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Every time I get on this site I feel like I’m getting a personal glimpse into the male mind and it’s been so incredibly blackpilling. The crazy radfems on twitter and tumblr were right, I should have never doubted them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:55 AM
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Learn to write properly first and foremost scrote 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:36 AM
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They weren’t misinterpreting it. You weren’t intelligent enough to properly communicate your point. Don’t blame other’s for your own stupidity, as well as lack of critical thinking and writing skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:33 AM
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No you didn’t. You knew what you said looked bad so like a coward you went back to delete that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:29 AM
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No. You said listed consent as a form of chivalry and you explicitly said WOMEN DONT DESERVE CHIVALRY, THEREFORE WE DONT DESERVE TO HAVE OUR CONSENT TAKEN INTO ACCOUNT. Do you understand now that I’ve explicitly laid things out for you? Are you going to continue to be intellectually dishonest?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:24 AM
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And if they don’t follow those social expectations they deserve to be sexually assaulted, this exactly what you alluded to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:17 AM
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What argument? You are just rambling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:12 AM
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You said that women get unwanted sexual attention because they dress like whores. I disproved that, you are intentionally being intellectually dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:09 AM
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Another whining scrote unable to take criticism for his shit behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:08 AM
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Nothing I said was contradictory. Most of the men on here are beta males and aren’t physically imposing or socially smart enough to be as manipulative or aggressive as most men. Instead they can only whine and complain online like you and OP. But if given the opportunity, the majority of you would jump at the chance to act on your beastly nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:06 AM
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Sweden https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/rape-statistics-by-country Sweden has a higher rape rate than America and the UK. The absolute pinnacle of Western ideals and lax dressing. The other countries on this list are heavily Christian and conservative countries, what do you have to say to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:58 AM
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Scrotes throwing a fit I pointed out their beastly and predatory thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:55 AM
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This sub makes up a very small male population. The majority of you would if you could, the posts on here aren’t very far off from this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:52 AM
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He edited it out. How cowardly. u/Moneydamjan at least have the courage to stand on your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:39 AM
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I have eyes to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:36 AM
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You want me to show you that male sexuality is objectively more deviant? Take a scroll through your local sex offender registry and count how many men vs women you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:35 AM
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Very interesting how the majority of men on here can’t even get a date or speak to a woman irl yet they believe they know the innermost workings of most women and everyone here takes what they say at face value. When anyone suggests otherwise they are vehemently debated, yet I am out of touch with reality? Many of you act like this irl, many more than you think. I didn’t need the internet to come to this conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:29 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:22 AM
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Absolutely not. I live an extremely cold climate where women are bundled up from head to toe 70% of the year. And you know what, men will still foam at the mouth like some rabid animal at anything with a pulse. Male sexuality is deviant at its core, this is the common denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:21 AM
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Men act like beasts regardless if a woman is dress provocatively or not. Most of you are lustful and opportunistic predators. Majority of you are to be treated with absolute apprehension and all of society knows this deep down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:09 AM
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So yes? Then don’t get mad when women treat the majority of men like the disgusting sexual beasts/predators they act like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:06 AM
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Dramatic? You consider seeking consent as a form of chivalry and you explicitly said women don’t deserve chivalry. What other conclusion am I supposed to come to? Blame yourself for your faulty reasoning or the fact that you failed to properly explain your point, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:01 AM
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You listed seeking consent under chivalry. If women don’t deserve chivalry then they don’t deserve to have their consent taken into account by your logic right? Do you mean they deserve to be sexually assaulted if they don’t fit into the traditional gender norms you listed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:51 AM
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Physically and emotionally. At least there’s reasoning behind it like he’s fallen in love with someone else. If not he’s cheated on me for literally no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:23 PM
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I’m not in the best place right now but I’m always looking towards the future. There are so MANY times when I’ve thought things were hopeless but oddly I never stay in that mindset for long. I’m so young with so much that I want to do! I want my get my first bf and I want have fun experiences. I don’t see everything as hopeless, there are things in my control that I can improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:29 PM
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Look at his comments he’s absolutely celebrating male degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:13 PM
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How is it worse? You’re just saying that because of your male bias. If you exclude personal emotions/hurt out of the situation and look at things objectively, from the perspective of the people that matter most in all situations; the children, you’ll realize that I’m right. False paternity impacts no one, having a baby outside of your family burdens everyone because of the financial and emotional strain of having to spread your resources and time between two households. Edit: This method of mati…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:40 PM
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Yes it does. Context matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:32 PM
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So what? Men can have children from an affair partner and this objectively worse than a woman falsifying paternity. Men must now take vital resources away from their spouse and any children they might have, to give to his affair partner and bastard. “Sorry sweetheart, daddy can’t get you those shoes you’ve always wanted cause I’ve got to pay child support!” This negatively impacts both children in this situation. When a woman falsifies paternity at the end of the day, the child gets to live in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:28 PM
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You misread almost everything. I first pointed out that his source didn’t exist then I went on to point out male sexual aggression and degeneracy, which is a fact. He then celebrated male sexual degeneracy with his comment “just another w for men.” I respond by confirming his notion that males are aggressive and sexually degenerate. He told me to deal with it. I told him exactly how I would respond to male sexual deviancy and aggression. If you don’t know how to read just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:08 PM
