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| 1 | Daygame isn't about doing 1000 sets, but about becoming a social manI can see why day game is just high volume. The setting, the mood, the intention and motives of people and how they project that onto you. I live next to a university and theirs tons of Hot Colligian Girls shopping at Plazas and outlets. But because the mood and Setting arent the same as Night game, it will be inherently harder to get a pull. If your fundamentals are good and you are also a very charismatic and flirty guy you can defitnetly pull off getting alot of numbers and exchange social me… | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategyThis is exaclty what i'v learned. And yeah your 100% right on the intergrating yourself into peoples world. Having that bringing something intresting , novelty or of value to people but also allowing them to Invest in you thus creating that Deeper bond & connection dynamic, more so being The natrual. I mostly learn my stuff from what an old company called real social dynamic teached. And its exactly what you described. I think their main emphasis though was also not just learning the social dyna… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 08:15 AM |
| 3 | Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategyHonestly its already been boiled down to science, According to some of the most Successfull dateing coaches like Owen cook, max tornow, Neil strauss and mystery, The root cause of women Not being able to Be easily vulnerably intimate with men sexually is because of Biology. Women are constantly trying to keep control of Their survivability chances on Banking in the best possible guy who could provision them a good lifestyle. And no i dont mean money wise- I mean men who are Being in the present … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 04:41 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themThe only way for me to have a women friend is, if were compatible or have good chemestry but im not attracted to her. so she'll either have to be really funny and witty or Very masculine and funny. I would never be friends with a femme fatale type of style women because were just not compatible or Blend together well. I can tell those types just want my attention and some validation. But i like more of a bonding type of female friends, like Tomboys. In contrast I'd rather date a very feminine at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 07:31 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themLike for me, im a very dedicated person in all areas of my life, im all or nothing. With that said when it comes to people, my personal preferance in social dynamics is Im only moved or What triggers me in 2 Spectrums. Either Highly positive or Highly negative. By positive i mean by High compatibility where we just fit like 2 puzzle pieces, or High chemestry where we just click. The negative would be A healthy competitor or rival, or someone i can bounce ideas off of, challenging my world view i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Todays world is perfect for menYeah yk? The old saying of flying to high to the sun, Or If you start slacking you'll pay the consequences. Any man of substance who doesnt dicipline himself cant be anything in life because he would be the ultimate cause of his down fall. Its a tale old as time. I think to add on to this, the bigger picture would be to have the next generation of women be aware of this, so that they strive to work with guys synergistically and vice versa, and not drool over unattainable men with low values. And… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 07:05 AM |
| 8 | Todays world is perfect for menI think their needs to be a distinction between the Average men that dont satisfy you and are basic in every category , vs the men that do satisfy you wich are the rare top 1% who are far better in every category against the average male. 1. Better looking 2.can take you to many places of novelty 3. Has unlimited time through his autonomy to bond with you 4. High EQ and IQ 5. Immense social proof. So now that we got that out of the way. Regarding you're post, the average male does not get to exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 04:29 AM |
| -3 | How can I avoid becoming a low investment backup option?Well from what i can tell on you're post, the first date was at you're home where both of u ate Polish food, i guess he was left with the impression of bonding more closer in terms of just hanging out together. Since its different from Hanging out in public and having to deal with the distractions of the outside world. Hanging out together doesnt mean it leads to sex. You also have the option to say no to sex and just literally hang out because that is The action in plan. So you shouldnt need to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/24 03:11 AM |
| -3 | There is no such thing as unconditional love to menI mean whats stopping you now? You have Dateing experience so you now know what is best for you, dont beleve that just because you've been left doesnt mean you have no self worth. I think its best to Realisticly screen out for an adequate partner who fits right in w/ you. you can start out by 1.) Finding someone with compatible values 2.) compatible personalitys 3.) compatible goals 4.) compatible lifestyles 5.) Good altruistic character 6.) positive attitude 7.) Authenticity. Forget About the p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/24 08:03 AM |
