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You're too good to sext? I love sexting. I don't even have to get dressed.
/r/seduction21/06/21 02:51 AM
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Why would you cold-approach someone?
/r/seduction21/06/21 01:45 AM
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To bolster your own ego.
/r/seduction21/06/21 01:44 AM
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Always welcome. I agree, you're on the right track and have the right attitude. I think we all assume that, and it's normal.
/r/seduction21/06/21 01:42 AM
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Yeah, but I'm working on fact, and you're working on arbitrary prejudice. If you feel stupid, it's because I provided evidence that your assumptions are wrong. I have just as much right to be here as you.
/r/seduction20/06/21 11:37 PM
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For kicks. No other sub brings this level of tomfoolery.
/r/seduction20/06/21 10:08 PM
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Lol, you've got me pegged. Yes! I have an issue with classist, racism state of the art world, and Keith wanted it to be accessible to everyone, he was a visionary.
/r/seduction20/06/21 08:32 PM
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Interpersonal relationships are about connection, not selling, bartering, or mindfucking anything. That's where you've got it wrong. I don't go around asking random customers how I should sell to them. You should, lol. That's how the most profitable companies have achieved that level of success. Market research is an industry completely devoted to gaining customer insight. Insight is the key word, and you don't have it. ​ Because a random layperson is probably not going to know which sales tacti…
/r/seduction20/06/21 07:57 PM
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That's fine and I can empathize. But being pushy and self-serving is not the same thing, though. I don't feel beholden to be kind to a man that decides what he wants is more important than what I have to say or want. ​ It takes courage to put yourself out there and ask someone out. Unless they're being especially nasty See, you're not thinking like someone who wants to pressure or force, you seem like an empathetic person. I'd never be an ass to someone who was clearly just nervous. That's total…
/r/seduction20/06/21 07:33 PM
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LOL, mine is Reddit-generated, I didn't invent it. FYI, there's a Haring docu if you have Prime.
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:59 PM
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Permission seeking, for the most part, can come across weak and not masculine. That's definitively toxic masculinity. The expectation that men are supposed to be forceful and disrespectful to women, and being considerate makes a guy "weak" or less masculine. It's not true, and it's damaging. ​ There's nothing toxic about being polite but assertive. You weren't talking about being polite but assertive. You were talking about making it harder for a woman to refuse your advances by telling instead …
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:43 PM
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This conveys that their manner of speaking is not worth a proper response from me. It isn't. Classy doesn't mean passive and it doesn't mean being a doormat.
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:20 PM
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FUCK YOU, YOU FIT ATTRACTIVE INTELLIGENT GUY--YOU KNOW NOTHING!!!! Lol. Sigh.
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:08 PM
2

"I'm going rollerskating, you down?" "You wanna check out a flick?" "You wanna hang out over the weekend?" "I'm heading for pizza, you wanna come with?" All are ways if you don't feel like straight up asking if she wants to go out some time,
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:07 PM
1

Holy shit, a man with perspective who is validating a woman's experience! I immediately want to husband you.
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:05 PM
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Yeah, who actually wants to hear what women that these guys are trying to score with think? You are getting input straight from the horse's mouth and invalidating it, which is not only shitty, but it's dumb. Cut off your nose to spite your face.
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:04 PM
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Fuck these little boys downvoting you. I hate this attitude that it's never about what WE want. I don't care what you little punks want.
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:03 PM
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How the hell would you know what we do in real life? You don't even know who or where we are. I'm not into toxic masculinity and baseless stereotypes. No one said to stutter or act wishy-washy. There's a happy medium.
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:00 PM
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I'd say, "I'd like to see you try" or even better, I'd accept and when he asks where to pick him up, I'd give him an address to a dumpster.
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:57 PM
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Sis, we all the same, and the good shit works on ALL of us. Didn't you get the group text?
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:55 PM
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Exactly, but you've indicated what your preference is. Not everyone feels this way.
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:54 PM
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You want a doormat with no sense of self, not a woman. I am acting like a woman. Because I *am* a woman. Therefore, by acting like myself, I am acting like a woman.
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:53 PM
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Right? I don't give a fuck what OP and men want.
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:52 PM
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Yes, but you know that because they've expressed this is their preference. Not because every woman likes that bullshit.
