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Nothing more to say? Okay. Just say that next time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:40 PM
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I never said either of these things....so no i will not be giving you any "scientific evidence" I even went as far as to say "harder, but not impossible" And you disputing that specific part in my response would contradict your initial response that mentioned that all male mammals struggle to find a mate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:33 PM
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Also incorrect, yes, there are males who might find it harder to get a mate, but thats because of their specific genetics. In humans for example, height is seen an advantageous phenotype when finding a mate, so shorter males may have a harder time finding a mate, but it's not impossible, and it's also not universal. Not all men are short. Also, with the way you're talking, you seem to assume that male loneliness solely has to do with finding a partner, and that's exactly how incels think. Gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:02 PM
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No not really...it's all about conditioning. The way we raise young boys results in them feeling lonely and isolated, it has nothing to do with biology. Males are just as social as females. It's about social conditioning, not biology. Women can experience this too if they are in an environment that treats them the same way young boys are treated
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:54 PM
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No it isnt...where did you even get that from? Cite your sources
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:50 PM
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What?? So where does mens loneliness come to play in female biology?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:48 PM
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I just dont see how those things are connected...you're comparing apples to smart phones...they don't relate. Cuz Idk...but your post makes it seem like one of those things is a direct cause of the other...which they arent. Even if men were the ones with more medical issues, it wouldnt make us less lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:46 PM
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I feel like men and women are privileged differently in the patriarchy. It's just that the comparison you used doesnt really work that much. I mean...even if men had periods and other reproductive conditions as well, or if women didnt have those reproductive conditions, then I dont think it would affect men's loneliness. Yes, men are more biologically privileged, but our loneliness is more of a societal/social issue. It doesnt have to do with biology
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:38 PM
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I dont think not having periods has anything to do with men being lonely. Like the reasons you gave just dont correlate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:20 PM
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Agreed...a lot of womens rejections are from like highschool or even before then. Sometimes college They carry that pain into adulthood and act like its a new wound.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:27 AM
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If you are dealing with some who tries to intellectualize their reasons for why they should have to out in as much effort into the relationship as you, then you're talking to a dud. Better to leave that person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:25 AM
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I mean nowadays it really is just a choice bro, and I'd understand the logic behind "evolution" forcing us to be obsessed with pussy but honestly that's like 10% of what's actually going on. You have to consider culture, upbringing, access to pornography, all that stuff. From a young age we're kinda taught to always chase girls or at least look at every girl as a potential partner. And that gets worse as you grow up because now you're gonna start getting shamed if you dont actually get any girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:57 PM
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👀elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:44 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/malementalhealth/s/VnkvFXj4CJ https://www.quora.com/Why-do-people-virgin-shame-men-so-much-I-see-a-lot-of-people-looking-down-upon-people-who-havent-had-sex-calling-them-names-and-dehumanizing-them-Why-is-that-Whats-the-big-deal https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/when-having-sex-is-a-requirement-for-being-considered-a-real-man https://www.menshealth.com/uk/mental-strength/a69145358/virgin-at-28-personal-story/ https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1060826518758974 htt…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:47 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:34 PM
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I don’t need to agree with you or your opinion, that is the entire point of a debate post But you DO need to actually engage with the given prompt...which you didnt do. So i see no reason as to why I should entertain anything you have to say further
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:21 PM
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But thats not even what my original prompt is about though, so from the beginning you failed to properly engage with the content presented to you. I only entertained it as much as I did because maybe I thought it would reroute to a discussion on the original prompt but it didnt. As I've BEEN SAYING, you keep on arguing semantics, and you wonder why I call you an attention seeker. I mean...is sexual approval still not approval?? Regardless of WHAT type of approval men want from women, it's comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:12 PM
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What are you even arguing now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:49 PM
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No offense but are you 5? Like this was so dramatic im good on killing myself ...but you're more than welcome to do it alone though. Not all of us are that hard pressed on parenting and starting a family. And idk why you're sugarcoating the act of starting family in the first place. Like do you not have any old people around you, have they not told you any stories about things used to be in their youth? A lot men didnt truly want families, they just did it because it was expected of everyone at …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:49 PM
