposite sex perception of ourselves. What I find mega toxic about Reddit types is their false pretense about being above or disapproving of the male gaze from many who spend inordinate amounts of time arguing with redpillers and incels. I strongly believe many of these people will likely have second and third accounts on here to post sexual content but thats just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:16 PM
10

I mean yeah...but, in the same way I think many redpillers project unto women their obsession with "Chad" and "Stacy", I'm starting to think a lot of women on Reddit project onto men their obsession with being fuckable or just seen by the opposite sex. Reddit, and subs like these in particular, are largely male dominated spaces. What always confuses me is what possesses women to obsess with posting and arguing with men who are mostly on the lower end of the social spectrum. I couldn't imagine si…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:09 PM
4

These "problems" are largely non-existent and whipped up by "influencers" trying to get likes and followers by preaching their bizarre and nonsensical "masculine/feminine energy" ideas to people. Nah. If these issues didnt resonate with viewers then they wouldnt be commented on in the first place. Most grifters and influencers merely chase whatever they feel will get them attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:20 PM
2

People here keep saying this is an "American issue" and I actually disagree. If anything I feel America is somewhat ahead of much of the developed world when it comes to understanding its "gender war". I actually think its in much of Europe/Canada/Australia where this conversation is now reached the fore. I'm not in the countries you mentioned but I am in the UK. As I like to do, I feel parallels can be drawn with things like politics and economics. A decade ago, the left/right, partisan, reacti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:18 PM
5

Yep. Years ago. Put a ring on it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:14 AM
5

Looool I was talking to this 20 year old the other day with a chin implant. I swear I don't remember girls my age (millennials) getting absolutely stupid ass cosmetic work done.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:39 PM
13

Someone here said women try to invest as little time as possible to get maximum output when online. Tbh that's the vibe I get too. I've been off the market for years but when using it a little more recently, I was taken aback by just how little effort women out there out into the early stages of dating. It just seemed so much different to what I remember. I also don't think online dating is the all you can eat endless buffet for "chads" that many seem to think it is. I'm a good looking, tall and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:18 PM
1

Again. You're nearly 30 years old. You can't earn money for yourself to better your situation? I'm kinda lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:21 PM
-1

You're not isolated if you're around your family. But you're not helping yourself by continuing to live in a rural place. So, in reality, you're a grown adult man whining about a situation entirely in your control. People move for better prospects all the time. You're nearly 30 and can't do the same? Seriously, grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:45 PM
0

🤣🤣🤣 I swear the more I post on here the more unhinged the posts seem. Lemme assume this is in the middle of bumfuck nowhere. Ever thought you know...moving? There are whole metropolises with millions of people living in them. Unless you're going to try and convince me those places are ghost towns too...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:32 PM
1

Looool dude stop trying to push this book of eli shit. You're sat here trying to pretend as if you're the only one who spends anytime outdoors. This is a fucking autistic take.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:25 PM
-1

Whilst loneliness is definitely a problem, OP is another deluded male clown who seems autistic and seems desperate to convince everyone that nobody is outside. Whilst I won't lie the cost of living crisis has definitely reduced people's leisure expenditure...positing that absolutely no one is enjoying outdoor activities is fucking delusional and sounds like a way to justify sitting indoors and exasperating the problem you're complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:33 AM
1

Actually I think you're the toxic one and I kinda tire of women encouraging other women to adhere to this weird toxic attitude of not desiring a wealthy/good looking/desirable guy and then complaining that the loser they end up with isn't good enough. You sit there claiming women who want to be SAHM mom's are shallow and yet you've made multiple threads in the last few days about how much of a chore it is dating a guy six years your junior. Effort is valuable. It's fucking lame when people try t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:12 PM
1

TBH this a human thing. As someone decently put together with a good income, I've noticed just how much people respond better to you when you project an image of success. Women are no different. And there is nothing wrong with that. As said, the problem is the false pretense. Its become a big issue now but this is also why I think men do themselves a disservice by engaging with women on here and not building platonic bonds with women in real life. Hell, if anything, I noticed the "sluts" a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:00 AM
44

Yeah TBH. And whats lame is that I think this attempt to deny women's penchant for physically attractive men is a relatively modern phemomenon. Back when I was in my early twenties and even 8 years ago when I met my fiance, I felt women were a little more honest and self aware about their preferences for conventionally attractive men. I remember being in uni and being pretty popular because of my physique and height. These days though? Whilst I may not be single, when I venture out to social gat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:28 PM
1

BUT, what you didn't do is learn to stay humble. Martial arts usually teach you this. LOL this is why a lot of you need to log off Reddit and touch grass. A lot of "martial artists" are the most arrogant fucks you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:07 AM
0

I started lifting purely for the opposite sex. I eventually got into fitness modelling, a blue belt BJJ with multiple tournaments under my belt and I'm currently a 7-0 heavyweight kickboxer. And I'm probably infinitely more successful than you and any men you'll ever date will ever be in multiple lifetimes. People begin journeys of self improvement for all kinds of dumb and innocuous reasons. I never get the absolutely losers on Reddit who sit there acting high and mighty about people who do thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:48 AM
2

Bear with me for this outlandish comparison, but it's really a bit like Hitler before WW2 (not because of politics, just the rhetorics and modus operandi). It's not that what he said to the masses was offering any objective truth, instead he applied a frame to a rapidly warped reality to pull in a broad mass of disenfranchised people that couldn't vocalize their issues and had nobody speaking for them. I feel the same about modern red-pill-content, they say what people WANT to hear to cope with …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:14 AM
-2

I may not like them, but they do legit speak for a lot of men. I've always equated the gender war discussion online to immigration narratives in the mid 2010s. Back then right wing agitators who spoke about the negative effects of mass immigration were treated as pariahs. Come a decade later I'm finding that complaints about mass immigration have gone mainstream and I'm seeing political parties on the left in many western democracies have little qualms about calling it out. Those right wingers e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:48 AM
2

Whilst that's not wrong, I was big in the swinging scene a few years ago and interracial/BBC/cuckold fetish was a HUGELY (lol) popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:07 PM
1

The fact that guys here are saying they wouldn't have an issue is amusing, disappointing, but ultimately, unsurprising. Increasingly, I've been noticing a lot of the complaints levelled at women from men on here are often just projections. And that's coming from someone who actually thinks redpill has something to offer when it comes to teaching me about the importance of looks and money. For me it's undesirable because women are somewhat different in their sexual expression. Porn viewing is oft…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:53 PM
2

I wouldn't like it. At all. Am I a hypocrite? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:16 PM
13

BLACKED LOOOOL How did I know this would be one of the categories 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:15 PM
1

I was the security fuckhead 🤣 you're coping so hard it's just kinda sad Lol female security means fuck all. And you know goddamn well you've never worked a shift with a man there to offer support. Lol but go on dickless rambo and now front as if you work the doors as a lone woman. You're seemingly full of shit so might as well go all out. Just lol at some bum working security at some shithole dive bar thinking she knows anything about violence because she hid behind her four coworkers when kicki…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:17 PM
1

As I keep saying you're an idiot redditor with no social skills who keeps speaking about "living in the most dangerous city in my country". People can live like Kings in Mogadishu. The city you reside is really means fuck all unless you're living in a war zone, the incidence of violent crime even in the most dangerous places is relatively low when considering the sheer size of a population. But yes go on, some jackass who worked in a bar and hid behind male security trying to front as if she has…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:13 AM
1

If a man wanted to kill me...good luck to him I guess, but he's not gonna be very successful 😂 Anyone can kill you of they really wanted to. A 12 year old with a gun could kill me and I'm a 280lbs man. You honestly sound like a moron whose probably never had a physical altercation in her life. Lol seriously I vet you have never, ever actually taken a punch to the face. People who say this nonsense are often the first to absolutely crumble when they receive one for the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:41 AM
1

Most women don't know just how much they can hurt a man with proper training and weapons. Most men think they can overpower any woman just because of the size difference. Neither are true. No. Take it from a guy with multiple fights in K1 and MMA. Most men CAN overpower 95% of women. Your "proper training" is meaningless. Situational awareness is essential. Carrying lots of weapons is also dumb as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:37 AM
–

I wasn’t even looking for that shit and had to keep my phone away at work because it was everywhere. Lol sure. I remember 2014 vividly. You had to look pretty damn hard to find those nudes. They damn sure weren't "everywhere"....unless you were frequenting messageboards where women's privacy wasn't all that valued anyway. Virtue signalling clowns like you always amusingly reveal yourselves when you get past your self evangelising bullshit. I don’t think you fully appreciate how far we’ve come si…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:30 AM
1

How many desperate or damaged women are there? Is there a pandemic of low or non existent self respect? What the fuck caused it? It's that. There are...a lot. What's worse is that we live in a time where maladaptive behaviours in women can't be questioned anymore. Anything and everything women do is correct...lol even if its harmful to themselves. Its an amusing and sad reality. I noticed it myself when I was on dating apps briefly during a breakup with my girlfriend. I'm not a huge texter. Quit…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:03 PM
1

Personally I think it's probably going to become a trend. Low status low body count inexperienced western men pairing up with economically disadvantaged low body count patriarchal immigrant women with lower standards but who can be reliable partners, whilst western women continue to chase economically desirable beta males and Alpha's within the same community. Interesting take. But a garbage one nonetheless. I'm in the UK. We have one of the highest Muslim populations in Europe (second only to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:22 AM
6

The difference is you don't fuck your mom. Jesus, are we really having to explain this???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:42 PM
3

Looool OK. As I've mentioned, I've been in the swinging scene before. And there were plenty of "ENM" types fluttering around the scene. However, in general, I had a lot less respect for them than the standard fare swinging/stag-vixen/cuckold couples because those couples seem to have way less complications and were often older, more mature and often had experience being monogamous for a number of years. There were some key problematic issues/red flags I constantly see in polyamory. With swinging…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:40 PM
6

What does a woman bring to the table? 🙄 Oh god, do yourself a favor and remove that cringe statement from your internal dialogue. And yes you should want a woman who doesn't require merely a working penis for a man to interest her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:49 AM
5

Jesus, seriously? Of course you go through the song and dance. Do you want to commit to a woman that every other guy could just fuck on command? Do some of you legit think about this shit logically???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:32 AM
2

Yes I am a virgin. My previous post was a waste of time. You proved it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:28 AM
0

Hard drug use isn't the norm for any age group. This is just rubbish. Alcohol related deaths for women have been climbing rapidly for a while. https://www.health.harvard.edu/womens-health/alcohol-related-deaths-rising-faster-among-women#:~:text=Between%202018%20and%202020%2C%20alcohol,article%2C%20you%20must%20log%20in. Drug use among over 12s in America in 2022 https://drugabusestatistics.org/ 45% having used weed and 15% cocaine. I legit wonder what rock some of you live under to see Americas …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:43 PM
1

It's the same reason she never had any remote interest in driving my old Honda but suddenly took an interest un driving again when we got a BMW. I honestly have no idea why women try to convince people that they have little material desire. Laughable to think anyone would be super keen on showing off a £300 engagement ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:49 PM
1

So you'd fuck an 8/10 over a 2/10 woman? ​ Hmmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:24 PM
31

She was offering you commitment and exclusivity This is like saying a company with a toxic work culture and huge turnover is offering a better deal because they gave you a permanent gig over a contract role with non toxic company and better pay. I swear, the stupid shit some of you post. No one would be positing commitment from a 40 year old out of shape dude with a string of failed relationships as a good thing so why are we doing it for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:39 PM
4

So a 5/10 woman is hotter than an 8/10 man???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:49 AM
14

Been there, tried it. Was easily the worst dating experience I had. I tried it again with someone who, albeit a lot nicer, was also a terrible experience. I might be wrong, but I legit think highly sexually experienced women make truly awful partners. I feel highly sexually experienced people in general come with a lot of baggage and I say that as one myself. Often they'll have other qualities compelling enough to make you forget their past...but I feel that better applies to men than women. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:35 AM
8

LOOOOL Lemme guess. She's hotter than you isnt she?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:27 AM
2

This is what I meant about more modern women falling into delusional stupidity and how you're having more and more maladjusted, delusional and idiotic women pushing forward idiotic opinions and agendas because of modern gynocentric thinking. Yesterday it was some femcel weirdo complaining that men aren't approaching women on the street and today it's some clown claiming their oppressive and backward cultural practices are unfairly criticised. This is the ultimate destination of liberal stupidity…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:53 AM
14

His word doesn't mean all that much if he doesn't follow through with it himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:49 AM
16

If you think bullying ceases to exist in adulthood or the workplace, you're utterly delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:17 PM
14

Tbh I disagree. I think pareto efficiencies can be applied to manu phenomenon. I believe that 20% of both men and women are having the bulk of the sex. The top post mentions a guy in the top 5% having threesomes with women he met in the store...but trust and believe these women are sleeping with a lot of other men too. Take it from a guy whose partner count may be in the 300 to 400 range. A lot of the women I slept with were highly promiscuous. It may have been easier for me due to my attributes…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:53 PM
2

Tbh the glitz does figure into if for every woman don't let them tell you otherwise. My fiance kept claiming how ring size didn't matter but I went big anyway and got one with an excessive amount of carats. She insists of including pictures of her wedding finger wherever she goes 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:32 PM
2

Your comment is silly to me, everyone knows the British shtick, which is fillers (fake lips), heavy makeup, etc — heavy trends on social media about it (making fun of it), Love Island is also full of it Ans love island isn't real life. Its a dumb as fuck TV show with a rapidly shrinking audience. The clubs are too, social media videos trending while girls hitting the clubs in London, all wearing very revealing dresses, and fake lips, etc and men in the comments asking why? Loool are you referenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:19 PM
14

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:10 PM
3

Doesn't make me wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:38 PM
6

Lol OP sounds like a clown tbh Spent too much time getting gassed up by fedora wearing white knights on reddit and confused why it doesn't reflect in real life. Contrary to what bullshit the redpill losers and degenerate incels pronounce not all women are fat femininity harpies. They also put more effort into their looks than most men. The creative industries in those metropolises are chock full of beautiful women. Both in front and behind of the camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:37 PM
7

You mean the girls with fake lips, and dress themselves as skimpy as possible, are fierce competition? In London? Looool what a pathetic cope. I'm FROM London and you have to be fuckign delusional to think the biggest and richest city in Europe and the financial, cultural and political centre of the UK only has girls with fake lips and dress themselves skimpy. That's how I know you're mid as fuck. That's literally what mid girls say when bitter they're not getting the attention hotter women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:35 PM
2

That is literally not what he said. He said that womens intrusive thoughts about porn causes them to act unpredictably and have mood swings. Lol yes. It's not literally intrusive thoughts about porn, it's intrusive thoughts about wanting to just get fucked by a guy they're attracted to but having to contend with the social or safety fall out that comes with that. Madonna/whore complex is the inability for some men to see women as people, but rather they view them as binary of either sexual or ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:29 PM
9

