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| 0 | What the "Pills" Get Wrong . . .They would if it was told to them by their partner/the guy they're flirting with. It's highly manipulative to tell someone how many other options they have if not done in an uplifting way ("I don't care about those other people", etc). Threatening security is abusive, just like how a good man shouldn't be told that they're "just an option", a woman shouldn't either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 03:05 PM |
| – | Women usually don't care about looks as long as men are not autistic or socially awkward.I think that people who say that women only care about looks are a bit skewed. It is true that women like men who look good, but there are different reasons for it. Most women will like FASHION. Cute jewelry, cute fits. That takes composition. It takes effort into knowing what body type you are. It makes it so that you have to learn what suits you best down to the colours to wear and where to put them. Fashion is always a good topic and it's exciting to know that someone spent time developing th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself?based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Women, what do you think the average man's dating life looks like?I feel like an average man's dating life is sort of casual? When I was on Tinder, it didn't take much for a man to want to date me which made me feel... I dunno, not very special? I felt like they were just shooting their shot not because they liked me but because they were just trying to get a date with someone. However, that's Tinder and it's hard for men on there from what I hear. So maybe a man's dating life is a bunch of short term trial and error until something just.. clicks. (Most of my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date?Pick-up lines. Tasteful, non-dirty ones. It shows me a guy is sorta silly and likes to put themselves out there. Plus, they're funny imo. Other than that... talking about a passion maybe? Nerding out is fine if they don't make the topic last too long and if I'm allowed to ask questions. People just light up when they talk about their passions and I find that quite nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Why hate mgtow?unbased | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 05:21 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.i thought it was that most women think most men are average so they dont see why one guy would have significantly more issues than the next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?This comment chain was fun to read. You're so good at calling out hypocrisy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 05:11 AM |
| 1 | How many women here are actually in shape?I'm naturally thin (too thin?) weighing 83lbs at 5'1ish. I'm not fit, though. I don't exercise nearly as much as I should, so technically I'm disqualified here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 08:01 PM |
| 2 | How does personality correlate with women's attractiveness?Ugly people tend to be insecure, sure, but each person will react differently to the situation they were put in. Some may act with selfishness by cheating for validation while another may build up their personality to compensate for what they feel they lack in. This can lead to "pick-me's" if they are toxic and competitive with women, but it could also lead to genuine admiration for a lot of different personalities. Hotter people are generalized as shallow, so some will try their best to build u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.Personally, I think it'd be nice if men shut the minority down a bit more. What I usually see (which may be just unlucky) is that women are the ones to put these guys on blast. I'm not saying it's all of the men's fault for not "controlling" this minority (sorry, couldnt think of a better word), but I would appreciate seeing more people cracking down on gross behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.I think this post is definitely what women are looking for in a man as well - a connection! A lot of posts on this sub are about men's struggles, which is fine, but a lot of them like to say "women withold sex" or emphasize on SMV, which is again, about sex. SMV shouldn't really matter if you find each other attractive, like who cares what the majority of the world thinks if this one person insists that they love everything about you? I do think that going as far as insulting men is going too fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Assuming the scales were "I don't find them attractive at all, would not fuck" to "So hot, I would fuck on the spot" then it'd probably be very skewed results because most women don't fuck based on looks alone. Most women will fuck people who they already know and have deemed safe. Plus, the women didn't rate themselves. Maybe they would have rated themselves lower than what men would have rated them because beauty standards are a thing and it kills the confidence of many. The men were the ones … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Doesn't the title imply that the man is entitled to the woman because she's less attractive than him? And if he thought that, why ask her out in the first place? A partner shouldn't look down on their significant other. That kind of power dynamic is toxic. Your post implies that men need to put these women in their rightful places by "bringing them down to earth". Their reason for rejecting the men might just be simple preference or it might be arrogance. Either way, men are NOT in a position of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?The divorce rate across cultures was brought up in another recent post and most people, who were actually divorced, were commenting that men don't want to go through the paperwork and just leave without finalizing it. These couples stay "separated" and usually it's the woman who (finally) initiates the divorce. This could be for reasons of finally wanting to end it or because they found someone else they wanted to marry, etc etc, not my experiences. Also marriage isn't only for sex, yikes. Most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 02:41 PM |
| 0 | Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man?theyre easy to please and thats why they leave when something goes wrong, right? because its easy to replace. idk why that "easy to please" mindset is somehow more attractive to men than "i know what i want, and it's her." so unromantic! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Girls not wearing make-up should be normalised.Makeup is just an enhancer (or sometimes an art expression) just like how people like good clothes, watches that suit their preference. It's not a "mask" unless someone is actively trying to "fake" their features (which is extremely obvious irl, btw). It's them expressed in the way they want to be seen. The people who are insecure without it are just insecure people. Normalising "no makeup" wouldn't stop them from wearing it because they don't feel up to par without it. It's also none of anyone'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see?masks tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?I would hold the same opinions that I do with women. Lighter makeup looks better. Also, they'd feel more confident and we could talk about products together?! 😳😳😳 It'd also be cool because they'd notice how much effort goes into it, they'd learn to appreciate it and also not put others down as much for liking makeup in the first place. There's nothing wrong with wanting the best version of yourself! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - How does it make you feel that your husband/boyfriend/significant other has been rejected by 90% of women he approached in the past?One guy I dated got rejected once. Then the next hadnt gotten rejected at all, and same with the most recent guy I dated. Thats 3/4 of my exes (I never asked my first ex) and they're not, by society's standards, "good looking" (i thought they were, and i still think at least two of the three are, both of which who are obese and average height). I'd feel bad if that were the case, but they like to form a connection before asking someone out, so that's probably the reason. They also didn't speed d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 10:30 PM |
| 5 | Why hate mgtow?Uhhhhhhhhh...? I mean, I don't even have to point out the misogyny in making every women out to be a misandrist money whore, right? The things you outline are examples of abuse, not a relationship. If that is how you view relationships, I'm sorry. It is a possibility for some, but it is not a guaranteed outcome. The tight rope you speak of is abusive and, you're right, it's not noble to stay in that kind of relationship. It's foolish. Look, man. I am woman. I don't want kids, all the men I've da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Purple pillers, How do you deal with the entitlement mentality from guys in various aspects of relSex is weird and I don't do it and I want the guy who I date to also not do it because it's intimidating and also sort of gross if everything is just about lust. If a guy judges me or gets mad at me for not doing the do then I ignore him. I think people should be less bothered about people who openly don't like them. If these high N count men don't want me, ok. I go to a different man and he will invalidate the opinion of the first guy. So, I guess my answer is just to find people who have the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Why hate mgtow?I think that's fair. I respect both ways, like you. And yeah, I agree! It'd be nice if everyone experienced a good relationship, but even then, it's possible that they could be just as happy on their own. I think more people are coming to think like this since most of the trend nowadays is to be happy individually instead of deriving it from others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Would someone that follows RP content be a dealbreaker?😳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Would someone that follows RP content be a dealbreaker?I would ask them about it and be cautious of misogyny. Communication is the most important part here. What matters isn't where they learn their values or how they identify, but rather, how they go about their lives practicing what they preach. Will they treat me well? Will I be able to treat them well? If either one of us would feel as though they're "not measuring up" to the other's expectations, I would break it off. That's not a healthy mindset and I think that's what's important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:32 AM |
| 5 | Why hate mgtow?Sorry, my language was easy to misunderstand. By "trashing" it, I meant openly dissing anyone who takes part in it. I support them if they chose to check out for their own happiness! Everyone's happiness comes from different things and I wouldn't "trash" him for that. I do think it's weird how he describes "the pack". It felt like weird conspiracy hierarchy fake woke kinda stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:26 AM |