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Men cheating is often times objectively worse because they are more likely to do it off of a whim or out of sheer boredom. Women tend to cheat when they are missing emotional connection. Imagine if someone shot you just because they felt like it, just because they could. The mere senselessness of their actions would be mind shattering. Inflicting pain unprompted is almost incomprehensible. Now imagine if they said they did it because they were angry or hated you for some random reason. It’s stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:57 PM
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I was talking about males inclination towards sexual deviancy and aggression (aka rape and assault). He told me to deal with it. I explained how I would defend myself. According to you this is somehow an act of violence. Males of their faulty reasoning...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:35 PM
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Self-defense isn't aggression. Leave it to a man to think a woman who doesn't want to raped or physically assaulted by a man is an act of aggression.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:00 PM
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Not if I can put a bullet between you eyes first
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:49 PM
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God didn't make males bulletproof. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:37 PM
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Dealing with it my way would mean putting a bullet between the eyes of any man that thinks I'd be an adequate victim for his unrestrained lust or aggression. I think all women should follow suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:26 PM
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So men are degerate sexual and aggressive degenerates? 🤔 I agree! If only society would follow suit and treat you all as the morally bankrupt deviants and predators many of you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:00 PM
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Source: trust me bro! Males are simply degenerate, especially when it comes to sexual activities. Your nature and high sex drive give all of you an affinity for sexual deviancy. This is common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:49 PM
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Men are more capable of rape and murder? I agree! Which is why most of them should be treated with automatic distrust. Also, you and I both know men indulge more in pedophilia, to say otherwise is an absolute cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:40 PM
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Everything? Does that include rape, pedophilia, war and murder? That’s a rhetorical question we both know the answer is yes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:30 AM
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Blah blah blah. And what are men, holy little angels? 😂 Pot calling the kettle black.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:26 AM
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I’m more judgmental/apprehensive of men because I don’t really see them as trustworthy. Everyone has a shadow side but I truly think that most of them are hiding an immense amount of sexual deviancy and aggression that most women (not even I) will never be able to comprehend. Before you come crying in the replies: NOT ALL MEN 🤪🤪🤪 and YES, WOMEN CAN BE BAD PEOPLE ALSO!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:37 AM
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Too effeminate: Too whiny and unable to say no to people when it matters most. A man who constantly picks fights with other women but suddenly turns meek, submissive and agreeable when it comes to other men, especially if it’s the same opinion being expressed. There’s something so incredibly bitch-made about that. Too masculine: Too imposing or domineering. Believes ultimate authority should automatically be granted to him and lashes out or tries to impose it by force when it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:29 AM
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lol this post reminds me of mentally-ill schizo femcel twitter. They wanted to cull the majority of men through a battle royale style fight to the death, only to enslave the small percentage of survivors for reproduction purposes 😭 those girls were insane but according to your post I guess they had the right idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:21 PM
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No. If he did I would refrain from interacting with him ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:59 PM
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Sitting around and waiting for a man to get his act together can take a lot of time and patience and frankly sometimes it’s not even worth it. It’s kinda like investing in a business, it can be hit or miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:16 PM
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Don’t what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:16 PM
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For the strategy you outlined in your post to work a woman will need to have roster of 2-3+ friend zoned guys/orbiters because not all people are willing to put the work in to better themselves and you don’t want to put all of your eggs in one basket. So what you’re say is that you should promptly dangle the carrot of affection/a legitimate relationship in front of them (just enough for them to stick around/be invested). Afterwards you see which one progresses the most or shows acceptable promis…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:25 PM
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Once you enter your late twenties and onward it becomes very important. Socio-economic status matters a lot in dating, for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:07 AM
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The genre of romance novels is way too large to paint with that wide brush, coming from someone who’s been consuming this genre since I was 9. There are way too many sub genres and intricate tropes, some are toxic others not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:13 AM
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Your welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:42 PM
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Your analysis was nonsensical 😺
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:41 PM
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Ok. What now?🧍🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:39 PM
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According to PPD men are always pure, innocent and rational victims trying to brace themselves against women’s evil and chaotic nature😫?! I thought all they wanted were good, kind and pure women, that were all taken away by the vindictive feminists?! I thought only women want dark triad bad boys but here men are, salivating over a dangerous felon under tik tok comments! How can this be?! https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMjwkHwX7/ Edit: Oh look I found another! Look at all the men salivating over this fema…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:28 PM
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Someone you don’t even need to think around, all you need to do is go with the flow. Kind of like how as kid you put the upmost trust in your parents to make good decisions on your behalf because you knew you were in safe hands and you wholeheartedly believed in their judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:14 PM
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I don’t think so I just think men are better at hiding it or are less likely to admit their sexual fluidity. I consider myself straight but I overall find women more generally attractive. If I had to choose between having sex with a random average woman versus a random average man, I would choose the woman. I have no problem admitting something like this and being confident in my identity as a straight woman, men on the other hand not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:46 PM
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Just take a scroll the this sub?! What more proof do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:29 PM
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There’s a thing called lube and the butthole can stretch, like a lot. How do you think gay men have sex with each other? Do you think they’re all walking around with wrecked and damaged buttholes?! 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:12 PM
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I mean men can get this too, probably not from women but gay men. There are a bunch of sugar daddies looking for men to spoil, get that bag boys!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:35 AM
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My family tells me I'm too naive. I'll probably just get taken advantage of without the ability to spot red flags that comes with years of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:20 PM