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:51 PM
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X3
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:50 PM
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Here we go with toxic masculinity...No. Just no. Asking permission is always cool and what real men are down with. I like the line: "let's meet for a coffee. I want to know you better." There's nothing wrong with this. Because you're being direct and you're also giving her the option to refuse. That's asking her permission to engage, which is paramount. Statements work better than questions. I was taught this exact technique in retail. I hate it. If someone wants something, they'll buy it, and I…
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:50 PM
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Asking a woman what she likes and wants is the only real way to convince her that you care what she likes and wants.
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:44 PM
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Yeah, I mean, wouldn't it be more flattering to say, "I really think you'd love this" or "It made me think of you, would you like to check it out" than have someone tell me I don't know that I'll like something?
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:43 PM
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Anyone under the age of 25 is still a boy. That's why. And exactly, lol. You get a firsthand answer and you wanna say, "Psh, NO!"
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:41 PM
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deny you, what?
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:39 PM
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Why wouldn't you just ask her if she wants to go XYZ with you? What some guy I barely know, thinks of something is irrelevant to me. Just because he says he likes it doesn't make it more or less desirable to me.
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:37 PM
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Thank you. Maybe I'm insane, but it doesn't make me hot for a guy to know that he's trying to force me or manipulate me into something.
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:37 PM
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Do your thing, and find someone else. If you mutually decide you want to give it another try, that's totes up to you. But I hope you don't wait around. You're not a place-holder.
/r/seduction20/06/21 05:35 PM
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X3
/r/seduction20/06/21 04:24 PM
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I rarely club, but when I do, it's with the girls, and we just like to get drunk and dance. I don't go for guys.
/r/seduction20/06/21 04:23 PM
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I'm slow as a mutherphucker responding to texts, and I still agree with you. People will make time if they want to. Really I just wanted to talk at you because I love your handle.
/r/seduction20/06/21 04:21 PM
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Amanda Karen, shit, lol.
/r/seduction20/06/21 04:19 PM
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I constantly reply back with, "New fone, who dis?" when I realize I didn't respond to someone's text, to get out of it. It's a useful trick.
/r/seduction20/06/21 04:19 PM
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I have someone who takes forever to text back, but then, so do I. We've been talking for for 2.5 years. Just ask her to hang out. If she doesn't seem down, move on. Or you can just ignore her and move on. Maybe you need someone more invested, and that's cool.
/r/seduction20/06/21 04:17 PM
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Yep. Just yep.
/r/seduction20/06/21 04:12 PM
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I think you're totally fine and I'd go out with you. I think you seem respectful and thoughtful, you're leaps and bounds ahead of a lot of men. I always give the same advice when I talk to people who struggle with the fear or rejection or failure. The worst that can happen is, she's not interested. She is not going to kill you or kick you in the groin. That's all that will happen. If something doesn't work out, you try again with someone/something else. Worst case scenarios are actually useful f…
/r/seduction20/06/21 04:11 PM
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I am confident talking to almost anyone in most situations but I am also an over-thinker. Me, too! But I don't think that's a bad thing. I tend to be friendly and warm, but the wheels are always turning, lol. I have had very minimal sexual interest from girls. I have kissed a few girls (but not for a couple of years) but never slept with a girl. You don't know that, though. Women, as a whole, tend not to be as demonstrative when it comes to sexual advances. Someone might be down, but you just do…
/r/seduction20/06/21 04:07 PM
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I'm going out with this guy over some piece of trash who talks about lifting, has no respect for boundaries and riddled with machismo.
/r/seduction20/06/21 03:51 PM
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I disagree. I don't think he's a robot or needs to be improved. He's just inexperienced. I, nor any other woman I know, fucks every guy who's charming.
/r/seduction20/06/21 03:50 PM
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I feel like this advice is applicable and good for nearly every post on this sub. I see people asking for a formula, or a DIY video. That's just not how it works, I don't think.
/r/seduction20/06/21 03:48 PM
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Everyone, don't you think? In the same way that society at large is guilty of of treating women and POC as lesser. Society has these expectations of men and they're damaging. That's why I think people call it "toxic".
/r/seduction20/06/21 03:44 PM
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I hope you're wrong, but even if you're right, these people are cheating themselves. My best partner was 5'6. Best lay I've ever had. Imagine what I would have missed out on if I were fixated on that. More for me!
/r/seduction09/06/21 04:47 PM
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I was referencing a woman who is hung up on physical appearance. The person to whom I responded made the comment about casual sex. I think people who are more perceptive tend to be able to compartmentalize sex such that casual sex is appealing, so.