| 7 | Why hate mgtow?This makes sense! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 11:18 PM |
| 17 | Why hate mgtow?No, I don't think it's fear that makes people hate on MGTOW. I think it's the prejudice and stigma because many who are vocal about it are openly misogynistic. (Not saying you are.) Insinuating that people in relationships are "playing stupid games" is demeaning. Even if you do not find value in it, you don't have to trash it. It's not only hypocritical, but also unproductive. I'm not looking for an argument and I respect your way of life, but I just disagree with the message you're sending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Why hate mgtow?I don't see the problem as long as you don't make derogatory, generalized insults towards women. If you're juat minding your own business, that's okay. Examples would be complaining that women are much of something (emotional, greedy, unempathetic, idk i'm making things up) and saying that is why you aren't in a relationship in contrast to saying that you aren't in one because it doesn't suit your lifestyle. You seem like a nice guy, though! It is sad that nice people are being brought down by t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 11:13 PM |
| 5 | What would a below average man/woman be?This. The "social misfit" is average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 11:10 AM |
| 3 | If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date.I'm naturally thin and I actually prefer stockier men, but I really, really hate if they expect all the women they date to look like what I look like. It's fine to have a preference, but if it's for underweight women then it's pretty toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date.hahaha yandere dev. been a while since i heard that name. his rants were abysmal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Dating is moving on a minefield for womenoh boy oh man you must not want to know what you sound like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Dating is moving on a minefield for womenOh thank you! I don't think I'm much better than others, but I appreciate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 12:37 AM |
| -1 | Dating is moving on a minefield for womenThen you can't say it's "ego-patting" either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Dating is moving on a minefield for womenNeeds are emotional and psychological. What is this "ego patting" you refer to? Don't tell me men don't have emotional and psychological needs too? Do you realize you're putting down your own gender? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 11:46 PM |
| 0 | Dating is moving on a minefield for womenA lot of women need to learn that voplence against men, no matter if they're hurt by it or not, is still violence. The intent matters and it is abusive. They also need to learn that men are not any less of a man when they can't "shut up and deal with it" - that should never be the case. The first statistics are a result of the patriarchy and toxic masculinity. The second one, idk, maybe it should be more normalized to abort the kid. They obviously didn't want to be a mother if they straight up m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 11:44 PM |
| 7 | Dating is moving on a minefield for womeni bet those murders dont often happen on dates? whys that relevant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 11:25 PM |
| 20 | Men are just expected to accept that they not only cannot get someone as attractive as them, but that they will have to WORK for someone less attractive. If they question any of this they are called entitled or told they are overrating their own appearance despite confirmation from most.Exactly! Do these men think that their girlfriend is just for looking at and sex? Of course they'd want her to have a personality, a life maybe??? Also being "equal" in looks is so toxic. Why do they compare and compete with their significant other? To decide a hierarchy? Can't they just be attracted to one another? Super weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Dating is 100% a numbers game for men, and it is inherently humiliating.I can't disagree with that except that there are other ways than constantly approaching. IMO, dating doesn't really work if it's actively pursued. Everyone looks for too much, too little, and are afraid to get their expectations not met. I think the best way is to just live life and keep an open mind to someone possibly being interested. Meeting people through hobbies is much nicer than the inflated expectations on Tinder or whatever. Oh and thank you for explaining! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 09:58 PM |
| 12 | Dating is 100% a numbers game for men, and it is inherently humiliating.Wanting to be a player is sorta sucky and going on a lot of dates doesn't mean they're all high quality. I can't see the end goal of this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leveragelots of women also dont and why does it matter who gets it easier? there are other ways to cope with a breakup. sex is just very tempting, but its not necessarily better especially if it ruins a friendship or abuses someone elses feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverageisnt the definition of using someone for rebound for comfort? it means they were hurt, no? not cuz they are throwing out men like used tissues. also, im sure some men have rebound sex too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leveragewomen dont want leverage women want partners - same as men. this post is weird and sorta delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulategamer language. epic. 🤪🤪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Older women shaming men for dating and sleeping with younger women out of jealousy and labeling it as “predatory” is extremely hypocritical and inaccurate, most men go after younger women because women age faster and younger women are far more attractive, not because they’re easier to manipulateEven if people think it's creepy, why can't you just do it anyway? You seem to have no problem dissing women in their 30s and over, so why do you have a problem with people dissing you? Let's pretend the whole manipulation biz didn't exist. Those younger women will age eventually, too. Will those men swap her out for a "fresh one" later? Cuz they're hotter? Everything about considering age when picking a partner is creepy because it shouldn't really matter either way. If you find baby faces and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 11:39 AM |
| 1 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.No you can definitely train confidence. It about being proud about what you do, having pride to talk about your sense of humour, your hobbies, your job, your passion, whatever. It's about being proud of what makes you who you are. Yes, pretty people are often treated better but if you treat others better than that can be a source of confidence too. Also those studies are weird af sometimes it ends up being a "would you rather date someone more attractive" its like yeah ok but when you actually l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 02:25 AM |
| 7 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.A more important trait is if they seem safe and reasonable. Even with casual sex, boundaries must be established and respected (not that I've ever had it before, but hey! Who doesn't wanna be safe?). Women who don't think about their safety first are probably insane or want to baby-lock you. Also, what? Chad? lmfao. Average guys get girls if they're talkers. Social skills is what makes a Chad. A socially awkward 'hot' guy is probably still going to struggle because most people don't want to be s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.It's probably not because they have inflated egos, it's because they probably have someone they like better? If they have that many options, then, of course, they'd want to choose one that makes them happy. It's unfortunate for you, yes, but there's no one that is everyone's cup of tea. Also, how do you know all the guys want to "pump and dump" them? Are you "nOt liKe tHe oThEr gUyS"? Maybe the other men find the lady prettier than you do and make her feel more loved? This post reads like an ins… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades.It's always best to give half-truths. Play your real personality off as vulnerability, and they'll think they're special, or they'll be more readily accepting. There's a surprising number of girls who want to "become" someone's safe haven. If the manipulative person is REALLY different from how they portrayed themself at the beginning, then they were probably too much of a softie to do anything like this anyway. But yeah, lying completely just makes them a bad liar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades.People tend to view manipulation as a bad thing, but honestly, it's not, and it happens every day. If you want to apologize to someone, you hafta look sad. If you want to be believable, you have to back yourself up with things that show you in a good light. Even playing the devil's advocate can be manipulative. Getting feelings across is less important than making sure the other person takes things the right way. In that way, manipulation is a great tool. As long as you get your foot in the door… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 03:03 PM |
| 4 | Being kind of toxic and manipulative is the only way average men can get fair trades.Why not just get people on the hook in a manipulative way and then "come clean" later? Bonus points for seeming vulnerable, no? It doesn't matter too much how you get people to get hooked - a hook is a hook, and forgiveness is a concept. Relationships can start toxic, and then they can ease into just being honest eventually, but being manipulative the whole way is just over reliance on a very useful tool. Only incompetent people do that. Why hurt themself and the other person when they could jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 02:54 PM |
| 8 | women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later?Rejecting people doesn't boost egos, being told that someone likes them does. Or just.. compliments. So.. no??? If you take such a rumour seriously enough to post about it, idk if you'll even take any comments seriously though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL Are men who are red pill and get casual sex less likely to settle down?The dream!!! Congratulations wow!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of this behavior?i would love for you to do the math, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 05:18 PM |
| 13 | What can we unanimously agree are dealbreakers in a relationship?Lying too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 02:05 PM |
| 4 | What do you think of this behavior?So approximately what percentage of women (onthis thread lol) actually condone this heresy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 02:04 PM |
| 7 | What do you think of this behavior?LMFAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 07:47 AM |