LOL "wildly annoying" whilst you avi is literally a pic of your panties and your profile is full of your OF content. Do some of you have any self awareness???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:31 PM
1

How is this schizophrenia? Women (and men) constantly talk about how their innate desires often conflict with their real world persona's or need to adhere to behavioural convention. Its the same as the Madonna/Whore complex of men wanting a woman with all the sexual ability of a seasoned pornstar whilst maintaining decorum when in non sexual settings. Looks like I've been wasting my time arguing with another incel/social failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:26 PM
5

Maybe you should learn to actually interact with the opposite sex instead of making 50 accounts to get around bans and repeating nonsenical terms used by the idiots on fresh and fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:20 PM
68

Do you know whats infuriating? Those woman that insist on this point have all run away from this thread. I really cant stand a lot of the women who post on this sub. So many are dangerously full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:18 PM
3

Non verbal communication makes up the majority of the information shared in a conversation, so I don't even know what you are saying. Why would it make it any more mysterious how people pair up? Like you are already talking or interacting when you get to do any of it. Funny. 12 years ago I actually read the "big book of body language" and it was key in my journey to better understanding women and dating. One of the key points it mentioned was that whilst most communication was non verbal, very f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:46 PM
5

If this was the case, people would pair bond in far more mysterious ways. Except, they dont. People largely cluster around people from the same communities, tax brackets, race and values. Women want to sit and pretend as if, when guys get ghosted, they're often giving out glaring red flags that are off putting. And its funny because you're speaking of people making decisions based on intuition. Plenty of women get "icks" over completely innocuous things and, in turn, dont share their reasoning w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:10 PM
2

This makes sense in theory, however in reality things are largely predictable and humans follow trends and patterns often predicated on anything from gender to nationality or age. And it plays out in reality too. Weather can be "unpredictable" too and is often attributed to conditions which often fluctuate frequently or are unseasonable. Torrential rain in New York in July would be seen by many meteorologists as "unpredictable". A big part of said unpredicatability is communication (or a lack th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:46 PM
6

Exactly. Its a challenge for both genders. I see that being someone who does it and has done it for years and really enjoys doing it. But I've also noticed my (and my friends, who are all pretty decent looking/successful dudes) standards are actually pretty damn high. Any guy who can approach and isnt a complete creep/weirdo isn't going to have zero standards in their approach unless they're looking for an easy lay. Especially in 2024 where there are a lot more social ramifications for approachi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:34 PM
6

I think he kinda has a point, I noticed the same. My fiance was one of only about 2 or 3 women I met (and I've dated a fair amount) who had such a strong sense of self worth and assurance (tbh she was raised in a very, VERY healthy environment) that she didnt play weird games or go back and forth in terms of her self esteem or feeling like I had to prop up her self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:25 PM
12

Same here. Bump into me at a grocery store, help me pickup my oranges and overly expensive avocados, tell me I have pretty eyes with a cheeky smile while you're done putting them back in my basket. You're saying this here but there are another five women in this sub forum claiming that this is a huge no-no or that they dont want to get approached when running errands. I have no idea why you aren't pushing back against that rhetoric instead of whining about what men are doing. Its fucking annoyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:21 PM
10

I work on movie sets This further bookends my point. If you're working on sets, you're most likely in LA (possibly NY or London). In all three cities, competition is fierce and there are plenty of attractive women to go round. Sitting online will not doing you any favours unless you're on a dating site or actively cultivating your audience on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:18 PM
24

Men do approach still, I do it myself still just as a way to keep my "game" muscles still working. However, I'v also noticed that approaching isnt what it was even five years ago and younger men are definitely more weary of approaching random women. This mean thats, often, the women who are getting approached are often "exceptional" or younger. At this point I think something might be wrong with me like I must be borderline ugly. Yet online friends (men, and women) will be shocked when they see …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:00 PM
1

LOL of course the things that men claim to like (feminine, pretty) are the things which you claim isnt helping a woman find a relationship. This is what I meant by you being an odious poster. Would genuinely be the last person I would interact with as a woman if I was actually looking for a good friend who had my back. You seem the type to be super low key sabotaging. The downvotes are warranted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:24 AM
2

LOOOOOL dont most of the 600lb life chicks have men too????
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:57 AM
3

Already good replies in this thread but one particular from u/ladyindev It's one of the main reasons I always counter the idea that young women have more leverage in dating. For a variety of reasons, they have most access to the fixer upper who has no real ambition and they're more likely to choose him too. A big issue I have with modern redpill discourse online is the lack of real world experience and application meaning that there isn't nuanced discussion like this one. I really laugh heartily…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:29 PM
5

I don't believe that at all. A lot of the cultures where arranged marriages are common are seemingly Muslim and Asian cultures. Whilst the men definitely are overrepresented on the incel spectrum, I also feel men in those cultures places a greater emphasis on dressing well, good grooming and income. For all the talk of marrying for love, I'm always blown away by how low western women's standards are. How many are dating bums or dudes who barely know how to shower or take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:12 PM
–

Interesting because I've been with hundreds of women in the kink community and I found a metric ton of those experiences fucking awful. The objectification I experienced was meh and I didn't take to the sheer amount who felt the need to "pornify" the whole act. I gotta be honest though, I'm pretty hot and have a big dick. I actually much prefer women who are submissive and don't try and do too much in bed. Though I agree on the point about sexual compatibility and women being equally poor sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:08 PM
–

I'm in the Europe and the economy here is very much NOT doing well. And, even in the America, Bidens poll numbers are in the trash because the numbers don't really reveal the populations perception of their place in the pecking order. America has always been several years ahead culturally and politically than Europe. Lamentations on the difficulties of dating gain far more traction in the US which is merely a response to how inequitable their economy is. Europe is merely catching up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:54 PM
–

But it's not fine. You have to be absolutely stupid as fuck to watch the news and the state of the economy and geopolitics and think things are fine. I'm in the 5th largest economy in the world and free food banks have popped up in every town.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:38 PM
–

FFS Baaaased.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:09 PM
6

I dont think it assigns virtue to womanhood as much as it assigns virtue to vulnerability. Ours is a culture where we assign a moral superiority to victims. Pretty much. Some of the women here have such terrible personalities that they would be incels if they became men. And they would defend the incel position just as aggressively as the ones here do. They just happen to be tolerated in their relationships and assume that that means that they are better people than they actually are. They assum…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:59 PM
2

You're such a terrible poster. Literally the spitting image of a male incel, only without the dick and misogyny. There is no gendered reaction to vulnerability. Both men and women can take advantage of those who express their vulnerabilities and weaknesses. What's key for a man is to simply find those with whom they can form respectable and mutually beneficial bonds. What does get men though is certain women out here (who often espouse the same shit you do) who claim they believe in "safe spaces…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:50 PM
1

As I've mentioned before, I was knee deep in "sex positive" scenes and was pretty much a single male swinger for a lot my twenties. First thing you need to understand is that most people on Reddit are fucking losers. And their lack of boundaries speaks towards their lack of options rather than their lack actual negative feelings towards particular actions. When swinging I would be involved with a whole host of couples where partners either had sex with other people or husbands would watch their …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:25 PM
1

Yeah this is my point. Trump is, for a lack of a better term, far right. Though, on a whole host of political issues he is actually bog standard Conservative. Small government, lower taxes, somewhat anti abortion (that's more the preserve of the religious strongholds). The only place he diverges is on foreign policy (he ain't exactly a neocon). I can't think of a successful guy who didn't lean the same way. And that's despite being in the UK. They'll generally follow a sort of "bootstraps" philo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:02 AM
6

Once I became more forthright in my thinking and approach to relationships I met the greatest woman who is now becoming my wife. I dislike comments like yours because I think a lot of women don't want men to be better. Yes, we can shit on redpillers but at least they're presenting something. Men are well aware women aren't massively fond of them or their history. They're aware women have spent millennia forced to tolerate men they hate for provision. We are in the midst of challenging what makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:19 AM
3

About $230k and that will likely go back up to about $300k+ when I have another role. I'm in the UK though and overemployed working remotely as a software engineer specialising in cloud and machine learning. Yes, I pretty much pay all the bills. And my parents (I grew up poor). We recently got engaged too and I spent way too much on a fucking 4.10 carat diamond engagement ring (FML). I'm not really redpill though. I definitely believe some of the core tenets but disagree with the whole culture a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:44 AM
8

I actually think this doesn't make up most redpillers, though I do definitely believe it's true. Most redpillers are just angst ridden teenagers and dudes in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:43 AM
0

Most successful dudes I know (and I've met a few) are very "redpilled". They just don't participate in the nonsense online community. Unless they're upper middle class civil servant/office types they're definitely leaning more on the "traditionalist" side of things. I can't think of a single self sufficient guy who isn't very much into centre right to downright Trumpian philosophies. And it makes them infinitely more attractive too. There is something so odious and off-putting about guys who bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:42 AM
1

It's all the same shit. Yeah things have gotten harder for men. Once one establishes that what next? We're hardly able to reverse any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:13 PM
2

YES. I wasn't doing near enough. In honesty I stopped struggling with dating way before I got my life together and my affairs in order.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:38 PM
3

Access to desirable men and being able to keep one are two different things. They do have increased access but are either illegal equipped at dealing with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:37 PM
2

Tbh though I'm 34. I'm a millennial and I started my career in the height of the global financial crisis. I've experienced a fire job market and a massive increase in living costs. But what the fuck do I do? Relegate myself to a life of misery and failure? Or do I learn to adjust?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:36 PM
2

Whilst that may be the case how does victimising yourself present any viable alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:32 PM
1

I've struggled to date in my youth. Lol what even are some of these posts 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:31 PM
3

Hmmmm. The problem I have is that you're going to assume that a guy who will enrich their lives also happens to be unattractive, socially hopeless and timid. Pray tell, how on earth are they going to enrich their lives then? Lol so many dudes on here think being a decent human being and attractive are somehow mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:51 PM
0

Yeah I think he's right for the most part. Problem is no one is going to listen. The problem is generational too. Maybe I'm just being a typical oldcunt but I definitely feel there is this cultural push towards people become massively self victimising and refusing to see things from the other side. I can definitely see how it would suck to look good but struggle to find a man to take you seriously. Incels complain about getting no attention period but most of these are putting no effort into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:09 PM
3

Maybe it isn't, but I find this logic amusing and rather short sighted. It's like saying ordered society, rule of law and a social contract isn't natural and that you are well within your right to physically assault a weaker person should they disrespect you. Problem is, its all good when you're the stronger party. Not so much when the shoes on the other foot. Monogamy is actually a strong self preservation tool. Yeah, you may want to easily fuck and move on or sleep with multiple people. But wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:32 PM
19

Workplaces are the most common place for affairs to occur according to data. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.foxnews.com/lifestyle/the-6-most-common-places-where-affairs-start.amp I kinda feel this is what OP is getting at. So many people in here act dumb or incredulous to some of these topics when, in reality, they're perfectly valid discussions to be had. It also kinda makes me feel its a case of "hit dogs hollering". Reddit seems to have become absolutely worthless at genuine discourse due t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:19 PM
5

I'm definitely not in any position to judge (have cheated myself). But this may be the problem redpillers in particular have. I notice the same thing about preferences. Everyone claims that things like height, weight, race and income don't matter...and yet the data shows more and more differentiation among those lines. Dating apps offer filtering on these lines as a selling point. We in the west seem to have a real honesty problem. And I don't think it's just for matters on the micro level, I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:11 PM
1

This is why I (and the world) miss Patrice O'neal. Whilst I find redpillers, incels, blackpillers and all manner of modern young, angsty, woman hating men largely insufferable, I do feel there is a real lack of analysis and understanding of womens more toxic behaviours. Its like, back in the noughties/nineties, I remember listening to radio phone-ins on even more mainstream stations here in the UK where people would call up and elaborate on all manner of dating issues. Many of those typical beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:58 PM
1

Just because your life may be garbage, don't project that onto me. You sucking is a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:04 PM
1

It's not about validation genius. If you want to fuck a lot of women you approach a lot of women. If you approach a lot of women eventually you get good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:26 PM
–

Looooool this ninja 5 foot 5 and 132 pounds. Boy you ain't no "Greek god" fucking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:53 AM
1

No you don't. You chat a lot of nonsense and bio seemingly changes with the wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:19 AM
-2

Are we trying to imply paranoia of thus manner is the exclusive preserve of women???
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:50 PM
1

I mean youre a redpiller. You actually define yourself by an ideology built around attaining women. You're pretty much a walking L. Maybe calling someone an incel would get me a broken nose. But it damn sure won't be by an angsty, angry, no ass getting lowlife like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:53 PM
2

LOL what???? Plenty of men lost their virginity way earlier than 27 and aren't Rollo fucking Tomassi.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:23 PM
3

You seem like a beta male feminist Yep. This is what a loser incel would say. I rag on most of the women on this sub and have comments doing that in this very discussion. BUT I'm also not some lame who thinks I'm entitled to women's time. Just say you have a boyfriend and he wouldn't like it. You have no right to determine who someone reacts to your action. I've approached loads of women, of one tells me to fuck off I simply take it for what it is and move on. Hence why I'm good at it. I don't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:19 PM
-1

27 though??? Come on if you make it to that age and have not done the deed you either aren't all that interested in it or simply can't find someone who even half way likes you. Neither are options indicative of people who have useful advice to impart about approaching the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:15 PM
15

The fact that you posted this insanely fucking stupid statement and thought you were doing something. The women a lot of men know are their friends. People they SHOULDNT be trying to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:49 PM
5

spineless and terrified I gotta be honest I find it off key when dudes use language like this to describe behaviours of the opposite sex. Women are physically smaller, weaker and lacking in testosterone. Criticising them for not being combative would be like criticising a 5ft4 dude for not being able to dunk. It's often language used by dudes who are on the blackpill/incel spectrum themselves. Is a woman not wanting to engage with a strange man really a sign of mental illness?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:47 PM
1

It's absolutely fine to approach. But you MUST be respectful and you MUST take no for an answer. I said it before, but a lot of people who stand out physically (in a good way) are used to being approached. I'm very tall and very, very muscular. People approach almost daily to compliment my physique. Its never a problem. What is a problem is people invading your personal space, not leaving you alone when you're visibly not wanting to be bothered or being rude. But 95% of the time it's not that. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:44 PM
0

I know this seems a bit mean spirited and envious but seriously It’s whack in a world where higher value men I know that are good looking kind hearted and socially intelligent are being frequently rejected. Oh god, get the fuck out of here. The vast, VAST majority of attractive, well meaning men are not struggling. At all. Really tired of sexual failures and incels on here making out as if they're some kind of persecuted minority. There is a lack of desirable men as is. If you're even remotely a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:28 PM
1

Lol I remember being on a swinger site back in the day and seeing women ask for free maintenance and repair work. Always struck me as lame and kinda pathetic imagining someone actually thinking that would make them seem more attractive and potentially lead to more sex. In reality they were often just being used for free labour. I tend to find its more about being capable or "handling shit" than it is about actually doing it. I live in a rental apartment, I was told to not even touch the boiler u…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:54 AM
1