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If by 25-28 I don't have a relationship, I honestly don't see myself ever getting into one. I'll be too behind everyone in my age group. Hopefully, if that does happen, I'll have some money to travel and enjoy myself. Being a virgin with no romantic experience past that age just isn't cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:09 PM
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Young people are getting in and out of relationships. This number will fluctuate, especially since people are getting into serious relationships older. Women in the past got with men because they needed them to survive, not because they were starved for attention. A lot of women will stay single if they don't like their options. Money allows you to do as you please regardless of societal pressure. Have sex with Chad. Just don't yell anyone. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:51 PM
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This is all they talk about, especially on here day in and day out. Are you blind?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:41 PM
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You bring nothing to table. Majority of you want to sit up in a house with a woman and just take up space, like the most of your fathers and grandfathers did. All th while a woman shits out kids that you will barely take care of. At least they brought in money, but you all don't even do that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:40 PM
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What makes you think I hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:20 PM
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They dynamic’s of gay relationships are completely different from those of heterosexual relationships. Men can’t fulfill their roles, yet have the audacity to complain when women don’t want to either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:01 AM
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Whatever the end result is the same. If you can’t even properly do what is asked of you what are you bringing to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:13 AM
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You just said MOST men don’t fulfill their role, therefore MOST men bring nothing to table.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:37 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:56 PM
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Yes. A change in perspective about men and relationships will keep you from that terrible fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:14 PM
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So you agree men don’t fulfill their roles in a relationship, then what do you offer? Men are the one’s crying they can’t get into relationships/have sex, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:01 PM
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If only a few fathers are making single mothers that makes single fathers even more detestable because of their repeated irresponsibility. It’s one thing to make one mistake but to subject a child to be born out of wedlock over and over again shows your poor character and that something must be wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:56 PM
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Most men don’t do this unless they are related to you. The strong confident male leader/protector is a myth, a role that most men barely try to fulfill. Lonely men are spoiled children whining that they can’t get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:52 PM
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Are you black?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:42 PM
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The average man is able to get into relationships and have sex. You people know you are the outliers right? Even with slut shaming none of you would be able to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:16 PM
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Nope. The avg women would just stay single as long as she could provide for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:13 PM
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I wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:57 PM
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Men overestimated their value and contribution to relationships. Men barely provide any of those things you just listed, especially not nowadays. If men are abandoning women why are they complaining about ‘male loneliness?’
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:55 PM
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Even with slut shaming, none of you are going to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:55 PM
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I’m not putting my life on the line for just your disgusting sperm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:38 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:32 PM
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True. I refuse to birth some man’s spawn and continue his disgusting linage, or even take the chance by sleeping with him without something substantial in return. I have no idea how women are doing this for free and without help, out of so-called love.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:21 PM
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Everyone wants more money and it’s hard to get. What’s wrong with women wanting money from a man? It’s easy and simple. If you have nothing else to offer in a relationship but money, I’m going to treat you like an atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:18 PM
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How is this any different from sex? You could just masterbate or have sex with other men, instead of using a woman as a rutting post. You only view women as a wet hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:09 PM
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Then you’re question is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:03 PM
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Isn’t it? If I were to ask ‘why do men complain about women wanting them for money, when they refuse to provide anything else’ would that be misandry? Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:12 PM
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Then if asking the the question ‘what do men offer in relationship other than money’ is misandrist, is asking ‘what do women offer in relationships other then sex’ misogyny? Why or why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:40 PM
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How is this any different from sex? If you don’t value anything about another person besides their wet hole is this misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:07 PM
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Interesting how the same logic doesn’t apply sex…. I appreciate what you provide how is that dehumanizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:16 PM
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This link is behind a pay wall. Then don’t be ma that welfare goes to people who make less, aka women. That’s what welfare is for. Yes. Women have always lived longer than men though out history. Unless there’s poison in the water that only affects men then what is anyone supposed to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:54 PM
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No what does the world burning and you being an oil lobbyist have to do with with bending over? Is this just incel/blackpill lingo I’m not understanding? And whatever bad people get away with things all the time, what does this have to do with lonely men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:38 PM
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The working paper didn’t specify that women and men receive the different sentences based on the same crime. People claim who welfare are struggling financially. Like I said men get paid more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:25 PM
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But if I were to ask what men had to offer in relationships other than money I’d somehow be a misandrist…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:16 PM
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Bend ER? Makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:14 PM
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Sexual beasts. Then you’ll all have the audacity to complain when society treats you like the dangerous predator’s you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:39 PM
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The study says people are sentenced to custody when their crimes put the public at risk. Men generally commit more violent crimes, it would make sense that they’re sentenced to more jail time. The second article was 10 years ago. It’s out of date and the link to the official study has been removed. The more you earn the higher your taxes are, this is true for for everyone. It just so happens that men earn more. The anger you have towards should be towards the gender pay gap, yet you are seething…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:01 PM
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The only people I see crying about male loneliness is men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:44 PM
