Fenino Archive

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1	Are any of you teetotal? Yeah I don’t know if it’s because of the lifestyle change or something but my friends had weird ass reactions when I said this 😂 Thought I was depressed or pregnant and wouldn’t let me enjoy my lemonade in peace haha.	/r/seduction	05/07/21 10:49 PM
1	Are any of you teetotal? Yeah exactly, I’m happy as Larry without the booze! Sobriety gave me the joy that alcohol promised me, but didn’t provide. Makes me want to preach to people when they ask haha.	/r/seduction	05/07/21 10:43 PM
1	Are any of you teetotal? Haha yeah I’ve noticed it’s more so when people are getting drunk they interrogate me, when they’re already drunk they’re too sloshed to care at all! I guess it’s true that misery loves company 😅	/r/seduction	05/07/21 08:09 AM
1	Are any of you teetotal? That second example is a good line, I’m gonna have to steal that! It’s a nightmare because everyone in the vicinity seems to pick up on this, gonna have to prep a lot of ambiguous jokes to get me through the night lol	/r/seduction	04/07/21 10:23 PM
2	Why does being direct with a woman with about what you want almost never work? Well just think of how the situation might have potentially worked out if it were reversed. In my head I’m imagining something like this: A random woman starts making small talk with you out in public, you’re probably just gonna respond to be polite, you have no real investment in this conversation. Suddenly she might ask you out for a drink, but let’s say you’re not even into her, there’s no attraction there and you don’t really know her at all... so why would you say yes to the randomer? There…	/r/seduction	13/05/21 04:43 PM
2	Validating on social media, yes or no? Got’cha! Haha right you are, I’m overthinking this far too much... Thank you so much for your responses 🙏	/r/seduction	09/04/21 12:03 PM
2	Validating on social media, yes or no? Ah I see, so just being a little scarce with my reactions. The “content” that is being uploaded is selfies haha, which is why I’m kind of refraining here. In my mind, reacting to selfies is nothing but an ego-feed, which may ultimately make me another beta lining up?	/r/seduction	09/04/21 11:47 AM
1	Validating on social media, yes or no? Thanks for your response! Sorry yes, I am female. Typically it’s selfies that get posted on social media, so I didn’t really want to jump on the validation wagon and become a number amongst the likes - but don’t want to seem completely uninterested either! I’m thinking just avoid media and wait until our next outing to escalate instead?	/r/seduction	09/04/21 11:36 AM
2	What if you’re a social trainwreck? Fair point, I’m more so just referring to frame of mind here. A negative attitude won’t assist the action you intend on doing 🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/seduction	03/10/20 03:50 PM
2	What if you’re a social trainwreck? Yupp, maybe I’m shite at baseball indeed. But to tell myself that I can’t do something or can’t improve and that I’m terrible is quite a defeatist mentality in my opinion.	/r/seduction	01/10/20 11:24 PM
40	What if you’re a social trainwreck? I’d probably start by not thinking of yourself as not very interesting or likeable! Your frame of mind will reflect in your interactions. “If you are lonely when you’re alone, you are in bad company” Take some time just to be with yourself, not needing to be validated by anyone. Our egos are obsessed with needing to be constantly praised and loved, try not to feed into negative perceptions of yourself. Everyone is on their own path, so the only person you really need to be comfortable with is yo…	/r/seduction	01/10/20 10:42 AM
1	[deleted by user] Oh yeah I get that, I’ve got plenty of selfies with absolute randomers on drunken nights out. A sober stranger confessing his attraction and then whipping the camera out in a parking lot to get a selfie just comes across more suspicious to me though 😅 I’d probably at least wait until after a date, if she decides she even wants to go on one.	/r/seduction	01/09/20 10:03 PM
95	[deleted by user] I like the confidence, however I have to agree that taking a photo is a bit odd. If some dude I’ve just met decided to take a selfie with me, I’d assume that I’m either about to end up in a stranger’s wank bank or he’s planning on kidnapping me...	/r/seduction	01/09/20 10:45 AM
1	Chatting with a quiet girl. Tips to help her open up? My dumb ass thought she was easy peel! Thanks, I’ll give that a go.	/r/seduction	13/08/20 10:19 AM
1	Chatting with a quiet girl. Tips to help her open up? Ah you see, she does ask me questions too, but I feel like I’m being very selfish in conversation! I’ll ask her something and... nothing. I feel like I’m struggling to get that bit of rapport first before taking her away from the work place 😩	/r/seduction	12/08/20 09:02 PM