There are plenty of women...PLENTY who absolutely do not enjoy sleeping with men on the first date. Hell, I've been in swinging communities where some women don't like fucking a guy on the first meet. As I keep saying, a lot of you women on here are bottom shelf. Laughable that you're legit trying to make out as if a woman not wanting to fuck every guy she meets and a dude who doesn't want to date a woman who fucks every guy she meets is somehow "weird".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:13 PM
4

Its figurative?? And this is kinda my point. I read so many posts here from women which just seem...lacking in social/behavioural adeptness. I'm a muscular and stand out. I get approached by guys a ton. Unless they're particularly disrespectful I simply appreciate the compliment and go on about my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:06 PM
2

Yes. Go out and speak to women, see how many of you look dumbfounded when you mention reddit, let alone know it exists. Men on the other hand? Many are way more familiar with online messageboards. Its the same with gamers. Attractive female streamers make a killing because everyone is well aware how rare it is for attractive women to enjoy such a reclusive pastime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:09 PM
1

Wow, now that you've stopped making a million threads a day, you've actually delivered some decent content.... And yes, its true. I have said it a million times but former simps turn redpillers largely chase attractive/coventionally attractive women who are not only pretty but adhere to all the social norms of physically attractive women. Thats not to say there aren't plenty of nice, pretty women but simps not only target women of a certain physical appeal but they'll then start projecting onto …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:04 PM
5

These discussions are pointless because, as I keep saying, most female posters on this sub are fucking losers. There is this odd logic that women on here are somehow well socially calibrated and it's only the men who are weird incels but the reality is I think Reddit actually attracts more bottom shelf women than it does men. Most PEOPLE are fine with being approached. I approached women all the time when single and got more numbers than I did rejection. Yes, looks help a lot. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:22 AM
1

Lawd. Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 01:14 PM
-1

Because age is no guarantee of maturity or competence. I won't blame you for feeling this way, you're 24. But when I was your age I thought older women were all the rage because I barely had any game and didn't like the fact women my age were in their sexual peak and often desired/expected special treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:30 AM
-2

Femininity, beauty and youthfulness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:28 AM
-1

Nah. Older women tend to be better for less attractive/desirable men. Honestly, one of the appeals of younger women is the fact that they're in the peak of their sexual attractiveness. There's none of the weird angst and bitterness you get with older women. I remember a few years ago when u came back on tinder. All the older women would be super entitled, would ghost randomly and often just had crazy off-putting demeanour. Their younger counterparts were often nicer, easier to deal with, wouldn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:25 AM
0

Again. I go by data and expertise. All of those point to Tate being massively influential amongst school aged boys. Unless you're suggesting that all these boys are incels (which you might be...you don't seem particularly well adjusted). I would say it's a big influence. I mean, you were just sitting there arguing, with confidence, that Tate wasn't one of the most googled people in the world. Easily verifiable information from Google. You don't really strike me as all there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:44 AM
2

45% of men are the worst people? 75 million of the American electorate are the worst people?? Even if they are, because I'm not exactly enamoured by either Tate or Trump, are you sitting here pretending that they're not commanding fringe hate groups and actually are massively influential over significant chunks of the population? I mean who should I take seriously, legitimate advocacy groups and journalists from the Guardian and the BBC who interview him or Sharp Engineering379? Some shut in wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:24 AM
3

The same people everybody thinks he's influencing...boys and young men. A 2023 survey conducted by Hope not Hate, a UK advocacy body which campaigns on social justice issues found that eight in ten boys aged 16-17 had consumed Tate's content and that 45% of men in Britain aged 16–24 had a positive view of him, compared to only 1% of British women aged 16-17 who held a positive view of Tate https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/society/2023/jan/07/andrew-tate-misogyny-schools-vulnerabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:13 AM
3

https://explodingtopics.com/blog/most-searched-people https://trends.google.com/trends/yis/2022/GLOBAL/ Yeah I'm wrong. He was actually number 8. Totally not influential. Some of you live in cloud cuckoo land.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:53 PM
1

How does this relate to anything??? The point was Tate is massively influential...hence why the MP is even mentioning his potential influence on young boys. Also wasn't Tate going to Romania to pimp women IN Romania?? And wasn't he pimping women from Luton IN Luton? Who was venturing overseas with him??? So many on here just spout shit which makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:46 PM
1

right so how are men telling me that he's chad? LOSERS are telling you he's a Chad. Jesus Christ. This would be like me venturing to FDS and taking them seriously 🤣🤣 But...but...but...FDS told me I was a HVM it must be true right??? RIGHT??!!! tf are you talking about? i consider him to be the sexiest guy i have dated. Lol that's sad. yeah shallow groups of people exist 5f4 is significantly shorter than the male average height. A woman is hardly shallow for not being interested in that. Come on,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:27 PM
1

Andrew Tate has come up in parliament and was a topic of questioning in the British prime ministers weekly question time. To claim he is of no influence is utter insanity. https://youtu.be/iUmaCG82T44?si=TSnt14VhL9W019TL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:22 PM
1

Andrew Tate was the most Googled man in the world in 2022. This is just nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:20 PM
2

A 5ft4 guy does have significantly lower chances with women. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/insight-is-2020/201401/short-men-why-women-arent-attracted-enough-to-date-them%3famp. Same way poorer/fatter men are likely to struggle with the opposite sex. There are too many bottom shelf women selling pipe dreams to men on here. Just because you and your fellow perpetually online types have no standards, doesn't mean women follow. None of my fiances well adjusted, attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:14 PM
3

Tbh I'm judging from her avatar (which could be a misdirection). It is a pretty pointless but then I'm also black and, as mentioned, I've been lurking LSA for a hot minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:41 PM
11

Eh, I dunno. My partner is fairly wealthy and I haven't worked a 9-5 since we've been together. However I do freelance work every now and again to ensure I have income and adequate savings even though he covers almost every expense. Yet from her post history... One of the men I’m dating is 33, never been married, makes seven figures and lives in the financial district of major city and he doesn’t mind that I’m seeing other men. In six months you want from dating multiple men (one of which is a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:47 PM
2

Yeah, I've dated a super manipulative older woman. LOL a lot of the responses on here are gonna be no. The problem I have with "redpill" and "bluepill" in here is that a lot of people espousing this shit dont have any experience period. The way you deal with a woman like that is to leave, as fast as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:21 PM
–

Eastern European women dont like being objectified??? I've dated a whole bunch of EE women from everywhere from Slovakia to Romania, I dont think one didnt tell me how taken aback she was by the lack of adequate self care women, from where I am (the UK), partook in. Many take great pride in their "exoticness" among western european women. EE women are interesting. Yeah they're not submissive in the redpill sense but they're also damn sure not the pathetic, whiny, weak and easily manipulated type…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:53 AM
–

Nah. I actually think "passport bros" are after something different. My friend is into foreign women. He's successful as fuck and is decent looking too. The women he dates are mostly eastern european women who are actually far more ruthless than many western women. I know too because I've dated a few EE women myself. They also have super high divorce rates in EE as well. We're both in the UK and I got engaged with a woman from the UK (Wales). However I dated women from a whole variety of backgro…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:46 AM
3

Seems like it wasn't (see below). Lol as I keep saying a lot of the women who post here are fucking nuts. Protein supplements are used for a variety of reasons and not the preserve of bodybuilders or even athletes. To judge someone on it is...hilarious to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:51 PM
2

This is really an excellent point that really exposes that commenter. A love language is meant to be positively received if its a thing you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:16 PM
1

Met her before the money thankfully. We've been together for 6+ years. I was broke when we first met.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:14 PM
-2

Yeah you and every other loser on Reddit. Hence why you're on here, single and going back and forth with incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:57 PM
-3

I mean...yeah. But that's the price you pay for not dating an absolute fucking losers. May not be your field if expertise I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:35 PM
1

My penile twin is Jason Luv. In fact we have similar proportions in general (he's less muscular than I am though).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:31 PM
-3

6ft4, handsome, look like a fitness model (more competitive amateur bodybuilder these days), huge dick, charismatic as fuck. Earn about 250k each year with substantial savings and educated to degree level. Reckon I'll be on about half a million by 2025. Feminine, youthful (at least 7 years younger than me...preferably 10+), slim with large hips/posterior, nice feet, girl next door look. Good family values, non racist, likes to be super submissive, open to kids and marriage, educated to degree le…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:44 PM
9

I agree. I think social media is having a catastrophic effect on women's mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:55 PM
3

the challenge is that these people you cant stand are hot I hate to say it but I think this is it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:44 PM
2

Limp Bizkit has some bangers for sure but they're the prototype for trashy early 2000s rock rap and its aged pretty poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:40 PM
–

Why the fuck do you keep mentioning "financial savvy" women make safer investments than men and actually often outperform men in the stock market...but significantly less women invest in the stock market compared to men. My only talk of savviness comes to the value of owning property. ok? who cares? women have less money to fuck around with than men so in that case securing a low cost of living seems like a good option Women earn less money. It seems like you're trying to posit that women having…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:02 PM
-2

It is to the same extent. Confidence is equally attractive in men and woman. It's just that, in women, it manifests in more muted ways. But, BY GOD, don't for a second think that confident women don't enjoy more fulfilled dating lives and greater opportunities professionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:36 PM
1

ok? and? if your point is that men have more financial savvy, you'd have to provide numbers of men actually doing investments with their money, not just shit on what women are doing with their money. Men do invest more. You can Google that. My point (as I've stated multiple times) is women are good at make stable, modest yield investments. Homes in LCOL, index funds, savings. Those are cool but they're not where the real money. I would bet cash that the vast bulk of second home owners and proper…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:31 PM
7

This is where both redpillers and blackpillers are dumb as fuck. I see attractive women with absolute munters a decent amount of times. Its never that common but it still happens enough times for it to be statistically significant. More often that not there is either extreme low self esteem or some kind of power play going on. Plenty of women date strategically and many more just like variety. Also that dorky dweeb is meant to be one of the biggest streamers in his country apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:21 PM
4

Yes. Undoubtedly. I really, really dislike that Destiny dude. I think he is the prototypical slightly left leaning, disingenuous slimeball that Reddit has too many of. Even taking the toxicity of an open relationship aside, he's like 34 in a relationship with someone 10 years younger and much, much more physically appealing. For all the complaints about redpills, its funny how "redpilled" his dating choices are...considering the age gap, Melina being foreign born and significantly prettier. Its …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:17 PM
0

wait so buying a house is now "not financially savvy"... do you mean like "now" as in 2024? because we're talking about female homeowners (who have bought already) not women potentially buying a house in this market. they would not be included in the numbers being discussed. I mean, its kinda not. Great for equity but there are better investment vehicles. I'm also always stunned at the amount of super rich people are out here renting. Home ownership is a great way to park money you've already ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:15 PM
2

The fuck? The last metric on the decline of single female homeowners kinda completely negates the bullshit rhetoric about women owning homes as some kind of marker of men falling behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:00 PM
8

Again, bullshit. Name these charities and foundations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:37 PM
1

This is interesting because I thinks it's relevant to me. I'm in my 30s and about to purchase my first home. I have about 70k tied up in investments and cash and earn about 300k from various roles. I've not been dying to purchase a home. Whilst I definitely feel a certain amount of real estate is good, I'm also not entirely convinced it's the greatest investment. I think its more about safety than income generation. Property is a great way to hold equity that can be passed onto your children but…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:35 PM
10

Lol what program is there exclusively for women to buy homes??? You redpillers say the dumbest fucking shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:21 PM
2

My friend bought a $500k home last year and he would speak about how strange many people saw it. And he was 27. I'm about to purchase a house this year but I'll be doing so with my fiance. My sister was the first person to purchase a home in my family and she was about 30 when she did that. After 14 or so years she now earns about 150k as a consultant doctor. In the four years I've been in tech I've already significantly surpassed her income. I tend to notice single women tend to cluster in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:18 PM
4

I never presented one. I believe people are right to be panicking and looking for legitimate alternatives because the current social order cannot accomodate for the impending economic changes. But legitimate alternatives, not clown redditors complaining about capitalism as if prtty much every remotely livable sovereign nation on earth doesnt implement some form of private enterprise, ownership and capital. The populations of the west are about to start experiencing levels of economic parity with…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:47 AM
1

No actually, a major shift in lifestyle is the way to take off. Having a few less people still living large (and possibly even larger) doesn't really solve a whole amount...especially considering how many nations are still dithering on net zero targets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:26 AM
10

No, its the birth rate. This was literally a huge deal in the news barely a few months ago. I genuinely think being a "bluepiller" is synonymous with being a dumbass. https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/sep/25/beijings-demographic-crisis-means-china-could-get-old-before-it-gets-rich https://chinapower.csis.org/china-demographics-challenges/ https://www.economist.com/europe/2023/03/04/russias-population-nightmare-is-going-to-get-even-worse
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:20 AM
5

uncontrolled, violent one And who says we're not going to have that? Have you been paying attention to geopolitics over the last two years?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:17 AM
15

Learn to read. >complete rewrite of our economic system and order. LOL do you think you're not benefitting from this "pyramid economy"? You wouldnt last an afternoon in the countries my parents immigrated from. This is really as good is it gets. Do you legit think a major overhaul of our current system wont lead to drastic changes in the lifestyle you currently lead? "The only reason that they all get to continue living like kings is cause we got our fingers on the scales in their favor. I take …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:05 AM
1

Most attractive women are with completely average looking men with few if any of the stereotypical 'alpha' traits, even money. This is actually bullshit. I do see occassional ugly men with hot women but, for the most part, attractive women are largely dating equally attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:59 AM
18

How is money the most common thing in planet earth, yet so many people are broke? Fucking. Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:57 AM
7

Because it means when your mummy and daddy (or you) get old, there's fuck all money to take care of them or even enough people to take care of them. You can always do it yourself...but somehow I kinda feel most people here would be against that. You can always be a Japan, but then I feel a lot of Redditors aren't hot about working from 8 til 8 either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:54 AM
14

So...massive amounts of immigration sending economies and politics haywire. Just LOL. Come to Europe and tell someone "so?" when seeing thousands of migrants arriving on their shores from the global south. The redpill is merely a symptom/response to a world is drastically changing both socially, politically and economically. There is NO solution to below replacement birth rates outside of immigration or a complete rewrite of our economic system and order. If you think either of those things aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:52 AM
10

Neither of these means the end of society. Actually thats exactly what it means. Its the reason why political scientists and economist have been pretty dour about places like China and Russia for years. Again, "bluepillers" on here continue to show how out of touch they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:49 AM
0

If there is one thing I cant deal with when it comes to redpillers is their refusal to admit they're actually talking about women are are 6-6.5/10+ However, in regards to this: -An unattractive man can only dream of being with an attractive woman, and if it happens, it’s rare. This is key. Redpillers obsess with looks, height, wealth, status...because these are all the things needed to obtain ATTRACTIVE women. This is the key differentiator. The majority of women are FUCKABLE to most men, but da…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:47 AM
0