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I agree. I refuse to waste my virginity on just any guy. He must be spectacular and special.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:31 AM
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What gynocentric policies exist in the west? How do you men support women through their tax dollars?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:23 AM
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If getting sex is harder for you then years of academic study, then that’s simply a skill issue. There’s nothing anybody can do for you. Men are so dramatic, you all make it seem like you’ll all kill yourselves if you don’t get pussy. Actually I wouldn’t put it past most of you lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:13 AM
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Perhaps but socialization can only stretch so far. Just look at the body positivity movement. Men still hate fat chicks despite there being a campaign to depict obese women as beautiful. I don’t think women are suddenly going to being handing out pussy to lonely men, even if you campaign for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:10 AM
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What does that have to do with romantic relationships and men feeling entitled to pussy? This isn’t an abortion debate, I don’t recall proclaiming I was pro-choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:23 AM
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“In the Middle East-North Africa region, polygamy is legal in Iraq, Yemen, Algeria and Egypt, but fewer than 3% of individuals in those countries live in polygamous households” (https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2019/12/12/household-patterns-by-region/#:~:text=In%20the%20Middle%20East%2DNorth%20Africa%20region%2C%20polygamy%20is%20legal,countries%20live%20in%20polygamous%20households.) Polygamy isn’t widespread enough in the Middle East to cause mass male loneliness. The Middle East is the wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:13 AM
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Oh really? Ask the average person where they would rather live happy life, a so-called ‘western shithole’ or Pakistan, what answer do you think they would give?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:07 AM
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Almost 40% of Pakistanis are currently living in poverty, but alas, nothing else matters to men more then pussy, not even poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:57 PM
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If I live in a western shithole what does that make the country you’re from? Isn’t Pakistan a third world country?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:49 PM
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Porn is widely available, escorts exist and it isn’t hard to get one. Yet men are still complaining. You can get everything you want but a woman to willingly be with you, lol! Men are controlled by sex, you say? If men’s urges are that great then don’t be surprised when society treats you like sexual beasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:36 PM
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The Middle East isn’t unstable because men can’t get pussy or are lonely, you’d have to delusional to even suggest that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:33 PM
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That’s exactly what they want. They want to turn back time to the past where women had little to no choice but to couple up with some random man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:27 PM
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What? Reread what you just wrote, it doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:10 PM
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You don’t earn rights, they are called human rights for a reason. Would you tell slaves that they should just earn their rights? Is getting pussy now a human right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:07 PM
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Men not getting pussy is equivalent to women being denied human rights? This is why nobody takes you people seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:52 PM
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Men not getting sex/relationships = women’s human rights. This is why nobody takes you people seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:48 PM
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Most of the conversation on the subject of ‘male loneliness’ is around sex, relationships and women. If the solution to male loneliness is sex and romantic relationships, there’s nothing anybody can do for them. Nobody can make a woman want to fuck or be in a relationship with you (without violating any human rights), except you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:17 PM
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No it didn’t. Men have always been thirsty, this is just how a lot of men are at their primal core.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:24 PM
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Sorry how are men being forced to be attracted to any of these women? Absolute mental gymnastics. These women aren’t unqualified, these groups exist so women aren’t looked over. Companies will go out of their way to higher men with the same or similar qualifications because men are favoured in the corporate world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:15 PM
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Currently in university getting a degree. Not exactly, but he should have good future prospects or be financially stable. It just so happens that is usually achieved through attaining a degree of some kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:05 PM
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This quote I have saved on Pinterest explains this perfectly: If a partner chooses you for rational reasons, he or she might leave you for the same rational reasons: finding someone slightly more desirable on all of the "rational" criteria. But if the person is blinded by an uncontrollable love that cannot be helped and cannot be chosen, a love for only you and no other, then commitment will not waver when you are in sickness rather than in health, when you are poorer rather than richer. Love ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:59 PM
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First one is just a plain lie. The corporate world still largely favours men, this is just a fact. No one’s forcing men to find obese women hot. Just because it’s no longer acceptable to insult them unprovoked doesn’t mean you’re being forced to be with them. What do you mean answer for other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:50 PM
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This comment by u/TSquaredRecovers best puts my thoughts on this into words: This is true. But when you suggest to lonely guys here that it would be helpful for them if they worked on building up a friend group, they almost always scoff at the idea. They don’t care about having friends or really even being lonely much of the time. They want sex, first and foremost. And some do want a relationship, but they don’t seem desire anything else but a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:37 PM
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So male loneliness in relation to sex and romantic relationships is a choice? Got it. I agree, it is for a good chunk of you. Now if only society would stop framing it as some sort of emergency or epidemic but see it for what it is; largely self-inflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:03 PM
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Like you said ‘Male loneliness’ is a ‘mental health issue’ that mostly affects men. If you ask men, especially self proclaimed ‘lonely’ men about their struggles, majority of the time it boils down to their inability to find sex/relationships. This is straight from the horses mouth. Should I completely disregard their opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:37 PM
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Majority of the conversation around male loneliness in popular culture/media is around sex, women and relationships. This comes from men themselves, off and on this site.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:09 PM
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I mean inadequate in the sense that they are unable to attain what they desire; relationships/sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:04 PM
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I’m just going to repost my comment: In a nutshell, yes. I also agree with both of those comments. Why is the topic of male loneliness always centred around romantic relationships, sex and women? Because ‘male loneliness’ is just a way for inadequate males to guilt trip women into giving them pussy, this is the real cure for ‘male loneliness.’ Everyone knows this deep down which is why no one takes it seriously. Why should society bend over backwards if you can’t get a date? What do you want the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:51 PM
