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Social IssuesFentonious8/r/MensRights05/11/21 05:25 AM
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You're right about that, you're doing it for yourselves, in order to deceive men, so that you can land the most desirable one.
/r/seduction08/09/22 02:13 AM
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Other than women who married their high school sweetheart, I don't know a single one who has below 5
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:15 PM
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What's wrong with me? Dude, you're smitten. You have a crush my guy.
/r/seduction07/09/22 12:09 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:58 AM
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Maybe he means men's emotional validation is obtained through observation of actions, whereas women's emotional validation is obtained through more verbal avenues?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:42 AM
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They may not ask women, but they certainly discuss it with other men, especially if the woman has a history that might span multiple people in the social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:37 AM
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Like think about how easy it is for them to rack up numbers. If they have sex with just one new guy every 4 months, which isn't slutty at all. They can have over 50+ by the time they're 30. One slutty year just adds soooooo many dicks to her count.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:26 AM
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The 60 in one year thing is definitely not normal. But what I've found is that a good way to guesstimate a girls number is just multiply the amount of years older she is than 18 by 3. So if she's 25, she has at least 20 dudes, unless you can verify LTR status
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:24 AM
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Honestly man, most of the girls I've known growing up had body counts around there or higher. It's really easy for them to rack it up. One girl I know had like 60 in a year. Basically a new dude every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:14 AM
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Which are all questions if asked, won't get you to hate them. The reason they don't ask the other question is because they know that it will ruin any chances they have. Even if they don't care anymore by their 30s, they still are curious and would probably definitely like to know the amount if they thought the person wouldn't care to answer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:08 AM
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Exactly, every month that goes by is just more time for them to rack up those numbers. Trust me, after 25, you'll stop worrying because you'll know that their number will be high after that point. Unless she's been in an LTR since she left high school. And at that point, most girls will have a slut phase after their first LTR. So if you're not there in the first couple weeks, forget about it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:58 AM
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Men stop asking because we know you'll never be honest with us, and we also know that there's a good chance it'll ruin any chances we have just by asking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:56 AM
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What value would men have if they constantly over valued stuff? If someone I know was always talking about how good hot dogs and fast food was and how the epitome of gourmet was chicken nuggets, I would think he's an idiot who can't see true value or quality. Same thing with relationships. If you constantly overvalue women, then that shows a lot about how valuable you are yourself. A steak would never rate a meatball as high quality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:49 AM
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Yes we do. That's why we think a high partner count is gross, because gross dudes (all of us) have been in there. We know how much guys don't care what they stick it in. So we assume the higher the count, the more likely she is to have an STI.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:45 AM
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30+ at 21? Run bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:43 AM
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They don't even do that anymore. Half of them take hormones to disrupt their cycle. One girl I know bleeds like twice a year. They're messing everything up. The other half just aborts them whenever they want so no childbirth pains either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:34 AM
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Sounds like your solution also happens to be to do exactly what women want. So again, they get everything they want, and we just have to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:20 AM
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Because it's our only option. If men don't have relationships, they get ZERO love and affection from society as a whole, meanwhile women can go without romantic affection and will still have social safety nets for emotional release and communal bonding. Society is designed this way on purpose. Deny men affection, so that they have to be productive for society, so that women will give them affection. This way society gets all their stuff built for them. Meanwhile, women can choose to do nothing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:13 PM
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And if those women were millionaire supermodels, they'd rate men even more harshly than they already do. That's not a point. You have to look at averages. But yes, you're right, women are already born with everything they need to be desirable. And they require all these things of men , and still are pickier. The man brings way more to the table and yet gets rejected at much higher rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:42 PM
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There definitely are. That's why it's imperative that women, as the accepters or rejectors of sexual and emotional relationships, need to be extra good at filtering for these types of dudes. They need to be able to read men better. Because if these types of men are constantly being rewarded at young ages for their behavior, then other men will see this success and think it makes sense for them to behave this way as well, since it's more successful than their strategy. So if women just universall…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:36 PM
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I think you're underestimating how much women filter for looks as well. Studies have shown women rate the majority of men as unattractive while most men rate women with a much more standard bell curve figure. But society is stuck on these outdated stereotypes of how men and women operate. Men are much more likely to find average women attractive, than women are to find average men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:17 PM
