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Same with K. He told me early on "I don't date girls who smoke. You've been smoking a lot longer than we've been together, so take some time to think about it and let me know." And believe it or not, I've never regretted trading smokes for my most amazing partner :P
/r/RedPillWives29/06/16 07:38 PM
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Yes I know :)
/r/RedPillWives28/06/16 05:22 PM
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I've been dreading this post, it's really hard to say. Sober, I'm on my A game. But it's come to my attention over the last two weeks that I am struggling with alcohol in a big and serious way, and it's time for me to make significant changes in my life. Last weekend, I drunkenly told K that he doesn't love me the way I need to be loved, just like a stranger passing on the sidewalk. He told me this the next morning. This is completely absurd to me because there's not even a fraction of a piece o…
/r/RedPillWives28/06/16 05:09 PM
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My poor bujo has gone neglected since April. I need to simplify my layouts so I stick with it. I'm bad about pressuring myself and then I dread creating the next month's layout!
/r/RedPillWives16/06/16 07:08 PM
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Jumping on the hangry train! I mentioned to K once that I was getting hungry. I don't think either of us realized I was at hangry status yet. He starts looking through the pantry, asking if I'd like some nuts, crackers, any little snack that was in there. I looked at him deadpan and said "K. SNACKS. ARE NOT. FOOD." The second it came out of my mouth I felt like such a turd and apologized over and over again. He just laughed at me and got me real food. But he's never let me live it down.
/r/RedPillWives15/06/16 06:43 PM
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This happened to me very recently, actually. I found out roundabout that some girls I used to be friends with mocked me because "K is turning her into this weird perfect little housewife." It ruffled my feathers for a brief moment, but then I looked at where the criticism was coming from. Was it from women whose shoes I'd like to live in? No. Women with happy relationships? Definitely not. Were these women even happy and stable in their female friendships? No. Sometimes when a woman sees another…
/r/RedPillWives10/06/16 08:05 PM
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My sister shared this to her husband's wall with the cry smiley laugh face and said it was just like them.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/16 08:08 PM
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Look up Bullet Journals on Pinterest or YouTube! I didn't realize how much more productive and motivated I could be until I started this system. There is even a Facebook group about them. It's the most useful hobby I have! :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 10:14 PM
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The Good K was thrilled with the surprise vacation we are taking for his birthday Thursday. Seeing him so happy was wonderful, and we had such a great weekend together. The Bad New kitten killed sex life. She's kept us up for so many nights in a row; she's like a needy newborn. We are so tired and I'm trying, but obviously I'm not going to push him when he just needs to rest. Because we've been so exhausted I've really been off my game- eating out instead of cooking, haven't set or accomplished …
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 08:57 PM
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I try to give RPW advice where I can. Most of my friends who are in relationships are happy though. Usually it only comes up if someone says something about "How are you and K so happy all the time!" and then I chime in with whatever seems valuable to the person asking. Like the others, I don't mention RPW or use terminology outside of one instance with one of my closest friends. Yup, we talk about it. I think at first he was a little iffy on the subject but when he realized that I was aligning …
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 08:46 PM
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I exclusively wear a high Manhattan, it's become somewhat of a trademark for me. I feel so fabulous wearing them! Leg Avenue carries one similar to the style I wear (actually lots of these styles, but they are pretty low quality) and Unique Vintage also has a great selection of seamed/heeled tights if that's what you're into.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 04:33 PM
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Well said, CoochQuarantine! And also impotant to note, a feminine disposition, even in the face of adversity and disagreement, is every single bit (if not more) important than a feminine look. NO man will think less of a woman for being tactful and acting with grace- so do it!!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 03:24 PM
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Don't misunderstand- I smoke occasionally, and am bisexual. I acknowledge that some men might not be alright with that. In fact my husband was vehemently anti-pot when we met. But I brought loads to the table with him, and made him know I was 100% willing to quit smoking for him, and I did for years until he brought it up to me. There isn't one right formula for a woman, or a relationship. That being said, if you don't want your identity to be as a smoker, or a rave girl, or a party girl, you ha…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 01:03 AM
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Regarding you post history, there are some things you might want to consider from an outside perspective. You mention going to raves, waking and baking, wanting advice for approaching women in bars, a child (which you didn't mention in your OP, and is critically important). Are you projecting an image of someone with their life together? Whether or not your life is together and you know that, you have to consider the image you are projecting because that's all someone who doesn't know you has to…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 10:05 PM
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That... is not punk...
/r/askTRP15/12/15 08:56 PM
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My husband and I met at a concert after a big local car show he had one of his cars in. For our one year anniversary (which we consider the night we met, as we were inseparable from the first day), he told me he'd booked a hotel room at my favorite boutique hotel for the car show. I had an idea he was going to propose, but not when or how. He wanted to do it up on the roof of the hotel but thought there were too many people up there and got nervous, so he snapped my picture and then we went back…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/15 04:47 PM
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This is really beautiful and special :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/15 04:42 PM
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That's great, I love your story!
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/15 04:41 PM
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My meal planning is really getting back on track, as well as my efforts to "set the environment" for when my husband gets home. I try to make sure the floor is swept, lamps are lit, and the house smells good whether it's dinner on the stove, or a candle burning. I am still struggling with my behavior when I'm tipsy. I feel like I don't put the best version of myself out the after a few drinks, and I don't like feeling like I'm poorly representing my husband or myself. For now I'm just limiting/e…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/15 12:07 AM
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Hotrods! Cooking, lifting, sewing, antiquing, thrift shopping, estate sales, lots and lots of concerts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 05:05 PM
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I would say it's the opposite for me. I eat right, work out, and take care to look nice. I think I gravitated towards these views (prior to knowing that TRP was even a thing) because it just felt natural to me. I felt best about myself, my relationship, and my life in general when I started actively seeking to make my husband happy and fulfilled. I represent my husband as the woman he has chosen to create a life with, and for all the things he's given me, I owe him nothing less than to be the be…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 09:56 PM
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if you want to be different, be feminine. It's amazing how hard that is for people to understand! And it's amusing watching how much being a feminine woman intimidates people who pride themselves on intimidating others.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 05:49 PM
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I've been lurking for maybe a month or so. I actually found the sub because in another post somewhere, someone mentioned the "poor brainwashed women" of RPW. I was curious what RPW would be like, considering some of the nasty things I've seen posted by and about TRP. I started by navigating the top posts of all time (after the sidebar posts), as I figured those were the most collectively impactful posts to speak for the community. I was surprised to find myself very much in agreement with most o…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/15 05:04 PM
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