/r/seduction06/06/21 08:07 PM
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Me, too.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:28 PM
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but the world of the inner mind is a mysterious place. Sis, I am an InFP, preaching to the choir, lol. If you wonder about why people choose to act a certain way, why not ask? If you mention fashion to someone who seems image-conscious, they might tell you that's a value to them. Or they can explain that their clothes are their mode of personal expression. I feel like the former is a less desirable reason to be image conscious, but that's my preference. Unless something is wildly inappropriate, …
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:15 PM
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The thing is, IT'S GOOD NEWS for average guys! Be decent, be interesting, be kind, be fun--all things you can control. After 25, any girl worth her own sanity gets bored of fuckbois and playboys. No one is so pretty that they can coast on a lifetime relationship that way. It's easier to cry in the corner than to say, "I'm going to do something about this". But no one wants to hear it.
/r/seduction05/06/21 08:30 PM
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We behave differently because we are socialized differently, not because our sexes determine these things. These traits are not sex-linked and are attributed arbitrarily. Men have just as much right to experience doubt and grief as women. Women live longer and have less incidence and mortality of heart disease, than men and there are clinical studies that show a link between heart disease and unaddressed emotional issues. The latter predicates the former. People who are in touch with their feeli…
/r/seduction05/06/21 12:27 PM
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There you go, exactly this. People take things personally--most of other people's interactions have to do with what's going on with them.
/r/seduction05/06/21 10:15 AM
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Insightful. That book destroyed me in the best way. America is exceedingly racist. But racists weed themselves out. Who wants to be with someone like that?
/r/seduction05/06/21 10:13 AM
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Right, if you want someone superficial, expect to be judged on superficial standards. Vapid girls don't have much to offer, so why are they desirable?
/r/seduction05/06/21 10:09 AM
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Exactly. How many people end up in long-term committed relationships with the first person they found attractive?
/r/seduction05/06/21 10:07 AM
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I'm demi. I am never attracted to someone on sight. I need a connection. Certainly, I do find people attractive, but it doesn't determine if I will want a relationship or have sex. IOW, someone could be gorge, but I don't think about having sex with them if I don't know them. THere have also been a lot of men that grow on me. Guys that I wasn't interested in at first, but became more attractive the more I knew them, and I know this is common for all sexes and orientations. Like you said, everyon…
/r/seduction05/06/21 10:05 AM
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If something that a random user posts has potential to upset someone to that degree, they should not use any type of social media until they seek help or are in a better state of mind. Right? If strangers have that much sway over your life, you have a problem. If your ego is so fragile that you pout when someone tells you to grow up, then you're a child and not a man. This sub is just so rife with it, I'm hoping these are just extremely young kids.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:58 AM
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So much boo-hooing, I can't handle it.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:55 AM
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Why are women who are that petty and lame desirable? If someone limits their choices to height, they're a shallow twat--why is everyone talking like these women are prizes?
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:54 AM
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Value has nothing to do with who wants to fuck you on sight.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:52 AM
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Thank you. This is just a trainwreck of inane self-pitying drivel.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:49 AM
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Then you're also basing your wants on superficial things. You just detailed women whose only qualities you know are their appearance.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:48 AM
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Oy, why do I even post in these subs? These kids have no self-awareness.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:46 AM
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No, you don't. No one is entitled to that, and no one ever said you are. I don't know where you heard that, but it's not true.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:45 AM
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these downvotes just prove the point. You're right and these boys need to grow up.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:44 AM
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What is enough? You want someone whose attraction is completely based on appearance? Why would anyone want someone like that? You're upset because vapid girls aren't into you?
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:43 AM
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Toxic masculinity is the construct that explains that expectations of what is masculine is damaging to men. ie masculinity means not acknowledging your feelings, and if you do, you're a lesser man. It's not a purportment that anything men-related is bad. It's saying that things like being aggressive and competitive are what makes a man, a man, and if you aren't those things, you're lesser. It limits men to a trope and denies them humanity. It's not misandry. Google.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:40 AM
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I think someone who values height has nothing to do with any of that. It has to do with them being superficial and childish. People with idealized features have always dominated mainstream media and culture, it's not a new thing. But a normal person knows that real life has nothing to do with this shit.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:35 AM
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They're not excluded from anything, lol. That's so entitled. You're doing great if you feel you're doing great and happy with what you have. Happiness is gratitude for the things that improve your life. Not getting everything you want. It's really gross that you think that women who don't base their choices on something like height are of lesser quality than women hung up on something so superficial.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:31 AM
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He just called you a tallfag, there's a new one for my book. My day is made.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:25 AM
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Jesus Christ, boo hoo. If that's your biggest struggle, you're A. 14 and or B. Blessed. There are people dealing with poverty, abuse, disease, loss, rape, disaster. And you have the nerve to say that people can't wrap their heads around your issue. Do you realize how incredibly short-sighted and self-indulgent you are?