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Men are starved for emotional connection. Most want a partner to share things with, be with them, to navigate the world together, and yes, this means sex as well. It's all part of being emotionally and physically nurtured. Most of the men who I know who society consider incels are just ones that want a life partner, not just "a hole". But what happens is normal and attractive people are allowed to display their sexuality and are allowed to express their desires, while unattractive/undesirable me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:43 PM
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Women want a man who doesn't need them, and don't want men who do need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:25 PM
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Women are bad at communication and conversation, but society doesn't expect them to be because they don't reward/punish their good/bad communication skills, at least from a dating perspective, not from a career perspective. They overestimate how interesting they are when speaking to people. Most women are worse at texting than men and put way less effort, they just aren't scolded for their comments, and are rewarded with interaction and intimacy despite their lackluster communication skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:17 PM
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Women treat uglier men more harshly, and in a public way, when rejecting them, in order to signal to society that they are above this person socially; in order for everyone around them to notice that this man is below her and should not have approached her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:14 PM
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From my experience, I've seen so many of my peers do the exact cliche of spending their 20s in these patterns of hooking up with more attractive guys, guys that show no more interest in them than just as a sexual object, the very thing women claim they don't want to be seen as, yet reward those men that do see them as that. Meanwhile, the less attractive, less upwardly social men who want relationships and are looking for a forever partner get rejected for a decade or so, only to be considered o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:05 PM
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Because the woman in this scenario isn't getting with the man because she desired him and they're really compatible. She got with him because she already had her fun with other guys and gave them what they wanted, so now she figured she'll pick a safe guy who possibly makes a good living in order to extract resources for herself, meanwhile, she'll feel like she's already given her fun self so she'll be more restrained with the husband. So he gets used and doesn't get her at her best
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:44 PM
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So women want things in the end, whereas men want a person. I wonder which is more noble? Desiring material goods or desiring human connection?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:31 PM
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Instructions unclear How do I get mace to stop burning?
/r/seduction05/09/22 08:26 AM
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Only because we're accustomed to one and not the other. I find women's makeup, eyelashes, bras, shape countering body wraps, etc, pretty sad
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:22 AM
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Well somehow, I and every fat man in the world seem to not need a bra to obscure our nipples or prevent back pain, despite us also having large stomachs. I guess the deceptive advantage it gives you is just a forethought. Just like the other several ways women use to change their appearance
/r/seduction05/09/22 05:00 AM
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Well you're giving me no actual reasons as to why women would use it that would make sense to me
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:50 AM
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The same purpose as the boob stuff. Deception
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:28 AM
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I mean, they do it all the time with bra padding
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:45 AM
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Bro, date only women who are 5'4 or shorter. That way, even without the shoes, you're half a foot bigger, they won't notice
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:45 AM
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Women: "There aren't any good men. So I'm going to remain single and work on myself and my career" Society: "Yes queen. Slay. Get that bag" Men: "There aren't any good women. So I'm going to remain single and work on myself and my career" Society: "What a loser. He only cares about himself. Misogynist!"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:23 AM
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Just like incels are a tiny portion of the manosphere and should not be viewed as representative of all menanites
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:12 AM
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Sure. Just go to FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:50 AM
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Just like most men don't want feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:57 PM
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I think the wall is 35. After that age is when the fertility really drops for women. You also severely increase the risk of birth defects past that age. My SIL had two kids in her early 30s and is now attempting for a 3rd at 36 and it's been almost a year of trying with no luck so far. She's even getting fertility treatments
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:54 PM
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I mean, getting a social circle is great advice, but one thing they don't mention is that the same social circle that elevates your chances by signaling to the opposite sex that you're a fun and outgoing person with friends, is also the same social circle that will now be your main competition when finding a mate. Guys in friends groups are constantly directly and indirectly battling each other for the same girls. In my experience, you're more likely to have a friend or acquaintance "steal" the …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:32 AM
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To the Greeks, it's called Agape, ἀγάπη and it means the love God has for a person
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:16 PM
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People's entire existences are a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:00 AM
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So then 99.99% of women should not be forgiven because no woman in history has ever accurately claimed their weight
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:48 PM
