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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 46 | We talk about how to seduce a girl, but how about keeping her interested in the long run?How do you do that in a way that feels organic and true to who you are? Radical honesty? | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 03:16 PM |
| 30 | Are women honest about their ideal body type?They’re appreciated for different reasons. The shredded guy arouses them more, while the chubby one is more cuddly, endearing and comfortable to be with. Women especially as they get older don’t normally choose their boyfriends based on who they want to fuck at the peak of their cycle | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Do you stop people who are walking?No lol | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 08:29 PM |
| 7 | Girl I am talking to is interested in me but her replying habit is weird.1-2 minutes is great | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 07:41 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a guy interjecting the conversation with you and a girl, taking over?If someone feels comfortable enough to do that to you you’ve already lost | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 01:02 PM |
| 16 | What to do when she has a boyfriendIf she brings up her bf she’s not interested in cheating with you and might not even want to continue the convo | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Do women with tattoos look down on men w/out tattoos?You shouldn’t care if they do or not | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Break down deadbeat/hobosexual game for meIt’s not that simple though - you can hate being broke and want to better yourself, but it takes time. My question is, how do you stay confident in the meantime and not let your current circumstances weigh you down and keep you from pursuing someone | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 03:20 PM |
| 6 | How important what you say when you approach a girl?Reality works in shades of gray and “within reason” is always implied. You have to be able to read people and gauge what they’ll be receptive towards | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 12:37 PM |
| 107 | The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it?In my experience they’re easier than any other girl when they’re hooked, but they’re also fickle and get bored/turned off easily. | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 02:12 PM |
| -4 | How do you put a positive spin on being a complete fuckup?You kind of do. The girls I like tend to live deep in the boroughs or in transit desserts. With a car you can get anywhere in the city within 40 minutes. No girl wants to take the subway for 2 hours especially with all the weirdos out there | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 05:45 PM |
| 0 | How do you put a positive spin on being a complete fuckup?Im not trying to live in midtown. Thats a great salary for someone who lives in the boroughs and isn’t getting Uber eats everyday | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you put a positive spin on being a complete fuckup?120k after my recent raise. Was making 90 before | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 05:34 PM |
| 2 | How do you put a positive spin on being a complete fuckup?The thing that makes it even worse is that my family’s poor | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 04:43 PM |
| 0 | How do you put a positive spin on being a complete fuckup?A work of art that I can marvel at every time I leave the house. I don’t like the look of most American and Asian cars that you see on the road | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 03:48 PM |
| 9 | How do you put a positive spin on being a complete fuckup?Yeah, I’m into fashion and luxury goods and abused the shit out of pay in 4/cash advance services. I’m a stupid person who feels entitled to luxuries while living in a shoe box and having $200 in my bank account | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 02:32 PM |
| 9 | How do you put a positive spin on being a complete fuckup?I feel like I’ll forever be playing catch up though. With my career I could’ve had a house and a German car by now, but instead I’m trying to get my first driver’s license and find sublets | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Are late bloomers permanently damage?You can have that attitude and still be bitter with a chip on your shoulder. Look at most of these “successful” red pilled gurus who practically despise women, are angry and tense 24/7, and talk about flirting like it’s a military operation lol. The guy who was getting laid in high school isn’t like that | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Is it better to live by yourself with bad logistics, or with your parents in a convenient area?I’m from a gentrified hood that happens to be close to Manhattan so it wouldn’t be that big of a culture shock, it’d just be kind of inconvenient and boring. Plus there are plenty of normal Hispanic women over there working as nurses, teachers, etc. who I honestly relate to more | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Man FUCK I keep getting nauseaous before datesIt depends. Some people are going to be average at best with or without surgery and would be better off going to therapy so they can come to terms with that and focus on something else | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 10:14 PM |
| 0 | If a woman is too forward/lustful, I start to suspect she’s trans..I’m used to having to build at least a little bit of comfort before they get to that point. Women are usually overthinkers, super concerned about what their friends think, and rarely in a rush to escalate things, so if a girl who’s relatively attractive starts making me rub up on her body and going for a kiss super early into the interaction I feel like something’s off. She could be a dude or not as attractive as I think. I’d get it if I were super muscular but I’m just a skinny slightly above a… | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 04:46 PM |
