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| 5 | Finally GTFOYes, yes, he failed to mention this small tid bit of information. However, you should have cut him loose after the DV. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/25 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend post divorcePlenty of women can be serious about you AND not want kids. This was a ridiculous take. She had a kid and a culture much different than yours. I'm married to an indian. Dot, not feather. If we ever got divorced, she wouldn't remarry, wouldn't go live with another guy and certainly wouldn't have more kids. But she would absolutely find someone else that she enjoys the company of and fills the gaps in her schedule. Seems like thats exactly whats going on. Just like indians, asians (yes I know indi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/25 09:54 AM |
| 2 | 45M, Law Firm Partner, $350k/yr — Planning Divorce, SAHM Wife — What Does My Future Look Like?Actually, my apologies, I must have read the post too fast or wrong. I see you weren't even looking for this type advice, no matter how serious it was or wasn't. I think you'll have quite a bit of alimony over many years, would be the guess. My father has a friend who made about 275k, wife sahm too and has to pay alimony until she's remarried. - Minnesota | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/25 04:36 PM |
| 1 | 45M, Law Firm Partner, $350k/yr — Planning Divorce, SAHM Wife — What Does My Future Look Like?I wasn't being so serious, and to what level you dislike your wife is none of my business. And if you did such a thing, if it was even possible, wouldn't be to leave the mother of your kids high and dry as you'll have child support regardless of your location of residence. The point was to get away from decades of alimony, which I think most would agree, is outrageous. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/25 04:32 PM |
| 6 | 45M, Law Firm Partner, $350k/yr — Planning Divorce, SAHM Wife — What Does My Future Look Like?Move to a state that doesn't screw you as much and throw it out there to her as one more shot at our marriage. Then, file for divorce, save yourself, probably hundreds of thousands. Instead of setting yourself back nearly 20 yrs, it'll maybe be 5. It's not so serious, but seriously... | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/25 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Wife holds all the cardsWhile I agree this would be a waste of your time OP, do not take advice from people on the internet on whether your relationship is over. Only you know that. To me it seems the mind games are because your wife's hurt you and you want to hurt her. Incredibly common in relationships, but as an adult you must fight that urge. Go to counseling, even if it's result is coming to the conclusion it's truly over. You both may find that it's extremely helpful and may very well save your marriage. You two … | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/25 09:11 AM |
| 9 | I need a pick me up, menPal, I'm a kid of divorced parents and I'm a man. My dad moved and it kind of jaded me towards him. Not that I held a grudge but my brain saw it is 'I live with mom and dad choose to not live with me'. Which wasn't the truth but as a kid, that's how I saw it. Once I told him I never wanted to speak with him again when I was about 12 and he didn't talk to me for a year because that's what he truly thought I wanted. Truth is, I was hyper sensitive to anything my dad did because I'm a boy and a boy… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/25 01:31 PM |
| 7 | Would it help our separation if I got my wife something for Valentine’s Day?Not only this but if you think separation will help, then reinforcing to her you are not there on days like valentines, is probably the move. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 09:59 PM |
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