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Source on the photo says Nov 2021, right before they put it behind a paywall
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:45 PM
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Looksmax strategy is solid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:31 AM
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Yeah, many studies have shown people tend to date and marry others who look like them more than not. Same thing with short men, our society fetishizes abnormally tall men, so that it's almost a cliche that the shorter the girl, the taller her man. So if 5'1 women won't even date 5'5 dudes, and all the tall ones get them. And certainly normal and tall women won't date them, then who? The problem is our society's insistence on worshiping certain types of looks as trends, ironically, in the name of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:21 AM
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Smaller people don't have to be attracted to fatter ones. That's the point of fat people, they are supposed to date each other. But this body positivity nonsense the last 10 years, that's directed solely at women, has made it so now fat women also want smaller men. So now there's no one for the fat men. This crap they're feeding women about their bodies is throwing the balance of the dating scene out of whack
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:05 AM
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But it's not that they have to date them, it's that they're sleeping with them a few times in between dating the girls they want. This gives fat women undeserved confidence and an inflated ego. They now think that this must be the level of attractiveness in a man that they can obtain, and think "I deserve this" and that the dudes that are on their same level of fitness are now beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:31 AM
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I agree. I've been rejected by many, many, fat women, for being fat myself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:27 AM
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for sure, and not only does looking good provide the halo effect where your bad traits are interpreted as good ones, but if you're not attractive, positive traits get interpreted as negative ones. Example would be the same behavior or personality trait being seen as confidence coming from an attractive person, but arrogance coming from an ugly one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:52 AM
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Looks are the initial prerequisite. Looks aren't the end all be all, as long as you're above a certain threshold of attractiveness. And once you cross this threshold, then all the other factors become what matter, but if You're not above a certain level of attractiveness, then it doesn't matter what any of these other traits are, 99.99% of people are going to reject you upon site.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:40 AM
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I've never heard of someone getting friend zoned by a restaurant before
/r/TheRedPill15/04/22 11:22 AM
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I mean, don't get me wrong, there are people that are way worse off. But it's very hard to find joy in life when a sizable proportion of people look at you and treat you with disdain. Especially when I was growing up. People aren't openly hostile or anything like that. No one wants to accidentally anger an ogre. It's subtle, but glaringly obvious, especially if there are other people around you to notice the differences in interactions from the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:38 PM
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Like this generation says, "you just have to believe and you can accomplish anything" or whatever other toxicly positive aphorism you want
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:59 PM
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Lol. Try being fat and having a scar on your head. Straight up, like 25% of people upon seeing me, make a slight face. Its hard to overcome that kind of first impression. Before you even say a word, people view you negatively, they're not open to getting to know you. Anything you say gets filtered through a negative lens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:52 PM
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Joseph and Mary are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:44 PM
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Why do you think the religions of the world mandated monogamy and chastity for the most part. They knew this would happen, granted, in a more localized setting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 03:50 PM
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Because it turns out that unless you shame society into monogamous relationships at the onset of adulthood, that most of those people will get to hate each other once they've screwed each other over several times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:19 AM
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It's all just sarcasm. "ohhhh myyyy goddddddd, it's so great to see you". They never mean it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:09 AM
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It's also because they don't have to try really if they don't want to. Most of them have plenty of dudes going after them so they don't have to build up ways to impress a dude other than their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:29 AM
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Personal excess of monarchs is a trope throughout history, almost every single one lives a lavish lifestyle in comparison to their subjects, especially in more modern times. Obviously there is more than one reason for large events like the fall of empires plans monarchs, but one substantial factor that I know about is the ottoman line of succession plans, and that is that there was basically no clearly defined process. Essentially, it was up for grabs to any of the Sultans sons, usually the firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:30 PM
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It wasn't the harem that ruined the sultans, it was the children produced with the women from the harem. Because whenever the sultan died, there were now 35 half-brothers all vying for the thrown. The Ottoman empire was plagued by Civil wars
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:29 PM
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With the income and wealth gap spreading further and further, soon, only a minority of men will have any money, power, or social standing, leaving the vast majority of women to want them, which in our currently monogamous culture, would be impossible. As has already been happening, polyamory a d pansexual relationships will become the norm out of necessity, women would rather share a hvm than get a lvm all to themselves. This will leave us at the bottom completely partner-less, thus necessitatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:36 AM