| 11 | What do you think of this behavior?My first thought is "was this written by a guy" because the woman is obviously inexcusable here, but she doesn't represent most women as far as I know. It's weird to date multiple people, and it's weird to withold sex and it should be weird because it's downright manipulative. If this happened to someone, I can see how they would be obsessed over how a woman has casual sex and whatnot, but most women don't do this. I would just write them off and move on, just like I would with some other asshol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?oh fuck happy birthday btw LOL Hmm, from what I hear, hypersexuality is a coping mechanism to take control back over your sexuality and body. Sounds good if you can actually come to terms with sex, but I feel like, if you have a bad case of bullying yourself and any kind of doubt about the sex you're having, then you might end up regretting it. I think that we are this way because we put too much value on chastity - to the point it correlates pretty strongly with our self worth. The way I manage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?I hope you find someone who makes you comfortable then! imo if youre looking for a relationship then my top advice is always to join a hobby group and chill there. You may not find someone, but you're guaranteed to learn something new and fun and you can talk about it when you meet a girl you actually like. Anybody, male or female, will be attracted to passion, so the more hobbies you have the cooler you are tbh. Just don't be a braggart. Good luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?Oh my agreement has nothing to do with being demisexual, hence why I didn't mention it. I meant I also have shame revolving sex and I feel safe in my chastity. I've never felt desperate to lose it though, so we differ on that part. My mom and the internet fear mongered me away from sex and sexual things. I was constantly told rape stories and how "if I lose it I'll never get it back" and saw things about women being "tainted" if they weren't chaste and that guys would use me as a toy and throw m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 08:48 PM |
| 8 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?Personally, I hang out at home mostly and play video games, but when I do hang out with friends, I'll go to a board game café, walk around a pet store, walk through the mall, etc. I would bet that girls who are virgins are more homebodies, maybe dislike crowds? So bars and parties would be bad bets not because they'd hate it there necessarily, they'd probably be fine if they were with friends, but because they probably don't have anything in common with party/bar people so they wouldn't be frien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?I'm the same! I only recently discovered the term a few months ago and honestly it made me really happy. I can look for what I want now and I don't have to feel "naive" for not having the same sexual preferences as others. It was dumb being constantly told I was "missing out." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?I identify as demisexual and my view seems similar to yours. When I look at people I can't see them sexually. For example, I don't understand how people can be so horny over celebrities because I've never found a single one to be "wow super hot". I can recognize they're pretty, but if I don't have an emotional connection then it's impossible for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 01:29 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?I dunno if I'd say they're "slim" I feel like girls who save themselves just sorta hang out at different places than one would usually go to meet people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?My reasons are the same as yours, although I'm aa bit older than you. They don't really go away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: In your experience, how many women reach their twenties as virgins and why do they?That's definitely on the spectrum of asexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | For the women. How long should a man wait for a girl to let him have sex with her ?Time the man is willing to wait =/= Time until woman is ready -> leave If woman is using sex as a way to lead him on (which I can't ever see anyone sane doing) then... pick a better woman? What's the point of this question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:35 AM |
| 1 | The red pill essentially teaches that men aren't capable of love?I like your arguments but I feel bad for you because TRP won't let you stop arguing lol they really hate being the "bad guy" but they promote things like spinning plates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Where do you draw the line in this new era of pornography?If it's ethical porn (as in the women aren't being exploited to make the porn) then I don't mind guys paying for it but I personally don't date guys who really enjoy porn too often. It's really about the frequency and if they're after "variety". If they want variety in the amount of beautiful women they see, then I think they just can't make up their mind. I prefer guys with a strong preference. I also have to find the porn is agreeable in that, if I was really horny, maybe I'd like it too (thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?That sounds fun! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?Have a hobby! One you can do together (games?) and one you can just be a nerd about. Of course, answer her questions and explain things and don't go on too long, but it's super attractive to have a passion. ♡ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 01:03 PM |
| 2 | If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer?Why cant "average people" just find other "average people" who think they're like... amazing even knowing that theyre not the most amazing, "top value" person? It's weird to see dating as a "market"... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Ironically, access to a woman’s sexuality “costs” more the worse it becomesThat's a cool way of saying it! How eloquent. I do think that it's toxic to make men jump through hoops for sex when they've done it before for far less. I think that it's ok if the boundaries are clear... The line can get farther but not too much farther from where it was originally set imo. Suddenly putting a value on chastity doesn't make sense to me unless there's a trauma involved like a rape during their mid-20s or being in a toxic relationship and having their value placed solely in sexua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Ironically, access to a woman’s sexuality “costs” more the worse it becomesI do think that a woman's 30s is really... past when she should have learned what she liked? I feel like that would be a really really broken woman. Women who have an addiction or trauma and look for validation from anyone who will give it would maybe only realize their standards are wrong when they're 30. They'd have a lot less options and a lot more time to think about what they've done. Maybe at 28 they realized their highschool sweetheart isn't worth it and escapes for a second chance at lov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Ironically, access to a woman’s sexuality “costs” more the worse it becomesBefore I reply to anything, does "you" refer to me specifically or to all women? I.. uhm... I'm saving myself for marriage? So this is all very awkward and I don't know if I should be trying to answer this personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Men would rather be rejected honestly than be told a white lieI think that insults aren't necessary, but it is the lesser of two evils to be honest why someone isn't desirable. This is only the case in which they're actually asking. I think it falls under helpful criticism (as long as it's not mean/doesn't make the other party comfortable). The only negative I can see coming from this is a guy fitting the mold of some girl and becoming a superficial, fake version of what she wants saying "what about now?" Of course, this is just an extreme example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 08:09 AM |
| 4 | Ironically, access to a woman’s sexuality “costs” more the worse it becomesI would imagine that, because theyre not the best looking themselves, they don't plan to partner with people who look much better than themselves. After all, they're basically asking them to give up their life while giving their own in return. I think that's quite equal. If they understand this, then I don't see a problem. There are men (and women, but mostly men?) who's interest in beauty doesn't diminish and lament women ageing and becoming less beautiful. I think that's their business, a bit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 07:38 AM |
| 6 | Ironically, access to a woman’s sexuality “costs” more the worse it becomesI think one reason is because there's more men asking when theyre young so more people hit the standard for them. I don't understand why it'd be harder to get as an older woman. Maybe it's because they have higher standards as they get older and learn what they like? I don't sleep around and I'm in my 20s so this is just speculation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Why is everybody's Ex 'abusive'?If people are happy then they talk to the people who make them happy. If there's something sad people usually don't wanna bring their loved ones down by talking about it too often, so sometimes people go to the internet for it. Anonymity is useful for that kinda thing. Some people just need validation for their problems before they make a decision. There's plenty of reasons why the negative would be out more than the positive. Honestly, I'd unfollow a subreddit if it was just lovey dovey schmush… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Question For Women: How long would you go without sex in a relationship?I have a low sex drive so I would be fine as long as he talks to me about his problems and still enjoys my company. If he's not affectionate anymore then I might just leave within a month at the longest. I'm very anxious so I wouldn't be able to focus on anything else until it's over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 10:16 PM |
| 5 | Do you care about a guy's "number" if so what ranges are do you prefer?I prefer close to 0 because I'm at 0. I wouldn't want to date a guy who enjoys casual sex. I don't know about numbers, but if their past relationships were all really short or if they got together with girls back to back then I think that's the bigger red flag for me because I'm always looking for something long-term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4W How would you react to your SO losing a fight in a really pathetic way?I'm scared and sad that he's hurt and scared. I would fuss over a papercut if he got it and I carry band-aids around for a reason. Jesus... Maybe he'd feel better with a warm drink? That hurts... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Do high value men use online dating?haha i had to ask my teacher what a jeep was | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think women should have sex with their SO if they aren't in the mood?This makes so much sense to me! I'm also not a very sexual person so having a partner who initiates regularly while also respecting when I'm genuinely not feeling well (or rather, when I'm straight up incapable of feeling sexual) is perfect. All my boyfriends filled that role perfectly. ♡ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think women should have sex with their SO if they aren't in the mood?It's a prerequisite for my SO to be able to turn me on enough to want it even if I'm not in the mood. If they can't do that then I can't date them in the first place zzzz... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Ladies which man do you prefer in this example. I’m curiousBetween 1 or 2... Thw one that looks at me and maybe smiles? (Not that I'd go up to them, but I can hope!) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 07:33 AM |