OP kinda reminds me of the crappy antagonists you see in comic book/MCU movies who hack writers think are "nuanced" because they have a tragic backstory lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:51 PM
-1

LOL thats how I see it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:46 PM
-1

Yes, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:42 PM
1

It always seems like there are rules for life Because its the fucking truth. There are some things you cannot escape. The redpill for many men is there first foray into structured thinking with a solid, identifiable throughput and plan of action. I'm not even a redpiller, but I get it. Its the same appeal religions like Islam have, or joining the army. Why do you think people are so keen on young bos participating in school sports? Because sports teach you about gameplans, playbooks, strategies,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:04 PM
1

Nope. Off the cuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:51 PM
–

Oxil is a serial philanderer and has links to a Turkish far fight group. Jesus, your posts really suck. Utterly hilarious someone trying to claim that women are with premier league football players for their personality when the entire "WAG" phenomenon has been a national joke here in the UK for over two decades. This place is full of out of touch clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:32 PM
2

"Into" meaning I've never been interested in dating/getting serious with. Every promiscuous woman that wanted me to get into a relationship, I turned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:22 PM
0

Tell that to Equifax
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:45 AM
2

Also the agreement amount of responses from men claiming its not a big deal or that promiscuous women are somehow better people kinda shows how pathetic and desperate a lot of men are. Are dudes sitting there assessing women's partner count? No. But to sit there and act like you're somehow getting a good deal kinda reminds me of all the fucking losers who use garbage terms like "more cushion for the pushin" when contending with the fact that the best they can do is some fat broad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:26 AM
0

Slept with hundreds of women (maybe 400) My fiances partner count is like 3. Never been into promiscuity from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:20 AM
5

I actually think a few years ago promiscuity wasn't seen as a big deal...people speak as if things are "worse" now but the naughties were the height of "sex and the city" and "ladette" culture. Modern, independent women hadn't found their feet and much of that time was spent imitating what desirable bachelors did. I have noticed a shift among younger millennials and gen Zers. Do people explicitly ask your body count? No. But promiscuity definitely puts you in this weird box where you'll find you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:13 AM
2

You think men are paying escort for their self esteem???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:40 PM
1

Manipulate her into what? The vast chunk of 30 year old dudes are steady, settled and more mature. They're well past the days of stupid impulsive behaviour. Some of you literally sound like fucking children when talking about manipulation. Manipulation into doing what??? The only time of manipulation that matters is that which is criminal/rape. And I hope to god you're not dumb enough to try and push that age gap relationships are somehow a gateway to abuse/rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:10 PM
-1

Men chase women for self esteem, they seek sex (especially when paying) out of necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:46 PM
2

Highly Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:19 PM
1

People have answered here already better than I could. The only thing I would expand upon is the fact that you probably gravitate towards a type of man who likes your lack of boundaries and crazy behaviour. They're probably younger and more needier. 10 years ago when I first started dating (I was a late bloomer), I attracted a whole heap of neurodivergent, bipolar, and generally toxic women. Whilst I looked great, I was too young, dumb and inexperienced to know any better. I had no self esteem o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:18 PM
–

https://www.heraldtribune.com/story/news/2009/12/11/wars-children-born-in-shame-finally-speak-up/28909937007/ Historians estimate that more than 800,000 children were born to German soldiers enforcing the four-year Nazi occupation of Europe, about 200,000 in France alone. Like Delorme, most were raised behind a veil of secrecy and shame, derided in school and unable to understand what they had done wrong. Seems like I'm arguing with another disingenuous clown with an agenda. There are a total of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:59 AM
–

Use your fucking brain. It's likely many of the women who had children wirh German soldiers didn't get caught. Which would be obvious considering most of those 20k weren't even accused of having sexual relations with German soldiers. And let's stop with the "oh I can't confirm the source" garbage. As if some random clueless redditor is gonna successfully pick holes in a Wikipedia article on a well documented phenomenon during the most significant war in human history. Google produces dozens of o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:38 AM
-1

Collaboration horizontale" is believed to have produced 200,000 French babies with German fathers.[6] Since 2009 Germany has offered these children of "the other bank of the Rhine" citizenship, after French foreign minister Bernard Kouchner lobbied for their recognition. Doesn't really sound like "not many".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:23 AM
5

Glad to see another woman pointing this out. Sorry but that poster is one of increasing number of "femcel" types I'm seeing on here. Whether they're actually single or not is irrelevant but they all seem to use the same bitter, one sided and jaded argumentation styles that the incels and blackpillers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:59 AM
4

I think its simple. Tons of control over the sexual marketplace. Little control over the relationship marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:54 PM
2

Hi ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:34 PM
–

Not black. What you are isn't that important beyond that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:29 AM
2

You're not black.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:24 AM
4

Black women are the only group who don't vote republican in any significant capacity. And they do that because they're black and damn sure not because they're women. And you're not a black woman either so your point is moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:10 AM
3

No the fuck there isn't. White women voted almost 50/50 red/blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:45 PM
3

This is true tbf. certain type of woman I wonder what type that is. I don't have a particularly high opinion of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:38 PM
1

Some of you women on here are so fucking weird. I've approached and been approached by people very clearly having romantic desires/expectations. Its perfectly normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:44 AM
5

Again, with the delusional stupidity. I live in the UK. You're only eligible for three cycles of IVF under 40 (only 1 above 40) and thats only having tried for two years and done artificial insemination (again, not free...about 1k a pop) and thats not even taking into consideration NHS wait times. LOL irony is I'm likely talking to someone who is married/not single who would probably be on their ass if not for their husband/boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:06 PM
4

My sister is undertaking IVF. 20k GBP is what she is paying. Works out to about 25k USD. My sister is a fucking eye surgeon and her husband is an on call doctor. They're probably top 2% income wise. It never ceases to amaze me how out of touch and delusional most women are here. IVF is not an option for single women unless they're wealthy as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:55 PM
3

And yet, no company on earth doesn't have a sales department...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:59 PM
1

Depends on where. When I was single it was the university library and the gym which were go to cold approach venues for me. Tbh it worked pretty well all things considered. Tbh it's definitely something which you need to be pretty socially adept to pull off these days. Women seem a lot weary of men than I can remember them ever being.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:56 PM
11

Kinda. I definitely think there is cultural pressure for men to accept relatively little in any relationship. Its also undeniable at this point that society is definitely more lax when it comes to holding women to cultural/behavioural expectations. However, the reality is sliightly different. Men are definitely more lax when it comes to what behaviours they're willing to tolerate from women but, to counteract that I actually believe men have become a lot more stringent in their standards for wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:47 AM
1

Yeah makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:40 PM
1

Hmmm. I'm assuming you'll have better luck operating from the major cities. Tbh I'm in the UK and in the second largest city here. The scene is probably outside of London/Birmingham/Manchester...the three largest metropolitan areas here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:04 PM
3

BDSM is a little different and tends to attract the socially lacking. Also fetlife sucks and I never used it. I'm also talking about kink airing more on the side of actual swinging rather than exclusively kink. It was essentially people playing sexy dress up. Also, at least here in Europe, there are quite a few upmarket events and clubs tailored to women looking for less unkempt men. But you often need an in which is often an attractive older woman that you're fucking who can vouch for your prow…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:11 PM
5

Benefits dudes who either have the charisma or looks or sexual assets to fuck a lot of women. I racked a partner count of northwards of 300 to maybe 400. Majority I met either on dating apps, cold approaching and the bulk from my time in the kink and swinging scene. Knew a woman who ran a few sex parties and it took off from them. I think such a thing was unthinkable before the 60s. I would literally walk into an event and have sex with an absurd number of women simply because I was tall, muscul…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 04:28 PM
2

From what I’ve noticed way too many people nowadays can make success in other means beyond education in which was what primarily required education to flourish. Loool what the fuck does this even mean??? My plumber, HVAC, electrician and mechanic probably don't have much in the way of a formal/university education either....but I sure as fuck wouldn't want to live in a world without drainage, heating, AC power or a car. It's also pretty well known that many of those on the forefront of such inve…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:42 PM
17

Yeah tbh I think the big issue is men doing too much on the front end and too little on the backend and women doing too much on the backend and very little on the front end. From what I've seen too many women do way to little in the opening stages of courtship and its gotten even worse. So many don't reciprocate effort, don't know mirror, hell, I've even noticed some act offended at certain compliments. At the same time I see way too many women catering for a bum ass boyfriend or a praying for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:37 AM
–

I spend thousands simping for my fiance. I love it. I genuinely do believe in "happy wife, happy life". BUT, I put my girl through a shitton of tests to ensure that she was the right one to settle with. You know shit is crazy when my mother is telling me to take it easy on her and actually wished her the best when it comes to us settling down together. It's also why I think gym/fitness/sports is ESSENTIAL for young men. I went to the gym and made myself attractive. It gave me options which allow…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:33 AM
1

Are thots in IG synonymous with OF models??? Posting ass shots isn't thot behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:06 AM
3

That's the COLLEGE EDUCATED workforce and the difference is marginal, fluctuates and is well within the margin of error. And this still doesn't account for the fact that its well known women have way overtaken men in college attendance. Can some of you just try to not be full of shit? The drop off in young mothers from the workforce is a well documented post covid phenomenon. https://www.fastcompany.com/90890758/working-mothers-leaving-workforce-report-childcare-cost-2023
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:04 AM
2

Men in general are far less secure and much more concerned with their masculinity than women are with their femininity. Red pill plays on those fears and insists that this is what a REAL man is and if you're not that, that's bad. LOLwut? I think this is what I love the most about "bluepilled" rhetoric. It comes from this place of white centric privilege and, due to such, is so beyond asinine, milquetoast and completely toothless its ability to criticise the worst of redpill philosophy. In actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:49 PM
1

Most of the gymfluencers who show their asses have huge amounts of female followers and IG is primarily female. >Lots of women just use IG for cooking, decorating, memes, animals, clothes, etc. LOL yeah I'm sure women love colouring and unicorns and pink stuff too!! Just LOL at how pathetic the lengths some of you go to in order to make women seem sweet and innocent. Plenty of women on Insta are posting their asses in booty shorts to "motivate" other women and sell them shitty custom workouts an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:29 PM
1

But I also don’t think they you know how the average women think? Half of women think sex work is immoral. https://www.vox.com/2016/3/11/11203740/prostitution-legal-men-women-poll This is where I get kinda suspicious of replies on here. Let women on Reddit tell you, its just out of touch republicans who disapprove when, in truth, younger women are actually more dissapproving of sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:18 PM
0

This is...horseshit. I used to spend a lot of my time in the swinging and kink community hanging around with dudes who were cuckolds. If I used that community as a representative, you would think there are a fuckton of men who enjoy having a girl who gets fucked by BBC on the weekends. However, after spending some time in it and actually talking to a lot of single women in the scene, you actually learn just how many people outside of it find the whole thing weird and disgusting. Its amusing. Onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:14 PM
8

TBH I read somewhere that Onlyfans has 190 million users but only 2.1 million of that are what we call "creators", so no, I dont think that large a percentage of women in the US are actually making onlyfans content.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:03 PM
1

I 100% agree with you. Women by and large are not dumb gold diggers with a body count in the triple digits. The problem is that these types of women (not necessarily the OF “”models””) who spew radical feminist nonsense and are glorifying being a “boss babe” and being promiscuous are kind of a role model for normal women. Holy Christ, based. This is the point I was trying to make. These women aren't every women, but they're shaping opinion and shaping discourse too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:56 PM
3

Looool women depend on man's income a fuckload here too. And I'm in the 5th largest economy on earth. Just lol. Post pandemic has seen an unprecedent drop off of women in the workforce. People legit pretending a male partners income doesn't matter a fuckload???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:29 PM
1

Have you actually watched FnF? How would you know what mindsets the women share?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:21 PM
17

Lol watch some of the women on here now claim that most women don't have fantasies and don't pine for famous men and scenarios such as Chris Evans fiance being harassed online or women lining up for Chris Brown concert tickets don't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:15 PM
1

Don't talk shit. This is literally what I said. The only thing women are handpicked for is their looks...which only shows that men would be better served if they judged women off of criteria which took into account more than their physical appeal. This doesn't imply attractive women are terrible just because (I argue the exact opposite all the time) just that it's essential for men to have criteria for settling which encompasses more than a woman's looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:07 PM
–

It isn't, but only someone completely delusional would pretend as if America doesn't reward loud and bombastic personalities. 70m people voted for a guy who openly insults disabled people and Mexicans and we are legit pretending Americans don't like over the top personalities???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:01 PM
1

kickboxing class Lol this is nonsense. I'm 6ft4 and fighting guys my size who fight is a pain in the ass. Kickboxing (and fight sports in general) cater very heavily to shorter practitioners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:59 PM
1

Desirable is subjective - I’d wager many men would not find the type of women who go on these podcasts desirable, especially for a relationship, which is what most women want. Again this is what I mean about arguing in bad fucking faith. Most of you just can't goddman help yourselves. I never once suggested men like women who go on podcasts. I said these women has the LOOKS that make them desirable to the opposite sex. And only a clown word sit there pretending the types who come on FnF are the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:55 PM
3

Clubbing is in decline in general among younger people. But are you legit suggesting young women aren't concerned about their appearance, courting the attention of desirable men and dating? Seriously??? They're racking up followers the same way anti immigration activists and Donald Trump does. But only and ignorant, out of touch clown would suggest they're not tapping into genuine discontent among the demographics they resonate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:41 PM
1

No. The US is the most powerful economy on earth, are u legit positing that I'm suggesting there aren't wealthy men? No. The point is countries like Switzerland offer a comfortable safety net and a plethora of men who may not be type A go getter types but can still support towards a very comfortable lifestyle. The US lacks any such safety net and for every 1 six figure earner, there are 9 who aren't. The competition is fierce and thus hypergamy is far more pronounced.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:37 PM
2

Maybe my recollection of the past is tainted, but people always wanted to be with the guy that had the money, and having the fancy suit and nice car was how you showed it. The problem now, is that there's been a somewhat puritan wave of morals ("Money don't mean a thing" type of folks) that say one thing, but you'll find out they're the ones doing scummy things for a paycheck. Red Pill, to my understanding, has been the "say the quiet part out loud" of this situation. That's why these so-called …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:33 PM
-1

Again, I never said they're necessarily average. But they're all attractive. I for one would never deny redpillers are enamoured with physical conventionally attractive women...that's the only common denominator. I'm also not pretending as if there haven't been an occasional girl whose shown up Myron for the clown he is. But, by and large, the desirable women carry very similar mindsets and pretending as if they don't seems to be like deliberate misdirection at this point. As said, it's amusing …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:32 PM
3