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It wouldn't bother me if they were open to doing something I wanted to try, regardless of whether they've done it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:37 AM
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Woman 2. Other than the "doesn't let me make many decisions because she knows better" because that's my sort of thing, lol, so we'd always be butting heads, but as long as that's done in a comical way, I'm cool with it But this type of women would never be interested in me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:18 PM
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One aspect for me personally, as an obese man, is that historically, the type of women that "I'm supposed" to get with, other more unattractive/obese women, are less likely to want to get with me, than I am with them. In the past decade or so, there has been an exponential rise in the fat acceptance/body acceptance movements. Which is great, people shouldnt feel horrible about themselves and women have been subjected to ridiculous body standards for quite some time. The problem that arises is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 08:26 PM
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If a girl told me she liked me but she's just waiting so that it can be special, I would assume she's banging another dude on the side and it's just using me for whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:02 AM
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That aren't solely intended in a comedic manner
/r/MensRights24/11/21 12:47 AM
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As you said, even friendships and chatting is transactional. Everything is. Even something as simple as waving to a stranger in public gives the waver some sort of feeling. No one does anything purely out of goodness. Even when done completely anonymously, where you do something small and no one will ever know, you get a feeling of doing something good. It helps you out. It gives you a hormone boost. It gives you a sense of satisfaction. If people didn't get these benefits from, they would never…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 06:42 PM
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I agree. All relationships are transactional. Even friends expect the same behaviors and effort from their friend as they put in. Most relationship, except for blood since they tend to be able to survive imbalances moreso than other relationships due to societal customs if sticking with family no matter what, will fall apart when their is an imbalance to one side of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 01:19 AM
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The court system oppressed men, that's quite literally the definition of the system
/r/MensRights21/11/21 08:17 AM
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Start your own, find people on subs for your area/school, discord, TikTok, whatever y'all use. Just go to the schools gym and workout like you're all just regular people and encourage each other. Eventually people will be able to tell you're a group and they'll cause some noise, and you'll probably be asked to not come to the gym anymore. This is when you sue them. Also, document everything, when you meet, who's there, general club bookkeeping stuff, as if you were a legit club, this will useful…
/r/MensRights14/11/21 07:13 AM
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Thursday? I don't think the sperm even have enough time to swim to the egg yet lol. Either she's not pregnant and is bullshiting you, or it's not yours. There is a 0% chance that she would know she's pregnant 2 days after she had sex. It is just not enough time for all of the processes to happen. I don't even think there's pregnancy tests that could determine if she's pregnant yet, it would be impossible to detect the increase hormones at this point. She's 💯 lying to you
/r/MensRights13/11/21 08:20 PM
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This is because in their effort to right the discrimination people have felt, they're going to oversteer. Instead of hiring people in proportion to their amount of the population, which would be a step in eventually evening out the playing field, they're going to start hiring only POC. This will obviously get them there quicker, but I guarantee there are no fail-safes to stop the practice once equilibrium is obtained. They're going to hire people to where eventually black, Latino, Asian, women e…
/r/MensRights08/11/21 06:13 PM
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I'm trying to say that if you want someone to help around the in house, then pick someone with those traits. If you don't know what those are, then read about it. Everyone is all of a sudden a fucking psychologist always talking about red flags, and what behaviors are predictors of other behaviors. Constantly. Find any group online and you'll find women discussing how this is narcissism, that is manipulation, this means that they're mother warmed their food 5 degrees too warm and now that means …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:23 PM
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Considering more and more people are unmarried and that 30% of men haven't even had sex in the prior year, seems like women are picking the wrong ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 09:21 AM
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Lol where have you been? Men are definitely expected to to split the domestic chores
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:40 AM
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South Broward here. Just try and talk to people. That's my only advice. Even though I suck at it, it's never as scary as we make it out to seem
/r/MensRights06/11/21 08:16 AM
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I've known her since Middle School. South Florida
/r/MensRights06/11/21 08:12 AM
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The latter. It took forever because for the first few months or a year, I was just that dude who always came in. I have a pretty intimidating look, I always have a look on my face like I'm pissed and I'm really fat. Not the most approachable person. Combine that with social anxiety and I have to wait for people to come up to me. I even initially went with a friend of mine who is a girl and she makes friends easily so for the first year or so, I was just known as "Leah's friend". Leah is sort of …
/r/MensRights06/11/21 06:39 AM
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I have no experience with joining churches, but in my early 20s I was lonely so there was this bar near my house that was open until 4am (I'm a night owl) and so I decided to go there all the time. Eventually, after almost a year, I got to know people there. After another year of going there like 4 nights a well I eventually became part of a group of friends. It took forever and everyone thought I was a weirdo, but after constant, repeated exposure, I became one of them. If you don't have social…
/r/MensRights06/11/21 06:29 AM
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If that's your thing. I'd venture to guess joining any kind of group of people could help get friends.