| 3 | Are My Hobbies Too Masculine?To put it simple to you OP, Don't worrie or focus on those guys that say you're not feminine enough. 90% of guys out there don't know what they want and just fallow the trend and social norms. Since you have experience now in dates. The next step would be to Matching with or Filtering men out in person or online based on good characteristic. Like 1.) similar likes and dislikes 2.) Compatible personalitys 3.) compatible values 4.) Attraction. Don't go for the first person who wants to impress you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/24 11:13 AM |
| 1 | BF (26M) that I (26F) have been dating for 7 years says he should have more say in the relationship than I do. How would you react?I mean she can always leave? She's not force to stay with the guy. Shes finishing her studys for a great career. But she stated specificly that he decided not to charge her bills. That leads to me beleve that she never asked to be taken care of nor does she need it. So his dynamic of "leading the ship" is not viable or holds any value since she is not at his will. so if she doesnt like this dynamic bc it diminishes her Individualistic growth, creativity, and expression than she has every right t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/24 07:02 AM |
| 1 | BF (26M) that I (26F) have been dating for 7 years says he should have more say in the relationship than I do. How would you react?No i don'T agree with that you're boyfriend says or thinks. Most Type A personaltys tend to have a scarcity mindset and not an Abundance mindset. A Scarcity Mindset is a pattern of thinking that focuses on what you don’t have and the underlying belief that you’re not ever going to have the things that you want, even when you have access to basic needs like food, water, housing, income, etc. When you have a person operating like this they tend to want to start controling everyone arround them and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/24 06:49 AM |
| 3 | Advice for how to manage in a situation with a potentially great man who isn’t currently in a place to commit?While i do agree with @youllknowwhenitstime, i do not know what you can tolerate or not. Essentialy reiterating again what she said - Even tho you're intentions are to keep it at a friendly level, most over sexed men try to find ways to Control the frame or"vibe" and steer it towards something sexual. weather its Hitting those type of topics, Shareing his recent sexual experiences, or probing situations in life when you get vulnerable to steer it to Intimacy and result in sex. im not a person to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/24 12:03 AM |
| 5 | Advice for how to manage in a situation with a potentially great man who isn’t currently in a place to commit?Listen, i know you're High strung on this guy. And think you'll never get the emotional highs that he has given you, and you probably feel co-dependent on him. but he has basicly said he wants to sleep arround and have fun while using wording like experienceing different "Feminine textures". it doesnt matter how you word it. Sex is sex, and if he's telling you that, it means that he doesnt want to committ at all in the next few years and will probably keep you on rotations from other women, That… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/24 07:12 PM |
| 2 | How can I understand this man's intention in dating me?Simple, yes he wants to have sex and im sure you do too, but you are afraid that committing to that and then giving him the sex will lead to proving you right, that he only wanted you for that. Ok so- We have adressed the problems - The solution - Have a talk with him about you're expectations. And be streight up and Frank with him. tell him: I want to take things slow, and to be publicly Official between us. this will assure me that we are now Together and would like to meet you're family and f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/24 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Scared of the futureI always tell people. Structure you're self. And Filter through people based on compatibility in key areas in you're life like compatibility in : 1.) Values 2.) Personality 3.) Life goals 4.) character 5.) friends 6.) and Habit Yes you will have to Wave off hundreds of people And wont find a date in up and coming months or years but thats far more better and worth it than the Regret you just mentioned. I would defitnetly reccomend Socializing in less areas that Hook up culture is being promoted,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/24 06:06 PM |
| 3 | I think that we need to define what a high value man is.This is actualy a really good Post with realistic points. Most post about what HVM should be isnt even found. Or women just complain about a toxic guy and name all the horrible characteristics. I think everything u mentioned really resonates What a HVM should be. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | When men say they don't want a career woman, it's not that they don't want a woman who has a career, they just don't want a "boss babe".Its not threaten. See in my experience women experience men trying to gain an edge on women in the work force would automaticly Try and shame men like you are right now. Because women don't like competetion, they don't like Winning at all cost, or At any expense, women want to make "society" Fairer with "equity". Men don't care about fairness, through out our survival of our civilization on 6000 years of human recorded history, men Have conquered each other, over and over again, which is why War… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 05:55 AM |
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