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:24 AM
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Fantasy is not life, my dude. People make choices on real life, not an overly romanticized idea of someone. No one marries someone over an empty infatuation that;s based on superficial BS.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:19 AM
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Yep, ain't no bitch got no time for that shit. It's incredibly self-centered to expect someone to be preoccupied with you like some silly movie.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:16 AM
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You want someone to bolster your ego, not a partner. No grown woman pines away and has time to daydream when life is happening. Most women want a partner, not someone who needs to be coddled like and reassured all the time. If you're there by her side, she won't need to pine for you. And that's something you can control. Real life is rarely romantic. Roses mean nothing from a guy who is totally self-absorbed or has no drive.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:13 AM
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I make my own money, so wealth isn't a thing for me, but to say it isn't for many if not most women is dumb. Go you for doing your thing and tossing the ego trip. Also, if a woman is hung up on height, she's petty and lame and you don't need that superficial judgment. FTR, of all the men I've slept with, the shortest was the best in bed. When you're horizontal, height is irrelevant.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:08 AM
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Thank you, I feel like there are just three adults that ever post on this sub.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:05 AM
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I guess everyone here is 15, those downvotes are piteous. This sub is just a trainwreck of fragile ego.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:03 AM
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Cope with the fact that we all have a different hand, that's life. You're short. No one is guaranteed anything, there are no promises. Grow up. Self-pity is the least attractive quality in a person. Stomping your feet and calling people juvenile names doesn't help your case.
/r/seduction05/06/21 09:02 AM
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Thank you. I get the feeling this sub is populated by teen boys. Get over yourselves, come on.
/r/seduction05/06/21 08:56 AM
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Fuggin thank you.
/r/seduction05/06/21 08:55 AM
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You're the epitome of the unself-aware guy this post is about.
/r/seduction05/06/21 08:54 AM
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What a pile of shit, lol. Nice victim-blaming, too.
/r/seduction05/06/21 08:53 AM
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This is not a pro-feminist post. This concept applies to both men and women. You and I completely responsible for our successes and failures, not anyone else. Feminism includes both sexes, all genders and all ethnicities. I generally like this post, but it's reductive to say we're all completely responsible for all successes and all failures. That's not true, there are sometimes external factors that you have to cope with, with a level of grace. Again, though, I love the tone of your post, and I…
/r/seduction05/06/21 08:47 AM
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Because if they acknowledge my point as valid, they have to accept responsbility that it's incumbent on them to be better people. It's hard to commit to becoming better than it is to pretend you have no control. It's easier to believe that a car is the answer.
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:08 AM
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> If they added "Have an expensive/stylish car" to the rules it would put off too many men who can't afford one. Duh. If those were important to me, I'd WANT to put off anyone who didn't have them.
/r/seduction16/05/21 03:09 PM
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What I don't understand about the discussion re the attractiveness of a man with a nice car is it's always loaded with this comparison between "guy with nice car" and "guy with everything else". You're talking about these factors as if they're equal in importance, though--they're not. It is not a 1:1 ratio. Some are worth more than others in determining the success of an interaction. And then add the fact that people's assignment of value to each of these depends on their personal priorities. Th…
/r/seduction16/05/21 02:17 PM
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In my eyes, it's completely utilitarian. But other people tack on value judgments and that's where we have a problem.
/r/seduction15/05/21 02:43 PM
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Why can't you ask her what the deal is with mixed signals?
/r/seduction14/05/21 04:51 PM
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Find someone who is similarly larger-than-life and wild. If you're not an ordinary person, you won't be a good match with an ordinary gal. Work with your doc on how to deal with impulse control and I bet you can get some strategies that will help you keep things a bit more under control. People can tell if you're making a conscious effort.
/r/seduction14/05/21 04:49 PM
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LOL, well correlation is not causation. It's just a theme that's present, it won't mean something every time. IOW, every guy with a nice guy isn't necessarily overcompensating, that'd be inane to say. I'm just pointing out that the OP shouldn't stress on it.