/r/MensRights06/11/21 06:20 AM
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💯
/r/MensRights06/11/21 04:32 AM
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Happy Cake Day 🎂 But yeah, it sucks to go through life with no one in it. For as empathetic as everyone claims to be lately, they sure do like to throw people away with no regards to their feelings. It's this new attitude of it doesn't make me happy, then it's not for me. Of course we want things that make us happy around, but it gives people this mindset of it it's not something that's going to help you succeed in life, it's not worth your time. They don't want anyone in their lives who isn't g…
/r/MensRights06/11/21 03:05 AM
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For a decade now that's everyone. I'm glad that the first three years of college were pre smartphone for me. People would still text while you're hanging out with them, but they weren't staring at their screen for ninety percent of the time flipping through meaningless memes
/r/MensRights05/11/21 07:59 PM
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It's hard after 30 for everyone. Especially if you weren't one of the people who got a partner at some point. When we're young, we seek out connections and friendships, some of us. But after a certain age everyone sort of pairs off and focuses all their energy on that relationship or their career. We all say we're too busy but even when we have downtime, we don't seek others like we used to. It leaves us feeling utterly alone. We used to live in communities and everyone used to know each other. …
/r/MensRights05/11/21 07:12 PM
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It's not women being let in that has made certain things worse. To take the Reddit example another user gave, the problem was letting the sjw's in. They have a habit of going into spaces and trying to change it and excluding anyone who doesn't match with them 100%. Certain parts of the internet were spaces where those outcast by society have been able to come together and not feel lonely. Feel like someone else is sort of like them. And that was the way Reddit was for a while, but then more and …
/r/MensRights05/11/21 06:44 PM
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Ironic isn't it
/r/MensRights05/11/21 08:18 AM
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An aspect to think about is taking the social development women have over men and how the abuse gets perpetrated. When men abuse, they do so individually. One husband or boyfriend beats or kills their significant other. One man, usually, rapes a woman. Meanwhile, women sometimes abuse men in groups. They come together to shame them online, they publicly cuck them in front of their community, they spread gossip and taint their image in their community. It's a group act a lot of times. You never s…
/r/MensRights05/11/21 05:48 AM
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I just posted an article on this sub where researchers did surveys and found men, particularly younger men, are lonelier than ever, have fewer friends than ever, and fewer support systems than ever. The pandemic has sped up this process as well with a larger amount of younger men reporting losing almost all their close friends. So not only are we seeing more and more hatred than ever before, we have no where to go to talk about it (other than places like this, but let's face it, we're all essent…
/r/MensRights05/11/21 05:34 AM
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I get what you're saying. My only comment is that you say that the sexuality presented today is more and more woman driven and reflects the desires of the women themselves. If this is so, then why does this new sexuality seem remarkably similar to the sexuality if women when men were wholly in charge? To me, it just seems a lot more of the same crap. Granted the type of women shown is different (more fuller figured and darker colored than let's say the 70s and 80s when it was mostly thin, busty …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:07 AM
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Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:53 AM
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Exactly, the new norm is that in their first fifteen years of adulthood, women want the freedom to not be traditional and to explore. They do this both for their personal enjoyment, and also to increase the amount of interactions they have in order to get the highest volume and they can get during that time. What happens with a lot of them is they reach a certain age where they didn't find that person, and are now clamoring to grab the last of the good men left. Meanwhile, women still expect the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:50 AM
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Yes, you're a hundred percent right that women want men to take on the traditional male role, but women still want men to do these traditional things, while not doing the traditional things themselves. Women demand the same thing for men that they always have, while asking men to demand less of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:44 AM
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Also one thing to consider with the surveys that look at cheating, is they're all done by just asking the people if they've ever cheated, which can lead to wrong figures if one of the genders is more likely to lie about their cheating. Now studies do show that men are more likely to lie to their partner about cheating, but I'd be willing to bet that women are more likely to lie to a third party because they do not want to appear as a low quality person. How they appear to society is way more imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:42 AM
