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| -1 | I have a fear of being settled for or being the “safe” choiceDownvoting a comment because you simply disagree is not only shitty behaviour, it’s really creepy as well. You need to think about how you treat people. Nothing that you have said in any way counters my main argument, which is that looks are the single most important factor in attracting women. What I dislike is when people gaslight unsuccessful men into thinking that the reason behind their lack of success with women is that they must be bad people, because women wouldn’t reject a good guy just… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/09/25 09:16 PM |
| -1 | I have a fear of being settled for or being the “safe” choiceDownvoting and pretending to ignore my arguments doesn’t make you right. Try making an argument instead. Perhaps you will realize that you’re wrong, which is a healthy thing to do. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/25 02:49 PM |
| -1 | I have a fear of being settled for or being the “safe” choiceDo you have a single counter-argument to anything I said? Calling it bullshit doesn’t make it untrue. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/25 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Feeling Stuck After Doing the Work: Short, Bald, Ethnic, and Still Struggling with Self-PerceptionWhy do you care what most women think? Because I am attracted to women and want to attract them. I think that goes without saying. The vast majority of women prefer guys who don’t have male-pattern baldness. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/25 12:27 PM |
| -1 | I have a fear of being settled for or being the “safe” choiceI never said that Danny Devito wasn’t married before he became a celebrity. What I will say is that he was never a sex symbol or a ladies man due to his height and face. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/25 12:21 PM |
| 0 | I have a fear of being settled for or being the “safe” choiceI don’t think anyone who has been close to women genuinely believes that a nice, caring guy who looks like Brian Peppers would be more successful than a misogynist who looks like Chris Carmack. Sorry, but women have eyes and are visual creatures, just like men. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/25 12:20 PM |
| 0 | I have a fear of being settled for or being the “safe” choiceSorry, but this is not true in the slightest. Women are equally as shallow as men are. The single most important factor to attract women is looks. A tall, handsome guy with a shitty personality will always have more success dating than a short, ugly, bald guy who’s interesting and caring. Do you know how many women would get down with Jack Black? Like so many. That is because he’s a wealthy celebrity. Take away his fame and money and see how many women would jump his bones. Besides, people are m… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/25 06:21 PM |
| 4 | I have a fear of being settled for or being the “safe” choiceIf a girl I’m dating told me that she wouldn’t have dated me when she was younger because she prioritized sexual attraction and excitement, it would be a huge-turn off and I would essentially be mentally checked-out of the relationship by the time she finished the sentence. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/25 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Feeling Stuck After Doing the Work: Short, Bald, Ethnic, and Still Struggling with Self-PerceptionIt matters to most women. Having hair is a sign of youth and health, and having it or not is entirely genetic. It’s just tiresome to hear people bring up wealthy Hollywood actors with good bone structure who didn’t even go bald young as an argument as to why baldness doesn’t matter, and then go on to accuse unsuccessful men of essentially being bad peope or mentally ill. By the way, being physically attractive will make people view you as more charismatic. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/25 03:16 PM |
| 0 | Feeling Stuck After Doing the Work: Short, Bald, Ethnic, and Still Struggling with Self-PerceptionBruce Willis was not bald at 21… Unfortunately, looks matter far more than personality when it comes to first impressions. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/25 12:22 AM |
| – | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themJay-Z is a billionaire and Marco Jaric was a tall multi-millionaire pro basketball player with great features, except his eye area looks odd, just like with Pete Davidson. He’s still well above average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 04:17 AM |
| – | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themPete Davidson is a great example. People use him as an example of an ”ugly” guy who gets girls, which is absurd. He’s tall, has great hair and a chiseled jawline, but because his eye area is sub-optimal, he’s suddenly ”ugly” instead of more accurately above average. In reality, an ugly guy with with a hot girl is very rare, especially when there’s no money involved. I think it’s more likely that people see an average guy with an average girl and simply perceive the girl as being more attractive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/25 01:35 AM |
| – | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themOdds are that those ”hot women” and ”ugly men” are actually equally attractive. I think that people tend to overrate women's attractiveness and underrate men's attractiveness. It’s probably where the myth of the ”ugly guy with hot girl” comes from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naiveYou think most sober women who are looking to hook up would reject their dream guy because he seems like an asshole? Good-looking guys can get away with bad behaviour due to the halo effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 12:53 PM |
| 2 | People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naivepersonality is how men "seal the deal". Without that, looks mean nothing. This is not true. Good looks on their own can easily get you laid, even with a shitty personality. Personality with zero sexual attraction doesn’t get you anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain the whole alpha fucks/beta bucks thing to me? Do you think it’s real? What are your thoughts. It sounds downright terrifying.I guess he’s saying that there aren’t quite a few men who do it. In order for a guy to do that he would have to be exceptional in some way. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/10/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain the whole alpha fucks/beta bucks thing to me? Do you think it’s real? What are your thoughts. It sounds downright terrifying.That’s not necessarily true. A man who is attractive enough can easily date multiple women openly. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/10/23 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain the whole alpha fucks/beta bucks thing to me? Do you think it’s real? What are your thoughts. It sounds downright terrifying.I disagree that it doesn’t matter. It might not matter to you, but it matters to a lot of men. I might be of the opinion that a man’s height or hair don’t matter, but the simple fact is that to a lot of women, they do. I don’t see a point in trying to shame people into changing their preferences just because they don’t make sense to me personally. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/10/23 07:39 PM |
| 1 | The JBW theory.A white guy with a tan isn’t going to look indian all of a sudden lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/23 08:56 PM |
| 3 | It's not predatory, it's not biology, it's trying to get the best out of the dating game.I didn’t ask when they could, I asked when they should be allowed to. You also didn’t answer my first question: So you think porn starring 18- and 19-year-olds is child porn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | It's not predatory, it's not biology, it's trying to get the best out of the dating game.So you think porn starring 18- and 19-year-olds is child porn? At what age should people be allowed to make their own decisions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 03:07 AM |
| 4 | I think women see male sexuality as inherently predatory especially any situation where a woman wants sex more than the man. This is the true source of a lot of “power dynamics” discourse.https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/there-are-plenty-of-fish-in-the-sea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 09:59 PM |
| 4 | I think women see male sexuality as inherently predatory especially any situation where a woman wants sex more than the man. This is the true source of a lot of “power dynamics” discourse.Tell that to Plenty of Fish, one of the biggest dating apps in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 09:58 PM |
| 11 | What's the male equivalent of a promiscuous woman?That sub is like 99.9% men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 10:44 PM |
| 38 | Confidence is almost entirely a result of external factors not an internal decision to be confidentAlso, an attractive person will be seen as more confident due to the halo-effect, even if they’re not. Just Google images of “confident man” and see how many short, bald, ugly guys show up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 01:21 AM |
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