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Generally when you get a verbal no you should just stop and freeze the situation out and talk it out. It may kill the chance of getting laid, but in the long run might save you getting arrested. There are plenty of girls who are happy to sleep with you. No sense risking yourself in a situation like this.
/r/seduction20/09/13 04:51 AM
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You assume attraction because this is pickup and not the rest of life. Of course not everyone is actually attracted to you but it is a mental boost for yourself to overcome fear not to put expectations on other people.
/r/seduction24/08/13 02:32 PM
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I'd say in this situation, confront the issue directly and try to make it a non-issue between you otherwise it'll always be weird.
/r/seduction13/04/13 05:43 AM
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People should just read around for the good posts in here. That was a pretty shitty article.
/r/seduction05/02/13 08:58 AM
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Always escalate and don't buy their drinks in a situation like that. You're "buying" a place at their table for awhile, not actually attracting them, thus you get no where.
/r/seduction02/12/12 03:59 AM
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I'm not sure what the term for it but there is another type of disease that isn't cancer that removes all hair on your body, could be easier to go with that if you did some google searching for what it is.
/r/seduction02/12/12 03:53 AM
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Actually they should pretend like there is. The techniques used are like your own mental coach that you use to get to the place you want to be. People starting out especially needs these 'rulesets'. You're right in the long run it ends up sounding kinda like bullshit, but it is necessary for a lot of people to have things they can focus on and not abstract thoughts like you listed.
/r/seduction21/07/12 06:00 PM
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So you stare into their eyes and then you say there is nothing you are looking at!? man...bad call just say anything except 'nothing' and you are ahead of the game.
/r/seduction19/07/12 08:43 AM
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I don't want to pass you off to something else, but other people have outlined this much more eloquently than me. On the bar on the right start with the "new here?" section and work your way down. Find what information is valuable from there and work on utilizing it to fulfill your own goals.
/r/seduction25/06/12 09:54 AM
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There are a ton of great resources on working on the problems you list right here in seddit. A general rule with people i work with is unless they genuinely have something to do they are always interested in meeting interesting people. So have no fear of the place you're at! approach approach approach! Also you CAN'T be be defeated keep working on it, put a smile on every time you talk to someone. It's hard to give an area for clear advice because you haven't outlined exactly what you want. From…
/r/seduction25/06/12 09:34 AM
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Don't go to those places then! Starbucks, Parks, Malls, out and about in life is where you meet people. It doesn't have to be centralized in one of those situations when you know you don't want to be there. Considering women you meet in those places are much more likely to continue to enjoy those places if you are looking to date too.
/r/seduction25/06/12 09:17 AM
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Not having fun will destroy your whole atmosphere and effects everyone around you. If you honestly want to start going out to those places, you'll have to work on who you want to be first.
/r/seduction25/06/12 09:09 AM
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Aside from the other issues, why go with the mindset of picking up women as the goal. Go have fun see if you enjoy the venue and good things will happen.
/r/seduction25/06/12 08:59 AM
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That's nice; however, you're communicating over one of the least personal ways of talking and nothing but words are transmitted. The whole conversation from the beginning was terrible from both sides and I don't agree with you "being intrigued" and then going onto a board and say hey look how much "I don't give a fuck and go with it". Figure you're shit out man!
/r/seduction25/06/12 08:53 AM
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Well he could stop trying so hard and acting like a total tool. He needs to calm down and adjust his views on who he is because she sounded like a pretty normal person to me and he was more of the crazy one.
/r/seduction25/06/12 08:45 AM
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Some people just take god awful pictures too. As in any social experiment i usually go with there are way too many variables too actually give any good data. Sure if you could test it through a significant percentage of the population, millions, then maybe you'd get something interesting. Otherwise i think these papers are crap.
/r/seduction01/02/12 09:11 AM
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Just had to respond to the point about her doing most of the talking being an IOI. I would say normally maybe, but if the guy is being awkward as all hell then she could just be talking more because shes not as socially awkward with no real interest in him.
/r/seduction30/01/12 10:21 AM
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I think the generic definition of a nice guy boils down to a non-protector figure. They could be a good guy, kind guy, etc. Nice guy is just defined by being not good enough for girls in society it doesn't really reflect on being nice to a girl isn't good.
/r/seduction27/01/12 06:49 AM
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There is also nothing wrong with actually asking her for her number. Girls aren't out to make no new friends. Its really just about being someone she likes and/or is attracted to.
/r/seduction27/01/12 05:55 AM
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True it is too vulgar and doesn't really draw her any more emotionally to you.
/r/seduction24/01/12 03:50 AM
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It isn't so much about not giving a fuck, because caring is important in being interesting. It really comes to being able to enjoy whatever is thrown at you and realize learning from it is better than flipping a bitch about it. That is not giving a fuck.
/r/seduction19/01/12 09:21 AM
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I think the problem is the confidence attitude. you haven't made it part of your persona yet and so it can at times be forced causing you to seem like a dick. Practice practice practice.
/r/seduction17/01/12 06:07 AM
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Give her honest feedback in what you are looking for. Say something along the lines of, if anything further happened between us in the end it would cause you more trouble in life.
/r/seduction17/01/12 05:30 AM
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It is a selfish line of reasoning you're following a big key is to remember that the girlfriend is a person too with flaws, just because she for whatever reason does something that hurts you the only way to truly improve is to accept and learn from the situation. This hate is detrimental to everyone. I don't mean you have no right to break up with her, you do, I mean that what you are doing is pure hypocritical.
/r/seduction16/01/12 10:28 PM
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Okay so here is the thing with cheating. A LOT of girls don't connect sex and relationships together. It has to do with the need for turbulence in emotions which sex brings and the game contrasting with a steady line of a relationship. So just because you manage to pull a girl away for a night doesn't mean she isn't completely committed to the relationship. Which is why I think it is a fucking dick move to pull a girl with a boyfriend because it can seriously fuck up a perfectly fine relationshi…
/r/seduction16/01/12 08:05 PM
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Sorry don't have time to read the whole thing, but a quick note on alcohol. My rule is always be less drunk than the girl, for me it makes it much easier to stay congruent with myself.
/r/seduction16/01/12 08:02 PM
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My little input would be that the morals are a test. She wants to blame you for breaking her morals not herself that is what it has to come down to.
/r/seduction16/01/12 07:56 PM
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Being a college student myself at a major 30k+ campus town. I find one of the easiest places to start up a chat is the bus system. Forces short quick conversations <15min, and if done well is an easy way to snag a quick number or date because the girls usually are interested enough for more information.
/r/seduction16/01/12 07:45 AM
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