Again, maybe. I mean it wouldn't surprise me. But the data isn't really supporting the opposite. Most women claiming most men are unattractive, many young men single, women surpassing men in education. The problem is the takes aren't particularly trashy, they just show a underlying contempt for younger, unsuccessful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:28 PM
-1

Actually it does represent the majority. Not only Miami, but LA, New York, San Fran and Chicago too. 73% of millennials like in large to mid size cities. They represent a huge bulk of the American population very well hence why they're racking up follower counts. Again, a lot of women on this sub like gaslighting and I don't know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:40 PM
2

Granted, a lot of the RP folks you see are based in a few countries: Primarily the US (usually a big city like NYC or Miami, if not LA), or the UK (London). Boom, this is it. Economics figure very heavily into this too. TBH I wouldnt call it grifting at all. Fresh and Fit are absolute bozos. Literally bottom of the barrell when it comes to morals. But both are in relationships and have a plethora of options and have a gaggle of women begging to be on their show. The "Whatever" podcast seems to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:30 PM
9

Nah. I've been on a bit of a FnF binge during the holidays. Also been watching "the desirable truth" where some Ghanaian guy interviews random women in Miami. These women aren't "handpicked", they're genuinely on the same wavelength as a lot of young women now. The only thing women are handpicked for is their looks...which only shows that men would be better served if they judged women off of criteria which took into account more than their physical appeal. Most Women are Perfectly normal People…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:27 PM
0

Looool Bradford is an absolute shithole let's be honest. I don't think women from there are ones most men aspire to being with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:39 PM
0

I have three investment accounts. My main with the most money in it is a government backed ISA which penalises you for withdrawal. Withdrawal from any of my accounts also counts towards my pre tax allowance which is about $25k in the UK. Cutting into your investment accounts is very much the definition of being in financial difficulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:21 PM
1

We know nothing of your sexual market value. Or theirs. A lot of women say this but then it kinda turns out that everyone involved is like a 5-6/10 or even lower. Men among this bracket often aren't brimming with options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:28 AM
5

Whilst I DEFINITELY don't think there are a bunch of attractive women having casual relationships with men uglier than them...many discount how men can be put off from dating attractive women due to behavioural incompatibility. I'm super attracted to my fiance. She's my type and gorgeous in my eyes (and she has a fat ass on a size 6 frame which is a big thing for me) but I dated some absolute hotties before I got serious with her. I didn't take any of them seriously because we either had nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:24 AM
1

Jesus. Do some you watch the news? Like ever? Childcare is a MASSIVE point of governmental policy. You're legit confused who is taking care of kids if parents are working???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:20 AM
–

That posters an idiot. There are quite a few posters on here who engage in a pretty fair way and there are others who seem to be completely incapable of intellectually honest discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:17 AM
1

Do you still want to be monogamous going forward? Do you think money has changed your thoughts on having multiple partners etc? Do you feel like you have “earned” it so to speak? To be surrounded by beautiful women and settle down but still have side pieces or even two girlfriends/wives. I want to be monogamous and that's the aim. Sometimes I fuck up talking to women I shouldn't be but I have no intention to have any kind of harem or mistress that my wife is "okay" with. Its just a different tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:10 AM
1

Are you in you 20’s, 30’s? 30s also feel like this is a common trope. Either a successful man found his partner before the success and they are together forever. Or only successful women pair with a successful man. Yep pretty much. I mean my fiance is still well educated, comes from a good family and has mostly middle class friends. I've always thought the redpill idea that men will happily date pretty but unsuccessful bimbos as pretty ludicrous. I have recently turned 23 and more motivated than…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:00 AM
1

It's interesting. I've been in a relationship for a while now and I met my girl before I was successful. She cooks, cleans and is very feminine. However, as my career has progressed I've pushed her to take her own more seriously too. She completed her masters in 2021 and has now had several promotions at her company. However, when I met her I was very much looking for as feminine a woman I could find.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 10:30 PM
–

It's genuinely not this simple as a man in the real world though. It is that simple. Jesus. Why do so many of you torture yourselves with this shit???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:10 PM
–

The ability to engage with women kinda works like professional sports. You tend to find the talented often have physical gifts which help them massively anyway. Most NBA players are 6ft6, most heavyweight boxers are 6ft3+ and 230lbs lean, most Olympic swimmers have broad shoulders. Most attractive guys I know, like myself, are pretty damn competent when talking to women. I also notice most don't actually bother with online dating or texting and are way happier with approaching in real life becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:09 PM
2

They're the same. Only reason they aren't buying the designer goods is because they can't afford them. We've seen how resilient luxury brands have been through economic hard times both today and in 2008 and people here are still trying to pretend people don't like high value shit???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:22 AM
1

Great another person who doesn't understand the meaning of "living paycheck to paycheck"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:34 AM
0

You don't have high self worth though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:23 AM
-2

Dotn equate me with whichever incel loser you're talking to. And actually I like it when women have high sense of self worth. I just don't think you're one of them. The fact that you mention online dating bios doesn't sell you as the high value type I gotta be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:19 AM
2

I have thousands upon thousands tied up in investments too. If my income stops IM FUCKED BECAUSE I CANT WITHDRAW THAT money in any such timely manner to prevent me having to rely on credit cards. I've literally been in that position. And this doesn't even account for the fact that most people earning that are living in HCOL areas. A lot of living spaces in NYC/SanFran are setting people back 3k+ and you're legit wondering how people can run out of money at the end of the month??? Just lol of cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:18 AM
7

Also. To add further. Most of the women claiming that money "doesn't mean anything" are full of shit. They're the typical female fucks on here who can't compete and spout this bullshit to make themselves feel better. Just like the lames who think anyone who looks bigger than them is on steroids. My fiances uni friends are all wealthy. Legit wealthy. Like, parents run government departments wealthy. One of her friends father literally supplies half the businesses in Jersey, UK. She LOVES designer…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:10 AM
3

It's amusing how many broke clowns in this thread are claiming cars are a sign of a lack of wealth when they're talking about what is likely a fucking audi RS3. Trust me, unless you're stupid enough to rent exotic cars they're NOT cheap. And are absolutely not the preserve of someone whose not at least pulling in half a million or more a year. I've done the math. Even as someone earning hundreds of thousands, they're still far beyond my income level. If you meet a guy who drives one, chances are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:02 AM
1

honestly i also am not "trophy wife" looking It's amusing. Your whole diatribe prior to this really gave this fact away. Dudes here waste their time not realising that the women they're often engaging with are Linda low on the totem pole and aren't really useful sources of information anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:57 AM
4

I honestly think this is another place where redditors show their complete lack of knowledge of cars. Or money. A lot of those euro whips are c classes, 5 series and A5s. They're relatively cheap. Here in the UK you're looking at about $500 or so a month for a monthly note or about 30k outright. The standard price of a new car. The 8 series/7 series/GLEs/S classes are actually pretty damn expensive and, at least here in the UK will set u anything back from $800 to $1.5k a month. These are just..…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:55 AM
3

Loool yes they can be. It's called lifestyle creep. Where I am 170k equates to about 7-8k a month. You lose half of that at least in rent/mortgage, insurance, car note, bills. That leaves about 4k. Now take the next two months and that income stops. You have about a few weeks before you're royally fucked. And thats basically just accounting for basic luxuries like a half decent car. I honestly think it's crazy how people haven't realised how expensive things are now. 175k is simply not the salar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:47 AM
3

Lol the top 10% of earners is not at all that wealthy. $170k and $250k. Its a damn good salary...but nothing insane really. I earn a similar amount which puts me in the top 2% or so where I am in the UK and even then I don't feel anything close go wealthy. And it's because you're not wealthy. If you lose that job tomorrow then you could very well be fucked. And I'm also willing to bet you're likely no more than two paychecks away from financial difficulty. Now on paper I'm doing better than most…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:31 AM
3

There is a market for men in sex work. Gay men have eyes too. However, male sex workers complain about the same shit the female ones do. https://www.indy100.com/news/male-sex-workers-rape-sexual-assault-child-exploitation-prostitution-brothels-8107531
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:54 AM
3

I'm sure rhe local weed dealer will argue that his lives experience makes his line of work perfectly legitimate. It ain't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:47 AM
13

They're not. If anything, you may be. Vast majority of redditors (the men in this sub especially) are under 30. The dynamics have changed drastically. I don't believe women standards are too high but standards of everything from behaviour to looks have changed. This is also reflected in the data where all familial benchmarks are trending downwards. Less people getting married, less people having kids, less people moving out, less people having relationships. Also, how average is your workplace? …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:03 PM
4

As someone who came from a background of definitely going hungry… I think you’re talking out of your ass. You went hungry because you likely had inadequate/economically vulnerable guardians who couldn't afford to BUY food. This is not the same as living in a country where experiencing a drought/famine/warfare means you literally can't even FIND food let alone pay for it. You're perfectly aware of my point atop playing dumb. And it's funny how you first claimed that you didn't at all do sex work …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:59 PM
5

Yes, go on. Explain to be how the Lucy Faithfull foundation, Shore and West Mercia police are right wingers. Go on. This should be good...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:48 PM
4

I wasn’t doing it for survival. I did it as a way to stay afloat. I could have just as easily picked up a part time job. Again. That's the very nature of doing something for survival. We live in rich, economically stable economies where no one really goes hungry. You think that negates people doing things for survival? If you weren't able to meet your monthly bills without doing sex work then, yes, you were doing it for survival. And that's the definition everyone else uses. Lacking dependents a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:43 PM
3

Then you're a not worth engaging with. Outside of the basic hippocratic oath, medical professionals are subject (and answer to) numerous professional bodies design to provide recourse to disgruntled patients. Pretending the sex industry (which doesn't have a basic fucking union) has any such protections for either workers or clients is laughable and to pretend its in anyway similar makes me think you're either morally dubious (and see no issue with the exploitative nature of it) or just naive. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:25 PM
4

Since when did trafficking stop with children? You're dangerously full of shit. I never even said sex work isn't work. Its just that it exploitative work that preys upon peoples vulnerabilities and loneliness. Should it be illegal? Probably not. But its like gambling (which I don't think should be outlawed either) where exploitation of the customer/worker is rife. Bad people exploiting their workers is heavily predicated on the vulnerabilities of those in said workforces.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:17 PM
5

Most of the “studies” surrounding the “harm” in porn is little more than propaganda No the fuck they're not. I'm here in the UK and ths studies are almost by advocacy/women's rights groups. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/society/2023/sep/26/pornography-driving-teens-child-abuse-material-charities-police
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:09 PM
5

And I needed a way to make extra cash at 27 to keep myself afloat living on my own. That means you were doing it for survival. This sub has too many halfwits Aith no self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:06 PM
1

Again. Are you gonna sit there and pretend medicine and sex work have the same amount of shady shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:32 PM
2

I'm not here to argue against decriminalisation, which I'm certainly not against, but talking about "tackling societies underlying issues" is already showing that you're on that bullshit red herring time. There is never going to be a time where predatory people won't see vulnerable individuals (children especially) as ripe for coercion. We have forms of legalised sex work here in Europe. Societies with way less inequalities than those experienced in America and, even here, prostitution just beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:43 PM
9

That's perfectly fair. Honesty of this kind is always refreshing on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:46 PM
5

Looool sorry but get the hell out. Hack doctors, lawyers and construction works can all get struck off. The laws about adhering to good astandards of practice are fairly rigorous any half decent liberal democracy. Hence why there is a 95% chance your routine surgery won't result in your death and the building you reside in won't collapse. Sex work has no such protections. Never has. I mean this argumentation is beyond asinine. Trying to posit sex work as having the same level of "professional pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:39 PM
–

Fucking. Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:04 PM
–

it's a fantasy No one wants to be with a roid monster irl except maybe other guys You literally contradict your first sentence in the second sentence. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:02 AM
–

https://www.dreamboys.co.uk/news/lgbtq-gay-male-strip-show Of course yes, that's something that would be catering to male posters...totally. Nothing on that page advertises it's weekly drag performances and sitting there pretending as if dreamboys or any of the marketing therein is for the male gaze is just...laughable delusion. But yes, go on sit there and tell me dreamboys is actually for gay man. Let's see how completely full of crap you actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:47 AM
–

What? Your incapable of clicking links now? When I Google King Charles, a pic of Liz II comes up. Should I noe assume he isn't the head of state now? Some of you posters man...christ. There's literally an entire page convincing men that it's perfectly okay to attend freamboys shows and yet you're still sitting here pretending this shit ain't clearly for the female gaze. https://www.dreamboys.co.uk/news/lgbtq-gay-male-strip-show As said. Some of you are addicted to being full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:37 AM
–

Dreamboys is pretty mainstream and has no affiliation with drag shows https://www.dreamboys.co.uk/ That's literally the website. Nothing on there mentions drag shows of any kind. Are some of you just addicted to lying or some shit??? They've literally been featured on prime daytime TV with Holly Willoughby. They're mainstream as fuck. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-9688011/amp/Holly-Willoughby-blushes-Dreamboys-hunk-whips-shirt-doing-flip.html When a lot of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:24 AM
–

Eh. Just realised you're a r/destiny follower. A sad sack of shit cuck who married some young hot 22 year old in some hilarious "open relationship" only for her to cheat on him with some suicide threatening fairy. These are the kind of dudes equating male strip clubs with zoos. Clowns like this never had a hope in hell. Their fathers failed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:19 AM
–

There are literally a half dozen documentaries featuring male sex workers who make it abundantly clear that objectification is even much part and parcel of male performing. And I've done it myself. I was propositioned plenty. Got me my foray into the kink/swinging scene too (lol god know what would happen if I spoke about the dozens of monthly events I attended all over the country catering to women looking for well endowed black men...it'll probably blow your little mind). Sitting there and mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:53 PM
–

The UK is the 5th largest economy, 21st most populous country on earth you dumbass. And reveling in the absurb spectacle doesn't mean they don't enjoy the male bodies on show. What now? Men don't desire the female strippers because rappers and entertainers often go to places like king of diamonds to stunt for social media? Dudes like you make me laugh. Women are fallible, horny and lecherous just like men are. I couldn't imagine being so weak I need to somehow convince myself they're somehow abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:45 PM
–

Lol does anyone else see how full of shit this poster is. Literally implies in the first post that marriage and dating is an aim and then plays dumb when someone pushes back on that statement. Posters like this aren't here for good discourse. Their aim is to obfuscate. If there is one thing I've noticed in both social and professional dynamics it's how many specialise in the art of deceit in our society. It's all about making themselves seem as innocuous as possible, often as a reuse to dull you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:37 PM
–

about to compete in Mr Olympia 🙄 Chris Bumstead just competed in Mr Olympia. He has 10m+ loads of them and a fuckload of them are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:29 PM
–

Yes because Zoos and male strip clubs are clearly the same thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:27 PM
–

Again, from experience of actually _doing_what sheltered clowns on here talk about. Ogling performers bodies in a very sexual way eas entirely the point. Just lol at sitting here pretending as if women frequenting male stripper performances was all just a laugh and a joke without a hint of objectification. Jesus christ, the level of bullshit here is phenomenal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:10 PM
–