| 8 | Why do you think it's stigmatized for men to be insecure?It’s not attractive to be insecure, but it’s attractive to be honest and sincere and even though insecurities can get in the way a lot and need to be worked on, they’re just a reality I like this line a lot. I feel like insecurity will always be a weakness but should be normalized. It's okay for people to not be where they want to be as long as they're moving forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Why exactly does pornography bother you?It would be a dealbreaker if: They didn't prefer me over the porn. They expected me to become like a personal porn actress... (Expecting certain reactions from me is basically asking me to faking my reactions) They have a desire to put themselves in the scene. It's okay to want to do an act, but not okay to wish they had been there themselves. They were addicted to it. They compared my body to those in porn. They tried to convince me to join them. They found something I'm not comfortable with an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 01:08 AM |
| 5 | What's the endgame for you here?I have a really, really rotten sense of humour and I made this alt reddit account just to satisfy that. I also tend to get into conversations with less-than-savoury people because I enjoy talking about their beliefs and how it differs from mine. I often try to talk to hackers, pedos, incels, men who just want sex and more even if it's just for a short while (much to my friends' horror), so, I think me ending up here is actually pretty natural. It's just interesting to see how people can derail s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?I agree with this as a 0 n count woman except the std thing. I feel like I'd be insulting their intelligence if I assumed they weren't smart enough to get tested after sleeping around despite all the warnings they got in highschool. I'd also like to add on that they'll probably compare me, who has 0 experience, to the other girls who have more experience. Also, they might be a selfish lover since I don't expect casual sex to be the "highest quality", he might just do it for himself and question … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How would you react if the guy you were seeing told you he was a virgin?I hope you feel more comfortable with your experience ^ don't rush yourself! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 11:58 PM |
| 6 | How would you react if the guy you were seeing told you he was a virgin?Unconcerned. I've only ever dated virgins tbh. I don't aim for them, just happens to be that way. If anything, dating a guy who isn't a virgin is more intimidating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | A lot of "sluts" simply experience spontaneous sexual desire & "good girls" have responsive or contextual sexual desireThe title feels like clickbait but the contents are pretty interesting and actually sort of comforting. Thanks for sharing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 06:30 AM |
| 0 | Valentines Day Mega-ThreadControversial? Well, I'll probably be with my boyfriend or Tha Boyz™. Maybe I'll drink something too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Older virgin women, why haven't you lost it yet/lost it later in life?Oh no I wasn't criticizing you! I was agreeing. Sorry to make you feel insecure about your fluidity in English. You were totally fine!! Fun is enjoying something... When it makes you happy. Funny is when something makes you laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Older virgin women, why haven't you lost it yet/lost it later in life?I like how you mentioned "things that are funny" lmao comedy > kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Older virgin women, why haven't you lost it yet/lost it later in life?I'm 23 and still have my virginity for my own personal reasons. I've been told to give it to the right person since I was young by my parents, who are Catholic, but I myself am agnostic. A lot of it is pettiness and fear of not wanting to be a statistic for another guy. I do not want to feel "owned" by someone who doesn't even want me. I'm also pretty shy and can't feel sexual towards someone I don't love, so it'd be impossible for me to have casual sex anyways, but the aforementioned reasons ad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Why most men complain about not getting sexSolid argument. OP's post seems pretty tone deaf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Why is the courage double standard fine but the purity double standard is evil?Thanks for the diss? But no, you did imply it otherwise you shouldn't have brought it up in the first place. It's a matter of context and understanding where you're coming from - if you mention it, it can be mentioned back. If you don't understan that, that's your problem. "Solopsism" lol. You seem to just focus on how the timid man wouldn't be laid. Would timid men even want to be laid that often? Doesn't being timid come with insecurity and hesitancy to go through with such bold actions? Is th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 09:02 AM |
| 0 | Why is the courage double standard fine but the purity double standard is evil?Posting stuff I learned from some documentaries is a "people" thing. Plenty of men do it too, but there is still a lot more violence towards promiscuous women than there should be. Not saying all men think this way, but enough do that it's reasonable to be wary of. No need to be sexist, that's sorta lame. Anyways, the only reason I mentioned it in the first place was not because "everything is worse for women" but because you mentioned that timid men experience the equivalent of slut-shaming and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Why is the courage double standard fine but the purity double standard is evil?You'll certainly have less prospects! The scales will tip one way or the other, there will always be a majority. The majority of women are just not interested in timid men. That is a natural selection that comes with preference and there is a striking difference between preference and someone being entitled to a whole other person's body. One of these shames a decision as a mistake and labels a promiscuous person as "tainted," "ruined," "damaged" without regard to their personality - just how th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 06:32 AM |
| 0 | Why is the courage double standard fine but the purity double standard is evil?I think this relates to how women want more aggressive men (in a proactive, non-violent way) because most women are bottoms, and even if they're not, they might want a really wild sex life. I think timid men would definitely appeal to a smaller crowd, but it's definitely not something to be made fun of for. The purity double standard is definitely evil in comparison. Men can live their lives being timid and be accepted. That's normal, but having sex is also normal and the purity double standard … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Is having no social media presence a handicap in dating?Yeah I guess so? Just saying its not a disadvantage for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Is having no social media presence a handicap in dating?I'm someone who tires of social media. It just exhausts me. I tried instagram, twitter, and facebook back when I was a tween. I'm early 20s as of now and the only "social" thing I use actively is Discord. I usually meet people through games or servers but I find people to date fairly easily. I don't know if I'm handicapped, but I don't seem to have any issue... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Women who are attracted to men, what makes you want/desire a man rather than just enjoying being wanted/desired by him?I like someone who isn't a saint - someone who isn't a pushover and will be self sacrificing to just anyone. A sense of self preservation is charming but I also want them to have the ability to treat me nicely. I like someone who is maybe a little cocky, persistent, willing to change minds through self improvement. Also they have to be funny and have some kind of hobby (even if it's just games, but who doesn't play games nowadays?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:02 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think people are drifting apart from each other in dating and more and more people are perpetually single?The rise of standards because of internet couples and so many options due to OLD. Also, everyone is comfortable enough being single with porn and internet or just too busy trying to work their way to get a house and stuff. People have less time, more interesting things to do than work through problems and drama and have idealized standards pushed in their face all the time so they expect too much and receive too little. Edit: Oh! And divorce is normalized and people from the last generation talk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | TRP and FDS are dishonest about how vulnerable they are, and about how pain and personal experience are more important to their ideology than logic or reason.oh buddy.. :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 07:16 PM |
| 4 | TRP and FDS are dishonest about how vulnerable they are, and about how pain and personal experience are more important to their ideology than logic or reason.That's sad and scary and please find help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | TRP and FDS are dishonest about how vulnerable they are, and about how pain and personal experience are more important to their ideology than logic or reason.I feel like it can only be a weird mixture of both once the trauma happens. People aren't robots, but they do try to find ways to cope. One of those things is trying to reason out why something happened so they can avoid it next time which can lead to all this theorizing, criticizing and bitterness towards the other gender. People recognize patterns, and the most obvious people will display the most obvious patterns. Eventually people prove their theories true to themselves, but the true base of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 06:57 PM |
