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Of course, if the 10 % is different set for anyone, 100 % can theoretically have a success.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:54 PM
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Probably the ways their parents met are now considered unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:49 PM
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And I swipe on women because they do not give info so I would be curious to ask, does not mean I want her LTR immediately either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:30 PM
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This is why I do not really think it is weird to cold approach "all" women, availability is the first hurdle and then they can filter if the desire will build up or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:54 AM
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Hard to prove the claim correct or incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:53 AM
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The kinds of advice which are based on being yourself are not valid if they could be applied to let's say genuinely evil people (slippery slope). Where it fits is that if the advice tells you that what you do in a way is not wrong, but since you have no success, there is another part of you that needs change (not objective improvement).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:02 AM
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Yes, but would they date the average man on app?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:24 AM
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It's social thing, like job finding or economics, when it makes also the opposite side non-fixed. Economy for example is one of the less exact sciences as for the outcomes. But people kind of can tell who "succeeded".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:00 AM
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Solution is to get to like them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:33 AM
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More supply would lower the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:24 AM
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The issue is the positive feedback instead of negative one. Men who get into relationship will be assumed to be more attractive regardless of how it works out , they will not get eliminated from the dating market. The "rich" ones will get richer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:14 AM
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Do you think it fits with the fact that a man with company of woman is seen as more attractive (This of course creates the snowball effect) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:02 PM
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This IMO falls in the same box as "should we compare ourselves to who have it worse (do we have the need to improve) or the ones who have it better (do we have resources to get better)" - generally what I see in internet discussion of comparing our country with others. Here the question is "Am I actually good enough and should I like myself for that, or am i delusional?" Think this goes in all sorts of dating advice, and I feel like most of it is so generic it could be applied to chain smoker gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:01 PM
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I think the advice makes sense from the perspective of how did someone find a woman, but so far I have not seen someone share a particular success with someone picking up a hobby and finding someone through it only after they started trying. Maybe there are cases, but so far the most positive stuff on reddit I have seen was they being genuinely interested into the hobby more than at the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:35 PM
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With one (retroactively) failed date, I think I have found astruggle with hobbies I am mildly, but not passionately, into: either she might be intimidated that I am doing something she is not into, or I she is actually passionate and I am doing it just a little so I am as pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:32 PM
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This is the same the frustration I have seen on bumble with the message that got guy unmatched almost instantly. They are the ones who got right swiped on (high value) yet cannot talk to woman normally (low bar). And the ones who would not have attempted that are not even given a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:29 AM
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Isn't this the balance catch? On the other hand, woman wants to be seen as valuable and to be chosen specifically, on the other hand the man should not be seen a loser who could not imagine life without her. Listening to love songs etc, basically if the woman does not want to feel the attraction she can shut the arguments down, as well as the other way, appreciate it if she feels the man is good for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:02 AM
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I think it has to do with the hobbies, if they are interesting enough it's easy to talk. Or work. You need more "skills" to help yourself from bad situation, be it looks or appearing boring on paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:56 AM
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I do not think the investment is always the full reason, but I think the majority feeling "men have lowered their standards" is true in this regard. That is why also slutty women can afford that, they will still have someone to hook up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 11:55 AM
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It would be better for most people in the dating scene in general but not for the ones who would be willing to "sacrifice". Aka prisoner dilemma. So it makes sense but not from individual point of view, unless someone is having unlimited options (but how many of these access reddit) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:02 AM
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Chased women are running away Need to stop them before they reach another man I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:59 AM
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And the common denominator in all your past relationships was you As well as your current partner in hers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:36 AM
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The advice is conflicting both ways, it is simply the global nature of internet and splitting the advice into opinion of men/women is still not enough to be sufficient for "your" specific situation . Like generally the social culture is different, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:52 AM
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Because all the potential grilfriends you will compete about? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:45 AM
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I think if the question pops up early then you have nothing from the date, so better lie. And that it might hint on shallowness. If it occurs later, after you got to know each other more, it starts depending more if you wanna risk it either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:29 AM
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What is confusing is he usage of the cake idiom, I have seen it more in the plus-plus decisions. But it is easy to understand your argument otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:07 AM
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That is a general issue with doing hard decisions so life is easier. For lucky people everything happens, or they gain skills they had no say in not doing them because they were uncomfortable (think child upbringing). Most new hobbies are apparently hard the first time, it is necessary to get the motivation for doing things to reach your goals. It is unfair but I think there are ways to start doing things for women and also like the process (and hopefully shift the perspective). Because for some…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:03 AM
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RP opinion they are doing this to eliminate you from the dating pool /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:57 AM
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Just like women saying they have boyfriend as general rejection
/r/seduction19/07/24 08:16 AM
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Gay as in happy /s
/r/seduction19/07/24 08:15 AM
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With Stacey does it mean like I go out with her mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:53 PM
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I think once in relationship it is easier to work on those issues because you have to only focus on what the other party wants, no need to "tick all boxes". Just like job search, sorry for the comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:49 PM
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I feel like people manage it all the time if they have different hobbies than meeting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:47 PM
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Basically just like the current state of world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:37 PM
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I mean that is blissful ignorance, which is kind of controversial in general (smarter people are sadder etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:34 PM
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Isn't this also a jab on men? Like the rest is not really worth much, wouldn't give then what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:32 PM
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An advantage of dating apps is that they usually resolve this for you beforehand. Which still of course explains why it is used by people for hookups even if they could find some relationship naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:24 PM
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There is the issue I eventually fear the most, having to market myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:46 PM
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