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Why is the topic of male loneliness always centred around relationships, sex and women? Because ‘male loneliness’ is just a way for inadequate males to guilt trip women into giving them pussy, this is the real cure for ‘male loneliness.’ Everyone knows this deep down which is why no one takes it seriously. Why should society bend over backwards if you can’t get a date? What do you want them to do? Force a woman to be your gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:09 PM
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Not really. Being feminine is just so much more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:44 AM
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I know. Unfortunately those women are, like I said, blinded by emotion (love/lust). But the smart ones are staying child free unless proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:41 AM
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If I switched genders, I’d just be a sexy gay twink and become the lover/mistress of some rich closeted man. That’s all, I’m not going around picking up chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:38 AM
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A quote from tumblr: Throughout all of history, women have eventually had their moment of “awakening” where we realize Prince Charming isn’t coming. Most women will react differently to this information but they will internalize it nonetheless. Men, on the other hand, have never had this moment until recently. Why? Their fantasies (a subservient woman that will give them sex whenever they want) have always been a real life possibility. They’ve always had their fairy tale ending. That’s changed n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:31 AM
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Most of you don’t have enough resources to extract. Shitting out kids is too high risk to come without a price. A smart woman wouldn’t do it without something substantial in return or unless she was blinded by emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:14 AM
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If you’re looking at marriage from a modern perspective then yes. However, for many years (depending on the culture) marriage wasn’t about love and it was meant to be transactional. But I generally agree with your anti-marriage stance, being a man’s personal bang-maid and shitting out his kids isn’t ideal. I can see why many women are choosing to forgo marriage and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:44 AM
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That’s not what man child means. It’s means a man that’s irresponsible, unreliable, unable or unwilling to meet basic adult responsibilities on their own, and is dependent on others, not a man with particular hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:02 AM
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Did you not read my comment? Do you just blindly reply without thought? I explicitly addressed this in my comment, if you took a second to properly read it. God forbid if a woman wants to spend quality time with her partner or wants him to get off his game to take care of the kids or clean the house ! Oh the horror! I guess that’s too much to ask of scrotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:52 AM
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Unconditional love doesn't exist outside of familial connections, and if it does, it's very rare. It's a childish thing to stress yourself out over. Everyone is measured by their value. However, people are sentimental and don't always part easily with things they have an emotional attachment to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:01 PM
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What does this have to do with incels and domestic violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:03 PM
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When women criticize men's obsession with video games, sports, etc...its usually when they are already in relationships with a man, and he is prioritizing those things over their relationship. No one cares if some random man wants to play video games all day. No one wants to be ignored or treated like a second thought by their partner, but that doesn't mean they want to be obsessed over. The world doesn't exist in black and white. You're going from one extreme to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:54 PM
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I know but like I said both terms have evolved past their literal definitions and are now associated with or used to describe specific subcultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:34 AM
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The word incel has evolved past its definition. It’s associated with a very specific ideology and sub culture. I would be open to dating a male virgin but I would stay at least ten feet away (at all times) from someone who is an incel. When you call someone an incel you are critiquing/insulting their beliefs and behaviour, not their virginity. The term femcel is similar, it doesn’t just mean female virgin (at least not anymore). It’s now tied to a very specific aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 11:00 PM
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Unconditional love doesn’t exist, and if it does it’s much rarer than people might think. Outside of familial relations, it’s unrealistic and childish to expect it in romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:30 PM
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No I didn’t downvote you. If I know them beforehand at least I have some familiarity with them and their personality. I’ll have some idea of what to expect. I don’t want to go giving my information out to random strangers or being in an intimate setting with a man I don’t know at all. This is the same reason why I refuse to use dating apps, even if they give me a wider range of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:52 PM
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As long as they don’t despise him then idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:20 PM
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No. I need someone to get out of the house with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:19 PM
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Through mutual friends, school, hobbies, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:09 PM
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That’s pretty much what they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:16 AM
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If it’s just an entry level position and he has the potential to make more then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:15 AM
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Men say this all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:13 AM
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What about it? I thought men hated having to be strong and resilient all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:11 AM
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Yes it matters. However, as of right now, no. I’m young so I don’t expect the men around me to be rolling around in money but they should have good future prospects. I’m not raising children with a man who isn’t financially stable. I want to be able to give my child a similar lifestyle that I had growing up or better, so a comfortable suburban lifestyle is the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:05 AM
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If we are talking about traditional notions of femininity and masculinity, then I prefer a man who leans more masculine but still has a little bit of a feminine side. I feel like that balances out with my personality. I personally like my men a little pathetic and helpless, someone who needs to rely on me (to a certain extent).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:41 PM
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No. I don’t want strange men approaching me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:24 PM
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What do you mean no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:35 PM
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Physical attraction and sexual intimacy Chemistry General compatibility Similar interest, values and life goals
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:49 PM
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Not a date, but I promptly stopped talking to a guy who was messaging me once. He was way too direct, there was no flirting, attempt to get to know me or to create a pleasant conversation. He then went on to tell me about his small penis (completely unprovoked I might add) and asked me if I wanted to hear more about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:29 AM
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Ok. Then what would a real life example or explanation of what charisma a man would have to display to achieve success with women from your perspective as someone who has achieved success? Give me a proper description and stop beating around the bush. You are being too vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:23 AM