| 2 | TRP and FDS are dishonest about how vulnerable they are, and about how pain and personal experience are more important to their ideology than logic or reason.Sounds like you looked for it and gave up. Sorry man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father?Nope! Nope, nope, nope, nope, nope! I would not, not because I would resent the other woman's children, but because I don't even know if I want kids myself. I don't enjoy having that choice made for me and I also don't really enjoy children. As I am right now, I lack "motherly instincts" pretty much completely. They would also have to have a pretty convincing story to prove that they didn't end up with a kid out of impulsiveness. That's not a quality I want in a partner. It would also be weird t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | What n count makes someone promiscuous, in your mind? Open to all genders.I don't have an n count to speak of and my past partners haven't had n counts either, but I think n count doesn't matter as much as how often they seek sex. How often they seek it changes how they get it and I think it shows who's just desperately horny (and would probably cheat and never be satisfied with just one partner) versus who is comfortable managing their body and desires. In this case, the first person would be promiscuous, the second would not. Then again, I don't know anybody with n … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionWhatever pleases your ego, bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionWrong, I was saying I think not apologizing for hurting someone whether you intended to hurt them or not makes you an asshole. You're the one who made it about women man, don't pin that on me. Also this is a different comment thread and you're still bringing it up? How petty smh even children apologize when they accidentally bonk someone with a ball on the playground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionI firmly believe that apologizing if you hurt someone is a huge part of making up for shortcomings. For example, if you hit someone with a ball by accident, you wouldn't blame them for it... Even though it wasn't your intention, it's very immature to blame others for your shortcomings. At least, that's my view. I don't think it means they're controlling you, I think it means they are existing alongside you and you acknowledge their space and respect their feelings. You're not responsible for the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionReally? Can you give me an example of an interaction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionEverything you said makes sense. I can't disagree with anything except with how you described complimenting a woman's chest. It's only flattering if she also takes interest in you because its a very sexual organ and women are very dodgy around men who seemingly only want them for sex, even if you also like them as a person. I think the most important thing in that situation is tact. Guys needa know when it's okay to sexualize a woman, otherwise it raises the alarm bells we all were raised with a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 10:23 PM |
| 0 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionYeah , I meant respect as in "Don't cross the boundary" and "Don't be an ass about it" - walking away is fine! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionApologizing for hurting someone isn't the same as apologizing for who you are as a person. I just don't want to deny how you live your life as long as it doesn't hurt other people. Because that extra sentence is me showing my belly and setting precedent that you can dictate my language. No woman is ever going to have that kind of power over me. Those extra sentences add up over time, and sometimes the demands just get worse if you've already shown you are willing to roll over. So you think it's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 10:15 PM |
| 0 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionAs long as you respect it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionYou can be blunt and still be decent. Sure, you don't like flowery language and I'm not saying you should apologize for or change who you are, but you can at least say "My bad, didn't mean it like that" and then walk away. If you make the interaction negative just because you don't want to spare the extra sentence to be decent, then I think it's wrong cuz you just make people's day worse at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionYou're talking out of your ass. I'm saying those beliefs are common among people from those communities. Never did I say it was objective either. You're just putting words in my mouth. Don't reply to me you make no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionThen they shouldn't try to date me because if I can't even be friends with them, why would I want to date them? I'm blaming them because they're sticking around for the wrong reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionCertain groups will believe certain things. Buddy, if you wanna go on the news and scream how you should be allowed to overstep boundaries whenever and wherever, go ahead and see what response you'll garner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionInsult=/=Argument Could you be any more useless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionOh I think there's a misunderstanding then! I'm pretty sure OP's post was in the context of something other than a relationship. I don't often hear women cry about being objectified by someone they actively are mutually attracted to in a consensual relationship. If they are being disrespected, they usually say it's abuse, not objectification. I saw the post in a different light than you did, sorry for the confusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionIt's fine to have someone interpret it wrong, it's fine to not want to conform so that they don't take it wrong. It's not everyone's cup of tea. What's not fine is if you don't apologize to someone who expresses discomfort. Yes, you didn't mean to make them feel that way, but you still did. You don't need to alter yourself, you just need to be considerate and own up to your actions instead of blaming others for "taking it the wrong way" when obviously you aren't doing anything to ensure that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionCreepy is subjective, sure, but most people would agree that you're being creepy. People who wouldn't would be like-minded "misfits", misogynists, incels and pick-me's, but hey! The last one might give you sex. <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionI think I understand what you mean? It's like how a guy wouldn't appreciate a sex doll for getting him off, but would appreciate a woman and respect her for it. "I like her because she gives me something" - but at the same time, it's very shallow compared to commitment. Commitment is a sentimental promise and hits deeper than "wham, bam, thank you ma'am." I think they're incomparable, despite being closely related, so I don't agree with your gendered comparison but I do think I see how you can s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:23 PM |
| 9 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionI think I get what you mean? I don't like when guys hang around me because they like how I look and listen to what I say, but ultimately have one goal in their mind so even though they listen to me they're not actually interested or want to be anything less than a boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:16 PM |
| 9 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionDon't compare highschool girls to adult women. They were obviously immature and shallow if they thought that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionNo sane person will take that the wrong way. They might question for a second if you like them, but they won't push it if you keep your distance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:02 PM |
| 6 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionDon't even try. This guy's trying to absolve all blame on himself by pretending to be tone deaf. Just wants an excuse to be creepy while still having "innocent" intentions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionWhat? The woman lays a boundary and they push /just before the boundary/ - of course that's creepy! It shows how much they wanna push her outta her comfort zone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionYes you do, its about previous interactions stacked upon each other as well as how you word your compliment. Thats why everyone is mentioning "context". Take a hint bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 05:51 PM |
| 10 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.There's a fear that both genders share and that's whether or not we'll be treated right. No cheating, no lying, no bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think rejection is something only men should experience?I've seen and heard of people getting salty over rejection, but I have never experienced people "siding with the woman" when a woman experiences rejection (unless the rejection was used to personally attack the rejected, in which case people defend the rejected person regardless of gender). I mostly see people support that they have the choice in choosing who they date, which is the correct perspective and respects autonomy. Anybody who gets mad at someone for rejecting another probably have som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 12:08 AM |
| 4 | Would you be okay with being a forever girlfriend/boyfriend? Why or why not?Oh didn't know about the taxes. That's neat! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Would you be okay with being a forever girlfriend/boyfriend? Why or why not?I think "girlfriend" sounds cuter so I'm all for it! I actually dislike the idea of marriage just because I hate the idea of a ceremony. Not super against it or anything, but I'm just not excited for it. If anything, I'd be surprised if I wasn't the one suggesting not getting married. Edit: I read some other comments. I do agree that they should be committed to me, married or not. I would want to have a say in what happens to them if something were to happen to them though... I didn't think that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 11:32 PM |
| 3 | For men and women: If you attracted a Red Piller or FDSer would you pursue a relationship?If me and this person clicked, then they probably are in those subs for good reason. I personally don't agree with how extremist those subs are, but I do think that seeing things from their point of view might help broaden my horizons in terms of morality and goals. That person would probably feel similar even if they had different conclusions about things. People heal from different things and, as long as they come out a better person and continue to try to be even better, I accept that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever asked a guy out or made the first move?Aw. :( Maybe you attract more mature women? Not all women will react like that... I often get told I'm innocent or cute but never sexy (which I prefer). I feel like a more mature woman might take a more elegant approach and can still have just as much of a crush on you. ♡ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 06:14 AM |