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The insults were enough to make you delete your responses and CHANGE THEM FOUR TIMES😭🤣, idc if they "didnt land", so long as they got under your skin im good 😭✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:07 PM
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You've edited your response about 3 times now and you deleted your initial response...you clearly have nothing of substance to say, lowkey embarrassed for you. And I really dont know where you get the idea that you're engaging with my ideas by saying you dont give a fuck about them in first place. You've supposedly touched grass, you've allegedly had sex, and you've undoubtedly been to Walmart. Maybe it's time you put down the Chipotle and picked up a book Edit: You just edited your response a 4…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:59 AM
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Yes, and I could point to multiple sources that show that virgin men are less desired
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:46 AM
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Here we go with those whole "legacy" nonsense. Brother....99.9999% of men have not and will not ever have some grand "legacy", me and you included. Thats all just propaganda to make us think we're at the top of the food chain, when in reality we're just the average joe. This is a take that seems to think that humans are not animals. Humans are animals, but we live completely differently from other animals. Our social structures are nothing like are animals, we are detached, so whats the use of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:45 AM
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I feel like you and so many other people in this very comment section have no idea what it means to center something. No surpise there. Please go do some research, Google is free. Right now we're having to two different conversations because one of us doesnt know the definition of a word, and it isnt me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:35 AM
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You have the free internet at your disposal and instead of using it to educate yourself on the real definitions of words you come here starting debates that you cant win because of how illiterate and insensitive you are. Dumbass. Google is free, decentering someone doesnt mean you have to be a piece of shit to them. Though I have no doubt in my mind that you're just a piece of shit in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:32 AM
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Using the prompt in bad faith...no surprise there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:15 AM
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How very self absorbed of you, and simplistic too, i mean that in an insulting manner. On one hand, you dont seem to care about how we've treated women throughout history especially pregnant women....and the only thing you took away from my prompt was that it could lead to less babies which would lead to you living in a mud hut.... Judging by your callousness and post history im gonna take a guess and say you're either from the US/Canada or somewhere in Europe? I promise you in 2026 there's more…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:11 AM
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People who share your belief tend to ignore the history of women getting raped and being forced to give keep those children. And our history with forcing the common woman into marriage and then forcing them to have as many kids as possible. Globally, there's still a stigma around women getting abortions when they've been raped. Men are women centered, but it's often times for their own benefit. The need to start a family, the need to have kids. These men never think about the women. And thats ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:57 AM
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South africa
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 08:17 AM
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My purpose isnt to convince you of jack shit bro😭 you're arguing over semantics clearly because of some personal vendetta with men. Usually at this point people would be asking you "who hurt you" but I really couldnt care less. You're out here attention seeking by arguing over semantics, again, making this whole thing about yourself. You bore me, go argue with a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:02 AM
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Oh yeah and one last thing, if men were to do what I proposed in my post then the problem of men only seeking women for sexual approval would fix itself. Then you wouldnt have to worry about it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:02 AM
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What examples do you need me to provide? Im telling you it happens, you not believing me would not only be dismissing MY own lived experience and probably the lived experience of countless other people, but straight up wrong. Im trying to be neutral and maybe consider that you've only ever had one type of experience with men and that has shaped your current opinion on this matter, but you seem to be very okay with being extreme in your thinking, and thats enough for me not to grant you any nuanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:51 AM
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Maybe not from you...but that means nothing in the grand scheme of things. Just because your PERSONAL EXPERIENCE doesnt align with what im saying, doesn't make it fact. Im telling you as a MAN who has been around all kinds of men, that there ARE things we do for the sake of women's approval. Im sorry you've never had a man do that for you, but that's just you big dawg. We're not a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:36 AM
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And that is a conversation we can have at another time on another post. THIS post is about how men are being affected their obsession with women and anything they think they can get from women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:31 AM
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Regardless of semantics, my point doesn't change. I speak as a man, even when a man isnt trying to get sex out of you, he's still doing things for your approval
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:29 AM
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Yeah nah ragebait for sure. Bro really said a singular person spends more per month than a whole family. Do the kids not go to school? Do the kids not need Healthcare? There is almost no place in the world right now where the average household is surviving off of one income,meaning both parents are working...but sure "families arent profitable" Have you never thought of the amount of industries kept open because of children alone? School supplies, in some places, school uniform, toys and so many…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:28 AM
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"Families aren't profitable"....brother are you rage baiting me right now? Who do you think is gonna spend more money per month between a family of 5 (two parents 3 kids, and maybe a dog) and 1 guy living in an apartment??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:08 AM
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Dawg, next time actually digest the things you read before typing up some fucking bullshit. If you actually read what I said in the post and what I've been saying in these comments then you wouldnt be here contaminating my comment section with your lack of comprehension I LITERALLY state that men need to decenter women NOT as a form of protest but as a way of reform and growth. MGTOW and whatever else was just men trying to get womens attention, thats NOT what I'm advocating for. Infact you're m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:01 AM
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No offense but the hardest "atomized" workers in the current system are people with families to feed. The higher ups WANT you to have more kids because not only would you be creating the next generation of worker ants for them to exploit, but you've also created a compulsion in yourself to work. Do you seriously believe these systems were built with the common people in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:31 AM
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Except humans are so far removed from everything "fundamental" Even the nuclear family isnt "fundamental" depending on where you're from. These are all just social constructs. The systems that we live in now basically give promise that everyone will be able to win, to find a lover and start a family with them, except thats not the reality of things. The system has its losers, and many of those losers turn dangerous. The best course of action is removing the pressure to even abide by the system i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:03 AM
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Purpose can be whatever you choose it to be, YOU have chosen to make YOUR purpose to create a family, but that doesnt mean EVERY MAN'S purpose is to create a family. The only reason men want to create families is because we've conditioned them to think of it as the greatest thing they can do while alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:52 AM
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Agreed, breaking out of these systems is so difficult that it sometimes literally means death for some people. We're in need of a major reform, they we bring up men right now simply isnt healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:33 AM
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Judging by your post history I'm guessing you're from the US/Canada? Maybe it isn't common where you're from, but on my side of the world, it actually is common to see men forfeit their own opportunities at a better life for the sake of their partners uplifting, especially in recent times
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:32 AM
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Although it is true that men have a high demand for sex, I wouldnt phrase it as women controlling us through sex. If you're an adult, then you have all the agency in world to control your own lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:27 AM
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Yes please go ahead and ignore context. You seriously think they were referring to WEATHER of all things when you asked whether men complain or not? This OP isnt even about the stuff you mentioned😭💔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:19 PM
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Then I see no reason as to why you made it a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:47 PM
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hot weather, cold weather, politics, X friend did whatever, friend group won't respond, friend group sends too many reels, can't get a job, can't get a raise, X won't write back, can't get any matches on old, bus is late, plane is late, I could go on forever listing the many things my male friends complain about lol And im sure NONE of your female have ever had anything to say this right?🫩🫩
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:45 PM
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It's literally not my fault you're intentionally misconstruing what I've said😂😂 Stupid people do what you do, and so ima end this convo here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:38 PM
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I don't make fun of virgin men. Your anecdotal experience means jack shit in the face of empirical evidence/research...and because you dont seem to understand this, YOU are the dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:26 PM
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Yes very true. And also bashing the very same men they want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:11 PM
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Date men who don't require that. Those men are called misogynistic by the same women crying about patriarchal beauty standards. This isnt the 1950s anymore, most dudes are arguing against makeup as a whole but somehow we're sexist and oppressive because of that. And women love strawmanning our aversion to makeup by completely giving up on personal hygiene entirely. There's no winning with them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:44 AM

What the actual fuck bro
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:36 AM
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Wait people actually do that?😭💔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:22 AM
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And women uphold the patriarchy by participating in that objectification
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:11 AM
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You dumbass. Are we projecting? You cant rewrite reality to change the narrative of anything. I can point to countless sources of virgins being less desired. Nothing i said was absolute, in fact, the men who have sex are part of the reason WHY we make fun of virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:11 AM
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Women have to be ruthless, because once the relationship progresses past the dating stage, men are lazy, childcare- and chore-digging cunts that don't pull their weight in relationships. It's almost like this can avoided by actually getting to know the person you're dating and to be mindful of their behavior around you. Men care about womens pasts because we know how the relationship will go if we're not careful, women would benefit just as much if they did the same type of vetting. If men are f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 11:07 AM
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Exactly, so many continue take this position of being simple and easy to please when that isn't the case at all. They have superficial standards, if women could design their dream partners, then I promise you wouldnt be seeing any short kings or dad bods or whatever. Nothing wrong with that, just the inability to admit to having those desires makes you shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:57 AM
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Yes...they would, and you're probably part of that demographic. Have we all forgotten that get made fun of for being virgins or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:52 AM
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women’s standards for such are so much higher and narrower that you don’t see it happen as much, I'd say it's because they tend to be more secretive about it honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:49 AM
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I’m going to get my brother” is something a child says. Maybe its because of your geography, but that is a legitimate thing in many parts of the world. You have no idea just how infantile women can be, especially when they have a big strong man to enable that infatilism. Men HAVE died from womens doing, and they still are to this day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:45 AM
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How dare a woman want to date a guy with a job, a plan and a basic idea of looking after himself and his future. Fucking selfish bitches /s Im pretty sure this is just you strawmanning, but if it isnt, im gonna call it victimmaxxing, which women tend to do quite a bit. Like you (women) always run to this position of simplicity every time you're called out for having superficial standards of your own. It honestly benefits no one and doesnt even track considering the amount of evidence FROM WOMEN …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:40 AM
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which is a bit unprecedented. I honestly dont think it is. On one hand, the economy is going down such a shitty path that many women are adopting conservative expectations as a means of survival (though it is quite silly because modern day workplaces have a positive bias towards hiring women nowadays lol) But men and women are also receiving very polarizing dating advice and expectations. A lot of dating discourse is centered around conservatism, especially towards men. Gen z women are just as c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:22 AM
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Agreed. A pick me/male centered woman's program is men, and as we all know, no one is bigger than the program
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:57 AM
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Literally one of the most common ways in which wives kill their husbands is through poisoning them
/r/EverydayMisandry03/01/26 01:56 PM
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The post implying men inherently start out worthless is not misandrist....riiight
/r/EverydayMisandry19/11/25 02:21 AM
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That's why they make up bs terms like "Positive Masculinity". Which is just traditional masculinity with a Feminist gaze. Heavy agree. It fills me with anger when I hear them talk about how the patriarchy harms men too because yes, it does, but the only reason they care is because they have their own interests at heart. People like that fail to realize that men are also objectified within the patriarchy and they dont realize that every time they say some bullshit like "his money is my money" or …
/r/EverydayMisandry18/11/25 11:53 PM
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And I've BEEN trying to say this for longest time. I dont expect much from conservatives....but I get an aneurysm everytime I see someone who claims to be progressive impose some sort of conservative idea onto a man. The truth is progressives reserve a lot of conservatism for cis straight men because believe it or not, they still want a big strong daddy to handle all the hard work for them. Thats exactly why the most masculine progressive man you'll meet is a femboy.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/11/25 11:45 PM
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It's not even something that needs much time to think about in order to realize. The feminazi's and male panderers will cry about the patriarchy but then still support videos like this because equality isnt truly what they're fighting for, they're trying to impose this "man bad woman good" mentality into everyone's minds. Any true feminist would be able to call bullshit and understand that the benevolent sexism that leads to videos like this are only a result of patriarchal misogyny. Princesses …
/r/EverydayMisandry18/11/25 11:41 PM
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The internet is full of gynocentric bullshit
/r/EverydayMisandry17/11/25 10:26 AM
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Funny enough, the most common type of male centered woman is the man hater. They make everything about men and gender.
/r/MensRights17/11/25 08:07 AM
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Yeah sure...in an era where women can openly bash their boyfriends and belittle them online, its embarrassing for women to be with a man. They should just date each other honestly
/r/MensRights17/11/25 03:21 AM
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