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If these women are lying then what’s the truth? You didn’t answer my question. What advice are we hiding from you? What are the magic words that will supposedly turn any man into chad? I want you tell me from a man’s perspective. From my perspective that man would have to be very charismatic. The ability to effortlessly socialize, make yourself seem charming and adapt to a person communication style will get you a lot of success when it comes to dating. Don’t tell me this is the truth women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:56 AM
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Uh. Must I explicitly spell everything out for you people? Wasn’t that heavily implied? By wants you back, I meant you both have mutual romantic interests/goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:48 AM
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No that’s not what you did. You weren’t just merely stating that men are more likely to be perceived as a threat or your fears. You insinuated that mid-unattractive women are treated better by society than mid-unattractive men. You tried to play oppression Olympic’s first don’t throw stones and hide your hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:43 AM
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Why do men seem to think were hiding the holy grail of dating advice from them? Your success in dating depends on the woman you’re trying to attract and her preferences. There’s single no right answer because women are different. Like seriously what do you want us to tell you? What advice are we keeping from the male population that you all desperately need to hear, since you seem to have it figured out? Tell me, because I don’t even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:19 AM
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Isn’t that what you just did? You tried to tell me how I was perceived by society as an average-looking/unattractive woman, then began to prattle on about how easy I have have it in-comparison to men who have it worse. The pot calling the kettle black.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:56 AM
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Media shows you this all the time. If you haven’t noticed that the majority of characters (especially in romantic movies) are either attractive or charismatic and swooned over because of it, regardless of their personality, you are simply living under a rock. If you didn’t notice that the more conventionally attractive people at school had more popularity (even if they weren’t the nicest), especially among the opposite sex then you are oblivious. I didn’t need men to explicitly tell me that more…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:44 AM
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Don’t tell me what I have or haven’t experienced. I’ve had men act aggressively towards me and hurl insults at me when I was minding my business on public transport because of my appearance. You all truly underestimate how rude men are to women they don’t find attractive. A woman not wanting to be a approached by you or thinking your a weirdo or a creep isn’t the end of the world, don’t be dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:37 AM
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The boys in my school would let the pretty and popular girls get away with murder. They were shady, sometimes manipulative but because half the male population in my school had romantic feelings for them, they were given grace. I on the other hand was a plain jane, the boys in my school would occasionally be mean to me, sometimes completely unprovoked. I knew that I didn’t have the same level of privilege as these girls did. The lesson I took away from that experience was that people get treated…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:58 AM
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Do men not have social awareness? Do most of you not know how to read the room? Do you not watch any form of media? Did you not go to school? People greatly value physical beauty, success and confidence, I learned this in middle school. Society might say otherwise but it’s just one of those unwritten rules that everyone knows about. I swear, grown men are having mental breakdowns over concepts I came to terms with when I was a pre-teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:12 PM
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All that matters at the end of the day is whether or not your preferences prefer you back. If your butt ugly and you only date 10’s, what’s important here is if that 10 wants you back. If they do then there’s no reason to lower your standards, it doesn’t matter that they’re not your ‘looks match.’ People can complain that this isn’t fair but they should be promptly ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:29 PM
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I literally said at the beginning that most women date men who are a couple years older but not significantly older.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:54 PM
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Most women date and prefer men that are in their age range, perhaps a couple years older but not significantly older. Stop deluding yourself into thinking the average young woman is chasing after significantly older guys. And it’s other way around, once you have your fun with a bunch of hot young guys you go and look for an older man with more money to take care of you. If you ever surf through the sugar baby forum, a lot of them have what they call a ‘vanilla’ relationship, a casual relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:29 PM
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Past your mid twenties being a virgin with zero romantic experience just stops being cute, for both men and women. I’m saying this as a virgin myself and as someone who prefers virgin men. If I was dating a guy that was in his late-early twenties and he was still a virgin I would see that as so incredibly cute and adorable. However, If I came across a virgin that was 30+ I’d assume they had personal issues (social anxiety, mental illness, etc..), was extremely religious or asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:10 AM
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His 8 figure are only significant if it’s being spent on me if not he’s no different from any random guy off the street, he can come or go as he pleases. And sex is not the one way to gain life experience. He’s most definitely not at the same level as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:24 PM
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LMAO! What is this scenario? This all seems so incredibly far fetched and strange. Whatever I’ll play along, as a ‘young woman’ I would keep him around as long as he bought me whatever I wanted, if not I have no reason to be involved with him when there are probably more attractive men who are virgins in my age range. I don’t really care about his celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:27 PM
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Listen, I really don't care. You made an assertive claim, and that means you're stuck with the burden of proof. Either link your evidence, or I'm going to assume you're going off of vibes and feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:26 PM
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Intelligent people also use evidence and accurate research to support their arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:59 PM
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I asked for peer-reviewed scientific articles that support your original claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:56 PM
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I've heard of some obscure studies that claim birth control can make women want more "feminine" men. I don't know how true they are. I've never used birth control, and I tend to like pretty boys. I'm actually usually put off by men who look too "masculine" in appearance, with only a few exceptions. Sometimes, my taste in men varies a little depending on my cycle or mood, but not drastically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:45 PM
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Source? And when I say source, I mean peer-reviewed scientific articles, not random websites off the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:20 PM
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Rad fems don’t view porn as empowering. Neither is any form of sex work. And yes, majority of radfems are against trans people in sports. I guess you could say those are conservative views.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:03 AM
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Most radfems see porn as inherently bad and exploitative. As for religion, they view it as having been hijacked by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:53 PM
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Lol. Actually I agree with their stance on transgenderism or as they like to refer to it, gender ideology. I also agree with their stance on pornography and religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:47 PM