| 2 | What are your OSRI (Open Sex-Role Inventory) results? Are you more fem? More masc? Non-binary? Androgynous?Neat results! Will you be drawing a conclusion from them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever asked a guy out or made the first move?Yknow, I'm not really sure! I don't get crushes often and I don't have a method or dating strategy. I think the biggest thing is that I text them more than I probably should and I try to hang out with them more than I probably should and I definitely sus out their relationship status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever asked a guy out or made the first move?I think I can't help but be obvious when I like someone so that works for me! Thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 04:36 PM |
| 0 | Have you ever asked a guy out or made the first move?I think it's also his fault for not being honest. Your interactions were definitely a two-person thing so don't feel too bad! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever asked a guy out or made the first move?This is what I fear. :( I wish I could be a girl who makes the first move, but with the "Men who get a lot of women are cool 😎" status, I feel like I'd be putting myself at risk to being a demographic for the guy in question... I don't think I could ever ask a guy out straight up, but I will make an effort to try and hang out with them. I don't think that counts though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever asked a guy out or made the first move?I agree with this pov! If people start looking for a relationship actively, they're bound to either overthink or assume things about other people. Weird things become red flags and they expect too much from others who just want to naturally find an honest relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 03:43 PM |
| 3 | What are your OSRI (Open Sex-Role Inventory) results? Are you more fem? More masc? Non-binary? Androgynous?Those feminine things should be life skills - who doesn't want a sick looking home? Good on you! Also a skincare lover. ♡ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 03:12 PM |
| 2 | What are your OSRI (Open Sex-Role Inventory) results? Are you more fem? More masc? Non-binary? Androgynous?M: 88 F: 111 I got placed in bottom right quadrant. The questions were sort of... I mean I guess it is a gender role test so maybe it's supposed to stereotype people...? (F btw) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think of stuff like Nofap or NoNutNovember?I see! I've been aware of a struggle for so long. Wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think of stuff like Nofap or NoNutNovember?It's that hard? I'm not a man, but I can go months without. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think of stuff like Nofap or NoNutNovember?It's funny. People lie about it? Blasphemy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoeverI like this answer. It lets people connect on a deeper level and advises people to go and meet people through mutuals instead of something like Tinder or at clubs or bars. IMO, it's great advice to take a pinch of red pill - to focus on themselves, but not to increase their SMV. Instead, it should just be to enjoy life more. That kind of energy pulls people. It's all about that passion - being passionate at work or even if they hate their job, if it fuels a hobby or a goal or they study somethin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man?I'd be willing if they were willing to listen to my side of things. I would also like if they talked to me about why they think a certain way and have a calm discussion. They seem smart and determined, which I think is admirable, but I fear that their pride and stigma surrounding women might get in the way of an actual connection. It's a two-person thing. They sound like an interesting group to befriend, almost! I'm very curious about their point of view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.Yes, I agree that women have the edge to dating apps, but adding it all up to height difference is definitely projecting. There are a plethora of reasons why men are unsuccessful in dating apps like I mentioned, but I could list more.. Women are taught from a young age that if we choose the wrong guy, we could get abused (which, yes, is true for both genders but often has worse implications for the female counterpart) so personality is often more important. Personality can only be guessed and a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.No I just don't get why you brought her up...? I dunno much about kink culture, but I didn't wanna shame her so blatantly. I couldn't even tell it was a dating app. On dating apps, sure, women get more attention, but it's mostly men on dating apps compared to a small amount of women, right? It's also that people on dating apps are mostly focused on physical attraction. Also, people don't have unlimited time in a day so it doesn't make sense for women to swipe everyone they could see themselves d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever dated someone or shown attraction towards someone you weren't physically attracted to?I agree with having to hang out with them first! When I fall for someone, I tend to fall hard. I was definitely curious about them but I didn't feel any attraction until well after I had fallen for them. I just really really wanted their attention and time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.She has a very niche look to her, perhaps some dudes are into that. I don't understand your point, I'm sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever dated someone or shown attraction towards someone you weren't physically attracted to?Yeah! I didn't think they looked bad though. Eventually I'd look at them more and see things like how their eyes were slightly downwards, how pretty their hands were, how I liked how they walked and gazed at me and they became physically attractive to me. I never thought they were /unattractive/ though. I can identify when people look nice and are conventionally attractive but I have never experienced myself being attracted to them myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever dated someone or shown attraction towards someone you weren't physically attracted to?I also identify as demi, but I don't feel any kind of physical attraction before I feel emotional attraction unless you count smell and voice. I wasn't initially attracted to any of my partners or anyone else for that matter and that includes my current boyfriend but that doesn't mean he's not attractive to me now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.I agree with the first half, thank you for being honest. Aren't most people invisible to most other people unless they've got something special about them? You speak like you'd notice every woman in the room. I'm sure it's not that those guys are invisible. People are just selfish and don't really take interest in the people around them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 03:39 PM |
| 0 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.Looking for a girl who has standards of "not being replaceable" just means they respect themselves, not that they're mid-30s. If you're after emotionally immature women, then go ahead? Weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.I'm just saying that being hot doesn't excuse fuckups? Calm down, brother. I'm not saying I'm special, I'm saying most women do want to be treated well by a guy - hot or not. Sorry to break it to you, but the girls who chase after "Chad" are definitely snowflakes - they think they can magically change him and make him want to settle down with them. "I'll be the one ☆" mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Most women are demisexual.Personally how someone sounds is a big thing for me. Maybe it's because I just want them to say sweet things to me? The rest of the stuff might just be preferences left by my exes... My physical preference really just morphs to whoever I'm with but.. I guess I've always liked dark eyes and hair? Obviously I can't speak for all demis though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 08:44 AM |
| 2 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?Oh I hope you both have fun!! Thats so sweet! ♡ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Most women are demisexual.Hey, demisexual here and I think there's a misunderstanding. Demisexuality doesn't mean "only attracted to hot guys" - that's called a "preference." There needs to be an actual romantic connection, like a crush, and demisexuals are often ASEXUAL if that connection is absent (meaning no sexual attraction whatsoever). No matter how "hot" a guy is, I will feel turned off by him until I know I love who he is. When I really loved each one of my exes, all my physical preferences changed to meet what h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:52 AM |
| 1 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?!! ♡ Thank you 🥰 I do love it here! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Do you do low energy, short message, infrequent texts with guys you genuinely like? How low is low enough that a guy should get the hint and leave?It's ok, I'm not bothered. It's not like you're insulting me. I wasn't saying you're mentally ill, I was referring that you're emotionally unhappy with how you've been treated when it comes to this and that puts you in an unhealthy mentality (meaning I think you have a negative perspective surrounding the whole situation). If I may ask, how old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:29 AM |
| 0 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.Well yeah but then do /you/ give a shit about any of /those/ girls? Exactly. Tons of girls would never wanna be so replaceable, thats absolutely hurtful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you do low energy, short message, infrequent texts with guys you genuinely like? How low is low enough that a guy should get the hint and leave?Why would they get better? Well... I said to work on your mental health and that can lead to new hobbies and journeys. If you have new experiences, you can learn to be proud of where you've been. If youre more proud of where you've been, you'll look forward to where you're going and gradually improve. If you gradually improve, you'll attract people all on your own! And then wow congratulations! There are plenty of positive ways! ♡ And of course women care about attraction but I dont know what ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 10:18 PM |