No they're not. Stop fucking talking shit. You're another one of these full of shit, disingenuous, dishonest posters. Here in the UK dreamboys is massive. A female strip show entirely catered to women with performances in every major city in the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:07 PM
–

Yeah pretty much. I've actually done exotic dancing. I met a dominatrix a few years ago who got me to do private events. The benefits of being swole, tall and having a big dick I guess. One thing it told me though is, Jesus, women really really like jacked, good looking men. If anything what u found most tragic was just how thirsty anglicised western women were...despite them being the first to tell you how much looks doesn't matter and muscle mass doesn't make a man attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:05 PM
–

Lol wtf. A lot of strippers don't have huge fake tits. And I've known quite a few strippers. Are posters here this sheltered? How the fuck is this the most upvoted comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:01 PM
–

Learn to fucking read. Spreading a rumor and telling me my penis big isn't the same damn thing. How much it "truly mattered" isn't really the point. Plenty of women fetishism big dicks and even more see it as a positive characteristics. What I don't like is people pretending its not a significant factor in men's self image/insecurity and as if women dotn pay attention to it as a physical attribute or exasperate those same insecurities. Hence my talk of "playing innocent". So many of you addicted…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:52 PM
–

Nah. Again. This is this bullshit women love saying on here to make themselves feel better. Whether it'd been my time in the kink scene or just dating in general. Women care about dick size. In fact I girl I dated would go around telling people about the size of my dick when I was in university. When swinging, I frequented a few sex clubs and not only did the more successful guys skew on the larger side, the most successful guy I knew was success mostly because of his huge dick. Yes, a large pen…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:19 PM
6

Everyone is partaking in bad behaviour. The women are just as bad ad the men and, for some bizarre reason, are largely seen as the victims of said bad behaviour rather than being contributors themselves. There's also nothing wrong with extensive messaging before meeting either. The problem is someone expecting you to message them constantly and frequently and those same people disappearing randomly. People are well aware of mens bad/unsuccessful behaviour on apps. We know explicit messaging/bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:09 PM
6

Aint played my PS5 for about a month. Last game I enjoyed on it was something called Returnal (which is fucking masterpiece which I strongly recommend) and the other was the Dark Souls remake. One thing I found intruiging about both games, was that neither had any iota of respect for my time. One is a "roguelike" which, when you died, would place you back at the beginning of 5 maze like maps. The other is an "always online" grindfest which doesnt even have a pause button. I'm also noticing a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:34 PM
6

LOL you post like someone who complains about incels/virgins and yet, in a weird way, likely doesn't have the social proof to hang out with anyone but men who are incels/virgins. Most people, be they men or women, end up meeting/fucking/dating people who arent the people they lost their virginity to. Its not thing to do with "confidence" and everything to do with the fact that we're a species who like a degree of sexual variety. Christ, for all the talk of how terrible incels are you often sound…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:17 PM
5

Its crazy how well this fits in with my experience. Things were so absurdly easy from 2010-2014. I had literally hundreds of matches on Tinder and never ever even paid. Even up to 2016. They used to glitch when introducing their paid features and you could find yourself near the top of the pile and, provided you had a half decent profile, you could rack up ridiculous matches from which you could easily find dates. And that was in a shitty city in middle england. Relatively recently though, its s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:39 PM
2

I'm not single anymore but I've dabbled in them a few years back and I actually met my fiance on them some time ago. Before I used to do better on apps, there was a large pool of people. In the relatively recent time I used them though it got considerably worse. A lot of gamification and pay to play was introduced which made it impossible to use. I would get tons of matches (about 40-50 when I briefly signed up to Bumble within the first week...without paying) but so, so few would lead to conver…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:30 PM
3

Kier Starmer just wrote an ode to Thatcher in his in the telegraph. And thats a shadow labour leader. Pretry much everywhere except the North, Margaret Thatcher is considered as one of the most transformational and impactful British prime ministers of all time. Outside of Tony Blair and maybe Harold Wilson, no post WW2 British leader has had a bigger impact on British life. No matter how morally bankrupt she may be. It's amusing reading the takes of many political takes on here. They're so shall…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:34 AM
1

Because I...like my girlfriend? And she was with me when I was broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:07 AM
-8

Yeah they're mostly full of shit. Its not the redpill they fear, it's the accountability. I kinda feel reddit in particular attracts a certain kind of woman. Not particularly highly on the social totem pole and probably one who resents the various behavioural, cultural and physical standards women are held to or adhere to. It's why there are so many feminists on reddit and so many who rail against the redpill. Most women I meet in real life only have a passing dislike of redpill grifters but her…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:12 PM
1

Yeah no skin of my back. She's a beautiful person so assisting her really benefits my well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:17 PM
1

I'm one of those exceptional looking dudes. 6ft4+, have a physique which gets multiple comments a day. I had four people yesterday compliment me and thats a fairly regular occurence. Adding to that I earn nearly 300k and drive a 100k BMW. My fiance is cute as hell but doesn't look as "exceptional" as I do. I dislike admitting this heavily but she openly admits that herself more than I do. However, she recently got cosmetic surgery to remove her underbite and her nose and I've spent an additional…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:02 PM
1

Lol I honestly think the recent GSS stats make sense. I've noticed of weird female LARPers and femcels suddenly on here. I've lurked for a long time and never noticed this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:17 AM
2

That's fair. Gym is about the only place I see presentable young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:19 AM
2

Its that every woman on here has "unique" preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:34 AM
4

Anyone can do it. The barrier of entry in many cases is a three month bootcamp. Even as a software engineers myself, its amusing seeing clowns in this field attach some kind of weird superiority. We ain't performing critical surgery here or determining a man's freedom. Changing a few lines of code or pressing a button to deploy some infrastructure ain't some impossible ly intellectual task.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:20 AM
-1

How the hell can you convince someone that military is bad? Isn't the military responsible for half the useful everyday tech we use?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:11 AM
8

No the fuck it's not. And I say that as a math smart computer science graduate working in tech. Why are so many women in this sub so fucking intent on misleading people with virtua signalling bullshit. Math has never been sexy and there is nothing "hot" about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:09 AM
3

Eh....you'll be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:07 AM
0

Tbh not massively fond of your posts but this is spot on. And I am a senior/lead software engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:07 AM
23

A lot of men, especially nerdy men, are straight up unattractive and unlikeable. If I was a woman I wouldn't date 90 percent of dudes either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:55 PM
1

As a super muscular guy, this was only something I took issue with in my mid twenties. What made me off putting wise was simply due to me having low standards. When I reached my late twenties I started getting a lot picker about women I spent time with...and from then on I noticed far fewer put me in the "fuckzone category". Eventually, once you start cultivating a demeanor and personality that matches your superior looks, you become way less tolerant of women's flaws. When I reached my late twe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:53 PM
3

The most common life path is being reliant on a man? The fuck time are u living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:44 PM
1

Whilst gay guys tend to be cleaner, it returns to my earlier point. If girls are happily fraternising with filthy men then those girls likely have low standards (which most teenage/college aged women do). Tbh all my male friends had semi decent cleanliness levels and would have been judged accordingly if they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:56 PM
2

Lol dude shut the fuck up. 🤣 at "gladly go to war". The military in many Western countries are begging for recruits. So many pussies on here talking rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:47 PM
2

Yeah probably. But this kinda ties into what the redpill talks about. I believe there is top percentile and bottom. The men you meet with presentable bathrooms likely have such because they have regular partners or female acquaintances. They're the percentile of men regularly engaging with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:45 PM
1

Neither. But lean red. From Patrice Oneal Women are replaceable Back in 2016 when I was looking for a partner, it meant a lot. Now it's something I occasionally touch upon. Made me better at vetting Not really. Lost an occasional prospect who was on a different wavelength often times. Made me less tolerant of bad behaviour Not single. N/a N/a
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:40 PM
0

If you're cooking daily shouldn't u need to be cleaning a kitchen daily???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:30 PM
0

I'm starting to realise from the replies. Most of the women here don't do shit. For all the complaints about "housework" it's amusing how many seemingly so barely fuck all around the house. Can't say I'm surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:28 PM
1

I'm a guy. Dishes: done mostly by me, my fiance will do them 20% of the time (often after cooking). Always make sure kitchen is spotless by bedtime. Laundry: 50/50. She does hers and I do mine Hoovering/mopping: every Saturday, almost entirely me. I often hoover pockets of the living room every day. Trash: mostly me, she often replaces bins and I take them out Bathroom: we have two and I do both in my Saturday morning clean Cooking: I don't cook. I can but rarely ever end up doing so. Any man te…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:17 PM
7

And, as a man, I think women are way to "nice" and willing to tell men what they want to hear. Most men are bad with power and act out when they're given the ability to wield it. Again, despite my feelings probably aligning more closely to "redpill" men have kinda failed to show our ability to treat women fairly. A lot of men are nice merely because they risk being socially ostracised for not doing so....hence why so many turn to these youtuber "guru's" in the first place. I actually feel if wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:08 PM
-7

And that's probably because every woman you know is a pathetic weirdo. Plenty of women encouraging education and independence because they're great fucking things to have rather than pathetically using men as a constant frame of reference. My mother instilled education because it was often a gateway to higher paying fields, not because it was a weapon to be used in a potential relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:00 PM
8

You frame everything from your weirdo, incel gender war so I can't answer your question. I'm telling you that plenty of people don't frame their experiences from being a man or woman. My mother drilled into my sister the importance of an education, but not simply because it would mean she wouldn't "rely on a man".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:56 PM
6

My grandfather died when I was young. My father who is a senior citizen now, again, never referred to difference in matters of gender. If anything, when the now Conservative government in the UK was elected in 2010 he mentioned things getting harder. My parents didn't really differentiate experiences by gender the way many on here do. They hammered the importance of "marrying well" in all their children (men and women).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:31 PM
5

My parents (who are boomers now) don't really discuss dating in that way. But they're also African immigrants who came to Europe on work visas. Interestingly enough, they're actually kinda balanced in their view of modern comforts. They actually mention things being easier in their time in some ways, especially in regards to finding work, getting on the property ladder and some forms of governmental support (social housing, free education) what they do think has gotten better is social conventio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:24 PM
22

Tbh despite probably adhering more to the red side of things as a dude, I totally fucking get it. Even at work, I'm starting to realise how absolutely fucking insufferable most average dudes are. It's hard enough having to work with them, couldn't imagine having go live with the average beta male dickhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:29 PM
2

Tbh I actually think people are becoming more objective. I think we are all becoming more adept to what makes an adequate partner and what doesn't. It's similar with jobs. Yeah it sucks for juniors, but for more senior professionals, it's becoming easier to determine which workplaces are tolerable and which are toxic shitholes. In one of my roles I've had big time arguments with the manager so much so that it got my contract cut...lo and behold on the company's Glassdoor there are multiple compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:33 PM
1

Lol downvote posts and talks about touching a nerve...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:52 AM
1

I never said I assumed anything. I just said I didn't value my sexual partners. I'll take being an asshole over being...you. I mean look at the laughable crap you spend all your time posting. And then trying to pretend to anyone that u have any semblance of a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:49 AM
1

Looool I've had hundreds of partners. Way more than 99.99999% of people here. I have never valued the women I casually fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:12 PM
6

If she's into you, yes she'll want your attention, she'll want to feel reassured, she'll want to feel like you're invested. This is how women fall for super jealous, controlling, suicide threatening assholes. It's not because they're assholes, as the redpill likes to claim. It's because because of the attention, the reassurance, the investment of time and energy she's getting. She might think no other dude will love her this intensely,even if this dude is kinda toxic. Woah PPD is super based tod…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:41 PM
2

But the HVM doesn’t, creating a dichotomy where the woman, prolly for the first time ever, had to put in effort to get what she wants. Woah. Some based takes today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:39 PM
3

Someone here has (correctly) mentioned that people vary. But its not that simple. Or, in reality, people aren't really as complex or unique as they want to believe. We're all perfectly willing to believe books on marketing, manufacturing of consent politically, geopolitical posturing and diplomacy but, suddenly when it comes to dating, we throw out all beliefs about human behavioral correlation and pretend as if no strategy can work on two different people. Maybe I'm wrong, but I've seen a marke…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:38 PM
3

Yep. Patrice said it best. Don't fall for no banana in a tailpipe. Whatever women say, believe the opposite. I think a big problem with modern men is how weak and lacking in ability to hold women accountable. And women hate it. I've had at least three gen Zer women tell me how they actually thought Andrew Tate had interesting ideas or how much they disliked the whole onlyfans culture. I also met and dealt with a few cuckold/hoteide couples. In many of those cases it was the guy pushing for it an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:22 PM
0

Its true sadly. And I think redpillers are pathetic filth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:21 AM
–

Yes. This is a really good and insightful post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:38 PM
–

This. I kinda don't really believe anyone who incessantly argues with redpillers or incels is really ad comfortable in their ideological position as they let on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:48 AM
–

Well I always compare the redpill to stances on immigration. In my country (UK) ten years ago complaining about immigrants would get you classed as a bigot. In 2023 though, apprehension has become mainstream. The biggest difference between then and now is the socioeconomic bracket of those complaining. 10 years ago, immigration was still a problem relegated to the working classes. You would only see immigrants shuffled into poor inner city areas such as the one I grew up in. Now however. The lat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:45 AM
2

What the fuck is "physical arousal"? Height doesn't cause physical arousal either hit is still widely preferred by most women. OP mentioned "genuine attraction" and alluded absolutely nothing about physical arousal. Why do so many you talk shit and operate in such bad faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:47 AM
1

Rich men have more sex: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.huffpost.com/entry/study-rich-men-have-more_n_4243/amp (UK) Poorer men twice as likely to live alone: https://www.ft.com/content/2d4143e6-7da1-11e7-9108-edda0bcbc928 Women on Tinder preferring higher educated partners: https://www.google.com/amp/s/phys.org/news/2019-08-women-tinder-highly-men.amp High income men are more likely to marry, are less likely to divorce, if divorced are more likely to remarry, and are less likely to be childless…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:32 AM
0

Fucking. BAAAASED.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:05 AM
0

I hear this being said on fucking BBC mews and CNN. Do you people do anything other than watch mindless tiktok and YouTube videos??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:56 AM
0

Because men are physically stronger. But, also, being a sexual object can also be pretty dehumanising for a man too. Its rare you'll see a hot guy who actually stays single and fucking around for that long. After my partner count got to the 50s or so I was already kind over it...despite it going beyond that significantly I was way less interested in putting the same effort I did when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:09 PM
2

Here in the UK we have dangerous levels of alcohol consumption, even more so among women where "binge drinking" is worse than ever. And I don't accept that "oh I drink socially" because the whole point of binge drinking is to drink excessively to the point of drunkenness. I mean, I won't judge but I think people don't realise just how useful it can be learning how to get comfortable talking to women without the alcoholic crutch...hence why "cold approaching" is so useful. Teaches you to suck it …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:30 PM
2