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Centrist, I guess. I wouldn’t call myself a radfem but I do agree with a majority of their beliefs. As to how that affects my dating preferences, I refuse to date a man that’s far left or far right. I prefer men who are either apolitical or moderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:03 PM
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What if it's a situation where no friends are around? Like I said I might strike up a casual conversation. What's your opinion on men that buy women drinks? I don't have one. It's your money, not mine. Why is this a hard no? From what I've seen and heard men don't like it. It makes them feel emasculated and coerced. The same goes for when a woman pressures them to propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:44 PM
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I'm just going to go through these questions and tell you if I would personally see myself doing something like that. Approaching men: I don't think I'd ever directly cold approach like men like to do. However, I could see myself asking a friend to introduce me or perhaps initiating a casual conversation. Buying men drinks: My family tells me I'm cheap so I'm certainly not going around spending my money on random men. If it was a close friend or someone I'm in a long term relationship with then …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:25 PM
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“Brainwashed” lol. Both men and women are naturally influenced by the environment around them. I’m sure if they grew up in a hyper conservative environment they’d be marching to a different tune, would you still consider them brainwashed if the scripts were flipped? This is just how socialization works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:01 AM
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Conservative women want conservative men how is this shocking? Obviously you’re going to be more compatible and find more success with women who share similar values.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:47 AM
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Lol, this is all the entirety of the manopshere talks about day in and day out. Don't lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:37 PM
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What's on purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:04 PM
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Agreed. There’s something inherently masculine about younger men. Their youth, explosive energy and virility are all so magnetic and appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:38 AM
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Most older men don’t have enough money to make up for their lack of physical appeal. Sorry, not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:33 AM
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Nowhere here am I describing anti-social personality disorder. You are all doing mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:29 AM
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No I’m not. Where did I say that? In fact this comment confirms what I’ve been saying. A marker of shyness is a lack of social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:28 AM
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I just find the whole TRP outlook on age gap relationships to be strange tbh. The first time I was ever approached was when I was 18 by a man in his 40s-50s and I vividly remember disgust violently rippling through my body. I’ve never been one of those girls who found older men attractive, I just don’t see their appeal. Guys in their late teens-early twenties will always be superior when it comes to physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:31 AM
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KHHV (Kissless, Hugless, Hand-holdless, virgin) basically someone who has pretty much zero romantic experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:27 PM
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I’m sorry but virgin women don’t live under a rock. We just haven’t had sex yet, we aren’t sheltered babies. Most of us have consumed some form of erotic content. Most of us have masturbated, we know what an orgasm feels like, we know what pleasure feels like and we know that sex is supposed to feel good. If you think that we just aren’t going to notice that sex with you doesn’t feel good and we aren’t going to have some level of disappointment you are sorely mistaken. If you think we don’t have…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:06 PM
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I (sorta) dislike men and I’m a KHHV. Some of the most militant misandrist I’ve ever met were virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:50 PM
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I’m sorry what are you even disagreeing with me on? How am I confusing anti-social with shy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:46 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/4cgws9pHYL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:17 PM
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The Oxford definition of shy: “being reserved or having or showing nervousness or timidity in the company of other people.” Most shy people aren’t the best communicators because of how timid and nervous they are around other people isn’t this common knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:07 PM
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They let sex workers come on their show to promote their services to their audience. Despite their firm no simping rule and apparent dislike of promiscuous women, overnight these women’s only fans will be flooded with a host of new subscribers. Most of which I assume coming from fresh and fit’s own fans. It’s so weird, it almost defeats the point of their message.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:00 PM
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Walters ex had an account on there, didn’t she? I think he met her through there and was paying her for a while. He was confronted about it on the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:51 PM
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Yeah. I remember Myron (fit) got exposed for having an account on seeking.com (an escort/sugar baby website). He reached out to a girl on there and when he couldn’t afford her personal prices he let her come on his show for promo for her onlyfans. Walters (fresh) ex girlfriend also had an account on there. For a group of men who despise ’simping’ and promiscuous women, they don’t seem to mind paying for and surrounding themselves with sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:45 PM
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Fresh and fit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:32 PM
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Weren’t they caught using sugar daddy/escort websites to get girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:55 PM
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You need to be able socialize to form social bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:24 AM
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I never said obesity is beautiful nor did I ever defend it. I don’t need you to write me a essay on the the risks of obesity or explain to me why it is an undesirable trait, that’s common knowledge. Acknowledging that that some overweight people can be facially conventionally attractive isn’t glorifying obesity or pushing a so-called ‘woke’ agenda, stop overreacting. The person I was responding to automatically assumed that ugly meant overweight, when those aren’t exactly mutually inclusive term…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:29 AM
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Me personally, I don’t mind. I’m pretty shy and quiet myself so a man that has those qualities would be a pretty good fit for me. However, at the end of the day you need adequate social skills to form connections with people. When you are shy and quiet you are easily overlooked and deemed unremarkable, I’m speaking from experience. If you can’t properly communicate with people, people aren’t going to be jumping at the chance to talk to you unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:59 AM
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Whatever. That might be your opinion but fat and ugly are objectively two completely different terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:09 AM
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You can be overweight and still be conventionally attractive in the face. Ashley Graham and Precious Lee are great examples, they are plus sized but facially they are stunning. Just because you are average/skinny sized doesn’t mean your automatically pretty and going to have men falling all over you, I have no idea where you all got this idea from.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:02 AM
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She said ugly girls not fat women. Those two terms are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:55 PM
