FeministLovely Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	Excellent thread on why sex work will never be empowering, no matter how much libfems want it to be. It’s a man’s game. I never said it should be an unregulated market. Yes they need protection, yes they need help. It's very easy to say it's harmful and damaging and then provide no viable solutions. This post only addresses the problem, never the solutions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/21 09:22 AM
-25	Excellent thread on why sex work will never be empowering, no matter how much libfems want it to be. It’s a man’s game. Ok but what's the solution? To ban it? Can we collectively disappear it in ANY reasonable timeline? Are we or are we not in a patriarchy? Can the millions of women and girl currently engaging in it suddenly be educated women with a job and savings in the bank? Can y'all personally make sure of it? Sex work IS work. It's not really a choice for most of those women, but removing legal protections from them only makes their job even more unsafe; it furthers stigma; and it keeps the power with depra…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/21 08:06 AM
39	The “Menstrual Cycle of Abuse” 😂😂😂 Ladies, don't fuck men who don't fuck women while they're on their periods. If he cannot handle your working anatomy for 5-6 days a month, idk what to tell you. Doesn't sound like a guy that accepts women at all. For ciswomen, this is part of who we are, and if he's not OK with that, why should you be OK with him? I've got ADHD and love anything that shortens the amount of time needed for foreplay. Fuck the men that are happy to see you gush because they know that means the orgasm was strong. Th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/21 05:12 PM
60	A TERRORIST murdered five people in the UK. Women should learn a lesson. (Context in comments) I'm sorry but this his hilarious. I swear ta GAWD, some stupid incel could murder 100 men while shouting: THE ACTIONS OF ALL MEN AND MEN ONLY LED ME TO THIS, and some ignorant fuck like the one above would say something along the lines of: "It's because there was an absence of women in his life that this poor lost soul found himself in this sad predicament." I have complex PTSD from the sexual abuse men and men alone caused. Do you see me killing people? No. Will you see me kill people? Nope. Do…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/21 11:54 PM
46	PSA: Queen’s can read bullshitters like the back of their hand. Not everyone is who they claim to be online and not everyone crying wolf or tugging on your heartstrings is genuine. Learn to think for yourself and critically assess information👑 I recently had a guy here tell me he was rich, a feminist, and into a lot of shit I was in. 1)Not true 2)He thought I would've suddenly picked up the responsibility of the conversation, well no, you can be ripped muscular millionaire Jesus reincarnate and if you don't put in the effort to get to know me, I won't. The principles still apply even when they say the right things so badly put they're found out in three convos flat. Only be interested in the men that are interested in you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/21 06:19 AM
79	If human men courted women the way animals do They worship Darwin and sUrViVaL oF tHe FiTtEsT and don't realize that down this path, they won't get to reproduce. When even animals are putting in more effort, you know it's bad. smh	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/21 01:28 AM
236	Men On Reddit Do This As Well 😂😂 sHe DeSeRvEs NoThInG! In the meantime she parented the guy and singlehandedly raised their children, but I mean, housework and parenting, that's nothing, she should be honored she even got the chance! Edit: I forgot, and free emotional labor! First line of assistance for the children's physical/learning/cognitive disabilities! But requesting what's ours (alimony) immediately grants us gold-digging status so...know your place, ladies!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/21 10:46 AM
51	Why LVM love walk/hike/coffee dates But LVM prefer the coffee date, because it allows them to look at our full bodies and decide how much they'll pretend to respect us according to our perceived hotness. Haha, I love you! I swear to GAWD, men think we're born yesterday. And some more news: even pick-mes and what not know this and just choose to dance their little dance with them. I don't, getting off the low-rent pony. Thanks but no thanks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/21 09:50 PM
45	Reminder ✨ You wanna know why HVM rarely make apologies? Because they're not constantly hurting us, ergo they don't need to. If someone is apologizing to you more than actually interacting with you, cut your losses short and move on. Let us be, in this regard, more like them. May our actions speak louder than our words ever could.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/21 12:26 AM
15	It is NOT elitist to treat your friendship as an exclusive invitation to the world’s most important club. How “pickmes” reproduce toxic behavior. On “Pickme” energy, “friendship” breadcrumbing, digital boundaries and vetting other women for friendship. Thank for this. People that want to pop in and out of your life, idk what they think, but I know they're not worthy of my time, much less affection.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/21 11:48 PM
15	Criteria for assessing a man's social media Don't worry too much about it. Recently I saw a post here that said usually flags come in groups! So it's ok to miss one, you know he's one insincere fuck when he starts any sentence with "let me prove xyz". Honest people just let their actions speak, and are confident with who they are. Those who have to be coooonstantly explaining themselves...yeah, there's a reason for that. And don't be afraid to block! Why give him the opportunity to change your mind? And if you're afraid of retaliation, tr…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/21 01:40 PM
20	I did it, thanks to FDS I have a good ex and a bad ex. The bad one started treatment but he was already violent, so I had to bounce. The good ex never started treatment (for Avoidant Personality Disorder and a potential ASD diagnosis -being on the spectrum). He was affectionate and caring, and incapable of being accountable for his errors during arguments. Both had to go. One for obvious reasons, and the other one for not being good enough (for me). I cannot stand it when people do not admit "I fucked up". And you don'…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/21 11:18 PM
35	I thought I’d share this meme from another subreddit 😂 Ugh, YES. And you spend more time separating the obvious assholes from the maybe-assholes, than actually finding men that may have a decent profile. Even before I found this subreddit I was taking a Tinder break, but then I saw it was recommended here too and I 100% agree. Besides, I want a partner. Not an OLD situation, not a LDR either. So if I'm serious, I'll just start taking more local activities. No more Tinder for me, please and thank you. Edit: grammar	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/21 11:44 AM