| 5 | Tank tops in a clubIf it’s hot and you’re at a younger hip hop/reggaeton event with a $10 cover charge, yeah. Higher end clubs might turn you away | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?I feel like a lot of successful people are “only looking for sex”, what makes them different at their core besides women finding them attractive? | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?I’ve been going to therapy for 2 years now. There’s no cure for being this sensitive and egostitical | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?If I’d gone with the flow and followed her frame the outcome would’ve been the same due to her lack of attraction. Its in her best interest to string me along and use me for free meals and attention | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?How do you stop being desperate for something that you’re unable to get only because you’re an inferior unworthy man? | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 06:56 PM |
| 0 | How to stop my self worth being tied to sexLook at their actions not their words | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?6’ | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?Ok, but how do I stop feeling self sabotaging and reacting emotionally when I fail | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?This is what I look like https://imgur.com/a/p9iSUB3 | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?I put effort into my appearance and lift weights but I’m naturally skinny and have a long weird looking face https://imgur.com/a/p9iSUB3 | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?I was far from invested, they just pretended to be nuns with me and used me for a free meal. Getting a peck on the mouth was an achievement | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?I’m also a darker skinned Dominican so they don’t have me on a pedestal the way they do with white men | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?I want sex for the validation and intimacy. You’re not getting that from an escort who kicks you out after 3 minutes | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?No they don’t, I spent 3 weeks there, went on multiple tinder dates and not a single non working girl put out | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 05:29 PM |
| -21 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?Not if she just sees you as just a potential provider | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 03:35 PM |
| -26 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?I don’t have much time unfortunately, I’m 29. Probably older than you. My personality is fixed at this point | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?How do you connect with someone that you can’t even be vulnerable or genuine with because it’s a turn off and potentially counterproductive? If you aren’t a naturally happy and masculine person you basically have to fake your entire personality to be respected by women | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 02:04 PM |
| -8 | How to stop my self worth being tied to sexBecause of basic biology. There’s no way those women are physically attracted to them. Women get into relationships for reasons besides genuine sexual attraction a lot of the time and treat their partners like crap | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 01:39 PM |
| 5 | How to stop my self worth being tied to sexProviding all that value and still not being able to genuinely attract a woman seems like a sad existence to me. I don’t envy men like mark Zuckerberg or Jeff bezos at all | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend?Attractive Dominican/puerto Rican women. The kind of girls who tend to have 2000+ followers on instagram and act like they’re too good for me. I feel like there’s such an impossibly high bar just to attract a regular girl who’s cute in the face and isn’t obese. The only women I ever have success with are ones that I just find barely tolerable after a few drinks | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?It’s hard to do any of that when you feel like your self esteem and worth as a man is on the line, but I hear you | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend?Women who are my type for a relationship never like me back | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?It’s always in obvious jest though. I always start off feeling good about myself until they bring me down because they see me as an ugly sissy who isn’t worthy of their respect or being met halfway. I’ll try to make plans with a girl and they’ll leave me on seen at the slightest inconvenienece, meanwhile for another man they’ll get on a plane at 2 in the morning just to give them head | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?Yeah that barely ever happens to me. Women only seem to date me because I look like a nice financially stable guy. They’re always surprised when I get sexual with them | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?I don’t even know. Just boring small talk about our jobs/routines, likes and dislikes, hobbies and some cheesy flirty lines about wanting to marry her, how nice she smells, etc. I feel like I’m reading off a script at this point and having the same conversations over and over knowing that they’re most likely going to disappoint me and disappear from my life in the end. I feel no excitement or curiosity anymore because I’ve learned that it’s pointless after being rejected and ghosted millions of … | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?Tinder/Hinge and some random girls that I meet at clubs or off instagram. I hang out with a new woman practically every week but it never works out and it’s just made me insanely bitter | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Feeling like a loser if a date doesn’t end in sex?I go on lots of dates and can generate interest initially but it never work out | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 11:43 AM |
| 1 | How do you move from a relationship frame to something more casual?Just 2 and they were both long term relationships over the course of her 29 years on earth, but I see your point | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Is this girl just toying with me or did I mess up?You’re right, this feels like a huge missed opportunity that I screwed up | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Is this girl just toying with me or did I mess up?If that’s the case, can I realistically recover from this? I came off really desperate Here’s the Convo from a month ago: https://i.imgur.com/YJZTwMS.jpg https://i.imgur.com/oX9qHry.png | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Is this girl just toying with me or did I mess up?That’s odd, check again | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 01:18 PM |
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