| 0 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.Ugh, if a guy who's "conventionally hot" wants a free pass out of a problem, I'll give him a ticket home. :/ Actually gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you do low energy, short message, infrequent texts with guys you genuinely like? How low is low enough that a guy should get the hint and leave?Oh I'm sorry. If you can't help but pursue, then maybe you could pursue later in life when you feel ready again? I'm not saying not to have a bitter attitude, but rather to deal with the bitterness in a positive way. I think you've been hurt and need to cope. It's ok to be truthful as well, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. When youre in a better mental state, perhaps try to change your methods... is all I was saying. I'm sorry if it offended you. There's no need to hustle either - you can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you do low energy, short message, infrequent texts with guys you genuinely like? How low is low enough that a guy should get the hint and leave?I'm sorry you're struggling, but I still stand by my point... This might be uncalled for or rude, but here's some unsolicited advice (sorry in advance). IMO it really matters where youre looking for girls and it matters that you know why youre going for a certain girl. Is it her looks? Her personality? Dating apps are sort of ass, everyone puts up a front and isn't honest about what they want, and if they are honest about what they want, they're not honest about what they're like. I'm a fan of o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?A good city in Canada! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?I cannot believe this stuff happens. I've never heard of such things happening where I live but that's terrifying. Holy shit? That stuff exists? And the wife story djskdjd gAAAH that's so creepy... It was definitely interesting though thank you for sharing but damn I'm happy for you that you left. Holy shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 03:38 AM |
| 2 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?Raided? That sounds... more scary than anything. Geez, I hope you and your family are okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 03:18 AM |
| 2 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?Stuff about how they don't wanna hear logic from someone who follows "primitive traditions", how they feel sorry for anyone who ends up with me, how they don't have to explain anything to me because I'm too illogical to understand anyways (not like he asked me my reasons either). I apologize if I was being disruptive on your thread! My bad! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?Yikes. Hopefully it's an interesting story to tell at least? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 01:27 AM |
| 2 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?Oh, thank you very much! That's very nice of you to say ^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?Yeah on the right face, for sure. I agree. When it comes to women liking the same thing, it's definitely not true. I am actually unable to be sexually attracted to anyone if I'm not in love with them already, but I do find certain features more aesthtically pleasing than others. I wish this was a post about positive attraction traits instead of negative! Nobody really /looks/ for negative traits, its more of an overall look/fashion/grooming/vibe/preference kinda deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 03:29 AM |
| 2 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?ah the way some guys walk is so nice!!!! that actually hits home with me. also the way some guys eat, the way they yawn, or just how their hands look sometimes. one thing thats super common in being attractive is just rolling up sleeves tho, so ig having arms??? and maybe a watch or bracelet but mostly just arms? LOL your enthusiasm about it is a vibe though. nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 03:24 AM |
| 0 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?dicks other than my boyfriend's are scary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 03:21 AM |
| 3 | Do you do low energy, short message, infrequent texts with guys you genuinely like? How low is low enough that a guy should get the hint and leave?Oh, no, I'm sorry for being ignorant of the terms here. Thank you for explaining! I do think that a girl's number or eye contact are all terrible ways to indicate interest. Eye contact specifically is promoted as a way to be more friendly, popular, and sociable or it could be them trying to read you or the mood, them being business-friendly, them just being curious, them just liking your eyes - a myriad of reasons, really. It might be hypocritical of me, but I wouldn't regret trying. I think it'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?A big /round/ nose can be sorta cute tbh but if it's beak shaped then I think it's significantly less popular, but yes, I agree! Hygiene is the universal answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Do you do low energy, short message, infrequent texts with guys you genuinely like? How low is low enough that a guy should get the hint and leave?I don't know what IOI is, so I'd greatly appreciate if you explained it to me! ♡ But, yes, women are talkers. They're good at being friendly outwardly, even if they don't actually like you. It's to avoid being called a bitch, I think. Any girl who isn't friendly or is cold is automatically a bitch in the female world, but the real test is /will they spend time with you./ If they don't like you, then they'll probably weasel themselves out of it one way or another. I don't know about asking a cowo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 12:25 AM |
| 5 | Do you do low energy, short message, infrequent texts with guys you genuinely like? How low is low enough that a guy should get the hint and leave?I send them messages frequently, albeit short ones. I ask them what they're doing, if they're drinking well (if i know the well enough). If I find something interesting like a video or something happening IRL, i'll tell them about it first. I constantly pester them about when we'll call on discord or if they have plans the next day... I'm really selfish and one-tracked so I don't look to spend time with any guy who I'm not really into as a friend or (potential/current) boyfriend. I won't text my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?You haven't said why other than "ur not making ur lover hapy!!!1!! thers no wai hed be happy like that!!!!" so I think you're just stupid, pardon me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:27 PM |
| 2 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?talks like they know logic yet assumes everyone should have the same point of view in 2022 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:24 PM |
| 2 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?woah buddy those are some strong feelings there be careful who you point them at 🤪🤪🤪 i love non-arguments and people who run away once their logic doesn't uphold. i'm sure i'll never see you on there because with how /elegant/ and /understanding/ you are with your extremely narrow point of views you'll never even make it to the "advice" stage >: i envy you, brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:17 PM |
| 3 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?So... You're just assuming I'm a prude, correct? Wrong? I'm simply being careful. I can be intimate with my partners, I just won't have sex. I can touch them and they can touch me, just no sex. Not that I have to explain myself to you, but I leave it up to them to initiate whenever they'd like (because that's what I'm into, not because women should be subservient), so no, I will not be giving it to him on a time-basis? I take care of my love. I guess there are just people who assume everything t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:05 PM |
| 4 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?There are other ways to love, buddy. Also; that's a picture perfect manipulation method of how to pressure someone into sex, yikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 10:52 PM |
| 10 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?For me... A really big schnose (imsorry), bad skin and really small, thin, pointy lips... and maybe a balding head? Bad hygiene to the point you can SEE it (stains on clothes, greasy, dirty even?) is always unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 8 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?Overly religious people are kinda scary yeah... I won't discriminate against them or anything, but I agree with not wanting to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 07:51 PM |
| 48 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?oh mistreatment of animals is a good one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 07:46 PM |
| 11 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?Uhh I have a lot of dealbreakers... Pressuring me into sex (saving myself till marriage) Yelling at me, Hitting me (I could never do this to anyone I love) Excusing abusive behaviours and comments with "I let my emotions get the better of me" (If someone turns abusive once their emotions get out of control, then they're too selfish for me to want a life with. An adult knows how to damage control, imo, especially with the person they love.) Withholding love from me as "punishment" (Really, that's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | What's worse in your mind a 20 year old fucking a 16 year old or a 45 year old fucking a 20 year old?Behaviours due to carnivorous biology is a completely different scale to "Hey, I saw some women do this, so nearly all women do it right?" It's more like saying "Hey, all people of (random race) like (x item), you do too, right?" It's a very frivolous way of stereotyping and spreading misinformation like that only creates prejudice. It's not as scientific as you think it is. Not to mention, this is a very weird part of the internet where it's normal for men to say they want to "mate" women or tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Men should publicly shame and shun simps to gain back power in the dating worldIMO, simps are already shamed for being unreasonable pushovers, letting themselves be stepped on for some validation. Some girls do that too and they're still shamed (Yes, ofc, there are much more male simps). I don't think a compliment is enough to show someone is a simp, though. I think if they give that compliment to every girl, that makes a simp. If they go to lengths just to get any and all female attention, they're a simp. Honestly, guys should get complimented more. I love when a guy has … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | What's worse in your mind a 20 year old fucking a 16 year old or a 45 year old fucking a 20 year old?oKaY mR sCiEnTiSt whats up with men and trying to force people into labelled boxes using pseudoscience if it happens another 50 times ill claim it as fact 🤪🤪🤪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | What's worse in your mind a 20 year old fucking a 16 year old or a 45 year old fucking a 20 year old?... Thanks for making it sexist? Didn't know you hate different perspectives? It's still related to the question, and if you're so gatekeep-y about how far the discussion goes, maybe that's a you problem and not a gender? If anything you made the topic switch to gender stereotyping so good job outing yourself on being a degen.. yikes.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | What's worse in your mind a 20 year old fucking a 16 year old or a 45 year old fucking a 20 year old?Yeah but if Im judging them off just that then they're both just creepy situations and imo its because of how the situation is presented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | What's worse in your mind a 20 year old fucking a 16 year old or a 45 year old fucking a 20 year old?So when you boil down a relationship to JUST AGE then it seems like the age is being fetishized which is fetishizing the mental, emotional maturity gap and that makes it creepier than what it actually is. If you want me to explain more ask more specific questions please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | What's worse in your mind a 20 year old fucking a 16 year old or a 45 year old fucking a 20 year old?Both of them are pretty bad because you're honing in on the age. Whenever the age is the main feature, it feels like it's fetishizing the maturity gap and that's euCkGh. Hard to say which is ickier because I hate teens and couldn't see myself dating one. I just really hate teens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Is the gist of the argument of most male posters here "women should BECOME attracted to the average man"got me there tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Is the gist of the argument of most male posters here "women should BECOME attracted to the average man"Why do you care about the standards of women you don't even want? If they complain about not getting a guy, you can ignore them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 08:02 AM |
