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| 1 | Are looks really objective?How can it not be objective? How do animals mate and determine fitness if not for attractiveness being ingrained into the brain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere will definitely be men with lower standards than me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 12:40 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTheir demands are because they have so many options. Nothing you can about it really. I don’t see it as illogical. Bc if their standards are illogical, they pay the price. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI finally understand why girls ghost on dating apps and why we as men shouldn’t be mad that women don’t find us attractive. This girl on a dating app asked me if I had any plans on the weekend and I don’t feel like replying bc I only talked to her bc I was bored. Now I regret matching with her but also don’t want to make her feel bad by outright rejecting her. Also, I know that any girl who initiates the idea of a date is definitely into me. Even though I haven’t had sex in multiple years, I’d r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 02:06 AM |
| 1 | if you're a young woman that only dates men who earn 80k+, then you can't complain about older men dating young women.It takes someone to make six figures to realize how little difference it makes. They wouldn’t have sex with an ugly woman who makes a lot yet think that women are somehow different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 01:44 AM |
| 13 | What’s causing decline in male sexlessness of recent?Henry cavill plays video games and makes him more relatable and a “hot nerd”. Avg joe plays video games and makes him a loser | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 04:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence.Nailed it on the head op. Only male peers care if an average or ugly guy is making a lot of money. Nobody gets wet knowing that some oofy doofy manlet works at Goldman Sachs. Also no one can ever refute the fact that Zuckerberg, Bezos, and Gates have 0 fangirls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 04:00 PM |
| 4 | [Q4All] How big is the gap of SMV between Average men and Ugly men?Average guys will never generate the same “Chadstruck” response that hot guys achieve. So in that sense, avg and ugly men are the same in that women will never chase after them. In the past, avg men would serve as the settle down option but now, I feel that is becoming less of the case. Because now, more and more women would prefer being “single” for life rather than settle down. So it’s not rly about being ugly or average. It’s more about the threshold of attractiveness where she is willing to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Sex with 37 guys in 6 years, still can't find a good manIt’s rly more like 9,999 / 1 on online dating by just looking at her stats. You have to be 3 / 10,0000 to either have sex or get a date with an avg woman via OLD. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/09/21 02:17 PM |
| 4 | The "80/20 rule" is now borderline mainstream. Two examples I came across this morning totally by accident.I’m a guy. Also I rly don’t meet girls who care anything about money. They’d rather be with hot Chad 100% of the time. If they cared about money, then a specific demographic of ppl would be slaying but they are not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 11:58 PM |
| 4 | The "80/20 rule" is now borderline mainstream. Two examples I came across this morning totally by accident.Well I guess there’ll always be some blue pill betabux guy to save the day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 09:23 PM |
| 3 | The "80/20 rule" is now borderline mainstream. Two examples I came across this morning totally by accident.Maybe for lower class folks. But for middle class, most women have jobs and make just as much as men. They also have advantages in hiring due to D&I initiatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Are today's men dropping below even a reasonable woman's attraction floor?Chad can have all 10 deficiencies you mentioned (apart from obesity) and it wouldn’t matter at all. The only thing that matters is height and face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 09:05 PM |
| 4 | The "80/20 rule" is now borderline mainstream. Two examples I came across this morning totally by accident.They require betabux less and less as time goes on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/21 09:02 PM |
| 0 | What are the prospects for Mr Average, realisticallyNot having sex for 2 years and thinking abundance mindset is going to do him any good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What is everyone's opinions on "No More Mr. Nice Guy!" (the book)?Ppl suppress their desire not out of choice but out of necessity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Study: Misogynists Believe They Are Unattractive to WomenYou have the cause and effect mixed up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Are we less accepting today (of people) then we were 50 years ago?It just goes to show that attraction is much more innate than we realize since diversity has done little to change people’s dating preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Women are not wrong in their criticism of "men nowadays"Tell me more about how guys aren’t shit: https://www.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/or6lz4/help_a_struggling_asian_dude_with_dating/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Remember guys, when women criticize men, they’re talking about Chad, not you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Study: Female face preferences are related to partner personality preferencesWhat does it mean for a face to be masculine or feminine? You have to describe facial preferences in terms of jaw, eye area, nose, cheek area, hair, and mouth. As well as overall depth ness of the face. Saying masculine or feminine has no meaning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/21 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Lets be honest: men aren't primarily attracted to 'natural' women that don't take care of their appearance that much. Makeup and other enhancements workIt’s rly all about facial bone structure for both sexes. Makeup can only do so much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFacts. Insecurity has gotta be pretty prevalent in someone’s mind if they call other ppl that unprompted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread“Just have more self worth bro” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t think a girl truly likes you if you can’t even be insecure around her without her being turned off. Why should I pretend to be someone I’m not just so that someone will “like me more”. The feeling of having to act “correctly” just for someone to stay with you is terrible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 03:10 AM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI had a girl tell me today that I’m too insecure for caring so much about looks. I think it actually takes a lot of secureness to face the reality of lookism. In fact, the more you place weight on personality, the more insecure you become bc you try to mold yourself to fit what ppl will like. Coming to terms with looks and realizing it’s importance has given me a lot of assuredness in myself that I’m fine who I am as a person. It’s just that I get brushed off a ton due to something I have no con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI get the same thing. As long as you act like a eunuch around them, they’re fine being nice to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:20 AM |