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The reason men might be more likely to divorce a sick spouse, is because women would be less likely to divorce the man when they're sick with cancer, because they know that soon enough, there might be a Payday for them in terms of both inheritance and life insurance. Why would the women divorce sick man? This is exactly what they've been waiting for the entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:39 AM
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How are children a value? They're one of the largest costs in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:29 AM
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I also don't agree with people's judgement of acceptable and not acceptable behavior. That's why I believe in unadulterated free speech. Because once one side starts banning things, the others will do the same and it's a free for all of censorship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:13 PM
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Personally I see the opposite in reference to the rude aspect. Society seems to casting anyone out who displays anything even deemed rude. We're in an overly positive environment where anything negative is viewed as detrimental to society
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:55 PM
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Personally, it mostly has to with how people recoil and look away whenever I seem to be approaching them. You can't get laid if people are disgusted by your mere presence
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:53 PM
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This is why you can't go by personal experiences on a lot of things, you have to look at the data, because if a person is naturally outgoing and charismatic, they're going to only be around other naturally outgoing and charismatic people and thus are not going to get any idea of how everyone else lives. The numbers show that every year, more and more people are having less and less sex and relationships. We're single into older ages, less people are having sex in the last year. But the data is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:47 PM
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No wonder academia has had a bad reputation as of late
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:01 PM
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Well it's hard to keep an open mind when you had an open mind, and then observed behavior contradicts that initial hypothesis, which solidifies my current ideas, which could change, but I would need to be given proof by someone actually behaving that way
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:56 PM
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I'm American, we don't use Oxford. Merriam & Webster specifically created their dictionary as a fuck you to the Brits
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:48 PM
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Could be, who knows, biases are hard to overcome by their nature
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:46 PM
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Also, women have a history of saying one thing in order to appear the way they think others should view them, but not actually believing or doing the things they say. Women have a high degree of agreeableness. This means they'll say the thing they think needs to be said, so that people will like them. They can't go around admitting that strong men who don't cry are much more attractive than vulnerable men who share their feelings and thoughts about things. Which is why I asking these kinds of qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:58 PM
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Because in their experience, during the dating phase, crying or vulnerability probably made the woman not want to continue dating, and when this type of thing happens to you, you adjust, in this case, to not showing emotions around women. Women don't necessarily shame you with words, sometimes they shame you with exclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:54 PM
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And I'm working on the definition in Merriam-Webster
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:47 AM
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Resource doesn't necessarily have to be quantifiable. A reputation is a usable resource even though it can't be quantified. Power is a resource. Knowledge and wisdom as well. Why not mental health?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:50 AM
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Does it surprise you from people who constantly lie about their weight and age. Women don't like numbers because they're factual and definitive. It leaves no room for interpretation. They don't like looking at the scale and seeing 220 lbs (204kg/16.5st) so they lie and say 180. This gives them a skewed view as to the real look and feel of objects. They misjudge because the lie so much
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:16 AM
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Mental health can be viewed as a resource since a lot of mental health helps you in life but a low amount is detrimental, it's a necessary aspect of life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:46 PM
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Most people's only real motivation for self-improvement is to gain resources, whether it be money, food, power, sex, or mental health. All are resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:44 PM
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It's a high school mentality. She didn't want to be seen as less "popular" because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:18 PM