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Yes, in school. There was a group of extremely pretty and popular girls that all the boys let get away with murder. They did a bunch of shady and manipulative things but because half of the boys had a crush on them they never faced any backlash for their actions. They would play with their feelings and walk all over them but these boys just let them. They honestly did whatever they said. If these girls said jump the boys would say ‘how high?’ Me being a plain Jane could never get away with half …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:19 PM
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Female. These are all nonnegotiable when it comes to dating. Age. They have to be close in age. I refuse to date a man that’s significantly older than me (more than 4 years.) Values. We must have similar values, life goals and things in common. Doesn’t have to look like a model but I should have some baseline attraction to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:25 PM
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Not exactly. You can be a more feminine man and still exhibit social awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:56 PM
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No, it’s because they have a harder time understanding social cues and are generally lacking social skills. This isn’t necessarily their fault but it matters a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:50 PM
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Female Hmm, I’d say both! I want him to obviously share similar qualities as me but also make up for the areas that I lack in. I’m pretty introverted, so I’d prefer it if my partner was someone who also kept to himself. On the other hand I’m the kind of a person who is shy, I can be a little bit unsure of myself at times so I’d prefer if they were assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:03 PM
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Me personally, I do both. I think you accept the reality that men tend to be more promiscuous and women tend to be more hypergamous while also maintaining moral standards and without enabling bad behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:40 PM
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“Muh biology!” That pretty much sums up most of the answers you will get. All of men’s bad behaviour (such as cheating and promiscuity) will be explained away as an innate facet of their biology and is therefore natural or inevitable. Ironically this grace never seems to extend to female behaviour’s and habits, then all of a sudden it’s something that needs to be controlled, eradicated and suppressed. The vicious hatred men have towards so-called ‘hypergamy,’ the ‘dual mating strategy’ and ‘mate…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:16 PM
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No they don't. Once these wives decide they no longer want to cook, clean, or have sex men's so-called 'unconditional love' disappears. There's a reason why men are more likely to quickly move on after the death of a spouse or leave them when they become terminally ill and can no longer perform these duties. Men are just as shallow, don't try and act holier-than-thou.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:25 PM
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No, actually I prefer them. I'm inexperienced myself so having someone on my level sounds very comforting. But for women who are more experienced, they might prefer someone on their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:46 PM
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I used to think the average penis size was 7-9 inches, but I guess that’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:16 PM
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I know but I’d probably still end up resenting it, as it acts like a permanent anchor. It’s fucked up but I just know that’s how I’d feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:09 AM
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Everyone has fears , especially when relationships. No one wants to be taken for granted, it doesn’t mean you have low self esteem. You don’t strike me as a healthy person so I’ll take your advice with a grain of salt. Next time a men on here complain about how he’s afraid he is about ending up in a relationship with a woman who isn’t who he thought she was, doesn’t love him as much as he thought she did or being used as an ATM, I’ll be sure to apply the same logic and tell him how it’s his low …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:05 AM
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I’ve never said anything like this and you are reading too much into this. I was very clear that these are my personal inner fears, I didn’t realize I need a thesis outlining the steps I’m going to take to going to circumvent this from happening. Like fucking obviously I am going to do everything in my power to not end up in that situation?!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:35 AM
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First of all I never said any of this, this is completely far off from what I’ve said. I stated my fear very plainly which was wasting my time being with a man for years who didn’t appreciate me or love me as much as I thought he did, who wasn’t the man who I thought he was. You all are so hung up on the bang-maid part you all completely missed my point. It was a hyperbole, a fucking exaggeration.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:29 AM
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No, I’d never be with a man who has kids. Multiple women in my family have gotten into long term relationships with men who had children while they were young and childless and I want no parts of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:20 AM
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These fears come from watching the women closest in my life and their current relationships, we don’t live the a same life so don’t tell me what is or is not based in reality. Secondly how am I seeing myself as an object? That makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:57 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:05 PM
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As long as I have a couple of friends and some money, then I can see myself living a pretty good life. I'd travel and go to nice restaurants often.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:27 PM
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Nothing about this has to do with my fertility, I have no idea where you got that from. Like I said, my main fear comes from being stuck slaving away for a man and children that I don't want. I'd rather be childless and single than choose a life like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:13 PM
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I can only speak for myself, and I don't really have any experience dating, but i still want to comment. I'd say my greatest fear is getting my time wasted or getting stuck in a less than ideal situation. I don't want to be blinded by emotions only to find out that the man that I'm with isn't who I thought he was once the rose tinted glasses come off. I don't want to wake up and realize I've wasted years on a man by being his personal bang-maid, and even if I do leave him, I'm stuck raising his …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:21 PM
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Your right they most likely aren’t going to be upfront but I believe there’s a way to communicate that message in a way that’s perhaps a bit more subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:08 PM
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I would never let this happen to me if I had money but I’ll just play along. Depends if they were up front from the start or if they just used false pretences. If they were upfront then I would make peace with it as long as he’s fulfilling his role in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:41 PM
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I’m willing…only if you’ll help me later on with something.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 10:33 PM
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You can’t read anybody’s mind but if you wait long enough, once they open their mouths that would probably give it away. The tactics and language they use when speaking to you will be a tell tale sign. Honestly just going off of the men in this and similar forums and their complete lack of social skills, I genuinely don’t think like half of them are eloquent or smooth enough to flawlessly incorporate Redpill tactics into their game in a way that’s subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:17 PM
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Most people are very homogeneous when it comes to dating and will marry within their socio-economic class/circle. There’s a reason why nobility (regardless of gender) only married other blue bloods throughout history. Just because some random man with a podcast told you that ‘high value men’ don’t care about a woman’s occupation/status doesn’t make it true, in fact it’s quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:58 PM
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