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| 5 | i just had sex with someone that i met on dating apps and now i can’t leave him alone ( i was thinking i can do casual) but it turns out i want him real badSex is the ultimate form of intimacy. The final act which requires oneself to express themselves in the most vulnerable way possible. Some people especially in modern day dating can have sex and remain indifferent or nonchalant however I believe this being your second person to have sex with this man may have hit a soft spot in you. Whether it’s the way he behaves, or the manner in which he talks to you, you separate him amongst other men as THE one. Let me tell you he is not. You don’t know a s… | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 05:34 AM |
| 5 | Stop using datings appsWhat makes you say that ? | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 01:49 AM |
| 58 | I’m going to start approaching girls at coffee shops and libraries.One of my best approaches was a day i went to Barnes and noble. Struggled initially to approach an attractive employee, then saw her walking around and said fuck it. Talked to her just a compliment then I just walked away. Cool I did one approach, sure I didn’t even ask for the number but don’t focus on the outcome. Then when I found my book and went to the front I approached the first girl up holding a few books. Talked with her about her interests and what not. Friendly girl but when it was he… | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 12:45 PM |
| 11 | She invited me to cook together at her place. Should I make a move before or after cooking?Definitely after cooking. Don’t be so eager to start smashing off rip. “The move” you are talking about I assume is the follow up to sex. But realistically that should be towards the end of a multitude of “moves”. Start by saying hi and providing her with a hug and a kiss on the side for example. Then possibly a compliment like damn did you already cook without me? And she’ll be like no what I have the food in the kitchen ready to make. And say no I meant like you cooked with putting on that out… | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 06:27 AM |
| 9 | Stone face when talking to women I approach ?I recently had a groundbreaking discovery. I went to the mall to pickup an item and in the meantime I figured I’d approach. I approached about 4-6 pretty girls. A few older women and maybe a guy or two (not every approach you do has to be from an individual you have the intention of sleeping with, sometimes you just want to build social momentum) I had two approaches where they were a bit unusual because they started well and ended abruptly. one girl at a shoe store had bushy eyebrows, very attr… | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 12:51 AM |
| 5 | What adjustments in game have given you the best results? (Personal experience)I would get so frustrated by the pressure I would exert on myself of approaching pretty women and feeling like a weirdo for doing so. The act of cold approach, feeling like people are judging you as you stare around a mall aimlessly.. very easy to receive burnout. So, to relieve myself of this pressure, I simply started to consider the power my voice has and the impact a simple comment has on a stranger. Started with just saying hi to strangers. Hello, good afternoon, take care, god bless, etc. … | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 10:32 AM |
| 3 | Never go on Dinner DatesPatrice O’Neal said it best. A woman’s way of fucking you is you taking her out for dinner. What we view as receiving sex is what they view being taken out to eat. Unless you have already established some sort of relationship with the person or it’s at the earliest 3rd or 4th date then sure cuz she’s obviously interested. If you haven’t given a woman enough time to invest in you emotionally and physically, then how can you expect her to stick around so soon? Take this as a lesson learned, I was … | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man?I have a 26 year old close friend who completely turned his life around from being an obese gaming addict virgin to having a relationship in shape working out and still enjoys playing games. It’s almost as if he threw out all his flaws and what he is left with is the best possible version of himself. Crazy transformation. Start with the gym, either that’s working out, doing cardio at the park running laps, or swimming. Do something that adds a challenge and gets you disciplined. That’s the first… | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 03:47 PM |
| – | Approach anxiety owns meWhich area you live in ? | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 04:58 PM |
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