Lol good analogy. I watched "the menu" the other day and I kinda feel its relevant 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:07 PM
13

"Where are all these men finding terrible women" says the poster who makes daily fucking bunk threads on redundant topics. It's clear to see why men are finding so many toxic women and most of that is displayed by the women on here and people like you. Seriously. I tend to find more level headed takes on places like r/askwomen. Places like here and twoX give a perfect window into the mindset of the weird, socially stunted, devoid of self awareness, toxic women I met in my life. Women who claim t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:45 PM
1

Actually kinda no. fact, there was little difference in number of sex partners across the height continuum, with one exception--only very short men reported notably fewer median sex partners (5) than men of other heights (7). In terms of average number of partners, men who were average to extremely tall reported one to three more partners than men who were shorter than average. "These findings confirm that height is relevant on the mating market," said David Frederick, Ph.D., assistant professor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:33 PM
1

The third link you posted asked 194 women about desirability ratings of nice and attractive men. It's not really a study worth the paper it's written on. For balance, another study showed that women rated 80% of men on dating sites unattractive and yet messaged a lot of those same "unattractive" men. Women's "desirability ratings" really aren't worth much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:30 PM
8

I'm straight up buff. Like super buff. To the point most people say its supposed to be too much. My partner count may be in the 400s. Tbh I actually think being buff, dominant and intimidating worked more on western women who spend so much time on forums like these talking about how much they don't like that. With women from continental europe/abroad, I noticed they would be interested in my look but my intellect would be what would win them over. In the case of English/American/anglicised women…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:24 PM
4

Woah. Some actual honesty from a woman on here...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:13 AM
2

I have plenty of "luck". I guess as a Brit who actually appreciated Rickmans work, I just find it funny watching some irritating yank play "I'm so unique and nice and personality is oh so important" knowing what shallow, irritating, image obsessed fickwits most of you are. Unless you're actually British too, in which case ignore my tirade.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:08 PM
1

A lot of you on here are full of shit. Whats amusing is how many of you lack the self awareness to see you're all full of crap in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:56 PM
1

Jesus Lord. Alan Rickman has never been a sex symbol to fucking anyone. Why are so many women on this sub aggressively stupid? Even if you go to r/askwomen they don't push the deceitful horse shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:26 PM
7

No they fucking don't. There is not a single goddamn male sex symbol who has anything close to a dadbod today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:25 PM
10

My girl is a good girl. A great girl. But she once compared my sexual performance to an ex and I almost tossed the whole relationship in the bin. Definitely made her behave herself. She later admitted that she did because during the time (we were in a challenging period) she felt powerless and disrespected and wanted to even the playing field. Both genders are notorious for foolish comparison in todays dating market. Be seriously weary of anyone, especially the gaslighting female frauds on here,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:22 PM
–

Wearing designer as a sign of being a low value woman is a...weird take. Same with fashion nova. It's just all over the place. I actually encouraged my girl to look into some things from fashionova because they're more suitable for her body type (slim thick).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 08:22 AM
-1

You make fair points. It's a shame that forum got banned because I think this sub could use with more FDS types as a sort of counterpart to all the Blackpool rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:17 AM
0

Whether she argues in good faith or not that poster makes too many goddamn threads. And yet I don't think I've seen any woman call her out on it. If a dude sat here making threads every damn day, I would assume they were a weirdo and call them such.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:12 AM
2

This is the type of stupid fucking comment I'm talking about. It's not simply about pushing back against incels. Any idiot can refute some loser fresh and fit enthusiast. It's like that's all a lot of you on here have the intellectual capacity for, arguing with some 16 year old dweeb eating crayons and telling us all how much women suck. I'm talking about pushing back against women with opposing ideas of feminine expression or relationships. Let this place tell it, every woman is an egalitarian,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:04 AM
2

FUCKING THANK YOU. I'm glad you've pointed this out because its fo fucking weird. I noticed before and mentioned that it only seems to be men having a debate about the best course of action and only the men on here who seem to push each other back on whatever their ideologies are. Reddit (and much of social media) has devolved into this weird group think among women. Its kinda amusing because real life is so much different. I honestly think it's because a lot of the women here aren't particularl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:52 AM
1

The OP agrees that you didn't answer thier question dumb fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:44 PM
0

The simp is a one trick pony. I also think simps don't get far and fizzle out much faster than pickmiphanies. He likely quickly gets cycled as the bottom feeder of many young girls who maintain rosters. I've noticed many girls using simps for experience as well until they can pull more established secure men. This is the answer which seemingly negates your own stance. Too many stupid people on this sub...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:32 PM
0

You're another one of these female posters who is just fundamentally wrong about everything you say. I wouldn't take the advice from a dude who is a virgin and only dated an unwanted virgin so I have no idea why people on here listen to you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:29 PM
21

Lol come on OP no one said this nonsense 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:56 AM
5

A professor said what a lot of black people also agree with. You would serially know that if you actually hung around any people of color (which you likely dont). This is why I agree with the frame of OPs statement. Whilst I can't speak for women, it always struck me as puerile how much the response to patriarchy just seems to be doing what men do and expecting not to be chastised for it. Except now I'm actually seeing a lot of women in my day to day life speak out against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:55 AM
3

am white and I don't see all this white guilt stuff at all Yes because you are, as I deduced ages ago, completely full of shit. I'm not going to waste my time as NPR and the BBC can do it for me. https://www.npr.org/2020/07/20/892943728/professor-criticizes-book-white-fragility-as-dehumanizing-to-black-people https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2020/jan/30/anti-woke-backlash-liberalism-laurence-fox And if you haven't seen it then you're either capping or your circles a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:46 AM
1

Pointing out systematic inequality doesn't necessarily need to involve saying white people are terrible. Tags what's happening. And pretending otherwise is just bad faith argumentation. In fact, the only place that very thing is not happening are the exclusively black social or real world networks you are likely not at all privy to. Outside of that, when looking at much of the mainstream discourse, it's very much white guilt told through a white lense to a white viewer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:24 AM
3

Those that do not have as loud of a voice of a risk of being stereotyped, othered, objectified and dehumanized. That happens anyway. This is what so many of you liberal women fail to understand and is the reason why even a lot of women of colour are turning against mainstream feminism in favour of intersectionality or downright "pink pill" nonsense. Sitting there telling everyone how terrible white people are hasn't even improved my circumstances in any way. Nor has acting like ignorant trump su…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:04 AM
3

This punching up and down is part of the problem. It's all just horseshit. I even notice this as someone who is black. "Oh black people being racist is just punching up, they can't be racist because racism is privilege plus power plus the square root of 3.145". It's just...nonsense. And I'm someone who could sit there and provide a whole diatribe on my thoughts relating to structural inequality and the legacy of anti blackness. There is no such thing punching "up or down". A punch is a punch. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:28 AM
1

He's just as bad and exploiting his position. The fact that you think the stance would be amy different highlights OPs point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:21 AM
7

This is the fundamental issue with reddit. You can find coddling for your bone idle, stupid behaviours on any sub depending upon what your vice/flaw is. I mean, I can't complain, it's essentially what Reddit is there for. But it kinda doesn't surprise me I'm finding more and more socially incompetent men and women. When you can sit online and have all your stupid, anti social behaviours validated, is it any surprise things are the way they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:17 AM
-3

Lol yes, sex should be shamed as long as you're a woman or an oppressed minority. It's amusing how much your own ideology is losing sympathy among the masses. People are sick of moral grandstanding as a means of self interested advancement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:01 AM
4

Looool this is funny because women swear the cheaters, misogynists and players in real life are soooo unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:54 PM
2

Loool have you actually dated an onlyfans model? This kinda reads like you haven't. Sex workers usually don't have the same hangups or barriers on sexual exchange as most. I lol at dudes who think they're somehow in for exclusive treatment when dealing with thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:46 PM
2

Loooool As someone who's casually fraternised with a few sex worker and Onlyfans types, this is a pathetic mentality and you'll be surprised the amount of WOMEN who don't respect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:00 AM
5

I've DATED sex workers. Many were dating shitty, misogynistic men. Some of the absolute crap you clowns come out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:14 AM
1

2 in how long? I know guys who getting hit on by 2 girls in a night would be a bad night.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:04 AM
2

Then you need to work on yourself or work on your approach. It's a simple equation. If my code doesn't build or doesn't pass through a pipeline, I work out the exception or what's causing the errors. Life ain't different. If women aren't taking to you then you need to work on your image or work on your game because it's going wrong somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:08 PM
4

Bullshit. I studied electronic engineering and computer science, never stopped me from going out or meeting women in college. They're literally everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:01 PM
1

Loool yes you're in engineering and you may not be as good looking as you possibly perceive yourself to be. Sorry but in college, you should have at least have had a few women talk to you in a night out. Hell, when occasionally in a university library.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:51 PM
0

I find that kinda hard to believe in Cali where the female competition is extremely high. I'm also excluding colleges because they're mostly a free-for-all. I kinda doubt fat women in californian colleges are having an easy time of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 07:48 PM
3

I don't necessarily think women need to do approaching. But they do have to make it clear to men that they're interested in that they're open to their interest. It makes logical sense that you can't expect men to not approach AND expect them to be able to know when you're interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:21 PM
2

I agree with this entirely. I kinda feel redpillers are behind the curve. That GSS data that they love citing actually showed that it was women who were experience higher rates of sexlessness. And I feel that tracks with how many women you're now seeing on tiktok claiming they're 30 years old and never had a relationship. Yes women's standards have largely increased. But that smaller pool of men they're aiming for have also seen their standards increase. I can't remember the last time a fat girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:07 PM
5

I've definitely seen it. I was commenting on it previously. I mean I've always had women occasionally approach but now I'm noticing things fall into extremes more. Either a woman is trying to keep herself completely away from men and dating or she's completely boy obsessed and will make open inferences to men she sees as desirable. It's super weird too. We are in a time when women, more than ever, claim that they're not visually stimulated or particularly selective for things that redpillers cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:56 PM
–

delusional in their assessment of themselves Yeah this is the biggest problem I have. Women in particular have become scarily lack in self awareness. I think mainstream and social media has contributed heavily to it. So much of the discourse being pushed to women seems to be about building narratives instead of nuanced challenging of ideas. I mean, don't get me wrong, men are guilty of it too but the environments in which this happens are called out. No one holds much respect for diehard MAGAs o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:34 AM
3

A lot of the women here are fucking stupid and insanely lacking in self awareness. They'll post absolute garbage and then you realise in their post history that they completely negated their own point literally two days earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:19 AM
1

Well she probably isn't. I did say she was a thot. How does this negate my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:15 AM
2

o better man I’m black. Obviously I get pussy This is what someone who gets no pussy would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:44 PM
1

You realise how many people use Tinder right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:43 PM
1

Lol men and women are largely the same, no matter how much some of you want to convince yourselves otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:43 PM
1

Looool no. That's the tragedy. She would swipe left on loads of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:48 PM
5

The same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:46 PM
10

Niggas aint out here LTRing a known slut. Yes the fuck they are. Are you fucking serious? Some of you dudes really show you get no pussy and hang out with dudes who also get no pussy. Tons of highly successful dudes I know are wifing thots because they're either hot as hell or fit within their circles. You dudes are mostly perpetually who never had a goddamn hope in hell chance with these hot thots. As said, it's why these girls don't mind getting dissed on fresh n fit because their follower cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:44 PM
2

Lol you looked at my comment history? And because he’s short that means he’s not worthy of an above average woman? I don’t like very tall men and I do not have a height requirement because I’m very short myself and am also not a teenager with arbitrary preferences. This is all irrelevant. And no, being short does not mean he doesn't deserve an "above average" woman. But a 5ft5 man is not desirable to the vast majority of women. I'm talking about women wirh large amount of appeal and men also pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:35 PM
4

If you work hard on your appearance and you're in really good shape then you're likely not a "plain jane". Plaine Jane's, for the most part, do not get a huge amount of attention from desirable men. Only if she fulfills some kind of fetish or specific preference or sits within the same social circles. We all know this. I'm not even going to waste my time pretending that young, successful men are dealing with plain jane women. Most "Chads" are largely dating other attractive women or those within…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:39 PM
7

No. Plain Jane's get attention from low calibre dudes. It still blows my mind how many men here don't understand that women see no benefit in fucking the vast majority of average dudes who aren't appealing and can't fuck anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:45 PM
13

They're chatting shit. Embellishing to make themselves seem more desirable. A lot of women get gassed getting hit on and many others, even in baggy overalls, ensure they look presentable when leaving the house. It's also who the approach is coming from. A lot of these girls complaining about getting approached by some creep who did the same thing to twenty other women. Which often serves more as a testament to someone anti social behaviour rather than some damning indictment on men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:09 PM
23

Lol dated a hot blonde German girl a few years ago. Very much a thot. But she showed me her Tinder one day and she was getting hundreds of matches in hours. Lol at anyone who thinks dudes aren't very much all about those "fake" looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:06 PM
3

They struggle with the kind of calibre of men most on here are not. But LOL if you think a millionaire like Khalifa is really struggling to find guys willing to date. The issue is whether she respects the men willing to date her. But she is in no way struggling to find potential suitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:55 PM
9

They're only DTF for the right men which most of you on Reddit are not. Hence why you're all whining about not getting sex in the first place. I mean look at the Cassie situation. An absolute stunner who Diddy had taking the big black dicks of male escorts. Would Cassie do that for billionaire Diddy? Yeah. For Mr Average Joe? Unlikely. I also laugh at the idea that a woman being "more plain jane" somehow makes her less promiscuous. If anything I've noticed the opposite. The plain Jane's aren't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:51 PM
14

Lol I'm...disappointed in the responses from men in this sub in rewards to this discussion. I thought we were the more honest gender but...I guess not. However, I do kinda get what OP is getting at. When looking at modern day porn, I notice that a lot of the performers seem way more "accessible", with women seeming ever younger and "innocent" looking. But that's porn. Onlyfans, which has very democratised the profit of adult entertainment, you actually find the most well paid models are very muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:48 PM
6

Yeah...for citizenship. Jesus Lord don't tell me you believe dudes are actually seeking out western women because they like them??? Jesus Lord don't tell me women in this sub have actually become as stupid as the "passport bros".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:51 PM
1

Definitely A. ESPECIALLY if they're with a traditionally masculine/good looking/successful man. They're surprisingly "redpilled" and understanding that men have preferences and those preferences that don't align with the mainstream view if relationships. A lot of single men are single for a reason. I also think a man being single after a certain is a bigger failure than a woman being unsuccessful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:55 PM
1

Didn't ask for one. And I don't engage with shitposters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:35 PM
3

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:49 AM
–

I don't get posters like you. You're everything dudes on here talk about when discussing sketchy women who play this "oh women are so nice and wonderful and Judy after a good man". You spend your time arguing with people about jordan peterson whilst being bigoted and antisemitic. Why is it always the most garbage female posters trying to sell to people how "wonderful" women are???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:24 AM
13