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As an obese, I can say this is true. Normal sized/chubby women are much more likely to say yes to me than other obese women. My theory is that by the obese women accepting an obese man as her partner, she is announcing to the world that she isn't capable of getting good looking men. And women know how easy it is for them to get most men they want, at least for a little while, so basically this is a sign to all the other women that she is bottom of the barrel. Whereas a skinnier woman isn't as in…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:34 AM
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They also conveniently don't have a boyfriend when the person is attractive. It's weird how that works out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 07:34 PM
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I mean I saw a statistic that said 28% of men 18 to 35 have not had sex in the last year
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:31 PM
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This is online dating, a place where everyone is receptive to people approaching them, which should have a much higher success rate, since in public, at least 50% of people aren't going to be receptive at minimum, while 100% of people on Tinder are by definition receptive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:08 PM
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I mean if you want me to delete it you can just ask. You don't have to tell on me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:49 AM
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The dude's not going out of this way to research women own companies and boycott them. He's going about his life and buying products as normal, but if he sees a product labeled as women owned, he's choosing not to play into these gender stereotypes. Which if anything is actually what society has been telling us to do. This man sounds like a true feminist to me because he's not playing into gender stereotypes. He's gone beyond gender, which is really what the feminist claim that their end goal is…
/r/MensRights26/10/21 11:49 PM
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What he meant was don't buy products "Made by Women" ie. Those products or stores where a main theme of their company is woman owned, or made by women. A company where instead of focusing on the merits of the product itself, they're focusing on the identity of the owners and making that a reason for purchasing the product, especially when said product has nothing to do specifically with women themselves. All these companies are actually trying to do is just market to you, and the only reason the…
/r/MensRights26/10/21 11:47 PM
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Also, their openness fluctuates depending on how attractive they find you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:07 PM
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The infinitely high boyfriend factor
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:06 PM
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Because some of us swipe 11,682 times, get 9 matches, 8 of them are bots or people trying to defraud you, and the lone real person was matched from 2,900 miles away. Online dating is statistically worse for below average attractive men. It's completely based on looks initially, where at least in person you have some chance of at least speaking a few words before they reject you, and hope that those words are enough for them to continue giving you a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:05 PM
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I just got banned from a completely separate subreddit all because I made a comment in this one. Automatically too. Do moderators have the ability to track where I post and then ban me based upon subreddits I interact with?
/r/MensRights21/10/21 05:36 PM
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Of course, you should want to be in your child's life as much as necessary, but the fact that she was 100% not in this child's life, and you can kind of tell that she didn't want to talk about it, leading me to believe there's deep emotions attached to it, it leads me to spect that she must have done something very very problematic if the current court system would take away a child from a mother who isn't a drug addict. The courts don't take children away from their parents lightly, especially …
/r/MensRights21/10/21 05:35 PM
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Why is that "super uncomfortable"? It's completely natural. An effect of the programming in each and every one of us to procreate. It is the only imperative that every animal is designed to do. There are entire species of animals who spend their entire lives in the pursuit of procreation. They don't even have a goddam mouth to feed. They are born, live for a few days, and hope that they find some insect hole to stick it in. That's it. Animals are meant to spawn and that mostly means young and fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:25 PM
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Nice people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:15 PM
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I used to play bar trivia for years (pandemic killed that) and there was this one girl who would play on another team, but sometimes on ours depending on who showed up that week. Anyway, after a year or so of knowing her I learned she has a kid, which surprised me because she never mentioned them, and parents, especially mother's, always talk about their kid, it's natural, they're usually around them all the time, but she never did. Then some time after that I find out she doesn't have custody o…
/r/MensRights21/10/21 02:43 PM
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Because I'm following this cardinal direction naming scheme
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:58 PM
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European culture shall henceforth be named "Northern Culture", to distinguish it from the different, North American Cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:23 PM
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