/r/seduction14/05/21 04:43 PM
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I think this is reasonable. But I will say, a guy who is a great time over 30, doesn't smell and has a good sense of humor will be a choice over the tool with the compact.
/r/seduction14/05/21 04:40 PM
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Fuckin' thank you. I should leave this group, because so much horrible nonsensical information is passed around. You're right.
/r/seduction14/05/21 04:38 PM
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Irony there.
/r/seduction14/05/21 04:37 PM
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Except that it isn't.
/r/seduction14/05/21 04:36 PM
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I don't know. But as a straight cis-woman, I again will say, guys who use language like, "high value" and "Alpha" are repellant. You cannot quantify a human being numerically. If you do, there's something wrong with you. Do yourself a huge favor and DONT BUY INTO THIS NARRATIVE. It's bullshit and damaging to your development as an actualized adult. This guy is living proof. I didn't understand what the draw was, but if you watch the segment, you'll see he has all of the women, and even the Good …
/r/seduction14/05/21 04:35 PM
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Maybe I should edit my earlier response, but I guess I'll mention it here.... OP: It all depends on what you're looking for. If you're looking for something real and meaningful, then not as much. If you're looking for someone to have sex with, well. I think it still doesn't matter, lol. The girls who fuck you because they like your car are probably gonna offer a clunky experience. Steer clear of any women who ask you about your car as a requisite.
/r/seduction14/05/21 04:28 PM
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That guy is the shining example of guys with major issues whose cars serve as a suggestion that they do, in fact, have issues. Women can smell that level of insecurity and affectation a mile away. It's not cute.
/r/seduction14/05/21 04:24 PM
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FTR, I've noticed a pattern that guys who have really hot cars don't have any game. A lot of people believe that men subconsciously modulate their self-esteem via cars. Just food for thought...
/r/seduction14/05/21 03:55 PM
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No. I'm a city person, born and bred, and will die here. My father's family are New Yorkers, and so he never learned to drive until my parents got married and Mum taught him. I think my auntie still doesn't drive, either. I don't drive and I admit, I don't want to. In Europe, this is not an uncommon phenomenon, either. If a woman gives a shit about this, you don't want her.
/r/seduction14/05/21 03:53 PM
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Especially when it comes to women, if the message of the book is translated to supplication then it serves as terrible advice. ​ That is not the message of this work.
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:40 PM
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BTW, the book is not about dropping panties. It sounds like you're looking for the key to getting women to want to sleep with you. SPOILER: there is no such thing. ​ The book is about building rapport such that you get people on your side.
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:37 PM
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If in doubt, read it out.
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:32 PM
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That you even have this insight is a great thing. My father is that way. My mother used to ask him, "Do you want to be right, or do you want to be happy?" THere are people who are always going to say dumb shit, and it's tempting to want to say, "WTF are you talking about?" But it's usually pointless. You end up just beating your head against a wall.
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:31 PM
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I think he really just wants to know if he should keep reading. If you're that curious, I would say, keep reading.
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:29 PM
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Ask, and ye shall receive...
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:28 PM
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Simple, and yet startlingly powerful advice. I feel like paring down interactions is the opposite of most people's instinct. But just doing what you said is what works.
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:27 PM
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Yes, but if you were trying to persuade people for a particular end, it would still. Be good advice.
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:26 PM
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Exactly, nearly 100 years later, the world is radically different, especially in regard to communication. But human nature does not change, so the advice still applies.
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:24 PM
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How to win friends and influence people How can you say it's bad when it offers such significant insight? That's how most people are. If you want them to like you and listen to you, you appeal to their ego. Whether or not you like that doesn't have to do with the quality of the advice. I hate selling. I hate selling things and I hate selling myself. But for someone who wants to sell, this is useful.
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:23 PM
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Why are you at a middle school mixer, bruh?
/r/seduction19/04/21 02:28 AM
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Oh, a parable instead of answering my question. You are not a success with women, you aren't a woman, and you're not old enough to have first-hand experience. You have no business painting yourself as an authority, but this is the Internet, and even more salient, this is Reddit. So any moron with a keyboard can say boo. Whether or not people just accept something from someone who is barely literate in their native language is up to them. BTW, people aren't prey to be caught. You likening women t…
/r/seduction09/03/21 04:49 PM
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And again, you really have no business speaking for women, as you are not a woman.