| 4 | A mass exodus from dating apps by men would probably help set the scale in their favorI actually don’t see ugly men dating above their looksmatch. Rarely saw it in college and if it did happen, the relationship ended after a couple weeks/months. Can you post their instas of these “ugly” men? I can give you 20-30 instas of guys I know who struggle mightily hard in getting a gf and have been on year long droughts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Survival of the fittest still appliesWhy did you think the conversation was incompatible? Do you think the other person was actually interested in having a genuine convo with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 02:27 PM |
| 4 | Survival of the fittest still appliesNo bc the other person will do whatever it takes to maintain the relationship. If it doesn’t work out you can just move on to the next person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 05:02 AM |
| 2 | What is the "emotional connection" women need before they have sex with someone?You’re being overly pedantic. The point is you think hot guys are common. That’s all that needs to be said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Is Porn a Cause of, or a Symptom of, the Rising Number of Virgin/Sexless Men?Then just leave? It’s not like it’s hard for you to find another relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 06:42 PM |
| 7 | Why does this sub massively exaggerate male sexlessness and the plight of the average male?It’s rly hard to tell if ppl on this sub who make such blue pill claims are purposefully obtuse. Guy literally used an example from early 2000s lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Women putting off children is not due to children being expensive - the poorest in society have more children than anyone.This is an interesting discussion considering rise of single motherhood. Studies also show that women r less likely to have their partner wear a condom if he is more attractive. Thus I don’t think money rly is the barrier for having kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexHey man, I understand the pain. Yes we can perhaps beg someone to have sex with us by being super nice and doing everything for her. But why do that? I’ve had way more heartbreak in that situation and don’t want to go thru that again. What we want is someone that is infatuated with us that we also find attractive, bc that is real love. Not this thing where she feels she’s doing you a favor by spending time with you. Also trying harder doesn’t do anything. If you’re trying harder, it’s already ov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Objectively self-rate yourself based on looks and then rate the lowest looks rating you'd be willing to date.I’m objectively a 3 bc the only women who actively chase me are 3s. It’s that simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadWell that just means you need more than 1 backup option. More options is always the way to go in life. It applies to job finding, buying a house/car, anything rly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemIt’s the guys face that’s the problem. Few guys like to admit that their face is ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 06:26 PM |
| – | Chronic Avoidance of Potential Conflict is an understated part of why modern dating sucksLol it isn’t conflict avoidant. It’s just coming to reality that she doesn’t like you bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men giving money to OnlyFans women?Hiring escort is illegal. Porn is not the same as OF. I haven’t paid for OF subscription but I can understand why men do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadI think that’s more caused by lack of options. I can quickly “fall in love” with any woman I find attractive. It’s just that they don’t love me back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIf she isn’t initiating, she isn’t that into you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 05:30 PM |
| 0 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadThere you go. It wasn’t going to work out from the beginning. From my perspective, there is usually an imbalance in love in a relationship. The only thing that keeps a relationship going is if the person with the power decides to keep it going. Thus, there is nothing one can do if they’re the one who loves the other party more. It’s over before it started when you are the person who loves the other more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadDo you rly think you could have done anything different to keep him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadIf he was actually aware, he’d know it was over from the start. Most guys know it’s over but don’t want to believe it bc they have no better options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?It’s based on just world fallacy. I agree that stigma against OF is unwarranted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Question for the short guys-are you less likely to ask out a taller woman?Well then she doesn’t actually like him or seen him worthy enough to be asked out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Are men not self sufficient or are women purposefully humbling those that are?They’re talking about Chad who doesn’t need to cook for himself or keep a tidy room. They’re not talking about the ugly guy who’s got his life together but is alone all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat MegathreadBrutal thread here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/nt8i44/when_did_you_know_that_your_relationship_was_over/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Women are the reason why high beauty standards for them still existChad is the reason why high beauty standards exist. In order to compete for Chad, they have to be beautiful. Pretty simple stuff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 11:31 PM |
| 1 | "The default is that a woman is attractive and a guy wants to bang her" probably only applies to men up to mid thirties or so.That’s also how it goes for straight dudes who are hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ?You prolly don’t meet them bc you aren’t a Chad. But Chads are assholes because they CAN. The ugly assholes you never see in real life bc they have 0 friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 08:17 PM |
| 8 | Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ?Lol yeah. Search ItsAGundam Tinder Experiment on Youtube | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 08:16 PM |
| 8 | Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ?That’s cuz u aren’t hot enough. If you look like a model, they will reach out to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 08:01 PM |
| 4 | What ways would you use to differentiate someone "liking" you from someone being truly attracted to you?It’s rly that simple. I don’t know why everyone is giving such complex answers on here… If she isn’t initiating snuggle time, she’s not that into you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | The redpill is not accurately portrayed in this subBlackpill also necessary to label MGTOW as MSTOW. The whining and doomer vibes from folks like CGA and Better Bachelor rly makes them look bitter. They always say, “I’m saying this to benefit women” when in reality we all know they just want easy sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?A man’s attractiveness is accurately measured based on who matches with him AND is willing to keep conversation with him on OLD apps. The attractiveness of those women are your attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 08:44 PM |
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