| 6 | Is the gist of the argument of most male posters here "women should BECOME attracted to the average man"So they're guys who can't handle the competition so they go for someone who is in a position to be easily abused? Probably better for them not to date then...? They sound toxic... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Legalizing prostitution will destroy women's pussy power and SIMP's over nightThis. Especially the first and third point (had no idea of the second). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Legalizing prostitution will destroy women's pussy power and SIMP's over nightProstitution would probably be more of a commission basis so that women have the right to refuse work when they feel unsafe, so 40$ an hour would probably be unrealistic. There would still be SIMPs, just violent ones or ones who claim to want /everything/ of the woman - her heart, her body, everything. They would probably still be desperate for approval. There would certainly be less men mad about not having sex, but a lot of them will still want to have a girl who loves them (because it feels b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | What do you love about men/women?i like.. men's voices. maybe it's because my voice is high, but i really like deep, calming voices. it makes me feel so comfortable. whenever i meet a guy who has a voice i really like, i go out of my comfort zone to befriend them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 04:09 AM |
| 7 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesExactly this lol. They say it's boring or that I'm missing out, literally sick of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 02:49 AM |
| 2 | CMW: Men don't owe women any commitment after sex regardless of any discussionsI thought pump and dump meant you have sex and go next. If it doesn't, then that's my bad.I don't know hookup culture words cuz I'm not part of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | CMW: Men don't owe women any commitment after sex regardless of any discussionsi never said i supported women lying to men, are you delusional? im just saying you shouldnt blame a whole ass gender for something a small portion of them are doing and you definitely shouldnt be vengeful. i dont like martyrs either, annoying moral high ground and savior complexes, but a martyr is better than a salty loser. move on, bro. go next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 03:40 AM |
| 1 | CMW: Men don't owe women any commitment after sex regardless of any discussionsmaybe dont judge women for being easy then? this guy is misleading to use someone as a sex toy while the situation you described could be someone insecure about their past because of stigma around women and sex? also you do think something as childish as "they did it so i can do it too!!" is progressive? you think thatll get you anywhere? hold up a friendship, much less a relationship? yeah exactly dont talk to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 10:44 PM |
| 6 | CMW: Men don't owe women any commitment after sex regardless of any discussionsanybody who tries to justify deceiving others is gunna get called an asshole or a bitch - cuz they are one. pumping and dumping is fine if its consensual. i feel for the guys who wanted more, but they just gotta keep searching. if the girl led them onto think they would get more, then shes a bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 07:02 PM |
| 4 | CMW: Men don't owe women any commitment after sex regardless of any discussionshe obviously is just mad at a gender(irrational, delusional) because he thinks it's their fault that he's getting outed for being the immoral person he is. must suck being void of virtues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 06:55 PM |
| 4 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialhookup culture is weird as fuck. thats weird as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment.I sorta wanted to be proved wrong because seeing it from your point of view might help me be more understanding. I just wanted to know why some guys treat love and sex like a vending machine - if you put a quarter in, you get this out, but every action has different values and meanings in relationships so it just doesn't make sense to have your milstones with your new ex line up with your old ex. Shouldn't making each other comfortable be the utmost priority? I don't want to be ignorant in think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP actually UNDER estimate just how much looks matter?im just new to reddit whoops | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP actually UNDER estimate just how much looks matter?saving myself till marriage so i dont sleep with anyone lmao sorry im new to (posting on) reddit and didnt notice i had been replied to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 06:18 PM |
| – | If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment.That rule has always been sorta weird to me. Why does it matter who speedruns it first? Maybe the girl slept around previously but doesn't want to do it anymore, maybe the girl feels more passion with one guy and more wholesome commitment to the other. Maybe it's just taking a while to feel out if it'll work out with the other person and trying to avoid an awkward "Hey, I think you're bad in bed" conversation? There is no "Standard" for people - pushing that narrative is toxic in itself, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 04:48 AM |
| -1 | Does TRP actually UNDER estimate just how much looks matter?I'm demisexual and i disagree with this. I value a guy who makes me laugh because I rarely meet someone with my humour, so when guys make me laugh i pay more attention to them and inevitably find them more attractive. I think there's a thing where the more often you see them the more attractive they look? That could be part of it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are far more entitled than men and don't expect to do even the bare minimumoh really? :0 thats crazy whoops my bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 05:35 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are far more entitled than men and don't expect to do even the bare minimumi frequent fds but i dont see women complaining about making a guy pay. fds is sorta like the redpill from what ive seen where they focus on themselves and just sorta try to become HV so they have their own income and probably wouldnt do that so they expect the man to do their fair share of the chores i think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what is your max age gap and why?F23 Maximum is probably mid-thirties and up, minimum "no teens". as long as they treat me the way i wanna be treated and aren't weird about the age gap with "oh i'm young so all my mistakes are exempted!" or "im old so i know better". Ageism is a dealbreaker for me. "I am/am not experienced in x field" is fine though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 08:24 PM |
| 1 | What do you mean when you say men have fragile egos?thats more about validation in looks and beauty than about femininity. femininity is often about being demure and graceful and devoting everything to a single man which is the opposite of how most people view OnlyFans (not putting down sex workers tho). Even men enjoy getting likes on their posts and whatnot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag.doesn't mean she didnt regret it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 10:01 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.I think what the person before was talking about was coercion through fomo shaming like "oh youre missing out". I think men are judged on their experience because most women are submissive (most) or are afraid to be seen as promiscuous or "easy" so they want guys to make the moves on them. Theres also the fear mongering among women that men only care about their own pleasure, so they actively are taught to look for men who can and know how to please women in bed.. so i think the shaming of men c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?I'm a girl who's saving myself for marriage. Not for religious reasons (I'm agnostic), but out of fear of abandonment. I often take a long time to show any intimacy because I don't want it to be used against me. I'm also afraid of getting involved and then not liking it and then having my partner accuse me of using them instead ("Whyre you backing out when youre the one who started it" kinda deal). Despite this, I tend to feel sexual attraction as soon as I feel any kind of romantic emotional at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 10:50 PM |
| 1 | What's your shallowest turnoff ?someone who ditches me in video games | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Why do women seem to prefer long term relationships and commitment instead of just being best friends with sex? Do you genuinely desire a man to devote and commit himself to you for the rest of his life or is this just a social pressure? Is this something that you genuinely want for yourselves?I want someone who I can feel safe with, who I can tell all my secrets to and not expect to be betrayed. When they commit then I feel safe opening up. I don't know what your definition of a "best friend" is, but I have standards - even for friends. I don't want to be nervous after opening up to someone, never knowing when they're going to leave and for the shallow reason of "we drifted apart." The best friend status is something I put a lot of trust and value in and that doesn't even compare to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 04:36 PM |
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