/r/seduction08/03/21 10:52 PM
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There is a such thing as female and male psychology. The amount of people that deny it is beyond insane. Science is science. I actually personally know a psychologist. He is an uncle of a close friend of mine and he’s someone I spoke to about the differences between the wiring of the male and female brains. Oh, a friend of your uncle who is not a doctor or neurologist or shrink told you something! You know someone who is a therapist or someone who studies psychology academically? NO WAY, ME TOO!…
/r/seduction08/03/21 10:51 PM
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I think my message was communicated perfectly. If anyone has a problem with me calling them out, it's still somewhat a free country. I forgot how these threads are mostly populated by college kids and younger. I'm not afraid of pissing some little fuckboi off because I said he was acting like a moron. The OP sounds like a Junior League prick. But most kids are at that age. Especially short ones.
/r/seduction08/03/21 03:00 AM
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What women often consider normal banter, many men will not realize is normal banter and take it seriously. Banter and friendly teasing is not the same as passive aggression or manipulation. That’s often what people refer to as a “test.” Again, "testing" is something kids do to their parents before they learn boundaries. There's no reason for this crap as two grown-ups. Testing someone's loyalty or fidelity, or whatever it is--it always goes wrong because it's the opposite of honestly communicati…
/r/seduction07/03/21 10:32 PM
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Remember, confidence is the key to success. No, it's not. Because you're "confident", and wholly unequipped. You have no clue that women are people, and it will probably take you years to get that. There is no key to success. Because success implies an end. And people aren't ends. No one "wins" because interpersonal relations are not a game. There are relationships that thrive, and relationships that die.
/r/seduction07/03/21 12:58 AM
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Christ, you kids and "tests". I barely got through this post. This is some sad, insecure crap. I mean, you actually talk about "getting laid", are you serious? And for the love of something holy, please. Just stop referring to human beings as a number. People cannot be quantified, and that you try to? Shows how emotionally immature you are.
/r/seduction07/03/21 12:54 AM
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Girl, you know the man, ask him! Just ask. 30 years, you don't need games. You just need to trust each other. And amen to the rest of it.
/r/seduction07/03/21 12:50 AM
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Also, just for reference, I can't speak for all women, but I can tell you that 99% of us really don't need some cis-man who's like 12 explaining what we want. Thanks.
/r/seduction07/03/21 12:49 AM
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Reread. I didn't say I think it doesn't happen. I'm sure it does. But it's gross, uncaring, and childish. Relationships should be mutually beneficial, not some power struggle. There is no formula for a successful relationship, but if there were, it would not be based on seeing who could be the biggest asshole. The fact the people are relaying these methodologies just shows how clueless they are. Probably young or emotionally stunted, too.
/r/seduction07/03/21 12:48 AM
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Exactly, a little teasing is different than toying with someone. Thank you, I could not think of the best metaphor--tug-of-war sounds about right. There's nothing impressive about a man who's this insecure that he has to "test" or "check". And I don't want to be impressed, I want a partner.
/r/seduction07/03/21 12:43 AM
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I speak English, and a little bit of French. Just because I have a vagina or identify as a woman, doesn't mean I want to be in constant state of worrying if someone means what he says, what he really means, or anything like it. There's nothing sexy about menchildren, manipulators, or fuckbois. And nothing says "I'm insecure and need regular ego boosts" than shit in the OP.
/r/seduction07/03/21 12:40 AM
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I didn't get past 10/10. I can't believe grown people think you can quantify a human being with a number. Gross.
/r/seduction04/03/21 07:40 PM
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God forbid people just communicate clearly with transparency.
/r/seduction04/03/21 07:38 PM
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Essentially, don’t take her seriously. Now I’m not saying at all don’t take her seriously when she is being serious, but in these situations where you shouldn’t take her seriously don’t and respond in this way. This sounds positively exhausting. ​ Don’t let her make you feel insecure or she will overtime loose respect for you and eventually break up with you. Your partner should not seek to make you feel insecure. What kind of person purposely does this to the person they should care for most? ​…
/r/seduction04/03/21 07:37 PM
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FTR, our subconscious is not informed by biology or evolution, but by our experiences with other people and the world around us. All of these scenarios you outlined have to do with mindfuckery and manipulation. Even if you don't realize that you're provoking a response in someone doesn't mean that it isn't manipulation. This is psychology, not biology. And the responses you encourage are just more BS. I don't like this model of trying to see who can be the most inflammatory, or who can take the …
/r/seduction04/03/21 07:32 PM
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