Looool I'm 6ft4. It's an absolute benefit. God, some of you chat so much fucking shit. It's unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:54 AM
1

Preferences largely dictate chemistry. Hence why people often date those similar to them both culturally and racially.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:52 AM
1

I'm gonna be 35 next year and I get tons of attention. Why? Because I actually look good. I don't think that redpill bullshit ever suggested that women liked older men just that older men had more in terms of money and success to make dating easier. I've always lol'd when dudes say that things suddenly change for men in their 30s. I mean they do...but that's for women also in their 30s...who become way more desperate. As a 34 year old dude, I speak to younger women and it becomes clear to both o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:08 AM
6

Then you didn't learn much living in the UK. Did you actually travel to Europe? Have you been to France? Germany? The Netherlands? Did you not SEE how little cultural exchange actually takes place between those nations and the British?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:51 AM
17

He's right and I'm British. The UK had far more cultural parity to America than it does to continental Europe. And I'm in continental Europe a lot. Sometimes what annoys me about women on this sub is the desperate burning desire to disagree with men just for the sake of disagreeing. The political landscape after 2016 and the relatively frosty relationship we have even with our closest neighbours in France (TBF over migrant crossings) should make it clear how much the UK is pivoting away from Eur…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:49 AM
7

Have you actually met any rich kids? I've met plenty who weren't assholes at all. Entitled maybe. Bad people? Not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:38 PM
7

It is. But by this logic anyone who grew up well to do would actually be a horrible person too. It's ridiculous logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:32 AM
–

Is it even "overwhlemingly"? On either gender? Look at the results. They vary by single percentage points. Hardly some insurmountable difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:17 AM
–

Eh...that okcupid study was nearly a decade ago and being middle Eastern seems to be synonymous with being a rich degenerate from a gulf state instead of some terrorist. Women here would drop dead for a guy who looks like Zayn Malik or Oscar Isaac (not Arab but could easily pass as such). Even Rami Malik gets treated like a heart throb and he looks like a foot. I just don't think race is the penalty among the younger generation that it was before. All this talk of the insane advantage white men …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:11 AM
12

Lol this is so pathetic. People's behaviours and integrity have more to do with their upbringing and ethics than their looks. This sub has so much pathetic cope from both genders when it comes to people better looking that them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:56 AM
–

Stop this "bAd fAiTh" nonsense. A lot of people know genuine acts of kindness, even with a tinge of self service/good karma farming and straight up transactional simping in the hopes to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:53 PM
–

Use common sense. I'm basing it off action. If someone claims to be nice but has the behaviours indicative of a tosser then ill conclude that they're not very nice. The other problem with the nice guy types is they often lack the self awareness to even understand how much their words and placating doesn't correlate with their actions or their propensity for empathy for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:02 PM
12

Damn, you make a lot of threads. Don't you have people un real life you could discuss this with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:54 PM
3

That comment definitely manifests itself in the way you interact with women. No dude should ever be content with claiming he has no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:51 PM
1

I take anyone who would have me who isn't morbidly obese or an obvious money leech. I still struggle to find anyone with those standards. You say this. And then wonder why you have a dead bedroom...?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:28 PM
25

Eh... Might also be worth double checking your hormone levels are healthy or consulting a therapist. The fact you're even asking does make me wonder whether your lack of sexual activity may not necessarily be borne out of a lack of desire. Edit: scratch that, looking at your post history, I don't think you're asexual at all. You've also mentioned depression. This is the LAST place you should really be consulting people. Especially as a woman. People will lead you down an awful road simply in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:28 PM
–

Money and power is everything. And peace is dictated by who wields the biggest gun. I think one of the things that truly disgusts me about Reddit is people who try to contort their morality to fit into this principle. Like the clowns who watch Israel bomb the fuck out of Palestinians and contort this cockamami scenario which somehow makes Israel the victim. I mean, don't get me wrong, I totally get Israels desire for blood considering how traumatic those October 7th attacks must have been. I get…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:06 PM
0

There is an element of truth to this. 10 years or so I loved the idea of eating pussy and sexually pleasing a woman anyway I could. Now I just don't give a shit. Albeit I've learned how to make my partner come easily enough but, outside of that, it's never been a focus point for me. But it's not so much about cars and steak as much as it is having my more professional pursuits simply means I can no longer be the carefree 25 year old juggling a bunch of different women and trying to please every …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:48 AM
2

You're asking for more details. So I'm giving you them. You seem incredulous about what I've told you which is...interesting to say the least. Anyway you sound autistic so...yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:54 PM
2

I got hers. Dude, do you...interact with people in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:40 PM
1

🙄 No. Women do not follow random men to the machine their using, giggle with their friend, stare at them, smile and then tell them how good their physique is then tell them they're an exotic dancer. I know a lot of you are autistic but...christ 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:34 PM
1

I know the difference between someone being friendly and approaching. I think her commenting on how impressive my physique was may have been a hint...but what do I know
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:29 PM
7

How's it bluepilled? I can't stand "bluepilled" rhetoric and even I will admit wanting to be approached as a guy definitely means you're likely way less outgoing. This is the problem I have with redpillers. A lot of you are shy, recessive, unconfident dorks trying to fake the machismo and it comes off as fucking repugnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:24 PM
4

think there's something about being a tall, gym going guy with a shy personality that more aggressive, assertive types of women tend to like. I think its more attractive in general. I'm very tall and very muscular. But my personality matches my looks. Super loud, outgoing and confident. It can be...too much for a lot of women. Especially younger women in this modern culture. Evidently, I feel approaching was way easier and more natural when I was younger and less confident (but still in good sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:19 PM
1

Hmmm. Last approach happened about a fortnight ago. Girl with a crazy good body. She came up on the stairmaster in the gym whilst I was on the one next to it. Smiled at me and we started talking. She looked pretty damn good...but she said she was a "dancer" (which sounded like a euphemism for stripper). A few months before that I had a girl come up to me in the gym and hit on me. Definitely wasn't my type so much so I literally mentioned being engaged (I tend to just mention a girlfriend if I ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:14 PM
3

It's unlikely. Highly populated urban centres tend to attract more wealthier people which in turn attracts better looking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:30 PM
2

I thought so too but their psor history makes me doubt it actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:06 PM
2

Maybe 10% probably less. It's why I am with my girl/fiance. One of the few women I met who is engaging and can slot into any crowd. Charismatic as hell and liked by everyone she comes across. She has another friend, a pretty blonde, who is similar. Just charismatic as all hell, complimentary and just engaging as fuck. I'm a super muscular guy and thus am pretty intimidating. It's always great to meet people who aren't phased by it at all. But its rare. Rare as hell. Especially among the millenni…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:43 PM
2

Its not that looks matter less, its that you're in a city where you're less inhibited by your looks. I live in the Midlands in the UK, I had considerably more success in London and Manchester because those cities had higher calibre men which actually meant women had higher expectations and appreciated dudes who took care of themselves. Smaller cities have less competition but the calibre of woman is also far lower as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:13 PM
2

🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:10 PM
-1

I know. You're so wonderful and unique. Just like every other women in this sub....😒
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:45 PM
5

This is the issue. A lot of us dudes know that's how women perceive a lot of men. It's not even an online thing. You can go to tiktok and even some female dominated forums and you can see how disparaging they are towards certain men. It's like locker room talk amongst guys. Women aren't evil for it but it is kinda toxic. Only on here do women want to spread this bullshit idea that they're all above thinking about men in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:56 PM
3

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:09 PM
7

And what makes OP insufferable?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:03 PM
20

But they are being honest. Being a delusional "nice guy" virtue signaller is often just an asshole with extra steps. Especially on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:56 PM
29

Exactly. This is the greatest fear of many here. People simply being honest. It's like fucking kryptonite to some of these "bluepill" types.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:35 PM
7

I probably have been called a low value chump by someone I've dated or a relative. That's life. People aren't perfect and people vent. Besides OP actually noted numerous times how nice her stepdad is a to a fault. Lol people like you really reveal yourselves. You've clearly gleaned from OPs message that you think the person she is speaking about is a chump. Even though OP didn't explicitly say this once. It's like you have behaviours that you determine make someone a "chump" and then chastise OP…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:33 PM
5

How? What if its actually true. Sounds like OP just calls it like she sees it and doesn't sit there feeding someone a bullshit narrative no one believes. You type sound like the types to tell the beta bucks you settled with how awesome he is. Knowing damn well you don't believe that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:29 PM
14

Lol this. Its fucking disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:20 PM
10

Tha responses are really really interesting, even more so considering op is a "purple pilled woman". Salute to the OP btw. Really admire when women on here can be honest. However, I find it fascinating (and a little disturbing) when other women try to shoot them down. I kinda feel a lot of women on here are intentionally here to gaslight and deceive. I dated a girl years ago with a sister who had a kid and she spoke of the guy her sister married being a hopeless romantic who waited for her as sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:17 PM
28

What makes her post insufferable? Seems pretty honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:11 PM
0

There was also a study that claimed that, in actuality, hypergamy never existed in the UK and everyone just married who was around them. I never trust a Brit lecture about hypergamy because they're saying this from a place of complete delusion considering the UK is probably one of the most class conscious societies in the developed world. Women don't date up because they cant. Not because they don't want to. A working class northern girl who drives a fiat 500 wouldn't be anywhere near a southern…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:52 AM
3

Are we at crisis levels yet? I dunno if I would even called it "unbridled hedonism". I was pretty damn hedonistic in my youth and half these young bucks couldn't cut it in that scene either. Way to neurotic and lacking in self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:04 AM
–

They just tend to either blend into the "us vs them" mentality of the gym or don't attend often enough to really influence much in the way of the vibe either. Commercial gyms are less close knit but there also isn't the dynamic of men competing for the female attention because there is so little female attention there in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:00 AM
3

Reddit is a hive of losers who cam come to agreement (depending on the subreddit) in relation to all manner of wacky, laughable and toxic opinions. It should absolutely not serve as a validation of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:53 PM
3

Sitting there and pretending fight gyms are not sausage fests or that machismo and masculinity doesn't figure heavily into fighting is the kind if redditor delusion I'm not willing to accept. You don't live in reality and you seeing my comment on the relative lack of female talent in the fight game kinda says it all. I'm a heavyweight and I'm well aware of the lack of decent heavyweights in MMA/boxing/Muay Thai too but I don't see that as some affront. I'm in the UK and train in what might be on…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:29 PM
6

This is what I mean. A lot of you are just addicted to talking absolute garbage. There is no fight gym out here which has anything close to a 50% split. We all fucking know this. "Being on the fight team" doesn't mean shit. Of you've actually competed. You'll know very well how few women feature on any card and what an absolute dearth of talent there is on the female side of things in anything that isn't MMA. I've had good female coaches before too, that means fuck all. And I will happily post f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:07 PM
2

There are hardly any women at the boxing gym. And showing every three weeks to do a class (as you probably do) isn't training seriously or having any effect on the dynamic of the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:58 PM
8

I'm not an incel dumbass. And, even then, TONS of people work out together in commercial gyms. And a bunch of guys come in just to do a bit of bag work and go. And this doesn't even include the fact most commercial gyms have classes too. The amount of you idiotic clowns who just say dumb shit to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:26 PM
35

Yeah. I box and attend a boxing gym. The bond I've created with the guys there compared to the commercial gym I go to is like night and day. There are very few female participants at boxing gyms and, because of such, they don't end up fucking with the mood or creating intergender competition (them women I know who fight train are all very feminine too which is...interesting). The normal commercial gym j go to for cardio and freeweights is a lot worse. I feel the presence of women makes it a litt…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:17 PM
1

Because...no one works like that? People generally decide whether they're comfortable showing you their authentic selves before they make questionable statements to you (or you to them). If you're turning men (or anyone really) off from the politically incorrect statements you make then you're either making them too soon or not adequately assessing whether these men/people will be the right people to say said opinions too. For instance, I probably won't share my opinions of unchecked immigration…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:12 PM
1

Nah. The baseline emotional intelligence for men has always been poor but its gotten worse for women. I've met a lot of dudes who are just poorly socially calibrated but I'm running into more and more women who are completely hopeless at basic, tactful and pleasant conversation as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:05 PM
1

Thats fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:04 PM
-1

Most of the dudes replying ain't about shit and ain't anywhere near the tax bracket they're sharing their stupid opinions about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:33 PM
1

do really have great social skills, I just don't care if men will find my political stance unattractive Then you don't have great social skills loool 🤣 This is literally "I aM vErY sMaRt" I swear for all the shit we give incels but I'm seeing more and more women on here who are just as socially hopeless. I have a whole chunk of politically incorrect and obnoxious opinions too. But I hold off on them or create a safe/non judgemental space to have them. Human beings aren't that complex and couchin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:32 PM
1

Fiscal responsibility is kinda irrelevant. Otherwise brands like Aston Martin, Lambourghini and Ferrari wouldn't even exist. Everyone is impressed by fancy cars. Same way people are impressed by nice houses and nice clothes. I earn several hundreds of thousands and ensuring I can continue to do so is my main concern not saving a few bucks on a second hand beater riddled with issues. Been there. Done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:28 PM
2

I have a male friend who struggles to make friends because he gives his nonsensical politically incorrect opinions too. It's not gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:08 PM
–

They're not gonna agree with you. The sub seems to be about coddling mediocre women. It's been a long time since I was on a dating app but that was the same experience for me. Almost though. I met a few good looking women on there but they were always...off. Not crazy or anything but either possessing some kind of seriosinred flag or just not being remotely relationship material. I also think things have gotten worse with Gen Z. I saw my friends Hinge and seeing the women on there and I was surp…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:30 AM
3

Yeah but you're saying this rubbish as an adult virgin. The "gifted" children come from upper middle class backgrounds and attend the best schools. They're the one demographic largely shielded from the romantic mediocrity that most experience. After all, marriage is increasingly becoming something of the professional and educated. Women on here need to stop with this coping just world fallacy nonsense. Guys who struggle to their poor social skills do so because of their poor social skills. Being…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:07 AM
3

I'm one of the few dudes here who actually makes good money. So does my friend. Myself is in 350k range and he in the 300k range from multiple jobs in tech. I guess u don't struggle as I've been in a LTR for some time but he does. Claims he hasn't had sex in 8 months. Ifs simply really. Your standards increase. Any dude fronting as if he'll happily date a 5-6/10 when he's got money is doing just that...fronting. When my career started taking off in 2019, I noticed a dramatic shift in my behaviou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:04 AM
1

"She"? And you can't use Google? Seriously do some of you think before you post?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:10 AM
1

If you can't see how stupid half the posts here then your contributions are likely just as idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:09 AM
1

Eh... Nah. I bought a 100k car and BMW wouldn't even let me sniff it without seeing my income statements for the last year. Most people driving fancy cars are likely earning much more than your average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:01 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter