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| 355 | When being a man is so easy that their worst "hardship" is women not putting much effort into online dating | NICE FOR WHAT? | Feines_Brot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 08:02 PM |
| 71 | Dating in college - a waste of time? | DISCUSSION | Feines_Brot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 02:01 PM |
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| 76 | Found on another sub but I think it fits hereI only ever see it when men talk about specifically seeking out troubled women to take advantage of them... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 08:08 PM |
| 35 | 🤢🤢 That dude looks like 55 from the back 🤮🤮🤮He deserves to be punched too, marrying his teenage daughter off to a predator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 09:55 AM |
| 32 | UnReAliStIc mALe bEaUtY sTanDardS!!!I hate that comparison with a burning passion. I don’t care that they can’t change their height, I’m not gonna date a guy that’s shorter than me. These men seem to think that they aren’t shallow and even moral because they give women they deem unattractive the ‘charity’ of pumping and dumping them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:32 PM |
| 32 | UnReAliStIc mALe bEaUtY sTanDardS!!!If it was a woman on that advert, they would somehow blame feminism and cry ‘WhAT aBOut tHE mEN?!?!’ like they always do when body positivity targets women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:24 PM |
| 32 | The audacity 🤦🏻♀️100$ that he assembles burgers at McDonald’s and is lying about being a chef | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:23 PM |
| 157 | Found this way before I knew what LVM meansRight, these women must obviously be sooo complicated and hide their feelings for him, there’s no way they could be possibly uniterested. What a dumb and delusional narcissist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 10:29 PM |
| 10 | We don't get to participate because of our views.Try using a vpn, that should conceal your IP address without having to change it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 08:57 AM |
| 34 | What happens when men solely run a countryMy heart breaks for her... I hope she will be okay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:52 PM |
| 164 | So fun to see scrotes get frustrated when they realize they cant invade our space. 🤭Time and time again, men prove why it’s the best decision to not allow them on here. And they can die mad about it 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 09:36 AM |
| 76 | Men can turn on you at any moment, even if you're famous.But somehow all the manchildren on reddit keep screeching about false rape accusations and circulating the same few made up stories while (rich?) men get away with tormenting and brutalizing women even when there is solid proof... I’m just tired of all this shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 11:00 AM |
| 38 | Yas KWEEN! Thanks Tik Tok and @soul.igYes, but she wasn‘t being serious lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 01:12 PM |
| 19 | Is he playing with me?I had a bf like that before and it obviously didn't last. Turns out he wasn't that interested and just strung me along. My current bf always texts me throughout the day and lets me know when he doesn't have time to respond. And this is the bare minimum. You should trust your instincts, because contrary to the popular belief that relationships are hArD and require soOo much wORk, you shouldn't have to beg for the bare fucking minimum. Dump his dumbass, there are enough dudes out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 09:33 AM |
| 16 | What these LVMs think we areI feel like people who don't know what FDS is think it's something like PUAs where we try to trick, manipulate and coerce men into doing what we want. They seem to forget that dating as a man vs. as a woman is fundamentally different and that to us it's more about choosing and vetting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:57 AM |
| 73 | When being a man is so easy that their worst "hardship" is women not putting much effort into online datingMen seriously think they're orpressed when they can't get their dick wet. I mean tbf it was a woman who posted the comment, but it seems to resonate with at least 2000 man-babies who upvoted this foolishness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 09:00 PM |
| 217 | Men battering women for rejecting them must come from more than just a sense of entitlement.Yep, all these dudes crying about how "unfair" it is of women to give out fake numbers. They really think we should place their fragile ego and precious feefees above our own safety lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 01:23 PM |
| 66 | Is it just me or are there barely attractive men out there?Yeah it's true. I don't get how soo many guys manage to look like a mutated trash can even though the standards to be considered attractive are way lower for them. I have noticed that even in my generation (Gen Z) guys start to develop beer guts in their late teens and early twenties due to terrible eating habits and alcohol. Not to mention how normalized porn and video game addictions are... ETA: The wrinkles you mentioned come from their refusal to do skincare and use SPF. My dad looks 13 year… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 10:03 PM |
| 15 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.The thing with the kinds of posts that OP is talking about is just that it is glaringly obvious that these women haven't even bothered to read the handbook and post their questions on multiple subs, even ones that certainly do not reflect FDS values. As long as your problem isn't something that is dicussed on here literally everyday and isn't explicitly described in the handbook, no one's gonna shun and shoo you. I've also posted a question on here before and I appreciated how insightful all the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 09:50 PM |
| 71 | MY fiance “jokingly” said he wants to marry MY bestfriend18 is such an arbitrary number to be considered an adult. If they could go lower, they would. And honestly, "older" women shouldn't even try to compete. No good, well adjusted man would go after teenagers; it's always the creepy, controlling perverts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 07:22 AM |
| 66 | Re: men age like wine and are in their prime in their 40s. GOD HOW I WISH THAT WERE TRUEI wouldn't say you missed out. Men who go after significantly younger women aren't men you would want in your life to begin with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 07:12 AM |
| 164 | Reason #103848 why you should never reproduce with NVM or LVM. She is literally giving birth, yet he's making it all about himself and accusing her of "embarrassing him" for screaming in pain. Seems like the type of guy who would shake a baby because he can't handle the crying.Jesus fucking Christ, that poor woman... I don't even know what to say anymore, except: men are trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 04:21 PM |
| 38 | Never forget what manosphere "red pill" men are all aboutDoes anyone know if there is some kind of compilation of subtle giveaways for redpillers? I don't really want to delve into the dumpster fire that is their forums, but I also don't want to waste my time getting to know someone only to find out later that they subscribe to these batshit insane ideologies 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:23 PM |
| 42 | How to get karma on Reddit: Blame women for anything and everythingI'm sure all the women that have been killed by men for rejecting their advances have been releasing the fury from their "rotten little souls" while stamping their "entitled little feet", instead of these men having, you know, a fragile ego and being a POS in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:04 AM |
| 24 | 🤡 and pickmeisha 👹looking for another 👹 to join their circus 🎪Tell me about, when I tried to meet women through OLD for the first time, roughly every third profile was a couple looking for their 'unicorn'. The dudes all liked they crawled out of a trashcan lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:13 PM |
| 59 | "My worldview is built on the idea that women are made to cater to my needs and the fact that there is a movement in opposition to that construct is very upsetting to me." - Avoid men who have the expectation you will do domestic work for them at all cost. They want a crockpot with legs.Have any of you noticed that some men think asking you to do domestic things for them = flirting? I cooked something yesterday and put it on my IG story and at least 5 dudes DM'd me some variation of "So when are you gonna cook for me?" or "wife material" etc. Like ew leave me alone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:55 AM |
| 172 | Do you ever just wonder why you still like men...This obsession with fertility and the "bioligical clock" is insanely creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 01:45 PM |
| 27 | This Post Gives Me PickMeisha VibesI don't think that the victim olympics contributes to a productive discussion, but I have the impression that the dudes in the comments that whine about how "feminists don't care about men's issues" really mean that "feminists should fix our issues for us ( that were caused and perpetuated by other men mind you) while I don't contribute to neither men's nor women's causes". I hope for OP that she got the male attention and validation that she so desperately craved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 10:46 AM |
| 25 | Human "nature"They loooove to justify old dusties lusting after underaged girls in the name of "muh biOlogY" while throwing temper tantrums at women for their "evil hypergamy" lol, I just can't with these morons | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 08:40 PM |
| 2 | How do we dismantle the human trafficking industry and the exploitative porn industry while protecting sex workers who are struggling to survive?I don't think that it should be legalized, but decriminalization for prostitutes is the way to go, so that they can come foward more easily. Pimps and traffickers are the ones that should be penalized harshly. As for porn, I think that it should be illegal for producers to hire porn actors under 21; it's absolutely disgusting that there are girls fresh out of highschool being misled and taken advantage of. I want NONE of that 'barely legal' shit. Porn sites should also require formal consent of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 01:16 PM |
| 3 | The male expectation of women to be completely shavedNVM actually stands for Negative Value Man as far as I know 😅 There is also ZVM which means Zero Value Man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:57 PM |
| 4 | What in the flying f—k !?This is why kinkshame is necessary. Shame the fuck out of these digusting degenerates. The comments make me sick, these people are absolutely fucked in the head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:19 PM |
| 141 | LETS 👏 TALK 👏ABOUT👏THIS👏Eldest daughters are often treated like maids and nannies for younger siblings in their homes while also having less freedoms than their brothers. It's not the same for everyone of course, but this applies to my own experiences and those of my friends for the most part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 08:23 AM |
| 241 | I feel bad for because HE'S the one who wants to leave instead of her realizing she needs to leave his nasty ass behindSee how ready he is to dump her when she did the same thing to him that he did to her? Never make excuses for a man, they wouldn't even forgive half the shit that women put up with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 08:56 PM |
| 11 | 10 simple ways to spot a misogynist.The comment section is flooded with bottom feeder males whining and bitching on a video that is just intended to help women protect themselves from misogyny. They literally proved her point that there is a need for us to watch out for signals because sexism is so fucking common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:20 PM |
| 88 | Reason why Male Pickmes (pickshes) don’t existThis doesn't mean much, they call every man that shows a SHRED of respect and decency towards women a simp lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:26 PM |
| 7 | Just in case you guys didn’t see this one...women waking up! She slapped him!Tbh I don't think that hitting him was justified. Unnecessary violence is LV behavior, and I don't think we should stoop to the level of incels condoning it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 03:48 PM |
| 4 | Anti-feminist LVMs want to mass brigade pro-female subredditsYeah, sounds like textbook projection to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:06 AM |
| 56 | Oh but if a woman said this, it’ll be gOld diGgiNg🙄 A reminder to be unashamed in what you want ladies, these men aren’t ashamed.How can this much audacity fit into the body of such a little man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 01:46 PM |
| 34 | “Well if you believe a man should be a provider...”Completely agree. An aquaintance of my mom pays 50% of the bills while her husband makes almost double of her income. They have have three kids and when they were done, SHE was the one who got sterilized. And guess who also does the bulk of childcare and chores. She sacrificed and invested so much into this relationship with so little in return. I feel so bad for her, she is a really lovely lady and it breaks my heart to see her being mistreated and disrespected like that. What these cheapskates… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 10:50 AM |
| 88 | “Well if you believe a man should be a provider...”As if most men don't treat their partners as maids, despite them working, already. I don't understand how they don't see that it's not just about the money of a provider, but more about what it entails: a sense of responsibility, maturity and security, which LVM seem to lack as they think they 'got you' with their 'hurr durr thoUgHt yOu wanTeD eQUaliTy haha gO maKe A saMMiCh tHeN' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 07:17 AM |
| 24 | PickMes Have No Self Awareness At All 🤣I see your point, but some women have internalized misogyny so deeply that they cannot or don't want to be helped anymore. Women like her have no problem tearing other women down for that sweet, sweet male validation, even if it gets them nowhere; the comment of the other girl just pointed that out, it doesn't shame single motherhood in itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:12 PM |
| 92 | I use art to stop myself from craving male validation.Your art is absolutely stunning, good job! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 07:12 PM |
| 36 | Boyfriend isn’t supporting me going back to universityThis isn't a red flag it's a red fucking billboard. Please please please get out of this realtionship ASAP. There is a lot to unpack here, but if this much older man controls all the finances and wants to tie you down with kids even though you openly expressed your wish to be more independent, he is NOT the man for you. His behaviour is insecure and predatory and you shouldn't try to prove your loyalty to him. Don't let him ruin you and your future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:22 PM |
| 16 | Do you want kids, and why/ why not?I'm kinda torn when it comes to kids. Since I'm bi, I would love ro raise kids with a woman. But with a man? Not really. I have met so few fathers that are on par with what is generally expected of mothers when it comes to emotional labor, childcare, chores and especially paternity leave. I'm only 18 so maybe I'll change my mind in the future. But as of now, I personally don't think it's worth all the risks; I would be fine with adopting or remaining childfree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 10:08 PM |
| 16 | Not me, but my heart aches for this girl. “My boyfriend displayed my nudes on a wall of women he and his friends have slept with. I feel like my life has been ruined”I don't think it's fair to assume that. Many mothers are absolutely lovely and high value, but you can only do so much as a parent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 02:13 PM |
| 285 | Not me, but my heart aches for this girl. “My boyfriend displayed my nudes on a wall of women he and his friends have slept with. I feel like my life has been ruined”I just love how he lied at first, cried and then said that it wasn't a big deal. I'm sure he wouldn't mind if he she let his mother know that her son is a piece of trash, it's not a big deal after all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:32 AM |
| 14 | Ppppiccckkk meeee. This is disgusting. Who told this woman she needs a man this badly? TRIGGER WARNINGNot necessarily. Christian fundamentalists are just as capable of fucked up shit. For example, there is rampant abuse and assault of women and girls in the amish communities, but it gets swept under the rug most of the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 06:14 AM |
| 109 | How men rationalize their attraction to 15 year oldsThat is plain wrong, what a dumbass. Firstly, most girls menstruated later than now and less regularly because they went longer periods without food, so the chance of a teen girl getting pregnant were lower. Secondly, people weren't stupid back then, they knew that younger girls often died during childbirth. And lastly, it was mostly the aristocracy that married girls off at a young age. The majority of people were peasants, and they needed their daughters to work. People even CARED about their … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 04:02 PM |
| 204 | Men are far sicker in the head than we can ever imagine. Predatory men are the NORM.He doesn't even posses a SHRED of empathy or decency towards towards that poor woman, my expectations for men were practically nonexistent but this is honestly a new low | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 02:21 PM |
| 54 | How dare anyone claim this. Disgusting degenerate. Boo hoo for him clearly thinks rape isn't the horrific thing it is. Bet he wouldn't feel the same if he was raped by a man. People who think like this shouldn't be known as human. Absolute animal. Not to mention how false rape claims BARELY HAPPEN.This moron needs to sit tf down. Even if a rape has been proven, most rapists barely do any time; but a mere accusation is gonna result in a life long prison sentence, huh? Besides, it wouldn't surprise me if a dude who can't shut up about "mUh fAlSE rAPe AcCuSAtiONs" thinks rapists only jump out from the bushes at night. Coercion, stealthing, marital rape, taking advantage of passed out people, anal ''''accidents'''' etc. are firstly hard to prove and to many, a lack of proof equates to a lie a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:55 PM |
| 5 | How much do you tell your parents (or other family) about your dating lives?I usually tell my mum only about the guys that I dated more seriously, what they do, how old they are, ethnicity (my mum is curious about things like that because she's an immigrant), etc. When I brought them home, I asked her what she honestly thinks of them and when I broke things of with them, I told her why I did it and why I didn't like them anymore. My mom was always very interested in that stuff and I like talking with her, but I mainly do it to get the opinion of someone who only wants t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:43 PM |
| 163 | Imagine.You just know that men who say shit like that, in fact, do not know how to treat women after having a daughter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 10:30 AM |
| 124 | Woman wants to know if she's the asshole for putting puppy pads around the toilet because the 30 YR OLD GROWN ASS MAN she calls a boyfriend keeps pissing all over the floor. I FUCKING CANNOT, Y'ALL.This is so fucking disrespectful. Imagine if she was the one who moved into his apartment, started pissing on the floor and made him clean it up. He probably would have already kicked her to the curb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 08:45 PM |
| 24 | Shun them.I am so sorry that you had to go through that. People tend to ingnore abusive and violent behavior as long as they never experience it themselves or benefit in some way from that person, I've noticed that especially with men and their friends or mothers with their bum ass sons. It's really vile how quick they are to defend abusers and try to silence their victims. I was never hit, but often sexually harrassed or groped. An ex male 'friend' said objectifying things about a girl in his friend grou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 11:22 AM |
| 77 | Shun them.A guy in my grade hit his girlfriend on a party once. He screamed at her and shook her. My friend saw that and tried to get her out of there, but he pushed her against a wall. The gf admitted to her that he hit her, when my friend drove her home. She confronted him over text, but he denied everything, telling her to mind her own fucking business and even threatening that he would 'ruin' her life if she kept bugging him. Well word got around. During PE, he said something along the lines of "you n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:01 AM |
| 51 | This was the realist thing ever. I thought I’d share!They really like to equate their own feelings and opinions with rationality and logic, so if you express your emotions differently than them, you're the one who's overemotional and illogical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 12:07 AM |
| 19 | Fiancé disappointed she didn’t get the ring she was assured she would, so future BIL (and all of Reddit) calls her a gold-diggerI personally don't like the term gold digger, but honestly? The ring cost 40k and she still wanted a bigger one? Yiikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 12:56 PM |
| 75 | Whenever a man says something inappropriate and tries to pass it off as a “joke,” I like to ask him to explain the joke to me :)It is inappropriate to say things like this to people without knowing whether or not they are comfortable with it or not. I don't think it's sexist either, but humor centers around sex (or rather the lack thereof) for so many dudes and I think it's really tasteless and tiring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 09:44 AM |
| 23 | The NCAA has been sued by seven women, including three athletes, who claim that the organization failed to protect them from sexual assault by male athletesChristiano Ronaldo admitted to 'apologizing' to a woman after coerced sex . He raped someone, but most people either don't know or don't care. I really hope for them that they win and finally get justice, victims were silenced for too long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:34 PM |
| 93 | Men who are threatened by your beauty.I've personally come across two types of insecure men, namely the ones that get even more insecure when dating a beautiful woman and the ones that get an ego boost out of it. The first type becomes really controlling and possessive in an attempt to keep their girlfriend 'on lock", while simultaneously trying to beat her self esteem down so she would be less likely to leave, because they know she could do way bettee than them. The other type thinks that they're hot shit because they were able to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:24 PM |
| 37 | Written by a true pickmeisha. Why is this behaviour accepted, but only for men? I cannot see anyone thinking it would be okay for a woman to spend hours ignoring their partner and children.Sis blink twice if you need help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 05:01 PM |
| 11 | My mom always brings up the fact that back when my great grandma was young, if you didn’t marry before 25 you were “an old maid”.Your mom sounds like a real piece of work. My mom got married at 19 after knowing my dad for a year. For context, that was in Russia and 27 years ago. She told me that she met him via friends, but he wasn't the only one she was seeing. She dated many different guys before she got married, so it's not like people just chose the first person they ran into even if their dating pool was more limited than today. It worked out for them I guess because they seem happy. But my mom was pregnant with my b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 06:31 AM |
| 19 | Only LVM don't care about a woman's accomplishmentsYeah that's what I thought about her too. She seems so fake in a way that she tries to reel in all different kinds of women who might not live the same way as her, while still subtly shaming them. She retweets stuff of the transformed wife and stefan molyneux, that settled it for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 06:42 PM |
| 108 | Only LVM don't care about a woman's accomplishmentsIt's easier to control and brainwash someone who financially depends and you. What baffles me is that some women also perpetuate this idea, take Mrs. Midwest as an example: she has a degree in marketing but advises women to not go to college because of debt or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:41 PM |
| 38 | Bloody hell. That's enough JustNoSO for me, then!My jaw dropped reading this, the entitlement and disrespect is outrageous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 07:24 AM |
| 46 | Total shitshow in Trueoffmychest right now. These people are depressingTIL that encouraging women to know their worth and not letting men take advantage of them is indoctrination and manipulation. K | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 08:42 PM |
| 64 | Was talking to a guy friend of mine and he said "that alpha men don't want relationships", so I should give up on looking for someone with an alpha personality.Using the word 'alpha' to describe people is pathetic as fuck and I wouldn't take that guy seriously. Is he red piller by any chance? Blanket statements like that are always wrong and honestly I would rethink the friendship if I were you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 11:17 PM |
| 7 | Have any of you tried this online school? This is about leveling up and how to meet high earning man. Im looking for opinions about the course.Oh no that's not what I meant, sorry if it came across that way! It's just that really wealthy men are probably in their late twenties and upwards and that's too old for me personally, because I'm uncomfortable with huge age gaps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 05:09 PM |
| 12 | Have any of you tried this online school? This is about leveling up and how to meet high earning man. Im looking for opinions about the course.I haven't tried her online course, but I know her youtube channel and watched many of the videos there. It's personally not my cup of tea, because I don't want to change so drastically and these filthy rich men would probably be too old for me anyway. Affluence doesn't automatically translate to high value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 04:16 PM |
| 107 | Guy says gf is selfish because she wants a breast reduction due to back pain...He puts his wants above her needs, tale as old as time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 02:00 PM |
| 63 | Getting a ring is too much work now and pickmeisha agrees at the top commenterIt's reasonable of her to say that she would prefer the money going toward something else tbh. That's on her. But married women spend more of their leisure time on housework and childcare, even when working, and housewives forfeit their ability to make money and put themselves in more vulnerable postion. Most men want kids, so they expect their wives to go through the hell that is pregnancy, childbirth and the aftermath. All of that is expexted and UNPAID, the least a husband could do is show ap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 07:23 AM |
| 44 | Finally realized some of the LVM obsession with body counts...It probably also has to do with the fact that LVM think that sex is inherently degrading to women. This also explains why some dads slutshame their daughters and forbid them from dating whereas their sons are allowed to do whatever they want. Just looking at the front page of pornhub shows how sex is about domination, degradation and violence towards women. Choking, slapping, spitting, ejaculating on a woman's face, are all considered disrespectful, but have somehow become acceptable in bed. Add… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 07:13 AM |
| 25 | How did you build your social skills in college/adulthood when trying to make new friends ? From shy to social ?A few things that helped me personally: Treat the people you're talking to as if they already like you That makes it easier to talk to them and you don't feel like you need to prove yourself; by letting go of a mindset that is centered around getting others to like you and instead evaluating whether you like them, you become more confident and open. Don't judge yourself too harshly It goes hand in hand with the first point; don't beat yourself up over small things. The things you might have done… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 10:24 PM |
| 48 | Have you ever felt like you’re “too much” or been told you’re “too much” by any man?It's not you ''who's too much", they just just can't keep up. I have noticed it myself as well, that insecure, negative nancy kinda men try to leech off of my confidence and cheerfulness while simultaneously trying to tear me down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 08:45 AM |
| 81 | Yes Ladies, You CAN be raped and not realize it until weeks later: A Profile of a GraypistI once saw an unpopular opinion that basically said something along the lines of 'having sex with a drunk girl is not rape' and the amount of people that agreed was scary. There were people justifying drunk men raping passed out girls, because they were 'drunk and didn't know better'. In clubs, some men stay until the closing hours to pick up some unfortunate, almost black-out drunk girl (that they like to refer to as 'scraps') to coerce into sleeping with them. The use of the alcohol excuse is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 09:14 AM |
| 138 | What’s a good comeback for “Why buy a cow when the milk is so cheap ?” Or “don’t buy a car without a test drive “ , things they say to try and lower your standards for sex ?I hate these comparisons with a passion. You're neither a fucking cow nor a car and you are NOT an object to be used and consumed. If 'milk is so cheap' they can get it elsewhere, so why bother someone who clearly doesn't want to 'give their milk away' without committment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 08:53 AM |
| 60 | Movies with HVM leads?Newt Scamander from 'fantastic beasts and where to find them' comes to mind, his empathy and kindness were refreshing to see in a male lead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 10:49 PM |
| 658 | Retired PornStar Lisa Ann says the demand for extreme hardcore porn is pushing veterans out of the industry. Pornographers now rely on drugging young amateur women and forcing them into things during filming by surprise that they did not agree to, because experienced porn stars won't do it.But somehow people still claim that there is absolutely nothing wrong with porn because it's always 'consenting adults'. When a woman talked about her rape as a teen that was recorded and published on pornhub, thousands of men searched her name up on there to try and find it. They don't care about the trafficking and exploitation of countless women and even underaged girls as long as they get off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 08:24 AM |
| 15 | My brain fell out of my head while I was reading this. Much like the writer's did before they started typing.LVM will rather come up with the most batshit crazy explanations for their shitty behavior and blame everyone else in the process, than take accountability. Typical... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 07:12 PM |
| 13 | Moment of silence for our sisters being brainwashed into thinking they have to act like “cool girls” in order to be validated by their man 😔Yeah you're so right, no self respecting woman should ever give into that kind of coercion. I hate how porn also feeds into this fantasy. One guy I briefly dated was ecstatic that I'm bi because he assumed I would be into that kind of stuff and wanted to check out other girls together. I have heard similar experiences from other bi women as well, they think our whole existence revolves around them and their depraved fantasies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 05:59 AM |
| 100 | Moment of silence for our sisters being brainwashed into thinking they have to act like “cool girls” in order to be validated by their man 😔I bet he would change his tune real quick if she kept pushing to have a threesome with another guy, ugh I can't with the hypocrisy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 07:24 PM |
| 19 | Some FDS press again over on Unpopularopinion 🙄🙄🙄TIL that advice to not take shit from men, not bend over backwards for men and not to be a free bangmaid for men is hate speech. Apparently we're on the same level as the Red Pillers who see us as walking fleshlights that should follow their every whim or incels that see us as subhuman and celebrate violence against us. Both groups condone rape, domestic violence and of course pedophilia (because of mUh fErTilItY). They want woment to 'know their place', i.e. personal property of a man, and wish… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 08:36 AM |
| 57 | Almost made me cryTha audacity 🤢 Glad that he's your ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 08:09 AM |
| 11 | Can some of the younger ladies in here explain to me what the actual fuck is happening to the men of your generation!? Let’s have a conversation...I can see why you would think that, but it's not just younger people (think of the 40-something bronies...) Keep in mind that it's the internet and that these weirdos scream the loudest, so they're still the minority and that behaviour is definitely not the norm. I personally don't really care about their anime fetishes anyway, we're not missing out on anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 06:29 PM |
| 25 | Can some of the younger ladies in here explain to me what the actual fuck is happening to the men of your generation!? Let’s have a conversation...Lol there was a guy in my grade who proudly admitted to watching hentai during our breaks. The trash takes itself out. It's usually just the weird dudes with no social skills who think like that; most of the guys my age are not that fucked in the head, so I don't think it's a generational thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 05:34 PM |
| 69 | Ha!Don't make the mistake of thinking that an ugly man will automatically treat you better; I once went on a couple of dates with one after my whole circle pestered me to 'just give him a chance'. He turned out to be extremely jealous, possessive and was only in for the sex as well (which we luckily didn't have) , because he is 'scared of committment'. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 07:23 AM |
| 60 | “Looking for it”Ew. Sounds like the type of guy to break up with his gf if she was raped for 'cheating' on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 07:19 PM |
| 191 | New Red Flag Vocabulary Word: SimpIt's almost like they don't see us as fully human and can't comprehend why a man would treat a woman well, what a surprise... To them, a man who doesn't subdue and dehumanizine =simp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 09:08 PM |
| 17 | If he doesn’t want to take you out on a date, he probably thinks you’re not worth it/“ugly”Preach. It baffles me how the ugliest and most hobo looking men demand beautiful women. Their delusions are endless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 08:34 AM |
| 24 | 18F Please explain this subreddit to meThe point of the posts on here is to lower the chances of getting fucked over by men with bad intentions, not to shame women in general who want things like you. It is advised to not be a STAHM because your financial dependency might ruin you in the case of divorce and makes it harder for you to leave. Abusive men often show their colours when they feel like they have sufficiently 'trapped' you, i.e when you're married/ pregnant etc. If you really want to sleep with someone on the first date mor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 10:05 AM |
| 58 | The "Best Gender" paradox: When they claim they're smarter, better, and more emotionally in control, but whine about the legwork of simply asking a woman outOf course, we should acknowledge their greatness and throw ourselves at them to worship them like the kings they are, they shouldn't have to put any effort in lowly females like us! /s It's easier to claim you're superior because you have a dick when you are repulsive and have nothing going for you, to protect your precious little ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 09:32 AM |
| 161 | Need advice: My boyfriend's friend sent him explicit nude pics of his wifeTell her! What he's doing is illegal and incredibly violating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 07:50 PM |
| 64 | LVM thinks being a man is so hard, is completely bothered and justifies his thinkingWeird, I don't really get this positive attention in public, only the occasional harrassment. It annoys me to no end how he thinks he somehow knows that being left alone is worse than being harrassed ever since you were a child. As if he knows us better than we do, many women neither want nor need this constant attention. And why don't men start complimenting and validating each other if it's that bad? The attention and kindness women get comes mostly from other women, their friends and family. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 08:31 AM |
| 14 | Has anyone ran into this problem? Read this woman's story and can't help but to relateI had to reject a guy 'friend' 3 times half a year ago. He was pathetic enough to ask me to give him a chance right after I broke up with my then boyfriend, so I just cut him off completely. He is the typical nice guy, short, boring, ugly and nothing to offer. We rekindled a couple of months ago since we go to the same school and he would always whine about the girls he was infatuated with and asked me about my own relationship status, to which I told him that I don't want one atm and that I'm m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 06:52 PM |
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